Dating Women In The Philippines Is Horrible For This Reason, Don't Do It

[@joshuacollins7398]

I went to the Philippines 🇵🇭 in March 2024. It was my first time there. The females are nice and humble. My girlfriend is Filipina from the Philippines 🇵🇭. I met her at the airport and her family came with her. I stayed for a week and had a blast . I came back to the U.S . I plan on going back. I was born in Brooklyn, New York, to Panamanian parents.

[@skyboom16]

meet in the airport with her family😂😂 OMG 😂😂😂😂

[@franktate9873]

I found out that asking Filipinas for directions or help is a great conversation starter!

[@ronbaldon8125]

Filipina Women that I have met are very humble and shy. If you as a man start the conversation just by saying hello and take it from there .at my condo we have Germans , Australian, Americans like you said they are from all over.

[@Mottleydude1]

These are the two biggest lies a Filipina will tell you. “I’m shy” and “I’m just a simple woman”. (There’s no such thing as a simple woman. They are all more complicated than Chinese Arithmetic.). 😂😂😂

[@marksjourneytothephilippin9574]

Broken arm 2 months ago. Huge blessing in disguise. Women with bad intentions “so how are you working” or “can you just give me a little bit still plz.” Vs the good ones “no you keep your money and keep healing” or “I wish I was there to help take care of you.” Gave one of the good ones her wish. Quite comfortable now 😁

[@hi-tych]

I just got back from cebu on Sunday. Everyone was staring at me. I'm talking about, I'm standing in traffic and men and women was looking and asking me questions. Taking pictures of me and with me. so I don't know about everyone one else. I'm 6,2 204lb and I have dreads. They was on me man. Lol

[@AkilezNewEngland]

They like the way you look and especially your hair/height. ❤

[@shakeblue5573]

Im here,,same thing😂

[@danhilarious1395]

It was like that for me in poland lol got kinda old after awhile like damn y’all never seen a black man before 😆

[@touher6071]

Glad to hear bro. Filipino have all sorts of skin complexity so they are into the whole spectrum.

[@tonyanderson4400]

💯 nothing but the truth 🙂👍🏽

[@PassportNomad]

I've met plenty of Filipina here that like Black guys. Some guys have better luck than others. You have to vet a lot of girls here depending on her personality and your preferences. The other thing is working on your self improvement. That's how I see it so far.

[@thelongestshadow3389]

A great attitude my brother i just subbed today, definitely balanced and progressive advice. I look forward to moving to the Phillipines from U.S (not for the women solely but definitely can improve my life there)

[@TheBlackFilipino]

Awesome! Thank you!

[@Ego-Kills]

This whole idea of "they don't like black guys" is inferiory complex. Who cares if they like you or not. The question should be would I like them. Your mind set(confidence) should be most would like me thus i should focus on these. It is all about confidence. Preferences exist but some black guys won't get a woman then blame on the skin color when the reason could be other traits like how you cary yourself..etc There are many white and other ethnicities that dont get woman but they don't blame on their ethnicities. Btw, i am a black man.

[@josephbatiste8809]

I very much agree 👍 with this

[@TheBlackFilipino]

That's the same way I look at it.

[@kingmelanin7468]

Such babble...

[@gemox3225]

These are good points.

[@rl8571]

Agree. As a Filipino male that got to the US at high school age, i made it a point to try as many races as possible. As beautiful as filipinas are, nothing beats the excitement of dating girls that look like Mariah Carey, Beyonce, J. lo, Selena, Ariana or even Taylor Swift.. even though they were players too, it's the experience that matters when you young. I could easily have said I'm Filipino, why would any girl want me..and those never would've happened.

[@juniorellis-uv1gr]

I feel scared for a minute not to go to the Philippines but I Ike your video explaining how it really is out there thanks Jay much respect.

[@frankiegee5260]

Brother, I am laser focused on leaving Brooklyn and migrating to Davao with my wife and daughter.

[@cpt.ahab_it7044]

Great advice.

[@rodneysessoms8804]

My Filipina found me while working in Dubai, but she's a province girl originally but moved to Quezon city for better opportunities for her 2 kids. Weve been together 4 years now, pretty strong bond between us

[@timhnc75]

They definitely dont want that a filipina trying to look like an american woman ,but other than that i agree.

[@knewwhon]

Holla! Keep encouraging them! Hahaha! You can go through things dating anywhere in the world! In the end, it is a numbers game! Know what you are looking for and stay engaged in the process! Hahaha! Blessings! Hahaha!

[@oldmountaindawg4593]

QUESTION BROTHER.. Im a disabled vet.. not looking for fun time girls or a wife. Just a nice gal to have good conversations with and see the sights. I use to travel from 75 to 2004 . Then i got hurt. So what are thots on this. Just wondering.

[@edwardgriffin6042]

I, too am disabled. I don’t do drink or do bars. Met 100’s and 100’s online. When I wasn’t looking, the one found me or rather we found each other in a barbershop, no less.

[@malikkweli8627]

Im just gonna be me..... changing for the better can only bring good results. IDC cause it can't be worse than dating in the states!!!!! 🤣😎

[@LifeWithRilla]

If you didn't have game & confidence in the country you're from it's not just going to change because you went to a foreign country. It might work in Sousua DR & Pattya Thailand because you don't have any game & the women are selling their services. But, when you're in a conservative country where you need to approach women you still have to put yourself out there fellas.

[@bobbruce4135]

Yep... It's only P4P unless the man is a "Chad", anywhere. If you say no rings, no money or no babies, it's all over unless the man is a super-Chad.

[@8bitworld225]

You don’t need game. Stop it. Stop this game crap. STOP. You can just be yourself as long as you’re respectful. Stop this western talk about “game” crap

[@LifeWithRilla]

@@8bitworld225 yeah for you dudes you don’t need game because you’re talking to pros. Any dude who says this isn’t talking to the normal population of women who aren’t selling themselves. You still need confidence, you can’t be socially awkward, you can’t just be some weirdo and think women abroad are going to be genuinely into you. I can always tell when a guy goes out there and does pay for play. Because yall say stuff like this. If she isn’t a pro then she sure as heck isn’t with you because you have a great personality 😂… dude thinks desire of a woman is unconditional abroad and just given out to any random foreigner. Thats not how it works

[@8bitworld225]

@@LifeWithRilla never said it did you clown 🤡 you don’t need game. You can just talk to them and have a conversation like human beings and see if she’s interested in getting to know you better. That’s it. What are you yapping about pros? Sounds like your projecting.

[@napoleonmdusa8877]

@@LifeWithRilla Remember, just being yourself is not being socially awkward or lacking confidence.

[@Mottleydude1]

Hey cuz. I’ve been married to a Filipina for 20 years. She was a little elfin beauty and a very feminine girly girl and 20 years later the only thing that’s changed is she’s gained curves in all the right places and in some ways is hotter than when I first met her. You are spot on in your analysis. The women expect you to approach them and they give cute little body language messages, that if you’re paying attention to, means they want you to approach them. One of those is if you make eye contact with a Filipina and she immediately breaks eye contact but then quickly looks back at you. That’s a sign she wants you to approach. Often when the break eye contact like that they will also unconsciously touch the part of her body she is most insecure about like her chest or her hips or butt or her face. Remember that and after making contact with her and when the timing is right compliment that part of her body. Like if she puts her hand over her mouth compliment her smile. If she touches her chest, tell her she has a beautiful figure and if she touches her hips tell her she has a cute tushy. Your next point is also true. If you don’t show an interest in learning about them, their family and their culture they will lose interest in you. A note of caution though. If you do things the right way it’s not hard to land a date with a pretty Filipina from a good family who isn’t a hooker or a scammer. A lot of guys from the west are surprised that it may take some time to land a date with such a girl and the first date she will often be chaperoned. What surprises them is that on the first real unchaperoned date she will more often than not sleep with you. Which gives the appearance that they are easy. That’s a big mistake. It’s a cultural difference. A Filipina, generally speaking won’t date you or encourage you to until she has decided that she is open to having a long term relationship leading to marriage with you. Then she will be very willing to make love to you to imprint on you that she is worth the time and effort to love. If she doesn’t agree to date you or ignores your advances or if you’re on your first real date and she’s not enthusiastic or ends the date with a handshake or a polite social kiss on the cheek, it means the date didn’t go well from her point of view and she’s not all that interested in her. So if you land that first real date and you’re really into her it behooves you to be polite, charming fun to be with and funny you will probably have an amazing date. So your analysis is spot on. Don’t expect things to happen instantly without an effort. You will be expected to make all the first moves because that will show her your interested in her than for more than a peace of a$$. It is in that respect Filipinas are easy because they will find ways to let you know they are interested in you and are easy to read. That and Filipinas take great pride in their femininity and sexuality and if they are into you will be wanting to impress that on you and boy can they but assuming they are easy to talk into having sex would be a big mistake.

[@Daddydom7]

Hey Jay it’s almost time for me to come to Manila!!! I pulled back from the woman I was with and I am going to just find my forever love ❤️ when I get there! I will let you know when the celebration is! Hopefully within 3 weeks from now! What was the website you told me about? Cherry Blossom or something like that?

[@TheBlackFilipino]

Hit the email

[@Daddydom7]

@@TheBlackFilipino okay

[@Dutch1954]

Gumption..... you said it all right there.

[@odellarnold3911]

Life to short not to have the right thinking being real. Joy went home to see her daughter I was happy for a break however she be back in the morning can't wait to see her. Forget the rest she the best. I said I would never marry here but I trust her enough to do it.

[@thomzydervelt5152]

Next coming is the bait and switch

[@MrSilverfish12]

In short if you are a guy who has no game you will either be ignored or taken advantage of. Most passport bro´s are still banking on the assumption that Philipinas think their loaded. But the girls have caught on and unless you date in the provinces you can´t play the baller game because city girls in Manila and Cebu are not willing to put up with a dusty to get a bit more coin. Work on yourself and stop being a weirdo guys.

[@designbydavid]

Facts.

[@crook6218]

Great video, very informative.

[@DustinWarren-od6go]

They all jyst want money...not you...

[@caipirinha_king1632]

Where in the Philippines is a great place for a first time visitor to the country?

[@hi-tych]

Cebu.. trust me. I just got back from a 2 week vacation. I'm actually moving there. Listen, the women and men was looking at me like I was a celebrity. And actually, they thought so, they was taking pictures of and with me and trying to touch my hair. Lol

[@GUITARTIME2024]

Cwbu to start but get to some smaller cities

[@gemox3225]

Cebu City metropolitan area is a good place to start. Get a hotel near Ayala Mall. That mall is also walking distance to IT Park. All the conveniences are there and it's a good place to meet ladies.

[@caipirinha_king1632]

@@gemox3225 Thank you, my friend.

[@caipirinha_king1632]

@@hi-tych Thank you. I appreciate the suggestion.

[@trayjordan8090]

😂😂😂😂 true 👍👌😇😇🙏

[@LucyMoser-pz9hj]

Learn the culture and customs before dating a Filipina. There is good and bad everywhere, don’t force western mind set on them. If you have the patience you will find they are amongst the best there is!😀

[@danhilarious1395]

I was in poland met a Filipina she was extra nice and positive but had absolutely no personality Sex was bland she seemed kinda shy to say too much long story short it didn’t work out I need a chick with some flavor and purpose

[@SherronCarter-pv5sy]

True

[@robertbonanno906]

Bad decision run keep your money in your pocket, 😂 lol not worth it jack.

[@stoneyislandranch9783]

Well I met my filipina first trip.. 4 th girl I dated.. she is awesome.. I'm 47 she 24..

[@blakeclark1133]

You're alright with me brother

[@GUITARTIME2024]

I'm white. Why am I here. Lol

[@damienr3086]

proverbs 4:23 bE cAREFUL WHAT YOU THINK YOU LIFE IS SHAPED BY YOUR THOUGHTS.

[@thetotaltruth948]

HEY JAY!! Please check your email.

[@michaelbackstage]

I wanna date a Filipina woman

[@adammonks591]

They are great. My GF is a Filipina

[@chitown38]

Hey you pretty I wanna see that GINA!!...So you're saying my favorite pick-up line is a no go in the Philippines? 🤣

[@annabanana16465]

yuck 🤢

[@KevinChisholm-o9m]

Been there in the 70s you gotta flirt fellas work on your rap guys and watch your wallet guys use street smarts😅😅

[@bradleymiller7375]

Rap u mean crap cuz they forgot the C when they named this crap!

[@user-zy1oh8jk7j]

Filipina are not unusually special. There are quality women everywhere. Even western countries. Like in western countries, city women are less likely to be quality (from a man's potential mate perspective). Like in western countries, rural women tend to be higher quality. Of course you can find a "wrong turn" anywhere so be cautious. Remember always AGE DOES MATTER. Don't go younger than 35. Older guys, get a vasectomy. Just say no to single moms (sorry ladies good men don't need to suffer dealing with your mistakes)

[@adammonks591]

No they are on average much better than western women. It's like night and day. Western women are hard work and combative. Filipinas are easy going and less prone to argue over petty nonsense because they have bigger problems in life.

[@adammonks591]

Also, don't go younger than 35? What if you want a family? Someone under 30 is ideal compared with someone approaching 40.

[@user-zy1oh8jk7j]

@@adammonks591 so how many in person relationships with Filipina have you had? Me over a dozen. I really laugh at guys that reject urban/suburban western women, then go to the Philippines or other countries and compare the rural women there to what they rejected. There's not that much difference in the 30 and under groups. Over 35 the Filipina do have a slight advantage, but they have some serious drawbacks too. The under 35, urban, tiktok and facebook crowd are about 5 to 8 years behind the west. Maybe less because social media is HUGE in the Philippines. Even the rural young women are showing the effects. Social media is neither urban nor rural.

[@johnv5156]

Wrong. Traditional girls in Philippines are raised to be wives. There's a much higher probability of finding that than in a country that cab't even define what a woman is anymore.

[@bradleymiller7375]

@user-zy1oh, and u know it all!