Dating and Relationship Differences USA vs. GERMANY

Why do people like to talk about dating and relationships so much? Are there differences between Germany and the USA? Today I will get to the bottom of this from my point of view and report about my experiences.
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Americans and Germans are as different as the countries they live in - or maybe not? An American metalhead living in Germany shares his experiences. This is his channel: Krautsalat!

[@thestonegateroadrunner7305]

The main difference is: in Germany there are no generally known dating rules that can be expected to be known by others. It is individual and spontaneous. When two people meet it's like they invent dating again for the first time. Everything is possible. That's the fun.

[@KrautsalatAnAmericaninGermany]

Ah, thats interesting and it makes sense now that i think of it

[@Alle-emer22]

Thats so true. I lived in the US 30 years ago and I was so confused about the rools. We just didn't have that, everybody is free to finde there owen ways and all the gender steriotyps are not as horrible as in the US.

[@bobabier5394]

@@Alle-emer22 30 years ago? ok, that explains your spelling. not used to it, heh?^^ Im just kidding! Pls don't be offended. (another US thing... you apologize before you have done anything or before the other person reacts...)

[@demidevil666]

Replace "fun" with "agony" and I'm completely on board. 🙂🔫

[@FelifromGermany]

Thanks for the shoutout and greetings from Cincinnati 😊

[@KrautsalatAnAmericaninGermany]

Your dialogue has been very well done and your dating video was perfect...i partially didn't want to do one after watching yours ! LOL! And you have my favorite channel within this "genre", nice work!! Cheers!

[@FelifromGermany]

Krautsalat - An American in Germany Wow thank you :) I haven't watched that video since I've made it so I'm glad I didn't tell complete nonsense back then.

[@KrautsalatAnAmericaninGermany]

I have not watched most of your videos but what i have seen you speak very well with that common German directness. And I think you have developed a good balanced outlook and attitude between Germans and Americans (regionally, considered). And congrats, its cool to see how your channel really exploded recently! I think i first saw one of your videos maybe early February as i was preparing to start filming my own and i think you were in the low 20k subscribers and you went from 30k to 40k so fast!!! LOL...my only big critique of your videos was your background music but that is me being critical :p

[@BowWowVideo]

Your B roll is so freaking perfect and deserving an Academy Award for best way to help interest.

[@SamCaracha]

One thing I always asked myself... what does "dating" even mean? Some say it is meeting oneanother at, lets say at a restaurant, flirting, maybe, checking if the other one might be nice, some say it is a seriouse relationship with cuddeling and so on and... you know... kissing, screwing around, relationship, family. Some say a "date" is just meeting someone on a friendly basis. When I hear " I am dating someone" or " I have a date tonight". What can I expect? Casual? Friendship? Looking into it? Already ongoing relationship? Friends with benfit? Just friedship fun? Brotherhood? With your parents or with the milkman?! "Date" or "dating" is a term hard to differenciate in English. What states are there, what would the be called etc?

[@sandraschmidt5501]

So are so right. I always wonder and i really got the idea they do a contract before the date wuch explains what kind of date dos and donts.... when i friend from America calls me and tells me " i have a date tonight " I always ask which one? Funny thing Americans don't go on Blind dates cause they are in their eyes to dangerous .... but tinder dates or any other site is fine ....

[@necrionos]

i think its not about being open to date different girls/guys. i think its more like that a "date" does not equal a relationship, its a path that may end in an relationship and how this path goes depends a lot on your own perception and behaviour. usually there wont be a point at which you or she asks if you are together now. if you date a girl for a while and she resonates to you, there shouldnt be a reason for both of you to date anyone else. that is the moment when the relationship starts and after that the "openes" stops.

[@anne-katrin.diedszun]

Necrionos, that's exactly how I would describe it - as a german "girl"!

[@swanpride]

I guess Germans usually work under the assumption that if you start to date regularly, you are also "exclusive" unless negotiated otherwise. That doesn't mean that this ends up in a marriage, just that you can trust your partner to not sleep around (again, unless something else has been agreed). Hence we never have to clarify that it is exclusive, we have to clarify when it isn't.

[@KrautsalatAnAmericaninGermany]

That is a great way to phrase it

[@mclovin7375]

Just say that you are ok to live an open relationship already...Germany knows what that means.

[@karinland8533]

To grab a coffee or a beer, haveing a fun time might not even be seen as a date in an American way. It is quite common to do that with all sorts of friends

[@KrautsalatAnAmericaninGermany]

Good point, i agree

[@ChrisTian-rm7zm]

at least not when you've been friendzoned

[@sandraschmidt5501]

@@ChrisTian-rm7zm ouch what a bad word. .. friendzoned is the death of everything i guess

[@superfetzi1]

Totally fine what kind of relationship someone likes to have but I think it's important to always be open about your intentions. 🤷‍♀️

[@dasaggropop1244]

6:27 oh please let this be real...best proposal reaction ever

[@Franziska_Nerlich]

Max Aggropop it’s almost like she saved him!

[@kraftandre5538]

You´re a so open minded and chillin guy.You see it in a right way.Just give your partner enough space to unfold him~or herself.You dont have to live together, to love someone.

[@avari1474]

I really hate when people play the hard-to-get-game, those people make me like them less. On another note, you shouldn't ever feel stupid for not being fluent in German. You can always learn the language if you wish to do so.

[@besserwissersmartass1170]

It does suck when a someone shows interest, they go out multiple times and the other person doesn't act on it, like the interested person wishes he or she would.

[@fkknsikk]

Yeah the hard to get games would probably make me feel like I was harassing them so I just wouldn't ever meet anyone. No means no, not ask 15 more times until they stop lying about being interested.

[@fraueichenbaum8202]

"The german girls realy .... kschkskhckshCkschkc" ... Nice idea ! ;-)

[@josefschuster7657]

That end almost killed me, I love it 😂😂👍

[@swanpride]

The unspoken rule in Germany is that if you start to date you are exclusive unless stated otherwise. Thus said, it is completely okay to state this, you just have to be honest about it, so that both participants are on the same page. At the same time, though, even if you are exclusive, it doesn't necessarily need to be for live. Divorce rates in Germany have been fallen in the last years, but mostly because people don't marry that fast and easy anymore, and especially not their first partner. They test out what kind of person they really feel they can spend their life with and then then might marry. Or not. Some even have children with each other but never bother to marry. I think American women are under more social pressure. Pressure to have their dream wedding with "Mr. Right", pressure to not sleep around too much if they don't want to get labelled as a slut, pressure to get children at a certain age aso. Those old fashioned attitudes are still present in Germany too, but less prevalent. The first time I went on holiday on my own as a teen, my parents gave me a package of condoms, just in case. This attitude is unthinkable for a lot of American parents. For me it was completely normal to have boyfriends visiting you while you were still living at home without someone doing a control. And asking the father of the bride if you are allowed to marry? Urgh! I guess some people still do this, but it is way more common that the parents are simply told "hey, we plan to marry, that is the wedding date we picked out, will you help with the preparation?" The German women who didn't immediately jump on your beer offer were most likely of the careful sort. Meaning: They aren't looking for something casual, they are looking for something more serious. So if they sensed that you were more interested in the sex than in them they naturally backed off. Everyone is different after all.

[@xman7695]

Thanks, couldn't have said it better!

[@peterkoller3761]

plus, when life expectancy was maybe 40, you´d be married for, say, 20 years - now that life expectancy is 80+, that makes it a whopping 60 years if you get married at age 20! a lot of time to learn to hate each other, go on each others nerves, get a divorce - so people marry later in life, and the time they are married stays about the same...

[@KrautsalatAnAmericaninGermany]

yeah, great explanation!!

[@xman7695]

@@peterkoller3761 +even my grandparents married when they were almost 30 and they were born around 1930

[@xman7695]

@@peterkoller3761 life expectancy was only that low due to the death rates from children. Not like 80 but 50-60 was not uncommon.

[@mhoffmann1990]

Nice cliffhanger there, you know how to trigger people... :D love that

[@heyhod]

Hey „Krautsalat“ , Im watched all of your videos in like 1 day because u seem to be such a kind and cool guy. Please keep doing your videos because it’s so interesting to listen to your thoughts about Germany and the USA. Maybe I just didn’t listen right but I would like to know, how good your German is right now and maybe you can make a video in which u try to talk as much in German as u can. Anyway keep up the good content ! :) Ps: I live like 50km away from your city Hannover :D

[@KrautsalatAnAmericaninGermany]

Thank you!!! I promise, i will make many more videos!! Well, i understand much more than i can speak but let's see. If i do it will be something easily and maybe silly

[@thomasstehmann4277]

Wo nimmt der Typ nur die geilen "Einspieler" her???😂😂😂

[@moritzkumlehn4]

4.chan da gibt es alles

[@TheGoukaruma]

Es sind memes du findest sie überall im Netz.

[@AlterSchwedeWieGeil]

Aber Leute. Sein Meme-Game ist einfach 3 Level über Schnitt Und in seiner Altersklasse ist es aus dieser Welt!

[@sichtbarfurallenutzer779]

AlterSchwede WieGeil mmmmkay

[@demidevil666]

Willkommen im Internet.^^

[@JuanitaJustinas]

Nice one! Always good to see your videos 🤟🏻

[@dl5136]

German women tend to make a "shit test" if they look for something serious. They look how serious you are about them and what your real intentions are. This means they wont make it easy for you and you have to make serious efforts. Ask them if she would like to have some non-alcoholic drinks like a coffee or tea in a cafe. Taking a walk is also popular. BUT if they are more "open minded" you will get to know it pretty fast as they dont beat about the bushes. When searching for a serious relationship, dancing on many parties is a no go for most Germans. Dating several people at a time is considered rude.

[@sandraschmidt5501]

Wow thank you so much. .. that explains everything

[@thomasr8382]

This is the first time when I enjoy Krautsalat more than coleslaw... Cool channel Eric! - I really enjoy this american -german culture stuff! - For me a little more Metal content would be great!

[@jamiehershon]

I disagree on in the US dating is more serious. I'm 35 and I think with dating websites (and now apps), it made dating not serious at all. To me it kind of takes the romance out of it when I know a guy is seeing several girls at once. For me it makes it feel like a competition where I have to prove that I'm the "better" one. The ease of getting dates online just for a drink or coffee and then sex right away with no strings attached, seems to be he norm in the US now. FWB situations today are more common than people think. When I date someone, I focus on them and I do not do the numbers game of dating a few people at once. That said, I'm a serial monogamous and still single so what do I know. Dating norms are very different now vs say the late 90s.

[@KrautsalatAnAmericaninGermany]

Thanks for your 2 cents...its been something like 14 years since i dated in the US

[@lb9numerodos158]

I love this channel. Instant sub!

[@TandanielderGeschichtenweber]

Sererate bedrooms? Seperated houses i get... but bedrooms?

[@sandraschmidt5501]

Seperate bedrooms are great. You can hide the cookies and eat all night without the partner get it or more worse want some too....

[@GAnimeRO]

the german girls really what? THE GERMAN GIRLS REALLY WHAAAAAT??!?!?!

[@Orschd]

Love (!) Threesome Games ;) Trve!

[@daisycutter4645]

Yes you are an open minded person, with a good heart, plus Brains! Well done!

[@pesjaner1]

I like your explanation after the intererence ends.

[@Laufbursche4u]

I love your humor.

[@countercpu5447]

I am for so long time alone because my chieftain was the Leopard 2A7

[@thorstenziglasch22]

I'm curious: so in the US you start a family, have children and then you get married, in that sequence? I wonder what the mid western father of the girl is thinking about that chain of events.

[@KeepingOnTheWatch]

Dating wouldn't be any different in Germany - I'd still remain single.

[@derbetweentalkerbetween1781]

Lol u r welcome 🤣

[@TheGoukaruma]

Isn't the worst in the world.

[@ChrisTian-rm7zm]

Being single sucks

[@anne-katrin.diedszun]

I am single and German 🙈😁

[@KeepingOnTheWatch]

Anne-Katrin Diedszun Very smart! When the right person comes along you’ll then really take pleasure in that relationship.

[@anne-katrin.diedszun]

Eric, I have so many questions for you but first of all: I never figured out that there is a difference between serious and exclusive relationship. And there is a variety of words for what is between a man and a woman, relationship is a real strong one. Tho, if you are talking about this, the term could be misunderstood. How long do you live in Germany? Did you date other girls first or just your current girlfriend? And where are you from in the US (before you lived in Florida)?

[@ladyravenandcrow7143]

Hi, I try to help out and answer one question. Out of the perspective of a German married to an American. A serious relationship is almost always the whole" I am in love with you, I can imagine to one day be married to him/her, I am introduced to the parents of my gf/bf, I want to have a family with him/her (if kids are wanted) ." No other dates on the side, no hiding from friends and family. Exclusive relationship is more in terms of physical exclusivity, doesn't mean I love him/her, doesn't mean I want you to meet my parents, doesn't meant I am not looking for someone else or someone better while dating and while making out exclusively just with the person I hang out with on a regular basis aka a non-serious gf /bf or friend with benefit. So you can be exclusive without being serious but hardly ever serious without being exclusive (unless an open relationship). Exclusive doesn't mean it has the same emotional depth as a serious one. Source: Prior life experience.

[@anne-katrin.diedszun]

@@ladyravenandcrow7143 I love the source 😁🥰

[@petrapan2516]

appreciate your point of view, but have been dating in both germany and the usa and my point of view is that american girls are more expecting that if you go on a date the guy pays for whatever, but here in Germany I was used to live my independence and my american date kinda got insulted when I said split the bill at a Denny's

[@ared-ainu]

I actually just like to meet people a few times before meeting on purpose. But I'm not exactly a poster child for a healthy dating life..

[@theindians190]

9:00 i feel u man, felt the same difference in any country apart from Germany. Quite annoying and makes stuff harder than it has to be..

[@staycurious0815]

What you wanted to say about us, before the technical difficulties occured: agree, we REALLY do ....*connection failed*

[@MrLotrecht]

From beginning in this thing-i always have kept my own bed and or own room! Without that ,no live is possible but in general german girls are ... like a Tornado in the beginning they are very hot and wet- when they gone your car,your house and the rest is also gone

[@arneschlunz2789]

With festival-season almost entirely cancelled, (Wacken, Hellfest, Summerbreeze, Graspop, Full Force) how are you going to fill that void? I really hoped at least some later festivals like Wacken could dodge the bullet, but ofc I understand the reasoning behind this decision.

[@josefineseyfarth6236]

Das Lollapalooza in Berlin (im September) soll Stand jetzt wohl noch stattfinden... Aber da wäre Rage against the machine auch die einzige Band, die ich mir anhören würde... Alles andere ist nur Mainstream und Hip Hop/ EDM Mist

[@Gard7ner]

It´s all a matter of trust! Of what you think you want and what you can get in this relationship.... If it´s real and you feel it then you don´t want to spoil it and stick to the person!

[@nessihundertschon8761]

This is really a good one. 😁

[@kaj0t]

How long have you been living in germany? Can you make a Video speaking german? :D

[@KrautsalatAnAmericaninGermany]

vielleicht ;)

[@kaj0t]

@@KrautsalatAnAmericaninGermany dann lass ich mich überraschen :D

[@bluecat2741]

We Germans often use sentences like "let's have a beer/ coffee together" and mean in reality: Let's have some fun together... 👩‍❤️‍💋‍👨😂 I think that's why some girls didn't want to say yes to your idea of having a beer.

[@KeepingOnTheWatch]

Really? That's scary! So, then what would you say if you actually want a beer or coffee only?

[@swanpride]

"Hey, how about we meet up at place X and do X" (preferable a public place where the woman can feel save). This signals that you want to talk to her and want to get to know her better. "Let's have a drink" signals "I want a one-night stand with you". Which is okay if that's what the women is looking for, but if it isn't, you basically signalled to her that you are just interested in sex and not in her.

[@anne-katrin.diedszun]

@@KeepingOnTheWatch Perhaps Blue Cat and myself come from different German areas. Where I live we do not say very often "let's have coffee or beer" and mean "fun" instead...

[@KeepingOnTheWatch]

Anne-Katrin Diedszun So different areas = different expressions. I’m one of the few who has no interest in cheap “fun”. If I ever visit Germany it’ll be strictly to explore the culture, language and people.

[@anne-katrin.diedszun]

@@KeepingOnTheWatch And this is exactly what I do when travelling. Furthermore, I ask a waiter to bring coffee or beer ☺️.

[@underwaterlaser1687]

I like your content and please please drop the video clips.

[@tHiNk413]

Hate the "hard to get" game. If I show affection, it's genuine. Shitting and playing around if you really like the person puts me off a woman instantly...

[@ladyravenandcrow7143]

I assume you were shot down out of sheer disinterest. Maybe it was a fun moment at the time being just to talk and flirt but without further intentions. Because even in Germany a guy can ask a women " Wollen wir mal zusammen was trinken gehen?" Or " Hast du Lust, dich mal auf einen Kaffe zu treffen?". As long as it wasn't mentioned " zu dir, oder zu mir?" it can still be regarded as a nice and fun way of getting to know someone. I had countless fun and weird conversations at bars pre-marriage life and still declined to take it any further quite a lot. There is even another aspect, if a women is already dating someone else aka is taken and still has a girl's night out.. attention is wanted at times but no invitations for dates. Who knows? I don't think you did anything wrong.

[@claudiaberger9639]

German women 2020 want an understanding partner who has a very well paid job but is a lawless "rocker" when it comes to sex. There is no such man in the rest of the world. And if there is even a "man type" ..... he is looking for his wife in vain. Because there is NOT this woman anywhere in the world!

[@CalvinL.Stevens]

You look a lot younger to me than 40. Or it might be me getting old, I don't know

[@KrautsalatAnAmericaninGermany]

i pass for early 30s. i have gotten to the point that any indication of age in a conversation i quickly say that i am older than i look. a bit lucky i guess

[@fokusdeutsch3672]

@@KrautsalatAnAmericaninGermany Yeah you definitely look 30ish. I just realized you're only a couple of years younger than my father! But at the same time I can totally picture you hanging out with my elder cousins.

[@mpty2000]

the pvris t shirt *~*

[@KrautsalatAnAmericaninGermany]

If i had a prize to give you, I would!! I mention them in my video about non-metal music that i like. But I really did not expect anyone to recognize the shirt!

[@daniellehurrell6620]

Haha, bastard! That was almost like a Rick Roll at the end! 😂

[@KrautsalatAnAmericaninGermany]

LOL!!!

[@jenstheancient7969]

You say that you find german Girls they are cool withthe fact you dating around, nooo waaaay! :-) They want to be treated like a princess, most of the time. They want to be the only one that rule your thoughts/head.

[@karinland8533]

I don't think so either. Just because they do not want to live together or get marry soon, does not mean they are open to date different people at a time. I'm sure they expect to be exclusive, because that's how the norm is here. But key is to talk about it.

[@GiaGwendoline]

Guess that depends on the girl you're dating, regardless where she's from. You shouldn'b be making such assumptions only based on where a person comes from...

[@sandraschmidt5501]

Oohhhh yyeesss you are so right. Someone need the control and tadaaa this is a female job... JK ... nicht gleich weinen Wo der Teufel nicht weiterkommt schickt er ne Frau hin ...

[@ivik7081]

Oh yeah!! You are so right!! German girls realy..... Krrrzzzkkkssschhhhkkkrrr sorry my text broke down

[@sandraschmidt5501]

Öy ... his technic problem came from his girlfriend i guess hahaha she came in with a pan and a rolling pin that he stop the video stuff and do the dishes..

[@RightsForUrFights]

Me 45 years young but it rocks 🤘😎

[@mindmachinepsy]

Well speaking from my own experience, i can talk all day but when it comes to meeting, i can get cold feet and bail. Now i have social anxiety and other issues so i'm not really the best example, but i feel like getting cold feet is quite a thing here, because that shit happens to me too all the time. It actually is pretty depressing because you obviously think you're ugly or you made mistakes or some bullshit like that. Idk i feel like dating in the US or pretty much any other countrie is just much more... let's call it forgiving. :D

[@KrautsalatAnAmericaninGermany]

i bet you are an "over-thinker". Sometimes its good to remind yourself to relax because sometimes we put the most pressure on ourselves, especially in a situation that should be very relaxed. ;)

[@mindmachinepsy]

@@KrautsalatAnAmericaninGermany yea that pretty much sums it up. xD

[@sandraschmidt5501]

Sweety stop thinking about . Cold feet, being a nervous wrack before the date. .. head hurts body plays cocktailshaker or voice is gone ... thats nothings bad or wrong its normal everybody has it or had it. A first date is in 98% a k.o for the brain.. imagine the one you meet feel the same. One day you get over that point to feel embarrassed thinking about all this what was in your eyes not that perfect. You will laugh about later. Dont let that thinking what others may think about you rule your life. You are worth it to and yiu can decide to if you like someone or not. Einen Korb zu kriegen gehört zum normalen leben dazu. I'm the queen of disaster i got tgem and gave them believe me

[@YukiTheOkami]

Thats the first thing. In germany if you have a date that can mean you have a diffrient one the next day. But if you are dating like multiple times thats alrady exclusive. Would be cheating if you date an other person At least where i live in germany

[@gehtdichnixan3200]

hmm priority ... i remember first kiss while metallicas master of pupptes the slow part .... but well that was over at a time and we had to go back to bang our heads ... not our lips .... 14 years old ahhhh

[@DJKLProductions]

Your lists top all other's (USA vs. Germany) lists, so I guess yours are top lists? Maybe I should move to the USA and open a channel called "Coleslaw"?!?

[@Franziska_Nerlich]

DJKLProductions Hallo! Sagst du mir von wo du kommst? Also ich meine in welchem Land dein Background liegt?

[@DanielFuh]

Dating is also different in Germany, depending on the area where you live. I'm from North Rhine Westphalia and I live in Frankonia. The people in the Cologne arena are very open minded. But it takes a long time to establish a serious relationship. Here in the Nuremberg area, the locals are rather closed. But once you break through the hard shell, friendships for life develop.

[@Pokerface-tr1ds]

This is typical for the southern part of Germany. Here in Baden-Württemberg, the situation is similar. Once you crack the hard shell, things for life can develop indeed.

[@urwrstntmre]

Btw, you look like the type of guy who would like Rammstein

[@kraftandre5538]

Hi Eric! Glad to see you´re well.I like your videos very much,but sorry dating for me is a very boring theme.

[@josefineseyfarth6236]

Alright, let me take a try on how your sentence could have ended...🤔: German girls are really *amazing kissers*. Was that right? 🤣🤣

[@DefinitelyGerman]

Yo Eric! Cheers from a German KZbin colleague who makes vids about the German language & culture! Is there a way to contact you via email or so? I have a few ideas for potential collabs if you're interested! Love your channel (and also that you're into metal etc, I am too!) :) Hau rein! Dave

[@KrautsalatAnAmericaninGermany]

Hi! I just looked at your channel, and i found your fb page. We need to set up our business email but i will send you a message on fb.

[@jurgenhess134]

I really like you but this was rambling. I am at min 7 and nothing interesting....

[@KrautsalatAnAmericaninGermany]

Yeah, i admit that one. I didn't really have much new to say that hadn't already been said, which is why i recommended Felicia's video. However, the ending makes this one of my faves! LOL But thank you for liking everything else!

[@KeepingOnTheWatch]

Nah... it was okay. He kept me company as I was eating by bachelor breakfast - left over spaghetti and chicken stir-fry at 6 o'clock in the morning.

[@harkyhekks952]

What do you think about the illegal wars on Iraq and Afghanistan?

[@KrautsalatAnAmericaninGermany]

i don't know enough to make a comment about my thoughts

[@harkyhekks952]

@@KrautsalatAnAmericaninGermany ok thank you for answering bro

[@Franziska_Nerlich]

So, you’ve been married? Aha aha, so so! 😂 I really appreciate you’re openness.

[@stefflmrk]

🤣😂🤣😂 US American!!! 90% get married and divorced like you'd go to the Wertstoffhof in Germany, like every other week! It's the hypocritical US, you can't forget that! Doesn't mean as much as here! Married Guys still fool around at the Gyms or Spas with other Guys, it's there freedom even when married, that's why they still have those Clubs and Spas separated by gender! 😲😳🙄 See yourself now? ...... maybe you're picking up too much of the US American way of a Marriage. Good, Eric O N L Y talks about dating, except his 1 time Marriage 😉 (ein Ausrutscher!) .... erst mal muss Er einen Kerl daten, wohlgemerkt wir sprechen von dating, nothing more 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂😇😇😇😇

[@peterpotjen9222]

Klingt fast so als wärst Du seine Freundin und hättest eben von der Ex erfahren 😂

[@christianseiffert6866]

@@peterpotjen9222 would be a great plot twist

[@herrMuesli]

finally.......the great secrets of heavy petting revealed! :)

[@MrSpirit99]

GZ. 10k

[@MrTamagotchiii]

mate you talk so slow i have to watch in 1.5 :D

[@sooboese3211]

Lol oh shit that was so freaking funny

[@kellybittner1561]

So ein hübscher Kerl und wirklich interessantes Video

[@DeathNote2610]

Ahhhhhhh! I gotta know! Don't do this to me D: ahhhhahahahahhahahahaaa :D nice one dude :)

[@sabinefleschutz]

Well, what was it then? Germany girls really.... what? cliffhangers are mean! LOL

[@morgainedeeh7921]

*loooooool* Eric.. YES.. us german girls ARE REEEEEEEEAAAAAAALLLLLYYYYYY... *rofl* Emmy Pankhursts in JEANS .. *rofl* I agree.. ;-) .. And I wish you and YOUR Emmy Pankhurst all the best... and I think it is absolutely brill, that you have a "WG"... see, my sweet and I have the same.. so if the MASTER goes on my nerves I can go to my own room.. *lol* I think its great cause everybody needs it´s a private place, even in a relationship.. But, the difference with american men and german man.. haha.. there is a good one.. You Amis are way more romantic, most of you are the flowers at the door guy and YOU are way better with compliments.. and don´t we all know that a female likes compliments.. *rofl* .. that was a hard one for me to learn, cause german guys, mostly do not "smother" ye with whee lil romantc gifts.. MAYBEEEEEE.. thats why a lot of us german females REAAAAAAALY like US-men.. *lol* I got the german-us-men type.. yes he wears the pants sometimes, but he is also very nice.. and thank heavens he lets me wear the pants sometimes too. *rofl* And I just laughed tears about the story with your HARLEY.. pfff.. I just got my HARLEY.. pff don´t need a chick right now..pff. *loooool*

[@urwrstntmre]

You and Felicia should date!

[@adorable3817]

My husband and I also have separate bedrooms. We love it!!! I can't imagine EVER sharing a room again. Undisturbed deep sleep is priceless 😊💚🙏 ...plus I earn enough money so that I don't need to share a bed with someone 😎✌

[@daliborcindric]

A dorable That sounds like a sad way to spend a life...

[@Bassimbau]

You censored yourself on YT? Thats so american :D

[@MsKissbone]

10:55 you jerk xD

[@pedrorodriguez3672]

I recommend visiting the german sauna. Lot of athletic blonde girls nude, sadly not the best place to flirt but not impossible. A relaxing and enjoying experience.

[@allimJ]

Pedro Rodriguez you are disgusting 🤨

[@pedrorodriguez3672]

@@allimJ And you gay

[@allimJ]

Pedro Rodriguez so you’re sexist, homophobic and a creep...😂

[@ladyravenandcrow7143]

Sitting naked at a sauna and being offered a massage from the opposite gender is kinda creepy though lol. Especially when you are women and no one else is in that sauna room besides the amateur masseuse. Happened in real life. Been there, not done it, walked away without the shirt.

[@sandraschmidt5501]

Hahaha they hit you here for this saying... For me who go often to the sauna u guess its just your wish. ... otherwise i don't blame on you. ... in the mixed sauna why not start a flirt and try to catch a date? But usually you start talking in the sauna and then you stay outside dressed of couse wait the ine cimes out to and pray he/she comes out and how ever continue talking to you... For al not Sauna knower. .. in the german sauna we might be nacket but we do have conversations there even with strangers about everything... gardening soccer and you really can make friends there. Oh and yes if we see some flirting we ALL OPEN OUR EARS AND LISTEN to them ( whike doing like we sleep or dreaming.. somethinglike that). oh and for me as a woman i don't mind a nice guy with tatoos sitting there so i can stare at the pictures. I know it's a big schock and a huge different between Americans and Germans. But we dont have only mixed Saunas, we have gender or age theme saunatimes as well... anyway dont hit the guy who about a flirt in the sauna .... its a normal guy dream and most never come true... ummm @Krautsalat can you make a video about the german sauna? I would donate a really cool real Saunahandtuch for you.

[@kopilot9843]

Your videos are very pleasant for me as a German because the media here does its best to only spread bad news.

[@DudeSwagtastic]

a lot of people are *donkey*

[@dontdrinkthekool-aid1140]

For me, "dating" is only that part, where you get to know each other, before you're in a relationship. When you're in a relationship, you're not supposed to see / date another person, because things are getting serious now. (in a "classical" way) if you're looking for an open relationship, that's ok, as long as you ask the other person if she/he wants it in that way as well or accept it that way. In America you call it "dating" until you're married. At least, that's what I in the movies or hearing on other channels.