Dating App Red Flags 🚩 - PRETTY BASIC - EP. 173

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Sound the alarms! Alisha is officially back on the dating apps. SO, of course the PB girls HAD to dedicate an episode to the infamous issues that arise when dealing with ghosting, replying and flirting virtually. The girls give their listeners advice on how to respond to certain messages, how they would respond to prompts, and their red flags and green flags on the apps. This episode is a hoot and a half and the PB girls dole out some quality advice, so tune in!
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[@taysworld7959]

The world ain't ready for when alisha find her true one. That will be the power couple of the century I just know it. I feel like alisha needs a confident man who knows what's up but is also able to read a room and can be fun in a social setting but is also down to hide out for days on end. Remi and cal are everything and I can't wait for alisha to have her lil fling

[@susannahviolet3325]

Oh definitely. I think the universe is just waiting for the perfect guy for her. She deserves the world and needs a guys who matches her energy. Really anybody would be beyond lucky to be with loshy, and I can’t wait for the day that we see her with someone she truly loves.

[@Fringinto]

He is getting ready! Still needs time to be the perfect guy for her... but he is coming!!!

[@chaoticscone8530]

Alisha: You know what, I am lonely Remi: Good! 💀I mean we know what you meant but 😂

[@janecooze1767]

I feel the blue eyed thing soooo much, they’re so cold looking haha brown eyes are so warm and inviting

[@kareenakapoor1320]

2:28 isn’t it weird how alisha never tells remi anything (dating, being sad, etc. ). But alisha tells the people that remi is extremely close with and the people that remi introduced alisha to. Idk I can’t imagine being this close and not sharing that type of stuff with each other but going to people you’re not as close with and sharing extremely personal stuff. And the worst part is that the people she confides in always gossip and remi ends up finding out!

[@dlfe494]

Righht? I thought the same.. whenever anything happens to me the first person i tell is my best friend, and i always wonder if they truly are that close🥺

[@IWishIHadABetterURL]

She kinda mentioned it in the last podcast but I think it’s bc Alisha doesn’t like worrying remi! Jokes on her tho bc our sweet angel rem is always gonna worry a little, in the loop or not 🥲

[@kareenakapoor1320]

@@IWishIHadABetterURL ya maybe I get it the first time but this is the second time and it’s about something remi cates about so much.

[@shakibi952]

@@IWishIHadABetterURL I mean it wasn’t anything worrisome. She didn’t even tell Remi that she joined dating apps again… it’s nothing deep, in fact Remi would rejoice but alisha made the conscious decision to not tell her

[@Perfectliliies]

I understand her it’s like when you have anxiety sometimes we worry so much of the people the closest to us because we feel like maybe they would judge me or this or that not because she doesn’t trust rem but because she feels anxious and not because she doesn’t care but because she cares way too much so it’s easier to talk to other people idk I’m always like this with my closest ppl

[@rachelw4584]

I would LOVE to see this episode with some guy perspectives, or even LGBTQ perspectives on dating and dating apps. My friends and I would ALSO discuss how curious we were about what other girls profiles looked like to men, or what their red/green flags were for our profiles. Would be super interesting to hear about :)

[@nicollecordero5889]

omygosh would love another pretty basic x zane and heath unfiltered about this topic!!

[@RachelKizner]

Remi is amazing at the way she can articulate her thoughts. She could have a podcast on her own and kill it with guests!

[@elled.1890]

I can imagine Alisha dating someone from IT, like a confident software engineer or a lawyer you know. Someone who has a regular job/business OR someone who is from another country? Why not? Like France, Spain etc 😍

[@DaphneGsell]

I am on the same wave as Alisha when it comes to dating. I want so bad to meet someone naturally but I’m forcing myself to use the apps. Trying to have a positive outlook !

[@berthagarcia1993]

Idk why Zane came to mind when Alisha was describing her type 🤣

[@shhhimnothere.2878]

Pleaseeeee I have been manifesting this. Ever since I watched both their podcasts collabs, I hoped something would happen. Like pleaseeeeee Alisha is so freaking perfect.

[@TheLifeofKiara]

Loved this episode. Ugh I am the same way Alisha! Overthink freaking everything but I swear I’m a cool ass chick once I’m comfortable with a person lol

[@Fringinto]

hahaha I love the "I swear I'm a cool ass chick one I'm comfortable" 😂😂😂

[@kellieseki]

P

[@katrinalovesbeauty]

Alisha is me whenever I have to prep for interviews. “Tell me about yourself” “……..”

[@daniellemclean8171]

REMI: Dating me is like: Seeing your waiter finally come out with your food 😍😍

[@CMRS0925]

I always tell my single friends to meet guys from apps asap, as long as you feel safe and tell someone where you’re going and all that - it eliminates some of the annoying small talk and gives you more to talk about irl instead of judging based off texting. An irl vibe is more important than how someone texts imo, and a lot of my friends over think what they’re saying over text.

[@CMRS0925]

I was also against dating apps, but I mean we have all out on a cute outfit and extra perfume, gone to a bar w friends or alone hoping to meet someone - what’s the difference in doing that online

[@chenzayden]

Alisha were literally twins 😂 I was literally born on the same day (2001 tho), obsessed with dachshunds, dealing with similar mental health problems, introvert until I know the people im with, and dating a Remi 😂 even my type is your type

[@lissettediiaz]

I’m so glad I rediscovered your friend group! I used to watch all of you years ago and now I’m back! What was wrong with me? Why did I ever leave!? Love you guys soo much!

[@noodle3851]

You’ll leave again. Thats how it is you can’t be watching someone for a decade and not take a break

[@julysunrush4483]

Can relate! I only kept watching and following alisha but i've recently started to watch the others like remi's content again!!

[@meganjohnson9964]

You two girlys I look up to so much. & TK!!

[@marianmansour473]

Me toooo

[@mariahp.6993]

I’ve said this for so long and this episode just confirmed. Alisha’s physical interest is literally Jeremy.

[@daebella]

didn’t she say in a truth or drink that he’s the hottest KZbin boyfriend along w Alex terranova 😦😦

[@arianatorres5776]

Catching up on old episodes and my mouth DROPED when she said Moreno Valley. Crazy!!! Small world

[@alexandramariettelowe8550]

you two doing the flags, “greeeeeeeen!” “redddddddd.” Idk why I thought it was the cutest moments 😂

[@itsaniya6006]

I love theses kinds of episodes because they’re just so entertaining to watch and so relatable and I just overall love you guys🥰

[@lydiacoffey2003]

When someone reaches out to me on a dating app if they say something quirky that has to do with my profile I really like that, because they are putting in the effort to pay attention to my profile.

[@blondiewithabook]

I also need dating coaching from remi 😂 this is absolutely hilarious I’m dying love you girls

[@laqaunza]

I love games like this! Definitely want more in future episodes!🥰

[@chloe_evans]

alisha is the biggest white fox fan in this episode🥰✨

[@nadiadansani2139]

I knew where she was going with poppyseed 😂😂😂😂

[@nadiadansani2139]

We were supposed to meet at 11.. he didn’t show up till 1, AND I WAITED 🤡

[@nadiadansani2139]

I definitely first joined the apps for male validation 😵‍💫

[@emmanuelvazquez5129]

my gosh alisha is picky asf. good luck to her

[@jenevieaboubakare1780]

I love when turtle guy makes a surprise appearance hahha

[@og.hails27]

Happily in a 3 1/2 year relationship, off of TINDER 😂💖 and I was cracking up this whole episode y’all kill me. Love y’all slay this week beauties 💪🏼

[@stevieheilman7513]

Alisha’s impression of cal: “reeaally?” 😂

[@AlishaMarie]

🚩🚩🚩

[@jeri_chronicles]

Screaming @ what ingredient are you missing? “Serotonin” 😅😅😅😅

[@tangerine33]

6:56 Maybe he was 28 tho 😂 many guys in our age are looking like 40-50 year olds nowadays, it's concerning haha

[@otaku11bts23]

As someone who is plus size, even having a dating app is a horror story. No matches, if you do get any they’re from creepy old men, knowing that majority of guys in your area aren’t your type for many reasons, also knowing that I don’t meet the beauty standard

[@4Tiffylovesya]

Alisha, your hair looks amazing! Loving the brown on you!

[@m_warren]

I met my husband on tinder! We have been together for almost three years! 🥰

[@kaylie.n.oconnor]

When I was reading these hypothetical messages I would have a thought and Alisha would IMMEDIATELY say my exact thought right after 😂 I can just tell her experience with dating apps and my experience are equivalent.

[@iceyiana]

No colored eyes are literally scary to me sometimes. Like especially bright ass blue

[@sammyrivera4807]

Worst experience a guy made a list of pros and cons about me and then sent it to me… then asked why I didn’t want to see him anymore

[@andreaugalde8787]

Alisha I'm right there with u you are literally me. I hate small talk and I can't talk lol. Never know what to say . 🤣🤣

[@fridayswithlouise6698]

First of all love you guys and second of all thank you for the last podcast, listened to the episode again today and I can somewhat relate to it so thank you, I'm glad you're feeling better

[@erinstef29]

I had a conversation recently with one of my friends about funny or bad dating stories, I think it could be a fun episode.

[@theresag.4188]

I can't wait to see what kind of guy alisha is gonna find. I can't picture her with guys cuz she never shows any of her relationships. I hope she finds an amazing guy!!!

[@zoeyb8888]

I feel like you can tell a lot about a person if you asked the question “how long have you been looking for someone?”

[@alanastosic7425]

Not them aggressively waving flags but casually talking 49:30 🤣🤣🤣

[@maxenaaguto3]

Amazing video! God bless you all🙏🏽God is so good🙌🏽Jesus loves us all so much🙏🏽❤Turn to God He will guide you and give you strength🙏🏽Trust in Him🙏🏽

[@baymoo]

THIS IS TMI BUTTTT in terms of dating… My problem is that I’m so introverted to put myself out there and when I meet new people I stress stress stress and when I know I have to take it to the next level is too much for me because I don’t think I like the idea of sex or having sex like girl I masturbate but that’s as far as I want to go and I feel like I can’t have a relationship without it help am i the only one?

[@justlikeneon]

Have you heard of the Asexuality spectrum? I've always felt the same as you and I finally realized I'm Asexual! It's way more common than you think. Hope this helps🤍

[@SelenaMarrie]

Can I just say how I am so much related to these beautiful ladies?! We have a lot in common… From the last episode about Alisha… responding about Mental health… btw, I don’t have bipolar, but I do have high anxiety && mild depression… ILYSM!! 🥰🤗

[@debbie9226]

Fuckin’ Remi kills me!! I laughed so hard when she was laughing at Alisha 😜😜😜😜 this was so enjoyable to watch 🤍🤍🤍🤍

[@natasham7421]

I think most of us are Alisha when it comes to dating lol.

[@karengaray3348]

Finally the first one something love the videos ♥️♥️♥️

[@SelenaMarrie]

I’ve been talking with a guy since February from Tinder… FaceTiming, calling && texting. Just haven’t met up yet!? It’s just nice to talk to someone… I think dating apps are weird, fun && alot of work… but it could be rewarding at the end when you meet the love of your life… Plus, you get free food if your date doesn’t work out… just saying!! 😉

[@taanvvii]

not my reply in the thumbnail hahaha

[@kate-ne]

"That's Zora, Disney" my giiirrrrl 😂💀💕

[@alexandrareid4100]

I think she was Sora for Kingdom hearts, which is true

[@kate-ne]

@@alexandrareid4100 okay that's fair!! That would make more sense, I thought she was telling remi Zelda was Disney 💕 I stand corrected 😁

[@vanessaluz]

I am Alisha during all these small talk situations 😂 I cannot deal with small talk on dating apps

[@CeliaDubauskas]

I didn’t understand the fish photo until I went fishing with my step dad and when he caught that bad boy he was so proud. It was cute and then it clicked

[@Olivia-hx2in]

For remi I would say the ingredient is baking soda because she didn’t rise 🤣

[@shanzehqureshi3284]

Is Aspyn gonna be on the podcast

[@annac9668]

Glad Alisha seems better 😊

[@irenehernandez7035]

Get Dr Ramani on your podcast to talk about narcissistic relationships! Thank me later

[@nadiadansani2139]

Peak of Covid, we met at a mall, and he doesn’t have a mask, so we’re sitting outside in the cold. My sister was there and due to the height difference thought I was on a date with a kid, aaaaand he grabbed my thigh and said I’d be fun or nice I can’t exactly remember to cuddle with

[@kellyfinley4419]

Yes on the brown eyes and blue or green eyes being too intense. I have always said that lol

[@katrinalovesbeauty]

I can not WAIT for Alisha to have a man. I really think her life will change!!!

[@nadiadansani2139]

I love a long description cause we can just get to it… buuuuut when they say lookin for friends they do be lying

[@8CheerleadingGirl8]

love u ladies so much

[@mmbz333]

Alisha goes speed dating! A concept!

[@alisiahart7360]

I related to alisha so much this episode. I hateee small talk and never know how to reply lol

[@elenasilva1399]

I love Remi ! But the more I get to know them, I know I’m an Alisha!!!

[@saylorcole16]

Alisha will never live down the boat picture

[@Olivia.martens]

i jumped when alisha said Mario kart. I would die to play you in Mario kart😩 best game hands down🤪

[@kimberlyguerrerolmedo]

the audi0 is a lil off to the the video

[@adrianarosas9983]

The “tell me about yourself question” I would answer with what part like where I’m at right now in life or something else

[@adrianarosas9983]

That will make him wanna know there is more to you than anything else

[@Platinum907]

I would answer “sure, you first.”

[@8CheerleadingGirl8]

such gorgeous gorgeous girls love u ladies 💜💜💜

[@kimberlyguerrerolmedo]

i am literally alisha omgg does she have virgo in her chart ???

[@VanessaSilvaLosoya]

My day is made so much better when there’s a new pod 😁

[@meganjohnson9964]

You two girlys I look up to so much & TK!

[@MilesCrosby]

Loveeeee this ep!

[@Ladyluna444]

Y’all up early I love it tho 😭❤️

[@ESS-zj8fe]

My boyfriend (loml) and my best friend are identical human beings and it all makes sense haha

[@Lexaloodle]

I feel the same as alisha about light eyes and I have light eyes 😂 idk what it is but I prefer a darker eye color

[@emcgurk4715]

Prompt: dating me is like a haiku, short and sweet

[@kallie4116]

Wednesday’s are my favorite days!

[@emersonesselstein7249]

i love both of you!!!

[@river2265]

Alisha should be the Bachelorette

[@gloriaramirez2713]

alisha seems like she has noo experience and needs to open up w relationship

[@elizabethboone4365]

I took notes on this shit

[@elizabethgrace9643]

every time i watch the pod i feel like i’m having a convo with my friends

[@kayleighhaynie2869]

The “J” name stereo type always has me like 😳 my bf of almost 3 years is a J

[@amieebrown6249]

how are alisha and remi sooo pretty

[@illuminatingwild]

alisha haahhaahha i love that new girl episode

[@LadyRosieRose]

Listening to all of Alisha’s answers on her type makes me think we have dated the same guys in LA or come across the same profiles 😂

[@BrianaB3]

Your podcast ✅✅

[@Platinum907]

Ghosting is dumb just be direct.

[@nadiadansani2139]

I’m dying to get on Raya

[@priyankabegum9576]

zane from zane and heath + alisha? i see it working

[@brittanyroby7017]

I just got so excited I’m going grocery shopping perfect timing to upload 😭💞

[@nicolacrabtree771]

What about Zane from unfiltered he is single and really funny xxx

[@Ydnew51]

Yessssss

[@gchrunner9]

I loved this episode,so fun to listen to while I was at the gym

[@fgomez98]

I met the guy I’m talking to rn on Coffee Meets Bagel and I absolutely love the app, would definitely recommend to anyone!

[@brianapicardi]

alisha said WHITE FOX