High vs Low Functioning in Relationships | Dr. Cheyenne Bryant on Dear Future Wifey, E906

[@kaywisseh]

One thing I've learned on my walk with God is that he doesn't always give you what you want but he will give you what you need.

[@lyndacesarcosplayer]

That’s what mess me up sometimes

[@kaywisseh]

@@lyndacesarcosplayer Yes, it messed me up too until I learned that truth. I think oftentimes it's our ego/pride that insists on what we want and we convince ourselves that the thing is from God when it's really our own desires. God is not Santa Clause or a Genue out here gifting us our every desire/want but he will be always meet our needs. And that's because He knows best.

[@lyndacesarcosplayer]

@@kaywisseh i want to do better and learn to rely on God timing. I tend to quickly make my own decisions after months or years of prayers with no answers

[@kaywisseh]

@@lyndacesarcosplayer Girl join the club! I think that's all of us. Look at Abraham and Sarah. They couldn't wait on God’s promise so they took matters into their own hands. I say it all the time, Christianity is not for the weak! It requires patience and total submission of our will to walk this thing out! Keep praying and seeking and God will reveal the answer in due time.

[@Its_Tia90]

That’s one of the hardest thing that I’m learning and dealing with. What I want isn’t for me sometime.. my prayer is that God molds me to want for me what he wants for me

[@lisatwilley]

Yall saving my marriage and I'm not even married LOLOL. Dear future hubby is gon get a better version of me because of this video right here❤❤😂

[@Ntuthu28_M]

😂😂😂😂

[@charloettejohnson4672]

Jesus is Lord, Its all about life changing experiencing.

[@blaakmamba69]

🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@mainekidd]

Amen

[@pelwezeka5849]

Truth

[@georgianacollington2104]

“We teach what we know but we create who we are,” “Hurt people hurt people.” This was such an amazing podcast.

[@shanty2404]

I sometimes hate the stigma that if a woman is well spoken and vocal that she somehow looses her feminine side. I understand there’s a time and place for everything. But all of the podcast she has been on she was invited to, they wanted to hear her feedback and thoughts. So when she’s confident and passionate about what she’s speaking on, it is viewed by some as too masculine or aggressive. I love that LW let her speak and complete her thoughts and allowed her to tell her truth. ❤

[@Far7rom]

Shes an articulate con artist.

[@dottiegictx]

This!

[@Far7rom]

@shanty2404 she a fraud.. she is not even well spoken. And to top it off she prefers women. She is unmarried. Becasue she is not a wife. She is not a licensed doctor.. but is pretending to be one. She is a broken woman. From a broken dusty family... she is about as real and authentic as her augmented breasts are.

[@Far7rom]

@shanty2404 with slick talking hustler fake educated women like her what they say isn't even important. Thats not what you need to listen for. You need to listen for what's NOT being said. Once you do that.. it becomes clear. That she ain't SSSSSSHHHYYYTTTTT!!!!

[@shawna7227]

Happy to see her on this podcast. Different podcasters bring out different sides of people. This was very good. ❤

[@tdavenport7539]

6/65t😢t😮6

[@gino6658]

💯 this platform allowed her to get DEEP into the word 🙏🏾

[@bessiewright2235]

I believe this is the right podcast for her.

[@SolCareMimi]

She’s done well every where she’s been meant to be. Here, B. Simone & Cam Newtons. Calling it like it is as she’s qualified to do, wherever she goes.

[@enloveyduvey001]

the difference between this and Nick Cannon's is night and day.

[@kimberlyhudsoncpa5103]

😢 This interview exposed what was hidden for me. Go heal, friend. Laterras, you handled her with love and grace as always 🙌🏽

[@chrysteldavis6221]

Explain that thought?

[@lelo46]

Who’s the friend that needs to heal?

[@keshadean5179]

Yes please elaborate

[@sherisecarter3548]

It sounds like she(the guest) still has some healing to do. She seems to have a good idea of she wants, but towards the end of the interview all I heard was self centeredness and fear hiding behind what she calls “boundaries and waiting on God”.

[@lc3462]

Yes her brokeness came thru at the end.

[@nclwllms]

I just love Dr. Bryant! She was my life coach and helped me in such a low time in my life. She’s extremely good at what she does and is called to this life! I will forever be thankful to her and that God lead me in her direction when I was so lost!

[@d.a.2703]

Was it expensive?

[@theroyals5398]

@@d.a.2703 $350 an hour.

[@LeahConey]

This queen said, the wilderness is a war zone! The tools you need for the wilderness will mess up your promised land!!! BARS!!!🔥🔥

[@mariastephenson13]

I'm definitely buying the book!

[@renewashington9119]

Actually, what she said isn’t aLL that Deep 🙄There are Many people in this world who are Charismatic and have a Way With Words. Meaning, they have the Gift of Gab and can TICKLE the Ears of those who are weak minded and too Lazy to SEARCH OUT for themselves the Hidden Treasures of God’s Holy Word.

[@athaliahfrancis4350]

Great point however, there're individuals that may need the messages of such gifts to move from the wilderness to the promise land and know what's required there 😊

[@harrycallender]

Sounds good but theologically incorrect. Read Joshua and see how much war there was in the promised land. That’s why God kept telling Joshua to be bold and not to be afraid. Joshua was a warrior!!!

[@educatormoves]

That was such a powerful and relevant statement. Especially for those who grew up in “survival” mode and no longer in the mode. The tools we need to operate are different but those things we learned were necessary .

[@deborahparent48]

I respect her.... she Knows what she wants and standing on it!

[@blackqueen67]

@@deborahparent48 Believing God will provide!!! I love it!

[@thespadestable]

@deborahparent48 - She knows what she wants, but the man she wants doesn't want her. She spilled the beans during her discussion with Cam Newton that she's a handful that a man looking for peace.....Will not find it with her. She had her 3-4 engagements, and they did not lead to a marriage. She can stand all she wants, but at the end of the day, a woman can't have a legit wedding ceremony without a groom standing at the alter with her. And as you saw, that "Marrying Myself" fad came and went fairly quickly.

[@deborahparent48]

@thespadestable I hear ya! I don't know much about Her journey, definitely wasn't aware of other things she's said. But you're right, a person can't be "difficult" and expect someone to deal with them. But I do believe in standing firm on certain beliefs!! 😏

[@Far7rom]

And she's never gonna get it never gonna get it. Neeeever gonna get it never gonna get.it.

[@Far7rom]

​@@thespadestablefaaaaaacts.

"there ain't a lot of men with no kids" "I'm just looking for one man" YES DOC I HAVE THE SAME SAYING👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@jcb822]

That's not entirely true. If you look at the data you'll notice that more than 50% of brothas across America are single & childless, 30% of brothas are married with children. This means that approximately 15 to 20% of the men are making children with 60 to 80% of black women. This further proves the notion that there are far more women than men with children.

[@thedebtfreelady]

I yelled, "THAT PART!!!"

[@jcb822]

The majority of brothas are single & childless so what are you talking about?

[@alicetheegreet]

Where? Asking for a friend! LOL 😂 @jcb822

[@alicetheegreet]

Where are those predominantly single and childless Black men you speak of? @jcb822

[@wendybrown2322]

💘 the testimony about her mother's victory over addiction. To God be the glory!

[@charisseward138]

"You teach what you know, ypu create who you are."-Dr. Cheyenne Bryant. Great interview Laterras 💜

[@tynesha3710]

Classic TD Jakes!

[@1valerie_oakley]

This!

[@KyMiche978]

This is good Dr. Bryant. When you have a relationship with God, your conversations with Him are honest and filled with humor.

[@Passion84GodAlways]

IMPLEMENTATION of the KNOWLEDGE is POWER!!!! 💎💎💎🙌🏾🙏🏾🏃🏾‍♀️💨

[@bridgettjamison4151]

Yes that was everything!

[@springchicken1327]

It ain’t too many real ones out here. This woman has been through the wilderness she is a REAL one!!!

[@MsShelby4933]

Beautiful story. This is my story as well. I prayed for my mom. I wrote my mom a letter. I placed the drafted letter in her car and had the song This Battle is Not Yours by Yolanda Adams set for her to hear when she started the car. She went on about her day. She stopped over to my aunt's house, about to do her drugs, and saw a man walking in the back of the house where no one could walk. She stopped using and has been off drugs for over 20+ years. When our loved ones are off drugs we have to continue to be there for them and show them they are loved and appreciated.

[@tashajoyner4371]

Good to see her again. Healing is important. I appreciate her sharing the message of healing through faith in God and His ordained purpose for your life

[@preciousaniece]

This was such a beautiful sit down. I love the segment with two people knowing how to hold space for one another. If I’m operating in my low functioning, cover me and shield me if you have the emotional bandwidth to do so. Help me stabilize back to shore. Don’t leave me to drown! That’s one of the problems in today’s dating world. If you see someone is doing the work on their own but just needs a little help. Hold your hand out for them. Unions are created off of respect and duty. Loved this so much!❤️

[@shantalbarbot5801]

Beautifully said ❤️

[@therealken_7962]

This happens to me often but I don’t call it my high functioning self, it’s only the Holy Spirit that guides me in the right direction.

[@bobbywilsonfunfaithfamilymusic]

Shalom, WAKE THAT MIND UP! Thanks for sharing this conversation with Dr. Cheyenne Bryant, I appreciate her transparency, she mentioned "the Word of God awakened her" is paramount. Mr. Whitfield mentioned "pray without ceasing and not giving up on praying" is spot on. God also rewards obedience to His Word and according to His will He will answer and grant our request. Dr. Cheyenne Bryant, thank you.

[@ykeemo2819]

This season #9 is by far AMAZING! I love this season and I love the diversity of guest for singles and married individuals. Love the series

[@IDNobleJesustop100]

The path of the just is like a light that shines brighter and brighter....until the perfect day. LW's light is shining brighter and better. Your wife is coming soon in Jesus' name Amen

[@bessiewright2235]

I love the podcast. I listen faithfully.

[@trenaeborders6192]

I am so thankful for this interview and being able to relate to you both. My father was an addict my whole life up until he was killed by police in 2022 due to a false DV call, in Lake Wales FL. I surrendered to God in a time where I literally told God I had nothing to say to Him because I was so hurt. God told me vengeance is mine. I prayed for the female that called the police and prayed for the police officers that not only showed up to the scene but killed my father. My aunt's persistently requested the body-cam footage for months to no avail. Finally they were called to view the footage to realize that it was edited. I continued praying and encouraging my family to pray as well as have patience and wait for God to work during this challenging time. As a result 2 of the cops were fired, the female that called the cops died 6 months later and the Chief of Police was "forced to resign" at the beginning of this year. God is Faithful! It is still hard for me but knowing all that God did gives me comfort. Blessings to you both!

[@alicetheegreet]

My condolences love. Sending you healing vibes and prayers.

[@talicialee]

Omg…. She’s the one behind Teen Mom. Go girl 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@ladie27d]

Teen mom: Family Reunion!

[@contessamcqueen2329]

Finally an expert, raw interview I can relate to. Not saying There were none I couldn't relate to but I have been shifting to more positive episodes of podcasts to feed me. This not only speaks of self awareness of trauma but the expertise of checking yourself and identifying a shift to healthiness. We have to check ourselves. This really uplifted my spirits.

[@TheePotluck]

Yessss!! I know LW will allow her wisdom to flow out to the air waves without the defensiveness of the other podcast hosts!

[@CHARMONTANALEE]

This right here was everything and the fact that she could just flow and speak without interruption and show her perspective and even drop more gems was a plus! Definitely a good podcast platform for her!! Love it!!

[@XiomaraArielle]

Dr. Cheyenne Bryant is the reason I love the podcast era! Preaching in every environment

[@juliej8184]

That’s not her last name .

[@XiomaraArielle]

@@juliej8184 Thank you Julie! Typo's happen lol Made the edit :)

[@MarleeDecember105]

Amen! Pray without season. I prayed every single day for 15 years that my mom would be released from the chains of drug addiction. I still have the letter she wrote to me informing me of her being admitted in a recovery program. I was blessed to see my mom sober for 24 years before she transitioned in 2020.

[@longstoryshort5463]

God needs PRAISE, not prayer. He is the I AM, meaning God is self sufficient and does not need to go outside of himself for anything. We do not need to pray for God, we praise him. I enjoyed listening to Dr.Bryant. Thank you for always delivering awesome Guests Laterras.

[@Candy-rz1co]

Yeah! She got me on that statement. I enjoyed everything Dr. Bryant said up until she said that! Blasphemous! That quenched my spirit ! God doesn't need your prayers for him . That means God will answer your prayers for him. He's GOD!!! I'm done 🤦‍♀️

[@IDNobleJesustop100]

Eat the flesh and leave the bone. So many things we can learn from the podcast. It was her flesh that came through to visit for a minute. May the Lord deliver us from fleshy speech.

[@Nangondo]

​@IDNobleJesustop100 blasphemy... it was blasphemy..... however we serve a loving, kind and slow to anger Lord.

[@Nangondo]

Thanks for pointing that out. I listened to her, am 50 years old too and I was taken aback with some of her analogy and her outlook towards relationships. Her interpretation and understanding of Catholicism etc. It was a lot

[@ebonysmith4054]

This is the comment I was looking for. She said that I was like wheeeet 😶🥴

[@thesavvyaccountant]

I'm bawling through this whole interview... omg I was so like this. I have sabotaged my relationship from the beginning! My husband is soooo this person... I often ask why he stays, why he loves me and tell him he is better to leave. I often feel like he doesn't love me but loves the idea of what he thinks I can be. I've been doing so much work on myself. But this interview was soooo personal for me. Thank you! I've seen her on the viral videos but this was a great interview where she was open

[@Lioness0828]

Peace and Blessings To You ❤ Good luck on your healing journey.

[@blackqueen67]

Blessings to You on your healing journey 🙏🏾

[@winnieowens1688]

Please heal for yourself and your marriage and surrender to Gods perfect will. Please do not push him away otherwise you will regret it

[@ykeemo2819]

Dr. Bryant speaks truth that we all need to hear and apply to our life. Thank you DFW!!!

[@KickinItWitAsh]

Marriage is for disciplined people!!! Wow that’s a whole word right there!

[@Pattin3n1]

I mean no judgement but her Role Models are TD Jakes and Noel Jones who had his own girlfriend for how many countless years and only recently married her. His behavior on the Preachers of LA show was disgusting and embarrassing to the body of Christ. A Bishop that doesn’t even honor the text on what Elder Qualifications are. A man by all accounts who doesn’t demonstrate integrity and seems to be above reproach within the body and he doesn’t hide it. His supporters love his sin life because they like the sin in their lives. This woman seems to possess a form of godliness yet she doesn’t seem to possess the Holy Spirit. No I haven’t the ability to inspect her heart but her fruit speaks volumes. Also she keeps mentioning “catch phrases and affirmations” as references from Scripture and a Biblically illiterate Christians won’t pay it attention or be bothered by it. Naturally speaking I want to like this lady because I don’t disagree completely with her philosophy but there is just something about her that doesn’t agree with me. Please be careful who y’all let disciple you. Read Scripture Daily in context! That is Gods Voice That is His Will for you as the Believer! The Word is Jesus!

[@larhondathomas9500]

Remember this: "They love the word of God. Bishop is an exceptional teacher of God's word. Despite any criticism from the world, it's important to remember that he is human, not God, and only God has the authority to judge."

[@Pattin3n1]

@@larhondathomas9500 You are incorrect. “It is actually reported that there is immorality among you, and immorality of such a kind as does not exist even among the Gentiles, that someone has his father’s wife. You have become arrogant and have not mourned instead, so that the one who had done this deed would be removed from your midst. For I, on my part, though absent in body but present in spirit, have already judged him who has so committed this, as though I were present. In the name of our Lord Jesus, when you are assembled, and I with you in spirit, with the power of our Lord Jesus, I have decided to deliver such a one to Satan for the destruction of his flesh, so that his spirit may be saved in the day of the Lord Jesus. Your boasting is not good. Do you not know that a little leaven leavens the whole lump of dough? Clean out the old leaven so that you may be a new lump, just as you are in fact unleavened. For Christ our Passover also has been sacrificed. Therefore let us celebrate the feast, not with old leaven, nor with the leaven of malice and wickedness, but with the unleavened bread of sincerity and truth. I wrote you in my letter not to associate with immoral people; I did not at all mean with the immoral people of this world, or with the covetous and swindlers, or with idolaters, for then you would have to go out of the world. But actually, I wrote to you not to associate with any so-called brother if he is an immoral person, or covetous, or an idolater, or a reviler, or a drunkard, or a swindler-not even to eat with such a one. For what have I to do with judging outsiders? Do you not judge those who are within the church? But those who are outside, God judges. Remove the wicked man from among yourselves.” ‭‭1 Corinthians‬ ‭5‬:‭1‬-‭13‬ ‭NASB1995‬‬

[@filmadcamp1512]

@@larhondathomas9500 Being an exceptional teacher of God's word doesn't make him a servant of God. In his human-ness he should not be above repenting of his wrong doings so as not to lead his entire flock astray.

[@larhondathomas9500]

@@filmadcamp1512 did I say he was a Role model no, I said a great teacher of Gods word, so I don’t need a lecture. I’m entitle to my own opinion, just like you.

[@filmadcamp1512]

@@larhondathomas9500 Girl hush. I didn't say you said he was a role model. Nowhere did I say that.. I said he's leading people astray... which he is. And that he should repent of his wrong doings.

[@sarahsimpson9848]

Her abandonment issues spilled over into her relationships cause 4 engagements and she called off all 4 is problematic to say the least, but I am glad she is wiser and maturer now, and she knows what she wants and she is standing on business when she says she doesn't want a man with kids especially when you are coming into the relationship with none.

[@achievertobe]

Im so grateful for her talking about the processing I be going through as a woman. My goodness its something else to be choosing to be high functioning while supporting the parts that need extra loving! Thankful for this convo!❤

[@genevivestafford5828]

When I say this man knows how to make a Woman vulnerable...It's Laterras. Men I had my jaws drop!!! Praise for God. I tell you your DFW podcast would one day reach 5m views+++.

[@PlushTress]

Sheesh! Dr.Bryant is ON FIRE!

[@jacquelineedwards5321]

Knowing yourself and being true to yourself, especially in your decision making is key! You cannot be afraid to let the chips fall where they may, less you end up hurting others and loosing several precious years of your life.

[@deborahparent48]

Omg.... This is for Meeeee!!! The way God confirms when HE is speaking!!!

[@kimbrown1457]

Awesome! She's right. I remember my friends telling me that we couldn't find men at our age with no kids and I said I'm not looking for men just my man not to have kids. And now I'm happily married to my husband who is my age and had no kids previously and we had our first baby in our 40s. God promised and it is so. ❤

[@Ellemichelle2015]

I love that "God Louder, Louder" I will use this for sure. Such an amazing interview. Thank you

[@ourbreakthroughpodcast9353]

I’m only about 14min in…But I’m really enjoying hearing about Dr. Bryant’s background and foundation. The internet, and especially SM, has a way of reducing people to a video; soundbite or clip. But when you really take the time to peel back the layers and research people, you can find that they are so much more!! P.S. Kudos to her for getting with Cam and Nick…and if nothing else, offering them new insight, understanding wrapped in accountability. Because, that’s the true power!! Knowing that you are better than this!!

[@lisatwilley]

Yall can't have me crying at work like this. This is so good thank you!❤

[@denisejohnson5758]

Oh Lord tears are flowing for me too!!this was good!!

[@MysticallyMelanated]

May God continue to bless and cover Dr. Bryant at all cost. She is one of them ones!! Always dropping gems and shifting perspectives. I didn't want this episode to end. Thank you Laterras for holding space for her on your podcast

[@renewashington9119]

Folks should be Very Careful to READ their Bible and to DO THE RESEARCH and Cross Reference, because these so-called “Doctors” will Lead you down the Garden Path by their MISINTERPRETING the Scriptures. Correct interpretation is Guided by the Holy Spirit.

[@missbdainty1]

🎯

[@ET-hc4wl]

You can do both.

[@Dr.saharaOmar]

Fact!

[@qtpie3339]

I understand your intent, but I'm curious which parts do you believe don't align with the word of God?

[@jazaeeland6034]

Which Bible , there are several. Salam .

[@MonicaLovelyGant]

Thanks!

[@niecey2023]

Dr Bryant is the real deal!! Love her!! 🙌🏾 This was an outstanding episode!

[@meenameena-dd2zy]

The two of you have a natural connection..... ITS SO OBVIOUS

[@alicetheegreet]

They sure do! Like brother and sister. *LOVE IT!*

[@brendamahlangu4443]

I love her honesty & the host just did an awesome job by letting her be in her light❤️

[@ziondaughter07]

This is so powerful! Thanks Dr. Bryant for these insights. My goodness what insight on the "buffer" guy!!!!

[@marquitagalloway7168]

This interview is what I needed in this journey. It has encouraged me to not compromise on my core values and how to emotionally regulate from low functioning traumatic behavior back into being high functioning. Also, her saying she prays for God was profound. Jesus taught us that in the Lord’s Prayer. When we pray for God’s will to be done and His kingdom to come I believe we are praying for God! Awesome interview!

[@alicetheegreet]

I first learned of Dr. Cheyenne Bryant in the comments section here on DFW when people kept on suggesting her. So, I searched her name and the interviews with Cam Newton and Nick Cannon were the firsts to pop up. I'm only 30 minutes in and have to stop to work. I'm excited to watch the rest of the episode because she seems more calm and poised sitting with you Laterras than she was on those two previously mentioned podcasts/interviews. You have a way of bringing out the best in people because you see the best in everyone.

[@blackqueen67]

I'm curious about the other interviews now... This interview with Laterras is wonderful. I never heard of "low functioning" "high functioning" in relationships, makes sense...

[@alicetheegreet]

Would you like a synopsis? LOL 😂 @blackqueen67

[@candycedavis-hill5710]

She mentioned high and low functioning in both interviews with Nick and Cam that is why they were controversial interviews because she called them both out as operating in low functioning ways...not financially yet emotionally and relationship. And them both being with low functioning females that won't demand committment before breeding their children. Broken homes etc...listen to them both. Laterris is a high functioning man so this conversation is not as stressed. He understands

[@cheleh.8085]

I wish this was a daily podcast. You have THEE BEST conversations and I hate having to wait a week for the next one.

[@authenticallyyoucoaching7058]

No words to describe the amount of learnings happening here. Much love from South Africa

[@Taurusiam]

When that man said, "I'm still not leaving, I'm still not going nowhere," that was God talking to Cheyenne through that man... this made me tear up! God truly uses us as a vessel ❤❤❤ This whole episode was so powerful from the beginning till the end!

[@educatormoves]

This was such a powerful interview. I am so glad you interviewed her. I love her introspection and transparency. It forces us to really look at ourselves and ensure we are bringing our whole healthy and healed self to relationships while giving grace.

[@sh3rrylov3]

I knew this episode was going to be good, but it seriously exceeded my expectations. I so appreciate the transparency and the sharing of tools and strategies to strengthen any relationship. This was really validating, insightful, and refreshing. Keep them coming, LRW!

[@cathrinefountain2908]

This was a great interview, so relatable. She is a true inspiration. Keep doing ya thang sis!!!!

[@trinitygillings5380]

WOW! DR, I am trying to push through my mother's addiction. I been trying to stand in the gap for my mom this was for me..... Lordy praise God for MS. KIM

[@alyssaoliphant]

Wow, this woman is absolutely amazing. Thank you for bringing her on this show. I have learned so much within the first 20 minutes. That only is she very knowledgeable, but she is also extremely relatable! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@evemcclure2]

Dr Bryant girl you are too classy for Basketball wives… you shared so many great perspectives and dropped so many gems I had to watch a few times. Thanks for the transparency. LT you have that relaxed energy that the guests need. God bless🙏🏾

[@laj4186]

Laterras I LOVE that you have a pre interview because the interviews are so perfectly stated when captured. We're still ready to tell our story! Good segway since the Dr. spoke about age dating difference. Another Banger. The Juice Lady Atl

[@thenappylicious1]

This sounds very similar to a discussion about attachment styles. The person she is referring to has a secure attachment style and this hybrid she speaks about is someone with and anxious attachment style likely progressing to a more secure base after having been with a more secure partner. What she is saying has already been said… being with a person who has a secure attachment style (which is usually linked to strong emotional intelligence) can make an insecure attachment style (anxious or avoidant) more secure. Read “attached” by Levine and heller … the parallel is striking.

[@WhoIsTheeMeister]

I’m literally at this part from the Bible ! God is so good! God tells me what to read and when to stop daily and I always watch something that aligns with it! God always gives mass messages out at the same time💝

[@j.omondi5826]

Listening to Doc, reminded me of how hard it can be to be in a healthy relationship. Because when your in a healthy space your true self comes out. The good and the bad. There's nothing as hard as calling yourself out when you are being bad

[@LikeILoveMyself]

That metaphor on the wildnerness mindset vs the promise land mindset was impeccably stated. That is about to be a game changing book that I can't wait to get. I love that God gave her that revelation and being able to use her expertise and faith in such a powerful and practical way. 👏

[@rej536]

I saw this woman on another YTuber's channel and they showed videos and pics of her totally and I mean totally different in how she's presenting herself here. I mean this as humbly as possible and not hating at all but this lady was on Basketball Wives arguing with one of the other women presenting herself very "low functioning" as she calls it and the pics were not very decent and would definitely lead one to belive she is thirsty for attention. It's really hard for me to respect what she says as a woman after seeing the other side of her. The videos I saw of her made her seem very egotistical, narcissistic, arrogant, conceited, self-centered and absorbed, high maintenance and low functioning as she says. I work with alot of sistas who hold a PhD who are married and single and not one of them dress like, behave like she was. 😢 To each it's own this my own opinion and I truly am speaking on the impression she left on me.

[@Jess_quez]

I was feeling the same about not being able to take her seriously or her walk with the Lord seriously given she curses and seems to fornicate and produces low class shows like teen mom.

[@bradleepitt7409]

I know what you’re talking about, I agree with you.

[@skyyhyy77]

It's called duality. There are times that no matter how well put together we are, some thing can bring out that other side. Being someone that has been in therapy in 5 years, my therapist teaches to not put that protector in shackles, learn how-to not let it always show up UNLESS it's absolutely necessary. The protector is allowed to step in at the right time and right place when the right adversary has presented itself.

[@thespadestable]

@rej536 - Because she is egotistical, narcissistic, arrogant, conceited, self-centered and absorbed, high maintenance and low functioning. This woman is in her 40's and claims to be a working professional. But because she was going to be in the presence of ex-NFL quarterback, Cam Newton, she, under her own agency, chose to show up looking like a hot mess at a sports bar thinking she's going to nab a professional athlete after the game. You saw the video of her with your own two eyes, but now you want to play a game of denial?

[@Iamblessed-ob3cn]

Well- said!

[@tlwilliams-boucher6866]

Such profound wisdom being shared. Thank you Dr Bryant for your vulnerability, I think you opened a lot of doors for many people, especially women to be set free🙌🏾🙏🏾

[@GodVindicates]

She's an inspiration... and I'm glad Laterius could gather from her story that women need a resting space as well... loved it. 🙏

[@CalliB28]

I've watched this podcast three times and every time I pull something new from it that just blesses my whole soul! So much I can relate to. Thank you for sharing ❤❤

[@parispurifoy3045]

30 minutes in! This is soooooooo beautiful!!! MY GOD!

[@davinashirley]

Just an FYI: Low functioning and high functioning are used particularly in the context of developmental disorders, intellectual disabilities, and mental health. For example: High-functioning individuals are those who, despite having a condition (like autism or intellectual disability), can manage many aspects of daily life independently. They may have higher intellectual abilities or better adaptive functioning. Low-functioning individuals are those who may have more severe impairments that significantly limit their ability to function independently in areas such as communication, self-care, or daily living activities. We got to be careful of the labels we’re using. These labels oversimplify complex human behaviors. Using such terms within relationships is definitely out of context biblically and medically.

[@alicetheegreet]

Thank you for this. I've been thinking to say something about this and how I hate how these people in academia are always trying to coin terms. I just couldn't get the verbiage right. You've said everything I was thinking but didn't have the words to say.

[@filmadcamp1512]

If you research it - you will find that high and low functioning applies to multiple areas, not just autism even though it's a popular term within the autism field. It can be used to describe the behavior or mental capabilities of different people.

[@Cr3ativ3mind]

It’s an analogy in simplest terms. It's not that deep 🙄

[@Kenesha_]

Whew!! This was a totally different interview than on the other platform 🙌🏾 Loved hearing her be able to speak freely, listened too and most importantly respected during the full interview. Laterras per usual well done 🙏🏾 Great conversation and I can’t wait to see who Dr. Bryant ends up with! ❤

[@intellectualsista]

This was just as a good and informative as the episode done with Cam. I expect this to go viral as well…reach the masses. Such a candid and fruitful conversation 😊 Thank you both!

[@DesCoop]

I had a guy like the guy she explained in her 20’s I miss him daily but he taught me so much

[@allmynz02]

@DesCoop me too. I appreciated how he "handled" (not in a negative way) and protected me. I learned a lot in the relationship.

[@1999___]

Same

[@jomilladenae]

Wow the tears that came to my eyes hearing her speak about her mom, that is so beautiful

[@godsglory1921]

' 21:13 We teach what we know, but we create who we are". Powerful statement!

[@michele4real288]

The best podcast I have ever heard. She gave me language to use to express my core values. I resonate with her so much. Respect for you!

[@chrysteldavis6221]

I won't lie, I've been following her on every podcast and on teen mom and she is amazing.... But & I say this as a viewer and I'm not the only one who has thought this because on Cam's episode he said it, I said one thing and you went off giving a dissertation and all I said was hello... A few times and because Laterras has let other guests do it too & allows his guests to fully express themselves & for this one he is a bit enamored with her he wanted to say things a few times and she won't allow him to have a thought on the matter. He is a true gentleman. ❤

[@Allthingsarepossibl3]

I agree

[@tanyaholland8542]

omg I needed this episode but never before. I'm experiencing the same thing in my present situation and core values really does matter not the choice to just love fall in or out of love but to obtain maintain and sustain principles and core values. Because happiness and fulfillment does really matter

[@KickinItWitAsh]

I loved that she discussed the specific behaviors of a high-functioning man and woman.

[@LorraineBraz]

This should be interesting

[@shanda01114]

Right 😂

[@aurorajd31]

This is amazing! Been married for 20+ years and really needed this message. 🙏🏾💪🏿☄️☄️☄️

[@lisa-leesebaca9103]

This is so good. Reminding me that it’s not about the relationship with my parent but the one with my ABBA.

[@niecey2023]

I had to look at this a 2nd time!! I so needed this! Thank you Lord!

[@sabrinagields8992]

This was such an amazing episode. So needed, love her transparency. She was walking down my street.

[@johniemaejones]

This interview was amazing. ❤❤

[@roslyntrotter-harmon4111]

Dr. Bryant articulated what I have been thinking yet couldn't quite express.

[@Careiskey]

I love her authenticity so much. ❤

[@princessjohnson9763]

This episode of this podcast was absolutely amazing and so confirming for me in my next path in my life. A friend of mine shared this with me as we are embarking on a healing journey, peace, and love journey in our own personal lives so I watched, I listened, I received, I accepted and I learned. But the part that moved me, the most was the very end Where you talked about your role as a foster to adoptive parent and wanting to help children in the foster care system especially those young black boys. It absolutely touched me because this is where my heart is right now and I’m praying and I’m asking God to guide me in this process as I begin the process of becoming a foster to adopt parent, mainly wanting to adopt young black men who are passed over due to their age, so I thank you. I asked God to bless you as you’re reaching out and helping these young black men and becoming affective in a community may God bless you in every area of your life, as well as those connected to you, especially the children..

[@alicetheegreet]

I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers as you continue on your parenting journey. I wish you the best.

[@tykishaagee5542]

Dr. Cheyenne is so anointed. Her wisdom is beyond her years. Basketball wives is so beneath her. I pray she doesn't go back to that show.❤

[@kayfleming5180]

Whew!! 🔥🔥 The way Dr. Bryant teaches on introspection & emotional regulation is a glorious thing!! To be able to eloquently relate to one another’s triggers in partnership/marriage from an emotionally regulated (hybrid) space, would be a beautiful thing. Great episode with the insightful & beautiful, Dr. Bryant. ❤

[@angied7206]

19:35 that surrender analogy is 🔥!!

[@aprilmiles5804]

🙌🏾🙌🏾Somethings have to be broken to be fixed!🤎🤎🤎

[@tiffanyanthony2561]

🩷

[@Mia1827]

This compelling video brings back terrible memories of my recent breakup after four years of dating. My dearest friend made the decision to go, and I was left with an inexhaustible hurt. I can't even begin to imagine my life without him, much as I keep trying to make amends. I'm frustrated. I want to write about how much I miss him here because I can't seem to get him out of my head.

[@Adakataba]

I understand how hard it is to let go of someone you love; after a five-year relationship ended, I was unable to simply let him go; instead, I tried everything to get him back. Eventually, I turned to a spiritual counsellor for assistance.

[@Adakataba]

Introducing Father Obah Eze, a well-known spiritual advisor who is famous for his ability to bring back former romantic partners.

[@Mia1827]

I am grateful for this important knowledge. Thank you for the advice. I looked up Father Obah Eze and he seems to be a real guy.

[@Yukajoseph]

Wow father obah eze helped me restore my relationship within 48 hours

[@ashleyreid4892]

This interview was so great and put together well, that I watched it twice. Back to back. Thank you!

[@JW-Chosen]

Great convo! So many gems.... release. Btw...I am loving the new studio decor.... warm, cozy and inviting.

[@LikeILoveMyself]

The behavior of the man she described in her 20s and the reason she left him I understand. (From my experience) it seems like there are men who say they want "peace" but are more comfortable pursuing and being in relationship with women who are mentally and emotionally immature and who berate or disrespect him in some way. Once the woman has healed or he meets her healed, it's like some men feel like they aren't good enough don't continue their pursuit. Like "it's too good to be true" that she likes me without all the resistance, disrespect, or convincing.

[@spelmanbeauty2010]

Wow

[@thespadestable]

@LikeILoveMyself - Well....We kinda don't have much choice. Unlike you women, we can't use out pets, work, friends, family, and children as a substitute for a woman. Christmas is right around the corner. How many of the holiday gift giving commercials will actually show women gifting each other the more serious forms of jewelry? How many will feature a woman gifting another woman an automobile with a red bow on the hood?

[@roxanne3327]

Lots of wisdom shared here but I'm a bit confused by the indication that she will live with a man before marriage and the jokes about cursing. We all struggle with sin but its not good to do this wilfully.

[@MadebyMarisJ]

my same sentiment.

[@alicetheegreet]

You can live with a man and still practice abstinence.

[@love_stephyyc7388]

Yesss!!!

[@shawneelawrence4229]

I totally agree! That throws me off with her

[@tembelihlechifamba1790]

Yes especially live with a man and then say you are fully obedient to God that's contradictory to me