Dealing W/ No Contact Situations

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[@84bennett]

Dylan…. Last year I was in no contact. This year I’m MARRIED to my SP. This channel has helped me so much with my self concept. I’ve been so happy since I’ve been persisting in my self concept. ❤

[@justrob4433]

Congratulations from the bottom Of my heart. Excellent.

[@_nobodyslistening]

That’s amazing, I’m so happy for you 😊

[@Dianavee]

This is so amazing!!! Congratulations!

[@travellerel2812]

I need help and some advice. I’ve been over a month of no contact with my SP. No particular reason since it’s been great from our last conversation. I don’t wanna text nor msg him. But I’m kinda frustrated because I’m still attached to him. Any suggestions to let go of 3D?

[@MsAbr]

Love this, congratulations wishing you guys a lifetime of happiness ❤️

[@tonagomez9351]

This is probably the 3rd time I’ve watched this video and the part where Dylan say's … “If you love somebody and they are important to you then, put in the effort, drop the time urgency, recognize this is important to you and do anything you can for the love of your life! We should not be afraid to do that!”. I get the chills, every time.

[@Scorpio37]

I needed this! ❤️

[@its_becks119]

SAME! I’ve been binging his videos and it made my heart so happy. He’s the love of my life and I have never felt this way about ANYONE. K. So he’s mine: and I’m his. That’s it.

[@its_becks119]

@@Scorpio37and my man is a Scorpio 😘

[@Awakened_Creator_1283]

​@@its_becks119mine too 😂😂

[@OrionCoffeeColumbian]

I have done everything! And still crickets

[@lilahkatsuya]

Circumstances don't matter, I don't care about what people say. I love him immensely and I am certain that he feels the same for me.

[@MagicalGem222]

Me too and that’s courageous of you to love him. I’m proud of you! I’m doing the same i don’t care what anyone says i love him n I’m doing the inner work on myself n i know i will see him again ❤ we got this girlie!!! ❤

[@lilahkatsuya]

@@MagicalGem222 ♥️

[@HeavenlyAmil]

Same

[@soniasaini5534]

You guys are amazing, 😘😘😘

[@lilahkatsuya]

​@@soniasaini5534you too sweetheart 😘

[@hey.g]

Takeaways from this video: 1. Give yourself the loving time to TRULY move on from the heartbreak. Do not jump to manifesting, but allow yourself to honor your feelings. 🤍 2. Process the hurt by viewing it as a growth process, ask yourself what you can learn from it. 🤍 3. Stabilize your nervous system (breathwork + meditations) and reprogram your self-concept by listening to affirmations at night. 🤍 4. Once you’re stable, lightly persist in the end state and do things that bring you love, joy, confidence etc. 🤍 P.S. I am currently in no contact with my SP due to doubts and fears by both parties. I know that our connection was genuine and real, so I have decided to “manifest” him - it’s the first time I’m doing this, so I’m a bit wobbly - wish me luck everybody 🍀

[@Moomin30]

Sending u loads of luck 🍀🍀

[@ahmedkheri9430]

any updates?

[@MarmiesCorner]

You just spoke of my whole journey! Thank you for encouraging us to be true to love! I moved an hour away from my SP in July and he told me he had no feelings for me and was no contact. Everybody told me to dump him and not look back. But I know we have a deep love and respect for each other and fear was driving a wedge between us. I started listening to you about that same time. A man started showing interest in me so we started dating. He was amazing but my heart still longed for my SP. 21 days into listening to nightly affirmations, I was happy with me just being me! Then SP got a job transfer 5 miles away. He asked to do coffee, then dinner. Now I see him every day before and after work and he showers me with hugs and kisses! Ready for my ring💍💕 No more fears and limiting beliefs here. Thank you!

[@Ash-fq5gq]

Did you make your own or did you use his? And also was it with headphones or through a speaker?

[@benedettaspina123]

Which night affermations did you listen?

[@jessicakcarvalho]

Congrats

[@MarmiesCorner]

@@Ash-fq5gq no headphones...didn’t have any. I used his Self Concept then others after the 21 days. Now I just listen first hour before getting out of bed. It got weird and funky some nights. Had crazy dreams. I had to stop reacting to my 3D and change my inner chatter. I also started listening to Sammy Ingram. I started choosing me! I would take myself out on dates. I wanted fish tacos and saw that a bar had them so I held my head high like a Queen walked in confidently sat down ordered and ate. I saw a guy kept turning to look at me he finally came over and said he didn’t know what it was about me but I was the most beautiful woman he has seen! My SP feels it too! He sees the men looking at me I feel their energy and gaze. He realizes he’s the lucky one to be with me I don’t need him. So now he works harder to make me happy! My inner chatter changed little by little because I didn’t have a very good self concept. Now it’s “He’s so happy to be with me. He’s so lucky to be with me. He’s so committed to me. We’re so happy being married “ All the hot cold was my fearful inner chatter coming true. It was my thoughts the whole time. Once I stopped being hot cold in my mind and became confident things changed fast. Good luck🥳

[@MarmiesCorner]

@@benedettaspina123read my other comment please 😊

[@Nancoverse]

Your observation about society and how we're simply giving up on love because of "how things are" are spot on. You articulated what I was trying to make sense of for so long.

[@eternalabundance39]

So agree so appreciate him saying this.

[@rababkhursheed]

True that!!

[@inmyownbubble8]

Yes me too, Dylan is the amazing honestly.

[@Pur3lySw33t]

I felt the same! Also your likes was at 114 when I posted my reply and that’s my SP’s birthday and my lucky number for years before I knew them 😳

[@Nancoverse]

I hope all of you receive pure positive abundance in all aspects of your life ❤️

[@trust.it.444]

To you who are reading this comment. I know sometimes it can be hard when the 3D is showing you the opposite of what you want. A part of you wants to give up on your sp and another part wants to persist. Just remember you can give yourself options. It doesn't have to be sp or nothing. It could be sp or someone else. What if you want to have sp and other people available for you to choose? You can affirm for a brand new person while knowing your sp is also coming. Isn't it nice to have options? Either way you'll have someone instead of thinking sp is the only one to have. What if you shift your thinking and think sp and other people are equally capable of making you happy. The reasons why you think your sp is special don't come from them. It all comes from you. What good you see in them is a reflection of your ability to love. So think this way: Your sp is coming back. New people are also coming. You get to choose. Thinking this way will silence the part of you that is afraid of not having your sp, because you have options. But also won't shut you down completely on wanting to have your sp. They're coming. So do other people.

[@Beautybodyandbrains]

Thank you 🙏🏽

[@gelilaayalew379]

I used to be so obsessed over my sp. Thinking about him non stop. Thanks to you Dylan James I have built a strong self concept . Started living in the end knowing his mine and I belong to him . We're in a no contact right now and I don't even care. I know he love me so much. He has never loved anyone like me. Done.

[@gergelyerdely]

Did anything change?

[@RekhaKumari-qn2uh]

It's done 💓

[@nandana7746]

Hello anyy change??

[@arunapandey7678]

Any updates?

[@n.m.3995]

Update

[@angelagracehere]

Thank you for affirming that we’re not all bonkers for trying to repair our relationships and manifest abundance into our lives. We’re so inculturated to think i’s wack that even inside my head there’s a part of me that 2-3x/week says, “This is nuts, you’re an idiot, you’re making a fool of yourself, this is crazy, there’s no way this stuff works,” even though there’s piles and piles of jaw-dropping evidence to the contrary!! Not just in the community but in my own life!!! I know you’ve talked about this before but honestly another pep talk or tips on quieting that inner skeptic would be greatly appreciated.

[@lcluna78]

Do listen to Dylan's Manifest While You Sleep: Removing All Limitation for 21 days at least. You should see a shift. Hope this helps.

[@malinagruen7523]

I can relate so much! I have consciously manifested things, but a part of me still thinks, that I am nuts for thinking I can get what I want. I don't quite understand how I can still not believe in my abilities, when I've seen proove of it so many times...?

[@truthheals5723]

@@malinagruen7523 it’s bc of societies shitty programming that makes you feel bad for being passionate about someone!

[@yulidrke3500]

It's years of conditioning and reacting to 3d world. Takes some time to consciously reprogram it.

[@angelagracehere]

@@yulidrke3500 What do you do to reprogram? I’ve been doing the sleep track for 40 days and still struggling with believing!!

[@jillkx]

Spot on Dylan! ❤ I feel like affirming when I’m in a low vibration energy doesn’t really do it for me, it even tends to make me feel worse and more obsessive and desperate. However, when I distract myself, keep myself busy, focus on feeling as good as possible or more or less relaxed, positive thoughts come naturally without forcing them. It’s really light affirming as you called it too. It’s amazing

[@morganshepherd4757]

I can't thank you enough for this... People are not replaceable. Thank you for validating this for me. And helping me move beyond the heartbreak and be FEARLESS. I love you so much Dylan! You have changed my life more than you could ever know. ✨✨✨

[@cocochanel6903]

He is totally disgusted by the idea of me being with someone else - this affirmation is genius because I know when I do my touch and go meditation I am literally going to shift! Thank you Dylan

[@boolove7744]

Shift all have more the. One

[@TreasureForeverOfficial]

Can you make one that doesn’t include other people or the word disgusting / I feel like it can be higher vibrational than that. “He only think about me romantically”, “his focus is always on me, our loving relationship, and how we can be happy together”

[@cocochanel6903]

@@TreasureForeverOfficial Nope. This is my story and I choose what to say in my reality

[@misscleo_]

Damn this affirmation is so savage hahaha

[@epifan3_]

Love your attitude 🤣

[@dr.m6152]

It's so true when you said that people are irreplaceable. Like it really is so true. You love who you love, period.

[@c.v9324]

because ppl are jealous AF! people rather watch you hurt or suffer than be happy and in love. Love is always the answer 😉❤

[@eternalabundance39]

Could that be our assumptions I wonder so create that?

[@Nash_Aurora]

@@eternalabundance39 yeah of course. Yk even if it's not , by shifting to the ideal version of ourselves, nobody will point a finger at us. You'll see everybody supporting you.

[@eternalabundance39]

@@Nash_Aurora Thanks for your take.

[@mewsao]

Reminder: 2:48. 10:15 10:31 13:26* 14:41. 14:51* 15:26. 15:57* 17:49 18:15* 19:43. 20:45 1) believe 2) shift. 3) move on 4) my roles in what actually occurred 10:45 >> learn from it 5) stability 6) how would i feel when everything went right 7) do what makes you feel desirable today 8) live in that state >> manifesting occurs

[@macbook3189]

Thank you Dylan! A lot of people struggle with no contact. My Goal: Do what feels like I am attractive I am chosen/pursued I am deserving of true genuine love

[@retrovelcro]

Thank you for this. I never understood how people just move on to the next all the time. I think working on things is totally healthy and totally worth it.

[@lucybeeedee9478]

People just don't see it. Move is all they say.

[@dr.m6152]

@@lucybeeedee9478 seriously!

[@ThePoptartjunkie]

I swear Dylan, your saving people thousands of dollars, you’re so much better than any therapist out there!

[@Rose-lq7uo]

YES!

[@katsalvatore6939]

my sp blocked me a week ago and I did cry the first night and talked to myself, hyped myself up and now I dont feel shit. I still feel so happy on my own and it's so trippy bc old me would be crying everyday! I only cried that one time! Asked myself why , and told myself that circumstances dont matter and Ima still get what I want bc im the baddest and most amazing person that anyone would be lucky to have me in their lives! Embodying this version and so excited and proud of myself for not letting this get to me. I know im chosen and worthy and I have no doubts, or worries. It feels so damn good. Thank you daddy Dylan for showing us how to love ourselves! Hahaha

[@kimbogal]

What happened? Did your SP come back? Update!

[@georgebonilla8685]

Amen Dylan! People always tell you to move on. But that's usually their bias based on their own negative experiences. As long as you do it right it can be a beautiful thing

[@no-gc6xd]

No contact for 2 months wrecked me and neither of us even wanted it. So many fear mongering coaches out there will tell you that breaking no contact is the worst thing in the world. I finally just said “fuck it” paired with the growth I gained from Dylan over those 2 months and it’s been amazing.

[@JaNiceAleeysha]

That’s awesome! It went well I’m guessing then! 💗

[@MegDubu]

Great job and congrats! Can you share more details :]?

[@pryingopenmythirdeye1830]

God damnit you are incredible dude . This really really helped it all sink in more and helped me understand and naturally know and experience how this feeling state feels

[@boolove7744]

Ever been in a no food situation

[@pryingopenmythirdeye1830]

@@boolove7744 yes I have . More than once . And jail you have food but some jails like in Alabama, Guntersville city jail only gave you One single pack of 2 tiny Jimmy deans sausage biscuits for breakfast. And one 99 cent Banquet tv dinner for lunch and one for dinner. After a few days you are starving 24/7 even right after you eat . It's enough to survive which is torture really... But I've also been homeless couch surfing and sleeping in storage units and cars shop lifting food to eat

[@deeking914]

Stumbled on this video by "accident" (there really are no accidents), so glad I did. All I can say is Wow!! Everything you said hit me right in my heart and soul. As someone else noted, thanks for affirming that we aren't nuts for wanting what we want and loving who we love. The part about people being irreplaceable totally stood out for me as I've always believed that but thought it so weird that while we're expected to repair broken relationships with family, friends or colleagues, when it comes to romantic relationships we're always told to just move on if things don't work out--just get another one, like we're buying a new pair of shoes. Thanks so much for this video! I needed to hear your message!!

[@deeking914]

@The Time is Now Exactly why this video resonated with me. People are not replaceable so why are we expected or conditioned to give up on the one we love as if they are? And why do we allow others to make us feel ashamed for not wanting to give up? I'm dealing with this now and learning how to just not care what others think. Not easy but necessary.

[@christytube1111]

I’m here at 2:42 am watching this and it’s so beautifully put. It’s been almost a month since he separated from me and I honestly haven’t been sleeping well. I wake up thinking of him. I miss him so much but I have become obsessed with getting him back. I felt crazy for wanting this one person back in my life. People tell me he’s an “asshole” and I should move on but like Dylan said, he brought me so much joy and I loved the connection we had. I know he loves it too. Some days I just want to forget about him but I can’t. I’ve been able to manifest some old friends back in and that’s okay but when I want to manifest this guy back in, then it’s weird? Okay… I know my beliefs did get in the way. I thought he was too good for me. I felt like I wasn’t pretty or skinny enough for him, and as a result, he treated me like a little buddy for a long time. I did get to a place where he started showing a romantic attraction to me but I let my thoughts sabotage that too. I’ve manifested him in so many times but this time I feel like I’m struggling to get him back and it’s hard. I think it’s because I’m worried that I did too much damage. I know that I need to fully let go and trust in myself. I’m so glad Dylan posted this video because I absolutely needed the pep talk! 🥲

[@anjalipandey8454]

Any update?

[@Caolan-b6r]

?

[@Aakshiiiii]

God I'm literally watching it at 2:42 am😂 and same story too😂

[@christytube1111]

@@Aakshiiiii hi! So I know I posted this two years ago, but I just wanted to update… Several months ago, after having absolutely NO CONTACT with this person, I finally made peace with the fact that I was probably never going to talk to him again. I decided to let it go once and for all. In that time, I also had another person who I was interested in but the same story of “I’m not chosen” played out once again. I was done with both of them. I’m a substitute teacher and I had been sick for a week straight, so I couldn’t work. One morning, I felt so much better and I felt compelled to see if there were any jobs available. I found one at a school 10 minutes from my house, so I immediately booked it. I get to the main office to check in and there was a guy there working in the back. He saw me and said hi. I thought that he kinda looked like my SP but shrugged it off. The secretary gave me the instructions I needed for the day and then I went on my way. It wasn’t till I was out the door that I realized…it was HIM. After all of this time, and after making peace with the situation, he re-appeared. I later went back and apologized for not recognizing him, but he was acting weird. He wasn’t being rude but he definitely wasn’t trying to have a conversation with me. It did hurt a little but i figured maybe he didn’t want to talk because he was still on work-time. The day went by and I didn’t see him when I left. I did have this hope that maybe he would contact me afterwards but to this day, it hasn’t happened. 🥲 but I’m ok with it. I’m just amazed that he finally reappeared after all this time, and he’s been working so close to where I live. So he was never that far to begin with. Maybe one day I’ll bump into him again, but for now, I’m focused on other things. I don’t even feel like my feelings are the same anymore, tbh.

[@Aakshiiiii]

@@christytube1111 oh girl same i was too focused on my sp these day that and i literally called him 10 times 🙃 and after that he blocked me so now i decided toh focus on my self and i definitely deserve someone better. Honestly i think i was too obsessed by the thought of getting him back. But fuck him ik i did my best and put all the effort when it was needed.

[@mindy561]

when you say okkk? it boosts my serotonin levels by around 93%

[@lucamajic2453]

The first time in this journey I feel really understood by someone. Thank you❤️ I always had people around me telling me "give up, move on, it's over, it's impossible, ..." and I always felt within myself that it is possible. I forced myself to give up on somebody I loved with all of my being but at some point almost a year later I decided I wanted it back and started manifesting it. We actually had contact, this person texted me out of nowhere and we met and had a really great time but since this moment (like 20 days) we had no contact at all. I'm not worried about it, I managed it to get that contact and that laugh and that smile and that behavior, so I'll also manage to get this relationship. Thank, you so much for encouraging all of us.

[@lucybathija8364]

congratulations!! any update?

[@arunapandey7678]

Any updates?

[@Authenticallymaskless]

I was so worried that i did not shift in myself concept and i got triggered still. But then as I sit here i am feel amazing, my sp did not contacted me yet, i am okay. I feel great because i know it will happen. I will not make contacted. I attract, i dont chase. Time is not a existing in my reality so i am just living my queen life. It get better everyday. The change took time

[@catsmeow1984]

Can we get a “You can’t mess this up” video? Getting down on yourself feels like two steps back, so how can we bounce back from slipping?

[@user-xk1bx2jz9d]

thissss

[@juliatz721]

He already has a couple on his channel

[@Nash_Aurora]

I'm late but he had this video "if you fall down get back up, nothing can ruin your manifestation ”

[@uyenvypham1566]

I’ve watched a lot of mindset coaches but Dylan’s teachings really fit what I believe in life and my opinion about relationships and love. It’s just clicked in a way. Made me feel more confident in myself and in my journey as a conscious manifestator. I dont have that many friends that share like the exact point of view as mine. I just wanna say thank you so much Dylan 💕💕. You’ve helped a lot ☺️

[@Emily-xl2cr]

I am so glad I’ve found you. I’ve found someone I really genuinely have fallen for and is perfect for me but he has pulled away because I got too needy. Going to use your advice to bring him back. He called me “home” once, I can be that again. I am that again.

[@flywithlaurenw]

Thank you for the intro here and validating wanting to fix a relationship with someone you love. This is an old video of yours but I found it at a time that I really need it

[@brandi7733]

Thank you for this I can't tell you how much I appreciate this. The beginning of the video is so true to. We are made to feel wrong for wanting someone who has stopped talking to us. I am always told that I should move on. Again thank you for making this video so fast. 💜😘

[@eternalabundance39]

I got told that by a friend with my person last year. I was not seeing the signs they felt. I feel so many are so quick to say that. I was thinking the two that suggested move on, have been alone for years and if ask them honestly: they don't like it. 🤷

[@FollowerofDuck]

"if somethings important to you dont give up" 💕💕

[@nishabaidya4366]

Everything you said is so on point💯. I have been through the process from heartbroken to stabilizing myself. It almost took me 2 years. But I have grown so much as a person in these two years. Grateful for those experiences. So Happy to find you! I reasonate so much with your teachings. Love you Dylan❤

[@akainovaeingel9326]

I like how after 15:00 I had a fleeting thought to help me understand how to align something… to create no resistance and honor the natural unfolding, ACT like you know he’s there, you talk every week… so what’s the rush or big deal right?? You know you met, you connected, you triggered wounds, this healed them or is still healing them… these are all facts because why would you believe this connection is important unless on a deep level… you KNOW that already . So play it in your mind like it is happening and give your physical self a break by nurturing and organizing other aspects of your life. Even in words I can’t explain how this shifted something in my mind. I hope that makes sense🤗♎️

[@taysoslay]

i think this is what i was missing. i hadn’t dealt with the heartbreak, worries, and doubts from the past. i was being avoidant and those thoughts would come to mind throughout the day and i would get discouraged. definitely going to go through and figure out what I did to cause this separation so i can move forward and change the beliefs i had during that time.

[@fabiodias4256]

I never even had a date with this boy but we talked for 4 months, he rejected me even before meeting up. I'm not giving up on him, I have such a strong feeling and I really think we can be together someday. I trust myself and the Universe!

[@svetlanabanerjee9745]

You are such a golden person Dylan. I really love you.

[@svetlanabanerjee9745]

Would watch the video a few times to soak in all the advice shared here

[@kjbrocky]

You are amazingly wise and articulate, especially for your young age ;) You are an exceptionally fine young man, so refreshing!! Thank you

[@rachelprinsloo9986]

Oh my the first part of this literally drove me to tears. I know who I want and and know exactly why. I refuse to give up on this. I'm. Heartbroken because I caused this myself because of what society says. Wow just wow.

[@Amorarlene]

I'm currently struggling with no contact. We had a fight and broke things off I tried to apologize and he just went no contact. I'm struggling seeing my worth and question myself as to why he didn't want to work things out with me. Everyone tells me to move on and forget but I can't simply do that. He is my person and I just know we could've worked things out. I'm trying my best to work on my feelings and heartbreak. Your video helped me so much understand how to go about it. I have to work on my heartbreak first and affirm words and things that'll make me feel better first. ❤

[@Keandra_9]

How are you doing?

[@matoulageorgakakis-jf3sc]

This is 100% perfectly said !!!!! Finally, normalising love and to not give up !!! Thank you Dylan 🙏

[@manifestinggoddess8287]

I feel so detached from my SP like I don’t really care anymore. I know my worth and value and I feel too good enough or him. It’s a feeling that feels good. But I still have that inner knowing that he loves and wants to be with me. Ugh idk what I am feeling 😅

[@boolove7744]

You care you know sounds like he is sacred you know your worth

[@jessicadaaa9297]

Same girl. Like at this point I don’t even care about being with anyone. I just want money and I do get it 👌

[@manifestinggoddess8287]

@@jessicadaaa9297 That’s right we want it we got it. It’s Done.

[@jessicadaaa9297]

@@manifestinggoddess8287 👌💰🙈

[@estilevi3109]

@@jessicadaaa9297 🤣🤣ik rite im the same wayyy now manifesting money loll theyyll come back anyways THEY ALWAYS doo lolll

[@inkalchemisttattoos3150]

True…like accepting it as feedback and not taking it to heart, but rather draw from it what you need to improve based on the input thus far.

[@coricori7428]

that was so sweet and came right to the time this morning I needed this comment. I wanted to give up on sp like a voice inside said you will never get it done. Than I thought I need to follow this voice and got so sad. Because inside my heart I always thought this love this person is irreplacable but did not dare to really believe. Now I got a very big relief and for the whole day was happy. As if I had found a friend who trusted me.... Dylan My trigger was this morning when an old couple moved from the town I live, germany I felt jealous because I would like to live that too with my sp. But I heard Dylan saying this and I was calm happy ok. Thank you Dylan sooo good

[@angelstarxo]

I am irreplaceable I am enough I am trusting I am complete I am always able to change people in way that I desire I am valuable

[@kdar_22]

Dude honestly, i’ve gone my whole life going in and out of relationships just thinking that i’m mentally not stable enough to hold a healthy relationship. Idk what’s wrong with me psychologically but what you’ve said in this video makes sense. I appreciate you for this.

[@kristenraszeja663]

I finally understand, after watching so many people I finally get it. You simplify it thank you !

[@stormwarrior3609]

Got my sp back then lost him after a month because of old beliefs that crept back up. Goin on 10th separation. Not giving up because he’s my person no matter what. Working on getting my shit together so this won’t happen again when I get him back.

[@bethy1979]

Any update?

[@Barbie_22]

Update ??

[@bhajanlive2912]

Yesss 💕 I Feel greatest about myself. I love myself. I have a confidence . I have ability to deal with unwanted circumstances. Even I don't care what's pop up. Because I know that this is not my reality. I know that what I want is already done. I have it already. It's done. And every fu*king 👑 desire is coming to me like a ball of iron , because I am a magnetic personality. I know I am pure, I know I am ❤ That's why I have what I want.🥳🥳😘 Many thanks to Dylan 🌟 You are A rockstar ❤⭐️

[@badcroissant4142]

I love my SP and my deepest desire is a healthy, loving relationship with him. I’ve manifested him multiple times and he always comes back when I feel neutral or I don’t.. really want him or am in doubts about him. I don’t feel like affirming for him or anything.. I generally don’t really feel like thinking about him. It almost like annoys me. I do have this inner knowing that we will patch up and all will be good again but why do I feel so.. annoyed? I’m good the way things are but how come that I don’t want to try things for him and even be annoyed about thoughts and the idea of putting in mental effort lol?

[@soleilabundance]

You might be “annoyed” cause u might not think things will really work out. I have felt the same way but now i know i always get what i want so i really just think of everything light hearted and fun cause i know i’ll get it. Be the person they spoil ❤️ trust me this works!

[@cheryllynn9301]

I can relate to what you wrote, maybe the "annoyed" feelings are based on events that happened in the past and now you have a higher self-esteem. I know what you mean, you are good by yourself, feel the same, we want what we want and will not settle for less.

[@TheCosmicCinem4]

The fleeting thought thing you said is so true. This summer when I was in vacation I got a random thought like: “He will ask me how I’m doing in Vacation” and then two days went by and I didn’t think about it again and suddenly he texts me: “How is it going in vacation?” I swear I was so shocked and then I realized that it manifested because I didn’t question the assumption J set and just set the intention without negative thoughts popping up. I had that minset towards my sp back when we were in contact and he clearly showed that he was crushing on me. If I see any changes I’ll update :)

[@JaNiceAleeysha]

What about manifesting them naturally apologizing as their form of coming back and breaking no contact? I’m over everything but that acknowledgment is what I want for the relationship I want with him

[@sharitastinson109]

I have sabotaged my friendship/relationship with my SP. I never knew he was even a consideration for SP until he came back. I've heard something that said "husband" about him to me. I believe that my fear pushed him away and I miss him immensely.

[@getfitordietrying619]

😻 I love it!!! I AM THE BEST OPTION FOR MY SP ALEX&CINDY SOON TO BE UNITED AGAIN

[@WeAreAllDragons]

Changes has just become my new soundtrack. Thank you Dylan!

[@dani323]

Even loving someone/people period. Don’t love you back? It’s okay! Someone else WILL! I love your rant! 💯 🤣💞

[@YearBride24]

OMG THIS MAKES SOOOOO MUCH SENSE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@kadoradork4228]

Thank you thank you thank you😘😘I‘m finally past the worst phase of being heartbroken,living in the past and bawling my eyes out, so now I can focus on the good things and manifesting him back!😍I came across your channel a day ago and I’m already feeling soo much better! You’re amazing!

[@lilyb2617]

I realise after all of these years and failed relationships, I need time to me. I’m studying boundaries and I’m so grateful I found your channel. I’m pretty damn good at manifesting but I’ve never given love the same focus 🤷🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️😳 Doh! The three major relationships I’ve had in my life, I went into from a non loving myself or situation. Funny how that all worked out 🤔 Thank you

[@annax4557]

Hello Everybody, hello Dylan. Thank you for inspiring me - because of you I have found some of my core beliefs. I realized that everything I wanted to get (also from other people), I did by force, I had to play games , nothing was given me for the heck of it. As a child I spent several years on beging God for better life - nothing changed (as a result I was confirmed that my needs did not matter, nobody cared). That was in the past. Now it is much better, I feel connected, completed, but these old beliefs block me sometimes and I can't find any new solution. Dylan, you have some insights and intuition which help people to light up their old thoughts. Be grateful for all your comments.

[@aishahussain3328]

Thank you so so so much for raising this stigmatism for manifesting someone back and being stamped off as needy or weak I love your entire being James!!❤️

[@Fxqr-mf4jz]

The thing that makes me laugh is how accurate manifestation is. There was this SP of mine. Only I had seen twice from afar and thought he's cool and forgot about it. Thinking I might never see him again or he might never notice me. Fast forward, I saw him 4 months later and he was staring at me very seriously. Didn't give it a second thought. After some days, I again saw him going into his class. God, I keep running into him. Then, there was this time when I was free and thought I should tag along with my friend to a seminar of hers. We entered and there he was! (He's a photographer, was there for that( He was looking at me while I was finding a seat with my friend. I wondered why he was so curious about us but not any other person entering or leaving. Me and my friend left the seminar early and went to eat something from cafeteria. After 20 to 30 minutes, we stood up and were walking out of the cafeteria and wtf man! There he was again. We passed by each other. I had eye contact with him and he got nervous. Like way too nervous, like he had seen something scary and then looked down. Made me realize that my beliefs are working. He does like me😂 I mean the way manifestation bring people from anywhere in the world to you

[@chloeandrews3434]

every word is like gold

[@reiherreracl3459]

People should stop worrying if their SP started going out with somebody else too. Remember to be compassionate and kind with your SP and remember that they may have limited beliefs and the only way they found to not be alone and desperate was being with someone. Is not something bad being with somebody else and also, the most of the times, being with other people so fast is just their intention to replace you because you marked them. But stop feeling needy and owner of somebody else. Respect their freewill and honour your feelings. You can get what you want respecting other people’s processes 😊

[@Eebydeeby2112]

You know what? I tried to pursue SP for 10 years. The fact that i kept trying was the reason why SP kept running away. Just stop pursuing the SP. Go No Contact. Literally stop. Stop giving them power, take back your power. YOU decide whether you guys will talk or not. YOU decide to ignore them now. And stop taking them back every time they breadcrumb you. If they really want you, they’ll marry you. Simple.

[@deedee446]

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[@marinette2436]

Watching this again and you are totally right. Needed this so much Dylan. I am surrounded by friends that keep repeating the narrative that all men are the same or that they do not believe in love etc. I just tell myself my SP is loving and not how they describe it. Currently manifesting my SP back and to get out of NC. I know it will happen anytime soon. My relationship with him is so worth it so I will fight for it and at the same time use it as a growth process for myself so I can be ready for when he is fully conformed.

[@Caolan-b6r]

Women tend to love less, most relationships are ended by women and they give less second chances and move on quicker, you should tell your friend that

[@7marve]

Wow. This was so great. Honor your feeling state. When you said this, my mind went to the original Star Wars when Luke was going to blow up the Death Star and he put away the screen on his ship and did it all vibrationally/mentally.

[@dasilvs1832]

This is so helpful! I’m past the heartbreak and am a new person, and have been wondering if or when to contact my SP and if I feel good then I do what I do when everything is fine. I LOVE the no urgency part, too because us guys can get fearful of losing the attraction/connection if too much time passes between contact.

[@i.y.o.k3914]

Dylan looking younger n cuter every day🤗🤗🤗

[@lcluna78]

Love every single thing you've said on here, Dylan!! Thank you so, so, much. 💜💜💜

[@mushycottonball]

Dylan, thank you so much for this video. What you said about love was so beautiful and poetic it deeply resonated with me. Today's society forces us to see love and commitment as something far-fetched and unattainable, and like you said it's just sad. Today I decide I'm just gonna stop listening to all the "advice" out there and only listen to my heart and your words lol. I know I always get what I want.

[@Matrona.Goddess]

you always make videos about my situation lol. I had a huge movement with my SP last week... i follow him, he didn't follow me back but we talked like nothing happened between us, asked me "what's up with you?" but I know he still mad about what I did to him . Now, we don't talk anymore... but I will persist!

[@indiablue2961]

What if there were no fights, but lots of mutual love.Just a 3P in the way and my SP’s feeling of duty and obligation to stay in that situation.

[@returnofthemack8347]

Thank you for this. I am feeling really hopeless about my specific person right now so I needed this.

[@katiie7]

Your skinnnn looks so fresh!

[@jessicakcarvalho]

I was thinking the same thing!

[@maratwasnthere1075]

Thank you for compiling this circumstance into one video!! Sometimes I feel lost and stuck, but these videos keep motivating me to push until I have a breakthrough

[@yasdaiana]

Basically the main proof that manifestation works is the mere fact that you’re in a no contact situation. If you liked each other but feared/doubted, you and your sp made your worst outcome happen. Change your perception and that will propel the other person to see things in that way too. If not, you’ll find someone who will match your mental state.

[@zelloresharrison7035]

my songs recently to manifest my SP back is Anita Baker's He Belong to Me and Lately and Mary J Blige I'm the Only Woman You Need

[@sainthoerow]

I had to pause halfway through this video to just point out you just made everything click. the reassurance in the beginning made my heart warm and a feeling of calm knowing rushed over me. I have a few favorite teachers on this platform but you simply put EVERYTHING out on the table and you explain with such grace. I already feel my self concept surrounding love and abundance within myself shift to how I truly desire. I am definitely binging, and will definitely send you a success story very soon. I hope you have a wonderful week ahead and I can't wait to share my story. lots of love

[@vivianmontgomery9082]

Yes completely agree, manifestations are fleeting thoughts, I see this all the time

[@Mellie]

This could be the best KZbin video on this topic. I can't begin to express how not only spot on this is but how aware. Other manifestors try to push and even bully people into doing process after process getting people to try and force their manifestation by, for example, constantly doing affirmations, or by telling them they can never have a negative thought because "OMG IT'LL MANIFEST!" When that's not how it works. You explained everything so beautifully, thank you.

[@krystleavs]

Thank you for this! My SP and I have no contact at the moment, but I’ve done it before with others I wanted to connect with on a platonic level, so I can do it with him too. It’s easy.

[@sparrowc4459]

Wow. This is exactly what I needed to hear right now. Thank you, Dylan ❤️

[@msk.4427]

2 months into my breakup with the man I completely adore, I discovered your channel. It's been 4 months now of listening and practising your teachings. This is the break through I needed my entire life. My SP and I, have had no contact for 6 months now. Mine was a case of a 3P. I did a lot of work on my beliefs and took responsibility for my contribution in this mess. My biggest challenge is that I struggle with triggers, I've let go of people I loved my entire life, with them chosing other people over me and it became a cycle. I have since realised that I have always been in control, giving up and moving on to a new relationship. I had never been this happy in any relationship, but somehow I let my insecurities get in the way. I want back what I had with my person. I am willing to do all the work necessary to win his affection back. I am a winner, always 🙌🏽

[@n.m.3995]

Update

[@msk.4427]

@@minalpuntambekar1239I am only seeing this today. it's been almost 2yrs now, since the break up, haven't seen him nor heard from him since. Been focused on myself, some days have been better than others, it has been quite a challenge, I must say.

[@msk.4427]

@@n.m.3995 I want to believe that I am in a much better space now, I haven't completely healed, taking each day as it comes. I believe that am on the right path, whatever is meant for me will find me. Thank you for asking 🤗.

[@n.m.3995]

@@msk.4427 that sounds good, you will definitely heal completely very soon and everything will be fine. you are now the best version of yourself and you can be proud of yourself.

[@Summerrain133]

@@msk.4427two years seriously 🤦‍♀️

[@freedomadventurechallengetruth]

My all time favorite video! I feel like I can relax and be magical again!

[@BrightestLight5]

Dylan, we all light up when we think about you. 😁💓😘🤗

[@janine8204]

I am irreplaceable is one of my affirmations!

[@Summerrain133]

Thank you so much , Not all of us can afford one to one , but you give it all in your video’s I know my sp is missing me and will contact me soon ❤️

[@liliyamolchanova2758]

currently affirming a podcast you have into my reality so I can listen to it downloaded wherever I am

[@encouragedbyerin9097]

I feel everything you are saying! Thank you for these videos

[@angelap6301]

My person was wonderful and we deeply love each other. He went no contact due to depression and I miss him every day. I have not given up on him and I want him healthy and back with me. ❤

[@sal2705]

Do you think is possible to manifest someone back even though they told you they’re not in love with you?

[@Missymiss1711]

Yep circumstances do not matter. Watch more of Dylan’s videos on that… there’s a lot of content

[@lennic8363]

Thank you Dylan, ❤ this gives me so much hope.

[@Oscar-ut3pp]

I’m in 8 months of no contact with my ex. I love her but she didn’t feel the same way. What sucks is that I still think about her and I get sad at times because she had so much potential to be in love with me. I left her and ghosted her, I can’t be friends with someone I love. I’m trying my best to move on and heal from this but she still lingers on my mind. Ik I’ll get through this

[@Dmousumi]

She’s manifesting you

[@Caolan-b6r]

Any updates man

[@morgangayla4762]

When you spoke on abuse you are on point! I thought I wanted someone back Sooo bad but once I got myself together & really started to love myself again I realized how unhealthy this person was for me it turns out I was happier alone than with them

[@reenzz2007]

Who else is loving the everyday videos 😍😍😍😍😍❤️❤️❤️❤️ Thank you Dylan!!

[@juliatz721]

Your skin is glowing in this video dylan!!

[@louisebarnett4310]

Dylan, you have opened my eyes, mind and heart! I just love your honesty. Thank you xx

[@goddessyouniq7938]

I just subscribed and I love it here. Everyday consistently I'm here