Dean’s Wedding | Gilmore Girls

[@joshjones1848]

Dean in the words of Ted Mosby from HIMYM "Never bring an ex to your Wedding"

[@SarahRush-j4d]

dean hard time with jess about Rory very bady

[@lizziebkennedy7505]

It is so true.

[@katymvt]

Better yet, if you're still hung up on your ex, don't have a wedding.

[@greekre]

is he the father of her baby

[@epicsamurai5]

He was right.

[@maezin1386]

Poor Lindsey 😔

[@elianaalzate03]

Their small talk at the beginning is so relatable🙈

[@CC3193]

Dean was far too young for marriage (Lindsay also - she had no plans after high school!). Dean should’ve left Stars Hollow for a bigger town for study or work, and got away from the same old people… spread his wings a bit and moved on from Rory. Gotten some life experience & developed some independence.

[@athenstar10]

Doesn't that normally happen in smalltown folks?

[@jenniferwilliams5478]

They moved around the corner from their parents and Dean was then working 2 jobs to support them

[@jenniferferderer3855]

Totally agree

[@katymvt]

It wasn't that they were too young. it was that Dean was hung up on Rory, they hadn't planned their marriage out, and they had been dating for less than a year.

[@raynaroy157]

Bring a house wife and mom is a plan… it’s good enough. Period

[@michelletran2637]

To everyone saying never bring an ex to a wedding: the idea is having an ex there will bring up unresolved feelings (e.g. in himym, Stella running away with her ex). IMO (been single all my life) what better test is there than to have an ex at the wedding. If you’re so weak as to run away with your ex then good riddance, saved yourself a lifetime of pain.

[@JS-mg1mk]

It's just not appropriate. I mean I'm sure there are exceptions but for the most part it's just not a good idea

[@RebrandYourselfFor]

@@melanie7068 No, it would still bring up doubts from the person you're gonna marry, it would never be a good idea

[@melanie7068]

@@RebrandYourselfFor this comment makes zero sense to what I said. 🤣

[@krn2683]

Yeah the problem here wasn't having an ex at the wedding it was that Dean never moved on from Rory. Lindsay was just the rebound, I called the cheating the minute he said he was engaged. It also doesn't help that Lindsay and Dean were still teenagers when they got married, that's a recipe for disaster, they were already having problems long before he slept with Rory. It's why places like the south and Midwest have the highest divorce rates, religious pressure to marry young. The D+L marriage was doomed from the start. It would have fallen apart even without Rory there.

[@lizziebkennedy7505]

Who says that’s the idea? I don’t have unresolved feelings, I wouldn’t be marrying someone else if I did. I just believe that you shouldn’t have a bunch of ppl you’ve slept with all together. One of my best mates found out that his last two ex-GFs were now working on the same floor in the same department with desks next to each other (they all graduated the same degree) and were becoming buds, hanging out, and as he said to me, swapping notes! He was really disturbed by it. I’m all for staying friends and I have but I really draw the line at having them witness your new relationship. Also, I hate my stepdaughter’s mum, she’s a complete idiot and my stepdaughter deserves better. So I wasn’t having her at the wedding.

[@jsjhs2068]

Dean and Luke are on the same place. Lorelai and Rory want them, only if theyre not interested...

[@birthdaycow]

Girls always crying omg with no tears also girl u literally have everything live your life she only wants the things she can’t have

[@orifeldman3213]

The scene in the end is very good, Alexis preformed it very well

[@ibetterbearoundyou]

ngl I never liked Dean but even I felt so bad when he said "Why she didn't love me?"

[@kimyunaa6676]

i mean it was definitely rorys fault she really ruined him , i never got the reason why ppl hated dean he was such a good boyfriend and when she started messing with his feelings and liked jess even when she was dating dean he really had all the rights to be possessive and mad

[@ibetterbearoundyou]

@@kimyunaa6676 i hope we watched the same show 😭 bruh Dean was potentially aggressive: He always yelled at Rory, he never took into account her dreams to Harvard all because he wanted to settle for something much less, he was very jealous and possessive even before Rory met Jess. He even hit things in front of Rory and Lindsay. Rory is no better person than him, but she didn't ruin him. He was already a loser misogynist from the start, and it's Lorelai's fault that people see him as the best boyfriend Rory ever had.

[@fairywingsonroses]

@@kimyunaa6676 Watching the show as an adult, Dean really sets off some pretty significant red flags. He's jealous, possessive, and has really extreme emotional reactions to things. He immediately breaks up with Rory just because she needed a minute to collect her thoughts (totally reasonable) after he told her he loved her. Watching the show as an adult, I feel like Dean is really immature and has a lot of issues with trust, self-worth, and emotional regulation. By the time they break up for good in season 3, I was ready for Rory to move on. She deserved better, and while I don't condone her behavior regarding Jess, Dean is definitely no saint. I think it's sad that he was never able to really move on, but his relationship with Lindsey proves that he also wasn't up to doing the work of moving on. He took the literal first girl who came along after Rory and spent his entire marriage being bitter and emotionally violent. Honestly, I think the guy needs a good therapist.

[@SpongeBobSquarePantsNickJr]

When you break up write down what led to the decision to go separate ways so when the feelings resurface you remember the reasons it didn’t work out the first time.

[@eves0195]

Shes gorgeous and omg feel the awkwardness

[@cocotollini2081]

EXCUSE ME WHEN WAS SCHMIDT ON THIS SHOW!?

[@Circa1628]

he always pops up somehow. usually for weddings, ' Promising Young Woman"

[@Gamegal07]

He was stupid to marry Lindsay. He's looking hot though.😂

[@Bekka_boo13]

Lindsay was nice & sweet…Dean shouldn’t of invited Rory & Rory knew Dean was married & she only wanted Dean cause he was with someone else

[@afoy550]

​@@Bekka_boo13It doesn't matter how nice Lindsay was . man should not marry a woman when he's in love with a different one. Dean was not over Rory at that time

[@jadeunknown5581]

That almost well it made me cry. Why didn’t she love me. Im a sap smh

[@mistressofthedark1476]

I had an ex at my wedding and not just any ex, my first true love ex. He wasn't the reason why we got divorced. The groom turned out to be an abusive piece of shit, and that's why we divorced.

[@asr4405]

4:32 alexis looks so innocent

[@xtxpxhx]

she chose jess.. this was nonsense

[@RoseRedd-k4b]

Why is Rory rambling so much, you used to make out with this man. And she has this weird look on her face when she watching Dean getting married.

[@paull.rogers4562]

Is it just me or does anyone else find Lorelei and Rory really selfish while revisiting the show?

[@jamiedianne6778]

It’s not just you.

[@coloredpencils01]

I find Rory incredibly selfish, but not Lorelai.

[@Wxtst.3]

Yeah I can’t stand Rory lol

[@deardarling3611]

Ask Medina about😂

[@MariaRosas-pk1hi]

Because Rory is a brich girl she already has everything

[@Sareybeary]

Lol no she's not. The entire premise of the show is it's her and her single mom working hard.

[@linastrindlund2830]

Love Kirk!

[@RoschellePadua]

Dean not supposed to get married too young, yeah right, common sense, Dean still in love with Rory, I don't think so, getting married absolutely not,

[@zena4357]

مين جاي من الفيديو هذاك يامن هواه🖤😴

[@epicsamurai5]

Schmidt’s in this episode!

[@toeroekl1285]

Beside the fact that the people in this series are attractive, I don't get why people watch this. Don't you think that all conversation are just fking annoying??? Its like conversation between 10 year olds. Damn.

[@stardusmarina]

omg yess

[@justmejenny7986]

So why are you here?

[@aabee3695]

The plot as a whole

[@tobias9230]

Lol, Lorelei and Rory are the most annoying self-centered characters I've ever watched.

[@mikylejoubert8347]

@@tobias9230I think you have to watch it through the lens of a musical (without the music)

[@MariaRosas-pk1hi]

No forget it

[@MariaRosas-pk1hi]

No peter is there forever

[@loralaig]

Who did Dean ended up with? i have seen the AYITL show but i can't remember.

[@dorinadejonge5793]

Her name is Jenny, he talks about her when he runs into Rory in Taylor's, they have 3 kids and expecting the 4th!

[@loralaig]

@@dorinadejonge5793 thank you for the info!

[@oooh19]

@@dorinadejonge5793I’m glad he finally got his happy ending

[@orifeldman3213]

@@oooh19only we never got to see it, in the original show it didn’t end on good note with him

[@jenniferwilliams5478]

I hated that storyline

[@lauricefranklin2725]

Omg Schmidt

[@hennywig]

Her face 💔

[@jakyungrhee2180]

Why did Dean marry Lindsay so quickly and betray her?

[@opheliawinfrey9501]

I still wish they were endgame

[@natalie8160]

me too ❤

[@MariaRosas-pk1hi]

It's my training

[@carmenl.8285]

If she is sad why did they broke up?🤔

[@MsSonnencreme]

I am gonna be Maid Of Honour at the wedding of someone I used to date The Best Man happens to be my boyfriend 😅 oopsie

[@dinavienna]

I think it means you guys get on amazingly well after the Romantic stuff - and you care about each other still and I think that’s actually fantastic.

[@MsSonnencreme]

@@dinavienna that's such a sweet reply and certainly true. We just know that what liked about each other was platonic affection :)

[@lauraelizabethbrown]

Sounds like a tight knit group of friends that just resolved things maturely. It's certainly not for everyone, but you're the exception not the rule.

[@dinavienna]

@@MsSonnencreme unfortunately it’s quite rare when egos get in the way but liking or loving someone as a human no matter the label of the connection is beautiful. I think the world would be a much better place if people were able to live meaningful relationships with maturity and care for each other without a preoccupation with fitting into acceptable categories

[@MsSonnencreme]

What a sweet comment thread this is, thanks for the positivity. I am just excited to see two beautiful humans getting married and I, alongside my partner, get to help them 🥰

[@ForeverSweetx3]

Dean was so dumb. If he had second thoughts, he shouldn't have married Lindsey. That's not fair to her!

[@MariaRosas-pk1hi]

God no

[@MariaRosas-pk1hi]

Peter doesn't do this shit

[@MariaRosas-pk1hi]

That lead me to watermelon

[@MariaRosas-pk1hi]

These things are never wrong there little watermelon stains because I'm not suppose to get watermelon stairs im suppose to get real stairs

[@angelisa368]

I always found the dialogue of this show to be excruciating! Ugh! Can’t even get through this few minute clip.

[@nadianurun6259]

You missing out

[@lizziebkennedy7505]

Then why click on it?

[@lacali2346]

Read a book

[@Fridaca]

​@@nadianurun6259 Nah

[@bankrolldame]

Same even in 5th grade I feel like they all talk the same…I couldn’t get thru it

[@janejane-tk3wx]

huh?

[@beabadobeeanne]

now this makes me stop watching gilmore girls😭😭😭🖐️🖐️

[@MariaRosas-pk1hi]

Bridget I can't even get over the first 🥇 date 🌹🌹📅 and In my experience throughout all these scenarios I've been told to say something