Do EUROPEANS Date the Same Way?

[@DatingBeyondBorders]

Who did you resonate with the MOST in the video? 🌎

[@Daniel-yc5fu]

As a Spaniard, I think the Spanish girl represented us accurately. People from the countryside may disagree, but most of the population lives in urban regions

[@miguelberdia5511]

Agree

[@rickfromjersey8098]

what a shame, as a latino from the America's its sad to see Spain turn too liberal and lose its traditions@@miguelberdia5511

[@marvin2678]

thats such a sad way of life ngl

[@ari_jean]

​@@marvin2678 Yeah honeslty... I moved to Spain a year ago from Poland and between Spanish guys and Latin guys, judging by my experience, I definitely prefer the Latin ones. The stereotypes about "passion" and "fun" Spanish people.. I just don't see that at all. Maybe it's just Madrid tho, but the guys seem super passive.

[@marvin2678]

@@ari_jean oh No i meant sleeping around with so many people frequently that you some how have a Talk about how your exclusive now...interesting Expience tho from your Side

[@HaleyAnneBechler]

As an American woman, I liked how the Hungarian and Irish men thought. I guess a bit more traditional, you could say? I love seeing all the different points of view and the beautiful accents! ✌💖

[@Usamaaltaf_058]

Haley Anne Your Right En I Appreciate

[@amiquigonzales7917]

I think it all originates in the respect: to your own self, to your parents, to your family, to the other person. Of course people are free to get married or not, to start a family or not, but if you go in life respectfully with your moral values , big chances are that you will have the key to have later and forever a loving, and caring family.

[@ilhuicatlamatini]

I agree! (also from US btw)

[@movingshapes]

Traditional is staying a virgin until marriage. If you already spread your legs, you are not traditional. And if you expect anything material (like a plate of food), for your company during dinner, you are literally an escort. Possibly a prostitute.

[@Joey-ct8bm]

It's disrespectful to the woman to split the bill. Unless you don't wanna be equal.

[@degasedgar]

Definitely Hungarian guy answers are the sweetest and most gentlemen like. As a women you would feel more secure then a Spanish approach I think.

[@Csabberfej]

It's good to see my home country (HU) represented. I hope to see more.

[@klimtkahlo]

Very fun episode! Nice people! Beautiful accents, all of them! ❤ And yes when I lived in Germany and Austria, I never could tell who was a couple! As a southern European that was quite odd to me! And Spaniards, Hungarians, Irish and French were the friends I hang out with. I think culturally we meshed very well together. Also the Irish people hang out with the southern Europeans and NOT with the British or Americans, I found that very amusing! 😊

[@estebq2762]

In Germany couples hold their hands at least they are not completly cold

[@nana16792]

About the talk to determine whether you're exclusive or not, I think most times it comes down to the individual. I am Spanish, and to be honest, I think most people would expect you to respect whatever you're starting with them even before the talk, but I know others don't; that's why it's important to have that talk so that everyone is on the same page. But I moved to the UK, and it was kind of similar; again, it depended on the individual, some wouldn't have the talk but talked to other people (you kind of had to read between the lines sometimes XD), others didn't have the talk but respected the relationship, and others after admitting they weren't even sure how things worked anymore in this respect did want to have the talk just to be sure that they weren't being misled.

[@henri191]

I like how the lady from Italy stepped backwards during the split the bill question 😂

[@Србомбоница86]

Ha ha true

[@barkasz6066]

And how intensely she was looking at the Hungarian guy when he went " man must be a gentleman every time". Like "Okay you can take me out" lol

[@Frivals]

Yeah, it's called prostitution

[@Frivals]

🤦‍♂️When you pretend men to pay for you in exchange for sex is called prostitution and for an illusion of sex is called scam.

[@nickpagano7134]

​​@@Frivals incel cigarette

[@helioflanaganveiga]

Love the video and the energy! People were super nice! Another great work by DBB! I’m Irish-Portuguese and because both countries have a huge Catholic influence, I was raised in a more traditional way in regard to dating. I was taught that a man should always strive to be the best version he can be when courting a lady. Be a gentleman, a provider, a protector. Make sure she’s happy, feeling loved, and safe. That also goes for inviting women out. I personally think a good man will gladly pay for a nice dinner with the lady he chose to invite out on a date. My grandpa used to tell me that “if you are man enough to choose to fall in love with a woman, be man enough to take care of her.” And I think the old man was right all along!

[@dominicdannies7482]

and what about the women ? is she in the kitchen like in the middle ages ?

[@ilhuicatlamatini]

Aw, love your grandpa’s advice❤. I agree, too.

[@dominicdannies7482]

@@ilhuicatlamatini on a more serious note I would like to ask as a 26 years old grandpa - are there any roles for women ? Since men are the protectors, providers and thousands other roles combined etc .... where is the equality here ?

[@Bracarensis]

Portugal has been changing very quickly fortunately 👍

[@Bracarensis]

​@@dominicdannies7482they must be alive. That's their only obligation for a relationship 😂

[@danam3540]

I would say I resonated most with the Hungarian gentleman. I wasn't expecting that, but how cool to know!

[@kamillaerdos7636]

Oke, but in Hungary lets not forget that in Hungary there are differences between the woman and the man salaries!

[@pyrenaea3019]

El hecho de que el hombre no lo pague todo en España es porque hubo una época en la que ser rico era ser prácticamente un Dios, entonces se empezó a ver como algo clasista. Creedme que esto es algo reciente. Además, la mujer española es ampliamente independiente y poco interesada, no necesita expresamente a nadie para que se gaste el dinero en sus caprichitos.

[@talitabotana6992]

Vivaaaa

[@Sammi_Kristiansen]

Thank you so much Marina for talking to us at the end of the video. I look forward to your vlog videos in Sweden and Norway. Safe trips!

[@kennalime5644]

Apparently this is going to be an unpopular opinion (based on the comment section) but I agree with what the Spanish girl had to say, as a Spanish young woman myself.

[@LisaSoulLevelHealing]

To me, its not about popular or unpopulat. Its about understanding the differences

[@marvin2678]

sad culture

[@ArandomBritishwannabe]

love spain from turkey

[@talitabotana6992]

Why is it sad? So nice that dating is equally shared by men and women and we don't have social pressure to marry whomever. It's freedom and respect !

[@notyourdaddy2148]

the italian lady is literally lois griffin

[@greenmachine5600]

Oh dang, 😮

[@geoffoakland]

I had no idea she was Italian in the beginning. Even afterwards, she looks Irish and speaks English with a Swedish accent 😂

[@lll____251]

​@@geoffoakland she looks italian

[@barkasz6066]

Yeah the Hungarian guy is spot on with the Hungarian attitudes. One thing I personally have not experienced is girls taking advantage of this and trying to get like a free meal or something. And yeah it's not every time by any stretch of the word. Like he said, it's just the first 2-3 dates. Then you go 50-50 or sometimes the girl pays if you've been dating for a long time. I've been dating a girl for 3 years and it's usually like if we go somewhere then I pay for lunch, she pays for the museum tickets and snacks, etc.

[@marvin2678]

sounds like a healthy social norm in my opinion

[@johngonzalez4298]

Happy Thursday, Marina! Wishing you a wonderful week and sending my love ❤ from Miami, Florida, USA 🇺🇲. To me, I don't expect a woman to pay on a first date but it is a nice gesture if she decides to contribute and it's also important to know that the date is going well and that the vibes are there between the woman and I. I have been in a relationship a Spanish 🇪🇸 woman and her and I are completely different but we balance each other with our personalities like fire 🔥 and ice ❄ and I'm more the mellow type of guy. Keep bringing these videos Marina and keep up the good work. Bravissima 🙏🏻

[@dyardsale5475]

The Hungarian looks like Hector Lavoe.

[@amiquigonzales7917]

Curious all these nationalities traditionally had a majority of Catholic population.

[@lxportugal9343]

Don't they still do?

[@lachlanaulich3566]

@@lxportugal9343 especially Italy I'd say

[@amiquigonzales7917]

Especially moral values, they should have the same.

[@devinmes1868]

​@lxportugal9343 France has a very prominent agnostic and atheist population. Spain has a large number of non-practicing Catholics, who typically don't go to church and disagree with many catholic sentiments.

[@lxportugal9343]

@@devinmes1868 non-practicing Catholics...are still Catholics

[@edugr93]

I think what the spanish girl said was accurate to the average spaniard; expecting the guy to pay for the bill is seem as entitled. People get engaged in their late 20s/early 30s, you’re seem as CRAZY if you marry someone without having already lived with them beforehand, if people (most i would say) marry in the church is for aesthetic reasons or to please their grandma/mom. There is no concept of ‘dating’ we call it ‘going out with someone’ until you guys decide to ‘be together’, but the point at which exclusivity starts depends on the person, the age, the context… is always best to explicitly talk about it, but it’s usually expected early on if you keep ‘going out’. One night stands are common when going out clubbing.

[@manchesterunited4619]

Yeah so it’s just as degenerate as the rest of the west….. shame

[@Србомбоница86]

​@@manchesterunited4619lol they are proud of being degenerate

[@Frivals]

🤦‍♂️When you pretend men to pay for you in exchange for sex is called prostitution and for an illusion of sex is called scam.

[@LCdic09]

So to avoid women in Spain that have slept with many guys, you should try to find the ones that don't go clubbing, right?

[@karimd.2176]

​​@@LCdic09ust avoid spain and do us a favor

[@AliciaPerez-vs7zz]

I totally agree with the spanish girl

[@marvin2678]

sad

[@dubmait]

I disagree with the spanish girl about exclusivity. One night stands fair enough but when you start seeing soneone regularly in spain my impression is that you dont hook up with anyone else

[@marvin2678]

bare minimum

[@lavz24]

The Italian lady is really pretty and she has great energy

[@thomashardine]

Since when being gentlemen is all about paying dates? What about respect communication and other gestures

[@Arginne]

Men are providers and women deserve to be cherished and taken care of.

[@thomashardine]

@Arginne men can be providers when women are women like taking care being loyal etc hurt cause u are a woman dont mean u deserve to be cherished if u treat well you get treated well it's 100 percent on both sides

[@OzPozzy278]

⁠@@Arginnedoesn’t mean a woman has the right to his wallet

[@claudioristagno6460]

Never Heard of a talk about being exclusive in Italy. But I'm from the south, maybe in northern Italy it is common.

[@elisabettazuppardi1469]

As an italian i'm agree with almost everything the italian girl said

[@agotadunai-checkitout5518]

A real Hungarian gentleman 👏🇭🇺

[@rafae5902]

Yeah, poor guy. He hasn't been confronted with reality of things nowadays.

[@Stangler96]

​@@rafae5902no it's the country. In central and Eastern Europe we are not that woke. So there are still a lot of trafitional men and women. I'm also hungarian and here it's customary for the man to pay and I think it should be this way everywhere but I also think that a well raised woman should offer to pay and when the man declines then accept it and thank to him. This should be the way.

[@Arginne]

@@Stangler96I am Hungarian-American and working on my citizenship and I agree with the Hungarian culture. I also liked the italian and irish

[@Mark-eu6mc]

@@rafae5902seems you’ve been confronted with women scamming you?

[@rafae5902]

​@@Mark-eu6mc not yet, fortunately, because I've always avoided the crazy ones, however, very much like car insurance, you take actions to avoid future damages and the worst case scenario becoming true

[@ilhuicatlamatini]

I’m actually quite surprised by Spain’s responses! I hadn’t thought they’d expect to “go Dutch” on dates, nor to need explicit verbalizing of being exclusive, or that marriage is not important. It sounds so much more like the stereotype of what’s done here in the US 😅. As an American I’d say we actually have a LOT of variation, often depending on region. For example, Im a Texan and I definitely expect a guy that invited me out to be a gentleman and pay the first date. I’d offer (and be prepared to) pay my part of course, but if he takes me up on it then it’s a clear sign things went bad and we’re not going out again lol! I think a lot of the south is similar from what I’ve seen. In this way I’d say I agree 100% with France, but otoh personally I want marriage to build a family and wouldn’t be ok with “common law” so still different too.

[@jaumemont]

A spanish woman who lives in a big city like Barcelona can be culturally very different from other perhaps more conservative areas. The same thing that can happen with someone from New York compared to another areas of ​​the country. Likewise, in Spain, women like to be independent and do not look for the prince charming to invite them and kneel down to ask them to marry them, this last thing is quite corny and outdated.

[@juri3678]

yeah, spanish women are very independent and we don‘t like others to invite us or pay for us on the first o second date as a norm. It really depends on the couple, but as the girl said, we don’t like owing people anything. When you‘re friends or longterm partners, this can change a bit (maybe someone wants to invite the other and that‘s usually okay), but overall it is like she said. I treat my friends and boyfriend often and viceversa, and if you‘re at someone‘s house and get home delivery, usually the person of the house is the one to pay. Also, young people have a dire economic situation due to low wages, so I feel like that also makes people pay what they have consumed and not expect the other to pay for them, since it could be burdensome.

[@annedonnellan6876]

​@@jaumemontim Irish. I am told gentlemen often like the traditional proposal

[@Bracarensis]

​@@annedonnellan6876No 😂😮

[@greenytaddict]

Yeah, I'm from Texas too. My fiancee is too. He will not allow for me to pay for anything. And we like it that way. It shows me the appreciation he has for me. I do like to treat him though and make sure to show my love to him as well.

[@erikadeslauriers3403]

I have to say as an American married to a Canadian, we do hold hands and kiss in public. Making out, well some people might like teenagers. Just saying

[@merrysalas2600]

As a Spaniard, I disagree on some issues...It is true that everyone has their own views on life, but I wouldn't say that marriage is becoming outdated. Although the secular movement is gaining strength, Spain is a country with a strong Catholic tradition, whether people like it or not, and there are still Catholics like me (quite a few, but not very active in the media) who have a desire to get married. I insist, many couples live together, but a large part still wants to get married."

[@luisfernandez4057]

Tiene razón ella, cada vez menos gente se casa y cada vez hay menos tradición religiosa. Tiene toda la razón

[@merrysalas2600]

@@luisfernandez4057 ya, pero no por ello el matrimonio queda anticuado.

[@free22]

I am confused by your reactions because if you look up the marriage rates for Spain, they are on the lower end for Europe and the world. Not the lowest but near the bottom. Try it out. Google marriage rates by country. That is also what I personally have heard from people living in larger cities. Could it be different in other smaller towns perhaps?

[@merrysalas2600]

@@free22 I would like to know where you have looked it up because I haven't seen that anywhere. It is true that the marriage rate is low, but far from being the worst.

[@free22]

I never said that Spain had the lowest marriage rates. Only that they are consistently near the lower end of European rankings for fertility rates. The same is true for fertility rates. Just google marriage rates by country in Europe. Spain is near the bottom.

[@jaorXLUZ]

As a Spanish person, I disagree with some of the things the Spanish woman in the video is talking about. While it might be normal in her city for there to be no exclusivity in relationships unless otherwise stated, it is not something that can be generalized. Obviously, if you have a one-night stand or a "friends with benefits" situation with someone, it is understood that there is no exclusivity. However, once you have a serious and committed relationship with someone, a dating relationship, it is understood that there is exclusivity unless explicitly agreed upon as an open relationship. It is not common for a boyfriend or girlfriend to do whatever they want, cheating on their partner, and when confronted, the unfaithful person responds with, "What are you talking about? We never discussed exclusivity in our relationship." The majority of Spanish people have at least a minimum level of honesty and emotional responsibility towards their partners.

[@lxportugal9343]

I notested that... and I found it strange In Portugal it's completly the opposite of what she said. *If* you want an open relation you have to say it *imediatly* otherwise people will assume exclusivity. One-night stands I undertsand... but even friends with benefits can mean some exclusivity, it depends you have to talk about it.

[@QwertyUiop-bs2zr]

in Madrid it isn´t like that and I haven´t heard of anywhere where it is like that, sure if you have gone on 8 dates and really like each other it is expected but you aren´t anything serious until you say it, until that point you are just dating not girlfriend/boyfriend

[@QwertyUiop-bs2zr]

@@jaorXLUZ entonces estás de acuerdo, ella no dice que en las parejas no haya exclusividad, dice que por tener alguna cita eso no te hace tener exclusividad y no empezáis a ser novios sin hablarlo

[@jaorXLUZ]

@@QwertyUiop-bs2zr Me expresé mal en mi respuesta a tu comentario, así que por eso lo he borrado y voy a expresarme mejor. No, no estoy de acuerdo. Es cierto que el hecho de quedar varias veces con alguien no significa que ya tengas algo serio... simplemente se están conociendo para ver si quieren algo serio o no. Pero eso no significa que mientras que dos personas se están conociendo con vistas a tener algo serio o no, estén a la vez quedando con otras personas. No tiene sentido que Fulano/a X esté quedando con Fulana/o Y para ver si quieren algo serio, y cuando Fulano/a X quiere dar el paso finalmente, Y le responda que no, porque ha estado quedando paralelamente con Fulano/a Z y que mejor se va con él/ella. No tiene sentido, y al menos en mi ambiente se ve pésimo que alguien actué así. Es una muestra de tener la responsabilidad afectiva de un ornitorrinco.

[@marvin2678]

@@QwertyUiop-bs2zr lol thats such a sad little culture

[@josehugomartinez6661]

Interesante y genial video, me parece muy curioso mirar perspectivas de diferentes nacionalidades. En México, sin generalizar, se mira bien que el hombre pague por el tema "caballerosidad", aunque yo creo que no debería ser cuestión de género nada, más bien todo en un común acuerdo como pareja.

[@Frivals]

🤦‍♂️When you pretend men to pay for you in exchange for sex is called prostitution and for an illusion of sex is called scam.

[@Irene.Shalom]

I think most people in Italy would assume that if you're going on multiple dates and seeing each other regularly, it would be exclusive. It only makes sense...if you like me and you want to explore the possibility of a relationship... why sleep around? You're in a rush or something? I'm from the north of italy and thats how I would see it

[@agnieszkadworek9853]

Finally great normal people, without any 'primadonnas' :) thanks :)!

[@hiphipjorge5755]

I feel like I see overrepresentation of Catalan-speaking regions when it comes to Spain.....it would be nice to see people from Andalucia, Castilla, Galicia or Canarias

[@miguelberdia5511]

Most of youngsters in Galicia think exactly the same things as she said

[@ivanmacgar6447]

I'd say it's more of a generation divide, rather than a regional one.

[@ctrldlt2001]

Isnt it s stereotype that Catalonians are notoriously frugal ?

[@hiphipjorge5755]

​@@ivanmacgar6447You're right, my friend from Cádiz tells me his grandparents are pretty religious and conservative but he is not at all

[@ArandomBritishwannabe]

Spaniards must be proud of with themself. Viva la Espanaa from Turkey.

[@I_am_FRANCO]

7:13 😂😂😂 his reaction

[@jaskatpon1]

I think Spanish culture has dramatically changed over the years! They have now some of the most liberal cultures in the world. I’m actually very impressed with Spain. I remember watching some old 60s or 70s Spanish movies, they were a lot more conservative and traditional than other European countries.

[@γιουργια]

>they were a lot more conservative and traditional than other European countries No shit man,they were under Catholic fascist dictatorship, ofcourse they would be more conservative and traditional back then

[@jaimeescribano8858]

Pendulum effect after the dictatorship ended in 1975.

[@Србомбоница86]

I am disappointed

[@marvin2678]

pretty sad

[@Arginne]

Im disappointed I can tell spain is not for me from this video and I much more resonate with Hungary italy and ireland

[@kamillaerdos7636]

Áááááá very good, very short! We could have watched it longer! Thank U:)

[@paulopabs9172]

As a Portuguese man we are mostly like the Spanish Girl it's 50/50 but I'm dating an Hungarian woman now and literally I pay all the time I think it's just the way they are raised that the man has to work and take care of the bills and all that but I managed to get a good one and she likes 50/50 as well haha

[@belakitajka5741]

Hi Hungarian guy here. I think you pay the bill in the beginning of going out ofc. But once your together she pays something also, like you get the meal she pays maybe the drinks in the bar you go to after etc. Once your solid, and clearly a couple to be fair. Dating is oldschool courting mostly in Hungary sonyou pay because your gentleman and wanna give a good impression. But also heavily matters where she is from countryside or a big city like Budapest, is she younger or older, and your age and income difference aswell. I think its fine, most girls dont take advantage of it, the ones who do usually you can recognize how they carry themselves

[@Frivals]

🤦‍♂️When you pretend men to pay for you in exchange for sex is called prostitution and for an illusion of sex is called scam.

[@Србомбоница86]

Disgusting,you are not a man

[@mizulightblue]

I am European, I was born and raised in Austria and now live in Finland since soon 6 years. I would say this questions, especially the first ones, depend so much on the person. Many people probably split the bill, but there are also so many where guy still pays everything. Also concept of dating, I think that just varies from couple / humans to couple / humans. One night stands and flings get more and more popular, unfortunately, in whole Europe, because of social media. Public affection might be in Austria a little bit more than in Finland, but then again, not by much. I would say it isn't really a thing in both countries. About marriage: It was a thing in the past, but nowadays it seems like marriage is just a paper and a huge waste of money. Then divorcing, which happens constantly, is also involved with money, paper and lots of stress. I wanted to get married too, but the older I get, the system gets more corrupt about it and it just doesn't mean, unfortunately, much anymore today.

[@Frivals]

🤦‍♂️When you pretend men to pay for you in exchange for sex is called prostitution and for an illusion of sex is called scam.

[@LisaSoulLevelHealing]

If you're not having children, its not really valuable.

[@mizulightblue]

@@LisaSoulLevelHealing Well I do have children, 2. Yet never married, if you mean this in the topic of marriage

[@mizulightblue]

@@Frivals it's not prostitution if both sides know and agree on it

[@Frivals]

@@mizulightblue that's called consensual prostitution

[@melissa-ut5fk]

Thank you so much Marina You are Awesome as always, very happy to see you

[@foreignlovedreams]

Of course, the dating culture and traditions are different in European countries, and people are also different in their upbringing. The representative of Hungary is a very gentleman and his views are classic masculine, as they should be. Spain and France are more progressive and modernized in their views, and do not see anything terrible in splitting the bill. But everyone has the same opinion about one-night stands. It has become very popular since 2000. Everyone became liberal, free and open-minded. That's why the culture of online dating has gained popularity.

[@marvin2678]

one night stands are pretty sad , its the wrong direction

[@kamillaerdos7636]

And after one night can cause head acke. I dont beleive u can separate the body from the soul...

[@fabb4i2]

I don't want to be too critical, but this video was lacking Eastern representation - considering 3 / 5 Southern Europeans.

[@Bracarensis]

Those were in the previous video, without southern representation.

[@Stangler96]

There is only two south european here the italian girl and the spanish girl. Who is the third one?

[@tobiojo6469]

Awesome video

[@alexurfantasy]

In Latin America it’s usually expected for the man to pay pretty much every date . If the woman tries to pay it can come off as emasculating

[@islandgirlxx3465]

As a venezuelan, I agree on this

[@greenytaddict]

It is like that too in the South of US as well.

[@LNVACVAC]

The women paying is not emasculating. Men under 40yo are fed up with foodie calls. Most men just don't speak it out loud.

[@marvin2678]

@@greenytaddict crazy, it hought yall americasn are the one sleeping around

[@Arginne]

@@LNVACVACyou really think women spend their little free time with you listening to your boring ass stories and dealing with your boring personality for a free meal?

[@UltimaTheSeraph]

To me, when I ask someone out for a date, then I pay their bills as well even when we aren't a match, and if they ask me out on a date I will pay our bills if I like them or just pay my share if I don't match with them.

[@Frivals]

🤦‍♂️When you pretend men to pay for you in exchange for sex is called prostitution and for an illusion of sex is called scam.

[@UltimaTheSeraph]

@@Frivals projecting much?

[@Joey-ct8bm]

Splitting a bill is more respectful to the woman. They see you as equal. Splitting a bill in France is the most common thing to do by the way. She most be from some conservative tiny village in France or something.

[@Arginne]

Ew.

[@dubmait]

Irish lad very quiet😅

[@fabb4i2]

2:32 Isabel 🤣🤣

[@markbigelow2608]

Interesting😊

[@maaziy_ghaziyIYI]

What people need to realize is that the age of generalizations is over. People in every country are very diverse. Of course they hold on to common "national" practices but with the demise of aggressive nationalism in Europe and with the rise of America as a superpower after WW2 and with globalization, the internet, social media, tourism etc. the application of generalizations has diminished quite a lot. You might think that a person is French and therefore they may be very promiscuous but it turns out that they aren't like that. In fact they're very monogamous. Also, Americans love stereotypes and putting people in boxes.

[@niclaci6093]

Agree, I am Italian and I would respond the opposite of what the other girl said on almost every question.

[@belakitajka5741]

I think what actually we see is the opposite. There is an opposition for globalism recently, which makes sence somewhat: We were sold on the globalist dream where we would all sing kumbaya, and the best of all cultures would flow through and a person in Egypt is drinking peruvian drinks while reading Chinese philosophy. What just happened the class difference and unfairness got global. No longer there is the upclass neighbourhood and slummy working area of the same town, but with countries. Even in Europe, while the burocreats and western European thinkers blame the eastern EU countries for their goverments corruption, which is factually true, on the other hand the greatest sponsor of these goverments are western multinational companies who enjoy low taxes and low wages, not so tough authorities, for their factories. Many say the whole eastern expansion of the EU was just for that, under the guise of european brotherhood. Atleast there is no true push for wage union in the EU. Same for wealthy western European countries, they talk inclusivity but use their ex-colonies, as mines, places for cheap factories etc. We all make deal with China, before the war we all head deals with Russia strengthening them. When some try to push for a favorization of domestic products instead the cheap ones made through slave labor in the 3rd world, the globalist yelled "nationalist". This only benefirs the leaders and shareholders of these international companies and the goverments of these dictarorial goverments, while the people losing their jobs locally and the masses working slaves labour in those 3rd world countries suffer. Globalism without true sharing, true solidarity, where im willing to let go of some of my lifestyle privilidges for the benefit of those who dont even have a 50th of what i already have, is just a bs corporat lie.

[@croatianwarmaster7872]

Clearly you forgot about the wars in Croatia, Bosnia&Herzegovina, Kosova and Ukraine.

[@greenytaddict]

Everyone puts everyone in a box till they get to know each other. And some people do live up to their stereotypes. Stereotypes don't always mean a bad thing. With your last sentence you are basically generalizing Americans.

[@Mark-eu6mc]

It’s weird to single out that “Americans love stereotypes”. I’ve been to many continents and specifically Asia (Japan and So Korea) and South American countries believe in stereotypes and verbally use them. Americans keep them quieter than other cultures because they can be racist and that doesn’t fly here anymore.

[@kamrannasibov481]

Nice video 👍

[@fabb4i2]

Interesting video :)

[@HippiePajon]

This is so fucking funny

[@МаксНовиков-н1л]

What about the LGBT+ people reactions for these questions in these countries?

[@AlexAlex-m7v]

The honourable user is kindly referred to the full works of Hans-Hermann Hoppe.😂

[@lll____251]

I don't think they would mind, are you referring to anything in particular?

[@talitabotana6992]

Hurraaaa ❤ españita

[@kylesavage4525]

Hey Marina i have a question about that quiz u mentioned in ur stream the other day. Will i need an ig account or something like that to have access to it?

[@DatingBeyondBorders]

No need :) it will be on the website so you can definitely access

[@kylesavage4525]

@@DatingBeyondBorders Good to know. Looking forward to it :)

[@Vnzkb]

13:25 13:40

[@shingala8544]

Dear Thomas, I guess your name is Tamás.... were you ashamed of?

[@a.slatopolsky82]

5 Catholic countries.

[@salala4412]

Not really, since more than half of the population in Hungary is not Catholic. In 2011, the proportion of Roman Catholics was 37.15%. Although it's true that this is the largest religious denomination in the country.

[@danesovic7585]

Damn, I thought Spain would be more traditional. Or is this more of Barcelona thing?

[@miguelberdia5511]

More an urban area thing. People in villages or conservative regions are not at all like that

[@dubmait]

@@miguelberdia5511 pfff depends what you mean by urban.

[@miguelberdia5511]

​@@dubmait I think most youngsters in medium-bigger cities think like that, mainly in the coastal areas than in central Spain where people tend to be more conservative.

[@ivanmacgar6447]

​@@miguelberdia5511I am from "central" Spain (a bit further to the North and West of Madrid though) and there's a big generation divide about this. It's true that older people are more conservative and old-fashioned about this, but younger people are for the most part pretty similar to her.

[@miguelberdia5511]

@@ivanmacgar6447 I am from La Coruña and in my city I think most youngsters would agree almost in everything of what the girl from Barcelona said

[@KrlKngMrtssn]

A humble message to the Spanish girl: The questions were not about what you "wish" dating practices are, but rather what the "general, average, random Spaniard would do" - Tbh I'm shocked at her lack of collective awareness.

[@free22]

Maybe that is how things work in her neck of the woods. I’m surprised by the reactions from some Spaniards here who say she is way off when the people I have personally met from Spain have been very similar to her. And Spain is not a country with high marriage and birth rates. I wonder if there are many regional differences within Spain that could lead to the disagreement. Someone from a big city in the US, for example like NY, is going to be very different than someone who grew up in a North Carolina church going community in the suburbs.

[@KrlKngMrtssn]

@free22 indeed, like other countries, Spain has both rural and urban areas. From my own experience, rural Spaniards have a complete other approach to dating than the girl in the video. Of course, there are also elements that allow a certain level of generalization and that are common to most Spaniards. But the latter are certainly not those exposed here. She is most likely from a bigger urban area like Barcelona or similar.

[@dubmait]

​@@free22 i think age could be a factor here. Shes younger than me. Now in my experience most spanish women insist on paying the bill half at least also shes right about public displays of affection. Very normal. However, on everything else i think shes wrong or at least talking about a younger generation. Im not sure how old she is though

[@free22]

@@dubmait Age could definitely be a factor. City versus rural dwellers would differ too. The people I have met from Spain have been in their 40s and early 50s but they were very much big city dwellers. They behaved just as she described.

[@dubmait]

@@free22 where were they from ??

[@Evega607]

This lady from Barcelona you can tell she is not from Spain so she feels. Just listen

[@AlexAlex-m7v]

Kind of weird emphasis on last syllables. A clear sign of wokeness.😂

[@Belenshares]

What are you even talking about?

[@2dimitropolis370]

What's wrong being eaten Europe?

[@theuralictribes5689]

The problem is that when you incorrectly take a country which is in Central Europe located in the Centre of the European Continent, and then place it in Eastern Europe not realising that Eastern Europe consists of only Russia, Belarus and Ukraine, given that the European Continent ends by the Ural Mountains, you can see how rediculous and stupid the claim would be placing certain countries at the wrong place incorrectly.

[@DG_5856]

@@theuralictribes5689 that's a matter of perspective, i am italian and Slovenia feel eastern european to me

[@_MC529]

The Irish seem to be the only ones left with some common sense Hungary is too traditional Spain is too modern France is both, but in the worst way And the Italians are just crazy

[@Србомбоница86]

Hungary traditional???

[@_MC529]

@@Србомбоница86 comparatively, yes

[@Arginne]

Ireland, italy and Hungary all have balanced healthy views. The french and spain are degenerative

[@kamillaerdos7636]

No, no , no they take the girl in the bed at first day many time!

[@365daysLegalDrama]

Can't believe the dutch girl disagreed with the idea of splitting the bills. "Going the dutch way" is there for a reason 😅😂

[@miguelberdia5511]

There is France, Italy, Hungary, Ireland and Spain in this video, no Netherlands.

[@veronicadredd22]

Italian sounds Welsh looks Irish she and the Spanish girl should do a DNA test they must have Irish heritage.

[@lauragoreni3020]

Nooo! There are lots of gingers with light skin in Italy and Spain! Brunette is the most widespread hair colour but blondes and gingers are also present! I live in Northern Italy and I know a few gingers and blondes, and I'd say the most common hair colour for natives around here is dark blonde or light brown. The southern you go the more the features get darker but it's still possible to find blondes in Sicily. My own mother is a natural ginger and 100% Italian, unfortunately I didn't get the ginger genes, it looks beautiful. Don't believe the stereotype that always portrays ALL Southern Europeans with dark features, it's a huge generalization.

[@galleya-tx3jy]

Northern Italians are light because they are actually Germans; they are the descendants of German tribes who settled in Northern Italy from the past. The region of Lombardy in Northern Italy was named after the lombards who were a Germanic tribe. Same with spain, in Northern Spain there were a lot of Celtic tribes that settled in that region so that explains why some Spaniards have red hair and blue eyes-it is from the Celtic tribes. In the past, tribes of Northern Europeans like the Germans and Celts did migrate to and settle in regions of Southern Europe and obviously had a genetic impact.

[@lauragoreni3020]

​@@galleya-tx3jyNorth-Eastern Italian were also heavy influenced by the Celts. And plenty of other people btw.

[@commenter4190]

there are many blond or red haired italians in the entire country, PLEASE STOP DEPICTING ITALIANS WITH STEREOTYPES!

[@commenter4190]

@@lauragoreni3020 celts and germanics (Goths, Longbards, Franks and Normans in the south): foreigners are disappointed when they find the "not so italian" looking people in Italy! They PRETEND WE ARE JUST A STEREOTYPE OF DARK MEDITERRANEAN or "OLIVE" as they pretend we are!

[@maxxhc8686]

Whydid the Spanish girl say she’s from Barcelona and not Spain

[@Србомбоница86]

Spain is extremely liberal ,very disappointming ,but their country their rules

[@Србомбоница86]

@@neyou6940 so?not everyone had colonies and got rich of slavery lol

[@AlexAlex-m7v]

Illegitimate woke gov rules, most definitely NOT the real, productive people rules. This happens ALL OVER the 2030 Agenda occupied West. Conclusion: Godspeed, Vlad!!😂😂😂

[@free22]

Hungary is more Eastern European though.

[@theuralictribes5689]

That is such a stupid and ignorant claim. It's Central European so get over it.

[@OverTheVoids]

I mean, the title says "Do EUROPEANS Date the Same Way?", so it wasn't just focusing on the western half.

[@free22]

@@OverTheVoids True. It does not. It just seems that it would throw everything off when it’s just one person from the East.

[@tomriley5790]

After centuries of trying not to be Russian Hungary is now trying to be Russian...

[@kylesavage4525]

No Hungary is Central Europe. Eastern includes all the former soviet countries.

[@TheFactsMan]

First

[@todobienrico]

what a sad bunch

[@shehzadchowdhury8327]

Irish guy can't speak Irish as native language i'm sure

[@bluegirl1118]

What dose that matter

[@shehzadchowdhury8327]

@@bluegirl1118 it’s matters because Brit destroyed their native language

[@Србомбоница86]

​@@bluegirl1118it's tragic

[@bluegirl1118]

@@shehzadchowdhury8327 I know that but it’s not relevant to the video

[@Luca-uc2ro]

I'll never date Defo

[@mohammaddastageer6950]

THE IRISH GUY SOMETIMES JUST BLENDED WITH THE BACKGROUND DUE TO HIS TSHIRT AND PALENESS

[@joeyjuandiaz6195]

Hopefully that Spanish girl is not speaking for her whole country 😂

[@squares4u]

Why? Splitting the bill is normal here too… most of us women where I am want to be seen as financially independent

[@ivanovichdelfin8797]

Lo único que no me ha parecido tan representativo es lo de "Que las aventuras de una noche sean súper comunes" Creo que eso se reparte por la mitad, no conozco mucho ese tipo de comportamientos.

[@amiquigonzales7917]

I guess she speaks for very young people in big cities, or big tourism centers like the Baleares. Usually the Spaniards were traditional, conservative catholic people. Of course I'm talking of Spaniards 35, 40 years ago.

[@eliomarcamacaro95]

​@@amiquigonzales7917 belive me, she was in fact talking about modern day Spain. Not only big cities but even in the small towns works like that nowadays

[@free22]

Spain is not at all like Latin America. They are a Western European country through and through. The low birth rate reflects that.

[@_MC529]

And once again the sexism is shown when the Italian wants the man to pay for _her_ meal. If she wants to be paid for her company, she should have become an escort.

[@Arginne]

Yikes. Incel

[@ricardoromerobenitez]

Splitting the bills with Spanish women… no way! this girl has been drinking some sangrias… 😅

[@Frivals]

🤦‍♂️When you pretend men to pay for you in exchange for sex is called prostitution and for an illusion of sex is called scam.

[@jua__n2655]

Everybody knows tomas is gay..

[@eddiesantos4978]

When a girls say she likes you, in some point she take her clothes away and stay naked. Why?

[@MegaWorldadventure]

That's the most Irish-looking Italian I've ever seen.

[@lll____251]

She literally looks italian, do you think that if a person has red hair they must be irish?