Dating in Poland - 6 Things to Know Before Dating a Polish Girl

[@emiliawarszawabournemouth7416]

Szczera prawda 👌

[@LoveMyPoland]

And never change ❤️

[@cray97w36]

teściowa nigdy cię nie lubi i nigdy nie polubi :D

[@hankhenry8160]

a moze byc NIESZCZERA?! prawda to prawda. period.

[@dasboot5903]

@@cray97w36 < A moja ex tesciowa, to po rozwodzie od razu zarzyczyla mowic do siebie: "prosze pani" - a nie mamo !!!! Screw you - even better :o))

[@MrThewieszkto]

I'm Polish guy who is listening about how to date Polish women from a American xD

[@LoveMyPoland]

About advice for non Polish guys 😜

[@AGU20VT]

Must tell my wife xD

[@michener1622]

Same

[@michener1622]

And I think we spell an American not “a American “

[@mormolief7670]

To słabo świadczy o Twoim powodzeniu, lub dobrze o twojej ciekawości (jeśli, tak jak ja, uznać niewinną ciekawość za pozytywną cechę) 😂😂😂

[@crazy8daisy]

True. Every mama has 6th sense about boyfriends.

[@wladyslawbukowski]

Being pleasant to mum is one thing but the most important thing is to be in the first place is to be honestly sincere about it. Mothers are very observant and they easily sense pretending.

[@LoveMyPoland]

Absolutely right!

[@ligayamutia747]

true

[@powder-phun949]

There's no excuse not to have a girlfriend ouch

[@rzul]

Nub

[@MaddiedeVillada]

Or boyfriend. Yeah, didn't like that part.

[@RainmanWyzwoliciel]

I have one serious enough "excuse" - I don't like people. I am straight, therefore I am pointing girls right now because of my sexuality, but the longer I talk to girls and women, in general, the more I dislike playing with them and putting any emotional effort towards them. Most of them are not worth it, just like most of the guys are not worthy of being my friend.

[@PsicologoJulioNieto]

Jajajajajjajaja

[@diegoenrique4510]

@@PsicologoJulioNieto you laugh in español :o

[@kotpepe]

I spent my youth in Poland. I studied there. My wife is from Poland of course. Polish women are the best.

[@azsunshine711]

@Angelina Po polsku sie mowi 'prosze?' But in English say, 'Excuse me!?'

[@azsunshine711]

Thank you. 🙂😊 I am a Polish woman and I totally agree! We are a unique combination of everything a woman is. We are beautiful, passionate, loving, caring. When we get angry, we don't hide it. When we are happy, the world knows it. We are like fire. Only experienced should be near us. 😉

[@grazynaparuzel574]

@@lidiastrong3005 And you feel better now?🤣🤣

[@grazynaparuzel574]

@@KrissowskiM Bad choices.

[@grazynaparuzel574]

@@KrissowskiM Are all polish man alcoholic?! If that true, than you are too!

[@mrbill2600]

As an outsider, one of the best things in my youth was growing up in a Polish neighborhood. All of my friends were Polish; they were tough, stubborn, hardworking, and religious. At that time (the late 1950s) in order to date a Polish girl you first had to get permission from her brothers. They knew your reputation and if they told her that you were not dating material you were definitely history. And if she didn't have any brothers she would rely on her friends brothers.

[@LoveMyPoland]

Love hearing things like this. Thanks for sharing! 😊

[@andzelikasmusz8935]

Which neighborhood did you grow up in?

[@mrbill2600]

@@andzelikasmusz8935 I lived on the 4900 block of Magoun Ave. East Chicago, IN. I lived just a few houses North of Saint Stanislaus Catholic Church. On a tour of Poland, I had the honor of visiting Kraków's Wawel Cathedral and praying at the reliquary of Saint Stanislaus.

[@andzelikasmusz8935]

@@mrbill2600 amazing 👏

[@treytucker5619]

😎👍🏼

[@ebarteldes]

I met my Polish wife through her roommate, who was my ESL student here in NY. We all went together to a club and the rest is history. 13 years married in 2019

[@Vonatar74]

Amusing but I don’t think this differs from anywhere else in the world, in essence. Be a decent guy, respectful, well-mannered, cultured and ambitious. I think most women, no matter where they’re from would say that’s what they look for in a man. As for the “hot tempered and headstrong” I don’t really agree. Polish girls are raised to be strong, independent and to have confidence in themselves. They are raised by their mothers and grandmothers who had to be strong through Poland’s recent history. This isn’t temper, this is strength of character.

[@Lena-gm6my]

Well put dow

[@sirgallant5000]

You are not a man, you never dated women AND ou never dated foreign women. You have zero knowledge on the subject and your opinion is irrelevant. "Be a decent guy, respectful, well-mannered, cultured and ambitious. " Women give just the worst advice possible. "Be a dick, but make it funny"

[@johnd7994]

Vonatar great comment! spot on!

[@Vonatar74]

Ryszard Bizon Thanks for that, but my Polish wife would disagree 😀

[@BonnieBoestar]

@@sirgallant5000 You sound like a whiny incel haha

[@margaretheller4884]

About the temper, I'm Polish and what I usually hear from my Spanish friends is 'oh I wish girls in Spain were so reasonable as polish girls'. Also, no, most 20-25year polish girls won't ask you to pay for anything. Its the thing of the past, especially in the cities.we do require respect tho. I enjoyed the video, keep up the good work

[@jekubos]

Paying is not so simple so you can say "man always pays". The general rule is that the one who invite pay. So it is even possible, that girl will pay for a date. But of course men often suggest that they will do it anyway. But the most important thing is to do not force anyone. If a guy says that he want to pay and girl says "no", just accept it. I would say, that it is good for man to suggest that he will pay, but if a woman don't want it, then don't force her and let her pay for herself.

[@GulienIthilmir]

@@jekubos Preech, man, preech! ^_^ Plus, I would add, do not feel offended when it's the woman that wants to pay for a meal/ coffee/ drink- do not argue, just say "Thank you" and smile. :)

[@zataga28]

Don't tell my boyfriend, cause he is paying for most things and I find it sweet 🤣

[@mac3770]

Are you high or something? Or simply a liar?

[@KrissowskiM]

Don’t buy into that crap! As you can see in responses from Polish women - they are materialistic as fuck...

[@HabadzaKalfa]

When I was about to meet my wife's parents for the first time, she seemed very concerned with it. Finally she told me why: her father was worried about whether I could drink vodka, as foreigners usually had an issue with it. To me it was a relief to hear that, though. I figured I'll be just fine: Lonely Planet Polish phrasebook had told me that "only Russians and Finns can match prodigious vodka consumption of the Poles", and I have this perk of being a Finn.

[@cherylbrylka8211]

I am from Philippines my husband is Polish..

[@henryzegzula6975]

I'm in love with a Phillipina and am 100 percent Polish

[@eksrayss]

Girls from the Philippines are great. I am 100 percent Polish

[@MrPanSzymon]

"Mamusha"

[@KubuśpuchatekTVN]

Mateczka Rassija.

[@GdzieJestNemo]

one thing - night club in poland usually means a strip club. Keep that in mind not to get into awkward situations. General rule of thumb for dealing with parents: you need to impress the father to get the girl and mother to get the guy

[@marcellus7616]

Fajny chłop z Ciebie. Fajnie się ogląda i słucha. Wszystkiego najlepszego w Nowym Roku.

[@LoveMyPoland]

Dziękuję Ci barrrrdzo! Szczęśliwego Nowego Roku!

[@evabrown3128]

What an interesting perspective. I like your movies as I can find out how you see us, Poles and now, women as well. Sometimes is funny, surprising, sometimes I don’t agree but always I have something to think about. It’s enriching, thank you! Keep going :)

[@jesman3]

Sorry it took me so long to finally watch the video I requested. So interesting. I love your videos! Thanks old friend!!!

[@LoveMyPoland]

No problem. Thanks, Jessman!

[@jadziamary7301]

Wow! Naprawdę przestudiowane! Cieszę się, że się tego podejmujesz! Tylko jedno: nie wszystkie polki są takie kłótliwe jak sądzisz hahaha. I... Nie spotkałam się jeszcze z tak popularnym tańcem. Jak widać, młodsze pokolenie jest mniej chętne do tego. Bardzo ci dziękuję za ten film!!! Woah! I'm so happy for you making this! I have only one thought: not every polish woman is so moody and likes arguing, yelling all the time, like you think hahah. And... I didn't see so many dancing people. Maybe young people aren't so keen on dancing nowtimes. But, lots of thanks for that video!!!

[@marimetr4261]

It was easier for you because your girlfriend helped you and her parents not fluent in English so they could not ask you so many questions but usually this is what happens when you come to pick up their daughter they would interrogate you and ask so many questions and tell you to make sure you get her back safely and early home

[@duerandaggi]

That's a beautiful balcony & garden! Great video + nice scenery, thanks!

[@mayradell3953]

You give very interesting observations about culture. Thank you

[@tomektuchowski85]

W Polsce kobieta ma bardzo silną pozycję.Matka Żona Babcia to pierwsza linia możesz z nimi walczyć początkowo wydaje ci się że odniosles sukces ale pozornie. Przegrasz zawsze.W Polsce jest matryjarchat. Czy to się komuś podoba czy nie.Winna jest nasza historia my szliśmy na dzikie pola a one rządziły.Potem byly powstania i znowu chłopów brakło. One rządziły.Ale ja niemam nic przeciwko temu. Sprawdziły się.

[@LoveMyPoland]

Interesting history, thanks!

[@marcinkopka3641]

Tomek Tuchowski Powiedz to feministkom, kamień na kamieniu nie pozostanie ;)

[@KalaEl]

Ale dalej większość panów ma problem przywitać się też z kobietą podczas podawania sobie ręki w gronie głównie mężczyzn. To na pewno z szacunku i strachu :O

[@idontfeelsogood2063]

Kala El Część Pań nie ma z podaniem sobie ręki problemu, a część na wyciągnięcie ręki robi dziwne spojrzenia i wymowne gesty. To jak się witamy to niepisane zasady które poznajemy w trakcie życia, bo nie ma jednego jedynego słusznego sposobu witania się. Wielu mężczyzn prawdopodobnie ma podobne doświadczenia do moich i nauczyło się tego przez takie niemiłe sytuacje. (Pewnie wielu ma też inne i robi to z innego powodu, lub są po prostu niemiłymi ludźmi) Wydaje mi się że gdybyś była na miejscu mężczyzn, szybko zrozumiała byś dlaczego tak jest chociaż sam nie potrafię tego wytłumaczyć.

[@KalaEl]

@@idontfeelsogood2063 szczerze nie znam żadnej kobiety, która obraża się, bo mężczyzna się z nią wita. Rozumiem ten argument, ale postaw się też na miejscu kobiety - która jest wykluczona z grupy (najczęściej nawet dołączający na nią nie spojrzy) a uzasadnieniem "dlaczego" jest to, że kiedyś jakaś jedną kobieta krzywo spojrzała.

[@gabrieladabrowska1691]

As a polish girl I can confirm, this is 100% true

[@dobelotan9740]

Gabriela are you single

[@sonaive898]

Currently trying to date a girl in Poland. I’m really excited yet scared for what’s to come, but she is quite the best and funniest person I’ve ever met. She is really far away from me but lucky for her I can fly her here with me where she belongs, with her Romeo. Wish me luck!

[@AJ-bm8mp]

Thank you for sharing this video!!! From USA!

[@annawojciechowska7312]

I live in Poland for almost all my life and i haven't met any single girl that wants you to pay the bill for her

[@LoveMyPoland]

I am sorry. It is a nice gesture that you are being deprived of...

[@Railie777]

It's not about wanting to pay for you. They will pay for themselves, but they quietly expect that you'll at least offer to pay. I have always paid for myself, but if a guy wouldn't offer to pay - well, it was a little bit weird.

[@LoveMyPoland]

@@Railie777 amen!

[@zuzaj7054]

@@Railie777 I would say it depends from a person. I'm also a Polish girl and I feel very uncomfortable when someone offers to pay for me. I don't think that men should offer paying, this idea is strange for me and very old fashioned.

[@12412...]

I like it when a guy pays for me or at least offers to

[@pro-gamer-com-pl4739]

niezłe, dobrą robotę ogarniasz nam tu w internetach człowieku, #props

[@KrissowskiM]

Ferdynand Wspanialy widac ze jestes nowy w Internetach....

[@KrissowskiM]

PRO-GAMER-COM-PL reklamując nasze sprzedajne szony robi dobra robotę?

[@wildresin6292]

@Daniel Menefrego ale wy jestescie stereotypowi i strasznie kkrytyczni wobec kogos. Szony to wy jestescie. Tak jak facet moze sie umawiac z kim chce tak i kobieta. Przez takich jak wy polska ma opinie bycia ciemnogrodem.

[@wildresin6292]

@Daniel Menefrego opinia jedno obrazanie drugie. Uzywanie pejoratywnych wyrazen wzgledem kogos nie jest wyrazaniem tyle opinii co zwyklego chamskiego obrazania.

[@wildresin6292]

@Daniel Menefrego ponadto stwierdzasz w swojej takzwanej opinii ze szanujace sie kobiety nie beda z zagranicznymi. O ile to muzulmanin ktory ze względu na swoja religie nie moze jej szanowac to nie ma podstaw do stwierdzenia ze dana osoba sie nie szanuje.

[@aleksandra9778]

So true as a polish girl I can tell everything is true 😂 and Mamusia is most important ❤️

[@pritpalsingh7559]

Family Matters❤️

[@spokesperson2079]

😂😂😂

[@EyeScreamPL]

I couldn't stop laughin at some of your dating tips, especially about getting to know a lil bit of Polish history to impress 'his' date's dad, uncle, etc.. :D Good job and I'm sure it works! :D (no sarcasm at all!!! : ] )

[@ceebee3083]

No need to be rude lol

[@EyeScreamPL]

@@ceebee3083 Hmm? :|

[@asdfg9531]

I'm Polish and i definitely agree, i would be impressed by foreign people knowing my country's history...and my dad would be over the moon ;)

[@MarcinKrukar]

True :) So, maybe next episode abut Polish wedding? :)

[@LoveMyPoland]

Coming!

[@HumanProduction1333]

Including video footage :D

[@jedenz3]

Love My Poland! Gonna be interesting. Can’t wait ✌️😁

[@E.S.K.]

My mother never said anything about who I'm dating, but we never been too close. However, I know girls whose best friend is their mother.

[@casmon71]

Love the way u speak, I can understand everything. Greets from Wrocław

[@RoninShinobi88]

I'm dating a Polish girl and even though she was raised in America all of this is still accurate to her.

[@nootcracker]

damn, dating polish girl raised in america, im jealous

[@lidiastrong3005]

bad for you(((

[@KrissowskiM]

Run while you can!

[@itsmeGeorgina]

What about dating a male? I'm norwegian, planning on moving to Poland when I retire ☺

[@monikamarciniszyn7445]

If you have anything valuable to contribute to our society, the udea of moving here could be acceptable. If, however, all you think about is to find a place you could anjoy- you are not welcome

[@Alicja100]

Monika Marciniszyn Whaaaat?!😂

[@Alicja100]

Hei, i live in Norway since 2008, I am dating Norwegian guy halv a year now. People are the same i would say, what makes difference is a culture. But this is not major in our case, more funny. So You can expect similar situation;) I think though that finding a Wright guy is same difficult as in Your own country, you need to kiss a plenty of frogs ;)

[@KrissowskiM]

Don’t come! Keep the feminazi bullshit in your country! In Poland - no leftard ideas are welcomed and we don’t need scandinavian harpys!

[@tomskc123]

@@KrissowskiM And how about ideas from incels like you?

[@silverbubbles4728]

Grew up in Buffalo, NY. Love to go to Polka dances. Miss that alot!

[@ewasobczyk3789]

From my experience: you'd have to impress my mum but never by buying her gifts. She judges how much a guy loves me from the way he looks at me or talks to me. Also, interesting - yes, rich - no. It's important to us that a guy has energy and passion. The more hobbies he has, the better. If he has an interesting job (like professional traveller or a cook) that's even better. And in terms of splitting the bill, I think it should be proportional to how much you earn. So if you earn twice as much as me I'll pay every third time.

[@michaeldemny612]

Actually, I really enjoyed this, thank you.

[@abdallaa7med454]

I am watching from Cairo, Egypt. Thanks a lot for this information

[@markburckhard553]

You are correct that Poles know more about America than Americans know about Poland. One of several books I read about Polish history was Adam Zamoyski's 1,000 years of Polish History. They've been around for a long time and their national anthem reflects that in the words, "We are still here".

[@ysy662]

First! :D Yes! Polish mother-in-laws can be intimidating and many times purely destructive, and I really mean it. There is even a short lyric about them: 'szła teściowa przez las, pogryzły ja żmije, żmije wyzdychały a teściowa żyje' which goes more-less like this 'mother-in-law went thru the woods and was bitten by vipers, vipers are dead now but mother-in-law very much alive'. On the other hand polish fathers-in-law, the traditional ones are much, much easier going, especially if you know how to work with your hands (fixing cars or home improvements) and have moderate to high tolerance for adult beverages. :) Man who is unable to work with his hands is commonly referred in Poland as 'Dupa' (Ass), and will score very low on a father-in-law scale, the only reprieve from that is if a dude makes really a shitload of money and can afford hiring people to do these jobs without hurting a home budget in a least. :D You forgot; ABSOLUTELY MUST OPEN CAR DOOR FOR HER ...like an old-fashioned chauffeur!! They expect that! God forbid you get behind a wheel and press the door button or pull a lever on a pass side for her from the inside! You are TOAST as a dating material! LoL!

[@LoveMyPoland]

Thank you, Lysy2!

[@ysy662]

Love My Poland! Anytime! Honestly...If I was to do it over again I would NEVER marry a Polish woman :) (Polska baba) LoL

[@LoveMyPoland]

It's not for a weak man, that's for sure!

[@hankhenry8160]

@@ysy662 dump hher/divorce. marry ukrainka!

[@KrissowskiM]

Gdzie ty zyjesz człowieku? Jakie otwieranie drzwi samochodu? Nikt tego nie robi od dekad! Wystarczy poobserwować zachowanie ludzi w miastach. Ale dobrze ze zaczynasz cos tam z zycia rozumieć. Opisales nie teścia i teściowa tylko ogólnie sytuacje pokazująca różnice miedzy mezczyznami a kobietami. Zaczynasz juz rozumieć ze małżeństwo to toksyczna sprawa i nie służy mezczyznie. Czas na wiecej czerwonych pigułek - posłuchaj o MGTOW...

[@ariacosta6775]

I actually went searching for videos like this talking about the culture differences between the USA and Poland, specifically because on my study abroad trip to Poland, I met for the first time in my life a guy I was interested in. We met at a dance club a few times, and I was the one who asked him out on a date, which normally I had never done before, and even though my visit was short, we stayed in contact when I went back to the states through social media, chatting virtually almost everyday (though me being the positive american, I chatted way more than he did), and it would be about 7 months now as friends. Naturally, the more we've stayed in contact the more I want to get to know about his culture and about him, but im mostly hesitant to broach anything romantic since I'm not sure where he stands, what I can say or cant say haha.(for context, Im in my early 20's, and im Venezuelan American so a lot of polish culture like family and religion crosses over, so i really like that) Americans are more the type to go for it and be blunt, dating is more casual (I dont date since I have little time for it), and I can see interacting with a polish guy is more slow going , cautious, and not quick to put a label onour friendship since they seem more serious about commitment, which was novel to me. Naturally I got very curious on what all this meant from a polish guy in the 21st century 🤣 As a venezuelan american woman, i can say with confidence a lot of the traits you mentioned about polish women are the same in my culture, so at least if I ever get the nerve to ask him out again seriously, he will be used to my temper hahaha! on that note, Id love to see what poles say about dating culture from both women and men 🤔

[@karolinar3291]

Well Boyyyyy I’m a Polish woman living in US - & it’s astonishing but 9/10 you are correct. Some statements I would phrase differently or wouldn’t generalize that much but; overall 👍🏻

[@phizzle_dizzle]

What was the 1/10 that was wrong? Lol

[@TheAmerykanka]

True : impress mamusia and you good

[@theprinz9039]

Exactly

[@Greg74948]

1:30 You don't say. Having or not having a girlfriend/boyfriend has nothing to do with forms of communication. It's all up to you, your style, appearance, personality, etc.

[@ceebee3083]

As for paying for a girl, well yea, if you invite her somewhere, you better be prepared to pay but if it was a mutual initiative or she said something like "oh let's go *there*, in 90% of cases, she's going to pay for herself.

[@KrissowskiM]

Cee Bee Hahahaha, where? In men paradise?

[@anneyfrancis701]

That’s true

[@kwiatrus]

mate! i love your clips. sooner or later i really hope meeting you:)

[@martinid2514]

Currently dating a polish girl, it's so difficult, she gets mad a lot, hence why I'm here, I agree when you say about being a gentleman but I would treat every date the same, I'd still open car doors and pull out chairs especially if I liked them, that's universal, I also agree about family, she has 3 kids back in Poland and they are her first priority, don't get in the way of a polish mum especially when she's mad. I dated an Italian which honestly is much easier, they are easier to make happy. Thanks for the extra insight into dating polish women, I subscribed

[@LoveMyPoland]

In my experience, my wife can explode easily but gets over it in a flash. No passive aggressive crap. I prefer this method 😉

[@onlinejobsforpersonaltrain3148]

Dude I just laughed at your comment because me (I'm from the UK) and my gf (polish) just broke up. It would seems almost every day she would have a go at me about something...like I could never do anything right! I came to this video to understand her more. We won't be getting back together but it helps me understand where I went wrong. It seems the small things are big things for polish girls. I treated her well...took her to many cities in europe, paid for many things and treated her well...but it was small mistakes i didn't know I was making that would make her blow up every time. i just thought she was being dramatic. If I didn't txt her back within an hour it was a problem. My attention was important to her and I just thought she was needy. Culture definitely had a part in our break up. Are you still with your gf?

[@arcanjomelo]

@@onlinejobsforpersonaltrain3148, maybe she was a malignant narcissist as my ex Polish girlfiend

[@daxnet6583]

You cracked it! As a non-dancer I had to compensate in other areas. Good stuff! Realy like your vids.

[@wolandpiotr]

Great video!

[@jamesmcpatterson2733]

Polen is a very beautiful country!!

[@monikamarciniszyn7445]

"" Polen"?? I dont think so

[@KubuśpuchatekTVN]

@@monikamarciniszyn7445 verfluchten polen

[@monikamarciniszyn7445]

There is no" Polen". Just Polska

[@monikamarciniszyn7445]

@@KubuśpuchatekTVN Another brainless creature?😁😁

[@KubuśpuchatekTVN]

@@monikamarciniszyn7445 chyba Ty 😘

[@claudiocarocci721]

Hi and good job for the channel…is English commonly use in Cracow and in general in Poland? On 10 people how many speak English fluently? Thanks a lot

[@LoveMyPoland]

Many young people can speak English fluently in Cracow 💪

[@anno9260]

Dziekuje :-) I'm sharing it with my Nepalese boyfriend :-) Thank you so much for the tutorial x

[@monitale]

Hi! A lot.of videos talk about dating polish girls, I was wondering how are the men and why no one talk about it? :) Btw I found your video and I'm happy you have a new follower! ^_^ I'll go to Poland soon.

[@LoveMyPoland]

Good question 😊

[@zdenekzdun410]

They will expect from you to know how to cook and to like it. If your plans become serious you will enjoy having the last say in the home and your decisions about everytking in familly will be the law. But there is also price, you will be responsible for children health and education. It will be your bit to keep familly feed and house clean. Some guys will share the house duties but it likely will be them 'hepling you in your duties'. Perhaps right thing to do will be to use your powers to 'train' the partner to participate in house routines.

[@mrscuevas71]

@@LoveMyPoland I hope you will make a video for dating Polish men soon! I'm curious about what young boys are taught about dating and if the father or mother are the bigger influence on the young man. My teenage daughter has a male teenage penpal in Poland and I need some insight in case this becomes more than a friendship 😊

[@po3chleb3]

Men prefer to suffer in secret than to talk about their failures.

[@grzesieeeeeeeek]

nice garden man

[@KubuśpuchatekTVN]

U sąsiadów 🤙

[@toddbonin6926]

Roll Tide ... and I love your channel!

[@LoveMyPoland]

Roll Tide Roll! 🐘🐘🐘

[@wiolettajamroz1004]

Super odcinek

[@shakeitoff1099]

Well I'm Polish and I don't really care what my mum thinks of my decisions, hate dancing But the temper, ambition and intelligence are true 😊😁

[@KatarzynaJo]

Spot on! :)

[@MaciejNowikiewicz]

A “night club” sounds sooo wrong for a polish viewer. It’s rather a place where men go to “watch” women doing “things” 😅 when talking about places destined for hanging out at night it’s much better to use “club” rather than a “night club” - but that’s for the Poles. Dont know about the rest of the world. But since you said it son comfortably I’m sure it has to be correct for the American audience

[@nazgullord6849]

How long did it take you too learn basic polish?

[@LoveMyPoland]

It took me about 3 months, BUT I had classes 5 days a week for 4 hours a day at certified school. I would expect a typical personal to become communicative in 6 mos to 1 year (assuming you put in the work ).

[@nazgullord6849]

Love My Poland! , would you recommend something like babbel, or are face to face classes better?

[@KrissowskiM]

Nazgul Lord what is your motivation to learn?

[@adamnowak6032]

😁 very good observations.

[@bigtimejames8641]

Great video man I am Irish and Italian and German my mom keeps telling me I am either polish or Slovak are Slovak or polish women hard to date?

[@LoveMyPoland]

Polish women are hard to date, yes. Unless you can handle a very strong - willed woman 💪. I'm still working on it 😉

[@bigtimejames8641]

Love My Poland! Awesome man I didn’t know that haha seems Slovak women are relax and chill same with Irish women haha

[@beatadeconti2029]

Love My Poland! True, strong willed, ambitious, and prefer an intelligent guy with good manners. They are also hard working and loyal.

[@BlazeLeeDragon]

nice, my wife is polish though born here in the USA and has a lot of these traits. She even sent me a link to this video saying "see it's normal for us" lol.

[@LoveMyPoland]

Genes 😉👍

[@dasboot5903]

You are settled well in Poland now. You are seeing it, so you know it !!!! 9 of 10 !!!! Actually, I am even more behind these days than you can even think, bro !!!! :o))

[@jo_asiago8539]

I live in Warsaw, lived in Kraków, Katowice - quite different experience in bigger cities. :)

[@KrissowskiM]

Jo_asia Go you mean you are dating girls? Otherwise your opinion in this matter is irrelevant...

[@marimetr4261]

Your wife made it easier for you because you was from U.S. so if you did something wrong they just forgive you but if you was actually polish the mother and father we ask you a lot of question the same way like in United States when you was young.

[@andrehansen585]

i agree on the points

[@anitam.4682]

So true! As a Polish woman I need to say that I would not change a word in this clip :)

[@pauldavid8445]

You’re right 🥰

[@pauldavid8445]

Hello 👋, hope you’re doing good today??

[@letslightenup667]

...about moms that is not real, we decide with who we date, if mother like him...that is perfeck but if not....we still date :)

[@wildresin6292]

Many still value their parents opinion most of all.

[@sottilezza]

I think most of the stuff you've mentioned makes sense in smaller cities or more traditional families (or your experiences are slightly outdated since you're married now) :D As someone who lives in Warsaw I can't imagine any of my friends letting a guy pay on a date (in extreme cases it is also considered offensive :D), making a scene in public or letting their mothers interfere in their relationship :D I also can't dance at all :D Great video though, I absolutely love your channel!

[@AndreiGeorgescu-j9p]

Warsaw is where the hos live. That's the exception

[@superfazt1]

Pretty cool vídeo and clear without getting ethnical.

[@annakrawczyk1174]

I was curious of what you will be saying but I must tell you are right at many points 😊.

[@remuslazar2033]

Would a Romanian guy and a Polish girl get along ?

[@linglingsurvivor6690]

honestly the things you mention are realtively true, but they may be arguable depending on generation and region I assume. E. g. to be frank, I have NEVER came across any kind of dancing on family celebrations (maybe apart from weddings), most of my friends are not really the kind to shout or be any kind of passive agressive, especially in public. But what's worth mentioning is that I noticed more of this kinds of arguments you mentioned just beetween for example mother and daughter only and more often in families from smaller towns rather than big cities and more old dated ones. Although about being a gentleman and paying for her meal - in my experience that's really true! I mean it really depends on a girl and the paying part is changing a bit, but when you do pay for her (also for example for her museum/cinema/theatre etc. ticket) it's more like, it shows that it is a date and not just a meeting (unless there are circumstances that show that it's not a date even though he's paying). But when you pay for her or if you are a gentleman that shows that you are cultural, you know how to behave, you were raised well and care for her and in general it just feels nice :)

[@mollybrown8361]

American dating sounds quite different from English dating as well

[@sarthakgosain3425]

all right lads will try what he said, i have a date with a polish girl on Sat.. wish me luck guys

[@inezgabrina9222]

iam Indonesian, I would like moving to Poland, so interesting 😍

[@eeej6199]

Polish girls sound like a perfect fit

[@peterpro5442]

It's not about nationality... it's all about personality.

[@marlenakoperfilt9416]

So you are saying that a 'good' girl comes from conservative catholic home? Pardon, wtf?

[@pankarmelek3372]

I mean, 99% of Poles are Catholics soooo

[@marlenakoperfilt9416]

@@pankarmelek3372 just statistics. From my background I can say that less then a half of the population

[@pankarmelek3372]

@@marlenakoperfilt9416 and from *my* background (I'm Polish) almost everyone I know is Catholic. Poland is historically a very Catholic country and that's a fact. And isn't "less than half of the population" a statistic too?

[@marlenakoperfilt9416]

@@pankarmelek3372 im just trying to point that this guy has limiting beliefs. Like how can you put 20milion women into one sack? And on top of that say that a good partner is conservative catholic? Just think about it

[@mmasica01]

I agree with Marlena, I don't think that so many people are conservative catholic, at least from my point of view

[@TheMaluch123]

its so funny to hear this especially that im polish haha

[@dobelotan7099]

Your so nice marta krawczyk...

[@HeySteef]

Cute.

[@pritpalsingh7559]

Polish are actually very well mannered.

[@jhuds24]

I’m 19 and American and am visiting Poland for the first time. I met this Polish girl through friends about a week ago and am interested in her. I got her WhatsApp and am hoping to see her again before I leave in a few days. However I don’t want to come on too strong, would asking to see her again before I leave be too much to a typical polish girl or do you think it would be fine? So far we haven’t texted each other yet but we have met 3 or 4 times now. I don’t know if that’s too much and could be viewed as an invasion of privacy or something like that. Because I know some other cultures like French girls can be like that at times, especially from an American. Thanks so much for the great vid!

[@LoveMyPoland]

Thanks. I think you should go for it, personally. Just don't be creepy 😏

[@jhuds24]

Love My Poland! Thanks so much! I’ll be visiting your channel quite a bit especially if things fall through! Keep it up man!

[@korelacja]

This is so hilarious and so true ;-) yes - polish girls are strong and respected, but it is not sourced in our temper but rather in our history. During the war or german/austrian/russian ocupaton polish girls often stayed alone without their men and had to take responibility for their whole families. We are still raised to take responsibility, stay strong and demand respect ;-)

[@rtoman]

Excellent

[@KrissowskiM]

Patrycja Lejk the only true part in your statement is that Polish women are bossy and want to control their men!

[@anetawhotravels]

this was hilarious...i was laughing a lot 😅

[@wildresin6292]

About what its all true...

[@chipb4617]

Thx man

[@Aladjan]

Russel, please tell us who will you be rooting for on Saturday 23 July in the semi-finals of the world league in volleyball :)? Poland has just advanced and both teams will play with each other :)

[@LoveMyPoland]

Since volleyball matters much, much more to Poles than it does to Americans, I'm pulling for Poland 💪💪💪

[@maximalgames4368]

Im hungarian and i dated a polish girl and i realized that. She is my true love. But I did something wrong and i want to fix what i did and idk how :( Me and her had a long distance relationship and i wanted to travel to her and meet her. But she doesn't wanted. I just want to ask. How i can bring her back? 😢

[@123gggyyy]

thanks, very useful tips

[@stellabryla4673]

Super video.Polish women are the best.

[@marimetr4261]

Your girlfriend at that time told her parents want they wanted to hear from you and convinced her parents you're nice guy because she loved you and still love you.

[@LoveMyPoland]

No, I was/am pretty good at articulating what I wanted to convey. But interesting comment to say the least.

[@marimetr4261]

I hate guys to jump to wrong concussion about Polish woman because I think they're very nice good girls and exelent mom and wifes. I have brothers and they told me American girls just too easy and I just told them please don't put all American girls to the same bascet because I am sure not all of them the same just because you had some bad experiences.

[@marimetr4261]

Sill I think your girlfriend now your wife helped you with that because it was up to her if she wantsto be your wife. You' was nice guy don't take me wrong and the way you was behaving politely and respectful at front of her parents (special her mother) helped because that just conformed you're the guy for her and they did not gave you hard time. Mother is close to her daughter specialy when they're in that age I am sure they been talking about you before you even had the chance to met her in person. I am sure your wife said nice things about you to her parents special her mom that's why her parents treated you the way they did because they knew their daughter was in love with you . Most of the girls not bring the boyfriend home to meet their parents if they are not serious about the guy because they know their parents will ask a lots of questions and don't want to deal with that themselves and put her boyfriend through. In your case since they could not ask you all the questions because of the language barrier they all asked their daughter more about you. Maybe I am wrong in your case because I was not there but I know if that were my parents they would definitely do that if I brought American to their house to meet my parents

[@Grawuar]

There are exceptions to the rule - I'm a female and I hate dancing, probably will never learn, and I think I'd refuse to dance even at my own wedding, lol! My partner doesn't dance either, and also loves cooking (me, not so much). But I generally agree with all you said. Disappointing hearing about the level of knowledge in America though... Thanks for sharing your perspective!

[@hankhenry8160]

u musst be a fat&ugly nerd with asperger. pitiful.

[@Grawuar]

@@hankhenry8160 You gave me and my man such a laugh, thanks :D

[@karolinawroblewska1984]

What about dating Polish men? What tips or “rules” would you suggest for American ladies?

[@LoveMyPoland]

I am no expert sorry, but many of the points I mentioned are useful I think.

[@zdenekzdun410]

They will expect from you to know how to cook and to like it. If your relationship become serious you will enjoy having the last say in the home and your decisions about everytking in familly will be the law. But there is also price, you will be responsible for children health and education. It will be your bit to keep familly feed and house clean. Some guys will share the house duties but it likely will be them 'hepling you in your duties'. Perhaps right thing to do will be to use your powers to 'train' the partner to participate in house routines.

[@ProblemSolverUS]

So true.

[@mateuszdziezok8631]

About dancing! When you're invited as +1 you MUST dance and maybe don't get drunk that's a good thing too :D

[@jedenz3]

Good one! You doing a good job Russ! I could add few more tips for your collection 😉👍

[@LoveMyPoland]

Bring it! 😊Thanks!

[@jwilliams123]

I've dated a Polish girl and she was by far the best girlfriend I've had (even though she unfortunately had spent years in the UK so had been influenced by the gender war nonsense stuff taking place there) I would actually like yo move to Poland as I've been there a number of times now and really love it, the cities (Krakow, Gdansk and Gdynia) are gorgeous and have this sort of enduring feel to them, the country in the south is beautiful. But as someone who is fairly ambitious and can't doesn't much Polish (learned a bit but combining the fact I find it difficult and that I've heard even after 10 years of loving there, a lot of people are still hard to understand for locals when speaking Polish) what sorts of jobs would even be available or realistic to get for foriegn people? Keeping in kind I want to move there to be a part of society and because I love the culture and people from what I've seen, and yes....the women are absolutely amazing and ridiculously attractive. Not sure if it's realistic but I would love to meet a nice Polish girl and settle down. They have something special I can't quite out into words that nobody else does, and I'm pretty well traveled.

[@LoveMyPoland]

I hope you find a good one again. There really is a special something that is hard to articulate in Polish girls 😊

[@Jessie-tf6nm]

Soooio true. Im polish women from Canada.. ❤

[@daneprywatne3342]

E tam słuchasz i nie słuchasz. Dobrych dziewczyn nie spotkasz w klubie czy w centrum - tylko jednorazowe przygody. Przez przyjaciół, przez rodzinę, przez zainteresowania.

[@SteveTerada3]

Jak nie masz grubego hajsu przy dupie, to nawet przyjaciele, rodzina, zainteresowania nie pomogą. Dożyliśmy czasów, gdy dla kobiet the most important for women's are huge money and good job. ;)

[@janinamarte8266]

Yes! Lots of true.

[@sharnjeetsinghsran2683]

Thanks