Dealing With Difficult Coworkers

[@CJReynolds]

RESPECT, KINDNESS, CONFRONT, & PRAYER Perfect advice for every situation in life!! ✊🏽

[@OneFABTeacher]

Thanks, friend! ((HUGS))

[@angelica.a]

I cannot believe it's been 15 years for you! Your passion seems so fresh and you look so young! I love re-watching your videos. I feel inspired each time and it helps remind me on hard days of why I do love being a teacher. I really wish I could observe one of your lessons. I feel you have so much to show and share with us! Much love!

[@OneFABTeacher]

Awwwww.....thank you so much sunshine! I appreciate you watching and your support. ((Hugs))

[@GlitterandJams]

It's hard when you work with difficult people. I had a rough time for a couple of years with a difficult person. For some reason, I was targeted and everything I did was wrong according to this person. It started to chip away at my confidence and steal my joy. I prayed my way through it and it finally resolved. Sometimes you have to go through the fire before you can see the beauty again. Thank you for sharing on this very difficult topic. Many of us experience this to some degree or other and it is nice to hear some Godly advice from your sweet, positive self! Being kind doesn't mean being walked on and disrespected. Yes! It is ALL about the kids! Love and hugs!

[@budezone]

At the start of my teaching career, a church elder told me a story about the jobs he had to do as a young man during Jim Crow. After listening to him, I decided to stop complaining about the Sugar Honey Ice Tea of a few poisoned-spirited individuals parading to be educators. It was NOTHING by comparison. I started working on becoming a better me. Dealt with my insecurities. My past traumas. It's all good now! God is Great!

[@OneFABTeacher]

God is great! ((HUGS))

[@kinderjenni]

Miss May, I am so glad I found your channel. It blesses me that you love the LORD. I am also a 1st grade teacher, this is my 28th year. I love my job...and... Jesus has helped me through it all. Thank you for your kind heart.

[@OneFABTeacher]

Thank you so much for kind words and your support. That's amazing you've been teaching for 28 years! My hat is off to you! ((Hugs)) and Blessings

[@kinderjenni]

One FAB Teacher I wish I could be more like you, I worry about what people think. That is my soul battle, life long... prayers appreciated. We have a lady who prays through our hallways every Wednesday, one day I asked her to come into my room to pray while we were out of the room. She asked if I had any special requests, I said there is one little guy that needs more prayer than others-didn’t give name. When my student teacher when into my room to get something, she was standing, touching “his” desk. Later, she told me that she asked the Holy Spirit to show her where to pray and He led her there! Amazing! She also told me that she sensed that my room had been covered in prayer, so much that she told her preacher. That made me cry, because I do pray for my kids and their parents. ❤️🙏🏻Mrs. Sanders I think if someone has a problem with you, it’s because of your faithfulness to Jesus and you do your job for Him! I would love to connect our 1st graders next year.

[@loretta-h2h]

Hello Ms. May. I just want you to know I have been watching your KZbin channel for about 3 months and I am learning so much!! I have been teaching for over 20 years, but am learning so much from you!! I placed buckets in my room and it is such a wonderful atmosphere now! My children enjoy getting their messages. I love it! Also. I got rid of moving the colors and am using your management system. My children love both of those changes. Thank you! Thank you!! I am going to do the night before school information also. I love the Lord and like how you close each lesson. I also teach first glad.

[@JustBethTrying]

One phrase that softens the confrontation ( if you so desire) is “Are you okay? I have noticed you seem ______ lately and that’s not like you. I wanted to check on you.” You may find they are fighting a battle you know nothing about. (This also works with kids too.)

[@lisannejefferson9749]

You have words if wisdom. I have been teaching for 24 years and have had that problem of people not liking me because I was doing my job. Never could I take the disrespect and would have to have a one on one with them. Every year is different. Kindness helps change people. You are wise beyond your years.

[@OneFABTeacher]

Thank you so very much for watching. I appreciate your kind words. It means so much coming from a 24 year vet teacher. ((Hugs))

[@PoliteChoice]

Great advice. After much prayer I had to make the difficult decision to confront an administrator who just wasn't a kind person to me (and many others). After doing that I felt so relieved and it totally changed our working relationship for the better. It actually changed the way she treated others as well. She had no idea (or she claimed) that the way she spoke to her teachers was demeaning and disrespectful.

[@msdeana11]

I love your personality!! I have been teaching prek for 15 yrs and just got my teaching certificate so I have been watching your videos to help me be the best me I can and have a great first year in elementary.

[@OneFABTeacher]

Awww...thank you so much! I appreciate your support so much! You're going to be so FAB!! ((HUGS))

[@mkshine407]

Yes be kind to others but also value yourself- so true!

[@OneFABTeacher]

Amen! ((Hugs))

[@BP-bs9fz]

There are some teachers that drive me nuts at work. But they may not like me either. I agree with you. Just deal with them with respect and smile:)

[@OneFABTeacher]

Deal with and smile. Thank you for watching! ((Hugs))

[@liliancordeirosantosesilva7158]

Thank You miss May!!! Loved This vídeo. You,vê been mY inspiration since last week when I saw your channel. I'm trilled to come back to classroom. Kisses, God bless You always.

[@rickythompson3625]

Thank you Ms. ONE FAB Teacher for the advice.

[@bagley232]

I live in a rural area and I'm a 20 year support staff employee, over my years I have seen teachers become more apathetic and constantly complain. I thought heavily about crossing over into the classroom and this is the chief reason I won't do it. I'd rather work in a different capacity in my district (student services, guidance or attendance)

[@susankane4359]

Great video! I have been teaching for 17 years. I've worked with various teams. I'm alright with sharing ideas if it is equal and there's reciprocity happening among all team members. There are givers and takers on a team. I enjoy sharing ideas but I value time to myself too. I'm still trying to find a balance.

[@OneFABTeacher]

Balance is definitely key. ((Hugs))

[@divagirl10]

I went to a religious private university where I was treated awful. They told me they did not like the fact I acted and looked different. It really hurt me and I started to believe I was no good and embarrassed to be unique. But after I left there I realized they were so wrong! But they scarred me for years

[@Jasminem91099]

Thank you Jesus that you made this video lol! I’m a new teacher in my first year. I’m doing academic support (special education) and I have to work within the general education classroom. There is the ONE PERSON that has been difficult to work with. It helps to know I’m not alone haha

[@OneFABTeacher]

You got this! :) ((HUGS))

[@sylvienayman8441]

I was laughing when you says pray for the person and for yourself, but you are Soo right about that. Makes you realize ppl are human. Everyone is not perfect.

[@PrairieB]

These are practical life ideas. The world should call you Miss A-May-Zing! I appreciate your positive outlook very much. =) Elle

[@OneFABTeacher]

You are so sweet. I appreciate you and I appreciate your kind words. Many blessings! ((Hugs))

[@KateTheSleepyTeacher]

Same ! 14 years going into 15. You are amazing I have also had similar experiences as you with teams. You always know what to bring up and discuss. Keep on shining your bright light, Tiffany. Btw , who could not like you. Imma come to Houston and tell them what’s up !

[@OneFABTeacher]

Thank you for watching! ((HUGS)) my friend!

[@jenniferbridi7678]

Thank you Miss May. Your videos are so great.

[@teacherof20]

Those are all really good things to do in times of difficult situations. I love that you pray for them. Sometimes those are the people that need prayer the most! Thank you for your videos! You are so genuine and it is really refreshing!

[@lilik9851]

Miss May, you are an angel on earth! Thank you for the wise words!

[@OneFABTeacher]

Awwwww, thank you so very much for your kind words. ((Hugs))

[@slesseps]

Twenty-three years teaching, and I love your videos. I left teaching for five years, and I’m returning. I think your advice is perfect. After working in another industry, I saw how tough the teacher dynamic can be because we are locked up together all day. I always thought older teachers were nuts when they gave the advice of staying out of the teachers lounge. However, after seeing how other adults work in other industries, I understand that advice more today. I don’t think I will be eating lunch in the lounge everyday when I return. People can get really negative there, and personalities can clash in there. I’ll go in sometimes, but not all the time. I need some down time, and teaching doesn’t always allow that.

[@OneFABTeacher]

I appreciate you and you taking the time to spread the love on my channel. Thank you for watching. ((HUGS))

[@susanbeyer2383]

Well-said Ms. May!😘I have taught for 23 years and my motto is the same as yours...kill ‘em with kindness and be respectful! I wish everyone followed those rules!😜

[@carolinacastanonrivera9163]

Respect is EVERYTHING! I hear you! Kindnesses shows that person you are taking the high road . ❤️

[@OneFABTeacher]

Yes, the high road is the best road to travel. Thank you for watching. ((Hugs))

[@blessed7015]

Yes! I have the same philosophy about respect. But, I let others worry and bother me. Sadly, there is someone on my administrative team who is very vindictive and mean spirited. I am trying to pray through it. I love your advice!

[@ejo4squared01]

This is great advice for relationships with people both in and outside of school! Thanks!!

[@sylvienayman8441]

Great advice! Especially being kind and facing the person truthfully!!

[@OneFABTeacher]

Thank you. ((Hugs))

[@JN-go2yq]

thanks heaps. really needed this one this week! x

[@emilyk1502]

I love everything about you, your attitude, your, spirit, your look!! Thank you for putting all this great information out! Alls you videos have helped me.

[@lauriehill863]

Powerful advice ! I struggle with those who complain about everything. We had a PD day at the end of the year & the speaker talked about "the vortex of negativity" & how it is so easy to get "sucked in" when others are complaining. I love your advice of praying & being kind...I always try to start each year being positive..I love my kids & I love what I do...how do u resist the urge to not complain or be negative when others are?

[@OneFABTeacher]

Thank you so much for watching. I will be honest, it's important to have that co-worker or two who you can vent to. We have to let out our steam without being a constant burden. I believe in the power of prayer as well. I just ask God for strength and the right attitude to deal. ((HUGS))

[@Andinwyo]

Thanks for reminding me- love your heart 💜

[@HotforTeaching]

This is a great video. I guess I am late to the party. Enjoy your summer. Thank you for leaving your videos up for me to watch. ❤️

[@natasha.parker]

Great video Ms.May very helpful ~😌🩷

[@OneFABTeacher]

I'm so glad you found it helpful! ((HUGS))

[@queendelaclassroom6450]

Great tips Miss May👍🏽 Enjoy your weekend🌹

[@OneFABTeacher]

Thank you! ((HUGS))

[@queenofdo-over]

Preach it! 🙌🏻

[@donnawrights6821]

Great Vlog! Chloe did an awesome job behind the camera.

[@OneFABTeacher]

Thank you for watching! I will let Chloe know. ((Hugs))

[@katiekizzieable]

Fabulous advice for all aspects of life! Thanks for sharing your experiences and wisdom so honestly. 🙏🏼💗

[@OneFABTeacher]

Thank you so much for watching! ((Hugs))

[@kaceeclaybon9686]

I’ve been teaching for 5 years and for me dealing with adult educators is like dealing with students. You have to modify, scaffold, and tailor yourself around them. Each team is like a kid. Do what you need to do and cope as you need to cope with each team and keep a open tool box to pull from to work with the different personalities.

[@OneFABTeacher]

((Hugs))

[@joebagiackas7198]

Miss May thank you! I literally jist got this quesation from an interview a couple days ago. I love your videos! So informative and well thought out.

[@OneFABTeacher]

You are so very welcome! Thank you for loving my videos and supporting me. ((HUGS))

[@kc-bi6qh]

Thank you so much for all of this. It was so informative! I wish I would have seen it about eight months ago. Oh well! We live and we learn 🙂

[@OneFABTeacher]

You are so welcome! Thank you for watching and spreading your kindness on my channel. ((HUGS)) and Blessings

[@Cambrella2022]

Great advice!

[@OneFABTeacher]

Thank you for watching! ((Hugs))

[@PreciousBB18]

Pleasing God and teaching children! 🙌🏿

[@OneFABTeacher]

((Hugs))

[@mrhymer95]

Excellent advice and information!

[@OneFABTeacher]

Thank you and thank you for watching! ((Hugs))

[@TeachingInTheMiddle]

Your video's are so helpful 💙💛💙💛

[@2coachbags]

Thank you for sharing!!!!!

[@myfourjays2322]

Such great words of advice.!!! Tfs🙂

[@OneFABTeacher]

Thank you sunshine! I always appreciate you watching. ((Hugs))

[@hellapro1343]

Wow thank you!

[@kimberlystokes9524]

Have a great week!!!

[@OneFABTeacher]

You too sunshine! ((Hugs))

[@divagirl10]

Can you do another video about how to deal with difficult admin?

[@katlondon9618]

This is really good advice.

[@OneFABTeacher]

Thank you! ((HUGS))

[@maraviansun]

Great video! Can you do a video on moving and adjusting at a new school or team?

[@OneFABTeacher]

Thank you! I sure can!! ((Hugs))

[@TeachPlanGo]

#GrownWoman Stay respectful but keep pushing 🙌🏾

[@OneFABTeacher]

Amen!🙌🏾🙌🏾 ((Hugs))

[@michellemorrison7815]

Thanks for this

[@OneFABTeacher]

((Hugs))

[@Amberjackon]

i LOVE you.... just because

[@OneFABTeacher]

Love ya back sunshine! ((Hugs))

[@SimplyNatural84]

Yes! Be Professional. 👍🏿

[@OneFABTeacher]

Yes! ((Hugs))

[@garesonc9672]

Dealing with difficult colleagues became easier after I accepted Jesus. Suddenly I looked at these people as those who God loved so much that He gave his Son for them(as he did for me). It got a lot easier after becoming a Christian(and I became a less difficult coworker myself of course!).

[@OneFABTeacher]

Preach! 🙌🏾 ((Hugs))

[@larrydrain7065]

I LOVE YOU 👍👏

[@OneFABTeacher]

((Hugs)) sunshine!

[@heatherroberson1521]

I just wanted to say hi Miss May :-) I am an (almost done) homeschool mom to teen boys and also in school for K-8 general ed, social studies, and sped certification. I'm pretty nervous about returning to work. Listening to you, Real Rap with Reynolds, and Pocketful of Primary has been so encouraging as I gear up for this process. You guys are my shot of "can do" . Thank you :-) (especially for reminding us that God will make a way!) Show less

[@OneFABTeacher]

Girl, you're going to be FABULOUS!!!!!! I appreciate you love, kindness, and support!! ((Hugs)) and Blessings

[@heatherroberson1521]

Thank you