Dating Black | Episode 6 | BET UK

[@TouMuchMedia]

It would be cool if y’all ended it with mixing the men and the women

[@Amytaal]

Great idea

[@arishaseptember8318]

Thought about the exact same thing 🥺

[@arishaseptember8318]

Thought about the exact same thing 🥺

[@quirkyangelxoxo]

nice idea but it wouldn’t work because black men are too immature and black women are too emotionally invested (+ mature)

[@anorbert38]

Yep! 🥰

[@sakinasitoto]

Love that he brought in learning styles, we are all different at the end of the day

[@beloncekamz2821]

8:56 "If you got draft of a message, that's planned violence". Wait WHAAAAT! 😂😂😂

[@natasha2877]

Very mature answers. Nice to hear communication as a high priority on the list.

[@tjemilua]

People who don’t know Fred’s general personality from 90s baby show would think he’s insane (he’s mad but you know what I mean 🤣)

[@90sBabyShow]

😂😂

[@Laura-sg6ss]

Frr💀💀😭

[@Laura-sg6ss]

@@90sBabyShow 🖤

[@uniquelady1234]

so true 😂

[@MsDarkie93]

We know who he is and we know he’s insane 😂

[@chezelle0076]

It’s When he said *knowing the learning style of your partner* 💡KEY point.

[@thelmakingly5995]

I get why men prefer calls to read more texts and 15min voicenotes but I think Hemah said it better in the previous episode. Sometimes we can’t articulate ourselves in the best possible way in that very moment and you want to make sure you address everything so it’s not a recurring matter in the future. Which also speaks to what Diallo said,there’s a lot of questions to answer to within those texts and he can’t answer all of them so let’s have a conversation instead. I just think realize how your partner communicates coz we all communicate differently. Try meet halfway because a lot gets lost in translation in texts,the way I sent the message is not how you’ll receive and interpret it. Can you tell I’m the read more type😂😂😂we matter ok! I’m trying to learn picking up the phone and calling still, takes mad effort.

[@kwameopoku3576]

Loool wat man prefers calls get out of here

[@bmelamusic]

I would say write down key points and then call. So you can refer back to your notes if you really have lots you need to get off your chest to said person. It’s very clear that most guys do not receive ‘read more’ or podcast voice notes well 😂. Give ‘em a ring but write some bullet points down so you don’t get lost in conversation and lose out on whatever closure you needed.

[@MsDarkie93]

@@kwameopoku3576 Most grown men prefer calls than WhatsApp’ing. Which mature successful men is clinging to his phone all day having serious conversations with their partner

[@eezoge]

"30 minutes? That. Is. A. Podcast" I'm dead 😂

[@msslimmsjules4091]

The same person saying the physical is fleeting is the same person who's got a wandering eye

[@oreolukoga2514]

oooopsie x

[@thelmakingly5995]

Man said there’s a science to post-nut clarity 😂😂😂😂😂 I can’t take it. I respect men that say, I hear that you want to wait and I’m not that person so I’ll let you move on and hope you meet a guy that gets you.🅿️👑

[@christinestanley5584]

I'm from Australia, I'm loving this series , I wish there was an episode where a discussion between both genders occurred, kinda like backchat but obviously less spastic everyone here seems articulate and somewhat level -headed.

[@TheMissFranxx]

Imagine dating the boy in the red cap eesh

[@90sBabyShow]

Would be fun init 😂😂😂😂

[@noire9601]

@@90sBabyShow NOPE!

[@CrystalAsige]

Enjoying the episodes. Would love some of the questions to be more geared towards dating “black” specifically, to hear deeper philosophies and perspectives on the importance of being with, growing with, learning, with, building with someone that looks like you. I am Kenyan and see how successful black relationships impact culturally and spiritually, how they can minister to the communities around them when healthy, and even positively affect us financially/economicaly. Maybe these reflections are coming up in future episodes, I believe that focus would make these conversations unique, incredibly introspective and not the General formats we see about being young and in the dating scene. Doing a great job sis ❤️

[@Ugochi77]

I liked the point about learning styles! Never thought about that

[@anorbert38]

Now the guys are becoming more relaxed you can clearly see who is who and what they're really about.

[@langasc4550]

very truee.... we can see the true personalities

[@haera7142]

Right like how they think it’s okay that he cheated on day one and doesn’t even regret it 🤡

[@anorbert38]

@@haera7142 Exactly!

[@VanessaLyall]

Fred never fails to make me laugh with his theories 🤣

[@DJAfrodite]

These guys say pick up the phone and call. Are you even answering?!

[@happyclappy1805]

preach

[@tolaniadebayo4819]

Ore sounding so responsible in this episode ngl. Got my eyes on him😂😂

[@YourGirlSudanny]

The typing in notes first before sending is so true LOL...Also, the guy in the T cap speaks a lot of sense!

[@emzostyles2318]

Why can’t some ppl just write up their points in the notes app and then call the person and read out their points. Then at least you’re having a normal conversation whilst also not getting distracted or side tracked😂

[@haera7142]

YESS that’s what I was thinking

[@pauldangarembizi3566]

True TRUE innit

[@pauldangarembizi3566]

Respect that straight up

[@est8erw]

This whole series has been noting but amazing to watch I am obsessed

[@bemiandy]

The guy sitting in the middle from the 90s baby ... he's not really contributing much, he's just basically agreeing to what his other gees are saying 😅

[@titoabumere]

The guys from 90’s baby show are wild! 😂

[@sobuaya14]

The difference between the men and women answers, lol

[@zanelefleur7948]

This show is amazing. We need longer episodes. 💕

[@Laura-sg6ss]

Man said HE'S DYING😭💀no plsss

[@abz601]

Looooooooooooooool ‘you don’t like me’ 😂😂😂

[@4sara12]

The learning style point is really interesting

[@smartbaddiie]

What’s the tune played at the beginning please ? That’s dope !

[@adsxo]

10 minute voice notes ??😭

[@laurawilliams4087]

Black UK women were beautiful and classy, but the black men in the UK were ratchet. I feel sorry for bw in the UK.

[@klanij4904]

Honestly they treat women like some object

[@SomeThingsDontNeedCommentary]

This is such a wild statement to make, even worse if it came from a black woman

[@londonbassed5767]

Great episode again

[@yamikanindhlovu4803]

This is already interesting 😅😂

[@toluwak]

One thing about Fred is that he’s true to himself😂

[@bernardjura5582]

These series!!!

[@mrotg7688]

First 2 minutes… I’m already dying🤣

[@beth4990]

This has made me want to date black again. I stepped away for a bit and felt to let down as a black woman, but I think I may be coming back home.

[@amARI589]

Love it

[@angelsinnista9890]

13.57 fred n vp in shock like😄