Toxic Thinking | The Naked Marriage Podcast | Dave and Ashley Willis

[@dineogumede7351]

I really appreciate this video,I am going through a very dark place ,I have anxiety and constantly battling feeling fearful and feel like I am going to loss my marriage and I pray and can't feel God's presence

[@Jezebel066]

My husband. Sees me as his enemy. I’m constantly accused of being jealous, not trusting him, needy, manipulating, & every comment I make scrutinized to make it a “jab” at him. I stopped trying to talk about my feelings a long time ago bc it always angered him. He is divorcing me now & tells me it’s bc I did things that never happened. Actually, all the things he did to ME. It’s a hard time. Fighting for my marriage til the end. For a man who doesn’t want me at all. I feel like he is sick or the devil has messed w his mind. He is blind & doesn’t seem to care much about hurting people. Deeply hurting people w scars that last a lifetime. And I am blamed for the person he is. I made him this way. I need prayers for my mental well-being having lived this way so long. The cycle of trying to earn my husbands love constantly. Living in fear he will divorce me. It’s hard to get past the trauma bond that was created. And pray for my husband. That God open his eyes. Only He can get past the hardened heart & bring my husband to him. I worry so much for him bc he claims to be a Christian, but he is not.. otherwise he would not speak like the world. Would want to please God. He doesn’t seem to care or love Jesus at all...

[@nicolepatrick-eason4402]

Sis you are not alone in this matter. As I have read your comment, I truly have, am experiencing such as you. I know God has a greater purpose for us in the time of attack within our marriage. Most of the times a person must examine themselves, accepting accountability for there issues of what they have brought into the marriage. I am praying for you along with my situation. If you need to talk please feel free to reach out!

[@monicadewit4281]

Hugs and prayers J Gal.

[@gorgeouswales9635]

Hello I’m so in a similar but we’re not divorced but it’s been hard. So I’m just praying talking to God on a regular, also reading scriptures on Joy. I’m here for you prayers sending your way ok?

[@Jezebel066]

@@nicolepatrick-eason4402 thank you. He is a covert narcissist... all I can figure out is God is letting him divorce me so I not longer have to be abused

[@Jezebel066]

@@gorgeouswales9635 thank you so much. It’s gotten so much worse. He keeps gaslighting me. I’m trying to find a place to go now but can’t

[@gorgeouswales9635]

Thanks always for such good Godly information. God Bless!

[@growthbasketballdevelopmen7508]

You guys did awesome at the xo conference in Pittsburg. You 2 are helping our marriage tremendously. Great video

[@DaveandAshleyWillis]

Thanks so much!!

[@peddapullaphanindragoud9453]

Hi Dave and Ashley, can you please suggest me some sources to change the way I think. Always racing thoughts will be running in my mind. Thank you. I really blessed by your podcast. May God bless you so much😍😍

[@DaveandAshleyWillis]

We suggest "A Mind Set Free" by Jimmy Evans here is the link: store.xomarriage.com/products/a-mind-set-free-book?_pos=1&_sid=bbabece72&_ss=r. or my book "Think Like Jesus" here is the link to that: store.xomarriage.com/products/think-like-jesus?_pos=1&_sid=dde45bf72&_ss=r

[@peddapullaphanindragoud9453]

@@DaveandAshleyWillis Thank you