Dear Future Wifey S3, E317: For Richer or Poorer (Leticia & Rod Gardner)

One of the leading causes of divorce is finances. We utter this vow not realizing our power, as a unified couple, to overcome financial hardships when they arise. Today’s guests, Leticia and Rod Gardner, transparently share how they’ve dealt with the sacred vow, “For Richer or For Poorer.”
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[@mochaamortravel717]

She said 2 things that I've heard in my current relationship 1.) God kept saying stay 2.) God doesn't always send what you want but WHAT YOU NEED.!! THIS WAS SOOOOO GOOD shout out to the Gardners✊🏾❣️

[@bsolwazi2712]

"I may not be what you want right now, but I'm definitely what you need!!!!!" #FACTS

[@oyana1122]

Wow! That part... When we throw tantrums, it really is the young, abandoned child within us. The reponse, hugging and reaffirming is soooooo healing❤.

[@BlueCoats-c5d]

Thank you for that chi chi. I didn’t go to college and i have felt moments of feeling led than or beneath others. Knowing I’m a great woman. A great friend, and mother. Thank you

[@TheyCallMeLovely]

55minutes in just makes me want to cry. I am having the hardest time with my break up. I recently expressed to him how the little person in me came out of me crying for help and he looked at me like I was crazy and hell broke loss from there. But this man 🙌🙌🙌 he held her & spoke life into her...thats all a woman wants in her moment of weakness.

[@MsLi-ef1xp]

Yes!!!!

[@TheRealMsBlu]

Sending you healing energy sis 🙏🏾

[@lindam3700]

SENDING YOU SOME HEALING SIS. REMEMBER ALL THINGS WORK OUT FOR YOUR GOOD AND TRUST GOD THAT HE IS WORKING BEHIND THE SCENES FOR YOU.

[@mrsbrownsugarsweetz]

Amen!

[@divinelyguided3961]

Whew and once you start treating yourself better🙏🏾 , God will send you a man after his own heart💙 . That man will speak to you differently, see you , affirm you , choose you from a place of wholeness , love you , listen to you , help you , pray for you and the list goes on and on .

[@marywright5457]

Wow! She is absolutely stunning AND down to earth! And he is handsome AND down to earth! I am so glad that they worked through the rough patches and are here together, inspiring us on this podcast and their social media! To God be ALL of the glory, honor, and high praise!👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽☝🏽☝🏽☝🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🎈🎉🎊

[@walkingministries5803]

Amen

[@SusanitaEfe]

I clicked so fast even though it's bed time in Germany am about to learn something new God bless everyone watching this video.

[@atlantasfaithsmom]

God bless you, too, sis in Germany! 🇩🇪🇺🇲

[@SusanitaEfe]

@@atlantasfaithsmom Amen! 🙌🏿

[@talkwithmeladye]

Loool me too ❤️

[@prettyuniquell2011]

😊 same here, I clicked as soon as I saw it.

[@chrisparker6249]

There's a lot of grit and beauty in their union, this message has resonated with me. God prepares us for the beauty after the storm if we allow Him to.

[@ladeanridley5782]

Yessss..

[@dineoportiamagoro3212]

Powerful message

[@mariemuhammad7983]

Marry the love of your life because when it gets crazy, when it gets rough, and dule, you are going to remember why you are still together. That doesn’t just come. That CHEMISTRY, that FIRE, that PASSION, that willingness to put into that person, you don’t find that everyday. ❤💯

[@Gelli_gelli]

I'm here in 2024! My husband and I are fans of Amazing Race, so when I watched Michelle and Sean Clark's interview it was a treat to find that Laterras already interviewed Leticia and Rob!

[@lsc2081]

I did the same thing!

[@FaithfulTransformation]

Brother Laterras, this couple is the younger version of my husband and I. I love the question that you asked on how to tell the difference between being in a toxic relationship and when the relationship is ordained by God. Everything they said on changing, setting your expectations, access to phone, changing your circle, access to social media and having God in their Union is so crucial to growing in your walk. This episode was epic. Equally important, your letter closing with FDIC Forever Dedicated In Christ. No Bank can Insure this type of love. My husband and I have over 32 years of marriage and have been financially bankrupt but we still pulled through and because we stayed the course we have been abundantly blessed. Thanks again!

[@prettyuniquell2011]

(Sighs) another great podcast. The fact that Rod knew Che Che is a good woman from the start so he went and worked on himself. The fact that Che Che did some self healing too, bruh, talk about LIT! 👏🏽👏🏽❤️

[@ladeanridley5782]

Putting in the work for that Ordained ❤ Love...

[@barbarapatterson4093]

Laterras, Each episode just keeps getting better & better ‼️ They were a true blessing!! May God continue to bless you as you bless US😊

[@shemireyahlilly5521]

I agree

[@msussinteaches]

Agree! Better and better!

[@daughterofYeshua]

This broke me when he said that he was hugging her when she was screaming and be mad! Oefff so powerfull.... What a blessing everytime i'm watching this. Keep it going brother💥

[@loreenbrown5896]

This was truly one of best episodes that hit home for me. God uses us as we are for his glory 🙌🏾🥲

[@patricebrown777]

"He saw myself bigger, than I saw myself at the time" - Leticia That's beautifully said, and that's how it should be, both ways. And thus is how God, sees us 🙏❤️

[@LakissaJ]

They both are right. When he said, he had t hold her and tell her it’s going to be alright.

[@staceygrimes2325]

He could see me under all my baggage. I could see him beyond all his issues. He just prayed over her and they helped each other through. Washing through the Word. Wow. This podcast has so much Truth. God bless this couple they planted so much seed. Kingdom builders. Love them. Thank you for your great questions. Thank you for great episode

[@ashaleebingham]

This was beautiful to watch. I found my self smiling just looking a their love. I was disappointed last week when I saw that there wasn't gonna be an episode but this sure made up for it. Learning so much. This series is truly a blessing.

[@DearFutureWifey]

You are so welcome

[@dineoportiamagoro3212]

I waited patiently for this episode and it was a bomb

[@TalkswithTia92]

I really enjoyed this episode. The ending was everything I appreciate how he broke down the sacrifice for her insecurities. I wish everyone would understand his perspective it really will create a healing and trustworthy foundation and a safe space. I admire them and their relationship of real ness and transparency.

[@nikkikemp8706]

I love how real they are!! When she said, “simple, but specific” that it me to the T! And how he couldn’t wait to go to counseling to tell lol so funny. Another great one!

[@Archpope01]

Another really powerful episode. If something is weak, we're all weak, not just individually. I am LOVING this marriage vow series!!! 😍

[@TheDesireeMonique]

She is so real. Ugh loooove her!

[@thyrajoseph2720]

Beautiful couple, beautiful love story! When two people put in the effort, the relationship will be a blessing to both of them! This couple understands this, and they were able to get over the toxicity and build something beautiful. And of course, they have God as their foundation, so they will prosper! Glory to God! Beautiful prayer, Laterras. Amen and amen! Trust is key!

[@terewilliams1555]

"Wash her with the water of the word" Amen ♡

[@erickars2442]

God may not send you want you but send you want you need!!!! That part there....that hit me!!! Love it! It's always something I gain from each podcast that helps me on my journey of self awareness, healing, self love and my preparation for my purpose partner!

[@dearfuturehubbypodcast]

“What did You Do with the Wife I Gave You?” - GOD …Now This Will Preach💕 Great Episode and Their Transparency is Golden❤️

[@constancegarrett7582]

CHRIST..., THE RISEN LORD JESUS . . . REIGNS SUPREME OVER HEAVEN A N D EARTH . . . . .

[@mariemuhammad7983]

Your wife will be one of your crowns you will give back to God in worship. An eternal glory! Revelation 4:10 the twenty-four elders fall down before him who sits on the throne and worship him who lives for ever and ever. They lay their crowns before the throne and say:

[@melaniereid7958]

Such a great couple. Truthful, honest and sincere. May God continue to prosper them in every area of their marriage🙏🏾🙌🏾❤️

[@Btj87]

This whole “everything” was a divine setup! I love their story! She sounds a lot like me! May God continue to bless them!!

[@pamelarichards464]

This, This, This is absolutely LIT 🔥 🔥 🔥 BLESSINGS TO YOU TWO. I PLEAD THE BLOOD OVER THIS UNION. GLORY❤

[@pamelarichards464]

TWOgetherness is the Equivalent of Alignment, Agreement and being on One Accord.

[@pamelarichards464]

I stand in total Agreement with this Prayer. Hallelujah I pray God's continual blessings over you LaTerres.

[@pamelarichards464]

Me2 ... Leticia!!! RaW & UNcut

[@connieshingange4990]

"When you walk with God you've got to look different" 🙌 power-packed statement. Blessed couple.

[@DearFutureWifey]

So true!

[@yolandalcheek462]

Beautiful statement

[@LBoogy202]

I really love y'all genuineness.... how both of you can be your authentic individual personalities....together. It's beautiful.

[@kingdommansent1796]

Definitely a couple I can see God elevating into Ministry in the near future. The Gardner’s will indeed sow seeds in the garden of many lives and water the masses through actions and testimony soon enough. Amen!! God Bless and Continued Success!

[@jr9941]

Beautifully said!!! Thank you

[@clashon4life843]

This is their Ministry And their already touching lives!

[@yolisanqari5899]

Sacrificing most of yourself , both of you so that the relationship can work... that is my highlight. 😇😇😇

[@lashundagladney5434]

This is hands down the funniest couple that has ever appeared on this show and I love it ❤️❤️❤️ The message is wonderful!! My guy and I just had an issue with the individual verse we and us mentally. Even though we have been together for a little over a month. This has helped me to see somethings differently. Thank you for this Series!!

[@judithwekikye3553]

Affirmation to each other about their God given roles as husband and wife, is one of the powerful tools that makes a couple stay on course. Becoming one means a lot more than I thought! When your partner is weak you are weak too in other words for richer, for poorer you should work as a team because Love is stronger than any situation! Thank you Leticia and Rod for sharing your journey it is incredible and worth emulating because you've allowed God to lead you. Amen. Laterras, thanks a lot for the powerful prayer. God bless you all.

[@caramelgirl8932]

Another LIT couple! Loovveee the energy and transparency!! Our executive producer did it again!!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@nosiphopakamile8972]

So much respect for your ex wife 🙌💯❤ she stayed true to herself and wasn't impressed with your accumulation of wealth. And wasn't afraid to tell you the truth. Thank you for sharing that 🙏 You've really taken time to look inward. Thank you Gardners, this was real. You worked hard for this 🙌

[@Me-px7js]

I love them. They are so relatable and their love for one another is super evident! This is a FANTASTIC show. I have loved every episode so far. LOVE, LOVE, LOVE this podcast.

[@lasoniakelley2402]

Laterras your facial expressions throughout was exactly the same as mine 🤷🏽‍♀️. We didn’t cry this week😂, but you did bless us with our weekly sermonette 😜! I love it! They are dope ❤️! It was worth the wait 👏🏾! God bless you my brother!

[@DearFutureWifey]

Right!!

[@nyamburakinuthia4354]

There are so many gems that were in this interview. I truly loved how they touched on trauma informed relationship as well as the essence of transparency. What a beautiful couple.

[@sfreeman417]

Love this couple and their realness and transparency. Love how they asked one another what their triggers are and what makes one other uncomfortable so they would not do that thing to one another! Excellent podcast episode!

[@dineoportiamagoro3212]

That's maturity and unconditional love right there...

[@QueenMLA28]

One of the best and relatable Dear Wifey episodes I've seen! Thanks Laterras for continuing to walk faithfully in your purpose and blessing the world!

[@olufunker.awosogba2654]

This is one of the BEST episodes EVER! The most authentic, hilarious couple😂 who believe in counseling. I absolutely LOVED this and will be relistening for the many gems they shared. I pray that God continues to cover and fuse their marriage and elevate them🙏🏾

[@gloriabrooks6539]

I will watch this again and again. This was so real, so grown, so filled with faith, sacrifice, selflessness. LIT!

[@jr9941]

Now, that was deep, "what did you do with the wife I gave you"!!! That's a good question for the man and vice-versa for the woman.

[@jr9941]

You see, when you're a mature Christian male/female your mate can pray over you to get through those valleys.

[@doneeshashanay230]

I don’t know how anyone could dislike this episode. This was great!

[@DearFutureWifey]

Those are bots

[@dawndavis9491]

This is truly a Kingdom Couple. Latarres thank you for allowing God to use you! Thank you for inviting the World on this journey. Thank you for sharing this information with us! Continue to honor God and being controlled by the Holy Spirit. I can not wait until God blesses you with your purpose partner!🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@clashon4life843]

This is A Great Platform For Married, Divorcée And Single! Thanks 🙏 Gardner’s Y’all Rock!

[@sharesereed8168]

I thoroughly enjoyed this entire episode. This couple is truly amazing, they’ve figured out the key to their happiness and marriage longevity which comes from them both making a personal decision to do the work. I love them! Laterras i end up following every single guest on your podcast, you seem to find the most amazing guests with amazing stories that stay with us Each Episode! I will never forget your guest! I’m soo happy you followed your calling!

[@DearFutureWifey]

Thank you for your solid support

[@pamsweat7492]

This was a great episode 🙌🏽. Laterras you are a prayer warrior.

[@MsBdoll87]

THIS WAS EVERYTHING!!!!!! I had no idea one of my tik tok favs were my siblings in Christ! Laterras, keep being using by God. You are SUCH a blessing to the body of Christ. I had only planned to watch a few minutes of this because it's late. Here I am 1hr and 45 min later still tuned in!

[@BrandyNicoleChristian]

I love this episode! I love it when people are real and transparent. I always tell people that it is important for them to be who they to reach who they need to reach. In God everything has a purpose. I love how honest they were about how they got started and the fact that they chose one another. So great!

[@L4A1D1Y]

This had me really laughing! These two came from the hood! Love this episode!😂😂😂😂

[@mdrenewed]

This is a reminder that, God will use what you have; if you will lay it at His feet and let Him transform you, in the process. I love how this couple own their story, without diluting it; may they continue to prosper and be about the kingdom's business. 🙏🏾❤

[@judyt3894]

Thank you for praying that powerful prayer for strengthening marriages. I pray it reaches every couple God intended for it to reach. God bless the Gardners for their transparency🙏

[@DrCareyYazeedTV]

Baaaaby! This was the one 🙌🏾 I love how real they are! Love Che Che’s personality🔥

[@lvjackson8030]

Power Couples are Powerful because God is @ the Center of their Power. Wonderful testimony of this couple & how they both sacrificed their own selves for each other. Thank you for having this beautiful couple here.

[@crystalstephenson8511]

This was the best interview, they both drop so much gems, so much. Guys write a book please

[@kopanomsiza345]

I love what she said at the end, come as you are and be loved for for what you are.

[@miasministry07]

Enjoyed this live. I pray GOD blesses this family tremendously.

[@heirtotheking5832]

Listen, Mr. Whitfield…this is a home run! Their relationship is the one I’m waiting for. Truly authentic!! 💕

[@KADIMO_]

What a lovely couple! I really enjoyed and loved the message too. ".... submitting to God... ... God will break you down to build you up..." These got me deep and profoundly so. Much Blessings to the Gardeners. And thank you LRW.

[@DearFutureWifey]

Yes! Thank you!

[@LovesJourney1]

The Gardners are hilarious. I simply adored this episode. To borrow the words of Cory Hughes When you know you know. They work perfectly together nothing less than a Union blessed by God.

[@oatmealbrownie09]

This episode was so relatable. I'm glad they talked about navigating toxicity.

[@dineoportiamagoro3212]

Great conversation - a breath of fresh air. I can listen to them talk the whole day, especially the lady. I wish them many years of happiness in their marriage

[@franciaboakye3019]

Laterras! Laterras! Laterras! You are on your way to winning some awards (very soon). Your show is everything. I wish you all the best👏👏👏

[@zakiyalescott2951]

Omg they are so hilarious! 😂 Such a beautiful couple! I love their transparency and bond! You can see and feel the love between them! I pray God continue to bless and elevate their marriage!

[@mzzroxxie]

Man!!! ChiChi had me screaming HUNNNTYY!!! God is good! He doesn’t need Roxie like that. He chose Ratchet Roxie to use my testimony not my Bible knowledge 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼

[@aleciakilandi2797]

I love this couple, they're so dope. The fact that they understood that it took both of them to get rid of their toxic self to be the best them. I love their entrepreneurship and their zeal in putting in the work. I love that he realize the Insecurities in his wife as her hurt self and love her through it and work towards healing her with love. I loved this session and the birthing of great things. May God continued blessings be with their union. 💖🙏

[@Katlady6505]

Laterras, I have been truly blessed by this series... It's confirmation from God that I'm doing the work to be what I need to be for my future husband.... I know it's never too late for a good thing when it comes from God... I just want to say " Thank You" for your obedience to start this series, "Dear Future Wifey".... I have been on this journey of self-discovery, healing, and restoration after my divorce. Again thank you, my soul has been Blessed tremendously!!!!!!!!!

[@Leah__Ro]

😩 the part about toxicity. Us both changing and working to get out of it. The part about the Vision board and triggers on the board or the part about holding her and speaking over her in her pain....man some many good points in this one. 🙌🏾❣️🙏🏾

[@wezizweginindza7129]

Finally got to catch up on this series!!! Thank you for these video!

[@delilah9464]

Another GREAT episode!!!!! Thank you! EVERYONE needs to hear this episode!!!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@shnnyouman1]

“If you walking with God, it gotta look different.”🙌🏾

[@maryanne8254]

This episode was such a blessing. You have no idea!

[@QueenMLA28]

They were so real and on point. I began to like them more as the interview was going on. They are definitely saving lives and r'ships!

[@MegaMizzdiva1]

I love this!! God will break you down to get you to fully trust and submit to HIM!! Listening to you both gave me confirmation. Thank you and God Bless you both. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@shieldoffaith7099]

I have followed this lady for a while on Instagram. Sometimes i get put off following what seems to be "perfect people lifestyles". However with her i always loved her energy. So its lovely to see so much more of her personality...soo down to earth and funny. I'm from U.K so cant place U.S accents, where is her hubby from...l just love his accent. Anyway praying for continued blessing for this lovely family. 💛🌹🌟

[@DearFutureWifey]

They live in Atlanta

[@patriciascorner4686]

What a great interview! I really liked how Rod was intentional about handling his wife's insecurities and plans he put in place. I have a question after listening to them, is it easier to take risks when unsaved than when a person's saved?

[@DearFutureWifey]

Of course because there's no spiritual standard.

[@promisegrace2248]

Amen I don't need all that either I just need a true man of God that loves and rely on him then I know he can love me

[@TS-lc8km]

This was so so good bro. Thanks for the consistency...all while being led by God. That is everything! The fact that you allow Him to govern this podcast is so appreciated and honored. Only He knows what everyone needs. Blessings!

[@mikag1137]

I looove the Gardner"s..Yasss The Husband Perfecting his Wife and the Wife Complete's and Secure's her Husband Heart. Yassssss

[@sylvietapos807]

So well said!

[@vanessahawkins8411]

Really enjoyed this conversation!! Very transparent and raw!! God is good!!

[@RealLadi228]

I'm learning so much....from these episodes they empower me spiritually at the same time I feel clueless prepared to be unprepared and to trust the HAND of GOD as the only true guidance as I continue to be a willing vessel with the purpose of God and His assignment for my life. THANKS 🙏🙏🙏 Laterras.... Beautiful couple 💕😍🤩🤩💪🫶

[@lindam3700]

Finally watched this beautiful, funny, powerful and emotional story. I must say I stayed laughing through out BUT the gems were plenty. Again THANK YOU LATERRAS for another thought provoking episode. Man you are raising the BAR! Relationships out here being questioned, being re-evaluated, things are falling apart for people for God to put together. Thanks! Thanks! My fav "If I gotta lean on God for why do I need Rod" oh man I just about died. Thanks for the Joy ride Mr. & Mrs. Gardner

[@MsFayt]

Thankful that God has placed this journey in your life, to produce these episodes. I am blessed by the messages, lessons. Above all, the word of God that comes through every episode and the lives that are transformed. Thank you.

[@kaki_karei]

This show is amazing! Always tons of gems in every episode.

[@conniec.1804]

I love them! Especially the part about going to counseling!

[@marshastoddart3665]

I am one of those women that can eat a cow and don't worry about it all my life but since COVID I have put on so much weight I now feel stress. I am trying to work out but time and will power is not there. I have been working on myself spirituality and mentally BUT not physically so now you all have given me the confirmation that I need to look after the entire package. Beautiful couple and wonderful program. One love💓

[@thebritneylashaun]

Your catalog never fails. I thoroughly enjoyed yet another one of your videos. Thanks!

[@DearFutureWifey]

Thank you so much

[@dr.adaretobediff.1950]

Good evening. So many people need to hear this. I needed to hear this. They hit the nail on the Head.

[@rebeccarainier4770]

The Gardners are an awesome couple and they surely kept it real via the podcast. May God continue to cover their beautiful family /marriage/ ministry / & businesses with His matchless Grace & Mercy

[@deepdiveconversationskamil8116]

Absolutely powerful conversation! Beautiful! 💫💫💫

[@keyziadaughterofzion6451]

Love the fact you support each other and allow the dreams to be fulfilled cudos not many marriages survives this season.

[@latoyasaylor5070]

But why am I crying 😭 right now omg this is so real ❤

[@ajayjohnson907]

Omg beyond powerful! Yes a divine couple❤❤❤ I love this healing on all levels! Loves wins always❤

[@taneshasmart929]

THIS... IS... MY... FAVORITE... PODCAST!!! I just can't help myself! 😩😩🥰🥰🤗🤗 Great show bro!!!

[@sarahburnett6632]

I relate to her because her being so attractive and we are both so down to earth also, I love it!!! So glad I hit this video, this couple is an aspiration to me!

[@Micheleb21]

I started following them since I started my fitness and health journey they are an inspiration to many

[@Christimony222]

This. Was. Amazingggg. I didn’t even know their story was anything like this!!! But, I love it! This series will bless you and your entire family because the lord favors marriage so deeply. I really appreciate this. So much. Thank you!