Dating Black | Episode 2 | BET UK

[@SenorChiboy]

She said Im single and minding my business 😂. The clearest stay out of my DMs ever

[@happyclappy1805]

she was NOT about to open that book for any one to read!

[@Misskwu]

I found it interesting that the two men were asking the interviewer questions. I really liked that. He said “who you want isn’t outside anymore”straight facts

[@dgen8928]

The mismatch makes so much sense. The women selected were all business women who have emotional intelligence and goals.. Some of the gentlemen on here were just incredibly.... stuck, immature and spoke in riddles. Nice guys but the mismatch is so clear. There are like three men who have some level of substance. I felt exhausted listening to the rest.

[@sangel8079]

This reflects the scene at present though.

[@dgen8928]

@@sangel8079 You're definitely not lying. It's disappointing though. The notion that these ladies have " high standards" is also problematic. They actually just have standards and require a level of emotional intelligence and maturity which isn't exactly unreasonable. I hope these gentlemen will see what the issue is here because there is a level of delusion going on with some. Nobody is going to lower their standards and even asking a woman to do this is embarrassing lol.

[@santanagonsalves6461]

But this is what's on offer, for the most part.

[@TheBlackManMythLegend]

Not all women are business women . Not all men are on top that would be relevant selecting normal people

[@professorkeuchannel1161]

A lot of the men and women are on social media. This comes like the McDonald's meme.

[@preciousalways6847]

"she went cold turkey, and now i'm vegan" loool

[@Kikky1957]

Chessyyyy answer😂😂

[@sbusisiweshaba1715]

🤣🤣

[@saimahiyolwa6609]

I love him😂😂😂😂

[@anorbert38]

Can't stand when people say they are in a so called "complicated relationship" The relationship is only complicated because you make it complicated! 😒 But still really enjoyed watching this content! Looking forward to the next one!

[@wbltees611]

90s baby show ... I swear I will follow them everywhere 😂👊🏾

[@thelmakingly5995]

It’s the respectful wandering eye for me still😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@thelmakingly5995]

Ore is a vibe😂😂😂😂😂he’s more on the future toxic level though😂but he does seem to really like the girl that blocked him🅿️

[@anyangmajak252]

He carried this 😂😂😭😂

[@youtubestreets3915]

Yeah explains why he single 😂

[@lebogangkekana191]

They crafty with it innit

[@orlandochomutare5289]

We have to respect it still 😂😂😂

[@sophiajasminex9024]

A few of them struggled to admit they was in a relationship/committed, wonder how their partners feel...😕

[@Rantitoutloud]

I feel like the pack mentality is hitting the groups that are in 3's. Try having the guys in groups of 2 or 1 and you might get more genuine answers.

[@frem7]

This was somehow a hard watch. The majority of the men here aren’t sure about what they want and doing and we are expecting them to give advice and dating somebody daughter?

[@TerryAE]

They basically confirmed with many of us CHOOSE to be alone. It gets lonely sometimes but it's peaceful 😌

[@Lillie839]

I promise you that this is a reflection of the current dating scene here. Some man just haven't grown up since uni or even secondary school.

[@enyonamagbemadzo8684]

@@TerryAElol according to studies and statistics most unmarried and single men are depressed or unhappy 😂

[@ceoofhenjoyment]

It’s fun being toxic??? It gives him adrenaline?? Wow🥴😳😳Coming from an engaged man that’s scaryyy. I feel sorry for his fiancée

[@brokgrl85]

He was being honest, and some women do that. Start drama to get their men hyped up.

[@Claudia_Ehisiemen]

For someone to not know what toxic is.. oh boi! And then the other one saying “It’s fun” scary. Please get some emotionally mature men on this show ffs

[@92AllenT]

"I don't wanna say commitment is scary but it challenges you" liked that take..

[@jeanette7798]

I’m paying too much attention to the different configurations of the apples and the lemons

[@globalcitizen740]

Me too! Gotta love IKEA 😂😂😂😂

[@benola5977]

Similar to some of the comments, kinda disappointed with the range of men BUT i suppose it’s ‘representative’ so 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@TerryAE]

They're so many of them and they're all so childish. Even the married ones. What does that tell you? They're forever mentally immature.

[@justinmarcus5405]

@@TerryAE No Sis! Men are wired different;and that's what y'all are failing to accept;it don't mean men have no feelings.

[@enyonamagbemadzo8684]

@@justinmarcus5405yall love using this excuse to justify why the majority of yall are 🗑️

[@lynnicyy]

Optimistic, Chaotic, Sensational, Freedom, Confusion, Jungle what a way to describe the dating scene. Jungle took me out 😂😂😂

[@tolaniadebayo4819]

Nah Ore seems like a really toxic man😂😂😂how do you have a respectable wandering eyes, he’s blocked and the way he drops bars😂😂take two L’s it turns into W🤣🤣🤣I’m screaming

[@AnuAgboola]

Love the variety of guys and different opinions. Another great episode 🤍

[@sidneyrose1528]

"so when she finally arrived, I just left" got me crying

[@mrsropaxo]

I would cry 😩🤣🤣 sometimes that lash really do take an extra 30 mins chile 🥲😭

[@raquelmacdonald8572]

This session is why I date also out my race😒 ladies want better for yourself and don't ever settle.

[@alexandriaray8079]

Theyre saying alot, but its alot of nothing. 💀

[@EsiriE]

💯

[@Karrisodidi]

I personally love the men. They’re all so different but real at the same time. Most of these comments wishing that there were better picks aren’t people who are being realistic. If you go to the streets, these are the people you’d come across. It’s better to know their mindset and save yourself from embarrassment than to move to them blindly & get heartbroken. This was a wonderful video.

[@anayotothe]

Off topic but I need that "There's rice at home" hoodie!

[@Ms_show]

This Ore lad belongs no where else but the streets. I actually can’t 😂😂

[@ayomide1007]

Why can't grown up men say confidently that they are in a relationship? Are they that embarrassed about thier decisions??

[@90sBabyShow]

🙌🏿🙌🏿

[@ladiakasimu9200]

Came here as soon as I saw you'll 😌

[@SomeThingsDontNeedCommentary]

Yeah they’re cooking you lot 🤣

[@Makii.R]

I really love how honest they are I watched the girl and I had to come back for the boys. Thanks for this insight.

[@pelagegris]

It’s fun being toxic? I can’t believe he said that. Red flags 🚩 everywhere.

[@tytypartridge3135]

The most immature group of guys was actually the three guys with the married guy and the engaged guy which is so mad. Giving dodgy advice and statements. Especially that married guy.. Chile….Let me mind my own business. 🥴

[@iviegrace_]

in their defence bc I watch their show a lot, they have been out the game for a long time so their advice would be from when they were much younger (years back). Different time, different scene aswell.

[@toluprof]

@@iviegrace_ but why can’t they speak from their experience now and how they are in successful committed relationships?!

[@kaichi213]

@@toluprof I think it's just how they add a joke like spin on the topic. They've talked positively about their relationships on their podcast but I hear yo

[@S.A22]

Icl I’m just here for the 90s baby’s 😬

[@busiswamlandu]

Just bumped into these series of dating black and as a black woman in South Africa I relate to the issues discussed here. This is interesting and inspiring. Black matters discussed and sorted by Black people. I love this keep it up👌👏❤👍

[@beatriceboamah1640]

This was so exhausting to watch

[@happyclappy1805]

I'm loving listening to young Black men speaking openly, being willing to be truthful and vulnerable. Some of it is sketchy and some ot is inspiring and all of it is amazing to see. I'm here to see what my daughters and nieces are dealing with!

[@sabrinad513]

She went cold turkey and now I am vegan 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@misstt4427]

what's your advice to women still single & in the jungle? ..."don't be picky, pick anyone" 🤣😱

[@joyandpeacefullaughter5307]

😂😂

[@elle381]

Absolutely not

[@aufhflskih6830]

@@elle381 and thats why most of the women on the women's segment are single & all the men here are in relationships.

[@joyandpeacefullaughter5307]

@@aufhflskih6830 Cause some women will pick any idiot

[@dokessezeaka5159]

Please is rather be in peace alone than chaos with ba partner like them

[@blogz589]

I feel like the placement of the 48 Laws of Power is very cheeky LOL. Of all books!! Agenda?

[@SO-bl9lv]

It’s true. Lashes add on 30/40 mins to my makeup time.

[@oreolukoga2514]

Shout out Oré though. What a guy.

[@Ayshat]

I found these kind of talks therapeutic, comforting, (either in a relationship or not), is that weird?

[@khumble4424]

I enjoyed this episode. Too much negativity in the comment section tho man. They gave their perspective and views..its OK to not agree. Personally I feel they was quite honest. Big up to them

[@salmaabdullahgb]

Just because your honesty doesn't mean people have to be okay with your honestly lool

[@SubieFrancis]

100% People taking it too seriously 😂🤦🏾‍♂

[@jenniroberts3545]

Loving these episodes

[@MadameGerardineSephora]

A respectful wondering eyes LOL! 😂 player at it best! 😂

[@melvyn.871]

half these man are in a relationship but on the first episode they're all single. Interesting...

[@smilergal89]

That’s what stood out to me. It’s interesting.

[@Thisreadingcorner]

Nah every pair of women was one single one in a relationship and the women sitting by themselves were single.

[@globalcitizen740]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@tamarabello]

Not all the women in the first episode were single.

[@algamaboba167]

Yes strange! Although the women had a few in a relationship but appears more of the men settle compared to the women.

[@ennui_creatif7110]

In conclusion : for men it’s not that deep ☹️

[@brokgrl85]

Pretty much lol. Ladies live & enjoy your life. When it's your time, it's your time

[@owamimafisa8108]

Black men don't cheat!? Please man, why are you bullshitting?

[@kraftmacaroniandbeez]

lol I think he’s referring to that kevin samuels (american “dating coach”, in reality breeder slimebag in a shiny silk suit) quote “black men don’t cheat, they exercise their options” 😆

[@BabyGirl-ns7is]

Not Ore on vibes lool

[@princessjudii]

Thank you KZbin for suggesting this 🥰

[@globalcitizen740]

these kids are too young for me 👉🏾👉🏾but men in their 40’s are exactly the same. 😂🥴🙄🤪

[@TerryAE]

Facts

[@sariat2307]

Can we please refrain from calling people leftovers.

[@Advic77]

"Matters of the heart" are very important in the social functioning of every human. It ought not to be taken for granted. We end up spending our most valuable assets/ time(youth) jumping from person to person looking for the 'perfect' one. Remember, perfection in a person is a 'myth'. Relationships is a dynamic process; a journey. There will always be trials and tribulations in any relationship and that's a facts so persevere and start the relationship building...

[@YourGirlSudanny]

I'm enjoying this series

[@chantelleduncan1]

some. of the comments from these guys was very interesting. Like this question. ''advice for people trying to get out of the jungle. Im glad VP recognised and said' ''so settle'' I 100% agree with Big Hendo regarding this question. But at the end of the day, I do agree, that once you know yourself, you'll know what you want and most importantly how you deserve to be treated (male or female) and any potential SO that doesn't do that will not deserve you and that is a compromise I think you shouldn't lower because you think its impossible.

[@ellaa141]

I just find men delusional... its not hard just be emotionally intelligent and treat her like a queen... every single guy here seemed to be wanting to give themselves an excuse for doing bare minimum... its not hard for men at all... i know women can be complicated but if shes really being complicated with you she simply doesnt like you period... if shes drama she doesnt like you... but also look at yourself for what might be making her behave that way... and they all seem to be making a joke of everything raising a family and children and living in a home is not a joke... its life

[@islandsky3029]

Uk dating is a joke that ain’t funny at all

[@TerryAE]

I see that. But it's global with these black men. Everything's a joke to them. This whole video is confirmation

[@user-dv3kq3rm4h]

What is your experience with UK dating?

[@margarethclaudia2281]

Dating in the uk is horrible. If you want a one night stand is so easy. If you want something serious is going to be DIFFICULT.

[@justinmarcus5405]

@@TerryAE Just accept sis that men are wired different:it does'nt mean they have no feelings:Women are imotional,men are visual.

[@chantelleduncan1]

I seriously wonder why he's single. 😂😂😂 someone tell this guy his 'wandering eye' might potentially be the problem.

[@VictorJMusic1]

This is great.

[@ellaa141]

he over here laughing baout being blocked... so cringe... like you dont know why she would go that far... im sorry im so biased i just think women have so muhc more value than the men we are having to pick from these days

[@ev2175]

around 20 minutes. Don't call him a "snitch" for telling someone they are being cheated on. Maybe he was joking, but the way that came out... nah man.

[@seph3795]

some men and their indirect answers 🤣🤣

[@thelmakingly5995]

Who you want isn’t outside anymore🅿️🎱🎱🎱

[@FShexa]

Handsome Black Men!

[@thefleetfooted]

Hendo had too much sense

[@missm.3652]

Manz said its fun to be toxic yk. That must have been a joke.

[@h.b.s309]

Bruh he got his sneaker all in this man’s face 😂😂

[@globalcitizen740]

Young, Fresh, and Committed!!! 😂

[@victoriavalentine3382]

Fred and the other guy have similar stories 🤔🤔

[@SharleenDube]

A respectful wondering EYEEE???

[@cory7412]

The same Ashley from Play On Podcast 🙌🏽

[@lala-fv2ci]

🍫🍫🍫 Skin I was like 🤤 the whole time 😂

[@choindacut]

Lemme not go arcade as the first date😂😂

[@beyourself2444]

Where are the Caribbean men?

[@vyi3281]

In the jungle

[@oluchiosakwe]

Interesting

[@chiderajames8387]

I wanted to listen to Ore more

[@law7950]

Why is the host saying really? When a black men is in a committed relationship

[@benedictempt9737]

10:25 - 10:30 very true

[@darray.]

Sonia?

[@h.b.s309]

Wait does he have a comb stuck in his hair 😂😂😂🥴🤔

[@SubieFrancis]

Why is it war in the comments lool. Be relaxing, not everyone will have the same opinion or experiences as you and you need to realise THAT IS OKAY 😂🤦🏾‍♂

[@aufhflskih6830]

women can't handle opinions. notice there are no men fighting in the comments over women's opinions on the women's segment.

[@men7159]

It is interesting how women drank wine but men drank what it seemed...non alcoholic drinks...

[@sarahcombs9992]

Mixed drinks

[@SamuelEni]

Loool

[@abdulquadriolamilekan5295]

I went through the comment and I see why a lot of people get hurt cause you all never listen

[@elle381]

You see why people are hurt. Because look at whats available. I have my man and understand why Black women are looking elsewhere. Too many black males are not serious people for anything substantial and long term. Its always oversexualized noncommital immaturity. No one has time for that. This series started off promising bc Black women make us proud. Hats off to the few gentlemen on this show but they were a distinct minority. You complaining is more of the same. Blaming women when men are the problem. Bye

[@abdulquadriolamilekan5295]

@@elle381 I don’t think many of black men have an issue with black women looking elsewhere…I mean go where you feel loved…

[@abdulquadriolamilekan5295]

And I don’t think anyone oversexualized anything

[@justinmarcus5405]

@@elle381 Try to accept men for who they are, and i'm sure you'll be content with yourself:i'm sure you've heard the terms ''Men are wired different to women.''