DATING YOUNGER MEN, MAKING FRIENDS AS AN ADULT, BOOKS + FIRST DAUGHTER WAHALA...ETC | LET'S CHAT

#dimmaumeh #jolaayeye #iswis #q&a
Hey loves,
In this video, I chat with my friend Jola Ayeye and we answer some very important questions about dating, friendships, books, birth order, money and so much more. FYI we shot this video at the end of 2022.
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- Lisa Kleypas
- Tessa Dare
- Judith McNaught
“Look at the birds: they do not sow seeds, gather a harvest and put it in barns; yet your Father in heaven takes care of them! Aren't you worth much more than birds?” Matthew‬ ‭6‬:‭26‬ ‭
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[@bekksigwenyi1399]

Jola’s sincerity about her faith journey is honestly refreshing and remarkable. I pray you find the answers you seek and be fully convinced of your faith in Christ Jesus.

[@uwadiaerhoda8137]

The way I ran to KZbin the minute I saw this notification,my slippers almost cut😩,I'm sweating seriously from the race😩😂😂

[@rimayakubu8957]

😂oh waoo

[@anibeatrice1715]

😂😂😂

[@iamtomidey]

We need to win best in running. Tobi must be shaking wherever she is 😂😂

[@joansworld6415]

Can relate 😂😂😂

[@hildasampson]

😭😭😭😂😂😂

[@ore.kaykay1698]

This gives such elder sister vibes and my God the insight. Jola is so eloquent. This was a match made in heaven.

[@EdidiongObong]

As an ISWIS and Dimma fan, I stan, re-stan, understand and over-stan this combo!!!! Lezz have itttt🎉

[@chiikahh2740]

Sameeeee girl ❤😂

[@hildasampson]

I Paki-stan sef😭😂

[@graceaiye]

Best in comment 💯

[@nnennaegwu4753]

Jola and Dinma. .woooooosh

[@_mercyidowu]

here for all it

[@kanmaliving]

Hmmm.. I have struggled with my faith too. I'm an only child, lost my dad when I was 13 and my mum when I was 23. For so long I didn't know how to relate with God. I felt like the least favourite of HIS children. I just could not understand the trajectory of my life, couldn't open my bible, hardly prayed.. Felt so alone.. Few years ago I started doubting the existence of God literally, but out of HIS bowel of compassion, HE allowed me come across messages by Apostle Joshua Selman and gradually I began to find Him again. I'm not where I want to be in my relationship and intimacy with God but I'm in a far better place, and I trust God to get better as I go. I genuinely pray for everyone to find God and have all their burning questions answered because one thing I know is that there is an answer to every puzzle about our loving God

[@estherebere8174]

I love how Jola composes herself, speaks so calmly but clearly. Totally enjoyed this chat.

[@adaezeezebuiro2904]

Jola seems so authentic and original. There’s something about her that keeps drawing me to her. Really enjoyed this episode!

[@ebeleEMO]

I didn't want this to end. Jola is so articulate. And it's so obvious you both genuinely like each other ❤️❤️❤️

[@nnekaamakom7845]

Me too😪

[@FrancesChuks]

It's so difficult building female friendships in adulthood. At this stage, I am open to who is open to me.

[@nomia_precious]

True

[@viviansdiary]

So true

[@georginaiyere5655]

True..

[@nnennaudeh9536]

📌📌📌

[@preciousokereke5656]

Exactly

[@levelupwithada]

Jola was preaching. Nigerians don't understand simplicity and contentment. Dimma is also right about how lookism is a big deal, especially in Lagos...they call it "packaging".

[@Tuoyoede]

Lagos and Packaging 🤝🏾😅

[@Pammyvictoria]

I really like how Jola articulates her thoughts 😊

[@eberegift5305]

Very true!!!

[@kikionyesoh]

ISWIS & Dimma gang member let us gather & mark ✍🏽 attendance🫶🏾

[@iamtomidey]

This thing about Jola being so bold is one of the so many reasons I love herrr. My queen fr

[@nneomaedeh]

Same 😂😂🥺🧡

[@_sinmee]

Same here😂😂😂

[@diysense]

A whole 53 plus minutes of chit-chat with Dimmah and her friend Jola. Ain't we lucky guys?

[@yiwo-numenyi-nnely-shey]

We are ❤️❤️

[@Bhomieisflawed]

We areeee

[@ChisomUtazi]

Jola and Dimma a combo I never knew I needed 😩😩

[@oladapoolarinoye982]

Me too.

[@adaanatune5266]

Two of my faves!! I kept smiling and cackling during this episode. Jola is such a bibliophile, it makes sense that she's so articulate as well. I want to be like her when I grow up lmaooo. I'm so happy to see you laugh out loud and have a good time on camera, Dimma. Isn't the Lord so good!!

[@iamtomidey]

“Jola or Jollz whatever you want to call me is fine”happy noise maker OG🤲🏾🤲🏾

[@Kosiso-by1mc]

Loved this, more of Jola please and more advice on life, I need them, I’m 21 and sometimes I let these things social media project make me feel inferior 😅, but hearing things like this from time to time, helps alot

[@ifeolunu]

Omo Jola is so deep 😍😍😍 Cheers to quality friendships. 🥂

[@Gloria_Ukah]

True friendship is hard this days. All you see is people who want to use or people who want to copy every single thing you do 😢😢😢

[@nomia_precious]

Yup

[@faithslifestyle2852]

This is what i am experiencing now i do not know to live with people like this.

[@oritsegee]

As someone who's not active on SM, I only heard about Jola during endsars, but I'm just getting to put a face to name. She's such a lovely and relatable lady.

[@joyodobor3296]

Since I was younger I hardly had more than 2 or 3 friends. As an adult I have 3 very good friends that I love. I realized having a small but genuine circle saved me from a lot of things. 💕

[@chibuzorgbandi3690]

They spoke absolute truth through out... Jola spoke a lot of sense when she spoke about Nigerian youths not being contented and wanting to live a luxurious life Dinma broke the table that all these gals are standing on 😂😂

[@bulbyfera]

I enjoy when Dims bring her friends to chat with her. Loved this conversation and I honestly believe that Jolla’s struggle with her faith is because she is yet to have a personal encounter with Jesus Christ. Remove religion and the fluff, one encounter will resolve the struggle and I hope it happens soon.

[@yiwo-numenyi-nnely-shey]

Amen 🙏

[@MarvellousOlayinka.]

Great point. .But sometimes life is not black and white!

[@jasminelanett1]

OMG!!! I had a great time watching this. I even paused at some point to get some ice cream because I was having such a good time. Both of you seem to share similar values and beliefs and I think that is an important ingredient in friendships. I love how playful you both are with each other. Also, how Jola articulated about people trying to "contentify" their lives and friendships is very apt. I think it's really sad to know that people are focused more on how their circle is perceived by others than if they are actually building a great quality/wholesome circle/friendships. I love what Dimma said about focusing on the genuine friendships you have even if they world doesn't see it. I honestly do not think these things need to be publicised to be genuine. What all these points to is the need for social validation. Because in my opinion, resisting pressure especially in our late 20s/early 30s should be a walk in the park, if not for the need for validation and "acceptance" by people whose opinion should not matter. I'm looking to read Chimamanda's books this year; will start with Half of a Yellow Sun. Sending you both love.

[@enechepriscillia9731]

I admire these ladies alot! Dimma for her put together life, and Jola for her eloquence and her speaking in the face of authority. This just reminds me of an episode on submaroach where Bolu Jola's brother spoke about Jola and it is exactly as Dimma said it. Jola is so passionate about societal issues, and if she decides to ever go into politics she has my support.

[@chidimmachukwuani]

Love love this Q&A video!!❤

[@ChristianaAdekoya]

so excited for this!!!! This was so nice to watch

[@RhodaOlabisi]

Finally!!! We’ve been waiting for this episode!!

[@LoveMotunrayo]

I really enjoyed this episode!😍😍

[@michelleadesina2576]

This was so beautiful to watch. I actually didn’t want it to end at all. Dimma was right, it was also very insightful. Currently a broke 20-something so I know there’s hope for me

[@heyyitsjoshie]

I enjoyed this so so much!!

[@kasiariegbon1541]

So nice to have Jola on your channel ❤️

[@Ummmi.S]

I love Jola’s introduction of herself! Yup

[@DamolaKayode]

I love y'all ❤️❤️ This was so much fun!

[@omoshalewamercy]

Oh my goodness, when the 'dating in the 30s' question popped, I literally started the "hmm hmm hmm hmm hmm" song 😂😂😂😂😂Jola, my babe, she never disappoints. Love you both so much #ISWIS fan

[@mmesoma_newlane]

yeyyy ready l love the long videos

[@lolasimeon]

Love love love this video!

[@rejoiceewodage]

This is so wholesome. Thank you ❤

[@cernykun9317]

OMG!!!! The collaboration we have all been waiting for :D

[@DrGracey]

Clicked immediately! Love you both

[@livio8]

OMG! Jola and Dimma! 😍😍 My day has been made! ❤❤

[@Nnekaokpalefe]

I honestly have waited so long for this collab🙌🏾 two faves❤

[@The_Abasiama]

For real! Loved this video a lot.

[@zikoraozor8947]

I could literally watch these two talk all day. I love this video a lot ❤️❤️❤️

[@agyapomaaboateng888]

this has to be my favorite video now.i loved everv bit of it sha

[@chinwea5145]

Jola is hereeeeee!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Thank you DimDim!!!

[@AdaoraOA]

This video was actually so insightful. Enjoyed it way too much 🥰

[@nneomaedeh]

Yesssssssss. Jola is so bold and I love it so much. So assertive, bold, truthful. I love it so much

[@faithykonehunnid265]

Love you girls-needed this

[@aniekaninyang4259]

This was such a fun and insightful watch! ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@blessingakubo7363]

Wow! This was a great watch 😍😍

[@ifeoluwa_]

You both are so pretty, I absolutely loved this video!

[@pamelataigbenu]

This was so satisfying to watch ❤

[@ellaajudua6373]

Loved this so much ❤

[@tomisinoyedele7586]

I enjoyed this so much! Really made my morning ❤

[@viviansdiary]

Oh Jola and Dimma are so articulate. This video was so relaxing.

[@Sa_riemen]

This was such a good watch….thank you dinma and Jollz!!!!❤️

[@estherudotong5754]

The way I screamed when I saw the cover😍. My two faves!🫶🏽

[@tanugoziebitrus]

I’ve been waiting for this since Dimma’s first time on ISWIS 🎉❤❤❤❤! Let’s go🥂

[@theeopulentprincess]

A friendship with genuine admiration for each other, it’s beautiful to see ❤

[@eboigbemichelle9689]

My absolute favorite creators! 😍

[@hussainaabdullahi7208]

This was such a fun & insightful watch. Thank you both ☺️

[@angelkosi]

I love all your sit down videos. They’re always so interesting ❤

[@preciousadeogun4032]

I've been looking forward to this video, love you guysss

[@chiomasandra9887]

Jola and Dinma pls do more of this I so much love this combo like I literally don’t want it to end 😊

[@favourpaulilean7385]

This felt like therapy especially the money talk. I have honestly never cared about how my life looks, I’m more invested in making it feel good. Love this video. Thank you♥️

[@azeezatajao30]

This was so much fun, totally enjoyed it

[@anitabitrus-io7rh]

Jola and Dimma faves ❤❤❤ a video I didn’t know I needed 😅

[@TheFab01]

Love love love love love this episode. Learnt alot and you guys preached! Thank youuuuu. Never knew I needed this duo so much!

[@mercynaji6606]

loved this!!!

[@Mufasablessed]

I’m a new fan of Jola 😊love her honesty and the way she relates .

[@halimatshaibu7205]

This was really an insightful video. Love you guys ❤❤

[@ajifatoudibba4573]

The scream that I scum! My favs ❤️ and y’all gave us 53mins! God bless you!

[@ronn_aa]

I absolutely love listening to women talk and this gave all it was supposed to give. So insightful and refreshing. I’ll always stan.

[@shazzy_xp]

Thank you guys. I literally took notes🙏👏

[@theloveloveandloveagainrev]

yay been waiting for this collaboration eagerly

[@cyndarillaigbomor4306]

This was such an awesome conversation! Totally enjoyed it.

[@EdiriObor]

This was a very fun watch! ❤

[@diannaachando9160]

Aaahhhh, chief enjoyer has graced us with her presence. I already love it 🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@nimislifestyle]

This is a video I did not even know I’ve been waiting for JOLAXDIMMA❤

[@Morayomi]

Everything Jola and Dimma said about faith, felt. This was such a lovely time❤️

[@morebiseoluwabunmi4202]

I honestly didn't want the video to end. It was really insightful. Thank you guys.

[@joannaokeyogunjiofor]

This video is soooooo enjoyable! Thank you, DimDim. Thank you Jollz!❤😂

[@Mhizdammy]

I thoroughly enjoyed this team up. It was so fun and insightful. Thank you for the book recommendations as well. I've been reading a lot of self help books and sometimes they can become a tad bit heavy. So I'm looking forward to exploring the Romance genre again. I used to love reading Harlequin Romance when I was younger, so I'm sure it'll be really nostalgic but also different. In terms of friendships, you are both right, but you especially hit the nail on the head with appreciating the friends we already have. Anyways this was such a treat! Thank you both.

[@georgetteudo1290]

Thank you Dim Dim and Jollz for this chat. Its very soothing when you hear people that share your struggles too

[@goldylockss]

I haven’t even started watching but I’m just so excited to see Jollz on the thumbnail 💃🏾💃🏾

[@hussainaabdullahi7208]

Jola is just dropping solid advice. Nice one

[@sharonosos]

My heart is so full, my absolute favesssss 🥺🥺❤❤

[@maybemabel3953]

I don’t know how but I know that what y’all both said about what you liked about each other is true. I get that exact intuition from watching, listening and reading from each of you. You both are beautiful in your own unique ways❤❤

[@ugoa.]

Oh I really enjoyed this episode❤

[@vivianogbughalu799]

I didn’t realize I would love to see and hear Jola speaking so much. I resonate with everything she said. Watching Dimma is always like a breath of fresh air.

[@Paula-nt6ix]

I found this VERY insightful thank you ladies!

[@oziomapaul]

Jola is so wise 💙 Loveee the realness in this video. Well done, Dimma! 💚

[@abigailolufemi]

My faves together yes please !!!😩I didn’t want this video to end , hope for another real soon ❤

[@oluwanifemBa]

Purple Hibiscus did something to me!! I’ve read that book 3 times!

[@ogechikezie286]

Really really insightful episode, I'm so glad

[@Fay_Onoja]

The video quality is so impeccable. Listening and staring at his beautiful both of you look .

[@naaborleyadrah9528]

I really enjoyed this! 🥰 That age gap conversation had all the jokes we needed! 🤣

[@inioluwaolawole228]

This was such a fun watch🤩 I love listening to you ladies talk❤️