"Dating Nigerian Men? 5 Things You MUST Know!"

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[@NIO623]

You forgot the most important one be ambitious. Nigerian men like women that are ambitious and educated.

[@EditCrafting]

Lies of the 21st century

[@Lavenderspice942]

Trueee!

[@akendon7260]

Depends on the tribe. Igbo men don't want their wife to be ambitious. Just be a good wife, they will take care of you and the kids.

[@thelovechannel7236]

They hate lazy women

[@soprialamembere9751]

​@@thelovechannel7236 yes we do hate lazy anything

[@TheAdeJohn]

5 Things You Should Know Before Dating a Nigerian Man: 1. Don’t let your guard down and keep in mind that his primary goal might be to use you. 2. Realize that he’s an angel when he has no money, but be prepared for a roller-coaster ride of womanizing when money comes into his pocket. 3. If you never plan to relocate with him to Nigeria, remember that his polygamous nature may lead him to take a second wife in Nigeria if you choose not to relocate with him. 4. Ingrain it in your mind that his love of money supersedes his love and affection for you. He will lie, cheat, and steal for money. 5. His love and romance with you are time-limited and dependent on the duration of your perpetual submissiveness.

[@Laura-sn7mh]

#6. If he doesn’t introduce you to any family with in 6 months. Hunny he won’t marry you. Your just for fun.

[@obinnaizuora5013]

Lol...maybe true 😂😂😂

[@Laura-sn7mh]

@@obinnaizuora5013 yep I know 😂. I had dated a Nigerian man that was keeping a big secret from me. He was married. Years later I dated another one. He was single and wanted to marry me. Wow big difference in how your treated

[@thelovechannel7236]

@@Laura-sn7mh You learn this the hard way but you never forget . Same with ALL African men and those men of African descent . They love their side chicks .

[@SRHisntSilent]

Noted

[@vernetta111]

Even if he does introduce you doesnt mean he will even marry you they are disgusting

[@norye4300]

#7 80% of them, lie a lot! You dont really know them! And they always have about three phones, and most of them, are married back home, and wouldn't tell you, and tell you they're single! Just be wise with them!!

[@tonyrufus4965]

Werey....d time wey u no wan get sense nko...I no go leave u waka ni.....koshi danu jo

[@lore2766]

Wow on point

[@tonyrufus4965]

@@lore2766 dem Don serve you breakfast too.....

[@user-uu2wf8wu7d]

Sorry my Sis. Coz you met the wrong one. Ma, wait till you see the lovely and most loving ones. You won't be able to express

[@lore2766]

@@tonyrufus4965 lol

[@godwino.8541]

Number 6, respect his mom.

[@chimakalu41]

That one is big o!

[@Mike_tradehub]

Yes ooo😂😂😂

[@user-uu2wf8wu7d]

Guyyyyyyyyy yes ooo

[@kimberlyboakye342]

My Nigerian man, it's the dad. If he dad doesn't "sanction" for you then it's downhill from there

[@mariahssoapbox]

Definitely be open to learning about the food !

[@AccordingToQueen]

🙌🏽😌🙌🏽

[@artemis1style]

The Nigerian males I've been interacting with lately are very stifling of my personality. I wil not be held captive by that kind of controlling behaviour nah-uh nope.

[@edidiongokoro5212]

😂😂😂 they're not controlling and they don't take trash attitude like your men do

[@anthonydibie2832]

sorry...Honey, guess that's why you might be single for a long while😂

[@David_Scar]

Then you've got a shitty personality and you should work on it.. We Nigerian Men are absolutely loving and will bring down the heavens for those we love.. so it's a you issue,Look in the mirror. Also I bet none of them are controlling,you're confusing boundaries for controlling... Most men who actually love their women will set some kind of boundary but women like you will call it controlling. Stay single and spare good men that headache.

[@adesinataiwo7941]

If you are not submissive sorry my sister you can't stay in marriage here

[@angelchelcydhan_1134]

😂😂

[@olusolaadeniyi875]

1. Get Close to his mom 2.cook his best food. 3. Respect his sisters 4. Be willing to born 5 children for him. 5. Get him a green card.

[@Wahinemaori85]

1,2 and 3 as long as it's reciprocated coz sometimes they be getting more love than their actual partners F that and no 5 is his free pass to leave us as soon as they arrive or get bored.

[@JeannoraJohnson]

Five kids when they can't even take care of themselves 😢😢.

[@HeartWritesINC]

lol 😂 no to the green card… from an American woman

[@user-rz6oq3ey2r]

Be Regious Be grounded Cook for him Be very organized and neat Don't be skinny and don't be too big. They don't like big tummy Dress well Be nice to his family. Send gift to them Be respectful Do not nag. Express yourself calmly Be his baby Do your hair always Care for him Obey him Pray for him

[@vernetta111]

Basically everything but be yourself and they can have big belly bald head side chick wahala etc etc ninja pls 😂😂😂😂😂

[@ironmaan6554]

Good job lady. You are full of wisdom

[@Lavenderspice942]

Yes all very true and my guy is an amazing one!! Especially be open to the culture and be modest too they respect that.

[@DavidAtsu-lc4bi]

Hello

[@Lavenderspice942]

@@DavidAtsu-lc4bi Hello! Hope all is well 🙂

[@kalimbaayinde25]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@sarahcoleman3694]

#4 - he says i know more about Nigerian current events than he does. He is ready to show me just how good Nigerian jollof is when i get there in January. 90 days and i'll be in Lagos.

[@olalekandavidolaosebikan9911]

You're in good hands... I look forward to loving someone from the other side of the world ... I mean variety is the spice of life

[@seritawilkins1058]

I want an update. How did it go?

[@walegliverpool7140]

She may not be 100% but she nailed it.

[@MrsIkonwa]

the comments are giving me a good laugh

[@AndyAkpan-wf9kk]

Just laugh it out girl because I'm laughing too from the comments 🤣

[@tonyrufus4965]

Nigerian men are also funny ....so laugh hard as you want....lolzzzzz

[@judy487]

I don’t fuck with them anymore

[@AccordingToQueen]

Trust me I get it 😂

[@omotoshosamuel6579]

That mean you are not willing to adjust, and not willing to change. I think everyone is supposed to change, sacrify. No one wants to marry who's selfish. am not saying you are. I guess you don't really want to get married to someone who won't stop lying or stop stop stealing because of you. If he's not willing to change .then he ain't yours

[@tonyrufus4965]

My dear just try understand yourself and ur partner....nigerian men don't have problems.....maybe you need to check yourself......sorry if my words are arsh....

[@judy487]

@@tonyrufus4965 96% are liars and cheaters

[@tundebakare6887]

​@@tonyrufus4965❤

[@frederickncha1825]

You’re right girl. Absolutely right.

[@kayk2899]

#7 be prepared for all of the female “friends”

[@AccordingToQueen]

😂

[@silverlamb5768]

Aunty you are correct about kids, but the most important thing to know is they love domesticated, respectful and submissive women and you didn't mention be family orientated, you have to accept and be accepted by his family

[@blackestknight1.0]

#6. Just tell him Nigerian jollof is the best

[@AccordingToQueen]

Lol I have to be honest in my opinion it is the best😂

[@elihopey]

Try Ghanaian jollof too, I’m not here for the never ending debate tho 🤣 just letting a beautiful soul taste a delicious food. 😂

[@JusticeWindah-wz4jo]

@@elihopey don't turn this place to vawulence center I beg you

[@AndyAkpan-wf9kk]

Well.. Nigerian jollof definitely the best 👍

[@tonyrufus4965]

Nigeria jollof all day....

[@mariahssoapbox]

Not don’t talk too much !! This took me out 😂😂😂

[@AccordingToQueen]

🤣🤣🤣

[@lore2766]

On point

[@izubrobranch8427]

We also love industrious ladies, your right when you said,we don't like talking too much lady, cos we think she has too many past experience, and she gonna be very insultive and we like when we want to speak,she should immediately keep quiet. 😂

[@dyesikagermainepaillant2261]

They cheat

[@kalimbaayinde25]

A LOT

[@jeanellep613]

I dated one and he said I wahala too much 😂😂

[@AndyAkpan-wf9kk]

Lol... Wahala is trouble 😂

[@AndyAkpan-wf9kk]

@@Skyler777She too stubborn and she giving him too much trouble ... Is what it meant by her wahala is too much 🤣

[@AndyAkpan-wf9kk]

@@Skyler777 Glad you do understand

[@tonyrufus4965]

That's what that lady is trying to explain at first....try be silent sometimes otherwise a nigerian man will say " your wahala too much" it might be you're not troublesome but we like using that word "WAHALA" in any form when we are being disturbed by our siblings,wife,husband or any relatives...........mean while the wahala means trouble or problem.......lmao.....

[@majorbriggs8876]

Lol it means your so troublesome 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@user-tv2wk4yy2y]

I love nigerian men love the culture I love it

[@christalbrown7138]

Hide your assets!! #1 !🤣🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭😭😭😭🙌🙌🙌💯

[@rhondaluster5088]

And I hate to say I am a talker I can't help that cuz I did not talk exactly right away when I was younger I voice my opinion on a lot I'm an aquarius I speak my mind that's the way I am I don't shut down for no man as a man can accept me for who I am than they ain't going to love me.

[@audrianafredrick5516]

I'm the same way as well #Aquariusgang

[@ishma2100]

With this attitude you are going to keep a man

[@walegliverpool7140]

Well, ain't no Nigerian man telling their women not to talk or express themselves. It's just that you got to open them with respect and dignity.

[@tonyrufus4965]

​@walegliverpool7140 very correct....I was about saying same thing but you finished it........tell

[@shaydavis9363]

#aquariusganggang…

[@afolabifemi5678]

Nigeria is my country. So proud of my country 🎉

[@otuefiom5730]

Spot on girl.

[@princessshania6932]

These comments are scaring me lol

[@ReinaAfricana]

Don't worry just head east and look for a man from Rwanda Uganda or Kenya Even the Tanzanian men are okay and some of the southern African countries like Zimbabwe Zambia Botswana good husbands come from there too.

[@fistandpen2505]

lol I'm a Nigerian man miss. People got different experiences, so if you see someone you like go for it. Main thing is if he's (really) into you, at some point you'll meet his family. If not, make your own decision about what's best. But regardless, the average Nigerian man (raised in Nigeria) will treat you like a gem. What you're reading above is a lot of hurt feelings for not being chosen. It is what it is.

[@kalimbaayinde25]

Five things. 1. Don’t 2. Don’t 3. Don’t 4. Don’t 5. Don’t

[@CartoonMaster28]

I am a Nigerian man, I'm looking for love

[@lesimalek3153]

Am from Zambia and am olso looking for love am not rich am just a simple lady ready to find a Nigerian man

[@ReinaAfricana]

​@@lesimalek3153abort mission sister abort mission I've just been through this.

[@ReinaAfricana]

I hope you find a wonderful Nigerian lady sir I've tried and it did not work out with other Nigerians. I'm just technically one of diasporians that rather marry an East African man. But I do hope you get what you're looking for.

[@allnaturalflava]

Get out!

[@samtislorh8529]

As a Naija man I say you’re definitely on point and we also like our women to be feminine ie everything woman and not what has become of many women today

[@CocoKiss2011]

As a Nigerian man. What’s most important to you about your companion?

[@nyaintunyaintu509]

Lmao pleaseeeee!! They’re NARCISSISTS and very TRIBALISTIC!

[@tonyrufus4965]

Eleribu omo ofo.........

[@vernetta111]

Devils

[@ACTFIREE]

😅always a mumu in comments

[@tundebakare6887]

Foolish Fool 😂

[@ironmaan6554]

O le se ori ire. Omo ale

[@valentineishaku2242]

You've said it all 🤷🏿‍♂️❤️🙏🏿

[@Babyna2424]

There favorite quote ah ha

[@LaughLounge707]

😅😅

[@theanswersisinsideu]

They want to be worshiped they better find a pet or dog

[@AndyAkpan-wf9kk]

How would you know that? It's not true...

[@tonyrufus4965]

Madam change you character......men are to be respected not worshipped...you must respect your man or you discharge .....

[@kingsleychinonso2662]

Funny woman

[@kalimbaayinde25]

Exactly. I would rather have a pet. Was married to one. It was horrible. Never satisfied.

[@Viviebby]

I am Scottish and a woman of God. It is difficult to find here so the Nigerian men often want to date me because of this. I am submissive and feminine etc. I do think they are good but they want to be worshiped like women and it is kinda off putting. I am talking to one man who doesn’t seem to be so much like this so fingers crossed it works out🙏🏻 I am all for complimenting my man but the ones I dated needed validated 24/7 it wasn’t cute cause as a female you want that more from the man

[@Kewchiemonsta]

I mean I’m Jamaican and I love all these things so maybe janerian lol

[@chimakalu41]

Well done.

[@creative-TV12377]

Am single looking for a serious relationship

[@lesimalek3153]

Me too am a lady looking for love

[@MarkDavid724]

You blow the fact completely.

[@kalon511]

You shouldn't look to date Nigerian men unless you're Nigerian or mostly Nigerian. That becomes important because of their true identities. It's important to focus on keeping the bloodline intact as much as possible.

[@ReinaAfricana]

I agree with you this is why I advise African American women to only go for East African men or the men from other African countries. I say this because I don't want them wasting their time with Nigerian men. Now yeah I'm Nigerian too with some other things My father is obviously a rolling Stone. I'm not keeping that bloodline pure. It can be mostly African"but I rather procreate with a man who got good genetics like people from East Africa. I already have a child that is biracial. Let me make sure the rest of my kids will have a variety of genetics. Nigerian men can be disappointing to many which is why I prefer others. The men from Kenya❤ though

[@melindafalusi212]

Bunch of Nigerian guys I know like white girls so your statement isnt true👎🏻sorry

[@mikeshred3587]

I love kyan bcos she has got all these qualities.l love u kyan

[@kyanbutler3992]

Awww...thank you mikeshred...I love you so much too ❤❤❤

[@QogentHub]

Nigeria Man don Cast 😮

[@XY-rh3if]

I'm Nigerian Man but I don't fit into that traditional category. The most important thing to me is for at least, most Nigerian Women or women in general to be independent or self reliant, which unfortunately most Nigerian Women aren't. So I prefer Black American Women because they've arrived, independent, have their own sh*t together and most don't act like a man owes them something

[@EducatedBlackQueen]

Facts!!

[@welfaktenalien]

Im Nigerian

[@wsvibestv8490]

🇳🇬🇺🇲🫶💚🥰

[@oldbuckaroocowboy]

#6 avoid them like the plague

[@michael_essien]

Well, you can't 😂😂 we're everywhere

[@MrsIkonwa]

lol

[@goldie_ngozi]

😂😂

[@nyaintunyaintu509]

Exactly!! Uhggg

[@oldbuckaroocowboy]

I’m talking about yoruba.

[@MrBenMedia2022]

For me as a Nigerian, cheating and disrespect is what I can't take from any woman.

[@kalimbaayinde25]

But you can give it. 😂😂😂

[@edwardado9859]

hmmm well said

[@MrSmartjay]

God bless you jare! 😂❤

[@nigerianblackamericancouple17]

7 years in tell me about it ....❤❤❤

[@ra-neter6662]

u can apply thisall men just saying

[@rhondaluster5088]

How do you know when a Nigerian man is lying to

[@im_victor234]

Lol it depends on the individual there is no formula or guidelines

[@ishma2100]

@@im_victor234 see if he will take a lie detector test

[@Callmeperrys]

They open their mouth to speak

[@aoy_boy]

​@@Callmeperryslmaooo

[@elihopey]

Did you believe the Pinocchio gesture ? 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Aboladeishola]

If you can keep rule #1, you're married..lol..

[@femimathew105]

The same applies to every man

[@sifisodube4686]

Crooks

[@RobbenOsula-qy9dc]

Is catering part of the food aspect? We nigerians don't play with good food.. I wife won me over with her food. She's the best.. imagine being surprised with an amazing meal after work.. we don't play with our wife and kids.. source of happiness.. we get happy pays bills when due.. we love being loved.. we also like women who comes up with ideas yo get richer.. oh, almost forgot, we love good sex, satisfying sex from both sides.. we love peace ✌..

[@Killer_592]

Number 6 don’t have a body Tattoo

[@lesimalek3153]

Me I have it nd I need a Nigerian man

[@miminasir6178]

Know how to cook too

[@elintocable0072]

I want a nigerian girl 🤭.

[@ellysathomas9299]

Nigerian men like woman with nyash

[@Nwankwo1234]

What if she has some belly with it but well balanced

[@CocoKiss2011]

What’s nyash?

[@Nwankwo1234]

Booty, big booty

[@LaughLounge707]

​@@CocoKiss2011aßs

[@CeliniacForLife]

​@@CocoKiss2011 It's Pidgin for ass

[@SRHisntSilent]

Is this actually true?

[@AndyAkpan-wf9kk]

Don't believe everything you hear or read on here..how would you generalized all the men in Nigeria with some opinions you got from somewhere

[@ReinaAfricana]

​@@AndyAkpan-wf9kkwell after interviewing 20 Nigerians well probably over 20 Nigerians. They all lied to me every single one of them I'm like wow. Basically no good it only had the dating stages but never went past that. They like to waste time We know it's not all. But if y'all don't hold your fellow brother's accountable then this will be the stereotype that will follow you everywhere you go.

[@Aboladeishola]

Absolutely big YES. All is true. As a cool Nigerian handsome guy I acknowledged the 5 points. She really study and understand us ..lol..

[@kogiman]

It's vibes. Enjoy it.

[@unwanaobioh3118]

I'm looking at all the comments and are confused as a Nigerian who has only had amazing relationships with my men😅

[@GeorgeKhoza-cf8yu]

Also, be prepared to have drugs laboratory in the basement

[@DavidOLUWAnifise]

Your eyelashes on the left is falling