Dating as a fat gay man

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[@Darnis1993]

I am a fat gay, and I also have autism. When I write to guys ( homosexuals and bisexuals ), they never wants to answer - when guys write to me, it is only about sex.

[@Kokola-qh9wp]

I'm a fat woman and it's sad how our experiences are the same despite being different orientations/genders :( I think most men are just too visual, but I really hope we can find happiness ❤so proud of your self growth and love, you have inspired me and I hope you find someone amazing who can recognize that! :)

[@Wyguy_Lan]

Thank you so much

[@latinjackpot661]

Everything you said was so awesome and on point 🙌🏾👏🏽

[@nerd23x]

It's so true, being gay and fat is a big NO NO! in the gay community that is primarily focused on pure sex and open relationships. You get straight out rejected by many males especially if you are a bottom is even harder to find a partner when you are expected to be skinny as a skeleton with a huge butt. Many men put visuals first than knowing the person. That's why I don't participate on pride events cuz this community is so hypocretical. Especially black men have it the hardest as many gay men do not like dating darked skin people.

[@serendipity7977]

Just two hours ago i met someone online. And we connected so well and he was nice, intelligent and all that. And said he really want to meet me and date all that. And when he knew i was chubby/obese he said i like fit guys and he said its not me but everyone has preferences and i guess it really got me. And now iam in my bed blaming me feeling the lowest and i feel alone. So i searched gay dating as an obese person and this video came up.

[@Wyguy_Lan]

I really hope that experience doesn't put you off to finding your person. Thank you for feeling safe enough to share

[@flemix6168]

Well dw , I am fat too and gay. Its super hard to find someone but when that person comes , he will like you I am sure ❤

[@ali89863]

From the bottom of my heart, THANK YOU. I am a Iranian fat gay guy who is brown _that is not that accepting and they prefer more light skinned._. and i needed to hear all of this. I will come back to this video over and over. Again THANK YOU 🙏🏽🙏🏽.

[@santosaapontenassar4907]

From one fat guy for another; like you say, you are cute, handsome and you have a very beautiful face, and I'm glad that you know that about yourself, because so far, your inner beauty shows with your outer beauty, and the kindness that you say you want to be infectious; well I would think that your kindness is infectious, and I'm glad that you're not letting those past experiences Define you, but rather are stepping stones and bumps on the road to Emotional Self Health and it's nice that you're aware that sex is not everything but rather an emotional connection with whoever you choose to have as a boyfriend and if at some point sex becomes a card to play then that's because it's Mutual emotional agreement of sorts(+/-).

[@Wyguy_Lan]

thank you so much for your kind words. It made me smile

[@adnanebelfaquir]

There’s some advices for you Go to the gym , loose weight and you will find a good wife

[@WhiskasWorld]

1. He's gay 2. His body is perfect 3. Your advice sucks

[@shugochar]

So rude. You will never understand how it feels to be gay/plus size. Your "advice" is not good advice at all.

[@Wyguy_Lan]

no

[@enesokantanin6862]

just be quiet okay take care of yourself rather Try not to make others down because you have no hobbies.

[@cardiiiiii]

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[@cardiiiiii]

so let me get this straight you reached out to him and rejected him how does that work exactly