Why Foreign Women Struggle Dating In Korea

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[@uhmmdina5196]

I’m Dinara and I’m from Uzbekistan!

[@tinalowen6166]

I thought that you could speak Russian. I can read it from your face expression. Right?

[@Comebackherein2050]

Ты по национальности узбечка?

[@uhmmdina5196]

@@tinalowen6166 I do, in fact, speak Russian fluently

[@peculliar]

заметила по твоему акценту. вообще шикарный английский, но тот шикарный английский, который бывает у русскоязычных. имя, конечно же, да и общий вайб. вообще интересно, как тебя воспринимают? понимаю, что черты лица всё же отличаются, но бывает такое, что принимают за местную?

[@PapaDikpill]

I have a feeling you'll go far in life.

[@BelanceM]

You chose such great people to interview. It was diverse not just culturally but with their options and how how outspoken they were. That was cool. Hope you stayed in contact with them. They genuinely seem like cool people.

[@BLMacab]

This man is going to turn a third of korea Mixed in 1 decade and im finna join the party tho i likem 55-67

[@gorgioarmanioso151]

@@BLMacab he is charming ahahah

[@BLMacab]

@@gorgioarmanioso151 hes really chill and dresses sharp and im guessing hes not ignorant american like me

[@user-he9nk2ys4r]

As a Korean, I hope you guys will meet good people As you guys know not everyone in Korea is like that but there are some idiots and weirdos I think idiots and weirdos are everywhere all over the world so I just hope you guys meet good people here

[@ishyameru6232]

I agree as a black american. It's unfair for anyone to be stereotyped due to what an idiot does.

[@cesars267]

One thing is for sure , Korean girls are the most beautiful, I give you that!!

[@maya_jones3411]

@@cesars267 The vast majority of humans are average, so most Korean women (and men) are average looking just like most people in the world. Beautiful people exist in all countries, there’s no place with ‘the most beautiful’ people.

[@MichelleLeeSWEKR]

I agree! My bf is Korean and he is the sweetest person I've ever met and he showed me he was really serious about us from the start so there was never any doubt about that for me :)

[@larizoclack1541]

@@maya_jones3411 Yeah

[@calen56]

I think this interview is trying to be realistic for the ppl who actually want to live in or stay for long in Korea. As Korean, I don't think it's disrespectful maybe it's honest bc it's comes from their personal experiences. Someone who wants to live in this country, it's better to be prepared for the worst rather than living up with too unrealistic expectations. Besides, there is always ups and down in every culture and every country. So I don't think they need to sugarcoat it. You are doing great, K Explorer

[@Fartsquad_]

But also when I went to Korea During the summer, I’ve noticed a lot of the foreigner girls that are there date Korean boys by dating apps or speak of experiences with them in clubs. And then they generalize all Korean men to be the same as the people that they meet through dating apps or clubs. I find that strange. I live in the US, I don’t try to meet men through those sources because they’re usually only looking for one thing

[@AndreasViking1]

Of course it’s not disrespectful to condemn and expose horrible behaviour. "About 8 in 10 Korean men said they had used violence against romantic partners. According to a study conducted by the Korean Institute of Criminology, 1,593 of 2,000 Korean men, or 79.7 percent, said they had abused a girlfriend while they were dating." "About 71 percent of those who admitted to a history of dating abuse said they had control over their girlfriends' personal activities, such as restricting them from meeting friends or keeping them isolated from others, including family members."

[@user-mr5yw7mx4g]

​@@AndreasViking1이건 거짓말임.. 도대체 왜이런 악의적인 소문을 내는지모르겠네..

[@user-mr5yw7mx4g]

모든나라는 다완벽하지않음. 그렇지만 이채널은 부정적인것에 초점을 맞춘 채널임. 왜냐면 부정적 편견울 깔고있는 질문을 함. 유도심문할때 쓰는 수법임. 부정적인것을 일반화하는건 좋지않음. 반대로 장미빛 환상을 갖는것도 좋은게 아니듯.. 중요한건 시간을두고 천천히 직접 겪어보지않으면 알수없음. 그리고 한국에서도 사람을 사귈때 클럽이나 헌팅보다는 믿을만한 사람한테 소개받거나 보통은 주변에서 찾음. 외국인들상대로 호기심에 또는 가벼운마음으로 접근하는 사람들은 어디에나 조심해야함.

[@Riaaonline]

If I were to go to Korea, dating would be the last thing on my mind. Save myself from getting played, fetishized overall traumatized

[@bear6726]

You haven't been there and have no experience yet you think all men in Korea will play and fetishize you?

[@tamaryra]

I plan to go there just for education and business opportunities. Idk how people travel from afar searching for their k-pop star lover ?? lmaoo 😬

[@migukin7492]

HAhahaha yeah right. Why you come to korean then?

[@Riaaonline]

@@migukin7492 I like the culture, food, the scenery and I plan on studying there. Not everyone goes there for the men or kpop😌

[@NoRockinMansLand]

Someone that respects themselves demands respect👌🏾

[@4mydearlady]

With rare exception, night clubs and Tinder are not great places to meet men who want a meaningful committed relationship.

[@lijoon.]

👍👍

[@focabox5594]

That's life overall everywhere. More people in general does not want commitment, including women

[@doujinflip]

⁠Modern capitalism creates an environment that values flexibility over loyalty. The most ideal and thus well paid workers are single and childless who can be called to anywhere with the least amount of personal disruption and protest, and that mode for getting our paycheck has infiltrated into modern culture.

[@ImaBrown-kd5nl]

Yeah in any capacity, in any country

[@legobatman8811]

Bro is never lacking with the fits🔥🔥😂

[@user-px5xe1zb5f]

As a Korean man, I recommend foreign women not to meet a man in clubs. The foreign women who complain about their ex-boyfriend mostly meet the boy in clubs🤣 To be quite honest, unlike western countries, good men tend not to go to clubs.. Most Koreans consider clubs as the place to find FWB not as the place for dancing😂 It's a cultural difference.

[@user-on8qo6rs5c]

Nah it's the exact same in western countries. Western women just get shocked because they think the korean men will be different based off of fantasy for korean drama.

[@NoRockinMansLand]

To be honest even in the west good men dont usually go to clubs, but women still foolishly expect to find something in clubs and tinder which were both made for hookups

[@lisag.2665]

@@NoRockinMansLand Agreed. I feel like that's fairly common anywhere. Thus many times younger crowds.

[@katlegosibara3317]

Society think that clubs is where its at smh and people need to wake up. Have some respect for themselves for a relationship standpoint in all honesty

[@sssssssss111]

You’re absolutely right. Women in clubs are looking for fun as well, but passport bros go there to look for submissive wives. If you’re serious just live life and let relationships flow naturally

[@vjthomas2288]

Off topic but I’m so impressed by the last two ladies and their Korean level after a short time. And what?? Self study and that good. I need to get more textbooks and get cracking on the language skills but anyway it’s always so amazing to see foreigners speaking Korean. In America so many different nationalities speak English so it’s so cool to see different nationalities speaking Korean

[@sensimania]

Textbooks wont cut it. The best way to learn a language is to fully immerse yourself. So it helps to be in the country of the language you're learning e.g. get out there and speak with the locals.

[@Neekoolos]

I've lived in Korea for 10 years, and from my observations, most of my foreign female friends/colleges have found successful Korean relationships/marriage through language exchanges, hobbyist groups (like a tennis club, hiking club, art classes etc.) , or blind dates. The foreign dating apps or clubs/bars are were you find the d-bag Korean boys hehe. If you use the Korean dating apps you'll will find guys looking for serious relationships more often I have been told.

[@user-xj5ig9yy2v]

Unfortunately, lots of foreign women will ignore your comments to continue to find boyfriends from clubs.

[@noinstein7041]

@@user-xj5ig9yy2v ㄹㅇ클럽에서 진지한만남을생각하는것자체가 웃기긴함ㅋㅋ

[@celestialasmr9624]

​@@noinstein7041 that actually happens very commonly in the UK!

[@novaacta8340]

Dating in Korea is the same as in other countries. Also, a man's position is the same as a woman's position. Just as a woman chooses a man and breaks up if she doesn't like him, so can a man. It is weird that foreign women want Korean men to be always faithful to them and treat them like princesses. That is illogical and unfair. Just stop complaining, girls, and rather do your best to win a man's love, just like a man does to a woman to win her love.

[@jaded4me]

hongdae club boys r so scary pls. when i went to study, i saw my foreigner friends fall victim left and right. my condolences to all of those girls. also warning to all of the girls who go pls be aware 😭

[@humanconnectionflores]

My goodness,being a young Adult in today's world seems exhausting.

[@udontevenwannaknowbruv]

It really is. I don’t like to go out or go on dating apps, I’m also not a fan of hookup culture. But it seems like these are the only options nowadays to get into a relationship. And then there are people saying that you don’t get into a serious relationship from meeting in a club or on dating apps. I haven’t had a boyfriend in my 24 years and the few men that were interested in me were bluntly making it apparent that they were only interested in a hook up. I don’t know at what point hooking up with strangers, friends, colleagues, basically anyone, became so normalised. It’s nearly impossible to meet someone who’s dating with the intention of marriage and not for fun or just out of loneliness

[@HellonihaoJohnnyHola]

@@udontevenwannaknowbruv fr

[@nessparadis6948]

It’s so exhausting 😂

[@maxvrolijk1751]

@@udontevenwannaknowbruv this goes opposite too though, most people both male and female are just looking for hookups around 19 to 25. and the girls have so many options that they dont really care to put in effort and try for a long lasting relationship because when shit gets hard they can just move ships. like people are not perfect back in the day u had a fight u would fix it and then look on how to work together and grow together. nowadays most girls just ghost if they lose interest or 1 thing is said that they dislike

[@moniquewrites9046]

Yep

[@jalfredprufrock620]

Lot of these answers sound like young people navigating the dating world in general, rather than being experiences specific to Korea.

[@Hi_Im_Jie]

Great topic, KExplorer! I find your videos insightful and adds a different perspective/dimension of what South Korea is/can be. It's so important to hear the experiences from different folks to get a better picture. Cheers!

[@lolacarolina]

I don't understand why people go to foreign countries like Korea to go through these uncomfortable situations.

[@user-mo2mg1yz9f]

I can say why ppl come to Korea only to dating Lol toomuch expectation of kpop

[@gonzaloetse29]

Might want to travel a bit to find out

[@fayseverin2305]

Me too.

[@ori5581]

​@@user-mo2mg1yz9fsome people think korea as disney land

[@9y2bgy]

Dinara has almost no accent at all when she speaks Korean. Her manner of speaking follows the rhythm and tone of young Korean women, so it sounds almost native to my ear. Chachi speaks very good Korean with very little accent for the limited way she spoke in this video. I think she's humble about her ability in Korean. That's a very Korean thing in itself!

[@joshdubline3593]

Living in London as a Korean and seeing all those 'Good Korea' videos on KZbin, I came to a point where this type of video should be more publicly exposed. On the other hand, even though I agree that there is a statistical tendency on what girls in this video described about Korean men, I have to say people are prejudiced anywhere in this world. Even here in the UK, there are girls who only meet Asians or black guys, and I cannot judge their preferences even though I don't like them to like me because I am Korean. At some point, I erased my own prejudice and embraced them as they were since my view was unsustainable. I know it is hard not to have a general opinion after some experiences, but there are people who can be real for you whether you meet them online or not. Being part of a different society requires immense dedication. Give a bit of space to embrace it and sight without your cultural lens. When the time comes that you return or visit your home country again, you will be able to see your own culture and people in a different way.

[@ceemy8879]

So...want to go out for dinner?

[@AndreasViking1]

"About 8 in 10 Korean men said they had used violence against romantic partners. According to a study conducted by the Korean Institute of Criminology, 1,593 of 2,000 Korean men, or 79.7 percent, said they had abused a girlfriend while they were dating." "About 71 percent of those who admitted to a history of dating abuse said they had control over their girlfriends' personal activities, such as restricting them from meeting friends or keeping them isolated from others, including family members."

[@miaka123ify]

If u want to date a Korean man or a Chinese one, I suggest being direct, honest and frank and also saying what u want. Like my experience is clear communication and direct answers normally things go well. I remember when I date the first thing I make clear was that their parents need to speak English or at least be able to accept I am not Asian, and I need to visit their family too ( wich I did and we broke up for different reasons). About hookup I think is a problem everywhere and most times men left me as soon as say I don want to fuck, never get a problm.

[@clown6507]

You should also try to speak their parents' language if you want clear communication.

[@bubblygirlduddett3]

I think people date nowadays because they want hookup. Back then when i was single i stately make it clear that i am a serious dater, don't want to sleep around and i want something to last. If that is not your objective then let's cut this short and good luck

[@tsun_ah]

If I've gotta choose among East Asians, I'd choose to date a Japanese. For me, Korean guys are too active and outgoing. And I don't know much about Chinese guys so. But I've heard Japanese men are so respectful well of course that depends on people as well.

[@af4362]

@@bubblygirlduddett3 you're a woman???

[@bubblygirlduddett3]

@@af4362 lol yes

[@raquelfigueroa5539]

Every where in the world I think, foreigners women are treated as a summer love, holiday day love something that won’t last. But only from Koreans I have heard this “Open minded” when referring to foreign women.or “I will like to experience dating a foreigner”. I was born in Dominican Republic and lived there until the age of eight and I remember as a teen going on holiday to Dominican Republic, to visit family. Teens like me thought that because I live in the USA I was easy. I think we need to show them, it’s not the case. Not all foreigners are careless about respecting themselves. It shouldn’t be like that, but we don’t live in a perfect world. The media keep showing the world stereotypes about different people in the world. Thank you for your videos. Hopefully we all learn to value and respect people regardless of our cultures differences and educate each other.

[@magnolia2]

Beautifully said!

[@olives9303]

"not all foreigners are careless in respecting themself" so because a girl sleeps with a man she has no respect for herself? pls get out of here

[@user-on8qo6rs5c]

@@olives9303... you dont have to think of it like that but other ppl can think of it how they like. And yes most korean women do not sleep on the first date so if a bunch of foreign women come here and sleep with these men on the first date they will be thought of as easy period...

[@olives9303]

@@user-on8qo6rs5c and where does respecting urself as a woman come into this?

[@user-on8qo6rs5c]

@@olives9303 ... I never said it does. You can respect yourself while other people lose respect for you. Just like anyone can respect themselves for anything even if everyone else doesn't

[@emylix3]

Really calming to watch your interviews. You're super respectful and complimentary with the people you interview with as well.

[@dhl900]

As a Korean, i hope foreigners in Korea have a good time and meet nice Korean friends while living here. 🙏

[@LMLification]

Although I moved to Japan after Korea, I will say that I still have fond memories and friends despite the numerous challenges.

[@espressoq5696]

All my friends who dated Korean guys before were so traumatized by their ghosting, no one mentioned how mama's boy they are. It's like if you date a Korean guy, you're dating his whole family, especially his mum, sometimes makes you feel like you're a third wheel in between his mum and him, anybody with me on this page? ( Please don't let anyone steals you from your parents, stay with them forever! 👌 Problem solved. End of the story.Happy ending👏🏻)

[@bear6726]

How you get traumatized by that? If i date a girl really like i don't see any problem spending time with her family..whats wrong with that?

[@espressoq5696]

@@bear6726 I assume that you are a male, so what if you can't go anywhere without her dad and she always put her family first? Will you still enjoy it?

[@bear6726]

@@espressoq5696 you people compare Korea to some lala land there everything is perfect that is not fair..let's compare it with other countries.

[@marzy1027]

They have a similar behavior of italian men, both are mama's boy ahah 🤷🏻 but i dont know If Is negative or positive 🤔

[@ko-Daegu]

dude going on 10+ dates and 15 days that's your issue you are after f boys who want to sleep with you and that’s it when you cheapen yourself this is what happens

[@baeyonce]

I just randomly watched your videos. I’m so impressed that your korean level! your way to talk is very kind,warm and perfect honorific. I literally surprised!!!! good job bruv. I’m so happy you’re staying in korea and trying to show a real korea to all around the world. keep it up man. I’m rooting for you!

[@yougetaspear7799]

Who's kissing sweetheart thou

[@baeyonce]

@@yougetaspear7799 he’s my husband :)

[@yougetaspear7799]

@@baeyonce 🤔🤔 oookaaay

[@KExplorer]

Thank you so much!!

[@Anastasia.the.1st]

I'm moving to Seoul soon. And almost everywhere in the world foreign women are treated like that. Hopefully, I will be able to navigate South Korea with caution. Thank you so much your videos are helpful to me!

[@KExplorer]

Best of luck!

[@pam3122]

Please speak Korean and make friends. Don't walk alone at night

[@pam3122]

@@Encjwjdnfbejwks really. It's really not safe any where

[@EBZ-bx7zc]

Try dating in America. The guy will make you pay for dinner and sleep with you for less than 20 minutes and throw you out into the lobby. And if you get pregnant good luck with that. American guys brag about their body count. Oh she is my number 240. It's like a competition. I don't think that's the case in Korea... If anyone here is complaining about daring in Korea then you won't last 2 seconds in America or even the UK or France with the dating scene. All the guys are sexist. Sleezy. Very disrespectful and catcall and grope your breasts on the streets. That's the western way. Woman are lining up outside Walgreens pharmacy or planned Parenthood to get an abortion pill or an abortion because the dudes get the girls pregnant and run away. That's how bad it is here

[@Ytpremium5389]

Just don't get ran through by a bunch Korean dudes

[@patriciajackson6285]

If foreign men and women are thinking of dating Korean men or women, it is best to ask UPFRONT how do their parents or families feel about Koreans dating foreigners. If you do this process of elimination you can easily avoid a lot of unwanted attention, or the ones just looking for easiness from foreigners. Lay it on the line with the potential suitor first as to how their parents or families will feel. This is why majority of Koreans will not take foreigners serious, because their parents/families will disapprove of this type dating/relationships. Be wise and not used.

[@Jassy555]

Thank you for another wonderful video!!! I hope you keep making videos like these because they really do help someone like me who is from America wanting to go to Korea someday to have a better idea of how I should be thinking and not really have so many high expectations when it comes to dating there and what to watch out for and remember.

[@horseface3725]

Samee, I live in America and hope to at least travel to Korea one day. His videos are the best!

[@BearingMySeoul]

I would second what the girl said about not meeting online in Korea. It's bad enough being foreign with the perception that you're not going to stay in Korea but online gives another layer of distance where the men can "play" freely without it getting back to their social circles. IF you're interested in something serious, date a classmate or someone you meet through a hobby.

[@Jassy555]

@@BearingMySeoul I will definitely make sure to do that when I get there someday. Thank you and I agree as well.

[@eehhh3791]

This guy is pretty cool like he got swag and his voice is smooth. He interview really honest people! Your a cool dude man!!!

[@juluz1729]

It is not just about Korean men. Tinder? Clubs? Bars? Should lower the expectation no matter which country.

[@ori5581]

Some foreigner expect korea as disney land...and they are disappointed soon

[@abena8339]

Love this video. It’s nice to hear foreign women’s thoughts on dating in Korea with interesting questions

[@bokamoso_seloana]

So much chemistry between K and D😭😭❤️

[@FelThommy]

Great interview, dating here in Asia is quite different 😅

[@Chanelnumber7394]

Such a great video very informative 😊

[@seasurf5801]

Thanks for leaving their instagrams

[@brynnamarshall4944]

Love is love. Whether if a person is Korean or any other nationality, if it's real, it will happen

[@Minimini-hm8zg]

I agree. regardless of nationality

[@user-ly8vw3ej3v]

Любовь-это розовые сопли. Какая чушь. Вам 13 лет?

[@ChantelStays]

I love that you do these interviews...

[@LMLification]

As someone who has lived abroad for 11 years now, with 4 of them in Korea, I attest to a lot of what these women are saying. The worst is when the man is actually married and has a whole family in another province all while stringing you along.

[@AlexandraStubbs]

Great video, all the answers and people’s experiences are interesting.

[@KExplorer]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@AlexandraStubbs]

@@KExplorer Yes thank you! I hope you have a wonderful 2023!

[@Shammer1]

Sis when was tinder ever for real relationships

[@no.6377]

Never! Like, I'm saying- why are people treating tinder like a dating app now??😂😂

[@valorie444]

neverrrr it's why ive never downloaded a dating app lol

[@sailorxin]

I actually found my current long-term boyfriend through Tinder😅 It’s not impossible you know… I live in the Netherlands though

[@_CL]

my friend is currently dating someone she met through Tinder, it's also her first relationship

[@michaelwatson9089]

It depends on the person that uses it. If I use tinder with the mindset of finding a potential match for a long term and that match is on the same wave length, then it served what I was looking for. Granted the model is geared towards more of a hookup culture type of app because they make more money if you don't succeed or if you are constantly hooking up.

[@jihojio2118]

첫 인터뷰하신 분 넘 이쁜거 아니에요?

[@rebeccaliew2247]

I don't know when I'll go to Korea, but in Japan, a lot of similar thinking is adopted by the Japanese when it comes to dating foreigners - I've lived in Japan for 3 years to know that.

[@seferino]

Great interviewer.👍 very professional and enjoyable. ✌️✌️✌️✌️

[@KExplorer]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@krazykrush]

Wonder how many girls go to korea thinking most guys are like the ones from kdramas

[@ohajijoiner4301]

cheap is not a word that cross my mind when it comes to any woman , I wouldn’t allow myself to be okay with feeling that way as far as my outlook on them

[@k15469]

한국여성들도 과거에는 똑같은 경험을 많이 겪었습니다. 가난했던 나라였을때 한국여성들은 외국 남자를 동경했습니다. 특히, 대부분의 아시아에서는 백인남성을 선망했죠 과거 주한 미군들이 애기만 낳고 본국으로 돌아가버리는 일이 엄청 많이 있었습니다. 그리고 외국인 남성들이 자신들을 동경하는 한국여성들을 꼬셔서 야한영상을 만들거나, 한국여자들은 쉽다, 싸다는 영상들을 만들기도 했고, 뉴스에도 종종 나왔죠. 국가 경제력. 그리고 여성들이 외국남성에게 가지는 지나친 환상 + 그것을 이용해서 잠자리를 가지려는 남자. = 끔찍한 경험... 이 기본 공식은 세계 어디에나 존재합니다. 지금은 한국이 조금은 발전했고, 여성들도 경제력이 향상되면서 과거보다 외국남자에 가지던 기대치가 줄어든 거죠. kpop과 드라마를 보고 환상을 갖는 어리석은 짓은..... 과거에 헐리웃과 빌보드에 매료되어 서양남을 찬양했던 한국여성들과 같은 현상입니다

[@user-qh1ww5zd8h]

Динара так хорошо владеет языками, что меня очень вдохновило стараться ещё усерднее!😍 А ещё она красотка! Все девушки в этом видео красотки, загляденье! И интервьюер тоже конечно красавчик! 😊❤️

[@nnoir]

Yo K Explorer would you be open to making a video about yourself? All your videos are awesome but what's even more awesome is the person behind them which makes me curious about your background.

[@jiminswriter4209]

6:16 Korean men do not see Eastern Asian women as cheap. Eastern Asian women are Korean, Japanese, Chinese, etc.

[@luw5244]

Going to Korea with dating the very last thing on my mind, lol.

[@rahla53]

Great questions!

[@1970rsc]

Foreign girls, especially those who don’t speak Korean, are hard to take seriously as long term partners because it seems like they are only in Korea temporarily. What guy wants to spend the time/effort to build a long term relationship if at the end, the girl is just going to get sick of the “Korea boo” trend and ship back home?

[@stefheathcote6123]

I actually enjoyed the video! To take a far end rejection - Koreans would not shout or spit on you because you are foreigner, but they will ignore you hard - no eye contact or if there is one is blank. In my experience they are equally dozes curious and uncomfortable. For Breaching this gap both parties have to want to and to find a way. And many people just don’t want to..part of human nature I guess!

[@cesars267]

Hi K, your interviews get better and better, always a topic that concerns us all, especially dating in Korea for foreigners. Regards

[@KExplorer]

Glad you like them!

[@SaePyon22]

The Interviewer looks so handsome and well dressed. Also the questions askes where really interesting.

[@CarloscbPereira]

I'm studying English now, and your videos are very helpful thanks for putting subtitles

[@KExplorer]

Happy to hear that!

[@peacelife]

Saw this for 2nd time and prob the best video regarding to dating Korean men. Great selection of ladies with diff experiences, and great opinions. You also has a great way of interviewing that gave your interviewee a peace of mind. Made me want to learn Korean now. I agreed with the student. Not all but majority of Korean tend to think Korea is #1 or #2 in Asia. The other region get look down in. The countries that she named are correct bec of mail order bride. My family actually got told to our faces. There are racist and other among the race too unfortunately. 😔

[@lembartaisyhaqaismarha8708]

I think if i go to korea. As a hijabi i would just not straight off be friends or date with korean first but i will find some people the same race and religion as mine and be roommates and stuff, and then jumped off to find some korean people to be friends with just so I don’t get moody and breakdown when i’m making this kind of process and it’ll be hard :)

[@ejwowiing]

Good looking out, my guy

[@TimoRoseNDFilms]

Your videos are an inspiration to my channel keep up the good work.

[@KExplorer]

Happy to hear that!

[@Minimini-hm8zg]

Don't look for love in the clubs. I’m Korean.

[@tujiwara9216]

That french girl story was hers, not for a friend of her. And she was devastated!

[@linojvni2038]

the fit goes crazy

[@lillykim65351]

People watch TOO MUCH KOREAN DRAMA THINKING THEY WILL FIND A "LALA LAND KOREAN MEN JUST LIKE IN KDRAMA" I'm korean and 💯 korean and when I see non korean talk about korea they think it's so "perfect" 🤣🤣 just like when I thought the USA is "perfect" place but no because I came back to reality

[@user-rj5tx3zc8w]

Dinara is a beast, she has such an excellent english and korean.

[@1k1ngst0n]

the comment about family influencing marriage would be the same for a Korean man dating in a foreign country such as Iraq, Iran, Turkey, India, etc. I'm also not sure that Tinder is the best way to find someone to marry in Korea for a foreigner.

[@wangxian5473]

YOUR INTERVIEWS ARE SO GOOD. ALSO are you half Korean? Kinda wanna know your story why are you in Korea

[@KExplorer]

Glad you enjoy the vids, i’ll be making a Q&A special real soon!

[@GlobalRevolution4All]

Yeah I agree. I enjoy your interviews and am impressed by your Korean. Keep up the interesting content.

[@ayuj]

Woah!! This was new to me.

[@Sscottyoutube]

5:45 . As a Korean who has a lot of East Asian / American / European friends THIS IS SO TRUE Thanks girl we appreciate we have you here 💛

[@suinjapan]

Great video. The last girl killed it with her Korean ahaha

[@KExplorer]

Her Korean was perfect!

[@CeceliaS69]

My two cents after working and living there--have high standards but very low expectations. The men in Korea were not socialized to treat women well. There is a lot of misogyny and sexism going on so be careful out there.

[@NikkiWallace-qn4cp]

The second young lady that wore a cap has a very good point on online dating! She mentioned that people who may be looking for a serious committed relationship that would use it ; It's NOT the Best way to meet someone . It always Best to meet them personally for yourself whether that is on a job ,college (high school ,an outing or family gathering with a friend or relative that would introduce you to them

[@brokengirl8619]

There is a lot of channels on KZbin of foreign women and Asian Korean husbands, and they usually met on dating apps.

[@exoizlyfe6079]

3:07 APPROACH SOUNDED SO CUTE

[@jasminesmith5357]

Was this filmed in hongdae?

[@lok267]

별개이지만, 한국에서 데이팅 앱을 통한 연애는 건강한 방식으로 간주되지 않습니다(건강한 사람들이 참여한다고 생각되지도 않는 것 같습니다). 다른 나라에서는 데이트 어플이 일반적인 일로 인식되는 곳도 있다는 통계를 봤어요

[@lauragoreni3020]

Not in all countries, not even all European countries. It depends. I agree dating apps aren't healthy, but I must say there have been many marriages of people who met through dating apps.

[@glowgirl4180]

네, 이상하고 좋지 않은 어플리케이션입니다. 다운받은 적은 없지만 좋지 않다고 들었습니다.

[@Sscottyoutube]

안에서 새는 바가지는 밖에서도 샌다고 그런 사람들은 오프라인에서 우연히 만나도 이상한사람들입니다. 데이팅 앱을 쓰지말라는건 이해되지만 사용자가 늘어나는만큼 데이팅앱자체의 문화를 바꿔나가는게 더 바람직하겠죠

[@user-bd9uo8dw3j]

Dating is difficult everywhere! 😂

[@user-zf6ji3do5t]

해외에서 오신 남성 여성분들께 드리는 말씀 한국 남성이나 여성들은 얼핏 겉으로는 매우 개방적이고 누구에게나 친절하기 때문에 해외에서 오신 분들과 매우 쉽게 친해지면서 또 갈등도 빨리 생길 수 있을 것 같네요. 하지만 한국 사회에서 어릴 때부터 자란 한국인들은 학교의 교실이라는 매우 폐쇄적인 환경에서 하루종일 공부만 했습니다. 무려 18년 동안 그렇게 공부해 대학을 갑니다. 그 이후에 비로소 여기저기 친구를 사귀고 축제나 행사도 가서 또래 친구들을 만나고 사랑도 느끼게 됩니다. 그래서 감정 표현이 매우 서투른 듯 하고 겉으로 친절하긴 하지만 여자에게 정중하게 대해야 하는 것을 배우지 못한 채 남성이라면 저돌적이고 공격적으로 행동해야 여성들이 좋아할 거라고 잘못 생각할 수 있습니다. 그래서 오해가 쌓이겠죠. 사회성의 측면에서 좀 부족할 수 있다는 말씀이에요. 너그러운 이해를 부탁드립니다.

[@Sscottyoutube]

이해? 18시간동안 갇혀있던 학교 그 어디에서도 그렇게 가르치지않았어요. 뭘 이해해요?남자애들이 폭력적인거요? 공격적으로 아무말이나 쏟아내는거요? 아뇨 그런건 유치원에서부터 하지말라고 배워왔습니다 이해와 관용은 이럴 때 쓰는 말이 아니에요. 사람만나기 전에 본인 부터 예의를 갖춘채만나라고 하세요. 전 주변사람들한테 그렇게 말하고 다니고 있습니다. 이건 어디까지나 아주 기본적인 예의와 배려와 존중의 영역입니다

[@Sscottyoutube]

이게 안되었다는건 외국인은 물론 자국민과도 어울릴 준비가 안되어있다는 말이에요. 멀쩡한 인간관계를 구축할 수 있는 제대로 된 상태의 어른이 아니란 말입니다 학교를 핑계로 쓰지 마세요 이렇게되면 국내 공교육 시스템 문제와 거기서 파생된 인성문제를 동시에 지적하는거고 이런댓글자체가 한국에 침 뱉는거에요

[@larissabulgarelli9557]

0:10 meu deusss, que incrível, não acredito que ela apareceu! Amo acompanhar a Andressa

[@unknownthirdplace]

Quem é ela?

[@jung4296]

Yea is here wow!!

[@Mindsetolympics]

Lol 1:23 she described me 😂 obsessed lol

[@armorbearer9702]

(4:55) This is a huge dating risk in any asian country. You never know if the person you are dating's family is ok with foreigners.

[@KangTheDigitalNomadGlobeTreker]

8 times out of 10 they won't. Better find that diamond in the rough

[@cest_what]

Are many girls going to Korea just to date and find a husband so they can live there with a visa? Maybe that's not the best reason for moving into a foreign country. Differences in cultures should be considered before going there. Why all the complaining, if they're disappointed with the people and their culture, when it's not what they expected/wanted and isn't the same as their home country's culture?! Every country/culture is different and is under no obligation to change themselves to fit foreigner's expectations and preferences.

[@ori5581]

Because they think korea as disney land...

[@jiniqeee]

9:05 Her intonation is 👍 perfect.

[@ronyzelaya]

I'm wondering where is Dinara, a country where you don't text? Where's that?

[@migukin7492]

Probably Central Asia or possibly Asian Russian.

[@ritassoul3516]

She only one who haven’t said the country so to protect her from hate 80% she is from Russia + some words she pronounced like a Russian speaking person.

[@uhmmdina5196]

I’m from Uzbekistan, and we don’t usually text there 😃

[@hikialbertovich]

@@uhmmdina5196im was pretty sure that you are from Kazakhstan or Kyrgyzstan, but didn’t expect that you are from Uzbekistan. Im so proud of you. Your English and Korean is so fluent and perfect. People like you motivates me so hard to improve.

[@uhmmdina5196]

@@hikialbertovich omg thank you so much for your kind words. This means the world to me

[@speakeasy911]

One thing they all said is that they think foreign women are "easy."

[@parrtysuz87]

It’s everywhere like that )))

[@jennyb4115]

Wow so sad for foreigners who really have a hard time making meaningful connections while they are there. If I were to visit I might have to have a no dating rule, since the general impression is that the women are easy. Like if that’s what someone thinks about you, you are basically a free call girl. That’s awful!

[@KazumiToscana]

Great video. Korea is a very traditional country with a non open-minded mentality. Foreigners are not welcome in a korean family. There are exception to the rule if the person is white(blond). White people are treated better than darker people. Korean culture is to traditional for my open minded mentality from West Europa. I didn't know South Korea existed till 5 years ago when I started watching a drama on youtube. I got addicted watching drama's😆After the third drama, I started learning korean because I hate to read subtitles. I started using a language app. I was looking for a exchange language partner but I was getting in contact with guys they wanted to hooked up. I was not looking for an Asian man to date. I just wanted to learn korean. I gave up learning Korean after so many disturbing messages, calls and stalkers. I wanted to forget everything about Korea and forgot about Korea for a while. I started studying Japanese since Japanese have been a culture that I always was curious about. I kept my korean profile open because I forgot to delete it. I remember changing my profile: only serious profesional people who wants to learn a language, NO SEX, NO DRAMA, NO BULLSHIT than I met a couple of serious korean guys to exchange a language. I have been learning everything about Korea with them but with a different perspective. Soon, I will travel to Korea and Japan. Most of my friends are male. I love to make new friends. I learned to be direct and honest. I tell what I want and don't want from the beginning of a friendship, so I don't waste my time. I never used Tinder or other dating apps or go to clubs to meet a good guy. That's the worst you can do if you are not looking to hook up for just sex.

[@Aaaa-km8hv]

I am curious about that Asian girl who is fluently in both English and Korean, where exactly does she come from? My guess would be somewhere around Southeast Asia.

[@totochanel2251]

She mentioned in video she’s from Central Asia. In fact she’s from Uzbekistan.

[@mrsgingernoisette]

I'm Turkish and unfortunately my culture and Korean culture are literally the same. Idk how this happens but they react the way. Patriarchy reigns and it's not cool.

[@wanda5548]

that's on being asian!

[@mrsgingernoisette]

@@wanda5548 I always thought Koreans should be better (technology and cleverness) but no LOL we react the same way, the family life, the marriage, care of children, elderly care... Same🙃

[@wanda5548]

@@mrsgingernoisette i think koreans are more conservative than turks, same goes for japanese too.

[@franklins3360]

You should do some night out videos at clubs and bars etc

[@nofxkidssss]

A la Française dan le clip! I feel your pain. Suis Franco Anglais et franchement même à l’ouest j’ai eu des problèmes similaires. Courage!

[@subarsunic]

In this type of videos, many or some foreign girls using tinder, meeting korean men in clubs 😅 PLZ if you want to meet great korean guy, stop using tinder, stop meeting men in clubs Find other ways to meet your kind great korean boyfriend Idk why they expect nice guy in tinder or club

[@emiliasztybor1494]

If I’m listening something in English it’s kinda nice to stick to the language and not suddenly switch to questions in Korean. Not gonna run towards the screen to just read subtitles

[@Voileen]

I lived in S.Korea for 3 years as a White/Jewish American in my mid 20s. I wasn’t interested in dating or finding a partner but I got involved in the underground kink scene and entered a bdsm relationship with a really sweet guy who was a sub. We did this for 8 months. It was a great time, we parted amicably and we are still friends today!

[@Birkzu12]

I feel like I got so lucky.. He wants to take things slow and just get to know me first and isn't clingy. Jiat normal amount of communication and if I want to do something by myself he's like "take care of yourself and enjoy, I'm here if you want to talk"... I got very lucky 😊

[@tujiwara9216]

What a difficult country to live in!!! EVERYTHING HAS TO HAVE A RULE!!!

[@KangTheDigitalNomadGlobeTreker]

😂😂😂😂😂 I feel you on that one. What a shock they sound like Americans. They didn't realize the world 🌎🌍 still has rules it isn't anything goes.

[@Sscottyoutube]

Nothings wrong with that. Without it this country will be absolutely f up

[@saullandiof5768]

Dinara is awesome

[@SUTAWORLDWIDE]

Where did you do your braids bro ?

[@hristiyankunev2032]

The girl in 2:50 looks like Ana de Armas, beautiful woman, and looks so naturally!!!

[@fun_cool_sex]

If there is a man dating a foreign woman, he will speak English and that means he has a high level of education. In any country, the better off the family, the more conservative.You know, the son of a well-off family tends to be a mama's boy. In fact, the family of men dating foreign women is probably more conservative than the average family of Korean men. Likewise, a man who can speak English will come from a richer family, which is also a factor that increases the man's attractiveness and will increase his chances of being a playboy.

[@MichelleLeeSWEKR]

Actually my bf is Korean and he can barely speak any English so we only speak in Korean with each other, but he's a sweetheart :)

[@ko-Daegu]

so are you saying you are a playboy and baby mama just cuz you also know English?? that's sounds a bit harsh don't you think so ?

[@fun_cool_sex]

@@ko-Daegu me?never.I mean not about texting but talking and I'm not good at english and have low education level

[@mile_851]

?? Your comment was highly steriotypical and classistic, actually. In this days you only need internet to learn English and having more money deoesn't mean you have more interest in it or that you are more dedicated. Most people who can speak English are middle class

[@fayseverin2305]

Great point!

[@user-kb2sd2fu5l]

that's so shame , so sorry for you guys get that feeling

[@caritomei7798]

4:39 I have seen this sooo much, not only myself but also friends of mine… They are so secretive about their life because they have a gf already