Dbdr if you see this video..

[@BlackPill-pu4vi]

America is in dire need of a New Deal 2.0. Work camps like the CCC and WPA that have barracks for unemployed men to stay in while doing useful manual labor. 3 hots and a cot. And a job that actually accomplishes something worthwhile, like the jobs that the CCC/WPA provided during the Great Depression. You're given a minimalist barracks to stay in, free bus transport to different jobs, strict rules to keep things safe, and 3 good meals a day. Plus, you get a small stipend - tax free. Millions of men, including DBDR, would benefit from a system like that.

[@Death_4444]

Based. "The question is often asked in America and in Europe just how much ‘Fascism’ the American President’s program contains. Reminiscent of Fascism is the principle that the state no longer leaves the economy to its own devices, having recognized that the welfare of the economy is identical with the welfare of the people. Without question, the mood accompanying this sea change resembles that of Fascism. More than that cannot be said at the moment. The appeal to the decisiveness and masculine sobriety of the nation’s youth, with which Roosevelt here calls his readers to battle, is reminiscent of the ways and means by which Fascism awakened the Italian people." -Mussolini on FDR

[@BlackPill-pu4vi]

@@Death_4444 "Reminiscent of Fascism is the principle that the state no longer leaves the economy to its own devices, having recognized that the welfare of the economy is identical with the welfare of the people. " A beautiful truth that our gefilte fish gang continuously defames and libels. Fascism has been blamed for everything but, what it actually is and how effective it is when it's allowed to function as intended.

[@fanaticist]

3 hots and a cot? lmao. how about at least 15/hr too

[@BlackPill-pu4vi]

@@fanaticist You clearly don't understand the original concept of CCC and WPA. Those were jobs for unemployed and often homeless men. They lived in camps and moved with the camp as it went from one project to another. The men got a free place to stay, free meals, and the basics. Considering that the cost of living for them was nearly zero, they got paid a fair wage for their labor and many accumulated enough to get their lives going again. Today, a man in such a work camp won't need $15/hr. If he gets paid $7.25/hr and is smart with that money, he can do better than most on $15/hr who have to pay all the expenses for the privilege of living.

[@suad01]

Closing the borders would address the labour oversupply problem more directly

[@lambofgodanimation]

You hit the nail on the head. Only those with narcissistic parents will fully understand. They only keep you around to torture you and it is truly life destroying

[@deconstructingnarcissism3062]

People who don't have Covert Narcissists for parents don't understand. Every bad thing they do to you is under the guise of "love" and to outsiders it just looks like a pair of overprotective parents. This abuse is the most insidious by far. It erodes your sense of self and makes you lose touch with reality itself.

[@EradicateBlackpillersObstat]

None of you know anything about that

[@classicleslie6914]

@@deconstructingnarcissism3062 YES! I need to get out but it is so hard. My mother did everything she did to destroy me. She took my identity away and I hate her. I hate what she did to me and karma sees what she did. I want nothing to do with her after it's over.

[@praisehircine6125]

It's like they're slowly murdering you and when you don't reach certain milestones you are the one at fault, you are considered the failure not them. I had a nmom it is too much to bear sometimes especially when you see your peers living normal lives. I have to keep everything inside because others will only victim blame you.

[@TaurenTLT]

Im just blackpilled as dbdr at this point. irreversibly over

[@thesecond1a]

Black pill is for losers so is Red pill so is Blue Pill.

[@EradicateBlackpillersObstat]

Blackpillers aren't blackpilled they're delusional psychopaths

[@Dagaz_art]

Shave your beard, bro? 🤷‍♂

[@nwk1626]

this makes me appreciate my mother for genuinely being a good person

[@EradicateBlackpillersObstat]

Giving you special treatment doesn't make someone a good person

[@classicleslie6914]

@@EradicateBlackpillersObstat not sure what you said applies to him at all nor make any sense in this video but anyway,

[@classicleslie6914]

you are truly bless to have parents who love you and know how to.

[@nwk1626]

@@EradicateBlackpillersObstat lmao WHAT? with almost 0 context is crazy

[@excalibro8365]

Same, but that's like the bare minimum. My mother is a good person, but she along with my father as parents bluepilled me to hell and utterly failed to prepare me for the painful reality of adulthood.

[@MrZiggens3]

Dude I literally tried to reach out and tell him this, his neuroticism & insecurities come from a lifetime of narcissistic abuse from his mother. He’s such a know it all and is beginning to take on some of her real ugly attributes (judgmental, selfish, uncaring), I’m beginning to think he might never break out of it.

[@Brandon-g6d]

I have the same issues. How do I prevent myself from becoming like my mother? Although hopefully I won't because I have borderline personality disorder

[@MrZiggens3]

@@Brandon-g6d Get away from her, as far as you can. Be self-aware of your behaviors and weaknesses, take responsibility for your actions (that is the opposite of a narcissist). Your childhood was awful, you can’t go back and change that, but why let her ruin your whole life?

[@produceman13]

I think your right with his mom being a covert narcissist. My mom is also a covert narcissist, and I was a scapegoat in my family. Getting away is the only thing you can really do with narcissists... or at least limit contact as much as possible. My parents kicked me out of the house at age 15 cuz I had a girlfriend that they didn't like. I lived on the streets for years after that...

[@nickpavia9021]

So many of these guys commenting have zero idea what it is like to live with an abusive parent. The money that you'd be able to save living with your parents is not worth the constant insults, put-downs, erratic behavior, tantrums where you are screamed at for no reason, and attempts to gaslight you to think that you have a mental illness, among other things. My biggest regret was not moving out the moment I turned 18.

[@nokatpalac5568]

I understand the difference is I am at peace rn but when i was a kid,my mum would scream at me psychoticly unitl 8th or 7th grade I would start to scream back at her before that I was afraid to raise a voice,if we ever get in an argumen she would threaten me with kicking me out just because i talked back with a sightly higher tone,basicaly she would never let me get mad at her cause she can't handle it she is the only one to yell or scream sometimes but her screamimg would automaticly cause me to scream back but that does not happen often I deseclate things by ignoring her threats so it does not get that far.

[@nokatpalac5568]

I've been through put downs by both my dad and her too,my dad would never scream he just messed with me psychologicaly with God knows what methods but he is not a sain either

[@mexdrago3009]

It can get worse for him. I had the chance to leave my mom used her powers of narcissism. All narcissist will do well with out us unfortunately and never get theirs. From my experience Ghosting them until youre steady is beneficial the earlier you do it.

[@dustygearhead]

I lives with my parents til i was 26. It allowed me to save alot of money and move out with no worries. I have great parents though and they liked having me live with them. Im 35 now and have my whole life set up decent. Ive stayed single for the past 10 years and it makes things pretty easy going. Life is cheap when you are a bachelor.

[@deconstructingnarcissism3062]

I am a bachelor and life isn't cheap at least not with my job. $700 a week only gets you so far. I lived with my parents until 26 because the abuse became too much to handle. You're very fortunate to have parents who care about you and let you save money by living at home. I don't think I'll ever get ahead at my age.

[@dustygearhead]

Yea i was lucky with my situation and also lucky with where i live now and my rent is very cheap. I know jobs suck and dont pay enough anymore. I work in a machine shop and make plenty right now. Especially when we have overtime. Its a tough world out there and i hope u find some contentment soon.

[@charliedallachie3539]

Nice, there’s nothing wrong (despite American stigma) to live at home as long as you have a job and do your part around the house. It’s very smart financially and much faster to save money that way for either an apartment or first home too.

[@FellTreeZ]

I like DBDR, he seems like a very genuine person who was just handicapped early by bad parenting and maybe some issues with looks if what he claims is true. I hope he finds a way to get away from his parents because I think you only develop as a person being independent.

[@CopingDoom]

I am at home chilling, with some tenders and fries in the basement of my parents watching you, about to play Cyberpunk later. I dont have friends to rely on, no car or money, cant be homeless im 5'6 128 lbs, I wouldnt survive the streets. Unfortunately I have to still live with my parents, for this is the path most young men have to choose. I am trying my hardest applying to jobs online though, so thats something.

[@teaadvice4996]

How old

[@CopingDoom]

@@teaadvice499623

[@nbapete]

how old are you lol

[@CopingDoom]

@@nbapete 23

[@endlessgaslight]

bro there are so many guys like you out there, dont feel like you're alone. cyberpunk is SUCH a good cope game

[@Nathanatos22]

“Just be homeless bro”

[@deconstructingnarcissism3062]

What do you recommend?! Men aren't taken seriously in this U.S and he has no other options. Sometimes you have to make really hard choice.

[@Nathanatos22]

@@deconstructingnarcissism3062I was actually in a similar situation at one point in my life-I took any job that would pay enough for a small apartment and endured my time there until I could get out. One thing I learned through that experience is that it’s difficult to find work without an address, and it’s also difficult to find an apartment without a previous address. If the situation is as dire as mine was, yeah, I would say get out-but you also have to stay long enough to secure both a job and a place to stay elsewhere.

[@deconstructingnarcissism3062]

@@Nathanatos22 it is but it can be done. I straight up told them at the interview that I was living in a shelter and got hired

[@Everysingletimeowitz]

This is why I’ve been hounding dbdr to get his CDL. He can be technically homeless living in the tractor trailer making good money and driving cross country.

[@monk4ever]

@@deconstructingnarcissism3062 Men in the U.S. need to start helping other men. If a few guys lived in the same apartment or house for a few years, it always works out. Gen Zero men need to do better when it comes to helping each other.

[@lancethomas7603]

Going homeless is L advice

[@deconstructingnarcissism3062]

He has nothing left to lose. I can see where his state of mind is at

[@AdamBorseti]

​@@deconstructingnarcissism3062I'd argue he has a roof over his head and food and I don't think he has to pay rent. I don't know how bad his mom is but that's a lot of good shit to lose. I think he's already on the right path though. Once you can identify a narcissistic pattern, it's easier to ignore it as a flaw.

[@vic6730]

@@deconstructingnarcissism3062bro do you know what being homeless is? He has his phone, all his stuff, his teeth, his (bad kind of) virginity, being an inkwell with a less than ideal family situation isn’t the worst thing, just go homeless bro!!!! Lmfao

[@deconstructingnarcissism3062]

@@vic6730 I do bro bro. I've been homeless before or did you not watch the video?! Probably the latter.

[@deconstructingnarcissism3062]

@@AdamBorseti no its not... its not worth putting uo with any kind of abuse for food and shelter.

[@chestnutters9504]

Vanlife would do wonders for DBDR

[@noochy9091]

How would he afford it. He’s said multiple times he doesn’t have ample funds.

[@projectbirdfeederman5491]

He could monetise his channel, get loads of donations and travel the country living out of a van telling stories and making a comfortable living. Loads of people would be willing to help him out. I think you're bang on about his mother. Still not sure they all do it on purpose, I think they're just programmed to do what they do.

[@deconstructingnarcissism3062]

If his mother is a Covert Narcissist then its possible.

[@classicleslie6914]

My mother is literally the same, and I am 27 years old, still in the same situation. What's uniquely different about my situation is that my mother is labor trafficking me which is why it is so difficult to get out. My personal finances are under her control and my mental health is absolutely shot to pieces. You mentioned I don't want to be 27 years old: What is the difference? Is it too late for me? I was labor trafficked!

[@BasedSmoky]

Ik people are a bit uneasy about the homless thing but being around truly negative people is arguable just as damaging and trapping.

[@MetapaloozaShow]

Did you hear about DBDR? He’s now Missing! His Channel is Gone! 😔 I hope he’s doing ok, wherever he is.

[@deconstructingnarcissism3062]

@@MetapaloozaShow what?? No!! I know he said in his last video he was leaving home for good.

[@BEEETRUS]

​@@deconstructingnarcissism3062 he was doxxed

[@monk4ever]

If you really cared about DBDR or any man, you would have a roommate situation setup. You and DBDR can live in the same apartment together and split bills. I've helped many of my homeless (male) friends by letting them live with me for 6 months up to over a year. They always got their lives together and moved out.

[@casey-zd5mj]

that's kind of insane rational

[@deconstructingnarcissism3062]

What? We don't even live in the same state and I have never met him in real life. I gave him my discord for whenever he wants my advice

[@ChaosRUsEnt]

DBDR lives in NY dude. What are you on about??? 😂😂

[@gregtederd5452]

I think he know he has to leave his moms house. Personally I thought about being homeless but i wouldn't know how to stop being homless if i ever go that route.

[@seanwallace4631]

I liken my foster mother to tony soprano's mother. The level of vitriol and spite she has is insane. "You need to get friends" I get friends and she hates my friends. " you never leave the house" I start spending more time in town " your treating this place like a hotel". If there ever was a demon in my life It was her. What I've decribed is just the frost on top of the tip of the iceberg.

[@RandomGuyyy]

Try being age 40 before finally moving out of your parents' house! I was and still am chronically unwell with ME/CFS so the thing that kept me stuck there for so long is obviously different, but I just wanted to say if you think you're missing out on life by *sarcastic gasp* moving out in your late twenties, you need to know that it gets much, much worse than that.

[@SaintDbdr]

Thanks for the video m8. Unironically I almost got kicked out a few days ago. She wants me gone really bad. Mostly my fault for not growing up and having a job currently, I got lots of stuff going on my mind is mush. You got a discord?

[@deconstructingnarcissism3062]

I do man. Its Brandon5455 or #8622. Add me on Discord and we can talk. I can help you.

[@callmenik1298]

just have rich parents boyo worked for me ez

[@Kim_YoJong]

Oh dear. THEY ARE GATHERING

[@classicleslie6914]

My mother, when I am unprepared, will threaten to kick me out, then when I am prepared, she wants me to stay and tell me how bad it is going to be when I am on my own. I AM 27 YEARS OLD! She is cursing me before I leave by telling me I will be back at her house and she won't let me back in. She then cries, freaks out, yells, and throws a tantrum when she suspect that I am prepared to leave and am leaving. MY LIFE WAS TAKEN FROM ME THROUGH PARENTAL LABOR TRAFFICKING!!! I NEVER EVEN GOT A CHANCE NOW THIS GUY IS SAYING IT'S TOO LATE??? NO!!! IT'S NOT TOO LATE FOR ME!!!! I AM LEAVING NEXT MONTH!!!!!

[@classicleslie6914]

I will leave everything behind if I have to. I will not be around I already have a ticket out and my mother picked up on it. I did not tell her anything, it's like she is being told by a ghost, and she is telling me how bad it's going to be for when when I achieve my exit plan. She is trying to convince me to stay with her and continue to be labor trafficked because it's better for me (without saying labor trafficking) LIKE REPUNZEL MOTHER!!! SHE DID THIS TO ME GUYS!! I am so sorry I am being unhinged right now. I am angry and I am so sad because I am 27 years old and this guy is implying that it's too late for me but I think that he isn't saying that, but rather he is discouraging DBDR to leave that late. I have so many things plan for when I leave. My mother has ruined every aspect of my life. She did things to and against me in the business that fits with labor and human trafficking in every way (maybe not as extreme though as it can get but it's the same fruit). My two sister (one ran away when she was a teen when my abusive mother and stepfather which is her father was around and the other left for the military even after being highly discouraged and didn't tell anyone which I now understand why because my mother was going to fight and stop her from going). I have no words but this cannot be it for me. Guys there has to be hope for me. I will leave next month please don't tell me 27 is too late for me but if its the truth please at least let me know it will be okay when I do leave. I never asked for this treatment and it's not fair that me out of all people had to endure this (I don't wish it for anyone else though so I am not being literal) but I will understand things when I leave. Please, it's not too late for me. It can't be, there has to be so much more hope for me to achieve my dreams when I leave. I want to go to college and live a college life. I know I can still do it! Please I pray there will be that kind of hope for me and so much more hope for me in the future.

[@nokatpalac5568]

I need to stack up money and get the fuck out of my house asap too,i'ts good for now I have a job and I buy food for my self but I know staying at my place with my mom on longer periods won't end well.

[@Variability11]

Excellent post

[@monk4ever]

No, it's not. Gen Zero males telling other males to be homeless? Weak men.

[@jollycrocodile6211]

I’m pretty sure he isn’t going to go homeless lol I don’t blame him. Sometimes it just helps to talk about these issues when probably no one else in his life understands them

[@vilesleepy1221]

Perseverance. Ive lost all my savings many times being destroyed by reckless stock trading. Ive been unemployed and fallen deep into despair. Many days are bad but there are good ones too. Its easy to sink into the futility of it. But thats my fault alone. But know that life, much like a game, has rng to it and can deliver you in unexpected ways. Change of thought, trying new jobs, developing a craft can refresh you. You have to get up and keep going and block out the despair of the world. 30 is still young. Im about to be 30 and accept it, 20s were too young and dumb for me to get anything right. Everything has good and bad to it, but you gotts perservere and find something that gives you purpose, even something as simple as a pet cat.

[@tmmh5620]

Rest in peace to dbdr and his channel

[@zachaddington5264]

I’ve been homeless it sucks lived in a tent for 2 years

[@monk4ever]

No man should suffer like that. 😪

[@AlexLawSG]

I hope you're doing better now. Good luck man and take care!

[@zachaddington5264]

I was homeless in summer of 2017 to fall 2019 nov

[@zachaddington5264]

I’m 29 going on 30 have a hard time getting a job

[@johnnytsunami3558]

​@@zachaddington5264how'd you get out of homelessness?

[@user-gfsd7lk45]

Maybe this is a different story but I want to be homeless even if I have a decent job. My homeless perception is living in a van near public facility to access free bathroom, have enough money to keep fresh and neat impression, going to the office or factory by walk for no commuting, eating twice a day, mostly reading books, writing, drawing, sometimes exercising and no cost of utilities. Is it loser?

[@Kimster97]

Sounds good man. If you don't have to blow money on rent and utilities you'll have a lot of cash to spare. Even better if you have a decent income. Save your money and travel so you can open up new avenues down the road.

[@blubblubee]

ever heard of the dead internet theory? he’s a product of it.

[@AdamBorseti]

How do you figure? You don't mean to suggest that all of his subscribers are bots, do you?

[@deconstructingnarcissism3062]

It could be. Anything is possible these days.

[@Variability11]

The world population is under 11 million!

[@yagovmolotov5127]

@@Variability11 cope lmfao

[@Variability11]

@@yagovmolotov5127 more like reality.. you are delulu and take things u haven't even bothered to prove on blind faith if you think there is 1 billion let alone 7

[@josephgarcia8209]

Dbdr has said he has a car. Doesn’t like to drive unnecessarily since he doesn’t like wasting money on gas.

[@deconstructingnarcissism3062]

He could live in it. Not the best situation but thats what I had to do to get away

[@kolonizedx]

@@deconstructingnarcissism3062What about Insurance, MOT and ULEZ (paying for gas cars older than 2005). That's costly where i'm at (England, UK).

[@classicleslie6914]

@@kolonizedx Don't let the cops see you. I have a car too but mine is incomplete so I have to leave it behind. Should I take it with me deconstructingnarc? It is drivable but have no tags/insurance and is drivable but in bad condition. I tried to fix it but don't have the money which my pathetic mother controls.

[@darflame69yt12]

Homeless is not it

[@deconstructingnarcissism3062]

If the situation is bad enough you will like I did.

[@KingofInkwelldia]

"They are bottomless pit of nothingness" God damn. So true

[@RandomCryptoHodler]

My semi broke down so I chose to watch this.

[@MrTPhipps]

nice 👍🏾

[@gurlgunz]

Donate plasma. Try getting a job as a cleaner or server at an upscale retirement community.

[@Gawd-z3c]

Do NOT move to a homeless shelter.

[@chestnutters9504]

Wow. To a hammer everything that moves looks like a nail. I’ve only gotten the vibe that dbdrs mom is a bit histrionic and very neurotic, not that she’s a narcissistic abuser lol. But you’re right he should move out of his house even into a beater car sooner than later.

[@deconstructingnarcissism3062]

I've seen enough of his videos to know that his mother clearly has either a mental or personality disorder. His mom is a picture perfect copy of mine except my mom is more of a Malignant and sadistic kind of Narcissist

[@blubblubee]

so, it’s less his bio mom that’s the issue. his real mommy has no corporeal form. It’s basically, the army of bots that populate his comments section.

[@chigbungus3026]

Normie Chadlite full hair who is minimal fat loss away from being an absolute slayer thinks that dbdrs mom is holding him back in life. No dude what's holding dbdr back is society. Men like dbdr aren't wanted it's the literal theme of all his videos. He wants to get away from his mom but every time he tries society rejects him because he isn't conventionally attractive and he gets sent right back. He wasted his highschool years jestermaxxing because he wasn't reaching pivotal development milestones in regards to relationships and hedged too much on being a class clown. But guess what? If he was good looking he would have had that attention, validation and companionship that's vital for growth and he could have focused on his studies as his relationship needs were being met. But since that didn't happen he's drastically behind in life and playing perpetual catch up while dealing with the demotivating realization that even if he studied his face off and got a great career he'd still be single so he would essentially be getting a high stress high paying job for literally no reason. Which is another reason why his new goal is just surviving with the bare minimum but again he's so far behind because of the reasons I already stated that even wanting the bare minimum is a pipe dream.

[@caiuscosades6423]

He is not a Normie Chadlite. He looks almost like me and I consider myself a LTN at best.

[@BonnieBunny883]

Idk if his mom is a narcissist. She probably just notices that he has depression and no motivation in life and doesn’t know how to help him.

[@monk4ever]

His mom is a bleeding poon. Nuff said.

[@jobro4310]

I don’t think she is either. I see her as simply frustrated. We need to remember that she is essentially a single mom working herself to the bone in a toxic job to earn enough to live while DBDR seems like an immature guy who is reckless and lacking in ambition. His goal in life is literally to do the bare minimum even though he knows he won’t survive because he knows he can run to mommy for support. It’s odd to me how much scrutiny they have for his mom when they are only hearing one side of the story from DBDR, who has shown repeatedly to be unrealizable and untrustworthy.

[@hanspeterfake3130]

@@jobro4310 why is he untrustworthy?

[@flawseeingeye]

i keep telling him to buy a motorcycle 😂😂😂

[@blubblubee]

Artificial intelligence if it was not clear.

[@onysfx8484]

Are you saying dbdr is generative ai?

[@blubblubee]

@@onysfx8484 what’s an AI?

[@Old_Ironsides]

@@onysfx8484 Big if true

[@cophater298]

incredible video

[@florinkin1993]

mothers who deep down hate you ?

[@deconstructingnarcissism3062]

Yes.. except for me it was obvious. No matter how many times my mother tried to she she cared everything she did sabotaged my life in someway.

[@rookierocksolid8536]

Where is his channel!!!!😢

[@GMarieBehindTheMask]

You sound like me but the male version 😅

[@divorcetraumavictim]

he needs to get a cheap car for sure lol

[@GallowayJesse]

He has a car

[@k6-3spetznazhelmet]

@GallowayJesse and he has payments to pay

[@spanishjohn420]

BUY BITCOIN

[@Fernandodbsb]

All of his videos are recorded in his car

[@codyhextor5206]

everyone is a psychiatrist now

[@deconstructingnarcissism3062]

Did I ever claim to be?

[@JoeHeine]

@@deconstructingnarcissism3062 You sure do have alot of time sitting around and diagnosing people with mental illnesses. Get a job.

[@benv8185]

Brutal

[@DiegoBuitrago-om2zo]

A chad trying to give a advice, this shit never gets old XD

[@caiuscosades6423]

Where's the Chad?

[@johnvargas761]

what makes people like this

[@jacobbflexin]

The world my boy, the world

[@monk4ever]

Evil wymin.

[@deconstructingnarcissism3062]

"They say the mind bends and twists to deal with the horror of life, sometimes the mind bends so much it snaps in two" a quote from one of my favorite games but it holds true to this day.

[@endlessgaslight]

so easy for men with a sub5 face to end up like this

[@callmenik1298]

being american

[@magicalternishere3682]

Funn how this video aged

[@deconstructingnarcissism3062]

@@magicalternishere3682 Why?

[@aingkieu]

Isn't dbdr now living in his car?

[@keeferkifflom360]

L advice

[@SesterSinmon]

Blaming parents for your failures proves you haven't grown up yet!

[@hmmm2564]

False... It is about deconstructing familial Patterns

[@fanaticist]

nice quip but there are npd parents who sabotage their child's life. they destroy their child's self esteem and self confidence, prevent restful sleep, etc