Te vs Ti in real life

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[@nutellafrogs4269]

Te vs Ti in real life Ti: why? Te: because I said so

[@entropy8634]

Te: have you done the thing you said you were going to do? Ti: no

[@Rezyon]

Are all parents Te????

[@Nina21_]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 omggg this cracked me up !!!! (Ti user btw)

[@lebecccomputer287]

@@Rezyon They have to pretend to be

[@Athena-h2w]

My dad's an ISTP and I'm an INTJ and I always end arguments with "BECAUSE I SAID SO" and my dad just looks at me like I'm insane before doing what I ask

[@WeCouldntFindNameYet]

i got so triggered at Te like it's not even a joke

[@euvoric]

yes

[@denisesiddon7241]

Same here. How do you do without thinking about it like that?

[@czeianamiguel5543]

As an inf Te, I can relate to Ti too. Like- dude- chill XD but maybe I could exactly act like the TE in the video, probably during a rush...

[@FalseWordz]

​@@czeianamiguel5543 also as an inf Te, yeah I will act like Te in the vid Because I want to get it over and done with, then I can go do something fun It's either that or I'm going to procrastinate and then when i need to do it, i will rush it and do without much thought

[@legolus]

Same for real

[@aubreys1675]

Te: how hard could it be? Ti: VERY hard Yup that about sums it up

[@choonblaze]

MBTI sources are soooo behind it's hard to see. Correction: Se: how hard could it be? Ni: VERY hard

[@PeterJohnson-rh5hi]

Feelers: "Let's all mind our tone of voice. Everyone is entitled to their opinion." Thinkers: "My idea is better than yours. Square up, punk."

[@BrodieBr0]

LOL Imagine the internal conflict of a very young feeler and thinker especially if I didn't like the idea. Do I: 1) Acknowledge the person does have the right to their opinion and respect it 2) Passive aggressivly state my own opinion and why it's better but not flat out SAYING it's better. (Now days I often choose 1 unless the opinion is so egregious it denies something that is an actual fact.)

[@Catralasarguido]

@@BrodieBr0 Usually, Ti just states options with pros and cons

[@Siansonea]

You're describing Fe users. Fi users are all "my values are more ethical than yours. Square up, punk."

[@banderivets_z_podilya]

Why did i read the Thinkers with British accent?

[@essennagerry]

Me who's both: Explains what's good about the other person's idea, pretends I just thought of something after considering how good their idea is (not necessarily suddenly and surprisingly, actually rarely like that, most often smoothly and calmly) and explains another thing we could do because of another factor I ("just") thought of

[@MichaelHill-sg8ks]

Te-dom: Hey, did you get that thing you said you wanted? Ti-dom: Not yet, there's no hurry. Te: What's the problem? You said you were going to get it a week ago! Ti: I'm just thinking about whether I really want it or not. Te: You know you want it. Just get it already! Ti: No. In any case, I need to look at an appropriate amount of reviews to decide whether it's actually a good product or not. Te: Then do it! Ti: I will. Te: When? Ti: When I want to. Te: You're impossible! Ti: ... Te: ... don't you dare. Ti: Have you considered all the factors before declaring me to be "impossible? " Te: Motherf-

[@FateHuh]

This almost sounds like my (Ti) conversation with my (Fe) friend 🤣 I always think over if I should buy things, while she'll always just buy what she knows she likes

[@MichaelHill-sg8ks]

@@FateHuh I (an INTP) literally once spent an entire year deciding whether to buy another guitar or not.

[@haliyamayari7407]

this is so real 😂 sometimes tho, because Ti considers ALl things before making a decision, small problems can become unnecessarily stressful, and that's when Ti needs Te -intp

[@sparklenights5421]

The there's no hurry triggers like a bomb.

[@Edw590]

@@MichaelHill-sg8ks My Ti is in the 4th position (INFP here), but I was like 3-4 months or something choosing a new phone to buy (old one was broken, but I could still control it with my voice - made a virtual assistant for that) just to get one that actually was decent for me (various characteristics), until I was forced to actually buy it 😂 (this is not counting the other 6 months before these I said in which I decided I'd not buy a new one because I had just bought the previous one and broke it 3 month later). EDIT: it's Te, not Ti. Heh. Whatever, still happened xD.

[@--thatbih]

As an ISTP who grew up with an ENTJ mother this is PAINFULLY accurate 💀

[@janetostergaard598]

I am an ENTJ mother with an ISTP son. I have been trying to be cognizant of the differences/preferences. It is very difficult because he processes so much internally. Sorry. I know as an ENTJ we can be a force when it comes to seeing things that we feel can be improved. This is especially true when we feel like it will better the life of someone we care about. Logic and reasoning are pretty much the only thing that will calm that storm.

[@blueskybluesky4014]

Intp with estj dad here 🙌🏼 we definitely speak different language.

[@Niveous23]

The irony of the ENTJ is that they usually make horrible bosses, despite always gravitating towards those positions. Too micro-managey. Too high of expectations, and too explosive about set-backs.They make great friends though.

[@tangerinetiger]

I'm INTP my boss is ENTJ. Dude, I always questioning what's for those unnecessary rush?

[@t0rtUR3D_bY_br41N]

istp with esfp mother here. It's a real hell including her Te-Fi. (That's why I'm sceptical towards te-fi ppl, not discriminating though). And sorry but I'm traumatized as heck bc of her emotional neglect.

[@MichaelGrundler]

As a Barry … I mean ISTP I have to say this is extremely accurate. That's almost exactly like I would react, including figuring out the plan how to do it yourself. I actually felt triggered by that display of unrestrained Te like if it was my own piano. And I don't have a piano.

[@trinaq]

Precisely, I use tertiary TI, so I was on Barry's side. I like to compare and contrast my options so that it makes sense, and I'm not a fan of rushing just to get it done.

[@farrex0]

@@trinaq Absolutely, but even if it is objectively the best option, the one Te wants to take.... I hate that Te mentality of we have to do it NOW! Why? Because we have to do it NOW!

[@hanantiayu5176]

me too. but sometimes it makes me lazy but we thrive in deadline and emergency situation

[@bubblezbucket]

i'm not even a ti user and I felt triggered that was unhinged

[@shar3859]

@@bubblezbucket ugh same. the Te rushing without listening to anyone stressed me out

[@nickmerchant4588]

I looked away for a second and missed the Te and Ti labels but it was still entirely clear who was who. Also kudos for being believably good at your blind spot.

[@dearkristin]

Thanks Nick 😁

[@delusionalfan]

There were labels? Wow I think I missed that

[@jashepoon]

wait. Is it better if she's believably good, or unbelievably good?

[@nickmerchant4588]

@@jashepoon unbelievably believable

[@punkbunnee9558]

TI likes to mull things over for a while 1st 😅 but by the time we actually do it, it's done properly the 1st time. no need to redo it.

[@siwap3809]

you actually kinda nailed the little Ti thing at the end. i, personally, have this bad habit of thinking through and coming up with a thought-out solution to a possibility i denied mere minutes ago. - INTP (Ti dom)

[@justinwhite2725]

Ti 'i need more time to think about it' Te 'introduced a time pressure' Ti 'ir can't be done - no way' (Five minutes later) Ti okay here's how I can make your deadline work.

[@eggfishy]

Me: "No" 10 minutes later Me: "Actually, yes and here's how" I try to be more Te and make quick decisions, but it doesn't work out that way in the end.

[@siwap3809]

@@eggfishy basically. if i dont 'Te' a situation, i end up taking way too much time to do shit. but if i forcefully 'Te' a situation, i end up making a really stupid decision (that (in some cases) i am cursed to never forget).

[@eggfishy]

@@siwap3809 EXACTLY

[@ashleighsalinas8526]

Me too lol

[@jashepoon]

As a Ti-Dom pianist with a Mom who's a professional pianist and piano teacher (who also doesn't drive anymore...) yeah if someone were to do this to our grand Kawai~, ETVU Kristin may not remain the only person arrested for attempted murder 😡

[@trinaq]

Haha, my Tertiary TI definitely shares in that sentiment!

[@siwap3809]

@@trinaq oo are you an ISFJ or an INFJ? just curious haha

[@trinaq]

@@siwap3809 Haha, I'm an INFJ, though I'm sometimes mistaken for an ISFJ. How about yourself? 😁

[@siwap3809]

@@trinaq INTP 😁 and yeah, sensors are quite rare in the mbti community, cant wait to stumble across a few more in my lifetime haha

[@trinaq]

@@siwap3809 Pleased to meet your acquaintance. I'm mostly surrounded by sensors myself, but two of my closest pals happen to be INTPs, and another an INFP.

[@skrubbed]

this is really accurate. im a ti dom and i have a te dom friend that just does things way too quickly for me. i need to at least understand what we're doing, how to do it, why we're doing it before we actually do it. this video felt exactly like that lmao.

[@lidijakrneta3137]

Yeah, TEs are unberable. I also have friend who is Te dom and lastly I wonder why are we even friends when we are so different. I annoy him and he annoys me.

[@skrubbed]

@@lidijakrneta3137 i like my te dom friend though, hes funny and we usually enjoy conversing with one another

[@kyurei4478]

​@@lidijakrneta3137Because despite the annoying part you're incredibly useful and valuable for each other I assume? That's why we say the opposites attract. Technically the most helpful person for you should logically be the most different from you because they have all the strengths you lack and vice versa. It's crazy to think (in a good way) that you can even form a bond of trust with someone you personally despise, even if the relationship might be very complicated. It's still possible to work together and do great things. I think that gives food for thoughts regarding connections.

[@o0ofatasyo0o]

The way the Te-dom stressed me the f out immediately. Yup, definitely am a Ti-dom if I had any doubts before 🤣

[@InJeffable]

I'm an ISFP, so both of these approaches are alien to me. I'd probably procrastinate as much as possible only to finally awaken my inferior Te out of a dead sleep so that I can figure something out at the last minute.

[@uprisingsun9105]

Same! I was like hang on, how come neither of these are familiar? Ah, right, dominant Fi.

[@magnificentsven1694]

Haha very relatable as an INFP

[@frenchblue3211]

Dom Fi users unite! I actually found more solidarity with the Ti user in this case. Goes to show how similar introverted judging functions can appear similar on the outside. I found myself as an INFP just listening to the Te and going, “Woooaaahhhh slow down there cowboy. That’s a sudden leap in decision to be making without consulting the person who actually owns it.” And related with Ti all the way up until they said they figured how they could move the piano themselves. I was just like, “…ok but why tho. These services exist for a reason. Convenience, time, energy > cost.” Aaaaand that’s my inf Te kicking in lol

[@1chienandalou]

Tis the ENTP way, also.. worst of both worlds 😁

[@spacesimp]

​@@1chienandalou Ah, there you are. I thought I was just the one thinking that Te is me when I'm too lazy. Can't believe I ever mistook myself as an INTP before, def not a Ti dom.

[@Hitori-h9g]

As a Te user, I want to move the piano myself without waiting for a whole day just to move a damn piano

[@banderivets_z_podilya]

Still Ti is more reasonable there

[@Toni7926]

@@banderivets_z_podilya I believe Te is not about being reasonable, but rather about being efficient. It might look worse or not even work at all anymore, but the job is done quickly without too much effort.

[@marinaabreu9323]

@@Toni7926 or, you will end up with a damaged piano, a really mad housemate and a couple more bills to pay

[@clmberserker245]

i'm more the "call the first guy without comparing the prices" sort. and if the first guy isn't replying within 5 minutes to confirm if he can make it, i'll move on to the second. when i moved out i contacted like 4 or 5 moving companies because i felt that them making me wait 5 minutes to reply was too much. the one that replied first is the one i officially booked.

[@Hitori-h9g]

@@marinaabreu9323 how hard can it be to move a piano? It will be fine as long as you are careful and know how to move it. It's not a rocket science.

[@trinaq]

Your acting skills are so on point, Kristin. It's easy to distinguish each function. I live with two ISTJs, so their high TE is rampant in situations like these. As a tertiary TI user, they just can't understand why I would leave things to the last minute, as opposed to getting them done right away.

[@zzzcocopepe]

apparently procrastination is tied to emotion management, not actually time management. lol. although not to say you procrastinate. Ti Kristin wasn't really procrastinating so much as just managing her time on her own.

[@tillyyyyy3277]

@@zzzcocopepe I was going to say the same thing, some of the biggest procrastinators I know are Te doms so it doesn’t seem to have much to do with that

[@ADeeSHUPA]

@@tillyyyyy3277 あっぷ

[@oasis8172]

This is incredibly accurate as a Te dom. Sometimes I don't use Ni to think about all the other angles of a situation since I'm focus on what needs to be done, finding ways to take care of it so it doesn't need to be completed last minute.

[@nerysghemor5781]

My ENTJ Dad actually DID decide to move a piano himself despite my mom (ESTJ) and me (INFP) being against it. Yes, there was damage. Thankfully not lethal damage but still. Not cool!

[@onepotatwothree]

@@nerysghemor5781 Man, I can't imagine how you as an INFP survive with ENTJ and ESTJ parents xD

[@mikeo7803]

Tunnel vision

[@nerysghemor5781]

@@onepotatwothree LOL, it can be crazy sometimes. 🤣 Though you might be surprised how sometimes we can vibe (especially with my mom, the ESTJ).

[@daniellecward5400]

Oh wow as a Te dom I feel exposed 😱😱This is painfully accurate. ‘Because it’s done and we can all relax’ is 100% my life motto. Trouble is as a Te dom once something is done, then we are always looking for the next thing that needs to done…

[@euph1na]

Bold Te + Se, Si PoLR

[@honeymoney23]

Exactly! Cause why wait??

[@Aziz0938]

Ironically te is the reason for all the fucked up systems in the world

[@Vector12345t]

This is something I thought about comparing the way me and my brother (ISTJ or ESTJ, I'm not sure) write our books. I spent almost 2 years just to figure out the main characters, plot, world building and doing random research on writing techniques and other related topics before even touch the computer while he straight up searched what are the fonts and general layout used by the publishers.

[@thanhheu4129]

*hand shake* 👋, as a fellow ISTJ who would do exact the same way like you 😂

[@muhsinashardow998]

ISTJs and ESTJs both share Te though... Maybe its just a matter of ordering, like he has Te 1rst and you have it second. 🤷🏾‍♀

[@Vector12345t]

@@muhsinashardow998 Just to clarify, I'm an INTP so I have Ti. He is the one with Te as he isn't wasting time and already thinking about publishing the book before everything else. At least, that's my theory but I'm still not sure about my ability to type people. (Ti things I suppose)

[@muhsinashardow998]

@@Vector12345t oh sorry I thought in the parenthesis' was your personality types...😅

[@jimclayson]

Middle aged INTP who grew up under the thumb of an ESTJ older sister and the video pretty much tracks. Bane of existence during my childhood, but we get along fine now. Took me a LONG time to come to terms with the fact that it's just how she shows she cares. It's not her fault her way of caring makes me miserable... Yeah, I get where Te is coming from, and I even dip into it myself on occasion (procrastination only takes one so far)... but I couldn't live like that 24/7.

[@yoyoheads]

As an INTJ with an INTP sister, I've had these conversations with her so many times 😂.

[@yoby4984]

Same

[@LibraryofAcousticMagic3240]

@@yoby4984 oh lovely. We too have this dynamic though i'm the INTP.

[@exnihilonihilfit6316]

How do you like your sister otherwise? 😁

[@mat-tilde]

THIS! As an INFJ I swear I've had similar experiences like this with my ESTJ friend and it's a genuine cause of tension in our friendship. I love her but she can be so uncompromising at times and never slows down to consider things once she thinks she's found a way forward. I got a huge spike of anxiety just watching this 😅

[@westernredcedar4033]

& similar - INFJ w/ISTJ spouse

[@sarahberkner]

That does sound like a problem but I kind of get it, sometimes people want to slow down and think about something or put it off even though it's clearly the right choice but other times they have a legitimate issue with it or a hunch that ended up being right.

[@itzbuv_sin]

INFJ have Ti though

[@yoby4984]

I see how my Te works now. I do often try to do things myself before reaching out for help and because of this i also do extensive research and how-to's along the way. -INTJ

[@FirstNameLastName-of7to]

My non existent therapist will be hearing about the amount of stress I felt from merely watching the Te dom in this video - ENTP

[@MichaelGrundler]

**grabs phone from left pocket** **answers call** **puts phone away into right pocket** Yeah, definitely not Ti.

[@jashepoon]

hahahhaha

[@dearkristin]

Hahaha!

[@martpepkin472]

hehehe

[@chocolatecookie4502]

how is this ti?

[@kyurei4478]

Exactly hi hi!

[@julietteferrars3097]

Literally my mom and I! She drives me crazy with her Te and I drive her crazy with my Fe. 😂 She’ll talk on and on about the condition of the kitchen sink and I’m always like, “Yes, but what about the condition of your ~soul~?”

[@Meg_intheclouds]

As an ENFP with an ISTJ mum I FEEL THIS! She tells me to “o it now and get it out the way” and I’m like but I need to be I’m creative mood

[@julietteferrars3097]

@abder I'm not entirely sure what her type is but ISTJ is probably correct. I am an INFJ!

[@julietteferrars3097]

@abder ❤

[@julietteferrars3097]

@abder I've read their blog posts, I don't think I'm on the server though.

[@theartsyfarmer3748]

Idk why, but this comment is hilarious to me, and I will be disappointed if Kristin doesn’t put it on Instagram XD

[@StrawberrySilk]

This needed to come with a trigger warning. I would have yeeted Ms Te out of the room.

[@cerebrummaximus3762]

Out of all the functions you've made a video on, Ti is my spirit animal and the one I can relate the most to!

[@BrodieBr0]

LOL So relatable from my experience having Ti with some Te users. When I was younger and stuck in the Ni-Ti loop I pity any Te's trying to get any sort of decision out of me. 🤣Thanks Kristin, loved it!! 😁

[@LauraCoubert]

LOL, this is so fricking accurate! I get why it can be hard to understand how Ti users process analysis and make decisions. As a Ne-Ti axis user I know I can drive Te doms crazy, mostly because our thought process can be random and extensive to a point we're not sure it's worth trying to explain all the factors and subjective impressions that are going on in our mind. Sometimes, when we do, Te users try to simplify it all and it can be frustrating for us too how they're missing all the details and disregarding our personal assessment of whatever logic we're following.

[@fattysl26]

I'm an ENFP and my brother is an ENTP, sometimes I'll just watch him talking about the how and the why about doing something. I can feel myself getting incredibly bored, my Te kicks in and I just summarise what needs to be done and just do it lol. He's about all the details and I'm all about knowing enough to get the job done.

[@meganm4877]

Can confirm this is exactly what living with a Te dom is like. Weird thing is I’ve got Te child (enfp) but my reactions would be pretty darn close to the Ti user.

[@kellikakes81]

Same. I think we can sometimes LOOK LIKE a "pseudo" Ti, due to our Ne-Fi filtering, before taking our Te action; our mental processes are different. I am totally like that Ti in the video. My Te dom bf is totally like the Te in the video. It's annoying lol.

[@LizzMo]

ENFP here, and I analyze everything before I do it! Making decisions is exhausting. Too many possibilities.

[@JosephParker7]

That seems more like Se-Te just trying to get things done in the moment, than responsible Te usage

[@Monochromatification]

Basically just an ENTJ talking to an ISTP

[@clmberserker245]

coincidentally, that's exactly the axis ESFP Kristin has :D . i'm an ENTJ (or INTJ, but ENTJ seems likelier) and i'm more with Ti here. 1. his piano, his business, unless there is something else to be done and the piano is in the way, i'm trusting Ti do get his shit done. 2. if Ti wouldn't have taken care of the piano as of 3 days before the big move, THEN i'd have stuck my nose in, and not before gathering info and starting to order the other housemates around without any consideration of if they are busy or not for the most efficient way of taking care of it

[@JosephParker7]

@@Monochromatification An Entj would be more calculated and methodical in their approach, and would be more mindful of the consequences of such an impulsive decision, taking the relevant variables into consideration. That aligns more with Ni inferior, not Ni aux

[@julial.r.5383]

@@Monochromatification Or an ESTJ. Seriously reminds me of my sister!

[@MazorKuziaki]

At last, my procrastination is justified.

[@Spectacular-Spider-Dan]

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[@tytration]

Whoa, I'd love to see that I'll consider donating; thanks!

[@CommonCommenter]

When Ti said, “I need at least three nights to sleep on it,” I wanted to cry. 😅 Te

[@haliyamayari7407]

3 nights is already quite rushed -Ti

[@grazynawolska8160]

Oof me too! Te wants to get it done so we can relax to ensure it's done. It makes us scared to leave things to last minute because what if things go wrong and there isn't enough time? We'll be anxious about it for weeks. In this situation I prolly leave the piano to Ti user if they protested this much, but if it doesn't get done on time, I'd be like "oh well" and not care at all because Ti wanted to assume the risks of not getting it done on time so let them deal with the consequences. It's the only way I found to deal mentally with constant procrastination from their end.

[@lidijakrneta3137]

@@grazynawolska8160 "so you can relax"?? How can you relax knowing that you did everything in such a hurry so who knows what went wrong and problems are just gona keep poping up? Wouldn't you be more relaxed if you have time to think it through and then do it correctly?

[@CommonCommenter]

@@grazynawolska8160 Yes! Exactly! Thank you ❣️

[@gingergamer3270]

As someone with TE as my last function, I really resonate with the comment of "then it's over and done with and we can relax." I love getting things out of the way, off my shoulders etc.

[@magnificentsven1694]

INFP here, I may or may not have a tendency to relax and then get things done at the last minute

[@gingergamer3270]

@@magnificentsven1694 I'm an INFP, but I have anxiety, I always feel like I'm not being productive enough

[@lilmrscutsie4524]

@@gingergamer3270 me too. what's your enneagram? i'm a 6w7 my fear/anxiety compels me to act. I have always been more action oriented than the average INFP

[@gingergamer3270]

​@@lilmrscutsie4524 oh I only just saw this comment now, I haven't been getting replies on KZbin. I haven't done my ennagram in a while but I'll get back to you

[@gingergamer3270]

​@@lilmrscutsie4524Apparently I am a 6w5. The type six thing seems to make sense in my mind lol.

[@bubbamalone2318]

Wow this is me (ENTJ) and my hubby (ISTP). You totally captured his expression when I inadvertently hijack his projects.

[@alexanderforrester2558]

This is easily one of the most inhumane intrapersonal situations that I feel like the universe puts on me with regularity. Hell is other people. -Ti user

[@piuuw3214]

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[@EDventureous]

Exactly the interaction style between my Te dad and myself (Ti).

[@eddiekitzhofer4245]

I'm an ISTP with an INTJ dad. This is pretty close to almost every conversation between us. Except when he suggests doing something 'ourselves,' he of course isn't included in the execution. Only the planning.

[@FlamingCockatiel]

Your last sentence gives me total annoyance by reminding me of some bosses I had that promised customers more work than my group could do at a certain point.

[@kyurei4478]

Yeah I feel like people usually confuse Te with getting things done but it's more about finding how to do things efficiently, not directly doing it. Se is doing things cause Se does things. Must be so easy to do things right when you're ISTP btw when you have Ti to think a lot about how to do it and then Se to do it fast with skill without wasting time.

[@eddiekitzhofer4245]

@@kyurei4478 That's what we like to tell ourselves.

[@kyurei4478]

@@eddiekitzhofer4245 Rightly or not, I guess no one really has the answer but at least many might see it that way. Although I can see how it could not be emotionally speaking and for harmony, but nobody can pretend to be perfect after all. At least for efficiency it's probably very handy.

[@PeterRadacovsky-cm7np]

Ehh no. Its the opposite

[@daisydaisy246]

My bestfriend is an ISTJ and I am an INTP, when we decided to buy smth...she always ask everyone and making comparison which one the cheapest one and so on and so forth. She also double checking the rating and review of the shop and product. She did it as soon as possible, like so restless if she want to buy smth. My decision making is more personal, I didn't ask everyone else like she did because my decision making is solely only me who can decide. I need considerable amount of analysis, also I have to analyze my own financial problem before I decided to buy it. My ISTJ friend is quicker from me when she making decision. The thing I always ask is how she gonna pay it, did she have money? How much money available for her to eat and so on and so forth. She can be more impulsive than me somehow. I am very slow to make a decision, usually I make those decision at the last minute lol.

[@sarahberkner]

I don't think not taking one's financial situation into account is normally an ISTJ trait, that could be more upbringing or something, or they could be better at finances than you realize because they budget beforehand and already know if they can afford it or not. I'd recommend checking out Dave Ramsey if you're looking for help making financial decisions, he gives some good tips about financial planning.

[@daisydaisy246]

@@sarahberkner she is very well planned, she has a lot of reseves on different necessities. But she somehow can be quite impulsive, it is what I mean. Maybe it is her inferor Ne..I am not sure

[@loladupont6280]

I love how the Ti takes time to be logical with all factors when the Te dom is about to be efficient. Personnaly with my Ni-dom I can relate to the picture of Ti in this video when it comes to calculate all possibilities to be the most effective as possible. But yeh, I'm INTJ and my boyfriend is ENTP and this is the kind of situation we have ALL THE TIME. Pretty accurate, I love this kind of video where we can really see how fonctions can act ! 😊✨

[@athos401]

As an intp who's parents are definitly both te users, this was astonishingly accurate

[@leont.17]

Love this. Not comparing prices as a Te-User is admittedly probably one of our worst traits, but it's like an addiction

[@magnificentsven1694]

I have a hard time understanding that. My mom's an ISTJ and getting a good deal is like crack to her haha. As an INFP, my Te is further down but I spend a ton of time thinking purchases over and comparing.

[@Diaming787]

That's more for Te-doms.

[@dawnriddler]

We have a website for these sorts of things, so you can just sort by price and problem solved.

[@sn0wflake]

Te and Ti were the functions I understood the least. But I knew within five seconds of this video which one I was, and I’m now recontextualizing my entire life. Awesome.

[@tangerinetiger]

In the moment she said: I do it for you, I already triggered. -intp-

[@Cindy-kb3xu]

oh my god, this is totally a summary of my relationship with my parents all these years in one video. They are both Te dom and I am infj, and we always had a lot of fights due to the different way of dealing with things.

[@lasma1003]

As an ENFP I can definitely relate more to Te user in this video even though it is only my third function. But sometimes I wish I would use it more because when I do I can be extremely productive. Doesn’t happen too often though. I still procrastinate too much. 😅

[@magnificentsven1694]

Strange, I'm an INFP with Te in the fourth slot. The Te user in the video seemed so illogical and rushed to me! I much more related with the Ti user...

[@flusel4949]

ENFP here too, and I also would relate more with the Ti user. The Te user was rather frustrating to me here.

[@kruggmichaels8958]

@@magnificentsven1694 The slot that a function is in isn't completely related to how often you use that function. Each function is associated with a different region of the mind, according to Jung. For example I think he described the 4th slot as being associated with the unconscious mind. Whereas the 1st slot is associated with conscious mind.

[@Twosocks42]

This is the dynamic between me (Ti) and my wife (Te). She wants it done right now, I'd rather get around to it as I take some pockets of time to do comparisons and mull over it and then get t it. Just last night she was asking me to do something right there and then, when it wouldn't even matter until two days from now. I'm like, "I need to figure some stuff out, and I have two days, so what is the big deal." To her, "I don't want to worry about it!" Lmao.

[@Turnsnap]

Im shook at how hurt i am by this, this is literally my (INFJ) wife (ENFP) wife and I.

[@mauritsbol4806]

That ti coming strong when everyone is when at peace of mind.

[@anameig9332]

My Ti-dom with my huge ass Ne-dom can never comprehend why Te rushes things lmao. I take my time to think in all ways, or in other words, procrastinate while getting a little anxious (INTP, but Te-inf)

[@gali13896]

Yay, I've been waiting for this one!

[@rf7182]

Te: Let's do it! It is reasonable Ti: I need some times to research and more information

[@jordanjoestar-turniptruck]

NiTe, yes I'm allergic to procrastination. But I can whip up a plan pretty quick so I'm not running in completely half-cocked. When both our cars were going out, I learned how cars worked, how to DIY oil changes to run through my oil treatments, what the obd codes meant, typical repair time a shop would ask and ultimately how to find the best car at the top of the market when the cost was just too much. Got myself a lovely 98 Crown Vic within a few days, 81k miles, $4.5k. Civilian model so low idle hours. Cleaned the dusty brakes, replacing the accessory belt this spring, and keeping an eye on the suspension. It just feels so good to get 'er done. But yes, with proper research. Thanks Ni, you're Te's best teammate.

[@Unelith]

I've run out of your sketches to watch, I've seen them all already : x So glad every time there's a new one

[@EyeHeartSUSHI]

Im an ISTP and i always have this process.. Especially the not doing it right now part. Concoct a plan first

[@honda-akari]

As a Te dom (ENTJ), we need to get things done ASAP because otherwise it is killing us inside.

[@Rider-yb3sd]

Te: "i'll call the guy so we can rest easier" Me: *PTSD*

[@ThruJesusChrist]

Literally me (ENTJ) and my INFJ friend. I hate to admit it but a lot of times now I wish I had Ti and rn I'm trying to think more like that. Not totally.... having a nice balance is good.

[@umcaraqualquer3640]

The Te dom was getting so much on my nerves, like, holy shit. I'm an Aux Ti user (ESTP), and grew up with Te dom parents. It was pretty much like this.

[@heterotrophic]

wow, that's an insane number of lines, Barry!

[@INTP_Apologist]

As an INTP who has known numerous Te users, this is really accurate. I often want to take my time to think about something and consider all of the variables, but sometimes they just put their foot down and tell me to hurry up. Even if I like the person, it’s kind of irritating to me.

[@CamzCritiques]

as an Fi dom i've just been swinging my head back and forth trying to grasp what theyre saying and how i feel abt it

[@clonedgoodness]

As a Ti, I would 100% have been down for moving it ourselves and saving the money.

[@elevenkthirtyseven]

The Te in the Video: *tries to get it done as soon as possible* Me, a Te: *procrastinates to do other stuff until just enough time is left to do the thing I'm supposed to do so that I won't slack off as much* I mean, whatever works out, I suppose.

[@guacazole140]

Also TE: *relentlessly beats oneself up for not being more efficient or competent*

[@Diaming787]

Yes! It's always that Fi.

[@graywyck2886]

For a second I thought the part at 1:24 is a Fallout 4 reference

[@tomasgonzales]

The "Are you kiding me? Why? Did you compare prices?" with that look of geniune concern🤣

[@Diana-rv5nm]

Ti, the one function that can (probably) deal with Te xD

[@tytration]

This Te user reminds me of my friend. It bothers her immensely to leave something unfinished LMAO

[@robinmarlson]

Situations like these are casual situations between my ISTJ father & ISFJ mother... Great video! 😂😂

[@malaj7519]

As an ESTP with ENTJ ESTJ as parents this is really accurate

[@TrueAlpha100]

I was raised by 2 TE, type A folks, why yes I AM traumatized.

[@Kingpinatron]

Literally every conversation I(Ti) have had with my wife(Te) when it's come to getting something done.

[@kirarishappire1942]

THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS VIDEOOO I'VE WAITED SO LONG FOR THIS EX-vs-IN FUNCTION SERIES TO BE COMPLETED 😭😭😭💘

[@erinbuxton6787]

My Te hubby wouldn't even consider calling someone else to move it! This conversation wouldn't even happen because he gets up at 4am daily and would have already moved it by himself by 6am.

[@Coneman3]

Te gets more done, but misses lots of details and makes errors.

[@CRlifeisgood]

That's what my ISTP husband says 😂

[@SuperKatiki]

Today I learned a new Australian word: removalist. Well on my way to accomplishing my goal of being fluent in Australian by the end of the year.

[@benjaminfast5496]

Gosh, Te is terrifying and this Te was very triggering for me. Lol. Very good representation of the functions.

[@JuuuEmpathy]

go on Te!!!! i love it how i relate so much to Te that i dont even care what those Ti are saying - INFP

[@CineMairon]

I wished for that video to come, so I have a relatable accurate example to give when I explain the difference between Te and Ti in a sketch, where it's quite clear. Another example I had was a conversation between ESTJ and ISTP couple where the ESTJ was focusing on WHAT will get the job done but the ISTP was questioning HOW does this works and made a research to it. Personally I see Ti in myself when I am working on projects and devices trying to figure them on my own instead of following the most common way, if I am not convinced it is indeed better. And of course overanalysing things is the thing I spend most of my time doing.

[@TheRockzone03]

I waited for this movie Ti vs Te since when I saw Se vs Si and Fe vs Fi. I finally got it

[@thanhheu4129]

Well, first thank you for this kit 🙏 Second, as an ISTJ, if I have (well, or assume that I have 😬😅) enough of time, I will always do the research first how to Do a thing (Si), because I came up with a whole lots of contradicting information, until I can synthesize a lot info as possible to came to a general way of Doing this thing in the righteous way (without ANY unnecessary consequences, because that costs resources). Until that, which can take me LOT of time, I can't Do the thing (Te). That can apply if there has been no strict deadlines.

[@icepelt]

As an INTP who plays piano, I felt that lol

[@vsml333]

The Te person stresses me out 😵 haha I'm definitely a Ti user

[@bunnicula3221]

I've a lot of burnt bridges due to Ti-Te differences. Don't need more stress in my life.

[@debra05]

It's like my dad the ESTP and my brother the ISTJ with all the clashes and commonalities!😅 Thanks Kristin!

[@audrareese59521]

OH MY GOSH YAYYYY I'VE BEEN WAITING FOR THIS ONE!!

[@nitzan3782]

"How hard can it be" must be the famous last words of ENTJs & ESFPs.

[@melioraemeritus1]

I love my IxTJ dad likes to get things done, but yes he can rush too quickly and can sometimes make silly mistakes like this. I get rushed too, but I can be more cautious about pricing and reading reviews in a situation like this. My ESFP mother would love the idea of moving the piano herself though.

[@deccy_boi5569]

As an infp I feel the annoyance of Ti, I guess because of my Si and because of how pushy and Se Te seems, yet lowkey want the energy of Te to just be so eager to get shit done. But mainly, I find this whole thing really quite funny because I never have conversations like this and it's almost alien.

[@broccolionswag]

this is so interesting and explains so much. i have te and it's super relatable to do random thing just to do it and then relax. and if it happened to be bad just do other thing

[@RlyOverBored]

0:15-0:23 THAT was a Ti in a nutshell, even adding Ti's typical issue with Te users! Everything else was solid!

[@Maria-sf9ic]

Finally, the last one! My life is officially complete!

[@bugsbunny3453]

thank youuu for these sketches! i finally understood in a better way the si, se and ti and te!

[@robertbobb92]

Barry. Hand over that piano to me. I need the wood to keep my mountain lions warm.

[@SOULJAJOE010]

lol i see what you did there

[@tabby_cat]

The verbal equivalent of peeling a grape vs just chomping on it.

[@kruggmichaels8958]

Te: It's a grape, it's delicious, just eat it Ti: No, I don't think I will

[@1001musings]

Ti….sometimes I feel it’s my downfall, sometimes it’s the best thing ever

[@sophialavreniouk6110]

I'm so glad you finally did the Te/Ti episode, I'm supposedly an INFJ and have been trying to better understand what Ne is and how it's different to Ni, what Si is ... And what the doodle is Te or Ti. Now you've left me with more queations. What is the difference between Ti and Ni? And Te vs Se Lmao can you tell I'm trying to understand my third and fourth functions?

[@kenthartig7065]

Well I can say with certainty that the largest difference between the pairs in question is that they each include a sensing and a judging function. The sensing functions (any functions that involve S or N) are about how you take in information, while the judging functions (they are the T and F guys) are about how you process information to make decisions.

[@uhpluplum]

This video helped me zone in on my mbti type - now I need to figure out if I am entp, intp, istp or estp. I will wait for the next sketch to determine my result 😎

[@magnificentsven1694]

I suggest you try some online tests rather than going function by function. For example, I use Te but it's my 4th function and my other functions take the lead in terms of taking time to think things through. So I related way more to the Ti user here.

[@not_gracee]

BAHAHA the Te is the exact replica of my mum