Delayed Ejaculation, Porn, and Masturbation, Oh My! (w/ Dr. Trish Leigh)

[@tejvir716]

Porn really destroyed my brain. Looking backward it really was a waste of precious time.

[@Aircheekz]

Same! Shit ruined my life! Never again

[@phosphorescentscotsman]

it's never too late to heal. Strength & Peace my friend

[@Diegoromero2006]

We need to remember not to be too hard on ourselves. Remember we all did the best we could with the information that we had when we were younger. How would we have known?

[@fredferd2649]

why did you do it then?

[@rofishy2]

@@Diegoromero2006Christian homes are the worst parents think because your at church and never allowed to go to a non church friends home that you are never gonna see anything, and so they tell you nothing hoping you never find out about it. I literally came across my first pornography magazine on a riverbed when I was 8 and that didn’t destroy me, but got my mind on it and then I was 16 and the public school kids in the church parking lot were always looking at it and thought they were being heroic by making sure that I had my focus on naked women instead of fishing and hunting like young boys should enjoy until they find the person that they want to be with. At 18 high speed internet came in to our house and I stood no chance lol

[@johnraynor5095]

78yr old. When you are married to a no sex wife, you are trapped in a relationship hell.

[@user-bd5md5cm2j]

Yep and your the bad guy if you leave her. Women are very one sided. I'm 50 and I'm in the same problem. She had excuses for everything, so I just don't ask,touch kiss or joke about sexual things. I just stay away from her as much as possible

[@geoffrey121148]

We are living in a age where women don’t won’t men they don’t need us anymore only to make babies especially in a lesbian situation- women have each other and masturbation toys 🚀! Sorry guys.

[@gafarmboy75]

Man up demand she provide your needs IF you are providing hers

[@user-bd5md5cm2j]

@Stanly Stud I wish. No signs of it. I watch for wierd stuff.

[@user-bd5md5cm2j]

@@gafarmboy75 ya, as you age, your desire to fight goes out the window. TV is a lot different than real life. Sometimes just getting along is it's own reward

[@ccw1k]

you have changed my life, I have been clean only a week and I feel so much better

[@Tarak-ho3xb]

Before this how many years you masturbate bro please reply after 1 week you get sperm easily with your partner

[@Tarak-ho3xb]

Before this how many years you masturbate bro please reply after 1 week you get sperm easily with your partner

[@MeRoveRedCurry1]

If I had known this knowledge when I was freshmen in highschool, God how far I could of been.

[@dougjones4987]

How would you like to be 52 finding this out for the first time.

[@devilisbackk]

Me too...been hijacked by porn 30yrs ago during my teens....still struggling to come out....such info and videos weren't exist in those days which cud have helped me in big way...😑

[@richtheking7157]

@@dougjones4987 Same here…now I know why I experienced such social anxiety and fear in high school. Masturbation is not healthy and anyone that says it is healthy is lying.

[@Aircheekz]

Dr. Trish, you are a real 💎! Our queen 🐝 and protector 😊. Keep providing this generation and community with this much needed information!

[@user-ej8br4fs8u]

Couldn't disagree more

[@facts-hurt-feelings8318]

I am so glad people make videos about this. This has been a struggle for me since I was a child. I was exposed to porn very early and also sexually abused by my stepfather. It's a much tougher mountain to conquer than people give it credit. Don't give up trying to overcome the things that hold you back.

[@justenfinch5911]

Thank you for your work Doctor!! I've recently read The Molecule of More (all about dopamine). In the beginning chapters it talks about the difference between wanting and liking. It hit me that my cravings for sex was causing me to do things that I ultimately didn't like doing. Since then, I've learned to embrace the cravings and urges as something that is a part of who I am, and not something that I need to sedate and calm myself down. I feel so different in my body and I can tell my brain is healing itself.

[@chuck3999]

What if your not in a relationship?

[@tatemalmsteen]

I occasionally watch porn and have masturbated semi-regularly since I was a kid. I never had a problem with delayed ejaculation until I was in my 50s. I think for me it's more age-related and not masturbation or porn related.🤷‍♂️

[@maikmeier5032]

Especially since it also happens to women in that age category. The main problem with porn is that it is an easy "band-aid" for boring sex patterns, possibly due to mismatched desires in a couple.

[@user-ej8br4fs8u]

Yeah this channel is mostly bullshit

[@WillieSurvive1]

Delayed ejaculation has been my biggest issue from masturbation addiction (with and without porn). These days ejaculation is delayed even with masturbation.

[@user-ej8br4fs8u]

you should see a doctor instead of posting on KZbin

[@SinnohGreen]

When I went a month clean i had absolutely no struggle when I was intimate with my partner. I've slipped a few times over the 10 or so weeks, but all in the past 2. I realised how hard it is now to stay clean after the slip if your response is to dive into guilt and deviate from the routine.

[@Seiyefa_D_King]

I know it sounds awkward Andi will understand if u Dont reply. but Pls bro, I'm seriously struggling. I was on a 24day streak and I relapsed 4days ago. I slipped trice in these four days...I really need someone in the same journey I can chat with or talk to regular at least someone I can just get feed back from to support me bro. I'm too ashamed to tell anyone around me, not even my male friends... Pls reply with ur email if you will be generous enough to assist me 😢

[@BloodyHeck]

But for some of us, masturbation is the only sex we get.

[@jim6635]

I'm in that same boat

[@freedomloverusa3030]

GET A WOMAN, and put NO EXCUSES.

[@BloodyHeck]

@@freedomloverusa3030 I have one. I'm on my third marriage.

[@archiebunker7688]

Men of Culture, it's all about worm presentation on the path to becoming a Master Baiter😮

[@volpeverde6441]

​@freedomloverusa3030 get a woman....? you are living in the 1950's....women don't want to be approached anymore....rape whistle at the ready.... .....unless you have boy-band looks and fifty million in the bank....

[@themotivational5439]

This video is for me I feel so depressed From this day forward I quit porn and masturbation It’s killing me relationship

[@steve60.]

WOW ! Finding your video maybe just the ticket, as it all seems so relevant. I want to try what you suggest and I guess time will tell. I appreciate how candid you are and how inciteful you seem to be on this subject. It's almost like you've been there done that. Thank you.

[@toms9902]

Thank-you for saving my life ♥️♥️

[@DrTrishLeigh]

You are so welcome my friend. I am glad to help you. 🙏🏻🙅‍♀️❤️‍🩹

[@harparkrat1]

I agree that porn can be bad for the brain, but not a normal masturbation. Many people are not interested to sex and have no partners. For them 2 minutes of masturbation ones in a week are good and necessary and can save a lot of time.

[@stonesfan285]

Yup this was absolutely my problem. I had an attractive woman naked in front of me and still couldn't finish. Quit the porn, quit masturbating. That is what worked for me. I had to stop for about three months though to fully heal. Now I don't have any performance issues. It's honestly better to finish quick than not at all.

[@TexasLbk]

Great fast video, intro to a doc that cares about every client!

[@hjbonsma]

Because of this In time, I will cure my wife of cancer. Thankyou have a nice day

[@jkl_916]

I have a question ? For the guys that are currently single. How are they supposed to have a healthy sexual relationship with a partner that isn’t there. I have been single for about 2.5 years and been on a S.R. Path about for a little under a year now.

[@leeroyjenkins5208]

I’ve been sober from porn and masturbation for over a year but I still deal with ED and delayed ejaculation with my wife. I feel so awful. Porn and Masturbation ruined my brain.

[@dougjones4987]

I hear ya friend

[@bige2012]

Try taking bupropion to help reset dopamine in brain.

[@donerickson7305]

I thought delayed ejaculation was due to the masturbation death grip and somewhat age related. I would like to see scientific proof about what is proposed here.

[@kevscranes]

Thanks very much for your help. You've turned a light on in my head.

[@ternguatim3275]

She’s my second mom...my guardian angel

[@johnbianchi3877]

Finally Dr. ,...you seem to have a crusade against masturbating. This is absurd as it is a practice that every normal individual does. It is perfectly healthy and necessary. One of my old high school teachers in a catholic school convinced me that it was "sinful" and I carried guilt about it for decades. There is no need to quit masturbation - indeed healthy couple can practice it together in a very spiritual way. This being said, I can agree that many forms of pornography are harmful in that they desensitize us from our humanity and spirituality.

[@luissanjuan1072]

I like how some men told me they don't masterbuate since 5 years ago. 😮 sure

[@heimirjosefsson510]

Quitting porn helped me a great deal. I've always been late to finish but porn made it 100x worse. I'm now able to finish almost every time. Being single and lonely for 4 years made it hard to not do it, but after entering another relationship I've been struggling to quit it completely. It's like a drug.

[@JayMol14]

That's where I'm at. I'm just single now so that's all I got (regularly)! If I was in a relationship, I wouldn't be doing it as much or at all and probably not watching anything. It's just right now I'm single and have occasional (not regular) sex and that's where I'll have trouble "finishing"

[@AndrisLelisTravelChanel]

I rarely meet some girls, but when I meet, always have this. Finally I know what's a problem.

[@LasVegas68]

In a perfect world this information would be very helpful. Unfortunately there's a lot of people without partners or partners that are not able or willing to perform sex......

[@JayMol14]

It's just tough when you're single and kinda "all you've got". And what i mean is if i was in a relationship or having sex regularly, i wouldn't do it on my own as much. But being single and having sex on occasion (not so regularly), that's where i have the problems and struggle "finishing"

[@kikovazquez7277]

I am shocked by your anti-masturbation views and I can't recall seeing such views coming from other qualified sex therapists or counselors in this century - that is with the exception of for instance some individuals who are motivated by an extreme religious objection to non-matrimonial and/or non-procreative sexual activity (which I DO NOT accuse you of). There are few if any beneficial human activities that don't also bring some problematical elements, masturbation included. There are also no perfect solutions to problems. Just as medications may cure or control the worst consequences of disease, they always have potential side effects as well. Solutions bring their own problems and balance needs to be sought. I am reluctantly omitting paragraphs of context and explanation of my views, but this is merely a comment, so I'll leave it basic. Most regular sexual partners lack good sexual chemistry as reality tells us that most couples either don't belong together or whatever sexual chemistry they may have had will expire over a relatively short number of years. Clearly women need more time to achieve satisfaction than men. Men who don't masturbate and even some who do, will very very very frequently be premature ejaculators and women end up performing a duty in bed rather than being a fully interested partner. Is that what you wish us to return to? Sex is supposed to be fun and beyond pleasurable. It also significantly contributes to overall wellness. Ideally, when a man and woman are highly suited to each other, they will explore the sexual fantasies of their partner and never get locked in the rut of doing the same in and out over and over again. They need to take the time to explore so they can keep their sexual engines running clean and fresh. This is a good thing. Of course if a female is not interested and pressures her partner to finish, then the delay becomes a big problem for him - a lack of synchronicity to go with any underlying lack of chemistry. So what is left to the man if masturbation is suddenly re-demonized in the 21st Century? I guess that would be non-committed relationships, cheating outside of committed relationships, sexless marriages, or divorce? So relationship building from the start and the open communication about sex that must be part of that is the ideal. Frequent and long lasting sexual encounters are more the ideal than reverting to "quickie culture" which leaves both partners unsatisfied. Persuading men to cease masturbation and go back to being a 2-minute men while his partner just goes through the motions is definitely archaic and not the ideal.

[@davidjohncox7333]

Great points, of which, I can sadly relate.

[@TheLastSaint7]

I ain't going to lie to yall. I remember days I was going to war with my hand for 8 rounds lasting 2 hours. Boy I was down bad 😂😂😂 Trish is there a way I can do an interview with you? I got some things I'd like to share with the audience.

[@DrTrishLeigh]

Not sure. You can reach out to us and share what you have in mind. 🙅‍♀️

[@dannymorales2139]

@@DrTrishLeigh it's getting worse, please don't give up on us, thank you in advance

[@danijelprljic5565]

Bruh Stay strong 💪

[@tonyringo4128]

😂😂😂

[@703kwood703]

I really hope you answer this although my gut feeling is I already know the answer but my brain is trying to find a cheat code. What do you think about tinder/bumble when trying to “reboot”? I know there’s a dopamine hit when you come across a profile with a suggestive picture but it’s nice to talk to someone when you feel lonely. My guess is it’s best to drop tinder and bumble which will encourage me to go out and talk to women in real life. I don’t know this whole porn addiction/internet addiction is very hard for me. :/

[@aliyu5653]

Thanks for the help Doc, although in my case what drives me to masturbate is the fact that I'm always sexually active but my wife isn't, so she tends to starve me of intimacy

[@lariberaaltamalc]

Thanks Doc. What is the problem and how to fix it. Perfect

[@dougjones4987]

Having quit porn 10 yrs ago This is EXCACTLY my problem. You are a Godsend. Clear explanation too-very understandable.Thanks+God bless.

[@orandachildren1051]

So u still have this problem even after 10 years?

[@dougjones4987]

@@orandachildren1051 not with porn but still struggle with the thoughts and our intimacy struggles

[@clarkluse2918]

I'm no fap for 60 days. I'm about to go insane.

[@volpeverde6441]

that's the idea....GUILT and FEAR.... GUILT and FEAR.... masterbation is natural if you are not in a relationship....it is the result of WOMEN and RELIGION trying to CONTROL YOU....

[@CrisKRA]

I'm 23 years old and I wasn't sexually active until a few months ago. Since then I've had sexual relationships with 3 different women and while I enjoyed it, I couldn't ejaculate or reach orgasm and it has led to the conclusion that my porn consumption and aggresive masturbation style are at fault here. I'd always heard about the risks of ED due to porn consumption, but never of DE and I wish I had. I was arrogant to think that it couldn't damage me but it has and now I know I'm not alone and that there is a solution, so thank you very much

[@garyzornow9084]

Hello Yes, porn and delay ejaculation is a thing. In my case I have issues with premature ejaculation and one time in my life I lasted longer than two minutes. That made me feel like I was a regular guy, not letting my partner down, every time. But of course most guys aren’t like me. I am not endorsing this action but saying it helped me once.

[@bige2012]

Taking bupropion helps with de, because of its effects on dopamine.

[@dala5568]

A balanced view would also consider the benefits of delayed ejaculation to those who have a problem with premature ejaculation. Plus the benefit to women who prefer 25 minutes of penetration as opposed to men only providing 5-7 minutes.

[@vesna639]

I think it's important for very young viewers who these days are being "urged to explore the sexuality" in schools and media, and are confused & find your site, for them to know there's nothing wrong with them if they can't ejaculate because they haven't reached puberty. Statistics say that the starting age in the US for viewing porn is 8 years old.

[@Boyridge]

Maybe not a good idea to say, “Rock it out” at the end of the vid doc! 😂😂

[@HJC1950]

I gave up porn entirely 20 years ago. It can be done. When you give up porn you will notice an improvement in your relationships. You will stop being creepy, and will relate better with women you encounter. Life is much better without porn. Might be hard to believe, but true. I am not a religious person. Banning porn is something you do for you, not to please God or anyone else.

[@TheHalloweenmasks]

Leaving porn behind I can get, but when it comes to masturbation, what about those of us who don't have a girlfriend?

[@Groovy_Astronaut]

Okay this is all good! One thing though at 62 years old and being divorced for a number of years! I’m not looking to get into a relationship at the moment, i’m not ruling it out but at the moment i prefer celibacy so although i can agree that pornography is detrimental to the brain but how am i supposed to deal with sexuality(mine) in the meantime? Please an answer to this question would be important because at the moment i’m really confused about the whole situation! Thanks…

[@cee7345]

Mine had the opposite effect, I finish way to quick sometimes before I get started good

[@tommywilliams4307]

Thank you & love you Dr.Trish. You own my love

[@ashog1426]

Day 3 down.... what Ive been doing is doing my cardio session super early in the morning instead of ya know...

[@Sulimankhayyat]

This is something I was denying or didn't understand, now I get why it's a super stimulant.

[@andreasschmidt5185]

Thank you. I don't watch porn or maturbate but still suffer DE. IM 62 my doctor says it's caused by my medication.

[@KeithCooper-Albuquerque]

I'm sure this is good advice for those who are addicted to porn; however, masturbation in and of itself is normal and useful especially when one doesn't have a partner. I think your comments should have addressed this. Also, I disagree with your demonizing masturbation.

[@lennyray42]

I have always credited my delayed ejaculation sessions up to my practice in edging masterbation techniques using porn. Like with sum spouses, one person’s problem is another man opportunity…

[@notme123]

What suggestions do you have for heterosexual men who are not able to find a partner to have sex with? In those instances. masturbation becomes the person's only sexual outlet.

[@BakariViolin]

Thank you for this work. Could you tell us what is science behind premature ejaculation? Is it all same?

[@murryslims9695]

Thank you Doc for making the video

[@BackpackeRom]

does this apply for both men and women??

[@chinakaamajioyijr268]

How are you doing

[@Marcel-hl5yz]

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[@DrTrishLeigh]

I’m super great. I hope you are too! 🙅‍♀️🙏🏻❤️‍🩹

[@6548ww]

Porn is like a drug like say cocaine and once you get that highest of highs it becomes more difficult to get that same high again without the Porn

[@vaibhavkothari8240]

Doctor, what would you say about a man who's at the moment focused on his goals and practices retention periodically to have that extra edge of focus and energy. But choose to indulge in "flings" if you may, and not anything long term. Is it healthy to have that sort of thing ? when you're emotionally stronger than average and perhaps just giving into the craving of physical aspect of it. I'd appreciate your insight on this.

[@DrTrishLeigh]

Hi friend! Check out my social league video on here as I talk a lot about hookups. Hookups are essentially filling a desire without risking rejection

[@ameysheth8481]

Thanks you doctor......... Your guide has helped me a lot

[@christophersmarra1152]

Isn't NOT being able to delay a bigger problem?

[@richardtrudeau7363]

I would think so.

[@thetruther954]

Trish. Delayed ejaculation? Wow, you're really getting into the videos now. I've got to go to Mom's to learn her wound care, but I'll be back with you before you know it. I could be wrong, but I know what it's like to be dying to hear something. You won't be far from my thoughts. John.

[@Janadu]

You get creepier every day

[@thetruther954]

@@Janadu ok, well, if I knew you better, I’d say what you’re doing right now may be entrapment. My Aunt was creepy because I wasn’t a girl. Like women all whispering in a bar to escape the attention and have a safe place, I think her and her daughters leaned on that. My cousin was married, but now I think she’s gay. I guess the whispers worked for her. I thought I was being nice to you, and now it seems it was wasted. Maybe you just don’t want to understand. Or maybe you do understand, but the truth doesn’t matter. Clearly, it’s not worth getting straight. Love John.

[@thetruther954]

@@JanaduYou know, Janadu, it’s not so bad being called a creep, but when I dig myself in even deeper and you pretty much just sit there in silence, it makes me think, somehow, there’s an ass-hole causing this. It hurts. Love John.

[@Vaskocerqueirazz]

Dr. Trish, thank you for another inspiring video. Do you know of any efficient porn blockers? Like, any kind of browser extension or software that blocks all adult content??

[@carolenugent4806]

Covenant eyes

[@nokas95]

Thank you just because you are here and help us... Porn destroyed my brain and now i trying to rewire it.. i do only sex with my girlfriend and i feel week after week o coming back.. just litle steps everytime... your videos help me a lot.

[@msggry9504]

Dear Dr. Really enjoyed your video and fully agree with all mentioned on it 100% indeed. But, what if your partner is not with me for all 3 months on row ?..?…?… thank you very much

[@DrTrishLeigh]

Then look forward to their return! Continue building intimacy with your partner, partake in activities you love, and do some self-care. You can life a happy and fulfilling life without sex 🙌

[@j.seashell3785]

I love your videos. Thank you for your counsel. So I’m a divorced man who cannot bring myself to trust a another woman. I can’t even trust loose women who may want to sleep with me nor do I want to. If a woman wants to sleep with me without being married then I’m sorry I flat out can’t trust her. So I’m stuck in this perpetual non dating porn consuming cycle. I know you don’t know me from Adam. So I’m summary. How does porn damage a man who cant even trust a woman to be intimate with again?

[@archiebunker7688]

Here's some sage advice for all men: 70 percent of single women vote Democrat, atheistic, babykillers etc. Get this straight right after the salad and drinks are served. Don't be afraid to exit thru restroom window. Go to a Trump Rally and find a nice well adjusted down to Earth woman who respects the Lord and not have that 70s " I am woman, hear me roar/ but I'm still an embryo, with a long long way to go" Helen Reddy crap song ( not an aborted embryo??) hard wired into her brain.

[@kelvisstyles]

What about massage parlors with happy ending. Does that ruin you also?

[@domingodeanda233]

That was pretty damn good, thanks

[@Th0ughtZ_]

Dr. Trish Leigh in the house.

[@kylekeen3497]

Not a religious man. I've heard porn and masturbating is a sin.

[@ubeuonly]

Were not cave people that believe in God or fictional books anymore. You shouldn't either

[@LGreen-nt9ef]

Absolutely! This video is her top 2 that she's posted. Very well explained and anyone can always refer to it when they're in that weak state of mind and they're about to watch porn and masturbate. Thanks Doctor

[@DrTrishLeigh]

The hijacker will always try to attack when your mind is at a weak state, don't let it win!

[@DealingWithHealing]

@@DrTrishLeigh I have noticed that when we are fatigue and have stayed up for too long and also maybe have difficulty unwind and relax that the hijacker comes and wants attention and have a great idea in mind, it's so easy to tag along if you are not mentally strong. But what I see missing here is methods for unwinding and relaxing without masturbation or porn. But something healthy. What would those healthy habits be and how do we retrain our mind to respond to new habits and not go back to old habits? It's so easy to take that neural highway and travel the same road. Thank you for your diligent work. You have helped a lot in understanding how bad this toxic behavior is and how it's robbing us from joy and energy. But it's so difficult to reboot and it's a hard journey. Lots of us quit, much like the recruiting for navy seals.

[@JM-rw9je]

Thank you Dr Leigh.

[@Celtics-fj5le]

I've never experienced this problem

[@jeffbruni2177]

What if it's our own porn? Is it like 50/50 visual stimulus/ and the hand stimulating?

[@solaking2111]

Dear Doc,are you implying watching porn is a potential cure for premature ejaculation??

[@b.j.thomas8606]

I would think Premature instead of Delayed!

[@shimul1997]

Thank you Dr. Trish... I'm newly married man. I'm struggling delayed ejaculation. Even I can't release sperm. But if masterbate watching porn i can easily release sperm. Is it possible to overcome this problem??? Someone suggest me your experience about it.

[@Ram-hy8dc]

Dr. Trish, I have a question. After quitting porn for a week, I’ve been experiencing a white “discharge” after urinating. Could it be excess semen being created by the testicles?

[@Aircheekz]

Thats semen leakage. She has a video about that. She has videos on most of these things on her channel. She’s done her work in the porn recovery/reboot community. Wish her channel existed back in 2015 😞

[@Ram-hy8dc]

@@Aircheekz thanks bro

[@lavarball7538]

What is it?

[@Ram-hy8dc]

@@lavarball7538 apparently it’s semen leakage. It’s from the body creating excess semen

[@KpxUrz5745]

That's a coincidence. Better known as gonorrhea.

[@lumberdog198]

I tried to quit porn but it threatened to take half my house and pension so Im stuck.

[@sebastiangruffydd2765]

Dear Doctor Leih, Please define "Healthy Sex". Thank you.

[@bigtippyTopp]

I agree with abstinence recommendation but that’s a hard pill to swallow like a two to three month sized 💊

[@klausgersdorf8315]

What does that help a Single guy who gets it occasionally?

[@gillyboy1566]

Why no mention of medication causes

[@detoxmarocain8931]

How to cure premature then??

[@deshawnthompson4622]

I have a question? What happened if you don’t have a partner but your scared when you do find one that you will perform to the best of your abilities? With letting her know that you had pornography addiction.

[@richardcaulker1017]

Doctor, I have never been able to understand how anybody can find porn more stimulating than being with a real-life flesh and blood partner. To me, the only reasonable explanation for that would be if that partner was unattractive. Otherwise the idea is ridiculous to me. Secondly, I have never been with a woman who doesn't love delayed ejaculation, which is a skill I learned in the 1970s, before porn had become a a thing. When intercourse is good, most women don't want it to end for at least 30 minutes, and sometimes for much longer. Your somewhat puritanical videos are making me suspect that YOU might be sexually dysfunctional due to a libido that is either very low or extremely repressed.

[@redandgreenflags9506]

Question: like 5 yrs ago I was fit a girl & couldn’t get hard an it made me feel so weak as a man & every since then I’ve had that fear happening again how do I over come this

[@ChrisP-ni4lz]

You should associate this with no sex from spouse:girlfriend as a cause for subscription to pornhub

[@Talvish]

@Dr. Trish Leigh, P*rn Brain Rewire Is it safe to completely stop ejaculating?

[@DrTrishLeigh]

I’m not a huge fan of that… I think it’s better to develop healthy sexuality with a partner.

[@Talvish]

@@DrTrishLeigh Doing that must also affect the prostate in the long run

[@sholonator92]

But who is saying that? You or the highjacker? You gotta be completely honest with yourself to overcome this habit my friend

[@gorfeyn]

can peramature ejaculation turn into delayed ejaculation

[@user-rm4uw4bh7f]

how long does this take to heal your self to get used to your partner

[@johnmilner7603]

I’ve read on forums it depends on the person. It could take from 2 weeks to 30 days, to 60 days or 90 days. I’ve even read that some will say it could take a year, but I find that one hard to believe. My bet is on 2-4 weeks.

[@opec1989]

Thank you for this truth

[@phosphorescentscotsman]

The sex you DON'T get to see is when you are a PARTICIPANT and NOT a voyeur/spectator.

[@paulnjeta2755]

Noted

[@powskier]

Are you saying leave porn and masterbation together behind or are you saying never do either, even if masterbation is done without porn?

[@Fuk_Xin]

All the GOOD STUFFS!!🕺🕺🕺🕺💃💃💃

[@izumoses1290]

Thank you

[@KpxUrz5745]

But Doctor, the reason I turned to porn is because my wife always says "wake me up when it's over". Am I the only one wrong here?? Seriously, let's get to the real problem. Which is horniness without a sexual partner. These days everything is so screwed up. If normal people had actual healthy, willing, and able partners.... problem solved. What always amazed and disturbed me, was years later, reading that I had supposedly suffered through my SEXUAL PRIME years... a good number of years before I ever had any sex!!!!! Sound familiar, guys???

[@DrTrishLeigh]

Usually women stop wanting sex when their needs have stopped being met. Work on communication, intimacy, and connection with your wife may be a solution.

[@KpxUrz5745]

@@DrTrishLeigh Oh! I did not expect YOU to actually answer. Thank you, but I was trying to make a joke. But while on the topic, I must say I tend to disagree with you there. I fully believe that there are very many people (usually female, but sometimes male), who really have no needs, at least in the bedroom.

[@amarshrivastava2753]

Excellent video

[@clarkluse2918]

Is she OK?

[@montanasxm]

Hi Doc. Thank you so much for your so helpful videos🙏Listening to you is really changing my life as I am still a work on progress. I am overcoming watching porn and I am confident that I will be at my best without it but here is my question: How can i somehow stop thinking about some of my intense sex experiences that i had in my past with some of my partners? I ask because as I'm moving away from porn but still lots of my own sex memories come from time to time. Please if you can do a video about this we will much appreciate it Doctor🙏

[@DrTrishLeigh]

Flashbacks can often be a sign that your brain is seeking for more dopamine. When you find yourself thinking about those things, do something else that produces a healthy level of dopamine, going for a walk, creating art, playing an instrument, listening to a podcast etc.

[@dougjones4987]

Same with me

[@cockasorrus7475]

You’re just relishing good times. I don’t have a partner so porn is my go to. Sure beats the drama & a lot of other BS.