DECLUTTERING CLOTHES CHALLENGE! [5 Day Declutter Challenge 3/5 ]

[@PrincessKryssiQT]

I had an epiphany at the beginning of this year. Every time I opened my closet and saw the box of when I lose weight clothes it reminded me I wasn't the weight I was putting conditions on myself in accepting my self worth and loving myself unconditionally. The clothes are supposed to serve me , I am not supposed to serve the clothes. I ended up doing a huge closet purge and only keeping clothes that fit me that I felt good in and now when I open my closet I don't feel like garbage. One of the best things I have ever done for my self compassion.

[@TheCarlaProject]

Yes, yes yes one of my favorite decluttering questions is does this serve me? It’s so elevating!!

[@librarynan4610]

Wish I could like this twice!

[@ceferinocanibano6284]

Well done.

[@TheCarlaProject]

Glad you are enjoying the challenge!! Shocked I had 25 items today. LOVE U GUYS!! ❤❤

[@DR-it9fm]

Hi Carla, thanks for all the motivational content this month! We appreciate you! 🤗 From my understanding, ThreadUP Recycles what they don’t sell for you. I could be wrong but I think it’s part of their program. That would save you a drive and some time for them items you’re looking to have recycled. Hope that helps. It’s what I’ve been doing. Take care!

[@lynzieelevy7363]

Sooooo….. I watched your first video the other evening and although I’ve cleaned the bathroom out recently, i thought I’d see if I could possibly come up with 25 items….. well…. I did! AND I found my moms old diamond ring I thought got stolen!!!!! I could not believe it and I’m forever grateful to you for challenging me to do this!

[@TheCarlaProject]

This makes me want to cry happy tears 🥹🥹🥹 wow!!! So happy for you💖

[@jodybogdanovich4333]

Cool story!

[@rachelspoon4741]

I have used this inspirational video to declutter 23 items :D one thing i learned was clothes sizes. I had bought a new dress for xmas and loved it but it was a size up from what i normally wear. I kept thinking 'its me' and feeling disapointed in myself. BUT i had other clothes in smaller sizes that fit! Then it hit me, all shops use different measurements! I should not feel bad about any clothing size because here is the thing. A L is a letter. So is a M or S. It means nothing. 10, 12, 14 are just numbers. Our self worth is not tied to them. And so, knowing that each shop tailors clothes to different measurements DOES NOT have anything to do with YOU.

[@DesireeDAlessandro]

I love this challenge, I did my kitchen first. I think I'm going to leave my clothes and shoes for last because I know it's going to be the hardest for me. Last year I decluttered soooo much but I have an online shopping problem and my space is full again. It's a struggle! My new years resolution is to uninatall the triggering apps from my phone. I think digital decluttering is really important... Removing apps, unsubscribing from emails, cleaning out emails and files... No one ever talks about that!

[@TheCarlaProject]

Oh my gosh, yes! I had to delete the Zara app last year. It really does make a big difference. The digital stuff is some thing I still need to tackle myself. If I find a solution, I’ll definitely share it on the channel. 💖💖💖

[@lenathestrange]

Hi Desiree, you might find Christina Mychas youtube channel helpful - she used to have an online shopping problem too but overcame it ans shares how.

[@CraftsBayou]

Omg you are so good at this! It really shows that you’ve made this a practice and are setting reasonable boundaries. It’s giving a grown woman decision-making skills vibe! I’m so here for that! 💕

[@TheCarlaProject]

Gwirl you are NAILING my vibe goals that’s what I’m goin for yaaassss!!! Thank you🥰💖

[@shesthebethest]

I realized I was struggling to focus and needed omething that would feel like a reset. I watched this and decided to try it, despite having a small closet and having to go through it very often. I was able to get 25 items out including socks and shoes that bother my toes and tops that I never where because I had a bad day wearing them. The momentum helped me tidy up other spaces and I feel a lot better. Thank you! Now I really need to work on not bringing so many new clothes in...

[@tlgasuorla]

I love your videos, watch every single one of them! It gives me a sense of peace and calm I rarely get from other creators. Just a little thing: please don't donate things with stains and tears (or tell on your videos that those can be donated). I take care of a clothing rack for these donated items in my community and I have to throw away so so many things 😢. It just shifts the responsibility to another person. I know it is easier to donate than to throw items away, but unless you know someone who will take the things, they end up in the trash and really add up onto another persons work pile (usually someone who doesn't get paid for that work or the recycling so it can actually cost the organizations money to throw these items away!) I'd love to see a video where you talk about how to properly donate things (and maybe even one where you try out mending and sewing terchniques that are easy to do yourself!). There's a ton of information online on both topics. Also once you go down the donation rabbit hole, there's really a lot you can do that does more harm than benefit, so I think it's important that people with an audience provide a little bit of information about it as a role model and source of inspiration. Sorry about the long comment 🦢

[@TheCarlaProject]

Thank you for your thoughtful and informative comment. Super helpful for me. I’m learning as I go and yes I’m actually going to make a video on all the different ways to properly. Donate and discard. I’ve learned so much from the comments !! Thanks for all you do. I definitely don’t do everything perfectly doing my best and hopefully getting better over time 😂😅 💖

[@itoshiibaka8267]

I love that you started with the hell yeses. I used that once with a friend and it helped a lot! I use a reverse decluttering myself. 😊 Unfortunately you can't donate clothing with holes or stains to thrift shops, but you could list it on a Buy Nothing group or send it for fabric recycling. I sometimes cut up old flannel jammies to use as facial tissue or little cloths/rags around the house.

[@KarMa-ws3ll]

Absolutely love this series! Was totally sure that I won't be able to find 25 things in my bathroom, but found 26!!! items and we live pretty minimal already! Now stoked to do the test of the flat. And how good is it do this in December instead of January? When January comes, everything will be in perfect order, no ballast left to ease into the new year 😁

[@TheCarlaProject]

Yes calm seas as we step into the new new!

[@rebeccacooper1420]

I gave away 3 bins of Christmas decor So proud of myself as it was my moms . I’m finally ready to really pick my favorite sentimental things that I received when my mom passed. Your videos have helped so much and made me think about what I love. So thank u and Happy Holidays to you and yours 🤗

[@Aaprriil]

I did a huge declutter around 2007 and kept up the habit since then (mostly out of necessity, not for the aesthetic or to hide wealth *cough* “museum homes” *cough*) and I can say it’s a process that NEVER ends. From living in my car to living in a house, the thing that’s helped me has been “no buys” or “low buys” and getting over the instinct to purchase as a fix for any and all problems that come up. Good luck, everyone!

[@KarMa-ws3ll]

So true! I lost everything in a fire in 2015 and swore to my self: never again will I be dominated by stuff. Kept it up, declutter regularly and manage what I allow into the apartment. But still found 25 items to get rid of in the bathroom today... 🤷🏼

[@jodybogdanovich4333]

I have finally realized that Retail Therapy is not a good fix for depression and shopping can be an addiction. Now I'm dealing with all this stuff. This 5-day clutter challenge came at the perfect time for me, Carla! And best wishes to all of you out there.

[@TheCarlaProject]

The one question that has cured my impulse shopping is, do I need this? Ouch. The answer is always no dammit lol.

[@dwascom]

I’m loving this! Thank you! I decluttered 26 items from my closet. Can’t wait to add everything up at the end of the week.

[@emmy8526]

Yes, ideally if needed, we should wash and repair items prior to donation to make it likelier they will find a new home instead of ending up in a landfill.

[@TheCarlaProject]

The donation center near me does not send it to the landfill. They recycle it. I asked. Everyone should do their own research I’m just doin my best 🫠

[@joiagibble3625]

So proud of you for finding another 25 items! I've gotten rid of more than 100 items altogether so far. Watching you go through your clothing items one at a time was especially helpful. 🧡

[@mirandaryan3362]

I just found your channel. You have such a great personality and I think you are perfect for helping people declutter. You are fantastic for holding space. I worked in NYC helping people declutter. It is important work. You are really helping people change their lives. Thanks for being You! I hope this your career.

[@TheCarlaProject]

Thank you so much! You nailed it. It’s all about holding space. I’ve been helping a lot of people lately and I feel like it’s my calling. I truly love it! Thank you so much for your kind words🥰💖

[@zazicool6275]

Carla, I like this series a lit. I really like the videos of you helping friends declutter.

[@financialfreedomin7years]

Wow! Auch a great work!

[@patricial3803]

Because of you, today I de cluttered my bedroom,bathroom and living room. Next is kitchen. Thank you for inspiration 😊

[@librarylady6mena368]

You are such an inspiration, Carla. Your videos are to the point, very real, relatable. You are a treasure. Thank you.

[@TheCarlaProject]

oh my goodness thank you for your sweet words!!😍❤️

[@sandrareford2989]

you pushed yourself to 25! love the way you did that. i guess thats the point of setting a number before you start

[@newwomandouglas2959]

My closet project took three months. It included clothes, purses, and shoes. I was indecisive and emotional but worth it. The next project is the pantry and cleaning supplies underneath the sink. LOL

[@KarMa-ws3ll]

But u managed to finish and that's great! It will get so much easier every single time u declutter. Like training muscles!

[@newwomandouglas2959]

@@KarMa-ws3ll Thank you so much.

[@TheCarlaProject]

Same! My closet took several passes and several months. I love it now though. Just a little touch up today and it’s in great shape.

[@lisbethkelsey6622]

I started a month of declutter /downsize/ reorganize so your 5-day challenge is really motivating to me.

[@AmandaJYoungs]

You know what? I am AMAZED you found 25 items because you've spent quite a lot of time decluttering your clothes not that long ago, really. I decluttered 3 bags of old clothing - and more in shoes! - in September but I don't know if I'll find that many clothing-related items I want to be free of now I've moved... We shall see! This is a lot of fun, doing it along at the same time as you. Maybe you'll do it again next year as a little challenge we can all do together?

[@jen....]

Love your yin/yang top ❤. Really enjoying this mini-series - I've been shocked how many items I've found that needed binning or recycling. Just a few here and there, but it really adds up!

[@TheCarlaProject]

Thank you one of my favorite symbols🥰

[@lennybloem236]

Just enjoying this videos so much♡

[@sheilataylor8557]

Hi Carla, I'm new to your channel. I am enjoying your 5 day challenge. I was listening to you as I was taking a walk in the park on my lunch break. I completed my walk, returned to my car and started decluttering my trunk. ☺️ I'm so proud of myself. Thank you so much.

[@TheCarlaProject]

Proud of you too!!💖🥳

[@sheilataylor7497]

@@TheCarlaProject Thank you, onto the closets this evening. 🥰

[@cornishsunflower963]

What a brilliant mini series- you inspired me to start with the bathroom and I am on a roll now! Looking forward to the next one. Thanks Carla

[@dianerobertson7988]

When it comes to clothing, had to start shopping with purpose and intention. I only buy items when it.

[@TheCarlaProject]

True that

[@cassandraknight8804]

I really like these challenges, they seem to work better for me than anything bigger. 25 items keeping me on track 🙂👍- clothing always a hard one for me.

[@donnajones9006]

Yard sale finds are my favorite!

[@TheCarlaProject]

Me too!!!

[@shaneswing1114]

Shane from Nashville area here....just now watching the decluttering series. Very motivating!! I am going upstairs to declutter lunen closet. Already did under sink when hubs put in a new, modern faucet. He is awesome! I meant linen closet. Ha You are great at decluttering! Love your narrative and gentle music. Samson is so adorable. I would like to cuddle him!! Love you my friend! Your fan Shane🎉🎉🎉

[@carlyshuman6048]

You had me rolling with "Tiggle bitties" lol! That reminds me, I have to go through my bras too which are old and just taking up space. Thanks for sharing this great motivation and inspiration Carla! 😂😍

[@Kaygee28]

Forty items! Plus about 14 that I had decluttered previously and then just stuffed in a drawer 🙄

[@annmccoy6992]

Oh yes! Keep the pink dress! Would POP w/ your skin!

[@Carlyon100]

I could get used to this. In addition to physical items we should all commit to letting loose of all negative disempowering attitudes and behaviours that do not do us justice. Also the countless subscriptions, emails, files, pictures etc., the minutae that weigh us down

[@TheCarlaProject]

Amen🙏🏾💖

[@conniepleasantnails]

😮 If I declutter Ed 25 items from my wardrobe I’d be let with a small amount of things. I know for sure I can remove 4 items (dress, 2-pc pant set, shirt). I got rid of a few things last week. Oh I do have some costume jewelry to declutter. ❤ I cracked up when you wanted to keep that skirt with the stain. (Try and get some Soil Love in a bright green bottle for stain removing. They sell it at the 99Cent store for like $1.49). Wet the spot, apply the stain remover and rub it in a bit then wash. ❤

[@amvien]

Hi Carla, thredup temporarily paused processing clean out bags. Maybe try selling on mercari or poshmark?

[@TheCarlaProject]

No way!! Aw darn :/ ok will check those out thanks hun!

[@sosomewo8625]

I think your "forgive yourself" method is working waaaayyy better for my closet, than the "does it spark joy- thank the item" method. I have so many things that I regret buying and just kept because I never wore it, thank you so much

[@TheCarlaProject]

yes this was ME. TONS of clothes i never wore or even took the tag off. i thought of it as an education. Like paying for school. Lessons learned and moving on!!❤️

[@shellycottrell433]

You did well considering this area you are always on top of. Where’s my buddy today ? Didn’t get to see his suspicious little face. I made a start in the bathroom thanks for the kick up the behind 😁 Peace ☮️

[@TheCarlaProject]

He was snoring by the Christmas tree 😂

[@KWilliams22]

Yes I think he should feature in every video 🤣😉 a sleeping Sampson is fine 🙂

[@notabeautyguru6412]

@@KWilliams22 I agree❤

[@esmeraldasotelo45]

Love your vids I am cleaning out my closet and my kids at the moment !

[@TheCarlaProject]

I love it!!🥳

[@LaMaiCreateStyle]

Yes I am in the middle of doing this too. It’s hard to purge the expensive or favorite things that don’t fit. I checked Bebe site to see what they had. They are recycling the styles and I could replace a lot of my old favorites❗️

[@gettingjamieback1888]

My down fall. Lost weight and now love to shop.

[@susannovak8263]

Congratulations! 🌷

[@TheCarlaProject]

I went through that after my big weight loss but bought all kinds of crazy things 😂 congrats love!

[@HeyItsHeather]

Just found your channel after doing a big purge in my bathroom and dresser the last 2 days! You motivate me to do more!!

[@financialfreedomin7years]

Totally get you 😂 I also have so many things that I bought and didn’t wear at all or only once. Or some pieces that I just can’t let go. But this is changing 😊 thanks for the inspiration! ❤

[@Michellehardyorg]

Use a lint roller on dusty shoes and of course vinegar in the wash is good for smell if needed.

[@TheCarlaProject]

Thx love!!

[@kristinestocker]

Last month a put a stack of long sleeve t-shirts that I never wore, or didn't feel good in when I did wear them, in the Goodwill bin. I've come to the realization, I prefer ribbed knit tees.

[@leslierivera8702]

I’m so happy I found your channel!! Your videos are so inspirational. I plan on decluttering my home soon. 💕❤️ You rock!!

[@wonderwoman5158]

Awesome video as always Love the idea of decluttering and resetting your clothes and spaces . I have a whole bag to take to donate we’ve just been procrastinating and my husband has one too. But today will be the day I will make sure it’s in the trunk and we spot and drop it off I can’t deal with it anymore taking up precious space . 😂 You did excellent and I’m proud of you and all you’ve accomplished ❤ hope you have a great week take care .

[@TheCarlaProject]

It will feel like the biggest victory when you drop that stuff off lol 😂 take a victory lap!!

[@wonderwoman5158]

Yes I did it husband was like omg what are those bags 🤣🤣🤣 I did a lot I did some returns , and donation woohooo. 😍

[@par11]

Love the chill, relaxing decluttering! What kind of mic do you use? Sounds amazing

[@marcellnovak9801]

I'm big into fashion so I keep most of my clothes on a trial. I do love most of the pieces. I was able to get rid of 15 items. Most of them were socks. As I learn about myself I realised I hate short socks so I thought that it would be best to get rid of them now. I hate how they always slip off. Anyways, thanks for the encouragement! I can't believe that I'm able to keep up with your challenge.

[@careynorman9426]

Nice work!!💜💜 I have been loving this!

[@susanoutler1724]

❤️✨🤗… I am so happy to have found your channel, I love how honest you are!

[@TheCarlaProject]

I am so happy to have you🌸💗

[@sharonshmuel3386]

Love this mini series you did well. I got rid of 3 huge bags of clothing to be donated or recycled. Thanks for motivating me & everyone else lol ❤

[@jeanebo4815]

I have that same black free people dress❤

[@TheCarlaProject]

Isn’t it the best!!

[@librarynan4610]

I’m going to do my closet this week. My daughters who is a Marie Kondo certified organizer is coming to help. Yikes!

[@TheCarlaProject]

Oh I wish you could record that!! Very exciting 🤩

[@nikkilunapaz7793]

hey Carla love your channel, love to watch while I'm cleaning and decluttering. Just one thing regarding donations - most places won't take things that have stains or tears and that still will likely end up in the trash :/ it's worth trying to fix/clean yourself or taking to a dry cleaners or a handy friend and having them fix it for you.

[@katelynpayne9838]

I am so excited for the next video you have inspired me to do a massive deciliter and it feels awesome 🤩

[@FrogeniusW.G.]

Could you show to us how the pink dress looks on you?

[@jodybogdanovich4333]

I loved the sweater you saved. with the caption, "Was my Mom's." I treasure a hooded parka sweater with a wolf on the back that belonged to my Mother. She passed in 2015. Whenever I wear it, I get compliments and I love to tell people it was my mother's and whenever I put it on, I feel wrapped in her love. 🥰 Also, I'm curious if you listen to music or something while you declutter?

[@TheCarlaProject]

That sounds like such a cool parka! I love anything with a wolf on it. And I will always treasure the sweater. My mom always said it was older than me. She got it in the 70s in London. 😍 I’m always filming when I Declutter but when I clean, I listen to podcast or KZbin or music💃🏽

[@user-fb1ys2lj9c]

Thank you I will go through my clothes thanks for the encouragement 🤗

[@alessandranantista5469]

Bravissima!! ❤️

[@kmkackle9524]

Another good video! Be well!

[@andeebee2530]

I don’t think I have a lot of clothes and I tend to wear the same ones over and over. If I was brave enough to declutter everything I haven’t worn in the last year, I would not have much at all.

[@mariannedressler6784]

Completed my closet today!!! Man, I thought I was a minimalist 😂

[@nicky_bee]

So satisfying 😊

[@lettyalvidrez8449]

Most dry cleaners will repair clothing for a reasonable price.

[@bethanygunther7657]

If it ain’t a hell yes it’s a hell no in my book.

[@TheCarlaProject]

I’m trying to get there..with ALL things!!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@marylmartin671]

I don't count but watching u inspiring me to clean lol

[@christineselig5440]

I love H&M clothing recycle they take any brand

[@TheCarlaProject]

I love that!!

[@anterovelmonte]

Hi Carla, where will you be selling your star ring? I absolutly love it and wondering where i could get one or buy it?

[@anterovelmonte]

My name is Jedd & I was watching on my husbands youtube, all the way From Down Under Australia. Love watching your organising and decluttering videos, as it gives me the motivation to do the same. Thank you

[@kathrynbythelake9638]

Why not have the torn top mended by a tailor?

[@TheCarlaProject]

That would require me to find a tailor drive there drop it off pick it up. My to do list is too long to add anything else. That’s honestly why.

[@kathrynbythelake9638]

@@TheCarlaProject That's fair, a person can only do so much in a day.

[@Leftrightnow1530]

Why is 25 your magic number? My closet is now Fall/Winter (Spring Summer is out in the shed.). All color coded and shirts, vests, skirts and pants. Jackets are in a jacket closet and dresses are color coded in another closet. I donate to Good will often.

[@jessicamallory5387]

Day 3 done. 34 items.

[@chall1232]

Did you ever remember the name of the website to sell clothes? I was thinking of looking at thread up. I just had weight loss surgery almost 2 weeks ago, so I'm gonna slowly be purging every item of clothing I own as they become too big. And I am not replacing most of them.

[@TheCarlaProject]

It’s thread up, but I heard they’re not taking any new drop off bags double check. Otherwise someone suggested Mercari!

[@chall1232]

@The Carla Project thanks, I'll do that

[@rebeccacartier153]

I notice a lot of stuff you declutter is from Zara.. I am not on the Zara boat (I think there’s only two in my city) but here’s my question… if you buy from Zara, then decide you don’t like the items, don’t wear the items, or for what ever reason declutter mostly Zara clothes…. Wouldn’t you just stop shopping at Zara?

[@TheCarlaProject]

I wore those clothes for the last three years tho. Except the skirt bc I just now can fit into it. But my style has evolved and changed just like me. Time to move on that’s all and it’s ok. They’ll find new homes 💖

[@uptownflavor]

I thought we couldn’t donate items with stains, tears, or holes. 😮

[@TheCarlaProject]

Not stains or holes, but a tear at the seam I think is reasonable.

[@testing1-2three]

We’re decluttering together.

[@petro3441]

You are so strong

[@silviabuzzoni3327]

👍👍👍💚🤍❤️!!!!

[@annmccoy6992]

What do you do for a living? You seem quite self assured. Did that come from your mother?

[@baileyblackwell8847]

I’m having a hard time with clothes I’m currently pregnant and I want to keep the clothes I was wearing prior but idk how my body is going to be after I give birth 😣

[@TheCarlaProject]

First of all, congratulations! Why not just hold off until six months after birth before you make any big decisions about your clothing. Unless you have items that you know are no longer your style that you definitely want to get rid of. Since you’re stepping into a new chapter and all☺️💖

[@MyssKymm.]

👋🏾🧡👍🏾

[@annettesceon8156]

Made well is expensive and not madewell

[@TheCarlaProject]

The perfect vintage jeans they sell are pretty awesome though 😂

[@lucyrademakers4188]

❤

[@sonyahubbard3226]

👏🏼

[@allioakley3372]

😊

[@weehollie2]

Peace 😊

[@TheCarlaProject]

🥰✌🏾

[@hattie8]

💚🙏🏽

[@sandradisclafani6725]

❤️👍🏻

[@mladyhawke3610]

✌️☮️🕊️

[@aiwxo]

I've watched yoir channel long enough to know you mean well, but please don't donate ratty or damaged clothes to thrift stores. People who rely on thrift shops deserve nice things too. If you can, I'd recycle them x

[@TheCarlaProject]

Those things are not ratty!!

[@odie20120]

I do want to say that you often mention donating things that are honestly trash like the ripped top. Please don’t donate things that are worn out, ripped, stained, and that you wouldn’t buy yourself.

[@DesireeDAlessandro]

I can sew. Donate away and I'll take it!

[@susannovak8263]

@@DesireeDAlessandro - there you go, Desiree! Good answer.

[@TheCarlaProject]

An 80 dollar top with a tear at the seam is not trash sweetie it’s a treasure to someone who knows how to sew! Trust! I been in goodwill and there are things in far worst shape people are buying ✌🏾

[@RadCenter]

It's best to ask the donation site what their preferences are. Some will take items that need minor repairs, while others will not. Giving them unwanted items adds to their expenses.