Letting Go of Someone You Love

How do you let go of someone you love? How do you stop thinking about them? Love Advice shares the tools to move ‘future forward’ while honoring the past. Learn how to process the breakup and prepare for a future love.
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[@paige8361]

Someone told me that men are all like flavors in an ice cream shop. Mint chocolate chip is so good and might be hard to get over because it's all you know at the moment, but you've NEVER tasted or seen a hot fudge sundae with whipped cream & sprinkles on top yet. Both good, but one is much better. As much as it hurts right now, you don't know what you haven't seen or tasted yet. Get excited about the future and work on yourself! Love you Susan and best wishes tomorrow ❤

[@aludrenknight1687]

@23:43 "Why are you trying so hard with somebody who's trying so little?" *gut punch*

[@npkrn6764]

"...YOU NEED TO PLAY THIS GAME WITH SOMEONE AS EQUALLY UNHEALTHY, AND I'M NOT." Thank you, Susan. This is pure gold. 🔥 I love this and if you don't mind, I will use this if I ever have to!

[@kyleharr10]

what's really really hard to accept is that this girl dumped me and I'm still in love with her and I know she still loves me, but instead of working on things she just goes and ends it at the first sign of issues. absolutely heart wrenching.

[@alkaiable]

you are not alone....

[@kyleharr10]

Thanks ❤️

[@judyb8018]

Perfect timing. Keep the dream. Replace the person.

[@SusanWinter]

Absolutely!

[@anitaspertos2544]

It's not easy but you have no choice but have too

[@debralondon2402]

Amen. Why do you try so hard with someone who tries and does so little.

[@jasonreid1332]

Even with a black eye you will be beautiful. Please continue to share your story.

[@pb11118]

My husband (long distance) told me last night he 'fake' broke up with me. He was begging for me to come back. I can't deal with the emotional see saw. I'm so glad I stood firm even though I loved him. Going through my GLOW UP. Shout out to everyone 🌟

[@Babesinthewood97]

Yesss!!! Fake break up? That’s borderline abusive. Say no to him. I love that you’re having a glow up. Do not give away the new glow to him. He will probably try to get you back when he sees that you’re doing well, only to come back and break you and leave you again. Don’t make that mistake. I did. It wears you down.

[@pb11118]

@@Babesinthewood97 Thankyou! Yes, well the cool thing is when Im done, Im done. He has tried to come back, it's so boring to me. Im at the point now where Im in disbelief I entertained that nonsense. Yay! We are FREE! Centering myself

[@faithludlow1229]

Wishing you a speedy recovery

[@David1000BC]

Sometimes just got to hear the truth told in the right way ..

[@Jillian15]

Thank you....I needed to hear that 🙏

[@anitaspertos2544]

This is how you learn you won't forget them but eventually you have to let go

[@katarinak]

Great show, as always. Bravo Susan!👏💞

[@truecrimecurator9874]

I didn’t realize how much I needed this info, thank you! All the best to you for a speedy recovery 🙏

[@SusanWinter]

Glad it was helpful!

[@viviancampbell1331]

Thank goodness I know better.

[@jenniecandle1171]

Thanks so much for another amazing video! Have been watching you for a couple of years but too shy to speak in chats🤭 Hope your operation goes smoothly and you'll recover asap

[@SusanWinter]

Glad you're with us!! And operation went well. Just look purple under my right eye...(but you should see the other guy!)

[@TheFreedPerspective]

SUSAN! I want to see that whole shirt!!! I love it so much😁 Also, ah-mazing message as always, done in only the Susan-way😘

[@SusanWinter]

Yay! Thank you!

[@31Alden]

Sending all good wishes for your eye surgery, Susan. 🙏

[@SusanWinter]

Thank you! 😊

[@nickadams1519]

Sending Love ❤️…@31Alden…Are you single?

[@masriellene5883]

Bless you! Thank you for being an authentic healer! 💜 Your ability to restore peace is remarkable. Your insights on energy transcend the limitations of labels and psychological analysis that often lead to feeling stuck. Your incredible work is truly appreciated!

[@viviancampbell1331]

Best wishes.

[@Pangetmaggitara]

Hi Susan, good luck with your operation

[@debralondon2402]

Hope for surgery success and speedy recovery!!

[@SusanWinter]

Thank you. It was done this morning. All good. Much appreciated

[@sammielisabeth4928]

Best of luck with your upcoming procedure, Susan 😊

[@SusanWinter]

Thank you!! It went well.

[@magdanovacmissouritigers6405]

Very good video. Dear Susan, wishing u a speedy recovery after the eye surgery!

[@SusanWinter]

Thanks Magda. It went well. Here with my ice pack taped to my face while I say hi to you!!!!

[@magdanovacmissouritigers6405]

Speedy recovery Dear Susan ! 🤗get well soon please! @@SusanWinter

[@anitaspertos2544]

I really got stronger through this yes I was hurt but had to let go

[@ventibreeze6648]

My Taurus dumped and blocked me for the second time this year, he did it online, instead of him just dumping me and saying bye and leaving it at that, he kept me chatting for three hours telling me how sorry he was and how bad he felt and how he thought he was a bad person, he told me he was crying, that he felt sick, I just wanted it to be over my heart was broken. Why did he stay chatting for hours instead of just dumping and going quickly?

[@Ashley-ps8ej]

I manifest a person 100% into me then time passes and they turn to shit..turn on me. Feel against me. 2 people in one and 2 faced. Why ? How stop this pattern. Same pattern new person over and over..I'm consistent stable and loving there's no reason for this to even happen . I'm ready and wanting a forever relationship..so why this then?

[@cindygrunwald1375]

😢

[@tonymontana-uw1bq]

All the best with your eye surgery Susan.❤🇦🇺🇺🇲

[@SusanWinter]

Thank you!! ❤❤❤

[@sherriflemming3218]

Best wishes in your surgery and recovery, Susan. 🌞

[@debralondon2402]

Don’t waste your time still trying.

[@Matilda130_]

Please Susan reply to the previous video's comment, I've requested for a discussion

[@njcaveman79]

Hi

[@mahaalotaibi8352]

Ok Susan I have major depression and still feel so much pain at my two failed relationships. One was my first ex husband that was 10 years ago! Second is the ex bf I met after him 6 years ago! I am so desperate to get over them/heartbreak ?? I feel cursed. Its been years wasted of my life! I even got remarried and have children now but I am still stuck in my past heartbreak ?? Whats the solution for this ? I really think I have a disease.

[@nphardin1]

It could possibly be OCD. I would chat with a therapist or psychiatrist. I have OCD and it sounds like you are dealing with obsessive/intrusive thoughts, which are prohibiting you from moving forward. Best wishes to you

[@kiamia9112]

How would one connect with another person on your channel?

[@SusanWinter]

I believe you can just tag them

[@kiamia9112]

@@SusanWinter yes, but you still can’t connect outside of the live show

[@lucyloo7457]

❤ good luck with your surgery dear Susan. He just chose his ex wife over me. It’s so demeaning. I can’t say, I wish him the best. His is a douche bag. Sorry.

[@nickadams1519]

Sending Love ❤️…Lucy…Are you single?