Debunking 5 Hidden Myths of Marriage!

5 Myths of Marriage that No One Talks About
Myth Number One - the divorce rate is at 50%. Not true. 72% of those who have ever been married are still married to their first spouse.
Myth Number Two - most marriages are average. Not true. Around 80% of marriages are happy.
Myth Number Three - the divorce rate in the church is the same as in the world. Not true. Weekly church attendance lowers the divorce rate 25 to 50 percent.
Myth Number Four - remarriages are doomed to fail. Not true. Most are doing well.
Myth Number Five - marriage problems are caused by major issues. Not true. More than 99% of spouses deeply care about each other.
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Watch the interview Men vs. Women: The Science Behind Our Differences with Jeff and Shaunti here: • Men vs. Women: The Sci...
Chapters
0:00 - Intro
1:48 - Myth 1: "50% of marriages end in divorce"
10:50 - Myth 2: Are most marriages average?
18:28 - Myth 3: Divorce is the same among Christians as in the world
25:23 - Myth 4: Second marriages have a higher divorce rate
30:41 - Myth 5: Marriage problems are caused by major issues
34:26 - Believe your spouse has good intentions toward you
38:06 - Why is the divorce rate declining?
42:15 - Final thoughts
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[@victoriajohnson3034]

Learning to get rid of an unforgiving heart is key to a long happy marriage! No holding grudges and resentment!!!!

[@billymotta8996]

Damn aint that the truth.

[@Luvy1111]

Love is the answer❤️God is the answer.

[@donnasteadham5634]

Renewing your marriage mind 😊 the wow factor is society has put faith into the half truths of these studies and how the devil builds things up bigger in our minds than they actually are. Good stuff y’all!!!❤

[@sigh08]

the research data debate is soooooo important in general (facts/truth debates). our enemy is strategic. "Intelligent" research doesn't always equate to truth. Thank you!!!!!!

[@RASHASA1237]

I knew it all along!!! PRAISE!!! GOD!!! Be!!! Blessed!!!🕊🤍

[@To-rz2iz]

When we had many problems of all kind of erea in our life and marriage, I lay in hospital on my lowest and deepest darkness and choose that moment for God even if it cost my marriage. My husband didnt believe. Our life is radically changed since I lay my life in His hands. My husband found Jesus , He had a real encounter with Him. Since Jesus is with us in our marriage, we have a very strong relationship. Only becoase of Him! Our life is never be the same ! Deeply gratefull❤

[@vifi3069]

Praise the Lord, there is hope for everyone to have a good marriage in Him❤

[@laurens8623]

I've heard people say it's even 50% divorce in churches

[@agnesr.4664]

THIS gives me so much hope! For the longest time in my life I believed the devil was just so powerful. But everything from God (as marriage is his institution) - if you put him first, it for sure is very much protected. This just fills me with so much joy!

[@rhythm_soul7]

Marriage is good. Godly marriage is enjoyable. There are more divorced marriages outside the church than inside the church. Believe the best intentions of your spouse.

[@Luvy1111]

You have given me hope❤️thank you amazing man! God bless❤️love.

[@efuaitua5957]

Thank you so much for this video!!! One thing I learned is that the devil will use ANYTHING, including FAKE sources, to plummet hope about marriages. Because they ARE SO POWERFUL spiritually! They bring unity to the community! And are so powerful that when God punished Israel in Jeremiah 16:9 He made sure to remove marriages as well, so that they won’t undo His work by uniting Israel during His punishment. He of course, brought marriages back in Jeremiah 33:10-11 after repentance.

[@adrienneberry1764]

I was left with the true belief in pre-marital counseling. Good, experienced, Christian counseling.

[@victoriajohnson3034]

Love this video! Think it's not as simple as attending a church. Think it would be the same if you were doing Bible study with your partner once a week, praying together daily, and have couple friends that are married Christians with same practices in their marriages.

[@shelateffo]

Notification on 😁 I’m looking forward to this one 😁💃🏽

[@chrisdavis405]

Love this! Shared it with my marriage and family group leaders!

[@champitadub]

Wonderful conversation!!

[@nursed.porchae990]

I love how you can feel her passion for this subject as she is speaking about it. Good job ma'am and sir 👏🏾. I am the same way when I research and find new/truth!

[@RCL0921]

Bless you Shaunti, Jeff and Pastor Vlad. GOD made Marriage aaa Holy Matrimony❤️👩‍❤️‍👨. Go GOD.

[@arthursempebwa]

Amaaaaazing information👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 hope has come and His name is Jesus🫶🏽♥️

[@user-ge1vv2hs1n]

When her husband is aloud to say something?

[@nursed.porchae990]

Keep listening. He speaks within the first 5 min actually.

[@Emmanuel-tq1vc]

This was very encouraging!

[@belovedsoniathewriter]

informative and helpful information about marriage

[@adlihkristopher2906]

Waiting to hear all about it ❤

[@rockr-ty5im]

She has not included the non legal separation which is has no paper trails, so more marriages technolly do end.

[@shahar26]

Exactly

[@Womb_to_Tomb_Apologetics]

Shaunti Feldhaun is great! Love her stuff. 💯

[@olgasafi9126]

This is so refreshing

[@bereniceduran620]

Amen sister God bless!💗

[@aidenprocopio6438]

This video gives a lot of hope🥲

[@michalezzo1024]

This isn't a breath of fresh air. I'm literally getting breakthrough in my mind right now! 🤯 I didn't realize there was still a fear of marriage within me because my parents were divorced and I've heard these myths for so long! Thank you so much! Infinity times thank you!

[@lorraine3525]

He came to set the captives free...Bless God for releasing the stronghold.

[@shahar26]

Divorce is so real, isn't like something we can't hide. The thing is marrying someone who's aligned to God's word and the will of God for your life.

[@lorraine3525]

Thanks for this segment, I have a heart for marriage and I believe it is because of what I have experienced in my own...years ago but more so what God did in it for it to be where it is today. I have been married 31 years and we pour into marriages so the 1. correction of percentage of successful marriages of being 72 and not 50 is a huge huge bondage breaker, it gives Hope as I believe it corrects the mindset of doubt and fear that you can be one of the statistics. 2. The importance of fellowship 1 Jn 1:7/ Heb. 10:25 / Acts 2:42, is the same principle should be applied in marriage-practical intentional with God and each other. 3. Marriage is Triune- each are individuals but still one and do not operate without each other, 4. Treat your marriage like babies, love care nurture.❤‍🔥❤‍🔥❤‍🔥❤‍🔥❤‍🔥❤‍🔥o btw...I believe Marriage purpose- is to reflect the Gospel, bringing your Being in Christ by a readiness to, believe, confession, repentance, forgiveness, endurance, wide open arms, other centered, humility, submission, sacrifice, and service. And I am sure you can add unto the list. ☺

[@user-ge1vv2hs1n]

Respectfully I disagree!

[@shahar26]

X2 😅😅😅

[@MSeroga]

Lies about marriage success rates are for sure the work of evil to scare people away from being married. Happily married for 5 years now, about to have our first child, very very happily married it’s been a blast!.. interestingly enough I had so many people try to scare me about how hard marriage life is and that it’s such a big risk, no regrets here! All glory to God!

[@shahar26]

Being married for 5 years is pretty much nothing 😅 and of course you can have a beautiful marriage. But are you happy 24/7 in your marriage?. That's basically saying that marriage is perfect and nothing is perfect but God. There's always disagreements and things to fix in the marriage. It just can't be perfect.

[@MSeroga]

@@shahar26 There’s people who divorce days after… so saying 5 years is nothing is not valid lol. Nobody and nothing is perfect so u can’t say anything is perfect if you want to be picky.

[@yeseniamontoya170]

🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🫶🥰

[@princesadearuba]

Why am I surprised? The enemy creates all kind of propaganda.

[@DoughtyWolf]

What about abusive marriages where the wife gets close to death and hospital treatment then after council results in restraining order and divorce, can she after a few to half a dozen years of healing and staying single, can she get married again or is she stuck to single life or reconcialiation to ex-husband (which in her case got remarried and has a kid now, no reconciliation possible for her), if she wants to not sin, does she have to stay single forever due to this stupid mistake made from being blind and inlove while young(21-22 years old when she married him)? Please help, just trying to be a good friend and brother in Christ to her and would like to understand if it is a possibility biblically speaking for someone who gets divorce from phisical abusive marriages to later remarry after healing and taking time with God or is it simple and not flexible, marry if fornication get divorce and reconciliate with same spouse or stay single forever, and other cases stay married no matter what. Not trying to find a loophole just trying to understand God's will and what it means, i get that marriage is meant for life and i agree but at the same time He wants what is best for us and also forgives most sins, so would that include a stupid marriage decision made of being blind and young and stupid or not. And the Bible says that man can't break what God put together and blessed, so does God bless any marriage, like does He bless a marriage between a christian and a non christian? Thank you for your answer!

[@iriss2901]

Ofcorse she can devorce and marry someone else when her husband is abusive. He is the one breaking Gods law and that marriage. That is not in her control. God is her father and he wants best for her and that includes someone who will love her and respect her. That is bare minimum in marriage and no one should go trough something like abuse, that is breaking Gods heart. God can speak to us trough common sense so lets just include that with our faith.

[@musicalmooku]

I just gave this the 666th like. Someone please increase it lol! Thank you Pastor Vlad! I love this discussion.

[@mikehorst6513]

So now the question is, which perspective is actually true. If we are in the end of days as has been prophetically declared, then rapidly rising divorce rates would seem to be consistent with the many biblical descriptions of what will happen in the end. I don’t need a statistical study to tell what is clearly observed. Statistics can be and are so easily manipulated by how they are taken and how conclusions are drawn. Divorce is at epidemic levels and our ungodly culture is encouraging them and courts function more like abortion mills, designed and efficient at encouraging and rushing through bloody, horrific death results to as many families and marriages as possible. I believe many crooks hover around these death courts like vultures seeking every opportunity to strp the meat off the families estate as they are at the mercy of demonically inspired judges and attorneys. Believe this interview if you will and keep your head buried in the sand but these are nothing more than Pollyanna fantasies spun for reasons I can only guess at. God knows what is true and I believe it clearly records the realities of what is transpiring around us. The truth is ugly but for those who turn to Jesus to be reconciled to God and then walk close and clean with Him, they will have a steady hope because they/we know how it ends and what comes after for those who have been born again. People are so easily manipulated and deceived. Just because it is on KZbin and someone is dressed nicely and speaks eloquently, does not make the programming true or beneficial. True truth sets people free and the only reliable source of truth is found in God’s holy manual. My words are just a few of many but God’s words are the words of one, the author and perfecter of our faith.

[@shahar26]

Totally agree. Truth is found in the bible. Some people try to manipulate things to make it seem beautiful and perfect. But the reality we always find it in the bible. Times are getting harder. The bible is pretty clear about it and this video is trying to create expectations based on a fantasy.

[@angelofdeath095]

Is it a go to thing for all the glasses wearing people to push their glass back to their eyes??🤔🤔

[@jogojustice07]

Hosea 4:6 ► Audio Crossref Comm Hebrew Verse (Click for Chapter) New International Version my people are destroyed from lack of knowledge. “Because you have rejected knowledge, I also reject you as my priests; because you have ignored the law of your God, I also will ignore your children. New Living Translation My people are being destroyed because they don’t know me. Since you priests refuse to know me, I refuse to recognize you as my priests. Since you have forgotten the laws of your God, I will forget to bless your children.

[@Lili-Benovent]

Marriage is an institution and who wants to live in an institution?

[@shahar26]

Saying that 80% of marriages are happy doesn't make sense. I think this video is trying to convince everybody that marriage is the most beautiful and happy thing. You say 80% based on what?. Because it's impossible to know the truth that is found in every single marriage around the world. Plus, If the rate divorce in the church "it is a missconception" just like she says, that doesn't mean that every single marriage in the church is happy. Some people are forced to keep their marrige because getting divorced is unbiblical, some others are trying hard to fix things in the marriage. So she can't just "dismiss" something based on what She thinks. She's like: Ohh not, the probability of getting divorced is so low, the probability of being really happy is so high 😅😅😅😅😅 I mean, we need to be wise when we talk about marriage.