Dear Future Wifey S2, EP201: Abstain to Gain (Lestine Bell)

Is waiting to have sex just a religious ideology or is there actual value in abstaining? Lestine Bell, a minister of the gospel, is the most benefitting guest to speak on the subject. She has dedicated her life to encouraging single women to walk in purity. This episode is entitled, “Abstain to Gain.”
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[@cpbeauvoir]

"My womb can't heal a man's wounds"... I nearly cried when I heard her say that 😭

[@chrissyqueen8407]

🙌🏽

[@kingeliii9011]

No it can't heal it, but it can put a temporary band-aid on it.

[@Sophia-cd6sk]

I cried 😢

[@MsJafair]

Baby she said it all right there!

[@charismafranklin5175]

Me too!!!! My God!!!!!

[@mrsgondwe]

Can we please have a speaker that can address celibacy to teenager boys. Our boys need to be the different generation.

[@natashaj4078]

Yes please. Would love to share this with my nephew.

[@MsAqaqSwsw]

@@natashaj4078 that part

[@nova_changes9598]

Yesssssss Lawd!

[@ONEOFAKINDSISTAH]

This is so necessary for both genders.

[@reginawheeler966]

Yes

[@blessedgirl26]

4 years abstinent for me after a 17 year marriage that ended because of his infidelity. I refused to start my next relationship with sexual sin that ended my last one. I'll wait.

[@divinelychosen5554]

Am with you sis! Similar story.

[@SweetTeaism]

Same here we must stay strong in Jesus

[@robinnewton1061]

9 years after my divorce

[@biblelovingirl]

Aemn, powerful!

[@crystaldevries952]

Same thing here

[@yakineamarie3848]

WOW!!! “You’ll never be able to be faithful to your wife unless you first become faithful to Me.“ MY GOD!!! 🔥🔥🙌🏽

[@DearFutureWifey]

He said what He said.

[@yakineamarie3848]

@@DearFutureWifey and God spoke volumes when He spoke that truth to you. 🙌🏽🔥

[@debraafriday]

This is so powerful 👏 thank you for this message absolutely true.

[@coreyhaga2623]

Well said 😇

[@nyanisamajavu4508]

Ameeeen 🙇🏾‍♀️🙏🏿🙇🏾‍♀️🙏🏿🙇🏾‍♀️🙏🏿🙇🏾‍♀️

[@shaywatts6338]

“Sex outside of marriage blinds & binds you from the truth of the character of that person” WHEW‼️ Lestine is phenomenal‼️ We NEEDED to hear everything she poured out!! Let me 🏃🏾‍♀️ to follow her on social media. What a way to start off season 2!

[@tamaraa9846]

She is great I wish she had a podcast .I have never heard of her before and this podcast just came up on my recommended and I’m so glad I listened to it.

[@shaywatts6338]

@@tamaraa9846 This is one of my favorite podcasts! You shld check out season 1. It was soooo good!!

[@tamaraa9846]

@@shaywatts6338 will do .

[@jr9941]

Amen, Amen....

[@msaishathomas]

Such a powerful takeaway. Powerful message!!

[@Dr.Thandi]

“A man’s healing has to come through worship, not through my womb.” Preach that!

[@andreawinzer7892]

Amen!

[@mishawilliams4319]

@thandeka Menu THATS A WORD, THAT PART🙏🏿💍👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🎉🎊👑

[@RobinHughes1]

Absolutely loved this episode. She moved me in her story beyond words. When she said ‘ I know my womb can’t heal a man’s wounds’ that was deep. ❤️

[@DearFutureWifey]

She preached!

[@KeepHealingSis]

That word alone will preach all by itself. So powerful!!

[@drealanette4766]

That part!🙌🏾

[@jr9941]

Amen! And what about the part when she said, "men are moved by what they see" and "women are moved by what they hear"! Come on somebody....That truly was a word!!! She was sooo inspiring and is so beautiful!!!!

[@RobinHughes1]

@@jr9941yasss 🙌🏾!

[@nontwenhlemchunu3912]

I made my purity vow at 15 years old, I’m 40 now and so wish this conversation was a norm between women and men in The Body of Christ. Thank you for this very important work.

[@Lovelifebeautiful1143]

Same! It’s not difficult! It’s a blessing!

[@jupiterj6913]

I’m more passionate about my purpose than being with a person 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾preach it sis! God is the perfect restorer! There’s NO relationship like a relationship with God.

[@reginawheeler966]

Yes

[@dr.veronicaoutlaw4624]

Abstinence builds discipline. When you're disciplined and able to kill your flesh, in Jesus Name, temptation is easier to resist....at least for me.

[@soystef]

yesss amen

[@joycewatt800]

Amen and amen!!!🙏🏾

[@ebonyjet9249]

Agreed!

[@levibondjr4650]

Exactly! Discipline is monumental!

[@mishawilliams4319]

YES I CAN FIGHT TEMPTATIONS WITH MEN , WHEN IM IN THE PRESENCE OF MEN , ON DATE, IN PUBLIC, NEVER ALONE . THE MAN CANT COME OVER MINE HOUSE, I WONT GO TO HIS WITHOUT OTHER COMPANY😁😊🙏🏿

[@amonise154]

This episode has been sitting on my watch later since it's release. This was very much needed. I haven't dated nor had sexual relations for 2 years. But today 11.19.20 at 5:40 pm I have consciously and intentionally commit to abstain from sex until marriage. Today I decided I actually want marriage. Thank you for this word.

[@kejuanlynette8531]

Yyeeesssss to this whole interview!!! God dropped them charges!!! Whew! Trauma, molestation, court, teen pregnancies, abstinence, restoration, ministry. This woman is a walking testimony 🙌🏽

[@motherantioch-pomona1610]

You know I was thinking 🤔 the same thing! They would be an awesome team! #Waiting4myKing 💙👏🏾🙏🏽

[@joanasantana849]

Thank you for the encouragement I’m 41 and 1 year abstinence After a 8 year failed marriage Jesus is Lord 🙌🏾❤️🙏🏾🇦🇴

[@juanitamitchell5529]

She need her own podcast 🤗

[@LadyDeeCee]

@@LestineBellTV Please let us know when you are ready to launch it. I have a similar testimony to you . Thank you for being bold enough to share. I'm currently going through a divorce due to domestic violence. Please pray for me. Peace and Blessings, Debra Clarke

[@sheliajohnson4540]

Yes

[@ThisGirl_Tan]

From the moment this woman started speaking I knew this episode would be everything I needed to hear.

[@kimberlyhill948]

“Sex outside of marriage blinds & binds”. Yes ma’am, I have been there ...tell the truth!

[@coachphillipah6965]

This women’s experience is similar to mine. The abuse makes it easier to abstain because I want to experience that wholeness and take back the choice of giving myself to a man. I now see that there is nothing wrong in quickly moving on when I see red flags and not just jump into any relationship just because I am getting older without children. I have chosen to wait and set the right foundation for my children.

[@Royal_Diadem]

I really enjoyed listening to her testimony. She sound like me, l💓ve her quote stated ... @20:20 "Because I don't play around with soul ties, I don't play around with red flags🚩🚩🚩. I don't play around when the Holy Spirit speak to me and say ah, ah, ah, ah ah. I don't care how fine he is, I don't care what he has, I don't care what his position is, what his status is I don't care about any of that stuff. Because I'm so disconnected from the things of this world 🌍 none of that moves me. If the Holy Spirit 🌬️ says move, and if he says ah, ah, ah that aint it, I move quickly! Yes girl be ye not unequally yoked!

[@mureenporter9981]

So real i enjoyed listening to this podcast.

[@ed000]

Almost 2 years of abstinence from a 12 years of abusive marriage which ended because of his infidelity, emotional, psychological, financial and sexual abuse towards me!! I am doing all I can to love my self again and be whole again.

[@ladyb3796]

Sounds like a narc. Did he use the Bible as a weapon too?

[@ed000]

@@ladyb3796 Yes he did. He was a church leader too. After I exposed him,he demoted himself from the post. His mother and siblings used the Bible, Bible quotes to cover their behaviours. There were lots of secrecy in their family. I glad I divorced him. I am so free and happy now

[@ladyb3796]

@@ed000 I thought so. I dealt with someone similar. Religious narcs use the same tactics to destroy because they let the same demon run them. It’s a lil deep for this channel. I’m glad you made it out.

[@jenicewilliams2085]

"Sex outside of marriage, blinds you and binds you."- Lestine Bell I absolutely needed to watch this episode. Thank you mighty woman of GOD for your wisdom. Thank you for being so vulnerable and sharing your story. I know this episode blessed so many people because it truly blessed me.

[@debbiehilton2614]

Who's First Lady is this??? Some Apostle needs to come get his Queen so they both can give the devil a beat down, breaking chains off of demonic relationships!!!

[@lisawolf727]

Exactly!

[@letsbefruitful5457]

Amen !

[@binacawahaca9406]

He busy wasting time with some Jezebel

[@vernelledouglas1801]

You comment is so positive and encouraging. Thanks.

[@KellieLynnBruce]

Right!👑🙇🏾‍♀️🥰

[@sharonsavage5596]

Lestine was so inspiring, this podcast was a total affirmation of my personal journey. My season to evolve thru the will of God🥰🙏🏾❤️

[@sabrina21clark]

The purity ceremony for both women and men sounds AWESOME!!!

[@zenaniv]

Something I'd love to attend 💕

[@joycewatt800]

If you don’t CUT OFF COMMUNICATION YOU CAN’T HEAL. Period. End of discussion.

[@lovie1541]

I'm at a loss of words. Minister Bell, taught a whole word! I shouted, ran in my living room and my neighbors below me are probably wondering what's going on. This was a blessing. I cut a soultie after the show. Thank you both for your time and obedience. May your ministries continue to be in overflow. Stay blessed. 😊🙏🙌

[@DearFutureWifey]

Wow! Praise God

[@promisegrace2248]

I pray her husband Finds Her Quickly in jesus Name they have work to do 🤗♥️

[@leamberwilliams6983]

Yesss!!!

[@melanieross0073]

This is what it’s about right here. Oh the journey is hard, but God is faithful. We need more videos like this.

[@calledbygrace-fionaokwado5125]

I can tell she is a powerful woman in Christ! I was not expecting this message to be so cut throat deep and necessary for me to hear! I’ve been on my own celibacy journey for a year this month and I’m so grateful to God for keeping me and leading me back to his will! Amazing 😍

[@camilleandriette]

It is so ironic this episode came down my timeline and I woke up today feeling that need to stop all the soul ties, stop abusing my womb for selfish desires, and to abstain from sex until marriage. I lost a boyfriend behind this decision, but it just means he wasn’t for me. This conversation gave me so much confirmation ❤️. I did something similar to the ceremony Lestine mentioned last Sunday. It was a spirit naming ceremony, but healing your womb and self love was a main focus. I feel truly transformed and ready for the journey ahead.

[@momoats]

My my my... she didn't come to play. I love her depth and her passion and just everything!

[@drealanette4766]

Lestine Bell is truly a manna from Heaven for us who are vowing to abstain until marriage and those who are thinking about starting their abstinence journey. I don't have people in my life who are on this journey so these kinds of videos are food for my soul. Thanks Laterras for having her, letting her bless us with her wise words, and for your transparency in where you are in your journey as well. Great video!

[@DearFutureWifey]

To God be the glory.

[@hellenkekana8791]

Same here, I don't have people in my life that I speak about this with, they don't understand my decision...

[@MsToyaMonique]

This was soooooo good. And she’s absolutely stunning. 🙌🏾 Soul ties are real, narcissism is real. Thank you God for removing him...I’m three months removed and boyyyy it’s so hard...Ladies, please pay attention to red flags. Let your heart break so your soul can heal...you’ll be on top!

[@pamelarichards464]

That’s right, God is the only one who can heal us

[@preciousblackstone5051]

So glad Holy Spirit is talking to the host to be pure too. Men NEED this TOO!!!!!!!!!

[@stephnewhitfield7954]

Men need to lead in this

[@Kassondra]

It's crazy how you think you're alone with what you're going through and it's so many women who are going through the same thing.... It's sad but it also feels good when someone can relate but has healed and can actually help us that are still healing and trying to get through this ❣️

[@Bring_Me_Light]

This episode is timeless. "A man cannot heal me." THANK YOU, SISTER."

[@angelad7135]

Powerful message! I ended a long-term toxic relationship this year. I was lead to abstain and break soul ties with him. This is confirmation for me! Being faithful to God 1st replaced my crown. I am moving forward in this new season! Thank you both! 👑

[@zinagrace2113]

This is divine encouragement for me! I've been abstinent for 9 years and lately I've been feeling tormented in my flesh for sexual pleasure. I have not touched, kissed, or entertained a man in 9 whole years! I know it's truly by God's grace that I've been able to go this long! I think more stories like this should be talked about because it really encourages the abstinent folks in the back🤣. Pray my strength, saints!!🤣

[@Thriving_tao]

May God keep giving you strength , more grace in Jesus name

[@judeenblair9619]

God's grace is sufficient to keep you until....

[@nathanyadangelo6313]

I pray God continues to strengthen you.

[@msterry133]

She preached that thing. I love when she clapped her hands on emphasis.👏🏽❤️

[@loidemuhuura3899]

Dear future husband, Please listen to ‘Dear Future Wifey’ podcasts! 😁🙏 Our relationship will never be be the same❤️ Your love, Wifey💃🏼

[@DearFutureWifey]

That's absolutely beautiful. Thank you.

[@zenaniv]

Updating my social status with this right now 😁😁😁

[@ubaok24]

Bet.

[@nathanyadangelo6313]

So true! I'm here asking God heal me so I can be whole for my future husband! ! I know He's also healing my future husband so he be whole for me.

[@charsmith8217]

It is so beautiful to hear abstinence spoken of so positively, there is no negotiation with God's word about sex outside of marriage. It is not easy remaining abstinent in a sex saturated world but it is God who we draw close to, to keep us. I like my sister, await my God given husband.🙏

[@tamikosyrie5682]

This is sooooo good! My eyes were opened once covid hit. True colors were shown. Definitely taking time to get closer to God and WAIT. 💜

[@ubaok24]

Also.

[@MylahStanton]

Love this. I'm grateful for the journey. I refuse to put myself into a situation where I have to recover from brokenness again.

[@maiteletsoalo80]

I just started my journey of purity last Sunday. This has been in my mind for years and finally I've taken a step to do it. I'm grateful that God reassured me that in this journey I'm not going to be alone but he'll be with me each step of the way. I don't know what my future holds but I know his grace is sufficient and that he's not a man that he can lie, what's in my heart right now is purely from him. My reason for abstaining is that I fell in to thirst traps because I seeked validation from a man and I saw myself falling into depression because I saw my family and friends getting married and having kids and that has been a goal for me. So this decision is for my healing to fall in love me and Jesus, the only way he shows it to me. #Subscribed I think there's more to learn from here

[@denik9614]

Be strong and know that the enemy will come at you with distractions. Do not fall for them because it is only sent for you to forfeit your promise. God has a plan for you and this walk want be easy, but it will be rewarding. So proud of you for taking this step!! I know you can do it!!! In the name of Jesus!

[@mirandabuhlebuzilesibanda6705]

Wow 🔥🔥🔥When she said "the time is now and we dont have time to be outside the will of God"......i love that 💖

[@shareewalls6032]

I’ve been practicing abstinence for almost 7 years now. I can honestly say it’s a difference when it’s about you and when it’s all about God. It became more about God just this past year 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 All I can say is God is so awesome!!!

[@christinam8779]

She planted the seed and watered it for me. This message was for me, my friends, family members, my church members, everyone...I'm tired of Cycles and want to be Faithful to God and be Healed.

[@calledservant7935]

This touched my heart. I’ve had issues with a trauma filled life and ended up marrying a narcissist. I’ve been abstinent since 12/20/16 and there is such freedom! I’m loving me and the journey God has me on. We need to have these hard conversations and share our abstinence story with our brothers and sisters.

[@paulachambers7756]

Wow, Wow, Wow!!! HEAVY, UNDILUTED and Thought-provoking truths I am going to have to watch again

[@marynakamya4149]

Watched 5 times and still counting

[@danascorner1796]

This blessed me so much!! I have experiences that cased trauma as well and then I married young after getting pregnant young with my husband being unfaithful. This message empowered me and lifted me to walk this journey of saving myself for my future husband. As I am a minister of God’s word I want to embody it all so that I can edify him! Thank you for this podcast! Thank you for making these stories of transparency to help us be who God wants us to be!!

[@royalt1113]

“Goodbye at hello!”... wheres the usher blanket, I fell out!!!

[@nikistinnett3737]

Wow. Wow. Wow. This is exactly where I am in my journey to rebuilding my relationship with God. Thank you both for the affirmation. This was so needed.

[@DearFutureWifey]

You got this!

[@dee1walker870]

Okay Laterras! You out the gate strong for this season! This was L.I.T.🙌🏾

[@takeauthority30]

Needed this.... Right on time. I don't know any women with similar convictions as mine. To know I'm not alone with little things like not kissing or playing with sexual sin in any way strengths me to stay the course and not worry about men who clearly are blinded and not tailored for my heart. So many confirmations and gems ....thank you and God bless you for being obedience to His call beautiful woman of God.

[@KeepHealingSis]

This is the most powerful episode to date and deeply sacred. More conversations like this are desperately needed. So much more I could say, but this episode can preach all by itself. I just thank God for saving my soul and awakening me to His word. The BEST decision I EVER made was to give my life to Him, submit to His plan, abstain and wait for God’s best. I wish everyone well and pray your strength to all who are living a life of abstinence and pursuing righteousness in this day. 🙏🏾

[@nb5346]

This segment hit home . Who God chooses become great queens and kings. What the devil intended for evil God makes it good. Thank you for using this ministry to heal and minister to brokenness in scared souls. Empressdivine light and guidance 🙏💐

[@Kayla-qs8rh]

My husband is sleep rn!! Praying for his deliverance. God will come through

[@zenaniv]

God amazingly uses men and women the devil saught to destroy. This woman has been through it all. And her experiences make her to love God even more ❤️ I love you sis Lestine. God bless you. Our journeys are similar. The enemy gets to most of us while we are young 🔥🔥🔥Grateful God delivered us from the snares and the pain of it all.

[@patriciascorner4686]

I loved this episode 😍, I'm really glad you did this. Abstinence is such a beautiful thing, it really helps to guard our hearts. And yes, soul ties create such chaos and they derail and delay us from our destination. I'm waiting for marriage too to kiss 😣

[@Anid__b]

My God Lestine! This entire episode was great. I loved most that it wasn’t only addressing women but men too. Let’s get it I’m here for the men’s purity ceremony that’s powerful!! Thank you for your obedience.

[@zenaniv]

3:54 minutes in and she's already touching my issue. Lord Jesus, thank you.

[@hs-qk9qf]

No lies detected in this interview! This woman here is the truth, I saw myself. I have to meet her, her vibes are beautiful. Second season is lit for real!!!

[@HelloMyNameIs___________]

AMEN!! I love this confirmation as I, too, have been abstaining for the last 18 months. I KNOOOOWWWW that I cannot heal a man's wounds nor can he heal mine...not can he make me whole...Only God can do that! I love your strength! Thank you for sharing your story ❤️🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻

[@MsBdoll87]

Maaaan I needed this refresher! I just had my 4 year abstinence anniversary. Almost didn’t make it! I started this journey in 2012 and was abstinent for 4 years before succumbing to my flesh! Thank God for keeping me. I pray i will be abstinent until marriage this time. I can say my mistake was lack of boundaries and casually dating men i knew weren’t on the same page as me spiritually as far as our beliefs. I can also attest to her comment about sex keeping us from our purpose. God told me to go back to school during that time, but those relationships distracted me from doing so. Here i am again on my purpose pursuit. This time i am asking God to keep me as I completely unable to keep myself pure.

[@alisonassanah-carroll1957]

Oh my God! This was absolutely phenomenal! Truth, humility, honesty, transparency! God is creating the perfect man for me! Thank you for confirming that for me Lestine. I have been and will continue to be celibate until I say "I do"!

[@BrandyNicoleChristian]

Yes ma'am. I always say " the enemy comes to steal kill and destroy in your youth!"

[@latonyawilliams4157]

This was a phenomenal episode. Lestine was vulnerable, encouraging and reaffirming. And Laterras, "we" all are excited about your journey. The ripple-effect of your "open obedience" has already begun. We're praying for you and, no doubt, your future wifey is too!

[@NymphEditz]

🙏🏽 I NEEDED THIS.. I have been in a relationship for a year and a half that’s not going anywhere. I broke up with him 3 months ago and still he contacts me thru different numbers. When I got back with him when the pandemic started I felt not as close to the Lord. Now I left him and somehow cannot get him to leave me alone. Today, I felt being pulled back in and I watched this.. Please pray for me. I know he is not the one I’ve known it all along.. THANK YOU!!!

[@marymac1972]

This is soooo powerful! 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 She is speaking truth. Faithfulness in marriage flows out of faithfulness to and through God. It’s proof that His Spirit is ruling w/in us. 🙌💜🙌💜🙌💜🙌🙌🙌💜🙌💜

[@releasedexpressions]

"Falling a sleep in God". This is such an encouraging word. Thank you Lestine and Laterras for sharing this. This has been the impetus needed in the culture of building men of God. "It is time for men and women to get into the rightful place". In the episode with Dr. Conway, he mentioned Purity creates Clarity. That and this episode here has been a eye opener. For years I hated going to church, even thought I attended. I felt more crushed being in the building than anything else and wondered why. This here just provided insight into why. To my brothers let's step in our purpose and position by placing Christ at the centre of our lives.

[@jdelaynanderson]

Thank you so much for allowing God to use you in having her on your a Podcast! You plant so many seeds through this podcast! This podcast is Powerful! This is Ministry!

[@smileyperlishia]

Wow!!!!! Awesome message speaker gave..I feel the absolute same as Ms.Bell!!! Men and friendships don’t last with me because I truly listen to God for direction. My cut off game is real!!!Im responsible who I allow to get close to me or corrupt my spirit!! Weakness shows vulnerability and like she said… the touching and the mind changes the way u see and think….I’m in a lonely and learning season right now and Gods definitely directing me on KZbin to people that can help me in my walk of abstinence. You both really blessed me today 🙏🏾God bless u both❤️🙏🏾

[@kamaramikel7291]

“They should have said goodbye at Hello” - Wheewww!!!

[@vthe_listener886]

This hit home, I arrived at this message in 2023 but I'll never 4get this day. I'm telling my bf today I'm obtaining from sex until marriage. God has definitely spoken loud and clear. Thank you both for being transparent, vulnerable and most importantly obedient ❤

[@Liber8ted12]

Let me first say this was a necessary word. I will be honest, initially I got up to 30min and was like this is dope...she's getting preachy and I'm not...but her heart is so pure. I checked myself and kept listening. I NEEDED this to be reinstated in my SPIRIT. Every single word is true. I am happily divorced and just recently prayed about marriage again. This was on point. Thank you both.

[@ashleyangel1450]

Amazing episode I love how she preaching so many more women need to hear this and get this healing🙌🏽

[@melb465]

This was such powerful message, I had to hear it twice. There is a serious anointing on her life! 🙌🏽❤🙌🏽❤

[@sabrina21clark]

It's been a year and 4 months for me.

[@ladennayoung2939]

That's a blessing. I speak life into you and over your situation in Jesus name. I pray your strength in the Lord in Jesus name. Amen.

[@awakenedlife777]

Exactly the same timeframe for me! 🙌🏾

[@zinagrace2113]

It's been 9 years for me and I'm not sure how much longer I can wait😫

[@vickienantakiika7394]

Wow its been a year

[@soystef]

heyyy me too :) not easy but worth it!

[@davida.maclean2297]

I’m in for the men’s purity ceremony. Thank you!!

[@brenyelldelk6932]

When she said when you lay down with a man you take on his spirit and the other women he’s sleeping with this is so powerful. I would love to do this and heal. This woman helping me go in 2021 single.

[@DearFutureWifey]

Amen

[@slimalinga_]

Praise and praise God for your obedience, this will release people. God bless you Lestine Bell. Much love from South Africa 🇿🇦

[@dr.veronicaoutlaw4624]

Awesome episode !! It's been 7 years for me and it wasn't until recent years that I started to realize abstinence was necessary to heal and to change my perspective on men and relationships. Abstinence has freed me from desperation, idolatry, and soul ties. This was so powerful!!!

[@kenyaparmes1544]

The Power of them Soul Ties...wooo weee!! Sis, is going IN!!! They’ll have you treading in water when you’re supposed to be moving forward. Wow. So very true.

[@albertamiddleton4038]

I've bee going through and listening to the podcasts everyday no matter when they posted. This one touched me to my core and is my story minus jailtime. It hit me so hard I cried because it let me know that God is listening to me. I've been abstinent now for 5 years and my family does not understand the true nature of the spiritual world. They only "GO" to church but never learn to apply the lessons. Thank you for all that you are doing and allowing Jesus to use you in a mighty way. ❤

[@ltlsgw2014]

This episode was just WOW! Being newly (seriously) abstinent to the game has had its challenges but when we just obey God will provide. He will surround you with the right people, podcast, scriptures, devotionals, etc to set you up for success. You just gotta be willing and open to all he has for you. Thanks for this episode! It just simply confirms Gods Faithfulness. I’m praying for your future abstinence Journey. May God Bless you wholeheartedly and beautifully!

[@mrsscott0616]

Goodness! This lady is a WHOLE powerhouse! This was so so so very good and needed! God bless her and you too Laterras

[@chandrajohnson9536]

This was absolutely profound. Truly enjoyed Prophetess. Yes soul-ties are strong but God is stronger and if there’s a true willingness to serve God then your spouse will find you or you will definitely find her and it won’t be difficult.

[@asiamonae4483]

Thank you for this transparent conversation, my healing and celibacy journey started 8.5.20. Lattaras I appreciate you and your honesty and your heart! Speaking from your soul.

[@chrissyqueen8407]

Wooooooow! Lestine Bell brought the heat 🔥. I loved this and it encouraged me to pray about abstinence also. Please do a purity conference for men. Like Lestine said a lot of them are lost in the world and the Lord wants them to focus and lead. #prayingformyfuturehubby God bless!

[@octaviakf]

Those marriage parts she’s essentially took my sentiments exactly. I be so busy with purpose work I don’t even have time to be truly having open eyes for a marriage. We all need to focus on God. And we’re never alone even if you’re not married

[@kimfrierson5331]

My favorite episode! She preached a whole word. Thank you for having her on your show. I am on my journey of abstenance and this is just more motivation for me to keep going. I'm so glad season 2 of your podcast has started back☺

[@DearFutureWifey]

You are so welcome!

[@tylrtqt]

Hands down one of the best podcasts I have watched🙏🏾 Lestine is so inspiring she has delivered this message in a way that is relatable to all.

[@maameabena5969]

This is very much needed and powerful.🙏 She spoke the truth and was so impactful

[@dclady5793]

This is truly a blessed word. I have been abstinent for (5) years. I had to surrender to God and allow Him to navigate my spirit and allow Him to lead me. I feel His anointing, I see His clarity, purity is truly a freeing experience.

[@latishahawkins2773]

This episode was a blessing to my soul. Everything that Prophetess Bell revealed was the truth. Laterras I can’t wait for the next episode. What a blessing and a revelation🙌🏿

[@edithzoeller8482]

Listening this today (2024) and it’s a confirmation of what I have been praying and made decisions and it’s now confirmed.. Thanks for the prophetic message 🙏 God is good ..

[@anthonyrobinson8760]

Solid teaching!!! This is a most truthful message. Absolutely in love with this message. Thank you kindly.

[@acaciamorgan5408]

This podcast has freed me. I needed this.

[@DearFutureWifey]

Amen!

[@melissadeans984]

My God! What a message and so on point and so needed. You cannot go forward when you continue to look back 🙌🏾

[@googleuser9528]

This episode was powerful! Lestine preached some real truths! We need more kingdom men and yes those soul ties are real. Her calling and anointing is powerful. I’m definitely a new fan. I’m planning to participate in the global purity ceremony, although I’ve already been on my own journey of abstinence. Thanks for this powerful episode. I’m looking forward to more content that challenges our need to change so we can live a more purposeful life.