Dating in the 1950's

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Sage Lilleyman

Sage Lilleyman

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@SageLilleyman
@SageLilleyman 2 жыл бұрын
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@RestingBitchface7
@RestingBitchface7 2 жыл бұрын
We still used the term “going steady” in the 80s and 90s in the US.
@Nensinensi713
@Nensinensi713 2 жыл бұрын
Can we buy shampoo in every country or not?
@dankrolikowski9271
@dankrolikowski9271 2 жыл бұрын
Sage, I love all of your videos...but one thing I wish you included? What are the songs/ music that are used... They are wonderful, and I'm not familiar with all of them.
@cindispoo3140
@cindispoo3140 2 жыл бұрын
I couldn’t get the promo to work :(
@judithlopez8796
@judithlopez8796 Жыл бұрын
This actually still very much exists in the modern day @sagelilleyman!😍 It's called "Catholic Courting" and I just absolutely looove it so much!! As well as the vintage dressing 👗👒!! You can find both traditions by googling "Traditional Latin Mass"! I think you'll be fascinated by it 😍💕
@midnightgir6
@midnightgir6 2 жыл бұрын
It's great that James is willing to do so much for Sage's videos.
@zwiebster63
@zwiebster63 2 жыл бұрын
I was thinking the same for some time now! It makes it even better. Those videos make me feel emotional sometimes. You bring everything so gracious and you are very informative too. Thanks for all your great films! 💐💐💐💐💐
@zararobnett8284
@zararobnett8284 Жыл бұрын
I was just saying the same thing to my daughter
@alliehamilton-calhoun162
@alliehamilton-calhoun162 Жыл бұрын
Gosh, Mary is lucky! That Michael is so dreamy.... 😊
@jacquelynannehoward
@jacquelynannehoward 7 ай бұрын
He's a good guy.
@MandalaBunnyhome
@MandalaBunnyhome 2 жыл бұрын
I do like some of the older date traditions. I've noticed with modern dating people are generally confused as to whether they are even on a date and I think it's because lines are so blurred between dating and just hanging out.
@MothGirl007
@MothGirl007 2 жыл бұрын
Totally agree.
@06BIBOI
@06BIBOI 2 жыл бұрын
I'm still not sure if I believe straight Men and straight Women can even be "friends" anyway .
@MandalaBunnyhome
@MandalaBunnyhome 2 жыл бұрын
@@06BIBOI It just depends, my bf and I both have opposite sex friends that feel like family
@spacebar9733
@spacebar9733 2 жыл бұрын
@@06BIBOI that sounds like a you thing
@mickeymousey1239
@mickeymousey1239 2 жыл бұрын
they sit there texting to diff ppl while out having their "date"? seen that happen
@AmandaSmith-en6rw
@AmandaSmith-en6rw 2 жыл бұрын
My husband and I met on a blind group date two years ago in a bowling alley, knew we were going to get married by the second date at an ice cream parlor on day five, and we followed pretty much all of these traditional guidelines in dating. I think we waited to kiss until I was SURE I was going to marry him around month three? We're christians so that led to our dating convictions but I didn't realize how 1950s those guidelines were until watching this video! I have nothing but wonderful memories of our dating times!
@lauraann7027
@lauraann7027 2 жыл бұрын
How sweet!! Congratulations to you both. 🎊
@hislittlemrs.9235
@hislittlemrs.9235 Жыл бұрын
That's how it should be. Sweet memories that built a foundation, not a whirlwind that leaves you confused and disillusioned
@colalime2006
@colalime2006 9 ай бұрын
That’s so cute 🥲
@AprilEstepp
@AprilEstepp Ай бұрын
Oh my gosh that's so romantic iam a Christian to that's how iam going to teach my son what to do when he's old enough to date he can't date girl unless she is a true Christian I mean church going very respectful in her appearance how she acts and treats her family
@style_with_ce
@style_with_ce 2 жыл бұрын
Sage! This has been one of the best videos you have created! The style of the Ad was amazing 👏 from beginning to end this was supreme! Congrats!
@SageLilleyman
@SageLilleyman 2 жыл бұрын
Aw that means so much, thank you!! Xx 💕
@thecatlady6
@thecatlady6 2 жыл бұрын
I remember some of these customs still being followed in the early 1980s. I wish they were still followed today 😕. I do like that girls can order for themselves, pay for themselves and they can ask the boy out. But, I wish the modesty and going steady would make a comeback. Nowadays, people seem to rush into physical relationships and don't take the time to get to know each other. Simple dates like dinner and a movie or just an evening walk allow time for talking and really getting to know each other. Just my opinion.
@findingbeautyinthepain8965
@findingbeautyinthepain8965 2 жыл бұрын
@Chaya Staub-Krell Yes, I completely agree. I love simple dates that allow you to talk. I even love just sitting on the couch with my fiancé with all electronics off. When we first started doing this, I thought we’d spend a half hour or so talking. But I find we talk for hours and hours when electronics are off. We’ll have to say, “Okay, last thing,” multiple times because the time gets so late.
@desi69420
@desi69420 2 жыл бұрын
I agree
@CraftyMarieArts
@CraftyMarieArts 2 жыл бұрын
I couldn’t agree more. It’s like it’s rushed before getting to know someone. How much prefer to get to know someone to talk for hours then to go really fast.
@desi69420
@desi69420 2 жыл бұрын
@@findingbeautyinthepain8965 awwwwe she's a lucky woman! I wanna find a guy like that!
@NaomiHochhaus
@NaomiHochhaus 2 жыл бұрын
Same here I agree with you all the way hands down on this one.
@Belushi87
@Belushi87 2 жыл бұрын
it seemed dating was more easier back then. nowadays its seems like we're so worried about getting ghosted, being stood up or catfished. if a guy called you, at least you knew he was interested in you and wanted to take you out on a date. whereas, today, a guy could ask you out on a dating app and never show up without a reason.
@AstarionWifey
@AstarionWifey Жыл бұрын
Exactly 😢 Like when did communication just died
@Fieryredhair08
@Fieryredhair08 2 жыл бұрын
Listening to this whilst getting ready for my engagement dinner with my fiance. While I love that women have freedoms we didn't in the 50s, there seems to be something wholesome about those times that we lack today. Love your vids! ❤
@haylieb3646
@haylieb3646 2 жыл бұрын
I believe it was the mannerisms and the modesty they had in the 1950's.
@ShammaAzmi
@ShammaAzmi 2 жыл бұрын
Congratulations on your engagement
@JYYB
@JYYB 2 жыл бұрын
@@haylieb3646 agreed
@candiceyoung8244
@candiceyoung8244 2 жыл бұрын
My mom and dad were married in 1954. So I've heard some wonderful stories of going to the movies which they called the picture show,and they would take the trolly. And after to the drugstore to get a coke float at the soda fountain. Thank you so much for the video sweetie 🥰💕😘
@jennielauber8308
@jennielauber8308 2 жыл бұрын
My husband opens the door for me still. My parents expected any man I dated to come and meet them before he picked me up for a date. They were married in the late 50's and have been married for 63 years now.
@lindaparker7199
@lindaparker7199 2 жыл бұрын
Adorable! You have the 50's training film concept down pat. I chuckled throughout. Times were simpler and it was a lot easier having rules to follow to make life easier.
@kanita0958
@kanita0958 2 жыл бұрын
In Hispanic families this has not changed at all. Us girls need ample time, specially to let our parents know and get their permission. I live in the United States but I still expect my daughter to ask for permission with at least two or thee days in advance because this is how my family and culture is accustomed to 😁 also, a man paying for the meal is still a practice for us, is not well seen to see the woman paying 😊
@featheredsunsets4675
@featheredsunsets4675 2 жыл бұрын
So true!
@featheredsunsets4675
@featheredsunsets4675 2 жыл бұрын
@@gmailsender7274 false
@tiffany7881
@tiffany7881 2 жыл бұрын
Yep! I only have sons so they're being brought up just like this. Hispanic households don't play I demand my boys show 100% respect towards ladies. I'm raising gentlemen and they see their dad and grandpa lead the way 🥰
@tiffany7881
@tiffany7881 2 жыл бұрын
@@gmailsender7274 😳 false. If we act out in public that directly is an embarrassment to our parents. I can say a majority of Hispanic women think twice before acting a damn fool
@lisaalane7694
@lisaalane7694 2 жыл бұрын
We are not Hispanic, but we raised our sons and daughters very traditionally, and they found spouse's who were either also raised that way, or like my daughter in law, found she loved being treated like a lady and embraced it. I'm so happy to know there are entire cultures still following older dating traditions.
@CammyHell
@CammyHell 2 жыл бұрын
It would be nice if all those traditions were still intact today. Things were so much nicer then.
@outsidersfan4life
@outsidersfan4life 2 жыл бұрын
This is one of the main reasons why I don't think I'll ever meet anyone. I would like to date a guy who is old fashioned like this. :)
@AnnaR.33
@AnnaR.33 2 жыл бұрын
@@outsidersfan4life Same here!! If God wills it we will! 🥰
@outsidersfan4life
@outsidersfan4life 2 жыл бұрын
@@AnnaR.33 Amen sister! God bless you
@AnnaR.33
@AnnaR.33 2 жыл бұрын
@@outsidersfan4life God Bless you, too! I'll pray you will find someone. 🙏😊
@outsidersfan4life
@outsidersfan4life 2 жыл бұрын
@@AnnaR.33 Thank you. I'll pray the same for you. 🙏😊
@jennic2251
@jennic2251 2 жыл бұрын
Awww this was really cute Sage! I vote for " going steady" making a comeback too.
@voggs3072
@voggs3072 2 жыл бұрын
That ad was perfect! 😂😂. So old timey I loved it.
@janelle5127
@janelle5127 2 жыл бұрын
@Happy good for you! So now you know how to date and treat a lady... yay
@WithLoveKristina
@WithLoveKristina 2 жыл бұрын
Oh my goodnes James looks so much younger without facial hair! This was such a cute video Sage, I loved it! Fun fact, I grew up in a fairly conservative family and my parents didn't believe in dating so much as courtship (where you get to know each other before you get physical). So my husband had to get my parents' approval to date me, after our first date. I'm not sure who was more nervous about it, my husband or my dad, ha!
@gupdoo3
@gupdoo3 5 ай бұрын
This is one of the most well-integrated sponsorship segments I've ever seen
@alyssamonsma5993
@alyssamonsma5993 2 жыл бұрын
I honestly wish dating was still like this. It’s so much clearer in terms of intentions. The manners are much more desirable to me than the lack of chivalry that many men have now
@bibigems
@bibigems Жыл бұрын
I totally agree with you. Good manners are just not practiced much anymore. Also one never hears the term "bad manners" anymore. Our lack of morality and how we treat each other has changed over time. This is Sad.
@valdez2957
@valdez2957 2 жыл бұрын
Raising 5 daughters I’ve tried to stay to these ways. Sometimes it was a struggle. It would be so nice if it were still like this. The world is so different now.
@Hevynly1
@Hevynly1 2 жыл бұрын
I'd like all of this back. I'm fortunate having an old fashioned husband. He never let me pay for anything before we were married and he still orders my meals for me when we go to restaurants. I think it's the sweetest!
@missanne2908
@missanne2908 2 жыл бұрын
Those of us who are old enough will remember the standard date refusal excuse - 'Sorry, I'm washing my hair that night.' Hard to do in an age where people wash their hair everyday!
@thetoysofchildhood
@thetoysofchildhood 2 жыл бұрын
That's awesome and funny!
@findingbeautyinthepain8965
@findingbeautyinthepain8965 2 жыл бұрын
@missanne290 I also think it’s funny that your generation only seemed to wash their hair at night. I guess it’s because of using rollers or pin curls. But as someone who wears 1950 hair styles (and clothes) I know it’s possible to do a wet set and blow dry over it. This way your curls are done in an hour, and you don’t need to sleep in your rollers. It also allows you to wash your hair during the day lol. Were blow dryers very expensive in the 50’s? Maybe that’s the reason women didn’t do this more.
@danamichelle1290
@danamichelle1290 2 жыл бұрын
@@findingbeautyinthepain8965 Blowdryers weren't that common in those days outside salons..
@MysticalMistyMarie
@MysticalMistyMarie 2 жыл бұрын
Ur curls do looks softer and shiny Sage ! Such a beauty u are!
@Naturallyro_
@Naturallyro_ 2 жыл бұрын
I love this Era, I feel like something like this is what alot of relationships need today to avoid negativity, arguments, and les divorces and breakups. Love this!!!
@MyLivingJournal
@MyLivingJournal 2 жыл бұрын
Even though I didn't start dating till the early 70's, I can say that this is all 100 % true. My mom told me of things like this AND it was still in older TV shows back in the 60's when I would watch certain shows. What a wholesome time it was. Such sweet memories. I miss those days. Such a sweet video. I think this is my favorite video of yours. Thank you 😊
@Dishcreator84
@Dishcreator84 2 жыл бұрын
I wish all those ways of going steady would come back , when gentlemen & ladies were different and more modest.
@Eva-vm7in
@Eva-vm7in 2 жыл бұрын
I 100% agree with you
@earthstar7534
@earthstar7534 2 жыл бұрын
This is probably a big reason a lot of marriages from this era lasted better. I understand it was harder for a woman to leave and that affected things. There are a ton of old happy married couples though. Valuing a partner like this and building a relationship with intention to make it a real relationship is definitely a stronger foundation for long term.
@mickeymousey1239
@mickeymousey1239 2 жыл бұрын
@@xenonsan3110 well said communication is everything and how a man treats his woman, u are well mannered your mother raised you well and proper cheers
@cristinagarcia1652
@cristinagarcia1652 2 жыл бұрын
Not trying to be argumentative but here are a few more reasons marriages likely "lasted better"... Things a woman couldn’t do in the 1950s Open a bank account in her own name Get a credit card in her own name Be guaranteed that they would not get fired for getting pregnant Take legal action against workplace sexual harassment Take the birth control pill
@st.michaelsknight6299
@st.michaelsknight6299 2 жыл бұрын
@@cristinagarcia1652 But the real question is, are women really better off now? I would argue no.
@angelsolitaire6456
@angelsolitaire6456 2 жыл бұрын
Dating back then were so sweet. Just a simple walk, watching movies or go out to eat are so lovable.
@rosietheriveter2020
@rosietheriveter2020 2 жыл бұрын
Can we nominate James (er- Michael) for an award for putting his heart and soul into these videos??
@kelcitucker4053
@kelcitucker4053 2 жыл бұрын
I’m 👏🏽 just 👏🏽 saying 👏🏽 …I think the way things were done back then had a very positive impact on relationships. I would prefer it was still this way…and no social media existed. Just saying 🤷🏽‍♀️
@sarahh2072
@sarahh2072 2 жыл бұрын
Agreed!!
@SwizzleDrizzl
@SwizzleDrizzl 2 жыл бұрын
I agree! Sure there was oppression and negative aspects, but every era in time has had pros and cons, and it's good to learn from the pros
@deedawson6074
@deedawson6074 2 жыл бұрын
We are all ‘saying’. When you say ‘just’ saying you are undervaluing your own statement. Said with kindness, you don’t need to say this.
@adriennetochter6873
@adriennetochter6873 2 жыл бұрын
I so much enjoy seeing Hubby in cameos, how fun to see him in here in a starring role! I am of an age where the things show here were on the wane. And in hindsight, not always for the better. Such a refreshing glimpse into the not so distant past. Thank you Sage and James, this was lovely. 😀
@lesliejohnson6800
@lesliejohnson6800 2 жыл бұрын
You always do such a good job. Just your enthusiasm for life and how much you put in to your videos is so amazing. You are great. To top it all off (my favorite era) what era you are interested in is so fun and wonderful to me. I look forward to your videos and you never disappoint. I wish you well with everything. It is so nice seeing this good and clean content and what a role model you are for young girls. My 6 year old grand daughter looks forward to watching you. I'm sure you heard thia before but you certainly are such a sweetheart. James is a lucky man. Very sweet girl.
@johnvsymons
@johnvsymons 2 жыл бұрын
Totally agree with your comments. Sage is an exceptional person. She is so talented and personable. I alway feel uplifted and just in a better mood after watching her. James is such a nice guy also with a good sense of humor.
@jurdalf
@jurdalf 2 жыл бұрын
So cute! I would love to go on a date like they did in the 50s ☺️❤️ your videos always delivers Sage! 😃
@angelalong6740
@angelalong6740 2 жыл бұрын
This was so cute. It reminded me of how my husband met my family before we went out. ❤
@earthwisdomhelps
@earthwisdomhelps 2 жыл бұрын
The term "going steady" was still in effect until the early 80's, afterwards replaced by "dating."
@Marcel_Audubon
@Marcel_Audubon Жыл бұрын
um, people dated before the '80s
@earthwisdomhelps
@earthwisdomhelps Жыл бұрын
@@Marcel_Audubon Are you illiterate? "Term"
@Marcel_Audubon
@Marcel_Audubon Жыл бұрын
@@earthwisdomhelps people used that "Term" before the '80s, too, sweetie. People went steady and dated during the same era, they are not synonyms, dullard. Whatsay you keep your piehole zipped when you have no clue what you're talking about, sunshine?
@earthwisdomhelps
@earthwisdomhelps Жыл бұрын
@@Marcel_Audubon What part of the term "going steady" was "replaced" by the word dating don't you understand? Do you hear anyone now say they are going steady? No you don't so pipe down with your pipe down.
@Marcel_Audubon
@Marcel_Audubon Жыл бұрын
@@earthwisdomhelps you sound like someone who has never been asked for a date, let alone to go steady
@EmeraldHW
@EmeraldHW 2 жыл бұрын
I like most of this. I asked my husband out for our first date, though, and western civilization didn’t collapse. It’s okay for a woman to ask a guy on a date.
@amylouise1
@amylouise1 2 жыл бұрын
Aww how romantic! I loved this video, it was so sweet. The ad slid into the video quite subtlety! Tell James he did a great job being your date you're both adorable. I also love the places you went to, how vintage! My grandparents dated in the 50's, now I'm eager to ask them about it. And the movie reference was Airplane! :D
@marieryan2541
@marieryan2541 2 жыл бұрын
Hi Sage. I think dating was alit better back then than what it is now. Perhaps we should go back to that type of dating. Marie
@Right.Meow.
@Right.Meow. 2 жыл бұрын
Ah chivalry. Feminism is good for us ladies providing us more rights and equality in society, but I'm definitely still a fan of male and female roles in a relationship, as well as good ol' chivalry. Nothing wrong with a healthy mixture of it all for modern times. 💕
@joannaholden943
@joannaholden943 2 жыл бұрын
Yes to this!
@Sweet_Melissa22
@Sweet_Melissa22 2 жыл бұрын
Hey Sage you guys are so cute. I also think Mary and Michael make a cute couple they should get married!!! Lol!!! In my high school in the 80s boys would give the girls either class rings or letterman jackets. Times change so quickly. Another great video!!!♥️
@spokenme08
@spokenme08 2 жыл бұрын
How sweet. It seems like throwing the baby out with the bath water did us no good. For all of the 1950s (and history in general) fault there were gems and wisdom to be gained.
@shannoncook1947
@shannoncook1947 2 жыл бұрын
Hi Sage, What a wonderful video! We loved it. We really treasure you videos. My husband said to answer the movie question as "Airplane". All the Best from Oregon, USA
@SageLilleyman
@SageLilleyman 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! 💕 haha yes that’s the movie, good job to your husband!
@janeburkhart4051
@janeburkhart4051 2 жыл бұрын
This was fabulous!!! I would love to have been a teen during that era. When I was a teen couples all got together at someone's house and got drunk. 😔 Not my cup of tea at all. While some progress is good, I think some of the traditions of the past are worthy of holding on to. P.S. James did a GREAT job!
@aralia8162
@aralia8162 2 жыл бұрын
Loved you two in this video! Some days, my husband does order for me at restaurants but that’s because I have a lot of social anxiety and sometimes can’t do it myself. 😅
@thereseaustin
@thereseaustin 2 жыл бұрын
I LOVED all the rules!!!! We need to bring them back especially the pins!!! 💖😌 Another Fabulous video!!! 👌
@sarahh2072
@sarahh2072 2 жыл бұрын
I have always traded promise rings to anyone I was very serious with :) I think people still do that
@thereseaustin
@thereseaustin 2 жыл бұрын
@@sarahh2072 Awwww...that is SOOO Sweet!!! 💖 I've NEVER been on a date before and I'm in my early 20's. 😔
@LimegreenSnowstorm
@LimegreenSnowstorm 2 жыл бұрын
I was surprised how similar this is to dating culture in my church, especially among teens! We would do a lot of group dates and friend dates, and usually waited to go steady until after high school, since we weren’t about to get married as teens. And the boy would come to meet the parents too! Though girls asking boys out, paying for meals and so on is completely fine as well, if less common.
@WestieRescueMom
@WestieRescueMom 2 жыл бұрын
Loved this! And a slick way to introduce your sponsor!
@SageLilleyman
@SageLilleyman 2 жыл бұрын
Aw thank you! ☺️
@marksimons8861
@marksimons8861 2 жыл бұрын
I'd so like to know how gay men and lesbians went about dating, and what they did to cover up what was neither approved and probably not even legal in the USA. It was definitely not legal here in the UK......but of course it went on!
@PaperBakerCreations
@PaperBakerCreations 2 жыл бұрын
I just loved this video. What a great topic! I always look forward to Sunday to see your episode. The eras you cover has always fascinated me. It's been such a thrill to learn through your channel:)
@jeanrock3047
@jeanrock3047 2 жыл бұрын
Omg yes absolutely! I prefer the 1930's and 40's, but even so I have to watch Sage, she's just so sweet and helpful.
@lauranorwar
@lauranorwar 2 жыл бұрын
Back then, a woman was often given a menu that did not include the price. I was born in the mid-sixties, but I could swear that was still the case when I first started dating. I know for sure that there were still separate “help wanted” ads for men and women, even in the late seventies.
@JewelBlueIbanez
@JewelBlueIbanez 2 жыл бұрын
A priceless menu would be so helpful. I get so much anxiety over the price of things when someone else is paying.
@lauranorwar
@lauranorwar 2 жыл бұрын
@@JewelBlueIbanez I do too!!!!
@AnnaR.33
@AnnaR.33 2 жыл бұрын
I absolutely loved this video!! Splendid job to you both!! 🥰 I wish that's how dating (or courting) took place nowadays. Maybe one day it will go back to that, hopefully. 🙏😇 It was soo sweet, simple and still romantic. 😍
@timriehl1500
@timriehl1500 2 жыл бұрын
Wow; things changed quickly; My parents were teens in the 50's and when they tried to explain the rules to my sister in the 70's, she couldn't understand and did things the 70's way. Now she is a parent, she understands!!!
@krism.9363
@krism.9363 2 жыл бұрын
This was a great video and I like when James is in your videos and plays along. Things are still this way if you "demand" it (i.e. don't settle for less). My partner is very old fashioned and I love it. Finding him wasn't easy but I didn't settle for less. Can't wait for your next video! :)
@mschocaholic321
@mschocaholic321 2 жыл бұрын
This is amazing Sage, you just keep getting better and better at sharing the 50's lifestyle. Stunning editing, beautiful couple and I didn't want it to end. Love you! xx
@JadeStrawberry
@JadeStrawberry 2 жыл бұрын
I've been reading lately that people say the good old days really weren't that good. Just MHO, I beg to differ. I'm an older lady and although not from the 1950s era, I did live through many interesting times and the comparison from foods, dating to clothing styles (or lack of clothing) seem so much more classy, decent, and just plain polite in the past. Not all new things are better than it used to be. That's exciting about the kitchen and can't wait to see it when it's finished. I didn't see the movie reference your husband said over the phone, but 'the captain ate the fish' line I *think* came from the movie Airplane.
@janeburkhart4051
@janeburkhart4051 2 жыл бұрын
I thought I'd be the only person who got the line about the fish! 😆
@MonicaRoseKinney
@MonicaRoseKinney 2 жыл бұрын
I agree! Relationships were handled so much better back then. Modern dating has gone down in the dumps. It's SO hard to find a decent, solid man these days.
@stormcaster6322
@stormcaster6322 2 жыл бұрын
@@MonicaRoseKinney The same goes for finding a woman who hasn't slept around a whole lot
@sofijones5048
@sofijones5048 2 жыл бұрын
@@stormcaster6322 Why is this an issue?
@stormcaster6322
@stormcaster6322 2 жыл бұрын
@@sofijones5048 I'd prefer my partner not to have a promiscuous past, just like I would imagine women generally would prefer a partner that has a decent job, his life together etc. Ofc, everyone is different so there are exceptions. I take it your not particularly bothered?
@taryn12
@taryn12 2 жыл бұрын
This video was adorable!! Would love to see more about dating through the ages. And I think the movie reference was Airplane!
@feliciasaunders299
@feliciasaunders299 2 жыл бұрын
I have been waiting all day for this XD
@hellokittylikeskaga
@hellokittylikeskaga 2 жыл бұрын
You and your husband are totally adorable.
@tiffanybailey6398
@tiffanybailey6398 2 жыл бұрын
I wish it was still like this
@СилвияСтойнова-е5э
@СилвияСтойнова-е5э 2 жыл бұрын
I love your videos there are soooo good and interesting. And you are soooo pretty.🍄💫
@marymitchell8717
@marymitchell8717 2 жыл бұрын
Having grown up and dated at the turn of the century I think this way of doing things is much nicer and more innocent and would have been an easier scene for my friends and I to navigate as we came of age. It seems much harder to date in these times because the expectations are not well laid out like they were before.
@ddg410
@ddg410 2 жыл бұрын
This was just wonderful to see!! Sure do wish families still had these kind of values.
@cziegle3794
@cziegle3794 2 жыл бұрын
Yay top 40 and top 5 likes and comments. Love your videos. Happy holidays.
@merdthenerd7668
@merdthenerd7668 2 жыл бұрын
I am first comment!!! love you sage
@LittleHouseOnTheMountain
@LittleHouseOnTheMountain 10 ай бұрын
This is a mix of adorable and depression because we ruined everything in our modern culture.
@hislittlemrs.9235
@hislittlemrs.9235 Жыл бұрын
In the 1980s we were often "promised" instead of pinned. Mine was a little gold ring with a heart. 40+ years later, have the same ring and man❤
@emmib1388
@emmib1388 Жыл бұрын
in our area, it was a 'ankle bracelet' with a heart and pearls that was worn around the neck with an extender :--)
@halliehasslinger9663
@halliehasslinger9663 2 жыл бұрын
Y'all NAILED this video! From beginning to the end of a 1950s date. All of the effort was well worth it! It's great to see James in these videos, too. What a good sport! And I agree "going steady" should come back!
@ajoyfullsound
@ajoyfullsound 2 жыл бұрын
Haha this is how my family does dating😂. Although I was raised to believe there Is no kissing before marriage .
@susanasergent8841
@susanasergent8841 2 жыл бұрын
OMG!! This video is ridiculously adorable!! You two are so cute!! And the ad!! I want that shampoo! (But I don't live in the US nor Canada)
@miippi
@miippi 2 жыл бұрын
Hearing James speak was so weird, as normally there is either voice-over or music when he speaks on other videos. I also understand that James doesn't wear vintage on daily basis, so I think its rather lovely that he partakes in videos with decade appropriate attire :D
@juliegerber6068
@juliegerber6068 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so, so much for sharing the 50's with us. It's so much fun watching you and James show us. I made my first German chocolate cake. I'm so proud of myself! Unfortunately it's not from the 50's. Thank you again and continue doing such a fantastic job. P.s. I did scorch my 1st batch of coconut frosting. The second was much better do to me being patient. Take care and lots of hugs.
@kalenclark
@kalenclark 2 жыл бұрын
I wish we could have retained some of this stuff while still progressing on other things. It's a shame how some things have changed so much. This was a fun "look back". Thanks for sharing!
@lauraann7027
@lauraann7027 2 жыл бұрын
It honestly is a shame. Nowadays people have sex after two dates and move in with each other after a few months. Everything feels so rushed. Speaking as a woman, I wish more men had mannerisms and chivalry. Instead it’s “oh all I have to do is give her attention and I’ll get sex from her.” And this is coming from someone who was once part of “hookup” culture and have been with jerks from many walks of life. It’s sad there is a lack of gentlemen anymore.
@sivri1991
@sivri1991 2 жыл бұрын
Omg the sponsor ad is adorable!!!!
@SageLilleyman
@SageLilleyman 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! 💕
@bigbirdbigbird
@bigbirdbigbird 2 жыл бұрын
Hmm, I think I've heard that reference before at the end...is that from the Airplane movie? 😁💚
@abigailjones662
@abigailjones662 2 жыл бұрын
This video made me squeal like a little girl you guys are the CUTEST! And yes I love the term going steady
@justME-hn1wn
@justME-hn1wn 2 жыл бұрын
I have to admit, a lot of this ritual is how dating has always been for me.
@Magdalene777
@Magdalene777 2 жыл бұрын
That's a clever way to insert your product ad 😂
@juliettemcdonald8747
@juliettemcdonald8747 2 жыл бұрын
haha i havent seen james act since highschool! You guys are too cute. Hope you are doing well sage.
@innatozakian9724
@innatozakian9724 2 жыл бұрын
I love these videos! Thank you so much for sharing! ♥️♥️♥️👒💝💄👠👗🧣👛👜🕶💼
@KaraKever
@KaraKever 2 жыл бұрын
Sage! Have you ever read Fifteen by Beverly Clearly? It’s so sweet and all about a young girl and her first boyfriend. Oh I forgot to mention. It’s set in the 50s/60s!
@LadySkippy
@LadySkippy 2 жыл бұрын
I love that sponsor promo haha. It was so cute! I love how your husband helped out.
@deniece0821
@deniece0821 Жыл бұрын
I wasn't around during the 40s and 50s. I was BARELY in the 60s as I was born in 1969..I raised both of my sons to hold the door open for a lady. They are a couple of the FEW Millennials -GenZ who actually do that. 😁
@LimegreenSnowstorm
@LimegreenSnowstorm 2 жыл бұрын
Oh my gosh the vintage commercial! I love when KZbin creators find creative ways to include their sponsors.
@laurarichardson3978
@laurarichardson3978 2 жыл бұрын
I remember my Dad ordering for my Mom, and if he took me out for a dinner, he ordered for me also. I thought it was charming. ☺
@tir3d_al1za
@tir3d_al1za 2 жыл бұрын
ya’ll….. things were not nicer in this time? did you guys forget how racist, homophobic, transphobic and sexist these times were?
@tir3d_al1za
@tir3d_al1za 2 жыл бұрын
i wish more of these videos would actually point these things out. it was HARD to live in these times if you were not a well off straight white man. if you were to ask any woman in this time almost all of them would say that their husband hit them. please don’t romanticize everything about these times.
@pettyplant4755
@pettyplant4755 2 жыл бұрын
I don't ✨Care✨
@tir3d_al1za
@tir3d_al1za 2 жыл бұрын
@@pettyplant4755 i didnt ask what you thought about it
@omarevans719
@omarevans719 2 жыл бұрын
I'm probably a bit younger than most people in the comments, but I'm old fashioned with dating and women and I would have loved to be a part of this era!!!(minus the racism and segregation of course ) It's hard to believe that doing these things in 2022 is called "simping". What has society come to nowadays? Is chivalry really dead and buried??
@danaszalay8202
@danaszalay8202 2 жыл бұрын
Dear Sage, you've done it again! I feel nostalgic for an era I never even experienced. These types of videos are my favorites, and I appreciate the level of artistry and research you put into each one. Thank you for your lovely channel.
@anyviolet
@anyviolet 2 жыл бұрын
1:19 - 1:50 SO WHOLESOOOMMME I love this time travel channel
@thedarkdane7
@thedarkdane7 Жыл бұрын
I feel there was a lot to be said for the no-kissing-on-the-first-date standard. Some men think that if they pay for a date, they are entitled to physical affection/favors (not all men are like that, thank God, but some are); and, if a woman had said "yes" to a first date just to be polite or give the guy a chance, it was good for her to be in a situation in which no level of physical intimacy would be expected. If you really like someone, waiting till the second date to kiss won't kill you.🙂
@emilybarnes6643
@emilybarnes6643 2 жыл бұрын
I still think men should pay for dates and open doors! It’s important we still value a man’s masculinity. People back then recognized this ❤️
@dees3179
@dees3179 2 жыл бұрын
Ok, huge bonus points for the integration of the ad read. Really well done.
@Mamaki1987
@Mamaki1987 2 жыл бұрын
Going steady is a nice term. While I do like it that a woman can ask a man out and pay for her own stuff, I wished, things weren't that complicated. Either you are a couple or not. That seems so hard to figure out today. Also that with the bow placement was interesting. I only knew that one from wearing a Dirndl before
@onexkiss
@onexkiss 2 жыл бұрын
Airplane is one of our favorite movies, so awesome that James likes it too
@packnetadaija
@packnetadaija 2 жыл бұрын
I definitely would love it if some dating traditions were still in place, I love the idea of calling someone my "steady" and things like that, getting pinned. I love the whole idea of the guy coming to pick me up and calling me for a date, these things are adorable and I love this so much. I wish those things were still in place today
@dorispoloko3904
@dorispoloko3904 2 жыл бұрын
Hello Sage,I loved this video it was very enjoyable to watch. Wow! Dating really was very different then. 😊
@nancyboruta7060
@nancyboruta7060 Жыл бұрын
I don't know. I like all the non kissing first dates as today most end up in bed. Sweet video of sweeter and more innocent times. Lot's of chivalry.
@alekdog2694
@alekdog2694 2 жыл бұрын
Video 55555555555+10+princess you are beautiful and the clothes suit you 5+10+
@brianna3965
@brianna3965 2 жыл бұрын
AWWW you guys are the cutest! New subscriber here
@SageLilleyman
@SageLilleyman 2 жыл бұрын
Aw hehe thank you!! And thanks so much for subscribing!! Xx
@evieshutt
@evieshutt 2 жыл бұрын
I love videos like this, they're so interesting
@bustertrocine9124
@bustertrocine9124 2 жыл бұрын
Please do a description of how dating In the 1950 in Australia.
@malamaurer4043
@malamaurer4043 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for the 10 minute smile 😊. What an adorable video.🌹❤️🌹
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