DEJIHOR | Unique ear ornament of KP women | Kashmiri ear ornament

[@anu92570]

Explicit information loved it, Aunty i have gotten my cartilage pierced as am married to kashmiri pandit, but any suggestions on enlargement of the hole to insert the chain .It's too small even after a year

[@KashmiriPanditCulture]

Hello Anuradha. Thanks for watching. You can wear some ring in your ear. The chain can be added to this ring till your hole gets large

[@rubin594]

You can insert an ring made of wool.. In some time it'll enlarge. You can later wear Ath in 3-4 months.

[@sunitaticku363]

However you have to make sure that it is a pure ( 100% ) wool thread. Otherwise , wearing the gold hoop is the best solution.

[@mathsconscious1]

Same with me m from uttar Pradesh but marrying to kashmiri pandit..i got my ear pierced yesterday only..😊❤

[@rishabganjoo3890]

Aunty why do kashmiri girl pierce their cartilage? What is the importance / significance?

[@kastaway25]

Thank you so much! I have always been fascinated with the beautiful ornament worn by married Kashimir Pandit sisters. It is such a distinct and unique way to keep one's culture alive while modernizing it as times demand.

[@VidishaAnand-dl5cv]

Ma'am i have been watching your videos since past one month and your videos are extremely informative, very well researched and easily understandable. Such detailed knowledge on topics is commendable. Your way of narration is also praiseworthy and meritorious. Especially this one video is my favourite. Thank you.

[@IK_04]

Maine sabse pehle actress Yami Gautam ji ko yeh ornament pehne hue dekha tha aur tabhi se mujhe iske baare meh janne ki jigyaasa hui.I have always loved pahadi culture, whether it is Kashmiri, Himachali or Uttarakhandi. Your video is very good and informative. Love from Uttarakhand. ❤

[@dr.santoshkaulkak9749]

बहुत बहुत धन्यवाद। इतनी अच्छी और सरल तरह से इसके बारे में इतनी गहन जानकारी देने के लिए।

[@subhadrakaul4335]

Very nice information. Love it. The pictures needed to be more zoomed up on the ornaments to show full glory of the same and how to thread it and design etc. Zoomed up pictures of the ornaments would add to the beauty of this presentation

[@anitakaul3804]

Namaskar mahara, nice information, I m married ,from last 15 years but today I understand the value of our tradition through u ma'am

[@sumedhasoman2956]

Wow wonderful information .. i always thought what it was called ..I thought this was Kashmiri mangalsutra .... Beautiful 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@chanderbhat2073]

Such a elaborate explanation of dejihor. Very helpful for younger generation whose parents are not able to describe the actual significance of it . Thank u .I am ur fan .well done .

[@lipikamahato521]

Very informative! This is really helpful for someone who is non Kashmiri yet interested to know the culture! Thank you so much ma’am!

[@anjnakaul7593]

Ujwal ji , never knew the background n so much significance of Dejhor n am sure many rather most of us don't know it. You are really doing a great job by making such videos. Thanks n God bless you. Please keep it up.

[@ajayhandu6805]

Excellent explanation and significance made known. Marvelous work.

[@sunitadhar9839]

Thanks di for this wonderful information. Definitely we will keep our pious culture live.

[@vishakhabhatt7484]

Vah ujwalaji we got information about many things from u u r a treasure of knowledge

[@KashmiriPanditCulture]

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[@ShailizaaRVashishtha1111]

Thank u so much mam apne bahut khoob jaankari di brahmin hona he garv ki bat hainaur apne ritiriwazo ko nibhana usse bhi jyada gaurav ki bat h hmare liye.. Main north indian vashishtha brahmin hu aur apne riwazo k prati bahut curious hu... Thank you so much

[@sangeetanath2965]

Hello ma'am, Kashmiri Pandit mein shadi hui, Dejhor kuch years tak pehna par bachhe chote the to kheech dete the, isiliye maine studs pehan liye aur Dejhor ko sale kar diya. Again Dejhor purchase karna chahti hoon Gold ka, kahan se purchase karoon? Pls guide 🙏

[@KashmiriPanditCulture]

Kisi bhi jeweller ko design dikha kar banwa lo. Tanishq bhi sale karta hai.

[@priyad3719]

Nice information.. Was always curious about Kashmiri Pandits culture.. Had one colleague who used to wear it.

[@usdandriyal]

Bahut aachi jaankari di aapne dheere dheere hum apni saanskartic virasat bhoolte ja rahe hai...abhi tak hum isko ek jwellery ki tarah hi dekhte the...aap ka bahut dhyanyawad

[@ahaanksainik2067]

i love kashmiri pandit traditions 🤩🤩

[@kritisharma8112]

Very informative love it .... My husband is Kashmiri pandit. But I don't know this ornaments has deep meaning

[@meenatiwari3468]

Thank you for sharing this valuable information about Kashmiri Pandits.

[@anjlivishingaryali2286]

Love your videos... Very informative... Please keep adding

[@yaminikaul]

Wonderful initiative. Really informative

[@neelimamujoo8047]

Namaskar very nice God bless you thanks for your information

[@Reenanegi366]

Thanku so much mam mai ye earning or ye design bht time se search kr re thi finally Aaj Mil ji gya Thanku sooo much God bless u from himachal pradesh

[@ushamunshi7279]

Very nicely explained. Love your channel. Always informative.

[@ranisasarkar6620]

**So beautiful & unique ❄❄rituals... We want more videos 🙏😇**

[@sandhyakodukula8211]

I saw this ornament and liked it... thank you for the information 🙏

[@priyankadhiman9002]

Best channel..ur method is very good🤩🤩

[@vishakhabhatt7484]

Vah ujwalaji bhut khoob we got

[@ranisasarkar6620]

**Ask more people to open channels on Kashmiri pandit as many as possible 🙏🙏💙💚💛**

[@zialibas5836]

Beautiful Video and info!

[@prakashchengappa7658]

It has got so much significance. Very informative

[@monica018]

Beautiful description !

[@sharadkoul]

Very nice excellent explanation.....

[@sheetal1453]

Awesome.... good information

[@RKK25]

Excellent work God bless you

[@MahrajkrishanDhar-zw4hf]

Keh app mujhee barapain ghee Dullhan ko kis had tak mehindhe laga nee chhye Reply to me

[@pranotitingloo2288]

Very informative ... Thank you 🙏

[@ashsavant9494]

Thnks for the information 👍👍

[@Stoic1990]

Namaskar Mahra, Orzu Aap ne bhut achaa Informational Video banaya hamari Community ke liye. thanks. Please make a Video the Importance of Yagneopavit In kashmiri Pandit Samaj and what is the right time to go for it.

[@KashmiriPanditCulture]

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[@Stoic1990]

@@KashmiriPanditCulture Orzuu mahraa

[@gulshangupta1899]

Very informative 🌹🌹🙏🙏🙏

[@centralrailway8065]

Great to know this information.

[@pragyamunshi4179]

Hi Ma'am, I am a kashmiri pandit staying in bangalore and getting married soon. Can you recommend someone to dejhoor and athoor made in bangalore or jaipur?

[@KashmiriPanditCulture]

Hello Pragya. Thanks for watching my video. I can't tell you who can make dejharoo in Bangalore ,as I am Delhi based. You can show the design to your jeweller and he can make it

[@KashmiriPanditCulture]

You can try from Tanishq . They also make dejharoo

[@pragyamunshi4179]

@@KashmiriPanditCulture Thanks for response, I have one set which is my mother's but they are really heavy. Can you recommend anyone in Delhi? I have family in jaipur who can go.

[@sanyuktadas8379]

Mam ise kaise pehente hai please ek video sure banaye

[@worldcitizen3519]

Beautiful explanation sister

[@kalpanafotedarskitchen]

Nicely explained. Well done

[@govindkashmiribhajans9926]

❤

[@NituNitu-tf2tj]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@kalpanakhare4824]

Beautiful ornament

[@vibhu9517]

Kya dehjur Bina earpiercing ke pehna Jaa sakta hai please bataiye

[@KashmiriPanditCulture]

Haan pehan sakte hain, with little jugad. It has to be fixed with other ear ornament

[@Deepikathanvi]

Thank you 😊very informative video👍 Can anyone please suggest me where i can buy this online

[@suvenikaul9303]

Only a jeweler can make it :-)

[@SP-wg9bb]

Yo dont het it online…you usually find it in jammu i guess

[@anitakaul3804]

Today we were different shapes of design hor,but hexagonal shape has importance

[@preetisingh-ye9rw]

Love it 😍😍😍😍

[@unbiasedfreak1352]

Very unique ornament

[@IndianTechieGirlInAmerica]

I am getting married to a Kashmiri pandit. But not having my ear pierced, Is there any workaround to wear it still. I have got to know tht it takes 4 months for ear to hear while getting pierced in the centre

[@KashmiriPanditCulture]

Hi. It is so nice to learn that you wish to wear dejihor. Just tell your in-laws, they will manage it. You need not worry about it.

[@Tanvi-wx3sf]

I have a second question hear can a woman wear dejhoor can also wear mangalsutra can both be weared or.not?

[@KashmiriPanditCulture]

Yes . One ornament as in your rituals and other as per your liking

[@Tanvi-wx3sf]

I alwayas had a question on dijhor can any married Indian woman can wear it

[@kalpanafotedarskitchen]

My friend who is a Maharashtrian .She is married,was so fascinated with dejhor,pierced her ear and is wearing dejhor. So yes married woman can wear

[@Tanvi-wx3sf]

@@kalpanafotedarskitchen thanks alot for this information

[@sourobhidas5672]

@@kalpanafotedarskitchen so it doesn't matter even if you are a non-Brahmin? ❤️❤️

[@PKaul79]

Sourobhi Das I don’t see why not. It has a beautiful meaning and if you appreciate the meaning I don’t see any reason why you could not wear a dej-hor irrespective of who you are. I would ask simply that you or anyone else wear our traditional ornament respectfully.

[@sourobhidas5672]

@@kalpanafotedarskitchen please help me out. Actually I was also planning to get my ears pierced.

[@rakeshkoul8963]

Namaskar Mahara

[@KashmiriPanditCulture]

Namaskar mahra tohya ti

[@anitaveerjalali4952]

Love it

[@Debangshu.Chanda]

Ma'am kya Kashmir ki mahilayen sindoor lagati hain?

[@KashmiriPanditCulture]

Traditionally not.

[@Debangshu.Chanda]

@@KashmiriPanditCulture thanks for your reply🙏

[@ankitasingh-pl4nx]

Can we wear it as a non KP without been disrespectful to the culture?

[@KashmiriPanditCulture]

Yes. Like our girls are wearing mangalsutra, payal, bichhuve and chooda.

[@tanujrana27]

Coming here after Kashmir Files. Was curious about it

[@neeluraina1474]

Namaskar

[@KashmiriPanditCulture]

🙏

[@anshulchauhan5392]

Hello mam How to wear.... Mera kaan ka hole chota hai I can't wear this Maine gold ka bana liya hai

[@KashmiriPanditCulture]

Hello Anshul.you can wear a ring (Bali) in your upper ear and then put this chain in the ring for some time.

[@anshulchauhan5392]

@@KashmiriPanditCulture ok Thank you...

[@lifestyle4596]

U can wear wool in the holes nd with the passage of time(after 6-8 months) hole will become bigger then u can wear att.We Kashmiri pandits do this. ❤️

[@anshulchauhan5392]

@@lifestyle4596 thank you dear

[@nandinilorenzsonn8485]

Do men wear anything significant to show that they are married ? Just curious. Thanks.

[@KashmiriPanditCulture]

Married men wear 6 strands of sacred thread around their neck.whereas unmarried men wear only 3 strands of sacred thread. The groom is made to wear additional 3 strands at the time of wedding by the priest himself.

[@meenatiwari3468]

@@KashmiriPanditCulture true as I m also Brahmin I know this. It's called teen palla n 6 palla janeu.

[@shivanipathania7454]

Thanku mam

[@omfriend]

Whos here after kashmir files😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@tejalchavhan334]

Hum ye kaha se le skte hai plz mention

[@KashmiriPanditCulture]

Jeweller se banwana padta hai. Either he knows it or show him the design.

[@tejalchavhan334]

Thank u 🥰 so much ❤️

[@Donglyinvestingtips9113]

Hum kashori bramhin hai but dwijhor nahi pahante

[@KashmiriPanditCulture]

Aap kahan rehte ho

[@tarunbalyan3233]

JAI SHREE RAM

[@KashmiriPanditCulture]

Jai Shri Ram

[@shivee4p767]

Me bhi brahmin hu but Kashmiri nhi kya me bhi ese pehan Sakti hu

[@KashmiriPanditCulture]

Why not

[@seematikukoul2825]

Yup

[@SP-wg9bb]

Brahmin ki baat nhi h if you are hindu you can wear it ..its form of kashmiri mangalsutra… But yeah mostly kashmiri pandit women only as now that only kashmiri pandit community is left and other hindu communities got forcefully converted ..ptherwise everyone in kashmir wore this( budhist, soemtimes sikhs as well)

[@scientistswife]

Where to buy

[@KashmiriPanditCulture]

Available at Tanishq showroom. Made on order from any jeweller.

[@scientistswife]

@@KashmiriPanditCulture I am from mumbai. I will go and see. Thank you..aunty can please tell me price range starting from

[@scientistswife]

Contacted tanshiq mumbai they don't have

[@SP-wg9bb]

@@scientistswife you dont get it easily online..you can get it from jammu though or show it to a hjweller

[@pragunverma12]

Kya dej-hur ko koi bi mahila jo kisi bi samaj ar jagah ki ho, pahn skti h???

[@KashmiriPanditCulture]

Thanks for watching. Please go through the replies to other viewers in comments section

[@seematikukoul2825]

Yup when sakti hai bas sahi se tareeka aana chahiye

[@SP-wg9bb]

if you are hindu you can wear it ..its form of kashmiri mangalsutra… But yeah mostly kashmiri pandit women only as now that only kashmiri pandit community is left and other hindu communities got forcefully converted ..ptherwise everyone in kashmir wore this( budhist, soemtimes sikhs as well)

[@sourobhidas5672]

What about non-Brahmins? Or non-kashmiris? Why can't they wear it?

[@KashmiriPanditCulture]

Every culture has some traditions that they follow. Kashmiris don't have a tradition of wearing choora , mangalsutra ,payal or toe ring .but our girls are wearing them . Likewise you can also wear dejhor.

[@Tanvi-wx3sf]

@@KashmiriPanditCulture hi why boys dont have such traditions?

[@Tanvi-wx3sf]

@Aura Flow ok its not so great than soo much decoration is only for women wht a burden

[@carrad123456]

@@Tanvi-wx3sf Noone is forcing you, now this question why women wear ornaments is good one but you need to look back in history. Look at pictures of kings and princes they all used to wear kundal in ears, chains in neck and kada or thick bracelets and waist Kamar bandh. But over times men stopped or lost their shringaar side and it stayed mostly with women folks. What are reasons for that ?? May be india as colonized state or foreign influences of different cultures since 9th AD... As I observe kashmir culture closely through my acquaintances I don't see much ornaments like mangal sutra, nath, Payal, lots of bangles, buchiya. These are not there. Dejhoor is prime ornament of married woman and both married with husband alive and widow with no husband wears it. Women are free to wear other ornaments as well as per liking so many women born post 1947 depending upon their exposure to different cultures wear xyz and many don't. It us personal choice after all. Many kashmir women don't wear dejhoor also on daily basis so nobody is forcing anyone. Non Brahmins or non kashmir can't wear - there is no such question. Suppose your family has some rules, some habits , some tradition and an outsider guest is influenced by them and wants to participate. Surely they can. They need to understand significance, history importance , and if they appreciate then go on. Culture and history develop over time and each community has different culture as it evolves from that society itself. Each society is different, philosophy, religious practices, economical activities, environment, weather, food , language, arts etc all in together and many more create culture and this culture changes from one part to another. If you as person don't like much make up or ornaments don't wear on daily basis or wear minimal if that is very much required. Now if you find widow practices prejudiced in many parts of India where they break ornaments etc that is entirely different topic and is really painful and shouldn't be done.

[@SP-wg9bb]

@@Tanvi-wx3sf i as a girl love it on my mother and wish to wear it as well..its no where a burden to kashmiri girls.. why is it to you dude?😂

[@xyz-zy4mo]

Aur ldko ka kya.. kaisa pta chalega ki koi ldka married h ya nhi.. humesha ldki hi q nisani pehn k ghume.

[@KashmiriPanditCulture]

Married men wear 6 strands of sacred thread (janeo) on their body and unmarried men wear 3 strands of the janeo.

[@SP-wg9bb]

Ladke janeo (janeyu) pehente ha To ab kya ladke bhi bole ki ladkiyo ko bhi pehnavo yeh dhaga Bakwaas mat kro aise befaltu

[@xyz-zy4mo]

@@SP-wg9bb Kashmir m hi pehnte hoge..other states m nhi.yaha to shadi shuda Aadmi aisa kuch v Nisan nhi pehnta..ldki ko to sindur mangalsutra etc etc..

[@xyz-zy4mo]

@@SP-wg9bb to maine kab kaha ki tum mat pehno..maine to sirf mera opinion rakha tum mere comment section m aage hug q rhi ho..pehna h to pehno tumhari marji.. yaha aake q hug rhi ho..

[@xyz-zy4mo]

@@SP-wg9bb to tune v sari ladkiyo ka theka leka rkha h kya..ldkiya ye pehni chahiye..

[@neelimakaul7043]

Hii.. 🌹🌹🌷🌷🌹🌹

[@KashmiriPanditCulture]

Hello