Dealing With Fears of Aging / A Cottage “Me Day”/ Help Arrives / Over 60

The Cottage is having its “ME DAY’ today …and while Nanny is pushing the Dyson around…she also begins a discussion of ….The Fears of Aging….and the various ways to cope with them and to improve the quality of enjoying these Golden Years. Nanny finds something odd in Moosie’s World. Help arrives …..and Moose and Nanny look forward to some exciting events in the upcoming week. ❤️
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[@sheilacirioni4676]

My aunt had those when I was young( the birds).

[@dolorespresnell5382]

Hello Nanny....yes its tough with those darn glasses...love your hair style. You are such a beautiful woman...sorry about the cup. I'm glad Moosie dud not get hurt with hot coffee or chard pieces. Very fortunate... take care...love yall

[@candyboyer]

I totally understand losing stuff, I spend half my day looking for something- my tea, my phone, etc. - and I just turned 65 yesterday! LOL So great that you have family close, we do not. But we just do what we can & are learning not to stress over the rest. I also have segmented sleep, but I no longer lay in bed & let anxiety take over my mind. I read devotionals, I plant vegetables, I paint (started 4 years ago), I connect as much as I can with social media (LOVE this group!) But I try not to let social media take over my life. Love, hugs, and God's blessings to you and Moosie!

[@crushingtheir80snannyandmoose]

God bless you, too, Candy…❤️🙏

[@gretchenhejazi9463]

Loved this video. Your down to earth talk is so inspiring and helpful.

[@betsyward7915]

I needed this today Nanny!!! Thank you for the uplifting video. I really needed to hear positivity today.

[@crushingtheir80snannyandmoose]

I’m glad out video brought you some uplifting thoughts today, Betsy❤️

[@crushingtheir80snannyandmoose]

I’m glad out video brought you some uplifting thoughts today, Betsy❤️

[@juneelbert8534]

I am enjoying your videos. It is like you have spoke my mind and mad me feel ok. Especially this one. You are saying how I feel and how I am enjoying my world-family, is my blessings. Thank you for your frankness and for these beautiful visits. I found you today, and you are a Godsend. Thank you❣️💋

[@crushingtheir80snannyandmoose]

Thank you for your lovely words, June..and for being here with us.❤️

[@jocelynrose7911]

You are a joy. A light in this sometimes dark world. May God bless you as you bless others.

[@MaryToscano-h1l]

How lucky was I to find you. Nanny, you bridge the gap and help to make the passage of ageing far more understandable. Thank you for your ever changing and always uplifting prospective. You have made my life so much happier. Have a wonderful day Nanny and Moose

[@albertinadebeer4309]

Thank you Nanny for your supporting advice.🍀

[@margoquintana2283]

Nanny, you look absolutely gorgeous in blue. Any blue shade is going to be fabulous with those striking blue peepers of yours! I'm guessing you get compliments whenever you wear blue ❤❤

[@TizzyLisch]

With those shelves, you'll be unstoppable, Nanny! 👍

[@marymac1910]

Dear Nanny &Moosie, Thank you for dicussing fears of aging.You truly touched my heart with your advice. You are blessed with family close by and I envy that because it is a main concern for me. When I became ill there was no one to call for comfort or moral support.That is when my fears became real.I am stronger then I thought and all turned out .Friends are important but you cannot call them at 3am .That is why a loving family is a true blessing.

[@sallylapradd2900]

You look gorgeous.🌺

[@GlitzyFritzy]

I still can't believe you are anywhere near 80! Love watching you!

[@crushingtheir80snannyandmoose]

I look a lot better in the videos and with makeup; Mary… and maybe have been blessed with some good genes…you know how it goes…but thank the good Lord, I’m still hanging in there with my energy and have a good family to help out and keep me happy and grateful…BTW…I watched you make those strokes on your eyebrows and got a pen like that…it’s a little dark..but It’s working! AMAZINGtalents you have with.makeup …and I LOVE your bizarre 😂and fun videos! Love and hugs, Glitzy Gal Pal..❤️❤️

[@GlitzyFritzy]

@@crushingtheir80snannyandmoose Awww thank you so much...I'm so happy that works. Next basket I need to get my NYX pen back in there because I do love that thing too!

[@wilmatibbetts1322]

I Just have to brag about my friend Dotty. Dotty who is 79 has been fighting cancer for over 7 years. Last year she went on an African Safari, this May she has a Viking cruise from Amsterdam to Budapest. I currently living in Germany and have made arrangements to meet her at a port in Germany … I wouldn’t have her this close and not make the effort to see her. By the way before she went on the Safari told her chemo doctor I may have cancer that can’t be cured … but I’ll be darned if I’m going to die of boredom . We have been friends for over 30 years 💕

[@crushingtheir80snannyandmoose]

My love and admiration to Dotty and to you, Wilma…❤️🙏

[@jacquelinedonoghue2135]

So much good advice nannie…..thank you…..ageing without any family ….just my husband and myself, is a terrible worry. Love your boy, he’s adorable x🌸

[@ginagray603]

I have the same problem Jacqueline, but then I read about people who have children that have nothing to do with them, and I think that would be even worse. People with large, loving families are so blessed.

[@jacquelinedonoghue2135]

@@ginagray603 Gina my daughter, our only child died age 29 from complications after surgery. So with no other family apart from distant cousins, it's just us two. Yes would be terrible to have children and not speak to them. My thoughts are with you

[@theresaperry4520]

Great video nanny, say hello to Moose ❤

[@marigoldcarter5995]

Cute outfit Nanny. the hair style is too! Yep, old age (70) is NOT for sissies. The chronic aches and pains, no driving at night, the silence in my house, the lonely meals (I'm single) the kids wanna text I wanna talk.... it's harder than raising 6 kids! I never thought about getting old, I just suddenly was 🐱 my goal for 2023 is to change the things I can... hugs to you and Moosie. 🙏

[@crushingtheir80snannyandmoose]

Wonderful goal, Marigold…stay strong and do it!!❤️

[@roseyc.5846]

Marigold Carter SAME HERE. ❤️

[@nickiabbott5060]

Love your name, Marigold ! 😊 (from another uniquely named, after our dear Gramma, Nicolena !❤️😍 (I’m Nicolene) I receive so many compliments on this beloved name, even now, as a 70 year old, just last week ! ☺️ ......so I get to mention this favorite woman, every time I receive a compliment ! Love these sweet and kind moments, as I graciously and gratefully respond.....and as I try to realize our little kind words throughout our day Do make a Difference ! It can “make my day!” , so I really love to do the same “to” others..... God Bless Us All 🙏🏼 Amen

[@marigoldcarter5995]

@@nickiabbott5060 Nicolene. Such a pretty name Happy belated 70th! Thank you for the reply. I enjoyed reading it. God bless us all!

[@pamdietrich8628]

GREAT video.... thank you.xoxo

[@Angela-co1wb]

Nanny we are blessed to have you to uplift everyone. We enjoyed your video today. God bless you sweet sister. We need more like you in the world. take care of the moose let him know we’re thinking of him Thanks again You have it Nanny keep on a truckin The story’s of your friends are great keep them coming!! Have a wonderful weekend

[@crushingtheir80snannyandmoose]

Thanks, Angela…

[@loramuer9314]

You are a stellar example of growing older ! You will never know how much you motivate and inspire me.

[@crushingtheir80snannyandmoose]

Thank you, Lora❤️

[@pamjones715]

Nanny, you are delightful and wise! I’m definitely a Nanny, not a Joan.. i am 74, and my sweet hubby is 78 with some health challenges, but we enjoy our life and the simple joys! I do wish our children & grandchildren were closer because we all enjoy each other so much, but alas,our 3 sons and their families are spread out all over Texas, and our daughter & her family is in Colorado. I won’t go into my fears, and I’m generally not a worrier, but I do find myself waking up and feeling a little sad or worried a bit more these days than in past years. May God bless you and your loved ones, and continue to spread joy and encouragement to all of us! ❤

[@johnnyerrington4605]

Great video Nanny! I know to do the things you talked about, but I needed a reminder. I've had some medical issues the past few months and been inside a lot so this was uplifting for me. I just love how good Matthew is! When you said you won't be calling him all the time to come up here , he said "You better call me for something else." You and Moose have raised very caring children!❤

[@wendykornfein3337]

The subjects of the day, so relatable, that most don't take the time to share together. Thank you Dear Nanny...Moosie, you're so funny..

[@terrypelletti8535]

Nanny this video was at a perfect time for me Thank you sooo much Love to you and Moosey

[@barbararodgers3101]

Nanny, Thank you. I can relate to everything you spoke about. Getting old isn’t easy. But, you are definitely doing a great job of handling all that you are experiencing. You set a very good example for all of us that are aging. All the best to you and Moosie ❤️

[@kayellis4371]

Bless you. I understand. I am caregiver to my husband. He has dementia (4 years now). I am 75. It is hard. I love you. Kay

[@ansat5373]

Great advice keeping busy family and friends good for the body and soul

[@dianeb7420]

Such a wonderful video Nanny. I’m my husbands caretaker as he has dementia. I’m very content staying at home, doing things with family, working in my garden, having coffee with a friend I worked with before we bot retired, etc. And I love watching KZbin as that’s what brought me to your channel! Many blessings to you and Moose! Thank you for all you do! 🙏💕

[@me-ug5vk]

Nanny I am so sorry to hear the bad experience with Mooseys rehab experience. It is not uncommon. I have been an advocate for my mother years ago in a place in PA and recently volunteer advocate for the State of NJ. Hoping things will change. Its good you have shared this it helps make change. You are a great inspiration.

[@melissasparks9142]

Thanks so much for sharing about your ups & downs Nanny, sometimes I really need to give myself a good pep talk too! 👄 The old negative thoughts really hit hard sometimes, especially the morning. Love you sweet friend❣❣

[@catherinedoherty9676]

Great Video Nanny. Because I have had Cancer in my 50’s and 2 heart attacks. My health is not good as it should be. My Faith is a Great Help. I have Sore joints. But try to get out Every Day within my Limits. I love your Enthusiasm and Spirit. I Love and Appreciate My Life. I am Not Afraid of Death, but I Pray to be Healthy and have All my Faculties. I Admire my Body. It has been through So Much. I Give God The Glory that I am Still Here. I used to Speak Scripture when I had 3 months to Live. “I Shall Not Die but Live and Declare The Glory of God”. Lot’s of Love, Cathy from Scotland 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿 xxx

[@crushingtheir80snannyandmoose]

Wow, CathY….you are in such a great frame of mind,,,,and it is obviously with God’s help that you are living your life with such gratitude and joy..may He continue to care for uou for years to come, CathY…🙏❤️

[@mavep2855]

I can really relate to your glasses in the pocket. I walked around our apartment for 5 minutes looking for my slippers. They were on my feet-LOL. You and Moosie manage your lives very well and with the support of your loving family you will continue to find your way. Happy Sunday to you both. 🙏❤️

[@crushingtheir80snannyandmoose]

😂😂😂😂❤️❤️

[@grandaflora4191]

Thanks for sharing your wisdom. You are a blessing to us all❣️

[@lindabarkley9464]

I'm so so happy 😁 that I found you .

[@crushingtheir80snannyandmoose]

Me, too, Linda..❤️

[@roseyc.5846]

Nanny, my greatest fear was growing old alone, without a partner. It came to pass; I can't rely on my two adult children. I feel I may end up in a nursing facility. Who wants to grow old that way? Quality of life is everything. Rosemarie 💖

[@crushingtheir80snannyandmoose]

I hope you never give up trying to find peace and love, ROSEY…you really never know when that moment will come…Hugs, ❤️🙏🙏

[@concettaalcorn686]

God Bless Joan not me I’m with you my family keeps me busy 😊. When I sold my home I brought a condo everything on one floor I’ve been here for 19 years as I get older I’m glad I’m here I do have my family close and do have a couple of friends I’ve meet since moving. Most of my friends have retired and moved to Florida . Great video Nanny ❤

[@tuijawilkening]

Such good advise. You are an inspiration. Thank you.

[@sheilacirioni4676]

I am turning 75 in July. You are right about Covid. I retired 3 yrs ago,originally at 62 but kept working ,needed money. My husband is 15 yrs younger& in worse health than me in a different way.He still works part time. I have diabetes & a bad back ( no discs)left. So hard.. We live in Florida.Most of our friends have passed. That's depressing.Taking a trip to Daytona with our 2 friends that are flying down from Conn. To pick us up& go to Daytona at an airBNB for4&1/2 days. To the race,used to go for20+ yrs.Ought to be interesting. He almost passed5 times. He is 56. So She wants to make memories..so we will try. We all need to have people in our lives. Nanny,I like your style.. I am lucky I wake up everyday.I pray alot..it helps.👍🙏🌞🌴💙

[@crushingtheir80snannyandmoose]

We all just have to ‘keep on trucking’, Sheila…..having wa few things to look forward to and yo be grateful for what we have…you’re doing a good job, Sheila.. Stay strong and Gods bless.❤️

[@sylviahanohano8866]

Enjoy viewing and listening to all your sharing which I find uplifting and I’m sure for others also. You’ll enjoy your shelving it’ll make it so much easier for you to find things. Enjoy the rest of your day. Stay safe and Gods blessings to you and Moose. Love ❤️ you both 🥰💞💞💞

[@alicelee2360]

I read or heard some where that what everyone needs is someone to love something to do and something to hope for. I believe it to be true.

[@crushingtheir80snannyandmoose]

Me, too, Alice…❤️

[@Lindasmith-mh1vh]

Great video Nanny. When my beloved husband Stephen passed away 4 yrs ago Jan.11. I cried most of the day reliving that Thursday. It’s been this way every anniversary of his passing. The 3 kids call, 3 grandsons call and my many friends call me. My kids all live in different states due to their jobs. So does my 3 grown grandsons. Anywhere from 1200 to 750 miles. I’m in Florida mainly for my health and my kids keep wanting me to move to VA, TN and GA but I’m not moving until God calls me home. We have Senior Options here and most states have this to help elderly people by coming in once a week for 3 hours to clean your house, run errands, drive you to the doctor or to purchase groceries. One you call them it takes awhile to get interviewed and meet their criteria to get this help. It’s free for seniors that have physical limitations. My back doctor told me to quit vacuuming, sweeping, mopping and bending over because my back is so bad. So if you or any of your subscribers can use this service they can check on the internet for Senior Options in the state they live. It’s been a God Send for me. Stephen did all the house work and would sit everything off the tables so I could clean them and he would put them back. We always worked as a team in the house. Also, we that have Senior Options and as we age they can spend days and nights if we have no one to help us and we want to stay in our homes. They also have the small Senior buses to take us to the mall once a week, grocery shopping and to the doctor or any important appoint . In Fl they charge $4.00 for a round trip . Up to 100 mi. These little buses are like the gecko’s native to Florida, they are everywhere on every highway. Keeping my mind busy, making jewelry, reading my bible and just reading in general and watching your videos along with talking on my phone. FaceTime helps with my kids and grandkids since I can see them when we talk. I have a few friends and we go out to eat twice a month. My faith in God and knowing I have help when needed as I age gives me peace. It’s not easy and whomever called aging the golden years, there’s nothing golden except urine. It’s difficult when you’re walking fine and all of a sudden a knee bucks and you almost fall. Or you bend over to plant a flower bulb and your head hits the flower bed. Yes, it happened to me last week. I laughed afterwards because it was funny . I luckily was still on my feet but butt up in the air and no one saw me. I went to the shed and got my bulb planter. I have a daily goal of doing 10 things every day. In the house or in the yard. My house in on a knoll and it is difficult to walk in sand covered with sod. I think that’s why when I bent over to plant the flower bulb I couldn’t stop. I plan to plant 10 bulbs a day until I get all planted . About 200 or more. Setting goals makes me feel I’ve accomplished something daily. I’ve noticed my coping skills are getting weaker as I age. I know part is because of back pain and Addison’s Disease, but I’m like the little Steam engine train, I think I can, I think I can, I think I can and after I accomplish my deed I’ll say, I thought I could, I thought I could, I thought I could! I did it! This nursery rhyme from childhood has been my go to when I had struggles. I’ll merrily sing this until I’m finished . If anyone heard me they would think “ she’s lost it!” Especially if I added the choo- choo -puff -puff shug shug. I tell people that don’t remember the Steam Engine that could that’s what I am .,, the Steam engine that had a hard pull but made it over the hill with my load , not cars but a load that took a lot of effort. On this note, I’m going to choo -choo puff -puff along to bed . Please tell Moose hello. From Ocala, Florida and you to are the Little Stem Engine that could! Optimism and determination can move mountains a shovel at a time .

[@candyboyer]

My father-in-law used to say they call this the Golden years because you need a lot of gold to get through them! 😉

[@crushingtheir80snannyandmoose]

I just loved you nice long comment, Linda…good information about SENIOR OPTIONS…and how they can greatly affect your living situation! Everyone should have the motivation of the LITTLE STEAM ENGINE THAT COULD…I do admire your drive and fortitude to “ keep on chugging and puffing”❤️❤️

[@lindahoward710]

Very well said and inspirational!! I love it!!

[@vickymayers582]

Your best video yet - so thought provoking -as always thank you for putting so much time and thought into your vlogs

[@crushingtheir80snannyandmoose]

Thanks so much, Vicky…❤️

[@susanoutler1724]

❤❤❤ I got such a kick out of your glasses being in your shirt pocket! Something that happens to all of us 😂😂😂 😊

[@deborahr9237]

Such good sound advice. I live alone and got locked out in a very bad storm last week when I took my dog out. I put him in, and I got locked out in rain and very high winds. I located my garage door opener but the power was out. Sheer panic. When the lights flickered on after about 10 harrowing minutes I hit the opener and at least I got into the garage. I usually lock the door into the house but it was unlocked so I got in. I told my dog it’s a miracle we survive some days! Nanny, I am going to scold you: wear your glasses necklace! Matthew is so sweet & Cindy, too. Love the Valentine wreath from Moose. I agree use it indoors. It’s too pretty to be Xxxooo

[@crushingtheir80snannyandmoose]

Such a scary predicament, zDeborah…glad it didn’t last longer than 10 minutes.❤️

[@juanitagibbs2100]

Oh! Nanny I needed that talk my roll is reverse my husband is in you status ,and I am in mooses. I e had 5 back surgery’s and 3knees one came loose I make jewelry I am still mobile but ,y legs are week I do fall from time to time, l still love doing all the things you do but you can do so much more. So thanks for that uplifting talk. Blessings to you all.🙏👍🌹🌟😘

[@crushingtheir80snannyandmoose]

Stay strong, Juanita…sending hugs and prayers ..🙏

[@joanmorris4081]

Hi Nanny - this is Joan. I am more of a Nanny than a Joan. I am Joan to my friends and Iggy to my grands and of course Mom and Wife. Like you, my life (and hubby, ) is wrapped up in our children and grands. I agree with you, aging is a "gift". I am so grateful to listen to and watch you and Moose -- you both are so encouraging. Enjoyed the visit today! Love you both!

[@crushingtheir80snannyandmoose]

Thank you, Joan…❤️

[@erichwyatt6554]

Nanny you look beautiful , your skin and makeup are flawless p.s. I am a guy who worked in a salon / cosmetic studio and you are the epitome of fabulous . Love ya from Tx

[@marvaspence5252]

Excellent video. I enjoyed it all. Thanks for sharing the good, the bad and the challenges in such a joyful way. Greetings from Costa Rica. P. D. "Unreported damages" will be part of my discourse from now on (Smile)

[@donnagatsoulis5125]

I was surprised to hear you talk about how busy your friend Joan is & then have you say " I'm not Joan" lol! Your energy seems boundless, I doubt I could keep up with you! Thank you for your words of wisdom on aging, I'm going to be 70 this year & have been thinking about aging in the next few years , so thus was a timely talk for me.Thank you, Nanny & enjoy your tea party!❤

[@patsypryor9850]

my 60 year old sister lives with my husband and me ,she has taken broken dishes to a fine art. I just gave up and bought 2 sets of my everyday dishes !

[@reginabrown5059]

I’m a Nanny!! I’m so glad we have you to help us along the way! ❤ I love doing things outside the home but then I need home time.

[@BarbaraC02]

This was a wonderful conversation, thank you. Love your videos Nanny. Sending love to Moosie too.🌷✨💙🙏💋

[@BernieOReilly-ty3qu]

God bless you both 🎉🎉🎉

[@crushingtheir80snannyandmoose]

Thank you, Bernie..God bless you, too.❤️

[@saundragisler]

Thank You Nanny for this video ,depression is so real ,never spoke about ,you are so helpful .❤

[@crushingtheir80snannyandmoose]

Stay strong, Saundra…❤️🙏

[@sharonhardy7187]

Nanny, I have learned enough about your wonderful family to know you will be taken care of. I am more in the Moose camp as far as health is concerned. My wonderful husband still works every day but then he has to come home and do my chores. He has learned to cook as well as I can. It just works. Being old is not always fun but it’s just another season, isn’t it. Love you Nanny. Enjoy those girls, they are going to love it.

[@crushingtheir80snannyandmoose]

Love and prayers to you and Hubby, Sharon…❤️🙏

[@judithbullock6992]

Goodness Nanny this really is a deep, thought provoking video. So much wisdom coming from you. I always enjoy your videos so very much, but I also enjoy reading the Comments. So many people sharing their life stories, struggles, triumphs, happinesses, heartbreak’s. You give people a voice, a chance to speak, to share and be heard. I hope you realize that not everyone can do what you do, you have a true mission. God bless you Nanny, keep on keeping on! God less us all, especially you.

[@crushingtheir80snannyandmoose]

Thank you so much, Judith…I love that people share their feelings here, too. God bless you, too.❤️

[@beckibarnes917]

My husband always denies "unrepoerted damage!" LOL Blames it on the dogs somehow. :)

[@heatherangellight8558]

Thanks for your honesty about aging! The glasses were hilarious! We’ve all been there! Re worrying: it does no good. Just live in today and be grateful today. Does Moosie have a therapy person coming in to do seated exercises to keep his muscles strong? It helps immensely! It could keep him from getting bedridden. You’re a light in our world and I pray your worry is released so you can just enjoy each day we’re lucky enough to have. And yes, wear your mask and use disinfectant. It’s not over and people thinking it is are nuts. Hugs to you and the big M man! ❤

[@kathleenj.9829]

Wow….talk about timing, you covered so many of the feelings I’m dealing with these days. I intend to watch this video many times again as it makes me realize that these feelings of loneliness and frustration are quite normal. I’m trying desperately to get back into some form of participating in socializing and just generally having something to look forward to, but it just seems like a monumental struggle sometimes. Thanks so much for addressing so many of these issues Nanny.😘🤗

[@crushingtheir80snannyandmoose]

Stay strong, Kathleen …the struggles are real but there is still so much more to fight for…Hugs and love…❤️🙏

[@judyfinnegan6225]

GOD bless Nanny & moose! ♥️👋♥️

[@greenmoon9416]

What a great chat & advice 💖xx

[@myratraney]

Thanks you for that talk. I am 70 will be 71 this year . I still live alone not married by choice . I do have 2 gown sons who do live in the same town . Between you & me ...this is the only reason I live in this town ...my sons are both here . But I do worry about possible decline in my health . Last year I found breast Cancer during a routine mammogram ( I get a mammogram every year) so I had a lumpectomy & 20 days of radiation. This year the mammogram was clear ...Thank God !!

[@crushingtheir80snannyandmoose]

Great, Myra…thank you for sharing❤️

[@grimmmunro2279]

The specs in your pocket! Lol! That's me to a T. Love you nanny.xx

[@janebrady1389]

Acceptance and a good attitude are great tools to have on this journey of aging. 😊Most importantly a sense of humour helps and watching these videos always gives me a chuckle or two such a familiar story with the glasses👏😎😎😎

[@crushingtheir80snannyandmoose]

Thanks, Jane…❤️

[@suerhea2620]

Thank you for the encouraging advice. I’m 73 and need all the uplifting I can get!! 💕💕💕💕

[@susanbilawchuk1192]

New subscriber here🤗 I’m now 55 .. hoping to be around in my 80’s You are quite the inspiration ❤ Thanks for all your advice and encouragement I think I’ll keep watching 👍 Have a good day ☀️

[@crushingtheir80snannyandmoose]

Welcome, Susan, and thanks for being here and subscribing…❤️

[@dotsyjmaher]

I REALLY needed this..thank you. I have a lifetime severe abuse behind me... that is making me feel like I wasted my whole life on maggots. I was the family scapegoat AND caretaker from early childhood.. FULLTIME from 14... The beating degrading "mother" was totally incompetent... I became super organized and good at everything ... The maggots and the good ones ( my oldest brother and my father) started to live really well when I took over everything. But "mother" was ho..ing with my father's best friend...( THANK GOD WE DID NOT KNOW FOR YEARS) Her abuse and psycho behavior was inexplicable... youngest sister went on narcotics to cope ( from a doctor) ended up in a mental hospital "mother" separated, got alimony, got a good job.. DID NOT HELP MY FATHER WITH SISTER'S ILLNESS.. SHE FORCED THE SALE OF OUR HOUSE.. catastrophe for decades.. dropped out of college got a better paying job.. lived with OTHER sister who started abusing me...( transferring anger at bio mother to "the good mother") Long story short.. I STILL did everything.. Horrible life, theft by siblings, several natural disasters... I am drained...and worried about the impoverished future I still am facing... I look for hope online.. You inspired my...and assured me most people worry from time to time about the future..

[@crushingtheir80snannyandmoose]

You are strong, Dorothy….don’t give up hope for a better life ahead…I am sorry for your years of suffering.❤️

[@Blulate]

This was a lovely, positive video. I am so glad to be one of your subscribers.

[@crushingtheir80snannyandmoose]

I’m glad, too, LL…❤️

[@frankiemendes3147]

Thank you Nanny for such an uplifting motivational talk. You are so beautiful. Tell Moosie hello and I enjoy seeing him too. Love to you both 💕 I'm 78 and wouldn't want to go back if I could 🥰

[@2lmdi]

Wonderful video... thank you. Very timely for me. I was talking with a friend today and we agreed that aging with our own medical issues and our spouse's is the hardest thing we've ever done in our lives. When the boogabears show up, I do youtubes and video games.

[@jackieburfield8564]

Hi Nanny. Loved your little talk today. See you next time. 💕

[@marlenewilliams9115]

Nanny, I just don't have ahny joy. I'm almost 75 and have a lot going on mentally, I have a horrible, horrible time with depression anxiety and agorophobia! I've seen many professionals and gone through many treatments and nothing changes. I feel so sad because I know these are my best years that I have left. I just don't know what to do. My family isn't very close, even though we all live close My sister is the only one of the five of us that lives away, about four hours. My three brothers and my two sons and a granddaughter and her family all within twenty miles. It's my fault for the social distance between us. I say my fault, because of my mental health, which I can't change. You are so inspiring. If only I could change my mind set, as you do. I'm at my wit's end. I so enjoy your channel and I am so thankful that I found it! I, always, listen to you and don't want it to end. Thank you for sharing so much. I pray that this is the year I am released from this prison that I'm in, caused by depression. There just isn't any pat answers to mental illness, as with other illnesses! I'll keep fighting,. I won't be a statistic! Please keep me in your prayers 🙏. I love you and appreciate you and moose! Until next time! ❤️😘

[@crushingtheir80snannyandmoose]

You are in my prayers, MArlene..Stay strong !🙏

[@dethanygrizz3290]

Bless your heart!

[@dethanygrizz3290]

I always went and go to Mother Nature for healing, day or night...snowing or clear. Also positive and upbeat music...explore. Music soothes and heals animals too! Reading good books, they take you out of your mind set and takes you to another world. Go to a nice book store that's comfortable and spend the day there reading in a comfy chair, exploring. The one I go to let's you sit and read there books in a lounge area all day, and they have a cafe too.

[@geraldineoneill4495]

☘️ your aging advice was just what I needed to hear, thank you Nanny. I have a partner who is a serial hoarder and his area of our family room is crazy untidy. I love that you have designated "Mousse's World" into your family room. So I will now refer to that part of the room in our home as "Simon's World" 😊

[@crushingtheir80snannyandmoose]

Everybody needs their space, I guess, Geraldine… right? Thanks for commenting.. ❤️

[@patriciaratchford2826]

That happened to me today! I had to find an old pair of glasses to find my good glasses! 😂😂😂. I saw them in your pocket and tried yelling at you! 😂😂😂

[@barbara7611]

I always tell people to get up and walk even in your home. Bad knees like my husband and myself, I keep going because if you don't, it will get much harder to get around. My mother in-law stopped and never walked again before she died 5 years later. I'm 61 and I think about later in life what will happen to my family. I try not to worry much and focus on living now. Your makeup looks beautiful, that pink looks good, though I think

[@crushingtheir80snannyandmoose]

I so agree with you, Barbara…one of my fears with Moosie, too.🙏❤️

[@denisewilcox5598]

Another great video!!!

[@ivettegrant8389]

Nice home 🏡 😊

[@hannahrosa5485]

You are right. Aging isn't for the faint of heart. After my husband passed I lived alone, except for my aging chihuahua Sammy for nine years. It was isolating and a bit lonely sometimes. A local agency looked after my yard for me so that was nice. Sammy was nearing 18 when I had to let him go and boy did I weep, for months, every day so I sold and moved into an assisted living situation just so I could be around people. I can cook or I can go down to the dining room to eat. Nice to have that choice. The people are pleasant, the food not so much but I guess I am spoiled. Anyway I'm glad to be where I am. Like you, I am as busy as I need or want to be, no more. I have a few friends and we visit every few weeks, go out, do lunch. I walk a bit most days. I miss traveling so I google map places we visited, put it on street view and walk down memory lane. I can't complain. My faith, my prayers and my countenance sustain me hopefully for a long time to come. Thank you so much for your thoughts and openness.

[@crushingtheir80snannyandmoose]

You sound as if you have found your peace and contentment,Hannah So great!❤️🙏

[@DebbieDooo]

Moosie, you got some ‘splainin’ to do about that coffee cup! 😂 I’m definitely a Nanny rather than a Joan. I would like to be more organized, but that’s just not me. Have you ever tried putting on sound therapy crystal singing bowls for sleep/stress/anxiety? Maybe a sleep mask with integrated Bluetooth earbuds could help with the wandering mind during the night. Chamomile tea and/or dreamland CBD might help. I have been drinking some Pure Sleep warm milk and it really does help with deeper sleep. I know the struggle and it is no fun!

[@patriciag438]

Thank you as always for sharing your insightful videos! I appreciate you both..

[@BrassyBrunette]

I like how you prioritize spending time with your grandchildren. Im trying hard to plan things with mine as well. Im blessed that mine all live close by and I see them often. I have 10 (+ 5 more that came with marriages) and counting. Im praying the investment will pay dividens when my life gets much smaller as you describe.

[@crushingtheir80snannyandmoose]

Staying close is the key, BB…❤️

[@jaysmamma2750]

I talk to you. Can you hear me😁 I thought you were going to vacuum and I left to do a couple chores. Look, I'm 62 and have major health challenges. I'm blessed to have my wonderful husband, children and grandchildren in my life. I do crafts and I try to cook good food. My husband had a rare cancer in 2019. God saw him through it and he's almost 4 years cancer free! My husband and I talk about the things like what ifs but we just live. We play games and take walks when we can. During COVID we took long rides in the country when we got stir crazy. I think we have to trust the Lord and pray. He gives us joy when we're feeling low. Thank you for showing me what we can do as we get older. Much 💕💕💕 After watching your video I decided to try a collagen supplement. My husband says he thinks my face is plumper. I love your videos💞💞💞💞

[@crushingtheir80snannyandmoose]

I’m listening, M… you and your Hubby are doing it all right, J’s mama…enjoying each other, living your best life and leaving it all in God’s hands…Love to you both…❤️❤️

[@Sarah-mc7hn]

Loved it! ❤

[@crystalwhaley2363]

Very good tips Nanny! Can’t wait to see your shed organized!😊

[@lynnmazalewski2766]

hi jersey girl ur the best when u talk of singer co/ when i was 17 hired by roger eatherington at american national bank and trust whos family think owned singer well anyway ur doing well shows me how love can take u the distanc e im so proud of u jersey girl !!!!!!!!

[@crushingtheir80snannyandmoose]

Thanks, Lynn…❤️

[@janettebolin2991]

You are such an encouragement! I cherish your wise words. Much love ❤️

[@crushingtheir80snannyandmoose]

Thank you, Janette..❤️

[@szrn1239]

A slightly different weather vibe here in Ottawa,Canada....blustering smallish snow storm....It'll be a "Cocooning Day" then... Thank you for you candor and humour through what is called "the golden years".....

[@sandraammons6672]

Just a wonderful video, sounds like some of my days. I am 77, my husband is also. His health not so good. I am having cataracts removed soon. Good luck on finding lost things. I totally relate.

[@sandrakelbaugh1681]

I agree. My favorite times are family activities. I traveled, I've worked, I've gone dancing with friends. We have had card parties and fun mini get aways, and I have all my memories. But now, I enjoy an occasional lunch with a friend, but mainly my happiness lies within my home and garden and all my utube videos......life is good

[@jillharris3883]

Much love to you and Moose. I had to laugh at the lost eye glasses, because I am constantly losing mine on the top of my head. ❤

[@josnnemangan.679]

i am with you. Hubby best friend. Not a Joan. Lots more actjvity here in Florida. But i like my quiet life withDoug and kids and granchildren. I worry about all that stuff too. Hope we can stay at home. One more year going to Florida. i could be done now but there are two of us. Take care and tbanks.

[@paulamiller3878]

First thoughts on the video today... Nanny, you look so bright and beautiful today. The light blue denim is a lovely color on you. I'm only 56 but my parents are turning 80 this year and it's only in the last few years that it has struck me how lucky I am that they are still able to get around and take care of themselves and each other. Although they don't travel a lot, they are busy with community activities, dancing, gardening and various hobbies. Although my mom has had some health issues the past 15 years.. breast cancer and now Parkinsons.. she says she's not going to let it stop her from living her best life. She's definitely not the type to lie down and give up. I believe having a positive attitude is extremely important. Thank you for the talk today...you have no idea how much inspiration, joy and laughter you bring to my day. ❤

[@crushingtheir80snannyandmoose]

Thank you, Zpaula, so much. for sharing your story about your mom snd dad…they truly are living their best life despite the effects of aging…love and hugs to you all…❤️

[@vickylee5579]

Thank you for a very informative video. You are so delightful. I enjoy watching your videos so much. Love y’all ♥️

[@deboralove3986]

Yes! I have all these fears.

[@rosemariejanssen7790]

I have watched you for a while but I don’t think I ever commented before but you were an awesome inspiration today. You are so blessed to have lots of kids, grandkids and great grandkids. I am early 70’s and I am not as blessed. 20 years ago I lost My older son. In last six years I lost my middle son, a teen age grandson, 27 year old granddaughter and three best friends from childhood. My first and second husbands are in heaven too. I feel depressed some of the time. I loved your inspirational message today. You made me think…..I still have my wonderful youngest son and daughter in law, two grandsons and a granddaughter. And two young great grandsons. I am blessed to have them. I have my wonderful 3rd husband. We will celebrate 31 years next month. Thank you for your beautiful videos. God bless. ❤ you are so beautiful and look younger then your years. Again thank you and Moosy for brightening my day. ❤️😊

[@crushingtheir80snannyandmoose]

I am so glad you have recognized your present blessings, Rosemarie…and your strength and resolve to go forward despite your grave losses is so admirable…Hugs and love, ❤️

[@rosemariejanssen7790]

@@crushingtheir80snannyandmoose thank you. ❤️

[@wolvesarebeast2]

Wow--couldn't have said it all better !! Love you guys

[@bettyvann5499]

God bless you Nannie. I so needed this talk this morning. I am care giver to my husband right now who is having major heart issues and we take care of our adult son , Dane. And someone has to be with him at all times. He got sick in 2015. My husband had a major heart attack in 2016. He has damage from that heart attack . And at 63, I worry the same worries you talked about. Our lives have drastically changed since all of these things happened. And yes our world has shrunk . I do miss traveling with my husband. But I'm learning to enjoy home more as we go along. My telephone is my social connection. And we are blessed to live near siblings who will call or visit from time to time. I know God will provide as we get near time for more help with our son but I just cant get my head wrapped around what that will be for him. Many hugs sweet lady.

[@crushingtheir80snannyandmoose]

My prayers are with you, Betty…you are a strong woman…thank you for sharing. And God bless all 3 of you…🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️

[@MercyUS]

🦋may God continue to bless your family & all families with children & helpers as we go through the aging process. Thanks for motivating us! ❤️”Moosie’s World”!😂

[@gaynellray548]

I agree with everything you say... Will be 76 tomorrow..I have chronic pain nearly everyday..Mind wants to do so much but body most of the time says no..And we do have worries especially when it seems to be just you and your mate.....Everyone is caught up in their own little world. Love you nanny!!