Answering YOUR Dating Struggles - Sex, Abuse, Boundaries, Healthy Relationships

[@goddesschess]

I‘m so curious who‘ll be your lifepartner. 🕊

[@JeanineAmapola]

ME TOO lol

[@JeanineAmapola]

Saw this 4 years later and I found him❤❤❤

[@goddesschess]

@@JeanineAmapola omg and I see it now and I think I found mine too I will update ❤️❤️🧡

[@SimranPersad]

I really hope Jeanine finds her perfect husband! She’s so deserving and leads + sets a beautiful example of a great life! Hey from Dallas girl!! 🤙🏼

[@TheSocialite1]

SimranLikhari agreedddd

[@cherieglam]

Jeanine it would be amazing if you made a podcast. You’re like a big sister

[@rachelerickson347]

I feel the same way!

[@fergiefernanda18]

she’s definitely the bigger sister I never had ❤️

[@esperanzacrisosto6530]

Pleaseeeee

[@giannaatkinson1098]

When you were talking about guarding your heart it reminded me of a quote from a pastor, Matt Mahar. He said something along these lines " A man who is after Gods heart will treat your heart tenderly"

[@sh0rty113]

The hard part about dating is when people are stubborn and won’t accept theirs actions! Then play victim 😒😒😒

[@toniamoronczyk1132]

CYNDY1313 That’s a red flag, stay safe! ❤️

[@thesocialintrovertchronicles]

@CYNDY1313, I swear that's the worst. When they play victims well aware that they are definitely the culprit 😏

[@GH-ru2je]

Your advice is so good girl! I found out 14 days into our quarantine that my husband has been having "online affairs". I was so incredibly disappointed and hurt by this and I forced him to talk to me. Turns out we never really had a good foundation. We thought we did and we both wanted it but we never did. My husband is not emotional with me and that pushed me away and therefore I wasnt emotional with him. We haven't been there for each other as we should have been. Right now I'm struggling with this whole situation but praying and reading Gods Word has made a difference. I strongly strongly encourage people take a step back and see everything for what it is, and involve God in everything! I dont know what the future holds for me, but I do know I'm lifting my life/future up in prayer and God is fighting my battles. 🧡

[@aliyamartin357]

You should watch the movie fireproof great movie

[@GH-ru2je]

@@aliyamartin357 thanks for the recommendation, I will! What's similar is that my husband also works for the fire department..

[@aliyamartin357]

@@GH-ru2je that is so cool God works in mysterious ways

[@simpleascanbe6790]

G P Fireproof is AMAZING! I’d love to know your thoughts of it afterwards! Praying for you!

[@aliyamartin357]

@@simpleascanbe6790 aww thank you I will be praying for u as well. Have an amaZing day

[@theprettyfulpumpkin]

Jeanine what’s your opinion on the saying, “If you’re in love with 2 guys choose the second one, because if you really loved the first you wouldn’t have fallen for the second.”

[@rachelelizabeth2372]

Just a clarification, the Church is the Bride and Jesus is the Bridegroom. "Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her to make her holy, cleansing her by the washing with water through the word,and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless." -Ephesians 5:25-27 Thank you for sharing a Christian perspective Jeanine:)

[@southernbella8503]

Was thinking the same thing!

[@rachelerickson347]

We have the same name! Haha!

[@JeanineAmapola]

thanks for this clarification!!! I messed up tehehe

[@rachelelizabeth2372]

@@JeanineAmapola Haha no problem:) Thank you for your advice!

[@kaitlingreco1826]

Please do more dating videos! This was so helpful. Most people don't address the complexities of dating as well as the godly aspect

[@JeanineAmapola]

[@Happierthanyu]

I’ve been following you for like 6 years and you are such an inspiration! 💗 love you girl!!

[@JeanineAmapola]

[@jasminewert10]

This opened my eyes so much. I deserve to be heard, loved, and cared for like Christ loves me. Ladies don’t settle for someone just because it seems good in the moment!!! God has the right person for you don’t rush it!!💓

[@eemason]

I love your heart so much Jeanine!! I remember looking for an influencer that I could really relate to & that had the same morals and beliefs as me & when I found you it just made me so happy💓 you’re such an inspiration to me & so many other girls. Thank you for being the person you are & having such a Godly platform :)))

[@micahwebb3734]

I'm so happy you have been posting almost everyday of this quarantine. I have enjoyed it so much thank you!

[@faramoluwadavis]

Thank you for saying what everyone doesn’t want to say ❤️ very confident of you. This motivates me to speak more truth on my channel 🤗

[@thebeautyfashionbabe]

so much respect for you, girl! loved this 💗

[@JeanineAmapola]

thanks girl

[@BTSarmy-li9qc]

@@JeanineAmapola omg she reallyyy comment for you girl your so lucky idc Jeanine you teach us to be proud of our self so congrats if your awesome fan ❤️😘

[@brianacaban5336]

I’m so excited for your future husband... and for mine too. God bless you ❤️

[@JeanineAmapola]

me too girl!!

[@brianacaban5336]

I have seen you grow in Christ through the years and it’s so beautiful and encouraging. Thanks for being that “older sister” role model for me. Cheers to what God has in store for us in our future.

[@Moon_lulu]

I love these kind of videos 💗 Thank you!!!

[@ba5916]

I really love the fact that your answers are from a Christian perspective.

[@Lifemoreabundantly]

Wooohoo!! I love chit chat videos... your videos in general!! Your such motivation for my small KZbin channel I started! Sharing the Word is honestly so important! And during this quarantine time just drawing closer to God! Great video! Keep going 🙂

[@JeanineAmapola]

[@RenaRoll]

It's so refreshing to see a girl on KZbin being open about her faith!

[@kyleighwayman3911]

I love how open you are with your faith in a world we’re it is not the norm. I loved this!

[@thatchristiangirl1779]

It is very much the norm. Tons of people talk about their faith

[@juliakilbrai3892]

I absolutely LOVE this video so much and your advice. We need more people like you online

[@hdez930]

Girl KEEP GOING !🙌 No matter what ! Keep your convictions and beliefs...they're needed in this crazy world!!

[@JeanineAmapola]

thank you!! I wont stop!

[@carolinahernandez3524]

I’m currently separate for my husband but we are still talking but honestly I think we started wrong and I don’t think things will resolve between us. I’m currently living at my moms and honestly I’m kind of tired of waiting for him..

[@Lina_5_]

What do you mean? Sorry if it is very personal.

[@vicachekhovskiy]

@ Carolina Arias Keep him in your prayers! Ask God to lovingly open his heart to his peace and kindness and fill him with the Holy Spirit so that his actions will carry out real love! Keeping you in my prayers 💕

[@carolinahernandez3524]

Vica Chekhovskiy wow thank you so much. Sorry my thoughts were scattered so I didn’t go on full blown details but yes thank you I need a lot of prayer. I was one full blown Christian and he was too.

[@rebecadfit_4530]

@@carolinahernandez3524 Keep fighting for it. God is with you in this. I never write comments but had the need to tell you this

[@carolinahernandez3524]

Rebeca Davila wow thank you!!! We are currently working on things! Thank you so much and keep praying for us.

[@biancalouisecruz9985]

Omg hi, I'm a younger audience scrolling through youtube and I'm so glad to find a Christian here. I'm so glad that you can speak freely for what you believe in and have such a positive following. One day, I will spread the Gospel. For now, I'm tryna learn.

[@kevinbelledo_]

I badly need this rn as the guy, I’ve been talking to for 2 months, decided to stop pursuing me but I’m okay now atleast I did not give him my yes to be his boyfriend. Indeed, this video is a blessing from above! Thanks Jeanine xoxo

[@thatchristiangirl1779]

It's good to see a fellow LGBTQ+ person here! I was started to get sad I thought I was the only one. 🥰

[@mariad.1611]

Thank you Jeanine for the Q&A video filled with advice. This is one of my most liked type of vid from you because I love your input on the whole thing. Stay safe 💗

[@Hannah-wg3fv]

Every time I leave your videos, I leave inspired. I’ve been subscribed for years and I still love your videos

[@JeanineAmapola]

this makes me sooo happy!! thank you!!

[@LauraGarcia-vm8cn]

Girl! Thank you for sharing these tips and being so God honoring throughout it! This generation needs people out there that are willing to speak God’s truth and standards to women. I am coming out of an over a year long distance relationship these past two weeks. I felt that something wasn’t right and wasn’t feeling that peace you talked about. I thought I would be devastated after the break up for having lived really great moments together but God just came through overwhelming me with his peace and I feel like it was the right decision. Learning to trust Him throughout this process and lean on his word! Thank you truly

[@jolenapacheco9092]

I needed that attention/intention part more than I thought. Thank you🙏🏼

[@eringregory9737]

Love this video and also the questions that were answered.Every girl needs to know the answers to these questions before dating or getting to know a guy.Personally, asking a guy what his intentions are are vital because it is not worth wasting precious time on guys who are not serious.Knowing what you want in a guy is so important as well.Awesome video👍👍❤❤

[@crystalnunez6553]

Thank you Jeanine for videos like these. They’re are so beautiful and you use just the perfect words of advice

[@Estiexo]

Wish I had this advice several months ago.. would've saved me so much time and unnecessary pain aha. Thanks so much for making this video ❤

[@naznaz1630]

Are you always this positive towards life 😫🌸 such an inspiration

[@LILYLEFFINGWELL]

This was so helpful, can you do a new video on abusive relationships/toxic ones?

[@marika213]

I loved this! I was def nodding my head til the end of this video. I couldn’t agree more to everything you have said

[@gabrielladematos]

13:23 OMW! I have been going through this same situation! And I was wondering that exact same thing. And Jeanine, your answer was 100% spot on 💯 I questioned him about it after 3 months and he replied saying we can just be friends and still chat and ignored me ever since... 🤷🏻‍♀️😂 and I’m okay with that because I know that God has someone else better for me.

[@taylordublin9194]

oh my goodness God has given you so much wisdom

[@monanana-04]

I love your courage in proclaiming the faith. I struggle with this and I hope someday to be fearless in regards to my faith

[@damnboiix]

Needed to hear all this! Yes your the big sister I never got ❤️ Praise the Lord I found your channel. You my favorite!

[@artistgirl113]

Jeanine this is gold. You are such a light and are helping so many people!! Love everything about you & your love for the Lord. Keep making His name known 💫💞

[@naznaz1630]

What if you fall in love with someone who’s not christian? What would you do?

[@rebekahkammerling]

naz naz this happened to me and ultimately I had to choose God over the guy. Even though it absolutely crushed me and broke both our hearts. Choose God as your first choice. It’ll be worth it I promise

[@JeanineAmapola]

I agree with Rebekah! ♥️

[@daisyflores8647]

@@rebekahkammerling YES, i agree! I had to do the same and it has been one of the best decisions ive made.

[@imanispencer2425]

Phenomenal video, Jeanine! Your growth is so evident! Thank you for the encouragement and Christ-centered advice! 💖💖

[@dmontelongo92]

Where did you get your necklaces??? I’m in love! 😍😍😍

[@sana7777aloul]

wow this is such a different POV on dating, it's refreshing!

[@JeanineAmapola]

glad to help!!!

[@claragorges2691]

I love these video!!! I find these videos really helpful especially when your confused about what you believe in or who your influenced by. In saying that i really hope you find your true man, because you deserve all the happiness Jeanine xx

[@Emma-tj7om]

This was SUCH a great video! Thank you so much for sharing all your wisdom

[@christa3804]

Hey! I love your videos 😍 can I ask what camera + lens you use? I want to buy a new one!! xx

[@chiaradigirolamo]

omg your hair 💕girl you look so happy and positive in this video, love this vibe! I really needed it

[@kimberleyaquino4381]

Thank you so much Jeanine! I really appreciate this video I found it extremely helpful. Everytime I watch your videos I’m reminded more and more that I need to stay within the guidelines that God provided for me. I’m also a Christian by the way. Love you girl!

[@abbybirdsell2372]

This content is seriously getting me through right now 🙌🏽

[@keiryosorio7913]

Love early videos! Let me grab my popcorn & enjoy this chit chat video with Jeanine♥️

[@alexacalcano5887]

Wow I really enjoyed this video and many of my questions from the past and other stuff got answered by you! It’s incredible how cool is that you open up this chatting and the opportunity for us to express ourselves with you, thanks Jeanine you’re the best❤️

[@JeanineAmapola]

[@rebeccascramer]

I love this video it is so helpful, and I also love all your thumbnails, for both channels!!

[@amandaaranda1111]

Thank you so much for posting this video you definitely helped me so much!! :) love your KZbin Channel :)

[@DT09bball1]

Awesome video! Loved it! Personally I have never had a bf because I didn't really see someone (who has approached me) to have a future with. Do you think we should wait and self love or go out and look for that person? Thank you 😊

[@alexas1370]

Where is your outfit from? I've been looking for cute and comfy loungewear!

[@JeanineAmapola]

it's linked!

[@juanitagonzalez8766]

I really needed this, especially today 🙏🏼 thank you so much. You’re beautiful inside and out. 💕

[@CultrCnnundrm]

the 23 dislikes are people that don't want vibrant marriages... so... i decided to play the "creeper" and check out one of your first videos and O---M---G!!! Girl, your evolution of content, quality, and personality is amazing!!!! Spunky high school girl doing make up tutorials on KZbin... the crazy part is, you stayed pretty much the same in terms of personality... the only thing that change is the production value of your content! It just got better!!! You matured in musical choice, editing skill, but the messaging, personality, and thematic elements stay almost the same... all that to say that this is a testament of character!!! Keep Up the Good work girl!!!!

[@JeanineAmapola]

[@Nicole-ob2kz]

Jeanine, my relationship of almost 4 years ended this week. Your video helped me realize it truly was for the best. ❤️

[@kdelgado12]

Nicole I’m there with you girl! 4 1/2 year relationship. We’ll get through this ❤️

[@RuthRomero454]

Love this! Could you do a video on how to be intentional in singleness?

[@JeanineAmapola]

yes!!

[@juddichannell8852]

i love your videos. do you have any tips on starting a vlog channel? i’m 16 and never had time but always wanted to start a channel and now i have all the time in the world.

[@HRH-vc6jj]

Hi Jeanine! Stay safe everyone! Were all in this together💪🙏💕

[@Mira-np5tn]

You are so wise girl! I'm proud of you ❤️

[@MusicLover2Eternity]

Jeanine! Gurl! Thank you for telling us about The True Feminine! I'm just reading the Instagram posts and they real on point gurl! This is the content and dating advice that saves lives🙌🏾😂😊💋🌹

[@Hollymnoles]

I love this video so much! I love listening to your advice. It's so beautiful and made me cry. Thank you so much for being so in love with Jesus and talking about it ALL the time!! :) It's the best!

[@tristansnyder2553]

Love everything about this!! Thank you for your great advice ❤️

[@meridethcorban7594]

Hey Jeanine! One question that I have is, as a Christian, how do I "put myself out there" in the dating community?

[@katiebrown9400]

I love these types of videos! I only have brothers and don’t talk to my mum about dating lol. You’re definitely the sister I’ve never had!

[@JeanineAmapola]

[@serenaprillaman3968]

You’re such a good role model for me right now and I love these talks. ☺️❤️

[@emilymorgan9397]

what is your view point on soul mates?

[@mirakathy]

Girl idk but something in my heart is telling me that God is about to do something amazing in your life, like that man is coming!!! The wait will be worth it!!🙌🏼👏🏼🙏🏽

[@JeanineAmapola]

I pray so hahaha

[@naznaz1630]

I have trust issues and cannot overcome them for years… therefore dating is always a hard start for me. Hopefully someone will crash these issues of mine one day 🤞

[@JeanineAmapola]

someone will

[@elenabomfim665]

Woah, I really needed to hear this video. Thank you!

[@majdamazlami3105]

So happy for this video,u always bring good vibes ❤

[@maggieezzell6775]

I love Jeanine’s style. It’s mature and cute at the same time. I love it 💞

[@SamElle]

OMG now i have a WHOOOLE another set of struggles now that virtual dating has become a thing. I actually filmed a date I went on my channel and it was soo awkward. It would be cool if you could share some tips on how to make virtual dating less awkward?

[@ellareeves9058]

Early I love your vids so much and I have been such a fan of you for a while now. you are keeping me able to survive during quarantine. I love your sort of style of channel and I hope you always keep doing content like this. I hope your doing amazing during this time and I hope you see this. 😊💖

[@calliea4638]

That was so good thank you Jeanine! One thing I realised from my first relationship it quickly became not peacful like you mentioned and so many red flags for sure. He was a great guy but not for me. When ever I am ready for my next relationship Ive learned that it is good for the boundries and to speak those when that time has come.

[@JeanineAmapola]

[@audreycalixte2498]

Hey Jeanine will you do a video with your sisters talking about relationships like you said you would do a long time ago? It would be so great 😊

[@jeanielowe3246]

God bless your heart!! Your a very wise woman. I believe God had you make this video!! The Lord bless you abundantly, and He will!! 🙌🙏

[@kaylard]

This video helped me so much!!!!! Thank you for this video ❤️

[@jennakendrick3732]

I loved this video... and all of your videos!!! You’re amazing💛💛

[@lauren-jenaykelley4628]

Thank you for this incredible video! So well said! 🙌🏽

[@southernbella8503]

YES! PLEASE DO MORE VIDEOS LIKE THIS!

[@Lina_5_]

Kisses from Greece Jeanine! I like you because you are authentic and honest! Typical Aries!

[@toniamoronczyk1132]

Another great book is Boundaries in dating

[@matildesanchezdetoca8309]

I looooove your advice!!!! And by the way you look beautiful! ❤️❤️❤️

[@itsthelifeofemily149]

Hi! I just subscribed! You have pretty fun videos. I am a really good christian.

[@KENHAN]

thank you for being so real! you always have the best advice and i liiiiive for these videos! -han

[@biancalouisecruz9985]

Also, in dating and love, make sure to include it in your prayers and don't rush finding a partner. God has plans for you and that right man will come at the right time.

[@sophiaestelle613]

Really special and great Jeanine! Well done good and faithful servant :)

[@16marr68]

How to establish trust?

[@damarissalas5838]

Love these types of videos!

[@rachaeld.4753]

Jeanine, thank you! I just pulled up a Microsoft Word Document on my laptop because I'm about to be taking some serious notes!

[@JeanineAmapola]

HAHA I love this!!

[@emmysmith4783]

THIS CONTENT🤩

[@nayelisaldana1263]

Thanks!!! Needed this

[@valelopezrmz9941]

Hi Jeanine I love u so much😍🤩! Hey I have a huge question and concern How do you tell your mom or parents about not being virgun anymore!?! 🙈🥺

[@JesusLovesYouPerfectly]

i am definitely a Christian guy who loves my church family Dearly. i am very active in my church, i help out in many areas every sunday. i really do love all my brothers and sisters in Christ very much.

[@hannahfager7048]

soooooo helpful! loved this