Delusional OP Tested Her Boyfriend With Her Best Friend, Planned To Seduce Him, Got Upset When He...

[@PreeSpunky]

1:28 "Guys are only as faithful as their options, or lackthereof" Girls are only as loyal as their guy's success, or lack thereof.

[@nicknitro86]

So the walking red flag sent a walking red flag to check for red flags. Gotcha.

[@AmaryInkawult]

Mao would be proud at such patriotism

[@rmhartman]

"she would never stab me in the back. She's the one that suggested testing him." Suggesting that WAS stabbing you in the back.

[@yuvrajsamadhiya252]

No no that was stabbing in the front.

[@yuvrajsamadhiya252]

@rmhartman no no that is stabbing in the front.

[@PhoenixDragon86]

After hearing the boyfriend's side I hope op remains single for the rest of her life. No one deserves to have someone like her for a relationship since she's too toxic just because she got cheated before

[@SnowyWolborg]

I get the feeling that she is so paranoid about infidelity because she wants to be able to catch someone _before_ they cheat in some kind of warped effort to un-victimized herself from being the victim of cheating in the past. Either way, it's pretty clear that this woman is nuts.

[@localcompanion]

Next test: Im going to see if my partner will resort to cheating if i tell them i cheated on them

[@MizzShortai]

Geez after hearing his side I'm not surprised he flirted back and asked for Kelseys number. She was constantly trying to "catch" him doing something wrong so when that event happened and he was buzzed he probably subconsciously decided to just prove her "right"

[@StefanVeenstra]

Any test in a relationship is manipulative at best and hence worth breaking up over. Even if the partner passed the faithfulness test, the fact she needed that exposes she cannot trust and cannot be trusted.

[@Fluffykunn]

I've never understood the logic of testing someone in a relationship. If you're caught, you can't backtrack to save yourself. And to expect someone to accept it and act like it was so big deal is beyond toxic. And her logic for testing him, if you want to open the door for the same toxic behaviors, by all means do so.

[@PreeSpunky]

Every single woman shittests to various degrees, even the good ones.

[@OTDinosaurScrubs]

It stems from immaturity and insecurity, this kind of behaviour is just manipulative and shows they have no business being in a relationship

[@Rando1481]

@@Fluffykunnit’s just so stupid imagine having a relationship build on trust but not trusting your partner

[@mr.x991]

"Single women keep women single". I guarantee that either Kelsey overblew the story or bro was drunk. This is similar to another story I heard about a guy's wife whose best friend constantly was filling her head with the idea that he was cheating, while the wife had PPD. It kept getting worse until the wife drove into a tree... Why do people sabotage their friends?! Literally

[@mr.x991]

Wife also tried to "take their daughter with her", which is... horrifying

[@capsizemoonz2251]

I remember that story Was there ever an update since last i recall the friend was going to the funeral of the wife

[@tdl487]

That one was so freaking dark. I felt bad for OP and their daughter. Hell I even felt sorry for OP's late wife. Her friend was a freaking psychotic.

[@capsizemoonz2251]

@tdl487 was that story updated after the funeral

[@tdl487]

@@capsizemoonz2251 I don't think so. OP was in a really dark place and sound lost though.

[@mrsilverskyline]

Lets say all together everyone now "Single women keep women single."

[@moufou4life]

“Because asking someone else number in a relationship is normal “ says the girl thinking it’s normal to test boyfriend multiple times as if it’s normal

[@CeartGoLeor86]

Story 2 pisses me off. Talking about it as "an affair" and the casual "he banged my mom was a turnoff". Her predator Mom took advantage of a teenage student that she had authority over. The guy still feels guilt over the situation years later which is not uncommon for teenagers who were taken advantage of by married adults. And boys are socialised with the message that they are never victims of women. The guy threw up after having to be around the predator again. And the OP just wants to rug-sweep it as an awkward incident. She dumped him for being taken advantage of by a predator teacher when he was a teenager.

[@reneeharper84]

Yeah the way she is so dismissive of it all bothers me

[@phionella7]

Story 2 man her mom is a predator. She should be in jail.

[@sliversoulfly]

s2: Seriously, an affair she regrets?!? It's a high school student and teacher. Never ever ok. That isn't an affair, at best, it's predatory, at worst, depending on ages and location, a big girl prison crime. What relationship is going to be rebuilt? That's a life long no to low contact relationship from there on out.

[@ZenoDovahkiin]

As if women get punished for that.

[@zackkatian3436]

@@ZenoDovahkiin Was about to say the exact same thing. Female predator teachers rarely face justice and so many are still teaching today. Meanwhile if a male teacher does it... ho boy... forget the book, the entire court is thrown at him.

[@Fcutdlady]

en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mary_Kay_Letourneau

[@CeartGoLeor86]

Yeah, the casual way she said banging my mom was a turn-off rather than he was taken advantage of by her predator mom. Even if he had just turned 18, there's a power dynamic that a teacher has with a student that prevents true consent. His vomitting in response to being around her might be a response to trauma but boys are socialised to thing that they're not the victim and that "they're lucky" if an older woman takes advantage of them.

[@amberluppens3292]

I’m like 5 minutes into the video, and here’s what I think happened: Kelsey lied. OP wasn’t there to see the supposed flirting happen, so Kelsey could just say whatever and have OP believe her blindly. Now Chris is free to persu(don’t know how to spell this word) whoever, and if that just so happens to be Kelsey, well then…

[@lyraflow9154]

Pursue

[@amberluppens3292]

@lyraflow9154 thank you so much! I’d change it but for some reason KZbin just will not let me edit comments I’ve made, otherwise I’d correct it

[@mr.x991]

​@@amberluppens3292 I have that glitch too lol

[@lyraflow9154]

@@amberluppens3292 no problem, just wanted to help. English is not my first language, so I also had moments where I can say a word but not write it

[@Eden_Laika]

​@lyraflow9154Speaking as a native English speaker, I also frequently can't remember how to write common words. English spelling is stupid.

[@kazekazeneko]

1st Story: Yeah…. At first I was thinking Kelsey was setting her up to fail, but after hearing the ex boyfriend’s response man he dodged a big one. OP basically made being cheated on as her personality.

[@WilliamBillyCha]

S1 op is a red flag. Her ex though is either weak or desperate, because he should’ve dump her sorry butt as soon as she started doing these thing to him.

[@DJ-mf6ft]

He is an abuse victim. It is hard to truly see that, especially as a guy and especially over time. He was beaten down relentlessly because of her abuse.

[@Number-vt1fl]

"How do I work on rebuilding my relationship with my mom?' The real question she should be asking is why would she want to?

[@FrostLordOni]

This. “My mom groomed my bf when he was younger, and me dating him made her uncomfortable, so I dumped him. How do I rebuild my relationship with my sex offender mother?” The answer is you don’t, your mother is disgusting

[@IdkShadow04]

*Story 1:* OP honestly helped Chris dodge a missile. Her and Kelsey are insane. Commentators are most likely right about Kelsey. *Edit:* I'm three minutes into the ex-boyfriend's side and OP sounds more insane than I thought. *Edit 2:* Chris dodged a nuke not a missile. Respect for Ashley for letting Chris know about the reddit post. It's insane how the ex-boyfriend's side makes her look worse. I thought she was leaving things out but jeez.

[@orphendraco666]

Playing games while he was being serious, stay alone and "trust your friend"

[@reneeharper84]

S1 OP is toxic af S2 OP is being very dismissive of the fact that her mom is a predator and it bothers me. S3- I remember her story. I'm glad she's doing good and has found someone new! She's doing great.

[@nalaka3488]

Story 1: she was just looking for a reason to break up with him where he looked like the bad guy. Also for anyone that thinks it’s a good idea to test your partner this way, it’s not. You are literally punishing them for the mistakes of your previous partners

[@Arkryal]

Yeah, I've had a few girlfriends try to "test" me in the past. I'm pathologically monogamous... why would I need two women when I have only one penis? It seems like a lot more work for severely diminishing returns, lol. So I never had any issues "passing" the tests, but it never sat right with me. I know it comes more from their own sense of insecurity, and isn't really about me, but it still feels condescending and disrespectful. Those relationships were always short lived, not because of the frequent "tests", but usually because of the underlying insecurity that caused it. Also the excessive texting, snooping, online stalking me, etc. Then I met another girl. She was the same, but in a very different way, if that makes any sense, lol. She also had some insecurities due to past relationships that went wrong. But she actually talked to me about that. Groundbreaking, I know, lol. Imagine being direct, honest and communicative instead of suspicious. The thing is, once she told me how she gets anxious when I'm away, I actually didn't mind checking in with her periodically to assuage her anxieties. It wasn't a chore that would trigger a fight if I didn't do it, nobody was twisting my arm. And since I was the one taking the initiative for her benefit, it was a lot easier for her to build some more trust in me. It actually got better. The OP isn't a bad person for feeling insecure, many people deal with that. What matters is HOW you deal with it. You can be honest and respectful and work together to both become better for your partner, or you can just walk all over them to assuage your fears in the moment, not fix anything in the process and then do it all over again the next time you feel that way, until eventually they get fed up with it and walk out.

[@crystalgemgirl731]

Didn't work. It just made her look like a psychopath.

[@wendigos_eat_people7177]

Well said !

[@thor7219]

Story 1: You’re absolutely crazy. Your ex dodged a serious bullet. Run dude run!

[@KarmaTube5]

1st story: holy cow, thank god the bf got away from that psycho path. Sounds like my ex. Kept accusing me until one day I got tired and did scree around

[@kanteannightmare]

A 100% loyal friend wouldn't suggest testing your partner...

[@SnowyWolborg]

Exactly. This is drama seeking behavior from women who are clearly stuck in a middle school mindset.

[@Kevin-og1zx]

I am literally 3 minutes into this and I already know for a fact that the best friend lied she's upset that a man finally didn't just fall for her the minute she said jump so she lied to her friend and has aggressively been pursuing her friend's boyfriend only toxic people do the test thing anyway

[@SnowyWolborg]

Right??? The way OP went on about how hot Kelsey is painted a pretty clear picture of how she is clearly not accustomed to being ignored by men. And when Chris did not give her the attention that she was putting out, the rejection started feeling real and she got salty.

[@tiacuppe6681]

The fact that you have to test your boyfriend in the first place shows y'all shouldn't be together. Either he's untrustworthy or you have trust issues.

[@UchuKejiMovan]

So second OP just believes her mother when she says her husband knows about her affair with a high-school kid?

[@ZenoDovahkiin]

There is no such thing as an affair with a kid.

[@TravisWilson-r3w]

​@@ZenoDovahkiinteens can legally consent to anything so stop trying to make consent sound disgusting

[@CeartGoLeor86]

Taking advantage of a kid that she had authority over and that threw up in response to seeing her years later.

[@reneeharper84]

​@@CeartGoLeor86exactly

[@rmhartman]

He MOVED IN with the AP, and still wanted to be in the labor room?

[@BoinkadelicJones]

It's sad when people sabotage their own relationships. Something similar happened to a buddy from college. He sabotaged a relationship by being too clingy, and a few years later he said he did it (not knowing why at the time) because his self-esteem was in the toilet and he thought the woman he was with was too good for him.

[@YuliiaSt666]

I LOOVE when families are like "put aside your differences for the baby". Like, sure, he couldn't even NOT cheat "for the baby" and now you want WHAT?!

[@tabris-ug7cv]

lol she's a walking red flag

[@justaboringvegetarian449]

1: OP's life is going to be one blowout after another until she cuts Kelsey off and works on herself. Or when Kelsey drops her, because playing with her relationships/life isn't fun anymore.

[@rmhartman]

If he knew that Kelsey was your friend, he would know that anything he did would get back to you.

[@SnowyWolborg]

The second that you start doing loyalty tests, you become the red flag. I don't care what your background is when it comes to bad relationships, if you feel the need to be sneaky this way, then you're not ready for a new relationship. Playing mind games isn't cute.

[@JimBeamFiend53]

Story 1 After hearing boyfriends' response: And you put up with this for an entire year?

[@magicwilder7965]

Word, would have ended that entire relationship

[@ZenoDovahkiin]

Mamy abuse victims stay for much longer.

[@TravisWilson-r3w]

​@@ZenoDovahkiinno such thing as an abuse victim

[@wendigos_eat_people7177]

Society has normalize certain bad behaviors from tv and the movies for so long ,that guy are condition or trained that those toxic tendencies are normal or even cute in a relationship and that was how it was for hundreds of years which is false. Another reason that is also common is he isn't good at attracting women and latches on to the first woman that accepts him. He doesn't think he is worthy of someone better. So they take the abuse if they even know they are being abused.

[@TravisWilson-r3w]

@wendigos_eat_people7177 society doesn't normalize anything just because you're trying to decide what both of those words mean

[@SmoochyRoo]

People overestimate other folks resolve to not fall to temptation. This doesn't make the act of cheating okay, but this was an artificial scenario essentially seeking their boyfriend to fail, and you can't be surprised this happened. Flirting back was inevitable.

[@StorytimeHaven3979]

I’m like 5 minutes into the video, and here’s what I think happened: Kelsey lied. OP wasn’t there to see the supposed flirting happen, so Kelsey could just say whatever and have OP believe her blindly. Now Chris is free to persu(don’t know how to spell this word) whoever, and if that just so happens to be Kelsey, well then…

[@SnowyWolborg]

The fact that Kelsey wanted to do a second loyalty test tells me everything that I needed to know. She didn't like that Chris did not give her the attention she was looking for so she wanted to go for round 2 in order to create a situation that makes him look guilty.

[@zackkatian3436]

"I want to just be left alone..." Yet posts to reddit... Yeah sure... Next thing you'll do a privacy tour.

[@wendigos_eat_people7177]

LOL, 🤣🤣

[@andresibarra3473]

Story 1: There are cops that will grab a person loosely related to a case and will force a fake confession out of them, that how the ex girlfriend entire test felt like

[@TravisWilson-r3w]

You can't force a confession

[@wendigos_eat_people7177]

@@TravisWilson-r3w That's why he said "fake" confession.

[@TravisWilson-r3w]

@@wendigos_eat_people7177 you can't force a fake confession either they got a voluntary confession by their torture victim in order to survive he could have let them kill him but they'd just cover it up and get away with it anyway

[@crystalgemgirl731]

She twisted the story to make herself look like the victim and they STILL called her TA!😂

[@SnowyWolborg]

You know what the funny thing is about people like her? She's so paranoid that something _might_ be going on that she ultimately wants to be proven right. That's why she allowed Kelsey to set up these loyalty tests. If you go looking for dirt, you're going to find some whether it is there or organically or not.

[@wendigos_eat_people7177]

I find that amazing. they usually gang up on the men a whole lot of the time.

[@crystalgemgirl731]

@wendigos_eat_people7177 It's sad because it's true.

[@classicrockkid345]

OP really has a qay to make everyone but herself, and Kelsey the bad guys. This guy always plays devils advocate, this girl secretly has a crush on my ex.

[@andrewunderwood4570]

I refuse to be that girl who ignores red flags, yeah thats because she is the red flag in human form. Op and kelsey are toxic. Chris dodged a bullet.

[@annabellegarcia4240]

OP is seriously delulu!

[@isawarenshi]

I am around 3 min into the video. OP is toxic AF and he deserves better. To paraphrase Yoda "Trust or trust not, there is no test." You play those games and I am gone, no questions asked get the F out of my life.

[@LadyBern]

I hate it when I catch the AI slip. Bad thing is it isn't something you'd notice unless you've listened to a few of these. It's in the 3rd story word for word they used the "I was diagnosed with (pregnancy condition) that had me vomiting 20x a day and sent to the hospital with dehydration." line that I've heard used in another story regarding a lazy husband.

[@gamingwityaboicolby1217]

Know a guy that tried this shit with his girlfriend. He's been wondering why none of us talk to him anymore.

[@TravisWilson-r3w]

Uh huh sure keep trying to blame men for what you did

[@MONKEYDZETS]

Story 1 everyone sucks why u stay with that crazy women u proved her right that u will flirt back instead of saying stop and u stayed with a crazy chick u have no spine

[@veeru593]

First story OP is a drama queen 😂

[@tabicat.puccino7425]

1) YTA toi the max, you manipulated him and basically tuned him into a lab rat for your "social experiment", also the fact that OP wasn't even there or had any proof, is dumb, you just blindly believe what ever your friend says, if you cant trust him even after dating for a year, they are you with him? you are drama queens, your best friend is probably lying to you, she lives of the drama after all you said that she knows that "she is beautiful and uses her looks to get whatever she wants", right? youre both toxic, manipulative narcissists, with your friend being an enabler 2) the fact that your father know the truth and still chose to stay is spineless, how can he ever look at his wife and say "i love you" when she had an affair, with a guy which is a decade younger than both of them, also she doesnt regret cheating only getting caught, you do just sleep with someone let alone a student, you have to seduce them, charm and lure them into a false sense of security, she had an affair, it was planned. also i understand the whole "banging your mom" thing is a turn off, also i suggest you dont fix the relationship, its literally her fault your break up even happened 3) NTA, the fact that your husband cheated on you, with your friend, in your bed and your children near by, shows his character, also he was willing to cheat on you and ruin the family, also the fact your "best friend" still was the side piece eveb after what you said you did for her, is sad, soon shell have no one after your ex cheats on you ,

[@aquafebiblue93]

Last story: of course the cheating man would get in his feelings when his former partner started seeing someone 😹 they always do

[@tabicat.puccino7425]

its seems as if they only cheat when they think their SO has nothing then once someone finds value in them, theyre mad they didnt see it

[@TravisWilson-r3w]

You women are funny because you know this story is about a cheating woman and they just swapped places to make him the bad guy

[@aquafebiblue93]

@@TravisWilson-r3w no, whomever you are, I do NOT know that. My comment is obviously based off of this particular video bro 🙃

[@TravisWilson-r3w]

@aquafebiblue93 yes you do

[@aquafebiblue93]

@@TravisWilson-r3w 😐

[@HecticNomad]

Doing to much to find something out. You sat down and said, "ok, this is how this is going to happen". It will come back on you though. Always does

[@j.e.t.v4016]

Why would her friend suggest this kind of test? Twice? OP is stupid, homegirl's friend wanted attentention.

[@SnowyWolborg]

I'd be willing to guarantee that Kelsey gets off on doing things like this. The fact that she was the one who suggested a second loyalty test tells me that she just likes drama and attention.

[@j.e.t.v4016]

@SnowyWolborg 💯. She gets the validation of knowing she can get any guy her friend has because she's lonely.

[@SabakuNoShuhei69]

S1: Ah yes. The old" I have been burned before so I will compartmentalize it and take it out on someone that loves me no matter what and make it their problem."

[@vinnyslayerr]

ngl story 2 the momma is a weirdo a predator

[@Ravenishish]

The only thing I disagree with in the last story is effectively weaponising her child's name. If she wasn't on board with naming him after FIL that's fine, but choosing something he explicitly doesn't like was a bridge too far.

[@FrostLordOni]

Honesty, it seems like she’s weaponizing her children to hurt her ex. The guys a horrible husband, but hurting him though his kids makes you worse

[@michaeldevlin7747]

The immaturity epidemic in women is out of control

[@tdexth]

Lot of toxic OPs today. What a treat.

[@catsncrows]

S2 Wait what is the age gap and on what side? is op older or younger? How long ago was the affair (that wasn't, ew) how much time had passed?

[@kyleanuar9090]

Single women keep other women single.

[@sirblack1619]

Then, they will totally blame men for everything.

[@robwebster1098]

I wish I knew op's real name so I can stay as FAAAAAAAAAAR away from her as possible

[@bsputnik]

S2 mom needs to be in prison.

[@RobinSiwula-w4h]

She shouldn't have tested him chris did no wrong

[@markanthony1004]

Lol lady was trippin bro

[@rubypeter2025]

great mysety story

[@VRDejaVu]

Hot take: if you have someone test your SO and they F, it is NOT cheating. You literally set it up for them.

[@SpencerMckenithWilliams]

Story 3: YTA Op. You don't weaponize the kids. That's evil. Leave him, keep him out the delivery room. That's all you have the right to do. YOU NOR ANY WOMAN ON THIS DOOKIE ROCK WE CALL EARTH DO NOT HAVE THE RIGHT TO WEAPONIZE CUSTODY.

[@reneeharper84]

She's not though?

[@cameron765]

Story 3: Op bitterness towards her ex husband is going to mess up the kids in the long term

[@kush-mi6ey]

2nd story mom is bs

[@FrostLordOni]

Story 3: OP is clearly trying to hurt her ex through their children. The guy may be a bad husband for cheating, but weaponizing your kids to hurt him makes you just as bad a person. Changing the name without telling him and only letting him meet his child “hours after he was born” show her true character. Just know that when you hurt him though his kids you’re hurting them too

[@erasus0307]

So story2, moms a pred.

[@benzemamumba]

Too much fluff in these AI stories.

[@gtc9966]

She's creepy for testing him...he's creepy for flirting back with the friend. Hope they get back together, they should be isolated for the sake of the rest of us....

[@Calories_To_Calibers]

You’re stupid, he didn’t do anything, op and her friend can’t be trusted

[@SenatiaA]

The guy was trapped in an abusive relationship, and he was lucky to get out of that.

[@onix1963]

oh you poor blinded man...

[@rugr82day]

Stop acting like he was following around an unwilling woman or minor. Flirting with someone who flirted with him first was not creepy, just disloyal.

[@FreyjaRKim]

"Like it was completely normal to ask for someone else's number when you are in a relationship." Uuuuuuh, yeah. It is normal. Not everyone whose number I saved is a romantic interest 😂

[@cobainxxx2142]

it was toxic of her to test him but she was right about him being a cheater so they are both wrong

[@sirblack1619]

Oh, stop! You really searched for a way to blame the guy in the equation. 🤦‍♂️

[@cobainxxx2142]

@sirblack1619 the guy admitted himself that he was in the wrong cause he did cheat u sound stupid

[@Hahafukyuuu]

S3 i see why he cheated

[@blueorangeade712]

He left when she was in the hospital to have S with her bff in HER bed while the kids were up