Dating: How to NOT look desperate

[@Philphil2024]

Everyone should have a Susan on their right shoulder giving them good advice 🙂

[@SusanWinter]

Thank you MH!!

[@erinangelheart3048]

I just love your show and eloquence so much. Even your voice is calming to me.

[@SusanWinter]

Thank you Erin!!

[@LisaGemini]

Isn't she cool? She appeals to singles of ALL AGES and cultures, too. Those bangs will grow quickly, girl! Your hair always looks gorgeous, Susan. I like the cute top/dress, too!

[@marioleclerc4566]

Do not waste your precious time - go for it ask her out express your interest - someone will respond to you eventually. Use this to grow yourself and as a way to shrink your Ego. Enjoy the journey, I do.

[@elizabethmccaul2223]

I want to be honest about the hair situation. My hair is a priority because I wear it everyday. I looked for and found a good hairdresser. One that can cut hair well. Someone with a good eye.

[@womenwhodate7643]

What a long video but worth watching every minute 😍 You have such interesting angles and so much knowledge, it's just fascinating to listen 🥰 All the best!

[@SusanWinter]

You’re so sweet! Thank you so very much!

[@ava-jl1ll]

Need a cliff notes of each episode to takeaway! So good

[@SusanWinter]

Thanks Ava!

[@ava-jl1ll]

@@SusanWinter my pleasure! Future topic: getting back into dating after a big breakup/dating ptsd! Also I laughed out loud about the comment of walking in NY into a different neighborhood. Much love from Ny!!

[@christinahernandez3533]

I love you Susan! Thank you for giving amazing advice and sharing your knowledge and experience. So interesting and helpful.

[@abeach5420]

📢📢 " . . . *need a cliff notes of each episode to takeaway! So good* " { *legit best comment 'ever' by another in regards to Miss Susan} Miss Susan . . . I've shared before that what you share-give-respond about is ALWAYS SO MUCH MORE than the video title!! *GOLLLD* in ever moment in every share, be it long form video or short.

[@SusanWinter]

thank you!!

[@linnlinn6131]

Im new to this but what are the $$ being offered for? To ask questions?

[@SusanWinter]

no, not in the replay. It's just a 'thank you.' In the live show you can ask questions

[@davidpreston821]

I think there was a difficulty with my computer, apologies!

[@SusanWinter]

No worries at all!

[@SusanWinter]

David, please send me your question to [e-mail]. Happy to respond. Thank you for letting me know it was your computer. I was going to discontinue doing the show altogether. If my viewers are doing super chat and I cannot see their commentary, then I need to find another format to interact.

[@joshua4300-v9p]

Damn! Would of loved to jump on the chat. Is there a schedule of when these live chats occur?

[@SusanWinter]

Hi there! Yes, every Thursday at 11am PST! I announce the topic the day before on my IG and my community page!

[@joshua4300-v9p]

Thank you Susan!

[@azmike3572]

"In a relationship and lonely..." "Why Must I be Lonely in Love?" (Dan Fogelberg, 1987)

[@sigridvonsenger734]

Brilliant! Really appreciate your insight into reasons for wanting a relationship. You give great clarity into realistic and unrealistic motivations. It’s really important and no one I’ve read or heard has done this so well before. Thank you!

[@meganohyeah7200]

I have a question for you Susan - As soon as I decide I like someone, I start acting weird around them. How do I stop this?

[@aigbokhanosezele3096]

I know you can teach you more you need to know .

[@azmike3572]

She needs you to define "weird".

[@EleviaBruce]

I love your channel. Thank you so much. I watch your videos while I drink my morning coffee. :)

[@joeydevilliers1752]

Good day Mrs Winter I'm quite new to your channel and I'm not sure if you've ever covered a topic relating to the death of a person in a close relationship. If so, could you please point it out to me. It would be greatly appreciated. Thank you for your inspiring work and sound advice. Joey

[@SusanWinter]

Hi Joey. I have about 600 videos so I might not be able to remember the exact title... but I did address losing one's partner

[@SusanWinter]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/lYSoZn2MaaqGhK8 Found it!!!

[@marmitch5056]

Great episode as ever

[@SusanWinter]

Thank you!

[@sethtenrec]

A: don’t be desperate

[@dangfd551]

Wouldn’t it be better to not be desperate instead of not looking desperate?

[@Lioness_of_Gaia]

❤ Thanks for all great advice!

[@cynthiawarren9379]

I always enjoy your videos- Thanks!

[@2FancyPants100]

My first day looking through your videos...very much liking being here...🙂

[@alexflips393]

Good topic Susan, looking forward to watching.

[@SusanWinter]

Thank you, Alex!

[@alexflips393]

Some of it is so useful. I love being able to see a woman’s perspective.

[@heiditapio2105]

Thanks!

[@SusanWinter]

How absolutely sweet of you! Thank you so much for your generosity!

[@emilytreu2312]

Whoopi!!!!

[@debralondon2402]

Thank you for this video. Helpful.

[@sigridvonsenger734]

Thanks

[@SusanWinter]

THANK YOU!!

[@miraarim]

Thank you Susan

[@miraarim]

@@deboraholaniyi3977 no because he did love bombing, gaslighting, is controlling, manipulative, I believe he’s a narcissist. I’m hurt and on my own with a baby on the way. I don’t even know how to date in the future now

[@SusanWinter]

🤗 My pleasure!

[@Linda-eo1tc]

My grandparents were from Split!!! You will LOVE it!! Dubrovnik too. Lucky girl!!

[@SusanWinter]

Thanks Linda. Going to visit the lovely home of your relatives. I've heard it's magical

[@SusanWinter]

@newinhaven Yum!! I can't wait. You'll see all the photos

[@ningjing1113]

phd means nothing, if you want one, you can probably get one, although if it's a phd from a renounced school that tells you this person is really really really boring. i actually think that's a turn-off if someone has a .phd.

[@sherriflemming3218]

They're book smart. However some true academics can be very impersonal in interpersonal relationships.

[@kathrynmuller974]

Hello, Thank you. I enjoy your content

[@timothygreatrick5189]

Hi susan

[@SusanWinter]

Hello there!

[@fk356]

For me i don't need younger men👏