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Tom & Lay

Tom & Lay

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@ailajoypurser2298
@ailajoypurser2298 5 ай бұрын
I have never seen this guy this loving, gentle and caring towards his partner. In the former relationship it felt like he was there but trapped. In this current one, its very hard evident how he is very present and he really takes into consideration his partner’s take on things which I never saw nor felt on videos as compared to the former. Where he looked distant and disconnected like he was just there because he didn’t have a choice. Take care of each other! I think this is a match made in heaven.
@jeanavo3865
@jeanavo3865 5 ай бұрын
Alleluia!!!!
@shake_moon
@shake_moon 3 ай бұрын
True...and I think one of the reason why tom left that girl is because she can't even show the real HER, She's changing herself in order to fit in a western culture like" WTF are you doing", Even tom asked her why she speaks like that (British accent) and she just laughed thinking that Tom liked it, She's not the type of a woman that is wife material/wife to be, She's more on materialistic, She travelled abroad with multiple countries,buys expensive things and a lot of stuff that she desires of ...but can't even buy the things that she needed in her house in order for it to be fix😂, And let her papa/mama do the chores of her which is very bad😢, Yes, She had provide a lot of help to her family but regardless of what she have done, She Must know that Her parents will always be a parents for her... We have to give respect, Love, And Care to our parents, If that girl won't change, I don't know if her and her new bf will lasts or else she will ended up marrying a Filipino which is not part of her vocabulary.
@ailajoypurser2298
@ailajoypurser2298 3 ай бұрын
@@shake_moon lol agree!!
@jackibagbaga7638
@jackibagbaga7638 5 ай бұрын
Lay is natural, stay that way humble and always smiling
@Tom-Lay
@Tom-Lay 5 ай бұрын
😁
@benfrancisco3316
@benfrancisco3316 5 ай бұрын
I like Lay she is a natural girl. She don't put a foreign accent. Honestly I say, Tom n Lay make a very good beautiful couple. Always love to watch your videos
@Tom-Lay
@Tom-Lay 5 ай бұрын
Thanks 🙏
@mariloumacaburas5406
@mariloumacaburas5406 5 ай бұрын
Lay is very humble in any way.. the way she talks and the way she acts.. stay inlove to each other Tom & Lay..❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@MarissaEstrada-ly9iq
@MarissaEstrada-ly9iq 5 ай бұрын
WOW! Soo proud of you, Lay - your honesty, simplicity and quite thoughtful and very intelligent answers to the questions! I didn’t expect it, but I’m very impressed with your good command of the English language!
@Tom-Lay
@Tom-Lay 5 ай бұрын
Thanks 😁😁
@paulstubbs3780
@paulstubbs3780 5 ай бұрын
Not only is Lay beautiful , but she has class and smarts, Tom you did good, glad you moved on.
@teniellesingleton5337
@teniellesingleton5337 5 ай бұрын
@paulstubbs, I so agree with you on, glad Tom moved on. he is truly blessed to have met Lay and was able to put that other person behind him and looks so much more happier now. and thanks Lay for showing Tom true friendship first before anything else.
@Moffa76
@Moffa76 5 ай бұрын
It's beautiful to see how open and satisfied they are with each other, whether it's about the cultural difference or the way they talk about each other's experience at the beginning of your relationship. Plus, they're gorgeous together.
@keisch19
@keisch19 5 ай бұрын
Love the transparency of your relationship! I can see you guys have so much love and respect for one another and most of all you both look so happy! God Bless!
@Tom-Lay
@Tom-Lay 5 ай бұрын
Thank you so much!!
@loidaalasas7479
@loidaalasas7479 5 ай бұрын
Lay is not pretending to be someone else.Very genuine the way she speaks from her heart...Tom,please take care Lay to the best u can❤😊
@larryryan6173
@larryryan6173 5 ай бұрын
You guys have a great connection and I think that is the most important thing in any relationship
@Tom-Lay
@Tom-Lay 5 ай бұрын
Thanks 🙏
@kuysrodgetv
@kuysrodgetv 5 ай бұрын
There's no such thing as Perfect person only right person for you.❤
@tonywilliams7918
@tonywilliams7918 5 ай бұрын
Wonderful perspectives and thank you for sharing.
@cynthianunis7397
@cynthianunis7397 5 ай бұрын
Both of you are so honest with your feelings in general and with one another. Lay you're so simple and humble., with a good family background. Tom you are so much happier and compatible with Lay...keep being nice and loving with each other.. both of you make a perfect couple👏👏👏😊
@Tom-Lay
@Tom-Lay 5 ай бұрын
Thank you so much 😊
@bert-bb3cm
@bert-bb3cm 5 ай бұрын
You hit the jackpot Tom. Not too many westerners get that type of Filipina woman. Lay deserve a great man, a hard working man, a man with courage and just being humble. I’m happy you guys have last this long and I hope you do not find anyone else Tom. Lay I hope you made the right decision to be with Tom. Please stay together and have lots of babies.😊😅😮
@emmacanlapan5914
@emmacanlapan5914 5 ай бұрын
Lay speaks from her heart. I like your humbleness, humility and simplicity. Like I always said, I have watched you Tom for years and I never seen you happier than ever. Hope this relationship works out for both of you . Just enjoy each other , travel and don’t rush things. Keep the love burning!❤️
@Tom-Lay
@Tom-Lay 5 ай бұрын
😁
@loidaalasas7479
@loidaalasas7479 5 ай бұрын
Tom is more happier now compare before...He loves Lay the way Lay treats him😊 I
@simplejannely
@simplejannely 5 ай бұрын
​@@Tom-Laywhats the emoji about ? Lol
@Maryhilton-ws6ol
@Maryhilton-ws6ol 5 ай бұрын
@@simplejannelyfor him to know and you to watch
@terpen7375
@terpen7375 5 ай бұрын
Great video! Lay is so pretty! And Tom it's so nice to see you so happy. Take good care of each other.
@rish9359
@rish9359 4 ай бұрын
I could see that you're both happy together in this new relationship of yours. Always hold on to each other through thick and thin.
@raymonde4272
@raymonde4272 5 ай бұрын
Great subject and some interesting and funny moments. You two seem much a happy and genuine couple. 💞
@Tom-Lay
@Tom-Lay 5 ай бұрын
Thanks 🙏
@brienmurray5510
@brienmurray5510 5 ай бұрын
Tom has Lay seen any of your videos of when you went down some of the back streets when the girls had a drink with you and wanted to marry you,those videos were hilarious.You are serious now Lay and you are together and you both are suited, best wishes for the future 🙏
@joycelim6942
@joycelim6942 5 ай бұрын
Both are well spoken and I think they both have great chemistry in love ❤
@Tom-Lay
@Tom-Lay 5 ай бұрын
Thanks 🙏
@Joeking313
@Joeking313 5 ай бұрын
Now that I hear the story of you going to her family house and how she is acting that tells you how pure Lay really is. So cool I love it as I experienced the same exact thing meeting my wife's family right away after we met.
@lvg0001
@lvg0001 5 ай бұрын
You both genuinely seem to like each other. Lay is adorable, she values honesty and being up front which is imho not easy to come across with many Filipina girls I've met. You both compliment each other and have similar vibes. I've seen your old vlogs and tbh, the vibe with ex didn't really feel natural as a viewer - different personalities I suppose. Glad you two found each other!
@Tom-Lay
@Tom-Lay 5 ай бұрын
Thanks 🙏
@BootsEnaje
@BootsEnaje 3 ай бұрын
Tom and Lay so natural continue to love each other and God Bless Tom lay is down to earth person very realistic
@Tom-Lay
@Tom-Lay 3 ай бұрын
Thanks 🙏
@castortroy365
@castortroy365 5 ай бұрын
You guys are the perfect match! I met my Filipina over 7 years ago & over years of travel & courting (interrupted by covid) we are now full time together for 18 months in Australia. When I ask her what she was looking for when she met me, I lover her very simple answer “a good man”. And that’s it….she was looking for a good man, someone who respects her, treats her well, loves her. She was living and working a long time in the UAE so was almost westernised to a point ( because of the families she worked for were mainly British) so, she had the perfect understanding of both Filipino culture and also how we see things from a westerners point of view. It has made for a very easy and compatible relationship. Apologies for the rant 😂 but I see so many similarities in your relationship ( same kind of sense of humour etc ) that I just wanted to share ❤️
@jonasvanrie5794
@jonasvanrie5794 5 ай бұрын
I'm also a lucky men. My wife is Filipinna. She has the best family in Cebu. I am so blessed. Enjoy your life together Tom and Lay.
@JohnBoyle-er2kk
@JohnBoyle-er2kk 5 ай бұрын
Glad. You two are so happy and i mean that sincerely
@Tom-Lay
@Tom-Lay 5 ай бұрын
Thanks 🙏
@Belle-tl8rt
@Belle-tl8rt 5 ай бұрын
Yes, everything with Lay is so natural and honest. From the way she speaks, carry herself, her love for "Tommy"😅 and so on...That is why she is so lovable. And I am pretty sure these two will have happy ever after... This is a really good and informative topic, guys! Would help so many foreigners that are seeking a good woman, because I seen a lot of them been "taken to the cleaners."
@Tom-Lay
@Tom-Lay 5 ай бұрын
Yep 😅
@ailajoypurser2298
@ailajoypurser2298 5 ай бұрын
I have never seen this guy this loving, gentle and caring towards his partner. In the former relationship it felt like he was there but trapped. In this current one, its very hard evident how he is very present and he really takes inti consideration his partners tKe on things first as compared to the former where he looked distant and disconnected like he was just there because he didn’t have a choice. Tale care of each other! I think this is a match made in heaven.
@Tom-Lay
@Tom-Lay 5 ай бұрын
Thanks 🙏
@phill7573
@phill7573 5 ай бұрын
Hi Tom and Lay, Thanks for the informative video. I think you two make an awesome couple. You both seem very happy, and that's important. Congratulations on finding each other. ❤
@Tom-Lay
@Tom-Lay 5 ай бұрын
Thanks 🙏
@bcampbell1498
@bcampbell1498 3 ай бұрын
Hey Tom and Lay. I've recently came across your channel and it really resonates with me, possibly because we're roughly the same age and so are our Filipinas. My take on what you discussed and for anyone curious is Filipinas are romantic by nature, enjoy the courting process (I had to court for 4.5 months before meeting her parents to get the green light), be a gentleman at all times, open car doors, pull her chair out,open doors etc, be consistent with your efforts, don't underestimate how your kindness to others influences how she views you and be aware of their natural shyness. There's more but I am dating a "traditional" Filipina and that's my take....oh and get used to eating rice at 6am for breakfast 😂. Great content mate, keep it up
@Tom-Lay
@Tom-Lay 3 ай бұрын
Thanks 🙏
@springtime5361
@springtime5361 5 ай бұрын
Hi Tom & beautiful Lay, awesome honest, respectful video. Always supporting your channel. Keep up your awesome videos. Love & take care of each other always. May God bless you both throughout your lives. Enjoy your coffee (smile) From USA
@johnlee5557
@johnlee5557 5 ай бұрын
I think on all relationships, is good to know one another to see if we are compatible or not, never rush into a relationship
@michaeltakayama8415
@michaeltakayama8415 5 ай бұрын
I think you find a good partner, for a successful long-term relationship, by first being a good person yourself (probably explains why I am still single... lol). If one partner is selfish and/or exploitive, the other partner will inevitably become unhappy & the relationship will turn toxic. Selfish behavior can be easily masked in the early phases of a new relationship, though - so taking it slow and getting to know each other well, before making any life-long commitments, is definitely critical. No fears for the two of you, though! Best of luck, always, and safe travels!
@Tom-Lay
@Tom-Lay 5 ай бұрын
Thanks 🙏
@jorcyn3284
@jorcyn3284 5 ай бұрын
What a nice topic so interesting,this vlog means a lot! they found perfect each other,at the same time same values,I really like you Lay,being honest,lovable,caring,nice family as well,as Tom said,if you really like to know the girl you should meet the family,i agreed! Check the background,very important. My husband also foreigner,met here in Europe,we also same we valued loyalty. Pretty sure your relationship end up for good and stable. Wish you both happiness and keep the love burning! 😍
@KIMBER-x7x
@KIMBER-x7x 5 ай бұрын
Lays dress in thumbnail adorable. Married a hometown boy, so no good stories from me. But a loyal, happy traditional marriage. Trust will be your success!
@Tom-Lay
@Tom-Lay 5 ай бұрын
Well said!
@mattressserta-m4n
@mattressserta-m4n 5 ай бұрын
i am a new subscriber to your channel and also i have been following your channel since your 1st video of ireland homebase. so far very entertaining & look forward to more videos...cheers tom & lay😊
@brianbaxter3913
@brianbaxter3913 5 ай бұрын
It seems so easy to find the wrong ones but hard to find the right one. Many that I have met are saying I love you after one or two days and those are the ones usually looking for what they can get. If they are asking for money that is a red flag for sure. I have made some good friends here and their Filipina's are really good in every way. I have chatted to girls from the Philippines for 20 years or more online and here in person and still not found the right one. I dated one that I thought was a good one. She had her own money so she never asked for money and she would sometimes pay the bill if we went out but turned out when she said she was crazy she ment physico crazy not fun crazy. You need to take your time to know someone. It takes time to learn about each other. Glad you two found each other. You seem to be a good fit together.
@conniejmoran8910
@conniejmoran8910 5 ай бұрын
❤😍🤩 I can relate to Lay's experience. My mom did that to me also when my husband went to Philippines to visit me and meet my family. ❤❤❤
@gizellemae
@gizellemae 5 ай бұрын
She's a keeper!!! Tom both you and Lay are a lovely couple! Your a good man!
@Tom-Lay
@Tom-Lay 5 ай бұрын
Thanks 🙏
@hemikingi4860
@hemikingi4860 4 ай бұрын
Hi Tom and Lay .. Look after each other .. love each other .. enjoy this ride ❤😊
@macalaban2405
@macalaban2405 5 ай бұрын
Lay is right not all pilipina and the same .Tom you found a good one i can see you respect its other.goodluck to your future its other guys
@xjohnnydsonx
@xjohnnydsonx 5 ай бұрын
Another great vlog guys ❤
@DorothyShioura
@DorothyShioura 5 ай бұрын
Tom & Lay very authentic 🙃❤️☘️🇺🇸💛🙃
@rahfill475
@rahfill475 5 ай бұрын
Yes Lay has a good family! Filipina family are very close. I grew up in up in the states and my parents were old fashion. I was the rebellious one. I have to admit that I do and Love having a close net family, I’ve learned a lot from our culture and American culture. Wish you both a wonderful relationship. Always be honest with each other
@maymendoza8873
@maymendoza8873 5 ай бұрын
I'm just a new subscriber.... I run back to ur oldest vlog together... I enjoyed watching them. You really look good together. Hope tom will propose and marry lay soon❤❤❤
@Tom-Lay
@Tom-Lay 5 ай бұрын
Thanks 🙏
@maymendoza8873
@maymendoza8873 5 ай бұрын
@@Tom-Lay more power to ur vlog... Really love watching u together❤️❤️❤️
@johnlee5557
@johnlee5557 5 ай бұрын
Very good point, mostly people will rush into a relationship,to me it’s good to know one another first
@mariobruno5606
@mariobruno5606 5 ай бұрын
You are very lucky to have Lay in your life Tom. Womens like Lay are very very rare to find nowadays. Your contents are getting more exciting, especially that now you started having this "" TOMLAY'S LOVE ADVICE TV """ . Lay is so naturally beautiful such a good match of handsome Tom ( the Tom Cruise alike ) . Keep the simple and exciting contents coming up you two! 👤❤️👤
@michaelorfanos7416
@michaelorfanos7416 5 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing this story, wonderful!
@sulelmanelayyan7009
@sulelmanelayyan7009 5 ай бұрын
Really appreciate the honesty. Your the best couple I have seen. Babies?
@RubyLaquindanum
@RubyLaquindanum 5 ай бұрын
I'm a new follower of you two I love watching your vlog ❤
@sacmarcela1973
@sacmarcela1973 5 ай бұрын
Not all filipina are alike,lay is absolutely right most is looking for a foreigner husband or boyfriends for money reason only small percent is looking for love or goodman regardless how much you hv in your pocket.
@wilmamacrooy2562
@wilmamacrooy2562 5 ай бұрын
Tom, I am glad you met this beautiful girl. You are happy with her and thats what one should be in a relaionship, But I think each jar has a lid. Its not that this one is better than that one. Its all about if the lid fits God bless you.
@Tom-Lay
@Tom-Lay 5 ай бұрын
Yes 🙌
@cwayzums
@cwayzums 5 ай бұрын
Bringing someone home to meet the family is a big deal, but not always a financial red flag when they hesitate to do so because it could mean other things. Strict parents would make one hesitate. I had that my whole life in adulthood.
@jevibernal1422
@jevibernal1422 5 ай бұрын
You guys so funny and your my favorite couple since you met lay God bless Tom & Lay thanks for sharing this video 😍
@Tom-Lay
@Tom-Lay 5 ай бұрын
Thank you so much!!
@geoffreydavis6700
@geoffreydavis6700 5 ай бұрын
Tom bit of advice Don't forget to cook rice if Lay ask u too because I forgot to cook for my Filipina wife and see didn't speak to me for 4days When I went to my wife family they all showed up and was asking me questions and how they made me feel welcome into there family that was 12hrs ago and we still going strong together
@donaldshields2483
@donaldshields2483 5 ай бұрын
Hi, I think you’ve made a very good decision. She looks like a very nice girl very attractive and I think you will have a good life for her. Keep up some some videos and I will very gladly watch them and thank you God bless yeah I
@barbaraalberico872
@barbaraalberico872 5 ай бұрын
Glad you run away as far as u can Tom from pretentious one and you know who I’m talking about! Glad you found Lay😂
@loidaalasas7479
@loidaalasas7479 5 ай бұрын
very true
@judylyndael6262
@judylyndael6262 5 ай бұрын
Are u sure this girl is not pretentious?
@barbaraalberico872
@barbaraalberico872 5 ай бұрын
@@judylyndael6262 maybe she is! I don’t know but the other one it’s really obvious from the very beginning up to now😝
@Belle-tl8rt
@Belle-tl8rt 4 ай бұрын
@@judylyndael6262 Even the way MJ walks while Robbie takes video of her walking in the streets is so over acting and unnatural. Everything she does is pretend.
@zooknutt
@zooknutt 5 ай бұрын
Met her Jul 2018 in Cebu Moved to my hometown Charlotte married Feb 2020 still together going great 3 year age gap only and Overall grade A.
@shirleydejesus3711
@shirleydejesus3711 5 ай бұрын
Hello Tom ❤lay keep uploading Godbless 🙏🏻❤️🎉
@TheOriginalRick
@TheOriginalRick 4 ай бұрын
Well, let's see. I was standing one evening on the tarmac at Kadena Air Force Base in Okinawa, Japan, waving goodbye to a friend from a Bible study as he was walking out to his plane to transfer off the island back to the States. I noticed a young, beautiful Filipina walking towards the terminal. She would have to pass right by me on her way in. So I thought to myself "Why not?" I stopped her and asked if she needed any help, and because I was wearing cargo shorts, she was instantly fascinated by my hairy American legs. Apparently, men's leg hair was not a major part of her culture. Fortunately for me, she is still fascinated by my hairy legs even after fifty years together, and I still wear cargo shorts everywhere I can to keep her happy. ❤❤
@EJTHEMASTER
@EJTHEMASTER 5 ай бұрын
On point, but i will say as a comment I'm married to a filipina best decision we both made first. i would say take your time to learn from each other 2nd a filipina that has a career job and formally educated and a good family background why you say well its to both your advantages in the long term remember its a relationship your not buying a car to trade in its a commitment financial cultural and religious trust me its a wonderful feeling being with the right person it takes time patience and commitment take care to you both 😊
@nancyandrade3686
@nancyandrade3686 5 ай бұрын
Aww! Adorable couple!🩷 I was laughing about the content of your blog. 😂 cute Lay, haha!
@DorothyShioura
@DorothyShioura 5 ай бұрын
Tom & Lay forever ❤️ confidence trust humor - Always say you are sorry ☘️🇺🇸💛🙃❤️
@RanaureliFarm
@RanaureliFarm 5 ай бұрын
Question for Lay....when a Philipna girl is interested in a foreigner is it a foreigner from the USA/Western countries only? Or do they consider a guy from the Asian countries as well?
@belleremonde6608
@belleremonde6608 5 ай бұрын
Nice Tom and Lay❤ forever💕
@tonyp6474
@tonyp6474 25 күн бұрын
The reason he was confused about the bill depended on the relationship. Some women hold the money in the relationship and pay the bill.
@shake_moon
@shake_moon 3 ай бұрын
I love lay's english accent, Very natural and calm, She speaks not too fast and not too slow, and most importantly she doesn't speak a lot which is very nice, moreover I love her personality, Simple yet beautiful, Naturally beautiful filipina, I can say that Lay is the one that tom was looking for such a long time A wife material, A lot of people said that "oh tom didn't really love her former gf, he just used his former gf to become popular" blah blah blah, Well, As what i've observed, Tom did his part to take care and give his 100% love to his former gf but tom was just not happy enough because he's looking to a wife material and a demure filipina woman, Not a so called " filipina Disney princess" or a "filipina Kardashian", If i were her (former gf) Bf, I would probably get annoyed on how she act, She's really trying hard to be classy even though she isn't, Buying expensive unnecessary things✅ throwing big amount of money for travels✅ Eating to a expensive restaurants ✅ Problems in her house that is needed lots of money❌ Parent's Health condition❌ Always complaining when a problem hits her👎 Not a wife material...
@susanwaite1187
@susanwaite1187 5 ай бұрын
You both hit the jackpot Adios ? Is Spain on the horizon?
@Tom-Lay
@Tom-Lay 5 ай бұрын
Possibly
@gim6109
@gim6109 5 ай бұрын
Thanks i never had a chance to meet his family😅how to meet a good afam?😂agree so much with Lay..i liked you both.
@doedoebirds1
@doedoebirds1 5 ай бұрын
Lay's mom was teaching her, how to be a good host, when company and or guest comes over.
@larryc9617
@larryc9617 5 ай бұрын
I think girls like Lay are few and far between, in your case Tom i can see why you are both attracted to each other but Ive seen old guys Like myself, I'm 72, and for the life of me I cant see why they would be attracted to me, other than a meal ticket, of course I have a regular income being retired but if thats all they want its not going to last, maybe old guys like me should if they want to go to the Philippines not be looking for a young girl but to just experience the different culture, its pretty obvious that the people from the Philippines are way nicer more friendly than people in the west, really at an old age that should be enough.
@Pilar-x8k
@Pilar-x8k 5 ай бұрын
I think you are looking at the wrong place, my husband and I are in a May-December relationship and we have been married for 40 years.He was my colleague when we met and I earned my own money.
@cryptorocketeer
@cryptorocketeer 5 ай бұрын
Hi guys, whilst I do have a similar opinion about the Filipinas being very loyal partners, of course that only applies to the good Filipinas, there's a hell of a lot more dishonest females than honest nowadays, however Philippines is the 13th highest populated country in the world so it's not possible to generalize. Everyone needs to be very careful when choosing their partner, and remember that a lot of these gold diggers are very clever and can also invite you to their parents and still be taking you for a ride 😢 luckily for you Tom and also myself, we got lucky and found amazing Filipinas 😊❤
@ThomasSlodzinski
@ThomasSlodzinski 5 ай бұрын
Great video loyalty is very hard to come by at least here where I am geographically located. And I am just the opposite I am very loyal the good or the bad but I find it interesting in the West and I have studied this for a while the women are totally different here they want to be independent and now they are saying they don't need a man blah blah blah it's creating a problem. I am glad y'all are together thank you for the video. Much love from Virginia USA
@nass6212
@nass6212 5 ай бұрын
Many you tube 99% asking filipina women opinions about men but till now I not seen any you tube opinion of Filipna,guys about Filipina,women ..they should have the rights to express their opnions in you tube
@chipchap2007
@chipchap2007 5 ай бұрын
very good video, thank you for sharing
@Tom-Lay
@Tom-Lay 5 ай бұрын
Thanks for watching
@LoretaOReilly-xe1gd
@LoretaOReilly-xe1gd 5 ай бұрын
Lay, you should explain to Tom if “Tampo” comes to you as as one of our culture behaviour as filipina. Which sometimes it’s hard for our partner or husband to understand, especially when we came from different cultures. We had arguments with my husband sometimes regarding tampo, it’s because he doesnt have a clue what happened to me if i just keep quiet suddenly. And cant be disturb. he’s kind of get use to my tampo attack now, but sometimes he just cant get it. Especially when he is not in the mood as well, to understand my tampo that goes to mis communication then…
@susanwilson4373
@susanwilson4373 5 ай бұрын
That's what you call giving the silent treatment . That happens with guys too because I was with one before (a foreigner too). So it's not just a Filipina trait. 😅
@DorothyShioura
@DorothyShioura 5 ай бұрын
Lay please go Horse back riding with your significant other Tom - get over the fear 💛 horseback riding in Ireland is beautiful you look back at that beautiful memory ☘️🇺🇸💛🙃❤️
@Tom-Lay
@Tom-Lay 5 ай бұрын
😁😁
@bxmckern
@bxmckern 5 ай бұрын
You are both looking very happy together
@Tom-Lay
@Tom-Lay 5 ай бұрын
Thank you 😊
@melindamarsden9877
@melindamarsden9877 5 ай бұрын
Very lovely.
@Tom-Lay
@Tom-Lay 5 ай бұрын
Thanks 🙏
@markeuringer8106
@markeuringer8106 5 ай бұрын
Props to Tom for getting a Filipina who is not divorced and single and having a child or 2. Some bloggers I watch have fallen into that situation where the Filipina they connect with have a child or more ….
@Untamedlove
@Untamedlove 5 ай бұрын
Tom, My brother in law has been married to his Pilipina for 45 years..He meet her in a Bar ..she was a Bar Girl..back in the 1970 the bar was the place to find a wife because bar girl spoke English and they were looking for military guys... even the bar girls that charged for sex took you to her house or hut and she was also looking for a husband and they were not seen as bad girls or in a negative way....I think people look at you and Lay and they want a filipina like that or a foreigner like that....but love doesn't work that way trying to Copy someone else love ...
@jairelynmiano9192
@jairelynmiano9192 5 ай бұрын
@Tom & Lay well Tom you definitely have found your perfect Filipina girl,coz Lay is so happy wen she is with you and for me that's love ❤ It's crazy to think that you guy's met in century mall, coz for me i think it's kinda hard to meet girls in malls haha..
@Tom-Lay
@Tom-Lay 5 ай бұрын
No we met before that’s just where we met first time
@artkane6546
@artkane6546 5 ай бұрын
Delicate subject but, I assume Lay followed you as Roaming Hogan. But did she follow your ex and see you in those videos? No disrespect to your ex intended. I really hate it when people compare the 2 of them.
@marichuarmodia2375
@marichuarmodia2375 5 ай бұрын
That what my husband h love me because he knows I care for him for the rest of his life and being be happy together with the kids and happy in life families and now we are still loving full of satisfied what we have and we are living in uk and we have house in the Philippines and my husband he both land and farm in the Philippines 🇵🇭 and we both are in life happy family with kids❤
@NoMonyNoHuny
@NoMonyNoHuny 5 ай бұрын
you must not forget to mention that when dating a Filipina lady. that most of the money she gets goes to her family. so saving is almost impossible. her most important goal is to take care of her parents
@holgerokorn3164
@holgerokorn3164 4 ай бұрын
Hi Lay, if a Filipono date a Filipina is it the same he has to pay for diner ? If Filipina & Filipino couple both have a job. is there 50/50 expense share for how it works ?
@elizabethdukulis1134
@elizabethdukulis1134 4 ай бұрын
Hi.TOM AND LAY LOOKING NICE WITH HER HAIR LIKE THAT NICE APT TOO
@Airraidcd
@Airraidcd 5 ай бұрын
Question for Lai I’m going to MOA next March to give my ex gf her chocolates and stuff I got for her. She said she will either bring her mother or brother. I am willing to pay her lunch since I said I would but do I need to pay for their food as well?
@Tom-Lay
@Tom-Lay 5 ай бұрын
You shouldn’t even have to pay for your ex 😅😂
@Airraidcd
@Airraidcd 5 ай бұрын
@@Tom-Lay I know but it’s ok I just want to see her one last time for an hour.. just need closure. A few thousand peso not going to make me broke. Just wanted Lai to respond if I should pay either for the brother or the mother going with her .
@DorothyShioura
@DorothyShioura 5 ай бұрын
Tom & Lay always say I’m sorry & I love you ☘️🇺🇸💛🙃❤️
@pepeee548
@pepeee548 5 ай бұрын
I prefer slow relationships, no need to meet family straight, live together first months. I feel a natural growth of a relationship, no rush and being demanding since the beginning. I am also not interested in a lady that expect me to pay everything and support her and family while she does nothing...but hey if you like go for it
@DorothyShioura
@DorothyShioura 5 ай бұрын
Good morning Tom & Lay ❤️🙃💛🇺🇸☘️
@KM-pq7sr
@KM-pq7sr 4 ай бұрын
Marriage
@marichuarmodia2375
@marichuarmodia2375 5 ай бұрын
How sweet nmn together
@eanleeparkin7004
@eanleeparkin7004 5 ай бұрын
Always bring the boyfriend to your parents to meet him.Not many guys like to meet parents that is the sign not ready
@wernerstogmann531
@wernerstogmann531 2 ай бұрын
Misses right
@susanwaite1187
@susanwaite1187 5 ай бұрын
My 60 year old son is married to a Fillipina aged 41 and i will have a granddaughter next months Unfortunately she was refused a visa to visit last Sept for two months with no appeal although she would be staying with my son.
@Maryhilton-ws6ol
@Maryhilton-ws6ol 5 ай бұрын
Where are you?
@susanwaite1187
@susanwaite1187 5 ай бұрын
​@@Maryhilton-ws6ol In the UK 🇬🇧
@rogercaughey3732
@rogercaughey3732 5 ай бұрын
Seems like have a lot in common. Did lay have relatives in Ireland.?
@DorothyShioura
@DorothyShioura 5 ай бұрын
Horseback riding in Ireland, is romantic worldwide ☘️🇺🇸💛🙃❤️
@bridgeactiveenglish9202
@bridgeactiveenglish9202 5 ай бұрын
1. When paying , most waiters/ waitresses in the Philippines think that a man gives money to a woman , so it is often that the bill is given to her. 2. Even you think that this man/woman is the person who you want to make a relationship with or spend the rest of your life with, should not introduce to the family right away. 3. In my opinion , not having an experience to be in a relationship is an excuse not to show hospitality. It is similar to entertaining your friends coming to your home, offering something to be a good host. 4. When dating, it doesn't mean that the man should always pay, unless she has ulterior motives. He can pay for meal and she can pay for snacks or movies. But in most instances, man shoulders all and the worse thing is taking friends on a date and let the foreigner pays as well as for the family. You two look so great together. Hoping to see you both grow as a couple and have a wonderful relationship.
@Tom-Lay
@Tom-Lay 5 ай бұрын
Thanks 🙏
@bridgeactiveenglish9202
@bridgeactiveenglish9202 5 ай бұрын
@@Tom-Lay honestly, I love the both of you. Thought you coming guys to NL. I may not commenting on all your videos, but darlings, don't break my heart because I like to see a happy ending in your relationship. You take care and enjoy .
@Joeking313
@Joeking313 5 ай бұрын
To find a very good filipina the best places to go are small provinces because they're not influenced like city girls. Not saying all city girls are bad but in general your chances on a good girl will come from a Provence not the city.
@myrnabonafede5258
@myrnabonafede5258 5 ай бұрын
Very true😊
@DorothyShioura
@DorothyShioura 5 ай бұрын
Love is blind ❤️
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