Decluttering and Organizing My Purse!

Today, I am decluttering and organizing my purse! This handbag is full to the brim of junk I don't need to carry around any longer. I end up with trash and the stuff that belongs elsewhere in this declutter! Let's get to decluttering and organizing my purse!
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[@sherriepiechowski4556]

This reminds me of a younger me when we were out and about and my husband or kids would say hey mom put this in your purse. I carried the load for everyone 😂. I finally wised up and have a small car bag and bin and now carry a small purse with only things I myself benefit from daily. I refuse to put garbage, snacks or anything other than my own personal needs. I also FORCE myself to go through it once a week. It’s like a simple pleasure to have my own personal space nice and tidy. From a mom who totally gets the messy purse dilemma 😂

[@marinard6293]

I got wise like you too. After chugging a humonguous beach bag with everything for me and my two kids (with two big beach towels, a box of fruits, sandwiches, a bottle of water, clothes to change...) my shoulder had painful indents. Now each kid has their own small backpack, where they carry each their own towel, sandwich, water bottle, tissues and whatever they need. I refuse to take my hubby's swimsuit and towel and keys, because it adds weight on my purse, and he's capable of carrying it in his small backpack too. When I take my kids to doctor's appointment, or a hike in the woods, they would each carry their stuff on their own backs. It can be applied to kids from three year old upward.

[@lisaann6267]

yes Erica, what Sherrie says. save your shoulders. i had to go through a year of chiropractic because my arms were going numb and muscle spasms across shoulders. not cheap.

[@CL-mn1yq]

When I was a kid I was embarrassed of my mom's big purse (of all things). Now I care for her and I'm the one shoving all the stuff in my purse. Our two wallets, phones, the winter gear etc ha

[@CL-mn1yq]

Genuinely a backpack works better at times!

[@susanwalgren3939]

Erica, look so forward to your videos! So happy to see u back on KZbin. I appreciate how you give different perspectives on how I can get BACK to decluttering, cleaning, and organizing. And occasionally when you add humor, you make it even better! You do know your funny, right?!

[@EricaLucasLoves]

I’m re-finding my funny. :)

[@jodyolson9869]

As my kiddos grew older, I switched their snacks, games, entertainment, books to a single back pack removing all their “ stuff” from my handbag to a designated single back pack. It did wonders for my Virgo decluttering, organizing mind🥰

[@courtneybiter8115]

Mom of 3 kiddos here and understanding the need to have activities on hand for siblings. We created “activity bags” for our kids. I got 10”x9” zippered, canvas bags from Hobby Lobby and labeled them each with a child’s name. I let the kids pick out things to fill their bags with. My artist put in some markers, a small note pad, and matchbox cars/figurines. My reader tossed in a joke book, a few matchbox cars, and left room for whatever novel he’s reading. My youngest put in some Happy Meal dolls (ones we wouldn’t care if we lost), some paper/stickers, and a small magnet doll dress up kit. On our way out the door, my kids are tasked with grabbing their activity bags. We swap out the toys once or twice a year if they’d like something new. It’s been working out great!

[@joyindrelie6715]

Hope you're having a great fall so far and taking care of yourself and your sweet family!

[@lindamcdermott9980]

A “to go bag” separate from your purse is an excellent idea. Things that could go in it might include activities for the kids, snacks, the first aid pouch, a couple hair ties and the phone charger. There is nothing worse than being somewhere and having low battery on the phone. Your purse would be lighter, and the kids could carry the to-go bag. I like the purse you have, it’s big enough for your calendar and tablet, making it lighter might be all you need.

[@rhondakaplar483]

My grandkids carry their own little back packs everywhere they go with play toys , snacks, drink and a change of clothes for emergency times.

[@shirleyrankin-zf6nv]

That is an excellent idea

[@jeanettekvinlaug2772]

I have not wztched all yet. But if you have some of the mesh bags with colored zipper, you can have one for snacks and legos, one for paper, one for... etc. Use the zipperncolor to know what it is for. 😊

[@EricaLucasLoves]

this sounds genius!

[@mariahwilson6505]

I laughed out loud at the dump moment 😂 it’s part of being a mom. Probably why I switched to a backpack purse when I had littles. Love you and thanks for the videos!!! ❤

[@EricaLucasLoves]

Oh I saw a backpack purse in my shopping travels last night and wondered if I could pull that off.

[@lulahbelle970]

Backpack purse all the way. Mine is coming apart and kid isn't so little anymore, yet I just don't wanna switch to a purse that I bought and sits there mocking me. Can't find a duplicate backpack replacement though!

[@mariahwilson6505]

@@lulahbelle970now I’m in exactly that situation 😂😂😂

[@suzanneroelofse5970]

I've learnt to buy lighter purses (as opposed to smaller purses). That tote of yours looks super heavy in itself. I've had the same lightweight leather purse close to a decade that I use daily. It doesn't have to be super heavy leather to be resilient. Sending you lots of love ❤😊

[@EricaLucasLoves]

Oh boundary "rule" in action! Like a fish that grows to the size of a fish tank... my stuff fills a big bag. That's something to think about. I am thinking more and more that I need a better organization system in the car to account for the things I'm lugging around...

[@adz5bneweng589]

Tip 1: purse organizer insert! I bought one from Amazon and I love it. Tip 2: when investigating purse organizer inserts, pay attention to the dimensions!

[@CreativeHomescaping]

Have you thought of having separate bags for some things? When my daughters were little, we used lunch bags (from their prior school year) to keep little toys and snacks in our cars. When the snack bag was empty, then we would take it in the house and refill it. That way we always had snacks and toys with us no matter where we went but I didn’t have to carry them in my purse. We also keep a box of tissues in the cars for the same reason. Doing that allowed me to downsize to a wallet sized crossbody bag. For calendar and work stuff, I kept a separate tote bag since I need to carry that stuff with me all the time (such as grocery shopping). I felt so much freer after having done that. It took a little while to get used to but I still use that size bag even 15+ years later.

[@elenaxleganus]

Erica, I hope everything is ok with you guys. ❤

[@Elizabeth-1722]

Missing you and hope you and your family are well ❤️

[@CULady]

I hope all is well? Missing you on KZbin! Praying for you❤

[@ashleymckee1140]

I am in the diaper bag phase of life, and I have smaller lightweight bags that separate categorizes inside my bag. One for mom things (tampons, hair ties, a pen, chapstick, etc), one for snacks, one for little activities and toys to keep the kids busy, so on and so forth. Keeps things from getting too crazy in the purse and makes things easier to find.

[@lucindapick2986]

I used to joke that I could go away for a weekend with only my purse. I really did view it as my survival bag and was prepared for all types of contingencies. But it was complicated when I needed certain things for work and different things for family outings. So I separated my things (still kept the bandaids and meds) from the keep the kids happy items. I made a "busy bag" that they could grab and go. It has adapted over the years from coloring books and fish crackers to sudoku and airpods and the snacks have changed, but the busy bag still goes with us. In the beginning I had to keep them from overloading the bag with too many books or snacks, but now it's something they put together and maintain. I keep a good supply of paper, colored pencils and snacks, but if they want Uno or Mad Libs, it's up to them. Works for everything from waiting rooms to vacations. :) They are teens now and still grab the busy bag on the way to the car.

[@goofygirl1311]

All of my purses, no matter the size, wound up hauling around a bunch of clutter. There were times when my purse would literally make my shoulder sore, it got that heavy. I now wear a small crossbody purse that is nothing more than a wallet. It holds money, cards, it has a place for my phone but I carry my phone in my pocket and use that space for a pen. I can't shove anything into it because there is no room for it. If I need to I could put a few band-aids in the cash compartment along with a small baggie of tums, breath mints or whatever. At any rate, I've been using this system for years and have not missed having a big purse at all.

[@queenmarynovelwriter5397]

When you dumped out that purse...Ha ha ha!

[@RitaVernoy]

Purse organizer, I have used smaller inexpensive purses to put like things together inside, but separate, much like the special one made by your dear mom, all in the larger bag. I’m not a minimalist but I do enjoy organization.😊

[@SharonG-ip3ll]

I had the same thoughts about the go-bag for the kid's stuff. I'm a single woman with no kids and I carry a large bag. I have had large bags since highschool. I've always wanted to be a tiny purse woman but I "need" a lot of stuff. Thank you for not being ashamed to just dump your bag. I can so relate to the bra in the bag. Great video and motivation for me to dump my bag out and see what treasure I might find. God bless.

[@EricaLucasLoves]

that bra some days, right?!

[@ChristianAnneSmith]

The bra is hilarious! And relatable😂

[@iriswelch3553]

By the time I put in my wallet, phone, keys and reading glasses, it's goodbye small purses!

[@eileenlehonnyberg1576]

I like to carry my phone at work to record my steps. Use a small cross body purse when I don’t have pockets. Reduced my “wallet” to a small case for cards, some paper cash (who used cash these days? LOL), keys go in hand, but I do have a big bag I carry to the office for my book, ipad, lunch/snack items. Try to keep things to a minimum. Also found a very small hand sanitizer container. Still need to make sure to empty out the big bag weekly. Great video Erica!

[@megan2176]

I recently started carrying a small purse inside my big purse! That way, i leave house with everything i need, but can leave the big one in the car, and just take the small purse into stores, etc. Much easier on the shoulders, and more freedom to dig for those thrifting deals! 😅

[@ChristianAnneSmith]

I do that sometimes too! I have a fanny pack like thing called the venture wallet from Sipsey Wilder and you can kind of wear it as a cross body thing or a fanny pack. It’s tiny and I took it inside my big purr sometimes if I don’t feel like carrying my purse. Then I just keep my cash/ card phone and keys in it. And hide my purse under a blanket in the trunk. It feels like such freedom, especially if I’m meeting somebody for a walk.

[@megan2176]

@@ChristianAnneSmith Exactly! It helps you decide how much you really "need" with you at any given time. Cards, keys, phone - check! The rest is nearby. 😊

[@loradennison6674]

Thank you, Erica, for doing this today! I dumped my purse as well with you. You never know what treasues you're gonna find in there 😉😁 have a great weekend!!

[@michellebiggerstaff6841]

After having 3 kids, I came up with a plan for myself. Each car has a big first aid kid, with anything you might need. I have a "restaurant" bag that has floss, wisps, breath mints, straws, hand sanitizer, etc. I also have a small pouch in the consoles with hair ties, nail clippers, phone charger, a small first and kit (with band aids), etc within reach. I have a pouch that has 1 pen, a few band aids, small wallet with gift cards/insurance cards, a hair tie, lip stuff, and this can go between any bag I carry. When the kids were smaller I had a basket in the back of the van that had "quick grabs." That was for small toys, extra clothes, "just in case" things to keep kids occupied, and seasonal things. With this being said, I should say that I only carry my phone, and the case only has 2 card holders; ID, and card. This may seems over the top, but I always knew if I needed something, I had it. That's one of my biggest fears. Not having what I need, when I need it.

[@lulahbelle970]

Think the purse itself is heavy. Something to consider when shopping for another one.

[@nancymelis2824]

I like the small bag your mom made to corral the medical stuff. It makes that easier to find in the big bag. Maybe have ones for other small categories?

[@biznatch18]

The dirt on your feet is so relatable, LOL, my husband is forever cringing for me going into the backyard barefoot and then walking around the house after with black feet 😂

[@desthemom]

You had me at Jolly Rancher 😂 Thank you for being so helpful! I cleaned out my handbag too and remembered to add bandaids 😊

[@ElisabethCorson-ib8ck]

I think the biggest part of the weight is actually your purse.

[@EricaLucasLoves]

You may be right!

[@betsyc5123]

Yes, best to get a similar purse that is light material. Worked for me.

[@ChristianAnneSmith]

I came to the same conclusion, which I mentioned in my comment above. Canvas Crossbody purse, rather than lever leather was significantly lighter and better for my body.

[@shellyg202]

I have the same issue too! No kids but diabetic supplies. It doesn't help that my favorite bag is leather. So heavy before filling 😉😊

[@Sandra-kd2rf]

Heavy maybe , but a beauty . Good job by the way

[@tallulahsmom2964]

This was a fun video that all moms can relate to. Have a great weekend.

[@Kimonwatersedge]

mary poppins! I was waiting for the standard light! thank you for the inspiration 🤓🇬🇧💐👜

[@nancynurse4552]

On the go Nana here. My purse is often just as full and I only carry stuff for me 😂😂😂

[@KlingonPrincess]

The chin hairs! I swear, if i pluck one eyebrow hair wrong it will never grow back but chin hairs appear like magic.

[@jordandmx269]

Have you considered keeping some of that stuff in your car? I also love to have first aid and stuff to entertain my kids at appointments and restaurants, but I don't need to carry that with me every time I run into the store. I keep them in pouches in the car that make it easy to grab when we need it. It'll save you space and your back!

[@zoesherman6278]

Yes put the legos in the car with the socks 😁

[@lovinglife3954]

Yep different bags in the car keeps stuff out of the purse. A zippered bag for snacks is also handy. Luna cup eliminates need for sanitary products.

[@ChristianAnneSmith]

I wonder if you could keep just a Band-Aid and a tampon in your purse and keep the rest of the first aid go kit in your car? That worked for me with my son. I absolutely love that your mom made the bag and keep it in though, and I can see why you might want to keep that with you . I keep a little Ziploc bag that has Advil, a tampon, a mask, earplugs in my purse . I put it in a zippered tiny pocket of the purse, along with a pen, a lipstick, and some gum. The only thing left in the main area of my larger purse is my wallet, which I keep a Band-Aid in and my car keys. By keeping the main area, mostly empty, it’s super easy to just dump my whole purse out before I hang it up. The stuff in the zippered pocket doesn’t dump out. Then I toss my wallet back into the purse, hang my car keys on a hook and hang up my purse. Usually what’s left on the table is three or four pieces of garbage or receipts, and I just deal with them right away . Took me a long time and a lot of experimenting but it works well for me . I keep a lot of things that you’re keeping in your purse in my car and find that it usually is pretty easy to access those still. One of my main motivations was that my doctor said the weight of my purse was giving me neck and back issues. So I made a change. I also decided to go with a canvas purse that is crossbody with a zippered top. The purse itself is significantly lighter than leather purses. Loved this video and learning how you do things.❤

[@SauerPatchGardening]

I dont have little kids anymore and my " purse " is a backpack! Lol. I have a zippered bage that i carry my wallet, meds and little things i need that i can pull out and move to another bag when i want to downsize for an event. But, i ride the bus home, and i take my lunch, and have other stuff i just want with me, like an umbrella..we live in the miswest, the weather changes sometimes 3 times in one day. Lol.

[@lorriewittig9066]

You might need a little coin purse size bag only for hair ties! 😊 Actually your decision was better! Well done finishing up. The struggle to complete it is real.

[@liatori6214]

Maybe it could help you to schedule a monthly "date" with your purse for clean up. "Time blocking" on a certain day.

[@EricaLucasLoves]

Add a cup a tea and I'm ready for purse date night! I love that idea!

[@lilianszekeres2921]

​@@EricaLucasLovessounds so wunderfull❤🍵

[@ginaweeks]

Hi Erica -- with the Flylady home management routine she suggests a purse clean out weekly, along with the car I believe, in preparation and anticipation for "date night" on Fridays. Great minds think alike. 🙂

[@bethstratton3391]

Well done on cleaning out your bag, Erica. I fully appreciate your need to carry so much stuff around, especially when you have three children. It was a great decision to off load some into the separate car bag. Personally, I found when I was in peri-menopause I had to carry far more stuff around too (hand fan, tissues, tweezers, headache tablets, cooling gel, extra moisturiser, tiny towel etc). I am now back to carrying quite a small bag again thankfully.

[@amykotlarski9250]

You made me smile today...thank you.

[@EricaLucasLoves]

and you just made me smile, so thank YOU!

[@andreadotson7853]

I use plastic shoe boxes itemized by toys, personal care, weather/car. I put them all in a pop up box in the back seat. Close enough to grab if needed, but doesn't kill my back carrying it.

[@Jazzatic2011]

Hair ties on a carabiner. Easy access easy to put away

[@irenek2k20]

I can relate to stuff overload in my tote bag.

[@3TXSisters]

As soon as I saw you were going to dump your purse on your white bedspread, I was saying nooooo, and then you showed the towel, lol. Leather purses are heavier, but I prefer leather, too. If you're going for weight, Vera Bradley makes different sizes of totes and has some solids as well as the patterned. Good luck with your hunt for the perfect purse! Take care, Linda 🦋

[@oliviadearth7741]

That was a brilliant 💡 idea! Let's weigh this purse!🎉

[@tinaradford8036]

Maybe the kids should have a bag each with things to do! Chin hairs.....they do appear overnight 😅

[@becs2272]

Agree, have them be responsible for thier things. Less weight on Mama!

[@tanyajohnston8262]

Maybe you can put the items in pouches to keep more organized, like toys in one pouch and other items in another pouch. And maybe Kleenex in the medical bag or maybe just keep a few of those items in car and only those you may need right away in your purse. Your small purse is a very large one for me :)

[@shirleyrankin-zf6nv]

Hi Erica take a look at Lug bags they are light wt. and some organization including clear pockets.Try not taking toys into an appointment and see what happens the children might surprise you same with snacks

[@bibliotecaria2]

I like the bag within bag concept. Maybe try putting all the hair ties in a baggie, so you don’t throw more in there.

[@doraadams1673]

I keep gallon size ziplock bags in both vehicles and one in my purse just incase someone is sick. They have come in handy for so many other things and don't take up as much space.

[@lifeongreenhill487]

Yes put that and the first aid kit in the car.

[@lkhorvath4]

This is always satisfying for me as well (my own purse)

[@anitachopping]

In Australia we have a saying. (we say bag not purse. The purse is what we put money and credit cards in) We say our bags have gotten like a mad woman's breakfast. 😸🙆

[@adz5bneweng589]

Maybe add a plastic file folder inside to hold your papers? Folder will corral all the papers and go in/come out for review?

[@terrilloyd3691]

I would have a kid stuff bag. Also have a small purse with a wallet lipstick and phone.

[@littlefixeswithheidi1267]

If your daughter is allergic to the latex in the bandaids, CVS and other stores have their own brands that are latex free. I am allergic to latex, and cannot use bandaids either. As for the purse, I used a backpack while my kid was young and we were homeschooling. At about 10 he started bringing a backpack everywhere we went and I switched to a smaller crossbody backpack by kavu. Maybe not your style though it has been great on my back 😊

[@shadegarden7375]

Put the hair ties on a carabiner! You are so funny love!! The tweezers and chin hair..so very real!! AND the bra🤣🤣👏🏻👏🏻

[@sharonwest1602]

Erica you need to try carrying kids scissors ✂️ they come in so handy for many reasons

[@christine1373]

I have a tote bag that I love but only use occasionally because it becomes a dark mess and I can’t find anything. Until I bought an organizer insert from Amazon!! Total game changer!

[@teemom78]

Amazon sells a purse organizer to fit in the purse. Then you have slots and pockets to contain items. I went 1 size down so I had room on the sides for a water bottle or other large item. This is so a mom bag😂 I have to clean mine out 2x a week.

[@sarahjohn1484]

Missing you. Hope all is well. Wondered if your hubby was called up--I know you don't announce that kind of thing--but thinking of your family these past few weeks.

[@wyyeti4004]

Just a concerned subscriber asking how you & your family are doing. Kind regards.

[@crystalpryer7610]

I keep my and my daughters hair ties on a small D- ring to keep them wrangled!

[@TravelingNana]

Love this.

[@susanschmidt2252]

I love how you own up to why you have tweezers and a bra in you purse 😂

[@conniesmith3922]

One declutter at a time. 💕💕💕

[@Carobmoth]

Good for you for going back to basics. By hitting a sort of re-set with such things as room rescues and purse clean-outs, you may find that you can get back on track with your 'minimalish' journey in spite of any difficulties you may be facing. Give yourself a pat on the back.

[@bethstratton3391]

Totally agree with you.

[@crazycroney]

In 2012 I bought an adjustable purse organizer before they were actually a thing. It was very expensive then $30 but I still use it every single day now they are 15 to 20 and totally worth it.

[@TheSecondSoprano]

Thank you for sharing. I didn't know there was such a thing. I just found some online. It might be a perfect solution for me. 😊

[@cherylnewman9098]

I use a medium sized Baggalini backpack. It works so munch better for me to have less weight on one shoulder.

[@karenrich9092]

I usually like to have a bag with at least 3 areas for organization: One is "Tools", one is health and safety, and lastly financial. Then I had to add my supplies for my colostomy bag. So, now I am using a backpack with small zippered pouches for my tools (manicure set, comb with hair ties around it, and other things), health and safety (medication, cough drops, mask, hanky, etc.) and finances (as you can guess. The last bag had all I need for the bag cleaning and changing as well as an emergency outfit if needed. It's amazing what you can carry when you are organized.

[@martinalemmerhofer6937]

Was laughing while you came on your own to the solution of the "toys in the car" my brain was " shouting" 😂 Bag...,yes, the leather looks heavy even empty, maybe find a better suitable bag to ease the load? Nice clean up. Its amazing what collects in a short time.

[@vickimontgomery5271]

It's perfect now!

[@casachitalpa5971]

I love the mini lego kit idea!!! 🙋🏼‍♀️

[@knitnkitten]

Did you know there are workshops for folk who want to learn how to make their own shoes? I bet your daughter would love to learn to cut & sew leather & design her own shoes🍁

[@karenlaskowskicahlanes7129]

Yes!!!!! Paper calendar book!!!!!! I carry at least 3 pens in my purse, too.

[@luzking9487]

Pretty good Érica!

[@pameehanson3866]

Love the video, I all of us have Mary Poppins bags 😮 it’s amazing what you can find. Happy to see your family back and more videos on “Life” ❤

[@EricaLucasLoves]

Mary Poppins bags 💼 love that!

[@leahfischer5264]

I love using carabeeners for my hair elastics and kitchen/office elastics.

[@lesliestanleyangles]

I just love you 💕

[@deborahjones-gd2je]

I really resonated with the menopusal chin hair purse tweezers😊

[@jessicaquiroz7178]

I use to make a goodie bag for my daughter that had toys, coloring book and crayons and snacks plus a change of clothes when she was little. I kept on a hook on the front door.

[@beckyharder5467]

I think the reason why your bag is so heavy is because you are a busy mom! It will lighten as your life changes 🥰

[@tabilittlefield1326]

😲 shock factor when you pour out your purse! Wondering what mine looks like now!

[@dianamarsden4985]

I cleaned out my purse while watching you! You motivated me to finish it ! Thank you for the video. Very helpful.

[@darleneclark896]

Hey Erica, how about a lighter bag? The leather one is beautiful, but with your aesthetic sense, I'll bet you can find a great cloth or nylon one.

[@MissFlutterGirl]

You could keep the toys in a container in the car, same with snacks and just grab and go when you need them. I don’t like having non necessities just floating around in my bag..just my purse, keys phone and some hand sanitizer.

[@Myeverydaywifelife]

It’s amazing how much stuff we can fit in our purses lol! How are you doing Erika? I hope you are doing ok ( no video for last month ish ? ) 💜👍

[@roxanes43]

Love it when the universe says it's not a day to play with the scale 🎉😂 I remember those large purse days and messed up my shoulder after years of too much weight. Switched to backpack when still hauling around kid stuff and my body thanked me. Now can enjoy small stylish bags, finally, and you'll get there again so good luck on your solutions!

[@terryruiz7417]

You did so well taking care of tge box right away. Sometimes that's just so hard to follow through and do. Well done!

[@lyonhead100]

Look into getting a Sash Bag-changed my life!

[@jennylhenry78]

I have a small fabric bag that I keep in my car with a change of kids clothes and those trampoline park socks!

[@janego2018]

I was just about to suggested a separate "go bag" for your kids activities when you happened to say it yourself 😄 we still use our diaper backpack when about with the kids, because of all the extra stuff they still need.

[@barbaraweber3084]

Good job you! Hard to keep on top of all the things .....

[@saltandpepper9389]

I’ve never been a handbag person myself, so this is really funny to watch 😅 And all those FB discussions about what people have in their purse (like hammers and such LOL) ❤

[@zenlife1200]

As a journal/notebook lover the thing that stood out to me was the size of your notebook and calendar. I also prefer a month-in-view style calendar page so that there's room to write appointments on it and I've found that the smallest workable size for me is A5. Regular diary/planner type books just don't work for me. I don't like the way they're set out. Too many pages of things I don't need. It looks like you're the same, just needing the calendar and note pages. I used to have a folder type thing and I just bought the bits I used, to fill it, but the ringbinder type rings annoyed me when I was writing. These last couple of years, I've been buying an A5 sized notebook with the grid paper inside and each year I draw my own calendar in the front of the book and go from there. Amazon now has stencils for bullet journals that make marking up the calendar pages much simpler and faster. Yay! The good thing about these books is that the pages are all numbered so I can mark in a contents page and easily find things later. Lately though, I've been attracted to those leather bound travel journals where you can add in different types of notebooks and leave out what you don't need. They seem quite tall and narrow though so I'm not sure they have the writing space that I get in a regular A5 notebook. I think you may have had one of these leather journals at some point? It obviously didn't work out for you either. They do look nice though, sigh 😄

[@sharonwest1602]

Erica your purse 👜 is so interesting my purse 👜 is also to heavy I kept looking for this video I kept losing it Its so fun I can ‘t use a smaller purse my husband wants me to carry his wallet

[@socalgal7830]

My current purse is the right size but is too heavy (made of canvas with lots of zippers). I'm on the hunt for a different one. I love you idea of a first aid bag. My sister made me a bag that will be perfect to corral all of that loose stuff. Thanks for spending valuable time to share your tricks and tips with us.

[@lucindapick2986]

Carabiner for the hair ties. It is a gamechanger!