Dealing with Family Relationships - Abraham Hicks

[@canopyfields]

Wow this is so good! I come from a large family and most of them are angry, toxic, argumentative, blamers, complainers, unfair, accusers, no accountability and fussy petty. I'm often peaceful and happy when I was living overseas by myself, but after coming back to my family they really pushed me off my wagon. I really needed this.

[@notjustbundts7969]

I totally understand your post, but it sounds like you need to listen to this again. It’s never about them.

[@canopyfields]

@@notjustbundts7969 so you mean if you're a victim in Ww2, it was your fault, not Hitler or the Nazi's fault.

[@doctorfritznoel]

​@notjustbundts7969 Also, I think that's why this video was helpful. It helped to remember that the perception is in us, not family.

[@spetteruti]

Boy did I need to hear this..I have placed all of my self worth on my mother and I'm exhausted

[@mariameere5807]

Me too! We can do this! It’s going to be easier when she becomes pure positive energy but we will have to grieve a bit first and by then we can intend to have the best relationship with her ever!!! Blessings 🙏 💫🔮💫

[@HomiraSharif]

I love my mum and we had a good relationship but jealous siblings have turned her against me 😢 I'm trying to figure out how to get her back - I know she loves me 💕

[@spoileddiva313]

THIS!!! I swear it was like I was listening to myself and my mother. I am definitely going to replay this a few times to make sure I get it. It was so spot on!

[@clarajohnson1751]

Darn... This calls out the core of codependency.

[@pascalledouven7022]

She loves you always Love your self ❤

[@kaybryan2864]

I needed this right now. My daughter and I have patterns that keep repeating…

[@ddhqj2023]

I have the same experience with my daughter, who has the same experience with me and so we don't talk anymore.

[@Paula-pr1bo]

Me too x

[@jeanjacqueslundi3502]

Family is for the birds. Imagine : completely different souls, with different desires and beliefs FORCED to interact with one another, often for a WHOLE LIFETIME.....sprinkled with a lot of rules, laws and expectations from the culture.......often connected to deep shame and guilt ("you MUST love your kids" "you MUST take care of your parents etc) It's unnatural. A true family has to be of similar resonance. That's why REAL families are CONSCIOUSLY created. But no, we live in a society that encourages to have sex with the first person in front of us, that we aren't even sure often we really like deeply or are compatible with.......and then raise kids that often get in the way of our individual dreams that we never got to live (because OUR parents didn't encourage us to love ourselves and go for what we wanted)...and now we silently resent them. There's only ONE way to deal with problems in life. It's to be super self-aware and live CONSCIOUSLY. Intentionally. DELIBERATELY. We create most of our life experiences out of wounding, and then expect everything to work out.

[@mrs.prayerbear7377]

Me too

[@tessloneill7978]

Well my family doesn’t except my partner so I don’t talk to them. Helen Keller said something like-“Keep your eyes toward the sun and you won’t see the shadow.”

[@ddhqj2023]

@@jeanjacqueslundi3502You made some really good points. The only problem is that without those cultural myths (we must love our children, we must marry then have children, we must take care of our parents, etc.) we lose the cohesiveness of a society that has 'learned' to take care of the group. We become a society of me, me, me. We become a society where giving birth to kids and then abandoning them if we get bored or resent losing our dreams becomes somewhat acceptable. We abandon our elders, they suffer then die and when we see that, we begin to not reach out to others around us as we begin hoarding to avoid becoming like those elders that we abandoned. I think to learn to be self aware, to drop our expectations of others and to give some measure of 'a nod' to those cultural myths at least for phases of our lives, is how we build up a strong group that is a source of protection for each individual. And 'dropping our expectations of others' is the most important lesson we each need to learn. When you don't have expectations, you don't feel betrayed when things go south. When you don't have expectations and that daughter or son leaves us, we roll with it easier. When you don't have expectations and your parents have different opinions, you don't see that as a reason to exclude them entirely from even relationships with your kids, their grandchildren (with whom they could potentially have wonderful, fulfilling relationships with except you the parent have decided to not allow even that possibility). Yes, pick the friends that you chose to become your de facto family. But we can also, maybe should also, make an effort to support the cultural myths that over thousands of years, have made our families and communities and countries stronger because of it. Just my opinion.

[@noreenmccarthy4956]

Thank you, thank you, thank you! Not only for posting this powerful message AND your video went right to the reason we all choose to click on Abraham, which is, let's get straight to the conversation/message. No sounds/music audio distractions, thank you so much! I'm subscribed!

[@NY.888]

Thank you This is exactly what I needed. Exactly same situation. I’m so grateful now that I found this. 💓

[@brendadodd2562]

phenomenal , and yet again, its all up to us to feel better and things really do change, THANK YOU

[@pascalledouven7022]

So lets start feeling self worth with/ without what my lovely mam feels or says or things Just love her plus myself unconditional off what interaction we have. ❤

[@Otonium]

good one❤

[@wmpetroff2307]

Dang, I aligned harmoniously again with Ester. Huge Thank You to the brave woman whom shared her insight since I related to her situation. I could go on and on about both my parents. But NOW after hearing Abraham I do not feel such a strong urge to complain since ''I '' hold the '' choice'' with my feelings. Its gonna take a l o t of practice! I REALLY DO LOVE YOU ABRAHAM HICKS SOURCE ENERGY, I DO!!

[@emygrace2239]

Wow, it’s true.. my mother is not here now, and the same thoughts do still cause trouble and they do sometimes turn to guilt…wish I’d learned this sooner.

[@lemontree3785]

Thanks for uploading this video! This was exactly what I needed to hear!

[@soundiramallesureshkumar2908]

Thank you so much for all that you have said here.

[@gopurechild131]

Thanks for sharing this video. This really helped me. I can feel the desired feeling, and I am not depending on the external circumstances.

[@kaylaryder8371]

This is perfectly perfectly helpful for me!!! Thank you !! Very Very Glad for this!!!! Love & Peace 7 Liberation Mikayla

[@be-happy]

Wow! So thankful for this.

[@staygroovybritt]

This will be a process to accept and implement but very good stuff ❤

[@loveishappiness7330]

Thanks

[@universe5d176]

I love u Ester ❤️

[@janetsmyth984]

This is soo good. Thank you

[@shannonnefra9738]

Yes, thank you.

[@bymenz1388]

open your Heart my dear

[@Amy.Scorpio]

This is amazing advice 👍💕

[@rg6310]

How will this work with my old fashioned strict religious family? Will I end up cutting ties or will they be more like me and everyone gets along ?

[@factoryoffaith]

Where is the line drawn between being unconditional and being delusional?

[@kyrareneeLOA]

And can we reverse it too.... when the mother places all of her sense of self worth on a condition with their son or daughter... ...