What women can learn from Tom Brady - Kevin Samuels Started this Conversation (Episode 85)

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[@taridean]

Does the whole passport bro thing work the other way round, i.e. coming from the UK🇬🇧 to marry her 😁? She is gorgeous 😍 and best of all not swimming in delusion and combativeness we've been accustomed to seeing with many black women.

[@truthseekingfreethinker5214]

I don't think so. Finding a woman like her is like finding a needle in a haystack. The passport bros agenda is to go where there is a plethora of better options, but don't let me rain on your parade. YOU CAN DO IT, lol

[@openmindchannel1978]

Don't underestimate women in America abilities to fake a personality on a podcast and be a totally different person in real life. I find this the hard way. Even , the way some women will treats you as a friend vs a boyfriend is like night and day. Because when they don't have or expecting any kind of expectations from you they will treats you different ,but be around her 24/7, when she is expecting bills to be paid, shiit to be done her way around the house, she expects you here at x,y,z time , you will learn very quickly , it's not the same at all. That's why most friendships that turns to relationships failed..

[@Footprintsinthesand6436]

If you can’t see that she will be a problem, you are blind lmao. Pay attention! She sound sweet and looks patient but her body language says otherwise. Her eyes mouth and head movements says it all

[@kiriende3691]

When you interview this woman it brings me hope. This was a really dense edifying conversation. It just came out and I've listened to it twice. This woman is the proverbial clean glass next to the dirty glass. This is the type of woman whom you don't have to agree with on everything but you could work through your issues. I don't need the submissive woman per se but a friendly, considerate, and intelligent woman is enough for me.

[@themarathoncontinues4211]

Exactly. The least we can ask for is a friendly demeanour and someone who isn’t disagreeable

[@GB2139]

And that’s the problem, you guys low your expectations but THEY WONT !😩👊🏽👊🏽

[@chrisjohnson926]

I enjoy her conversation as well

[@roblane5699]

@@GB2139 🎯

[@kevinlewis6927]

Man i feel the same way I love this lady wish she can be cloned to balance this planet of the stupidity

[@losdog911]

She is easily the best guest you bring on. Her mind is a breath of fresh air.

[@ituaogiamien2662]

100%

[@dduffy7271]

She’s definitely one of the best because she enjoys thinking and can convey her points of view concisely

[@stylezpinero7416]

She is DOPE Fr Fr. Breath of Fresh Air...

[@taybiztv]

Her authenticity is what is astounding to me. You can tell she really means what she says and not pandering to men or women. She’s being genuine.

[@taureanbelle9769]

💯!

[@simonecoleman1485]

I really enjoyed her as a guest on the show. I hope you have more women like her in these conversations.

[@dangusto2596]

That basketball analogy was excellent 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@stuartdknightauthor9526]

"There are many ones, and not only one." Exactly right.

[@Kush_Ups]

I see your conversations and wonder why you don’t have thousands more people listening to this. Then I remember that people don’t like civil discourse that makes sense, and that’s unfortunate. These are the kinds of conversations I want to have. Keep doing the good work, brother!

[@wnttalk]

preciate you brother🙏🏿

[@californiablue3828]

GREAT INTERVIEW 👏🏿 Hands down the best female interviewee to date! She is what peace looks and feels like

[@Mike_M.]

💯

[@skills504]

I love this Sister she is so intuitive

[@Skywalker721]

Great conversation. I like that you’re bringing different kinds of women on the platform.

[@2madwithaj]

Whew…y’all need y’all own segment I can listen to your conversations for hours….she asks great questions

[@supernupe]

South Carolina 💪🏾. Yes if you grew up up north things would’ve been totally different for you.

[@Lantian99]

I believe this was your best one yet. You got deep with this one and the conversation opened to new horizons. You truly have a gift sir.

[@wnttalk]

Thank you so much🙏🏿

[@shaunhill4569]

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[@shaunhill4569]

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[@gtdgary]

“She has to be better than my alone” is probably the realest thing I’ve heard in a while.

[@Jamfar777]

She is one of the few that I enjoy. A woman that has wisdom is a jewel in any man's crown.

[@kirk-michaelharris1683]

I love this woman...a standard

[@BadAssPercyJ]

I hope to God that she inspires women to think like her. Yeah she’s cute, but she commands a level of respect and admiration Just from the exchange she’s having with the host. She’s not combative when challenged or dismissive of things she doesn’t agree with.

[@johnellharris1366]

This conversation is exceptionally enlightening I want to see more very essential.

[@jangomp3]

She’s very genuine in her delivery. A very thoughtful, intelligent woman.

[@Jamaine678]

Great conversation two people trying to actually understand the other. See it can be done. ✊🏽

[@darhkz3900]

Hope she reads these comments and continues to grow

[@tdeadhmane_t.v4717]

I like the conversations between you and this particular young lady. Y’all make good conversation.

[@dlbrown8668]

I love the format of this show. The one on one give the watcher a chance to hear an honest debate, not a bunch of disagreement and over talking followed by frustration . I wish this formula was applied to more shows.

[@jemalgrant2128]

Great conversation! I believe both side's learned from each other. Gives me hope for my own personal life. ✊🏾✊🏾💪🏾💪🏾

[@wnttalk]

That’s why we do this brother ✊🏿✊🏿✊🏿

[@msariana_adams]

This was a very good conversations and it's great to hear from perspectives who both understand and respect each other's intellect. I LOVED her point on being a wife and how society has made it seem like the position of a wife/mother (cooking, cleaning, taking care of your home and or children, ensuring your husband/family is unconditionally loved and set for success) as demeaning, and unfulfilling. In these conversations, they're basically saying that being a woman isn't empowering. They're disowning their own femininity by trying to be something that biblically they were never meant to be. That's a big portion of why women are struggling; they're turning away from the very thing that's going to empower them to be their best self.

[@lifeinmotion9637]

"Better then my alone" is LEGENDS of sayings'

[@quyntindowner7547]

I like her energy, I like the way she thinks. Good conversation Allen. You made some fire points, like the old man planting the tree and thoughts on chance and faith.

[@linkny2914]

She’s beautiful, intelligent, articulate and messed with goosebumps books. Definitely your best guest.

[@kennethalston2175]

Get discourse. Very engaging and respect. Well done both of the speakers!

[@kiad.2552]

She’s made brilliant points about confidence being tied to achievement as a losing proposition when facing competition. Please bring her back!!

[@sjp1969]

Agreed I’ve been wondering if my friends felt this way growing up. I never did.

[@user-nd8is6ey4t]

This young lady has a mature mind and understanding of men and women. Very good discernment and clear articulation of her perspectives. Good questions as well.

[@91zulu]

Alan every once in awhile you score a WINNER... Here she is. Beautiful spirit, beautiful smile, obviously intelligent, not like that fast talking hood chic that think she is. With this young lady you could see the breath of fresh air.. the expression on her face says it all. She was taking in the information, she was in deep thought. There was no faking here. She was wonderfully genuine. Bravo Alan ....👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍

[@nvnddon]

I agree heavily. If I find people that are better than my alone then I know we good for life. I'm on a path for me and I have grown to enjoy myself and learn about myself enough to really know me. I don't NEED anyone so for someone to enter my life I have to WANT you.

[@thomasmoore6175]

We need this show one of the best talk shows around you need to go national . Im talking TV . Watched a lot of TV shows Oprah/phill Donahue/ montell William/ Your show is in that league. your interview skills are superb I can see you on a show next to Kamal bell or I Am Athlete

[@wnttalk]

Yooooo I appreicate you my brother✊🏿✊🏿✊🏿✊🏿✊🏿

[@user-gt1kd9rv1w]

I agree!!!

[@DJDeeZDee]

Disagree I disagree with your statement on so many levels there are so many other people out there that are very much better than this interviewer and this guy actually lets women get away with a whole lot but that's my two cents.

[@taureanbelle9769]

Absofreckinlutely!!!! 😂❤️

[@CHUK.PATRICK]

@@wnttalk This is a suggestion. How about you leave the social media contact of your guests in the description. So that people can reach out to them.

[@rohanstadhard9267]

My brother you and this guest the best interviews great conversation edge of the seat listening.... My brother ylu was destined to make some of us better people... Much blessings to you in your journey

[@taureanbelle9769]

I agree!

[@wnttalk]

Thank you so much brother🙏🏿🙏🏿

[@Bigboi2]

Man what you said at 18:15 throughout resonated so much for me cause I move through life the same way. What she said about "putting yourself out there more" made me laugh cause I came to that conclusion too. Lol But it's like you said "You have to be better than my aloneness" Kudos Great Interview 🙌🏿🙏🏾

[@islandguy2535]

Another well done interview n conversation she is awesome n would go the extra mile for

[@ScaryToRemarry]

This conversation is phenomenal!

[@TrulyCharles143]

18:41 better than my alone. Interdependent. PROFOUND!!!👍🏾

[@tjackson01]

Hair looks natural, healthy weight, modest makeup, intelligent, this sister seems to get it! She is the type of woman I would actually approach. Ladies, you don't have to look like an IG model, just be a natural woman and I swear a good man will take notice.

[@rocar38]

Is u blind. All that foundation. Aint nothing modest about that.

[@tjackson01]

@@rocar38 You missed the point! Less witchcraft (heavy makeup) or the APPEARANCE of a natural woman is what productive men desire. For you It was more important to accuse her of wearing foundation (your opinion) than to internalize my over arching point of less and natural ( the appearance of) is more attractive than the former.

[@rocar38]

@@tjackson01 im not accussing. Im stating a fact. Again. You blind to it bro.

[@tjackson01]

@@rocar38 OK man, if she is wearing a lot of makeup she fooled me. It still doesn't negate the fact that less is better.

[@rocar38]

@@tjackson01 i agree. And its no slight to her. I personally dispise make up.

[@ricjackson2841]

Dang, you really gonna leave us on a cliff hanger like that 😭. Good stuff brotha, keep it up!

[@michaeljr9468]

Bro this women and you is how a conversation is supposed to be with a man and woman. Great talk

[@Mike_M.]

Make her a co-host, love her solid communication skills.

[@rondejack]

My favorite adversary. She always brings it.

[@iamgosa]

I’ve mentioned this is another unrelated video, but I’d say it again here. I don’t believe in soulmates/the "one". I believe the one is whomever you choose and keep choosing to be the one. It's an active and continuous process. We make choices everyday in life, and we also choose to stick with out choices or change it later if opportunity calls or demands for it. So the one or soulmate is just that person whom you've decided to choose and keep choosing... Hopefully that person makes it EASIER for you to keep choosing them. Life is all about our choices and accepting our choices.

[@bolespal3475]

I’m starting to think there is hope with all this chaos, best guest yet. Keep it coming boss. The concept of being alone is nothing new to men, men have been alone throughout centuries they’re called monks, priest, transcendentalist, ect. So loneliness is nothing new. If a man is not comfortable being alone that is worrisome because that entails they aren’t able to survive long term and cannot be counted on during time of crisis.

[@onetruesavage]

Man these last few have been hitting home for me personally. Especially the rabbit hole conversation took the end.

[@wnttalk]

thank you bro🙏🏿

[@onetruesavage]

@@wnttalk Naw thank all of y'all for helping me grow, learn, and change my perspective on all the things discussed here.

[@amaliomar]

She said "how is that different from what i said?" 😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@eddiejohnson8582]

Naturally BEAUTIFUL!!! Keep up the Good Work my G.

[@amaliomar]

Girl brain is freak'n awesome. The ability to take away responsibility from themselves and put it on fate, has to be super comforting. I would be so much more at peace if I could say my life was preordained.

[@lhbnlb]

AGHHH…If talking in circles was a person!!!!…the need to be right is strong iN this one!!!!…good work @wnttalk

[@darrelbutler1996]

She's great! And very rare. I love listening to her perspective.

[@DopetravtheGod]

This is my favorite conversation

[@wills5819]

Great show, great guest

[@wnttalk]

She’ll be joining us LIVE during this Friday’s stream!

[@StreetSdaGreaT]

" when I find someone who's better than my alone" 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 I'm alone around the same amount of time as well so I completely understand!!!

[@wnttalk]

💯💯💯✊🏿

[@siajabu]

Refreshing that she's actually listening and quoting back Obi (i.e. "Fit, Friendly, Inspirational") so she's also internalizing what she's hearing. She also talks about women's"lack of self-awareness", which is another point that most men have to learn live with our own value from an early age but women buy into the delution that they're intrinsically perfect the way they are.

[@n3bmusic]

Great analogies, as usual. The Ferrari analogy makes too much sense... It's a great way to conceptualize our perspective on the life we should want for ourselves. Can't blame someone else for your choices 🤷, they aren't responsible for Your happiness.

[@lionproclamationsmedia]

I totally agree with the pyramid concept of "The One".

[@Mupeta.]

I can completely relate to the idea of being consumed by random thoughts. I easily get carried away. Sometimes it takes me a while to snap out of it. Good to know I'm not alone.

[@kenwil32]

This may have been my favorite one, thus far. Super Dope

[@kortsls]

confidence is tied to capability and the continued ability to achieve the success repeatedly.

[@RockyMaiviaMiami]

Good interview. She’s articulate, listens and isn’t ratchet. She does miss that women tell men exactly what disqualifies men. The accomplishments are reflections of those requirements & also sustainability

[@Binyamin857]

“Do you believe in monogamy” can’t wait for the next ep💯

[@Lfordy800]

Literally the more she spoke, the more I could see myself spending the rest of my life with her. She may not be an L.A. 9, but imagining the joy I’d have from being in a marriage with a woman like this gave me butterflies. More of her, please.

[@TheDweeb002]

“Spend the rest of my life with her” after a 15 minute video. No wonder women run circles around guys. Nothing but suckers ripe for picking

[@jontelmurphy5996]

@@TheDweeb002 , LOL 😂

[@mra.4466]

The simping in this post is real. Man ready to risk it all. 😆

[@themarathoncontinues4211]

Grown ass man talking about butterflies 😂be careful bro.

[@Chan6th]

To my bros defense, even though I may feel that way about a chick I let time dictate my actions still.

[@demetriuslewis8299]

Self confidence comes from keeping promises to yourself over a period of time. Most people loose confidence because they tell themselves that they will do something and when a family member or freind ask about the thing you said you were going to do and the answer is always no or you always have some excuse as to why you can’t, other people stop having confidence in you. So when other people do not have confidence in you it tends to affect how you feel about yourself.

[@aw3024]

I think when she said that she thinks while she drives. Most people that you encounter do not have that time of self-reflection. When you can honestly evaluate yourself without Judgment of others, that will allow you to have an honest measure of yourself. This conversation shows the comparison of someone that has that measure of themself and can hold a conversation with an honest gauge of their self-worth. She was able to provide and receive information even when some of it did not coincide with her original belief. A characteristic like this will often surpass physical Beauty, though she has that as well.

[@taureanbelle9769]

Assessing yourself is where you start to me. Self awareness is important and understand there will be changes necessary. You need to know where to start to begin the journey to get to where you need to be.

[@waynegoldmanjr1708]

She’s good people… great convo. And you would cut it right at the good part 😂😂😂 Keep up the great work. ✊🏿

[@Gwmcmi02]

I’d have been thinking second date VERY early with this lovely lady. She’s checking boxes even within the limited context of this conversation.

[@sjp1969]

That being with her is better than my alone is a word. That how I felt about my ex-wife. I prefer being alone for the most part but there have been those women that I have enjoy being with around more than being by myself.

[@MrVonmega]

This woman personality is so cute love her way of thinking things through.

[@brhyno926]

As I'm catching up this is the first video where I didn't cringe at anything the guest said lol. Progress lol. That's very encouraging just that she exists as an example 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🙏🏾 Also I have the same belief as the pyramid of attraction vs "the one"

[@kaimobley5324]

That quote about the tree describes Moses in the Bible perfectly

[@chrisdudleyart]

Confidence IS based on past performance. When one has not done anything it’s called OVER-CONFIDENCE, which is generally perceived as negative. A developed skillset (at whatever) yields confidence.

[@TheloniousP]

WOW... she just described 'The Wall' @6:32..... I've never heard it described that way before but that's exactly what happens to women when their looks no longer matter and the attention fades... For men since we arent born with the gift of beauty and femininity we have to create/earn/take our value. The only way to display THAT is to show it. Whether by building something, destroying something or beating out our competition... This can be toxic and detrimental to society if its not channeled the right way.

[@TrulyCharles143]

Great episode

[@taureanbelle9769]

You have to be better than my alone. This is so true! Many love being alone because it doesn’t mean they are lonely…. I learn much during my alone time. No it’s not because you are a man lol.

[@a.s5202]

Whoever this woman is she is GORGEOUS

[@ChemicalXII]

"Self Esteem vs. Confidence.".

[@4540works2]

Bro you raised 5 notches with the pyramid analogy. You are officially at negative 1😅💪🏿👑

[@MoB217]

She’s beautiful and intelligent

[@TotalBodyBlast]

This is the 2nd video interview I’ve watched with her. She is probably 1 of the most sensible women to sit on the couch. Most of the women Allen interviews have noticeable issues.

[@diallohumphries9479]

2 smart introspective people.

[@davidjones4318]

Good conversation! At the same time it is draining to see so many women have no clue why we have such a divide between black women and black men. Materialism is a symptom of an equally shared problem: lack of a quality value system. Men generally know what they should value in a woman and seek it. Our women have been corrupted by selfish tendencies, white survivalism / supremacy and a stunning lack of understanding of their OWN nature, men's even more so. They are trying to do what men do and then wonder why their relationships fail. To be "kept" women have to relearn to value what we value in them: attractiveness, fit, feminine and co -operative. By the time they figure the formula out they have had too much trauma, some other mans children and not enough experience being co-operative with a man who is worthy. Keep presenting our point of view. Hope more modern women listen and adjust.

[@Coast2CoastTuber]

@22:20 Choose your own adventure

[@UM2636]

As a man I’m learning so much from watching these interviews

[@angelawashington9821]

TRUE "Soulmates" should be able to EVOLVE.... because the given in LIFE IS CHANGE!!

[@swellscity5792]

Ahh! Where's the rest of this tho ?

[@m.danielmills7091]

People that can't deal with monotony generally can't deal with being alone. If you master dealing with monotony, then being alone isn't as much of an issue.

[@Jwcreacts]

This lovely lady in my opinion is expressing interest in you Obi. I hope you peeped game and did something about that. Cause I would. She's a wife thats up for grabs.

[@Cerstani]

I agree; I don't use the term often, but this young lady was giving Obi blatantly obvious 'choosing signals' (the subtly seductive eyes, the wry yet playful smirk, biting of the lower lip, etc.).

[@mra.4466]

Obi married last I checked. He don’t want that wahala. 😂

[@themarathoncontinues4211]

@@mra.4466 I don’t think he’s married. He doesn’t talk like he’s married, I think he just has a child

[@jamspringz]

Fundamentally, confidence is being self assured. As children, male and female our confidence is fed by the consistency and quality of affirmation and encouragement from parents and people who have access to speak into our lives. Confidence shifts with some overlap but becomes categorically different as children get older between males and females. The shift is how it gets further developed by realized competence whether it's riding a bike, tying your shoe, performing well in a school subject or sport. Essential the fight is overcoming self doubt and resilience to failing. Competence comes with time and practice, accelerated with coaching and mentoring, different levels of mastery according to applied mindsets.

[@shomarimonroe150]

Great video

[@schobyd]

I love this sista! She’s pretty and authentic. We need more content from her.

[@m.danielmills7091]

Choose your own adventure was the name I remember of those choice books

[@PeanutsandPopcorn]

First time watching and I like this format. #sub

[@ako7975]

Mr. Obi, I think you and this lady, shall I say, have “great chemistry”, if you know what I mean 😂😂

[@wnttalk]

lmao she's a fantastic woman🙏🏿 Also, I need your email brother. [e-mail]

[@naujud216]

"Some of us are telling stories to ourselves about ourselves that aren't true" A Bar

[@ghosttemplar6989]

"I can't measure good" That term always get me. Someone is good only by what they think is good the problem with that is well an example. You can catch someone stealing something like food and well stealing is wrong but for that person at that time they are taking food to feed themselves and someone else which is good to them.

[@dariusgibson3368]

You can teach Charisma which is a byproduct of being inspirational