Dealing with deployment, Ways to communicate while soldier is deployed/separated||military wife life

[@baileynewman6214]

I’m so happy we did this collab it’s so nice hearing some tips from someone that has been doing this for a long time !!

[@PennysLifeStyleLiving]

I pray that all those military spouses that are deployed that God will bless them that’s away and keep their families 💕 Yes it’s a blessing that there is more technology to communicate with your love ones!! Great advice to all I will check out your friend channel tfs!! 💕

[@lisaaraheme]

Great video hun keep it up 💕❤🔥🔥

[@athomewithtroy1690]

Thanks for stopping by my channel!

[@Tash_Vlogs]

Great video! I’m thinking what better person could this kind of info come from than someone who’s experienced both sides 💕💕

[@BEATRIZLIFESTYLE]

You’re always very inspiring and so happy 😁 great video, hope you’re having a lovely day 💕

[@RachelGrace_Fearlessly]

Wow love this... one of my friends is getting married in the fall before her husband is deployed

[@athomewithtroy1690]

God bless her husband I hope he comes home safe, thanks so much for watching!

[@bradleybfinds]

I learned something new, IDK why I thought they couldn't have phones. I too think sending snail mail is cute too, especially not being able to see your partner. TFS!

[@cgtsang]

Very good tips Troy. Stay safe

[@simplyveronika3518]

Hi friend, hope you’re doing well. This was an interesting video to watch, take care!💞☺️

[@athomewithtroy1690]

Thanks for always supporting me, especially on my military Info vids.💛

[@ASHLEYLOTT]

I loved those little care packages you showed! I bet getting those while being deployed is super comforting. Communication has come so far and though a deployment and being away from your significant other sounds rough (😬😫), I think the advances that have been made regarding technology and communication helps make it a little less rough. I remember emailing my dad a lot when he was deployed when I was younger. I totally agree with chatting about the mundane stuff. I think it helps your significant other get to experience your day in away and vice versa. And haha, I also like to vent and I’m usually not looking for advice or a grand plan to solve my problem. I usually ask people when they vent to me so they want advice or do they need me to just listen 💕🙂

[@athomewithtroy1690]

Yes just in the years we have been married so much has changed so we can communicate better and that is definitely a blessing! I loved making the care packages it's fun to theme them. Thanks so much for watching. Every time someone who is not affiliated with the military watches my videos it gives the information out there to people that may need it so I really appreciate your watching and your like. 💛

[@esterfrias2679]

Girl you are such an awesome person. I go one day without my husband and I feel out of place. It’s so good that ways of communication has improved. Care packages from home must be the best. This is such a good and informative video. Thanks for sharing!!😊🌟

[@Laura-o2q7z]

I am listening to you and alot makes sense being a civilian loveing a deployed army

[@Laura-o2q7z]

Im still not sure about somethings just one question

[@Laura-o2q7z]

I want to know if when on deployment does a soldier still have access to his or her bank account?

[@athomewithtroy1690]

Yes they do

[@jessica24bryant]

Three years is a long time, even if it’s not consecutive. I am sure it made your relationship that much stronger tho! Your positive outlook is always so inspiring. Stay safe 🙏🏽

[@athomewithtroy1690]

We definitely have grown from the tough times!

[@allthingshomedecorwithtangie]

Great Video....be blessed 🥰

[@TaylorM]

I loved this video! My husband used to travel on business! Sometimes he would be gone to China for a month at a time!! I wish I had some of these tips when he was gone! Thanks for sharing :)

[@athomewithtroy1690]

Thank you so much for supporting my channel and watching it took us a while to get these tips down Pat but they have definitely been a life saver!

[@SindyValladares]

I usually just send care packages and then I just buy things little by little and have a whole big package for when he comes home. Ill have new clothes, shoes, his favorite snacks and stuff like that as his welcome back surprise.

[@tamaraYvonne02]

My husband hasn't deployed since 2011. So much has changed with communication!

[@athomewithtroy1690]

So true, thanks so much for watching I really appreciate your support! You are veteran to this military life just like me😉

[@ByLindaAReyes]

I can only imagine how hard it was to be separated from your husband. It seems that you guys have a strong bond and a great communication set in place that worked. Awesome tips!

[@athomewithtroy1690]

Thanks for watching! it took us a few trainings to get it right but we definitely have it down pat now.

[@ByLindaAReyes]

@@athomewithtroy1690that's awesome! You guys stay safe 💕

[@riasdesign6644]

Hey Troy, thank you so much for sharing. I can only imagine how much strength it takes to be on this journey.

[@athomewithtroy1690]

Thanks so much for watching, its challenging but i would not trade it for anything else!

[@BiancaFigz]

Aww this is so nice to hear and a great reference for other military wives as well as us civilians that don't have experience with this. You definitely give great insight, advice, and knowledge. Love the advice about making the kids say hi. I'm sure that boosts morale for your soldier

[@hakasurkhasichannel]

Let's be friends

[@hakasurkhasichannel]

Done join WTH u I hope you do the same

[@CherylGoer]

Love this!💕👌🏻Let’s stay connected!💛

[@athomewithtroy1690]

Thanks most definitely!

[@kristiefelice]

It's good to hear your field experience. My husband is in the field now. I love that you can share from both sides. We used Between when he was away. Thanks for sharing these tips mama. Super helpful.

[@athomewithtroy1690]

Thanks so much for watching I'm glad it was something you could take from.

[@alexandermatamoros9993]

hi friend yes greta content new friend have a greta one

[@AntonioDiGennaroballerino]

Like 10 bellissimo

[@athomewithtroy1690]

Thank you !

[@AntonioDiGennaroballerino]

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[@AshiCrafts]

Hi, new friend here:)Hope we can support each other. Very informative video troy:) Thank you for sharing.

[@athomewithtroy1690]

Most definitely! and thank you so much for your support

[@busybecky6327]

💕 Great video! I've been a mil spouse for about 10 years and never been through a deployment. He was supposed to but it got cancelled.. gotta love the military and their constantly changing plans lol. We were apart for 17 months when he went to flight school though. I'd estimate we've spent about 3-4 years apart too (not consistently). Hope you're all doing well! 💕 I'm the SAME way! I don't want help, I just wanna whine and someone listen 😂 after that I feel better. Lol

[@athomewithtroy1690]

Yes! I know I have to put on my big girl panties eventually but I just wanna fuss 1st 😂

[@appleapple1997]

Hey thank you for the video, how do you cope with the feelings that come with it when you are worried, missing each other so much? like can you cry on the phone? What if something big or bad comes up at home, do you tell them?

[@athomewithtroy1690]

I would suggest 1st talking to your partner. It doesnt change anything but it can be comforting to tell them your feelings. 2nd try to distract your self and stay busy, exercise or find a hobby you like. Whether or not to tell them bad news is a personal choice you and your partner should talk about, but if you can handle it alone then try.

[@appleapple1997]

@@athomewithtroy1690 thank you for the advice! but then does it now mean putting pressure on them cause you are feeling overwhelmed? or in your own experience, have you ever need to deal with these situations? also whats your take on being in the military shaped the way you are thinking or being more masculine, or avoid talking about feelings? Is this element taught while training where its the same for everyone?

[@bigcali2557]

Can overseas deployment Service members facetime family member back home?

[@athomewithtroy1690]

I believe so, when reception is good and thay are off duty

[@bigcali2557]

@@athomewithtroy1690 I’m have been talking someone in the military and she deployed in japan and we can’t face time each other because she said there a rules they have and it strict about it and she a military police she station in japan okinawa. We text each other everyday sometimes the connection not so good.

[@ShanzayMujtaaba]

#1 like....#1 view#1 comment.....plz pin.....Nice video sis..... watching 😍😍😘