♡ Day in the Life: with Heavy Periods! | Amy Lee Fisher ♡

[@amyleefisher52]

Thank you all so much for all the love on this video!! 😍😍😍

[@sandrafraser7015]

Amy Lee Fisher I use Always Discreet pants for both my periods and sometimes heavy peeing. They’re just great. 😉

[@heidigeldbach2434]

My mom has the same thing as you! It’s really bad!

[@tudormiller8898]

I'm a new subscriber from London. 💗

[@katiemarie418]

I can relate to extremely heavy periods. I use ultra size tampax brand

[@beckyrobson7104]

I feel you, I’ve had two weeks on two weeks off since 12yrs old, however I had a coil fitted at 20 due to hormone imbalances and heavy bleeding and after 9 months of having it I stopped having heavy flow and now after 5 years of having a coil I don’t cramp or bleed anymore at all. It’s saved me so much pain and money. I would recommend it to anyone with awful periods xx

[@lookoutsideyourwindow1631]

My girlfriend is like you. She’s anaemic because of her really heavy periods and can really affect her some days. At first it weirded me out a little bit that she wore those kind of diapers sometimes, but I realised how stupid my mindset was cause she can’t help it and it’s just something females just go through. Thank you for educating us on the matter so I can take care of her more efficiently.

[@hannahb4347]

That’s actually dead cute awww

[@tiawalker2316]

Same I had to have 4 blood transfusions because I lost so much blood after bleeding for about 3 days it was because of how heavy I was I lost 4 pints of blood x

[@tiffanyjonestjm937]

My boyfriend was the exact same way until I explained it to him

[@toni5543]

What a good lad.

[@lookoutsideyourwindow1631]

Thank you everyone for the kind replies. My girlfriend got very excited at the replies and said to “keep fighting the good fight ladies!” 😂😂

[@ivannama8289]

I'm so glad you're talking about this normally. Girls are usually taught to be grossed out by their periods, but they're completely normal!

[@brilliantbutblue]

Ivanna MA: Well said.

[@Hulkerine100]

Agreed, having a period is actually a sign of a healthy woman so it's important for girls & women to notice periods, especially if they want to be fertile and have children, no menstrual cycle is a sign of infertility.

[@emmypotato2563]

Exactly ! Everyone has different flows and nothing to be ashamed of

[@cheese-pt8ny]

I’m not ashamed of it but I’m still somehow afraid of my own blood 😂

[@cheese-pt8ny]

I literally started when I was 10 lol

[@artimisrok313]

Some guy asked me why I didn’t just hold my period blood until I went to the restroom and I was like maybe you should have been in the board meeting when the design for women’s bodies was being drawn up, cause mine sure as hell don’t do that

[@quarantinelife.]

Omg I can't believe people this dumb exist

[@teamholmez86]

this is why sex education needs to be mixed men may not have periods but their wives and daughters do and as some of the ideas they have about how the Body Works omg 😂😂

[@peachyra1n]

If i can do that then i wouldn't ever leak again :')

[@stephanieann6622]

Holy shit.. I wish I could say I'm surprised tho.. the amount of shit I've seen especially on the subreddit nothowgirlswork is insane.. I can typically "hold" it in even tho I have really heavy periods. My doctor told me I just have a "tight seal" lmao but literally most girls can't.

[@klara.tesarova]

It is possible to hold your period till you go to restroom. Just learn Kegel exercise.

[@BrittanyLawsonXo]

This is why menstrual products should be free.

[@biancadanielle8092]

Bara Cvrkalova lol

[@vincenzinasoos9587]

Toilet papers also cost money so are razors, you have the option to freebleed

[@vincenzinasoos9587]

But i agree in severe cases there should br a support

[@xxannaxx5834]

XXX are..... are you kidding? do you genuinely think freebleeding is an attainable, hygienic practice?

[@chlonanu]

@@vincenzinasoos9587 not having products for your period would make you feel so undignified, i'd rather have hairy legs or a beard etc. and use leaves as toilet paper

[@ginger6304]

I’m a teacher and I’ve had quite a few girls get their periods in school. It’s amazing that so many don’t know how to deal with it! They don’t know how to put in pads. Their mothers never showed them anything! I’ve explained pads and wings to 9 year olds! My mom explained periods to my sister and I at a very young age. I don’t even remember. So it wasn’t scary when I got it for the first time. I didn’t think I was dying!!!! I buy pads for the girls in my school. I’m not sure if the nurse has them, but she’s a nun and they used to have those really thick pads. Little girls can’t wear them. I have the thin ones with wings. All the upper grade girls know to come to me if they need one. I teach 2nd grade, but I’ll always buy pads for the older girls. I tell the upper grade teachers to send them to me. We go to my desk and I put it discreetly in their sleeves lol! It’s nothing to be ashamed of, but I don’t want to explain pads and periods to 7 year olds lol!!!

[@heidifranklin5633]

Cheryln Kurz respect

[@jiglysinger]

I loved to read this! You are awesome!

[@ginger6304]

Kellyscreacorner Aw thank you so much!!!

[@ginger6304]

Heidi Franklin Thank you! 😀

[@Maddy-qy2qo]

Awww!!!! That is ADORABLE! You need a promotion :))

[@nancyorozco4799]

I wish we only bled when we had to pee :(

[@brodyszone157]

When I'm on mine it's pretty much so light that it's just that last 4 days but the cramps are the worst like in bed the first 2 days

[@ANNA-fg3rz]

ikr!

[@suann9790]

My best friend was able to do this before she gave birth. Lots of yoga and muscle training. However I feel that my periods would be too strong for this anyway, even if I trained a lot.

[@Natasha-jx5hd]

You do, its called a uti

[@user-pp6kd7ut4k]

@@brodyszone157 That's actually a sign you're having trouble passing blood or shedding your uterine lining! You should get that checked on if you have not before :) Not trying to be bossy but that happened to me. Turns out my body was trying to pass it the whole time but couldn't. Had to get meds from my doctor to help me. I bled more but it was way less painful

[@nicoxere08]

I'm sorry but you had me at "running up your bum crack" 😂 very relatable and thankyou for being so open with all of this! Girls get shy about their periods and its nothing to be ashamed off so thankyou :)

[@aymanfatima6396]

Same I can relate to this

[@SwampCeeMcGee60]

I always had the butt crack leak issue. I had to use toilet paper in the crack to plug the dam 🤨

[@poppinpoppin8514]

Gorl Unknown what I’m doing right now 😐

[@Adrianalovely-us8hq]

I get it so bad so me lol 😂

[@Steven-lz7on]

Nicole Louise i can't have periods. i have the wrong organs.

[@174monkey]

Not gonna lie, I'm happy to see this because I started wearing depends to bed about 10 years ago after being annoyed by having to wash bloody sheets all the damn time. I find I sleep better knowing me, my clothes and my sheets are safe from my monthly blood bath.

[@grobanite4ever85]

I started wearing depends during my period in 2012 due the paragard IUD making my period heavier. I been wearing them every since. Pads tend to squish and I have accidents

[@Nomadic.A]

Same...lifesavers. Just so much less stress. Or when I know I'll be running around all day on heavy days.

[@actuallowroller]

174monkey “monthly bloodbath!” 🤣🤣🤣🤣❤️ I literally LOL when I read that comment! So funny and true.

[@thaurbanhomemaker]

174monkey me too girl I started when I was 19! I’m wearing one right now! I have pcos I I bleed months at a time! They’re live savers!!

[@brittaolson6550]

Shoyah'sCrazy FantasticLife Yes, I bleed months at a time as well. at least I did for years. Actually, I am on hormones now to correct it so I only bleed 2-3 weeks a month. 🙄.

[@hazelmay3310]

Honestly the girls with 2 day light periods are so blessed Girls with 7-9 day periods that are quite or really heavy are so unlucky (I’m in this category)

[@khtoix]

Mine last 7 days and I'd say my flow is quite normal

[@Kirgaby]

Well, 2 day light periods might indicate there are some issues going on

[@richild3967]

Try 50 days straight 😭

[@elorathomas8645]

@@richild3967 same! I've had my period for 2 months now and its very heavy. I have pcos so I either skip a period or have it for a couple months, it sucks.

[@bluebuffy5]

I may have a heavy flow but at least my cycles are regular :)

[@vstarr624]

RIP Amy, no more tubes, no more pain. Thank you for sharing your beautiful life with us❤️😢

[@harrietlumb6449]

Rest In Peace

[@Smith.S.sStocHasticSs]

😲😲😲 tha fuckk?? She died?? I just got here. Damn. Wow I'm SO glad she made these. She looks familiar. Why do I suspect medical malpractice & evil pharma had something to do with this... 🤔 wonder if she ever meets with psychic mediums to come chat 😅 I felt like her comment was just written. She's probably present with us when we learn and are inspired here. I wrote that I liked her nails and was hoping she liked my comment. Lol. It inspired me to do my nails for videos cuz it so pleasant to watch.

[@Moonlight-rh3vm]

I am sorry for your loss Rip Amy! 😭

[@edwardbennett959]

I wish girls didn't have to have periods seems like such a pain.

[@ms.r6272]

It is. I explained to my 25 year old boyfriend what a period is in detail. (he asked) he seems pretty horrified. 🤣

[@marthabennett6576]

Aww that’s acc so sweet

[@KylGames-cr2qt]

thank you for saying that cuz some boys say "Its not that bad." like yeah it is for some people

[@leahgracefecteau6049]

Well I want to be less pain but they are good in a way

[@audreyhepburn2038]

Just take the mini pill every day... no period BINGO! Problem sorted! I don’t know any girl that has a period anymore. Seems odd when you can solve it when you can take a tiny pill each day.

[@kellyrevere]

Still not over her passing, I tell myself she’s still here and come here for comfort when I feel weak because she makes me feel strong through her strength

[@thedailyfashionsnowyfamily1328]

Ya same

[@itz_malz8174]

Wait she passed away?

[@thedailyfashionsnowyfamily1328]

Yep

[@westbygodoutdoors7036]

She was only 25:( but at least she's not suffering anymore. You will be missed Amy. Missed talking to you.

[@renataavgeri1132]

@@itz_malz8174 yes... she had heart failure and numerous other things came up at hospital and she sadly broke

[@EmilyCanham]

love love love the fact you're talking about this, Amy!!!

[@keithsmitj9741]

Emily cannon I cannot believe you commented on Emily fishes video are you friends what is going on #Emily Canham is amazing

[@myrthasmascary4086]

If ur not comfortable with this video click out lol u baby

[@myrthasmascary4086]

I think a thick maxi pad or a bladder pad with wings will b better CVS has a bladder pad combine with a menstrual pad together u might want to try those tighter panties with a thick maxi pad and a regular pad had help changing every two hours no more than three

[@ronderulijkummar7453]

She's a lovely lady isn't she!

[@rebeccastuck1849]

I wear nappies all the time for my period. Doesn’t matter what time of the day, I have to wear there due to how heavy it is. I also have IBS, which can get so bad that I can poop myself. Nappies have saved me so much

[@b_r_a_n]

Rebecca Stuck holy shit you poor thing wow

[@helenhunsicker7402]

You gotta do what you gotta do, everyone is just trying their best it’s just looks different for everyone. I hope that you find some relief internet stranger 😊

[@Emeri666]

What do you use for your Iron deficiency? Im pale all the time and i dont eat alot of meat due to having dental work done due to no fault of my own. (Health problems and Genetics) im finding it difficult to function.

[@kjs498]

Oh my God. Literally go fuck yourself Alice and Rachel’s Angel Forever. I don’t have IBS or anything but that was extremely rude and uncalled for.

[@lisawindemakernorris2334]

@Alice and Rachel’s Angel Forever Your Mother is very lucky that she is always near a bathroom and doesn't have to panic and have accidents. I am a rectal cancer survivor and was lucky enough to have my ileostomy reversed after 7 months. The price I am paying is poor muscle control and mild IBD. I will never be without some kind of pad and I am not lazy. I wish running to the bathroom was a choice for me. Kudos to her for telling "her normal" way of life and sharing her journey.

[@teresitaromero4325]

Try lining up two of the overnight pads like a choo choo train to prevent those leaks up the back side.

[@HarrisFam09]

That's what I have to do 😬

[@rebeccadebassige6804]

I do that too!!!

[@Rxanne28]

I used to do that.

[@moonchild708]

i used to do the overnight pad and then a green or orange one (not sure if the colors are the same everywhere) on the front and back of that. the overnights aren't long enough!!

[@penpal.writer2289]

OMG YES!!!!! and then I’m just sleeping in one position without moving like a stick

[@imogenoliver]

I think it's amazing that you've been dealt shitty cards but you can still find it on you to help and encourage others. We can't thank you enough.🥰

[@abhhlabhh9075]

Jiii

[@brilliantbutblue]

Imogen Oliver; IKR who else would give so much of themselves to help others! Amy is amazing the way she gives a full demo, tips and tricks to make people feel not so alone.

[@equigirl78jill64]

Yes because Muslim girls and women aren't allowed to pray during they're mensis as it is considered as unclean

[@imogenoliver]

EQUIGIRL78 JILL that’s terrible

[@equigirl78jill64]

@@imogenoliver well unfortunately I can't help my disabilities, or was that a reply to the Muslim girls and women?

[@suzanne529]

I am 67, I had heavy periods when I was young. I wish there had been all these products back then. All we had was Kotex pads and Modess that had a plastic liner. A diaper would have been the greatest thing. Thanks for educating women and girls about this!

[@ashleigh9690]

@@eireanmc6126 OH MY GODNESS SHUT UP

[@eireanmc6126]

ashleigh ! ? Don’t tell me what to do you don’t know anything about me there is no need to judge everyone because your jealous of me cop on to yourself and get a life

[@ashleigh9690]

@@eireanmc6126 dont tell an old fucking person that "itll end soon".also why tf would i be jealous of u when u dont even know how to spell. you said "YOUR jealous" and its youre!! i have a life. dont be so sensitive smh

[@eireanmc6126]

ashleigh ! ? I fucking meant her period not her life u need to cop on and don’t swear you are probably like 10 go tell ur mammy on me

[@ashleigh9690]

@@eireanmc6126 no im not 10, in fact you got that wrong by 6 years lol. its spelled mommy and at that woman has stopped having her periods for over 10+ years. you stop having them at 45-50. dont be so fucking salty.

[@lenac7655]

Amy was absolutely AMAZING & transparent. May she be forever blessed from this life to her next. So much love was sent by her & I felt it.

[@annahindle1240]

One of my friends in high school had a heavy period for 2 months straight and ended up in the hospital for ages with so many different problems. She was constantly weak, tried and really pale. It's such a shame that we only learn about 5-7 day periods and that's it in school. We need more knowledge of the problems girls could face at such a young age along with them having absolutely no knowledge of what is going on with their bodies and their potentially life-threatening situations. Plus the added embarrassment of talking about their periods with anyone.

[@GoodMusicManiac999]

Yeah. Mothers to begin with. I know it's something delicate to discuss, but mums should really tell us as soon as possible, because there could exist the possibility for her daughter to reach puberty earlier than expected. And it is a real trauma I sadly had to endure.

[@emmafurini4157]

Longer than average periods suck! It’s already a stigmatized subject which is further stigmatized by how long they are. I personally have a 10-14 day period and was told that if your period lasted more than 6 days you needed to go to the hospital. We need more education on women’s health in general, this is shit we have to go through ever month (ish) we need to know what we need to be concerned about and what is semi-normal.

[@pastthecastlewalls1786]

For me it goes from irregular to lasting 2 to 3 months, mom just thinks im crazy till i show her my bed sheets and floor from trying to make it to bathroom

[@graciewasson3279]

Mine is SOOOO HEAVY and has gone for 4 months straight! It's the worst thing ever!

[@graciewasson3279]

@Smøõth bræïn yeahhhh it's like your dying 😂😂

[@lexiiiiiiiiii]

Finally I found a person who has the same problem 😭 All my friends have their period for like 2,3 days and need to change their tampon every 8+ hours and I need to change tampons after 90 mins and I use the big ones which normally just fit women who already gave birth 😭 i use pads and tampons because if I use only a pad I need to change it after 30 mins because then it’s full ... I’m so low on iron and have to deal with circulation problems etc .. but luckily my period just stay for 5 days. I really needed that video ! Thank you so much for sharing those information ♥️

[@sandraborg4084]

large tampons are not for women who have had baby's , they are for women who bleed more , the tampons are all the same size but just hold more , small flow , regular flow and large flow

[@lisarexington2751]

@@sandraborg4084 idk if there's tampons only for women that have given birth but there's definitely a size difference. Menstrual cups are usually separated in sizes depending on if you've given birth or not

[@nouraomara1862]

What about using menstrual cup with pad for further protection maybe this will help you ❤

[@thaurbanhomemaker]

Alexandra I had 0 percent iron in my body I visited a hemotologist and have been getting iron through IV.

[@Axeo19]

What about a birth control option to help reduce your period?

[@kedanpie4409]

This is real woman talk! Much appreciated

[@MeganKugs]

I’ve been dealing with incredibly painful, intense periods for many years and this is one of the best, most informative videos I’ve come across. Also the fact that it doesn’t feel like watching a clinician but like a girlfriend giving you some advice gives your video such a comfortable feel. Also the fact that you’re speaking from experience rather than purely clinical knowledge leans something special as well. There are many things that you’ve just introduced to me that are fantastic ideas that I’m going to try. You were saying that you hope to help at least one person and you’ve definitely helped me. But scrolling through the comments, I am certainly not the only one by far that you’ve helped in just this one video. I only subscribed a few months ago so I’ve been binge watching a bit because I absolutely be your personality and I sincerely believe that you have reached and helped many people, those who suffer from EDS and the various other ills you deal with but also many, many of us who you’re educating beautifully. So I got rambly here haha, basically point being, thank you, you are lovely and I am truly grateful to you. Love you Darling!

[@staydope.hoerich.6503]

Did you think about endometriose?

[@johnlock2855]

Do you think you may have endometriosis?

[@kristinat7701]

I used to have horrible periods. Lasted long, very inconsistent, a lot of blood, pain and cramps that landed me in the emergency room almost every month. If that's the case for you, talk to a doctor about birth control pills. Thats what ive been using to manage it. Havent been to the ER in years, my periods last shorter, less blood, and i know exactly when its gonna come. And the pain is almost non existent. Never going back

[@staydope.hoerich.6503]

yes so it would be possible because the pill can cause less endometriose pain

[@Lauren-cg4oq]

Really makes me appreciate having periods that aren’t as bad as this, I used to get heavy and painful periods before going on the pill where they used to be so bad and heavy although not to the extent you have. I’m glad you’re sharing for girls that have heavy periods and are scared about getting these for the first time

[@NikkiWright89]

I started wearing “nappies” or womens period disposable panties after i had my baby. I bled for two weeks after having her snd they held so much blood. I even wear them for my period. They’re totally comfortable and are underwear replacements for me. I love them, they’re just so expensive.

[@Rapidspiker44]

It’s so cool that you’re posting this. I wish I could have seen this 10 years ago when I was starting my period!

[@doridorothy]

My dad was a single parent and he didn't understand thing about period 😅😅😅

[@marjoriehuntsberry6911]

I'm long past having my period, but I do suffer from incontinence at night. I just want to thank you for this very informative vlog. Glad you brought this out in the open for all ages.

[@tilly9632]

U may have e endometriosis like my mum go see your gp

[@rosamay6685]

for anyone reading this: you are amazing you are loved you are beautiful you are the best no one is perfect that's why pencil's have rubbers hope u have an amazing day! xxx

[@HelenaBlack80]

Thank-you for helping stop period stigma. You’ve just helped a girl somewhere feel less like she’s alone and that she has to suffer in silence and feel less ashamed.

[@aishahadriana602]

*amy showing off her overnight pad me: "WHERE CAN I GET THOSE PADS PLEASE"

[@codename495]

Aishah Adriana Women’s depends are pretty amazing for heavy nights. I’m wore them after both of my kiddos were born and they were amazing.

[@charlee101]

The overnight pad with the two wings, I get them at the grocery store...I LOVE them for the night time.

[@GeminiRust]

Just go to the store and take a good hard look at your pad section. They usually have little charts of their size and if they are overnight. Get the pad that says "overnight" and has the biggest one on the chart highlighted. It should also show double wings if thats what your looking for. PS. ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS make sure that shit has wings. Wings so big you can fly on. I never understood ladies who go wingless. I believe you can't fly. You know your pad is going to slip and slide all over your undies.

[@winderia860]

I also want those pads because most of the time i lay down ;-; im asking mom

[@altrinamaloku9203]

You can buy them at coles

[@bellajaid]

I don't suffer from heavy periods, but thank you for openly discussing this and giving a brief description of how to use them. We need more open discussion of periods.

[@jessicaseidl5701]

O loved how you talked about all this naturally!! That shouldn’t be a taboo. ❤️💜

[@howudoin8282]

It's taboo bcoz man said so but if they had periods it wouldn't be taboo....so to speak.

[@MrOGREATWISEONE]

Hi Ami... I’m a male, however I’m proud of you for helping scores of women that have a similar problem as yourself. God bless you and I wish you a wonderful life. 💐

[@MrOGREATWISEONE]

Oops... I’m so sorry Amy, I misspelled your name. 😬

[@laurahowardxx]

This is my 3rd time having my implant and haven't had a period for nearly 7 years! Get occasionally spotting! Best thing I ever did, got it put in due to heavy periods, my usual period lasted 10-12 days! Implant is amazing and I really really hope it works for you xx

[@AnieNiusika]

Laura Howardxoxo omg! I wish we had smth like this here where I live. I got put on the pill but the periods are just as heavy as before.

[@donnawilliams6785]

Laura Howardxoxo omg I wish mine was the same I’m on the implant too nearly finished my 3rd year , my periods are all Over the place some months I don’t even come on or I come on for weeks 😫 xx

[@maryscheitler2488]

Her videos have recently recommended to me. I've been going through a lot but she goes through so much more. I really needed to see her strength. I'm so sorry she's gone, she's still helping me though.

[@CrownOfbeautyy]

What happen to her ? 🙁

[@Sophie.Violet.]

@@CrownOfbeautyy She died a few weeks ago x

[@ChibiGrl]

@@Sophie.Violet. OMG that’s terrible 😢 she’s such a beautiful soul. May she Rest In Peace. She’s in no more pain now.. fly high beautiful

[@thestraggletag2616]

Hi darling, this was the first video i watched of yours when i was looking for information on painful periods. I was hooked instantly with how funny, honest and informative you were and continued to be and you never waffled. You are a beautiful little gift sent to our Aussie shores and in your fight you became inspiring to me to keep moving forward. RIP baby girl.

[@sharonangel4900]

Omg I didn't know that she passed away 😭

[@lisa-mariemaurer7089]

Our "code word" is "Can you see something?". If one of my friends says this we instant know what she means and we will just walk a little slower to check.

[@cheycheywilliams7767]

Lol😂😂😂😂😂 very true😩😩😩😩

[@Randomwrld]

My friends code word is if one of us is on it we are like "hey can I borrow a pen/highlighter" meaning pad or tampon

[@bbueno2009]

mine is Japan has attacked me 🇯🇵 look at the flag 😂

[@bbueno2009]

I don’t mean to be racist by the way 💕

[@Hulkerine100]

P.S. I'm glad you're not ashamed of wearing nappies, not many people realise that young people can be affected by incontinence issues from medical problems or disabilities.

[@rickeyrescue]

She seems to wear the nappy product more for her period and ONLY at night, not for incontinence (please do correct me if I misunderstood), but yes, great to be used for both or either! I am going to buy the ”nappies,” as Aussies/Brits call them (from USA here), will try the incontinence plastic all-in-one adult "Pull-Ups" (aka adult diapers) for the first 3 nights of my period next time- my worst time, personally. Tired of going thru tons of hydrogen peroxide (it literally dissolves fresh blood, but only works perfectly on really new blood, not old, dried blood, give it a try. Diapers are way better than cleaning up blood in the middle of trying to sleep!). I wear night time pads during the day for at least the first 3 days, wear 2 night time pads overlapped at night, and STILL can bleed thru!At any rate, no one should be embarrassed to use these products for whatever reason. @Alice and Rachel's Angel Forever... Bad on you for calling ANY person who wears adult nappies lazy, you cannot possibly know the full medical history of any person wearing one! I was in the medical field for almost 15 years, and many elderly have control, can use a toilet, but may have a sudden urge to go, but might not make it to the bathroom due to the severity of the urge, you think them lazy?!?! How about the lovely patients I cared for that had bladder control issues only sometimes or rarely due to neurological issues or damage from MS, bladder cancer or surgery? They can use the toilet fine, yet they wear them. Please think before you insult people that have only partial control of bowel or bladder due to real medical issues. You know ONE person, your mum. Please think next time at who you might hurt! People who use these might be sensitive to criticism just like this, that they may be judged by others. Please.... treat others how you wish to be treated! Not everyone can be helped by a pad only. Where are these adults who wear them for laziness? Edited for clarity and length

[@Anne-ambesten]

@Alice and Rachel’s Angel Forever people who can use a toilet might still need to wear incontinence pants at night so they're not constantly up going to the toilet.

[@Anne-ambesten]

@Alice and Rachel’s Angel Forever your poor mum! But sleep is important, and how about we don't judge other people as lazy when we don't know why they do what they do. I hope the reason your mum doesn't wear them is not because she thinks it would be lazy to. I'm sure any doctor would tell her sleep is more important. Lots of people have to wear 'nappies', not just newborns and I'm sure a lot of them wish they didn't need to. I'm sure it's an expensive and undignified option if it's not needed.

[@rickeyrescue]

@Alice and Rachel's Forever... I think I realize what is going on, and am sorry I did not see it before. Your mum's fear of nappies, could that can be pinned to a fear of losing independence, (a very real, very hard to deal with issue)? Your mum is part of the population who they make these for, so people CAN sleep without worry. I am saddened that she, and now you by association may think that the products are evil. I really hope your mum comes to terms with a medical condition not equalling loss of independence. Sadly, medically, if she is up that often at night, her stress incontinence (incontince caused by some sort of physical activity/exertion) may have turned into regular incontinence (barring any specific comorbidity causing exertion while asleep, of course), and there is ZERO shame in either diagnosis!!!! She is a wonderful woman, I am sure, but now she would probably feel like she lost face if she used them now after years of repeating that only lazy people use them. I hope she chooses sleep over pride. And yes, I can read, the people I gave as examples who do wear the nappies CAN and DO use toilets, in most cases, I thought I made that clear, but if not, am staying it here. It is there just in case, so they do not feel worried in public, or face possible embarassment. But yes, they did fit your comment, they CAN use a toilet. How many people do you *personally* know who wear these awful contraptions for laziness alone? After seeing thousands of patients on EMS calls (emergency ambulance) and in the ER/A&E, I have not ever met one "lazy" person who wears these. Is it possible that these people do not exist? Please back up your statements on lazy nappy wearing people with a study or even a news article. That would help. People with psych issues do not count, neither does anyone with incontinence of either type. Thanks!

[@Anne-ambesten]

@@rickeyrescue thank you for this kind and reasoned comment. I have been saddened by these comments too, shame is so unnecessary. I hope her mother chooses sleep too, and anyone reading reads YOUR comment as well.

[@coco2105]

I put disposable puppy training pads under me, and I also have a washable cloth, both are waterproof. Plus my mattress is Incased in a vinyl mattress protector. And yes I also have used adult diapers (I’m from the US) or nappies as you call them. 😉NO SHAME! 💪

[@AaliyahIsis]

Do diapers work? Mine are so heavy :(

[@gracegpt7744]

Thanks for sharing!

[@ChibiGrl]

@@AaliyahIsis they do!!!!

[@brilliantbutblue]

Thankyou Amy. Immediately shared with my 15yr old Daughter who bas PCOS. Her attitude is "its not a terminal illness" and gets on with her life with loads of changes through the day/night. Well done, great educational vid👍

[@RylaDuska]

... And here I thought my period was heavy 😳 It’s absolutely NOTHING compared to what you have to go through, Amy. Thank you for opening up this conversation even more 💐

[@truecharming235]

CAN'T believe I'm watching THIS. I know WHY, recently saw this GIRL and adored HER and support to subscribe. 😎 It's quite enormous of how she goes through her condition everyday like many others. Crazy how girls go through this. Bless HER soul and many others. Glad she is normal with everything!!😍

[@MsArmitage]

I started my period at 10. I was severely bullied for it and other things. The trauma of that made my period go away until I was 13. I had relatively heavy and very painful periods. I was miserable. When I was 17 I started birth control and my period went away again. I have tried to go without them for a few years at a time but always came back to it. Now that I know I have EDS I am so grateful for it removing my period. I am one of the few who have never had any side effects from them. For me they are a lifesaver. My body cannot cope with having a period anymore. The pain is horrific and knocks out my ability to walk and gives me 24/7 migraines. I hope that the implant works for you Amy. It worked for a year for me and then stopped working. Lots of love from Sweden.

[@MeggysProductions]

Nottipezzini my best friend has Eds ❤️❤️ praying for u

[@katedutchie]

I used to suffer from heavy flow and too frequent cycles. However, since starting birth control (eight years ago) it has helped greatly with both issues. I now no longer need to use thick maxi pads and change very few hours. I actually started use a menstrual cup a little over a year ago. It has changed how I feel about my period. I used to dread having my period, but now most of the time I feel “okay” about it. P.s. I just wanted to clarify that I am not trying to say “Well, have you tried this?! This worked for me.”. Trust me I know what that feels like. 🙄 Anyway, I just wanted to share my experience. 🤗

[@brilliantbutblue]

Katherine: You made excellent valid points. If others want to judge your suggestions then bugger off l say. We are all learning from each other here☺

[@rickeyrescue]

Katherine: You make a great point, what works for you is TRULY a wonderful thing. I have a vaginal birth defect (a septum), so some things do not work, like the time I got a contriceptive sponge STUCK! I was laughing so hard I cried! But seriously, cannot use a cup due to this, plus super heavy flow like you used to have means my cup would runneth over (okay, bad joke). Birth control- have a serious case of PMDD, and the pill made my mood swings insane- I tried them because they were supposed to help my moods, not for my flow, and holy hell, I felt like I was insane... But my flow was better (my poor BF, I was MEAN on those things!!). Too terrified to try an implant of any kind...lol. I am so pleased you found what works for you. Shame on anyone who would put you down for that. I am SO happy you found answers! Others might ask their doc questions based on your comment. Good job!

[@BrazenElegance]

I was diagnosed with Menorrhagia as well. I’m so fed up with ruined clothes, towels, bedding, carpets, cushions, mattresses, car seats, etc. I’ve also had to have blood transfusions and iron infusions. It’s a lonely thing to have to suffer with. It’s so good to know I’m not the only one out there that deals with all the things you mentioned. I’m glad you made this video so younger girls have something to refer to in case they have questions. I wish I had something like this to watch when I was younger. You rock!

[@micaa.4248]

Thank you so much for being so brave and show everyone that PERIODS ARE NORMAL. I really adore you and your videos. Stay strong and thank you ♡♡

[@wendypartida9222]

I myself have a bleeding “disease” is what they call it. My blood doesn’t clot so I bleed up to a month or two on my period. I’m missing a protein in my blood that doesn’t clot there for bleed so much! I’m so happy you are putting this out there I was always ashamed of it. I use to wear these thick thick pads because a normal pad would last maybe 10 minutes. My mom would get mad because I would go through my pads in like two days till they discovered what I had at the doctor. I got a birth control implant after my son and now I barely bleed probably one of the best decisions in my life. Thank you for putting this out there!

[@aineisokay]

Wendy Partida so glad to hear it got better for you!

[@alexandrar634]

I’m happy that the implant worked for you, have you every tried the pill? Although not the same for everyone, with the pill I can skip my period completely! I’ve had to do that due to my period making me delirious, extremely fatigued with severe pain, the pill has made me bleed less in general but the control to keep them extremely short (like 3 days) or skip them completely has been a LIFE saver.

[@alexandrar634]

My mom had an implant horror story so I’m way to scared to try it

[@sky-wd5hi]

That almost sounds like what i have but they are afraid of giving me birth control cause i said i see like lights/spots when im on my period and when i have a headache

[@wendypartida9222]

áine is okay thank you! It was nice to finally feel “normal”!

[@priscillaturner5967]

I have the exact same thing. From 2016-2018 I had my period for two years straight every single day, never stopped a single day. Heavy every single day. No doctor could figure out what was wrong. One day it just stopped. Got pregnant less than a month later surprisingly ❤️ I feel you!

[@shabellagutierrez-mclean8473]

You are such an inspiration!! I had endometriosis since age 12 and I had the worst periods. I finally had everything removed at age 26. I have several auto immune diseases and watching you makes me inspired and know that I can get through this.

[@melissawalker3874]

Thank you so much for making this video. I've had blood transfusions before because of heavy flow. I felt scared and so alone. A good doctor suggested an IUD, and Yay! No more passing out from anemia. It's time periods got discussed in an open manner, not whispered about in shame. Roughly half the planet deals with periods.

[@cheese-pt8ny]

Dayummmmmm you must have had a hard time glad it got better and you don’t pass out anymore 😂❤️🤞

[@marciadichiara5688]

Rest In Peace Amy. You are an Angel and hopefully pain free

[@ChibiGrl]

What happened!?

[@yomomma736-h8e]

i ruin all my pants i literally hate having a heavy period. edit - thanks for all the likes!!

[@kitteninmitten]

Ice cold water, hydrogen peroxide & soap will be your life saver! Cold water gets the blood out of your underwear & clothing.

[@yomomma736-h8e]

@@kitteninmitten omg thank you x

[@8BitDarkNESsR3v14]

get so-called period panties, those are ones that are waterproof, don't stain and don't soak through

[@yomomma736-h8e]

@@8BitDarkNESsR3v14 thank you

[@moonchild708]

i've only had one period in 7.5 years (without missing any) that i haven't gotten blood on anything 😂 another time it got so bad that i bled through layers upon layers down to the carpet LMAO

[@nataliebroatch3108]

When I get my period. They are heavy. I ended up in hospital with them. had two units of blood put back in with a blood transfusion. my last one lasted two weeks

[@monicantomwa5927]

Serious??😭

[@Jade-5713]

Far out that’s scary !! Stay safe

[@Katie-b1q]

Same! I have heavy periods (I thought it was just normal for me) I was going along fine then suddenly felt so ill I thought I was having a heart attack. I was in hospital for 5 days, I had 3 bags of blood and a huge bag of iron to get me back to normal!

[@GoodMusicManiac999]

Oh no! Take care 💗💗💗

[@tijay8507]

Mine lasted 5 months every single day , i have i lost clots the size bigger than my hand, i started aged 9 and i had to have a hyterectomy when i was only 32 due to terrible periods. I never had one period that was normal.

[@morganbodily5398]

Wearing an adult diaper during my period now because I get bad flows as well as IBS attacks. Been in awful pain all day and running to the bathroom. Thank you for being so open and honest about this!

[@samf2539]

Yes I love this! I just got clinically diagnosed with endometriosis and have considered using the diapers/nappys because I bleed SO MUCH and leak a lot, even with the biggest overnight pads.

[@Pkaistan]

Are u fine now and how much time you have to face this problem God bls u ameeen

[@lavonnabakke3899]

Girl don’t feel like your to young or whatever put it on and sleep girl. I wish I had started this sooner I would have better sleep mine were super heavy and when dating or early married I would lay awake and be paranoid that I was going to bleed through and leak. Lol embrace them and get rest if they are needed for you

[@lauriestubblefield3253]

Thank you for this. You’re right, we do need informative videos like this. Thank you very much!

[@kirannkamath]

It's literally taboo to talk about things like this to men in my society ....by 9th grade I'd had enough of stigma and sat down with the boys of my class and explained EVERYTHING to them.Most of the other girls were horrified and the boys were wierded out but everyone is slightly more used to it and now some of my best guy Friend's even go around asking for pads for me if I don't have any....I'm glad that it's an open conversation now and that we r all comfortable with ourselves.....it's not taboo ...it's natural and we have nothing to be ashamed about it....I'm so glad that you posted this !!!lysm😍

[@kitteninmitten]

Awesome! I am a proud mom of two boys. I have made it my mission to avoid making female situations taboo to them. My youngest was very curious about menstruation. I was honest & straight forward with him. They're both very educated in the human body & not embarrassed to ask. I hope the females they encounter are well taken care of

[@kirannkamath]

@@kitteninmitten Wow! That's really great to hear ! I have a little brother and since my parents don't explain stuff like this to him ,I do my best to make sure he knows how to respect women and understand that though Indian society deems it taboo he should be more aware and should know such things..

[@gracegriggs5999]

when I first got my period at 13 they were so heavy, that I had to use the Tena nappies as-well. and honestly they were the best thing that would stop leakage. I used to alway get really heavy period all through high school. I can't count how many days I had to go home cause I bled through my underwear and onto my school dress. it was the worst. I had to eventually go on the pill in order to stop how heavy it was alongside I was getting extremely bad cramps, vomiting, nausea etc which would literally pull me out of school and work. I love that you're putting this video out cause heavy periods really are common and need to be talked about more often.

[@BirteK1975]

I tried the pill to reduce my heavy bleeding. The pill caused a stroke and a thrombosis in my brain. I am now physically disabeled.

[@LydsLoves17]

I'm sure someone else has commented this, BUT I wanted to recommend a menstrual cup if possible for you! I had horrible periods all through high school (wearing nigh pads and changing them every hour) and a cup changed my life. Obviously did not change the flow and amount of blood, but personally made it a lot more manageable!

[@zoeyneal]

I’m so glad I’m not the only one who struggles a lot with heavy periods!

[@rubyh4626]

I'm so glad to know that I'm not the only girl who gets some incontinence on my period, or just after. I honestly thought something was wrong and this realy helped me. Thank you so much for sharing your story :)

[@sophgreenshields1899]

FYI just to let you know the “branded” Nurofen is exactly the same as the normal nurofen! Better to just buy standard unbranded ibuprofen for a fraction of the price - does exactly the same thing 💖

[@IveGotItTwisted]

Yup and Tylenol is just acetaminophen, Aleve is naproxen, and Gravol is diphenhydramine (forgive me if that last one is slightly incorrect, pregnancy brain lol it's diphenhydra-something). If you can find a wholesaler like Costco or wholesale club in your area to get them cheap in bulk even better 😊

[@gorillaau]

Thanks Sophie. Yes, the maker of Nurofen got pinged for that misleadingg advertising. They tried to argue that it was to inform people on what Nurofen would focus on. That got rejected as the focussed packaging was dearer than the basic product.

[@empty-sky]

Regular NSAID use can totally mess up your stomach though. Careful with those.

[@sophgreenshields1899]

It’s amazing how powerful marketing is right? I’m grateful my parents told me from a young age (14+ as I have endometriosis and fibromyalgia so chronic pain has been a kicker for years haha) so I didn’t fork out for branded meds unnecessarily xo

[@callabeth258]

Thanks for saying it first as a pharmacist I get very frustrated with people trying to insist that one brand works better than another when they are all exactly the same

[@thembzahsouthafrica5945]

Rip Amy Heaven just gain a wonderful soul😭😭no pains, no tubes, no medication, you rip girl we will miss you😭

[@keilyfranco9757]

Crazy how women don’t ask to get their periods and we have to buy supplies every month to manage it😕and most things are expensive!!

[@almajohansen6356]

Yes, you are sooo right, wish we didn’t have to deal with suff like that

[@missblueberry1033]

Food, water, toilet paper,....everything costs money Even if pads were free we would have to indirectly pay for them through higher taxes Companies need to pay for their workers, materials, machines, warehouses, transportation, research for product improvements, marketing, logistics and so many more things They are willing to do this because custumers pay for their products and a better product gets them more custumers and/or custumers are willing to pay more money , the state would not finance many companies producing menstrual products, it would most likely select the cheapest ones, which would probably negativly influence the quality and definitly influence the variety of products we have In my opinion all menstrual products beeing free is one of the worst things that could happen to women, we are so different, we all prefer different brands of period products for various reasons, it's good that companies have competition and a financial motivation, it motivates them to meet the needs of as many women as possible

[@24maggz]

I just adore you! You’re so open and help so many people! I agree there shouldn’t be a stigma around periods or having bladder control issues!

[@InuranusBrokoff]

My family has had it's share of medical issues, and to see the way you handle life makes me smile. You're an inspiration. Best of wishes.

[@paige5545]

As someone who is an adult and is incontinent too and uses a catather. I wear the same types of pads and "nappies" as you showed. Growing up, I was taught to be ashamed of it. I was paranoid about people founding out and it prevented me getting romantically close to someone out of fear that they would be grossed out by them. I eventually let someone get close and learnt that there is nothing to be ashamed off. I thank you for making this video and showing that there shouldn't be a stigma around catathers or wearing "nappies". Edit: P.s I put nappies in "" because I call them pads and makes it easier for me to not be insecure and ashamed.

[@EphemeralLuna]

What a wonderful video, thank you for making it. It's so important to end the stigma about normal bodily functions. ❤️

[@Michelle-mt2gj]

Actually ran across your video a couple months ago and it has really helped me. I never even thought about incontinence briefs for heavy months. I was able to travel and sleep at night. Thank you so much

[@linsykes2372]

Oh Sweetheart, you are just so beautiful inside and out XXX you are making such a difference to many young girls lives by talking about periods etc. You should be very proud of yourself XXX I'm a mum and a nan and if my grand daughter grows up to be half the woman you are then I will be a very proud nan xxx

[@lennonmcbird06]

Thanks so much for sharing all of this!! I'm young and just started my period, and though I'm lucky and they aren't super heavy and they're only around 5-8 days long, this was very informative!! I'm so glad people can be open and respectful about these things. 💖

[@whosjamielyn2845]

I appreciate this video and thank you for sharing it. It’s refreshing to see you speak so openly about such a topic... in a way where it feels comfortable as if it’s just one close friend speaking to another.

[@abbyanyi2369]

Preach! I love your videos because they are so inspirational, people should be able to express themselves and show who they are freely.

[@rocknroller1986]

Let me start with saying I feel your pain. I suffered from heavy (week long) periods most of my life too. I also have a blood clotting disorder so needed to take blood thinners so I don't die, which increased my heavy flows and caused me to pass large painful clots the size of grape fruits. In 2017 I almost died after losing so much blood and after that was also diagnosed with Anemia and Endometriosis. I then had to get blood transfusions and Iron infusions following my cycle. It got to a point were it affected my life, work and going anywhere because I was always worried I'd have an accident. last year I made a difficult choice but ultimately the right 1 to have a hysterectomy at age 33. I haven't looked back and finally regained my life back. Thank you for posting this video most people joke about periods and scoff at people who really have a difficult time with it.

[@caitlyn7343]

This is super important to share. Periods are so taboo which is dumb because it’s so common. I have a lot of issues with my period and I’m open about them. People should be able to openly to talk about this issue. Awareness is everything

[@strawberrybee3450]

This is one of those videos where I wish I could like it multiple times or like rate it out of 10 or something because this video was soooo needed! Not just for myself but for so many other people out there! Thankyou Amy 💗💗💗

[@andashestoashes]

When I was having my period I changed to Always Infinity. Absolute game changer! I used to wear really bulky pads because I didn’t trust the thin ones that said they were for heavy flows. Also have you heard of Thinx pants? Basically pants you can bleed into without the worry of ruining them. There are a lot of period pants out there now but definitely worth thinking about! Thank you for speaking so openly about this! X

[@jenniferandrew3373]

Most of my life I had extremely heavy periods and horrific cramps that left me physically sick and barely functioning. Perimenopause has been a true gift. I totally get it. My heart goes out to you.

[@Bewarethechestnutmare]

Me and my friends use “can I borrow your red pen”😂 or “can you check if the pipes are rusty”😂😂😂

[@leapatterson2014]

Amy you are such a sweet soul! You really are so awesome when it comes to making others see that life happens to all of us. Keep your head high and I really enjoy your content.

[@aboutagirl5085]

I have pcos and my periods make me severely ill, to the point where I can't go out or even move. It's crippling. My periods are usually extremely heavy and it can be embarrassing in public. I also suffer with PM's so I'm always really I'll just before my period. I find people don't understand. It's horrible. Thank you for sharing your experience

[@emilyb4162]

I have this and I totally get what you mean when you talked about how there's really nobody that talks about it. Really heavy periods are so dreadful in my experience. I use the thickest longest pads I can (I think tampons are painful and uncomfortable) and even then I still manage to leak here and there. If I'm on my period and I have work, my pad can't even last a 6 hour shift. It's completely soaked through in a few hours. The amount of blood is the part that's most inconvenient for me but I'm sure it feels worse for others in many ways.

[@alysonjade2461]

OMG! The quickest I've ever managed to click on a video!!! Thank you for sharing these tougher-to-talk-about topics!

[@calex3283]

i have no words to express how thankful i am to you for making this video.. it's so great how you manage to talk about topics that tend to be so stigmatised and silenced by others.. thank you so much!

[@sadiemcgunigale6583]

I’m so glad you’re so open with us followers❤️thank you!

[@paolainvernizzi2028]

Watching this vid I feel like i'm reliving my teens and early 20's until my doctor suggested I get a Mirena to help with my heavy periods since I was also very anemic. I stopped being anemic since the first month I had it placed and my periods are short and painless. It's probably not indicated for everyone depending what other conditions you have but it really changed my life

[@felicityhollis4613]

CONGRATS on doing away with the negativity and stigma of doing what you need. Seriously why would you be rude about someone who needs anything different from you, if anything you should be happy that you don't have a problem and be understanding that if someone has an issue they don't want to. You're awesome and this made me subscribe. I didn't even know that I was having an abnormal or heavy menses until I was an adult. Definitely good information for us all. Thanks

[@helhan]

You are so brave posting this video and explaining everything. Much respect to you!!!

[@jaciebramich4592]

I used the same tena pullups after birth & they were the best 😍 they were so comfy and stopped me worrying about overflows on the bed or couch.

[@avaqurixo8852]

thanks so much for making! im only ten and I started my period in February. this helped alot! thanks :)

[@francescoleman-williams911]

I love how honest you’re being. This is so helpful 💜

[@pjgr1231]

I love this video, I just feel like it's important to say that not every girl has a period, there are lots of girls who don't get periods for various reasons but they are still valid and loved

[@allyjo8676]

e.topp I dnt get periods so thank u , I have pcos so I only maybe get one every year or 6 months but when I get one it’s sooo bad

[@bellalee19232]

I have endometriosis so my periods are absolutely awful and heavy I'm glad someone else is talking about periods and in a sense normalizing it and I respect that highly thank you for talking about this

[@kahri8488]

Also I take amytriptaline as a migraine preventative ☺️ thank you for posting this video - we need more open and frank talks like this!!

[@MayimHastings]

I’ve found that keeping up with my iron supplements has decreased the flow! Strange! I can’t not wear a tampon, I go through everything - sometimes a tampon and a pad in 15 - 30 minutes ☠️. Thank you so much for making this video, while it helps now, too, I sure wish I’d had your advice when I was younger! Love and gentle hugs 🤗😘💨

[@mellowpatellow5549]

When I was in high school some girls used to shame girls for using pads instead of tampons and I never liked tampons so felt ashamed for never using them. If we had videos like this back then, there would be a less judgement on this subject and more understanding towards women going through this on different levels. I can't thank you enough for sharing about your experience so confidently.

[@drenchaquaculture2680]

as a middle aged lady I finally got an iud. This must be what most people feel like with mild periods. Amazing.

[@cisrot]

I recommend you look into using a menstrual cup! I’m a trans guy who suffers from heavy periods (the doctors suspect pcos) and they’ve changed my life tbh

[@cisrot]

(I also used to struggle with tampons too, they were always uncomfortable even when put in properly and the great thing about the cups is that you can buy different sizes that suit you!)

[@naomiwilliams9958]

I second this recommendation. I can not stand tampons and pads are gross and leaky 😫. I started using the cup and it changed everything. I can empty it every couple hours and it doesnt irritate like tampons and pads and its sooo much less messy!!

[@Marlah]

Cups are great, I love mine! They make cramps less painful too.

[@salmoannyt3162]

Im a trans guy also :/

[@thecrazypinkcatlady]

For most heavy bleeders, they don’t hold enough. I’ve tried 7 brands and every single one is full within 30-60 minutes.

[@sarahmccullough1100]

This is the most real video I’ve seen about periods I suffered as a teen and an adult and I admire the fact that it’s more openly talked about than it was even just 20 hrs ago. I’m sorry that you have to go through all this you should be very proud of yourself of everything you need to do on a daily basis I know I’d struggle and I take a lot of medication but not via tube like yourself as I’ve different problems and I struggle with that never mind what you do x

[@taramcasey1662]

This is super important to talk about! Thank you so much