Demi Lovato - I hate you, don't leave me ( No pitch )

[@Garpsish]

just to clarify she's singing about BPD my heart goes out to anyone suffering because of this cruel illness much love and keep strong guys!!

[@xsarabearx1]

I was diagnosed with Borderline Personality at age 19 in December of 2011. Thank you so much for your kind words

[@MyDestinyDear]

Thank you

[@brittanecorbin8071]

I was wondering about if this was about bpd when I saw the title. I have bpd too and your kind words mean alot, thank you!

[@aswdar]

+Garpsish thank you

[@boopityboopboop]

thank you ♡

[@soniaGeek]

I relate so much to this ... BPD people stay strong !

[@Djinnia666]

soniaGeek Thank you

[@ovidiupaduraru9816]

🤗💪💪💪🌞🤷‍♂️🤫

[@ovidiupaduraru9816]

Hold to the light !!!

[@happypiano4810]

💪💪💪

[@CValdemarP]

I feel that this song very accurately expresses how it feels to suffer from borderline personality disorder. There is actually a book written about BPD, titled "I Hate You, Please Don't Leave Me"

[@Chasinglights1217]

She wrote this song based on that book. :)

[@michaelchristov9309]

Hey, yeah yeah I hate you, don’t leave me I feel like I can’t breathe Just hold me, don’t touch me And I want you to love me But I need you to trust me Stay with me, set me free But I can’t back down No, I can’t deny That I’m staying now ‘Cause I can’t decide Confused and scared I am terrified of you I admit I’m in and out of my head Don’t listen to a single word I’ve said Just hear me out before you run away ‘Cause I can’t take this pain I hate you, don’t leave me I hate you, don’t leave me ‘Cause I love when you kiss me I’m in pieces, you complete me But I can’t back down No, I can’t deny That I’m staying now ‘Cause I can’t decide Confused and scared I am terrified of you I admit I’m in and out of my head Don’t listen to a single word I’ve said Just hear me out before you run away ‘Cause I can’t take this pain, no I’m addicted to the madness I’m a daughter of the sadness I’ve been here too many times before Been abandoned and I’m scared now I can’t handle another fall out I’m fragile, just washed upon the shore They forget me, don’t see me When they love me, they leave me I admit I’m in and out of my head Don’t listen to a single word I’ve said Just hear me out before you run away ‘Cause I can’t take this pain No, I can’t take this pain I hate you, don’t leave me I hate you, please love me

[@yamur2228]

+Mike XCalmm thx^^

[@poetessa1D]

omg im crying so hard rn. She's such an amazing woman. Demi and her voice are my strenght. She makes me cry with her voice...love her.

[@teag7747]

It's weird 'cause when you read the lyrics, to the blind eye it seems to be about some guy she loves, but then you look deeper and realise it's about bipolar and BPD

[@ShyLivesMatter]

Sounds to me like its about both. Like, because of her condition, she always has such conflicting feelings about the guy that could permanently damage the relationship, but she loves him and still wants him around regardless of her need for space sometimes, etc, so she's trying to help him understand. Just the opinion of a guy who can relate (not bipolar but other "issues") and who's ex-wfe IS bipolar (since before she met me. To her credit she was very honest with me about it from the start and was always good about taking her meds) and is still friends with her. She is really inspirational to me and so is Demi. Sometimes I even feel like the male version of Demi lol Putting my flaws out there for all to see (please check out my Channel if you want, everyone), my heart on my sleeve, in hopes it will help people like me (misfits and those struggling to find their place in life, regardless of age or gender) feel less alone. Since we're all human and all in this struggle together. But yeah, great song by Demi. One of my faves by her. Should've made the album. Tempted to send my ex this song...she'd probably like the song and relate to it, too. Peace :-)

[@lydiamonchamp1088]

I'm dealing with BPD everyday and I sometimes thinking of killing myself but this song reminded me that I need to hold on

[@gg27393]

Exactly the same with me. Here if you need to chat to someone who understands x

[@spencerashton3173]

Trying to explain BPD is so difficult so I showed my husband this song. I am listening to the lyrics wondering if she picked them out of my brain. Like: I’m addicted to the madness I’m a daughter of the sadness I’ve been here too many times before. this lyric describes my daily struggle, so simply.

[@KatyRaeMusic]

+Andrew Berry BPD is Bipolar Disorder

[@milana223]

+Katy Rae BPD is borderline personality disorder

[@KatyRaeMusic]

+Andrew Berry I already realized that.

[@KatyRaeMusic]

+Andrew Berry but she has bipolar disorder, not borderline personality disorder.

[@KatyRaeMusic]

+Andrew Berry alright. Hey would you check out my channel?

[@andrijanarovinac2798]

When they love me,they leave me.

[@TheJoeTyrel]

If you about to ask me personally which new band about to make it big, that will be my reply! *watch?v=fKTYND_4x2U* Remarkable those folks are! Find the youtube video URL provided

[@selenatorlovatic1623]

Been abandoned and I'm scared now I can't handle another fall out I'm fragile just washed upon the shore

[@aswdar]

i feel so much for this song i have been told that i have traits of bpd and this just summs up most of my hardships in life this song is my life i feel so much for her thank you demi for this

[@abrarahmed423]

ALL THE SONGS DEMI MAKES I AM ABLE TO RELATE TO !!! OMG I LOVE HER LOVATIC FOR LIFE!

[@helpme8508]

I know right!

[@sydney7354]

abrar safi at times it weird to be able to relate to soooo many of her songs, but its nice cuz u know you're not alone

[@abrarahmed423]

yes! sydney brown

[@xsarabearx1]

i have borderline personality disorder and one of the best books on BPD is called "I Hate You-Don't Leave Me." It's basically the mindset of Bordies at all times. this song is perfect!

[@herlovatic869]

This masterpiece should've been on DEMI

[@BEATTOTHEWINX1]

Her Lovatic it is on the deluxe

[@hannashull]

most definitely​.

[@magdixXxGlimh]

she wrote this after reading a book about boderline personality disorder. so talented.

[@eunicekiminthehouse]

I seriously love all of Demi's songs. This seriously NEEDS to be on iTunes..Makes me cry every time :(

[@brittanecorbin8071]

I know right!

[@xsarabearx1]

I have Borderline Personality Disorder and I Hate You, Dont Leave Me is the #1 book to help people with BPD to understand whats going on in their head. this song is so amazing in how accurate it is and everytime i hear it i cry. Im so glad she did this. it is so comforting knowing someone else understands

[@swayyoudemi]

"When they love me, they leave me" ...It´s so true

[@mvdisoncurse]

this used to be my favorite song for the longest time aw

[@sydneyturner2794]

My life right now.... No joke

[@hannashull]

you ok?

[@daisydiaz6314]

i admit im in and out of my head dont listen to a single word ive said just hear me out before you run away cause i cant take this pain .-.

[@bricommons4464]

Demi is an amazing artist she has had an impact on me as well as a lot of other people and you can say what you want but I will always be a fan of her because she is a great person inside and out

[@kendragregory9990]

yes she is u summed it all up

[@lovaticwarriorparawore2623]

my dad left me too, and now I'm cry again with an big big whole in my chaste, it's so hard to leave without a father who is so close (distance) of you but he hurt me so much that I can't forgive him like I just don't care, cause I know inside of me that it's not so easy to forgive the man who treat you like you'are an stranger or for us his words "bitch" "slut" "big poop" ... the man who destroy my mother heart, I can't explain all my story cause I'm french and I don't find the words, but I can say that I understand Demi with this song or For the love of a daughter, shouldn't come back, without a love ...

[@lovaticwarriorparawore2623]

***** I listen the song and read your message in the same time ;( you makes me cry, (again XD I think that it's my new past time =/ ) you are the first who talk me like this, my mother don't really understand me and my friends already have the 2 parents so they can't understand, And tonight for the first time I feel listening. You have not say a lot, but for me it's a lot, your words are touch my heart

[@PlayErza11]

I understand you and Demi so much ! I'm french too.

[@laurencaquant3086]

Je suis française aussi, sache que tous les lovatics sont avec toi, et comme le dit Demi, nous sommes une fambase, nous sommes une famille.

[@BrianPlays185]

Girl keep your chin up. I may not know you but i bet hes missing out on an AMAZING person!

[@BrianPlays185]

Leaf 185 Yes its hard. My dad lest me too. Just not the way i wanted or even though of! I kinda know your pain!

[@alessandraleigh9919]

I suffer from PTSD, Bipolar disorder, Borderline Personality disorder, depression, and have struggled with bullimia, anorexia, substance abuse, and self harm. I understand this song on so many levels. Not only did these things destroy myself, my body, mind and health, it destroyed my family, my relationships with friends and significant others, as well as my education. I recently lost the only man who loved me how I needed, he dealt with my trauma and made me feel safe. He broke the cycles of destruction I was in, and it was beautiful..I couldn't give him all he deserved when I was fighting myself tooth and nail everyday. I had become several different people and along the way I lost who I wanted to be. I gave up too soon. All I could have been is harder to reach now. I wasted so much time, that ill never get back. Lost so many people who loved me. I let myself take away who others were, I took advantage of the kindess I had never shown myself and believed that I was the victim when often times I caused others pain. I would say it wasn't me and that I couldn't help the people fighting in my head. Ive lost almost everything Ive known and I don't know the words to apologize for all the pain ive caused, to others and myself. I let the parts of me that were born in the depths of trauma overtake the real me, I gave in to the change and dodged accountability because I wanted to believe that it wasn't my fault. I cant undo what has been done to me, and I can never get back all the time I lost fighting myself, I can never undo all the injuries ive caused to my body and organs but the one thing I can do is take responsibility for the pain ive caused others. I gave up the fight, and expected others to fight it for me. To anyone out there who is struggling, you will remember who you are, that person is in there, and always will be. The world didn't create us to sit and watch the world go by, rather it created us with the beauty to go and seek out other beauty whether it be in a person, or the melody of a song , that desire is in us all.

[@magicalpandalol]

Every time I listen to Demi I feel stronger, I am a recovering cutter..I used to cut my sides and my arms and I am 2 months clean and Demi is the only one who has helped me through my struggle and she makes me a better person, if anyone ever needs to talk I can talk to you, please stay strong and don't let things get you down, it will get better. :) it will be okay..stay strong

[@dzakywiriawan679]

cause i cant take this pain i hate you, dont leave me i hate you, please love me

[@floridacaligurlZ]

OH MY GOD. I HAVEN'T HEARD THIS IN FOREVER. DEMIIII

[@dani_v92]

The best bonus track that can have an album :) Amazing song.

[@sashabella5212]

i’m tired of having bpd. thank u demi for making it feel a little less lonely

[@LisethH]

i still feel this song so deeply.

[@demimysaviorlovin5h881]

I'm addicted to the madness, I'm a daughter of the sadness

[@emilylynne34]

Love this song so much. It's such an accurate representation of bpd, which is odd because Demi doesn't have bpd.

[@cvnikita1]

Some people think she does have bpd, and that she was misdiagnosed with bipolar haha. She does have some of the bpd characteristics from my observation, but who knows. :)

[@LeozLeao]

She was diagnosed with bipolar disorder yea :)

[@mishmomo]

annalise a BPD and bipolar aren't the same thing. BPD is borderline personality disorder. bipolar is a mood disorder.

[@emilylynne34]

She's admitted she was diagnosed with bipolar disorder, an eating disorder, and addiction issues. Personally, I don't think bipolar disorder was a misdiagnosis because she describes having depression as well as mania. I can see why some people might think she's got BPD because she used to be very reckless and self destructive - and that's a big part of BPD - but I don't think she fits enough of the criteria. Hard to say though, I'm just going off of what she's told her fans. She's opened up quite a bit but there's still a lot of her story that she hasn't talked about.

[@Linge88]

Emily Lynne Bipolar disorder and BPD can co-exist, actually, and I personally think this is the case here. Demi clearly has bipolar disorder, because she's described it perfectly (I was diagnosed with bipolar disorder 2 1/2 years ago, but I've most likely suffered from it my whole life). She has described the hypomanic episodes and the depression, so I'm not questioning that diagnosis at all. HOWEVER, the self-mutilation and the eating disorders are both symptoms of BPD, and because the two disorders have overlapping symptoms it isn't uncommon for one of them to slip under the radar, so to speak. There's also the background of childhood abuse and neglect/abandonment to take into consideration. The BPD mood swings are a lot more rapid than the bipolar mood swings, but they are often much more extreme as well. The emotional pain can be so intense that the borderline is desperate for some kind of relief; hence the self-harming. They also engage in problematic eating behaviours which is thought to be connected to their impulsivity as well as their need to relieve themselves of the emotional pain that is suffocating them. Speculative bullshit aside ;) - this song, as well as being beautiful, sounds like a pretty accurate description of BPD. Maybe she has it, and maybe she doesn't, but I am personally inclined to think that she does because of this wonderfully honest song. I have several friends who suffer from BPD, so I know what it looks like, and I am currently reading a book called "I Hate You--Don't Leave Me" (so basically the exact same title) which explains all about BPD. I'm reading it so I can understand what my friends are going through, because I want to be able to help them, and this song is it. It's exactly it. BPD is an illness full of contradictions, insecurity, shame, and intense emotional pain and turbulence, and it deserves to be more widely recognised because it is actually more common than bipolar disorder and schizophrenia combined. So in the end, I guess this song has been released into the universe so everyone who feels like this can find comfort in these words, whether or not Demi herself has BPD. And I think that's pretty incredible. :)

[@MalloreiRiggle]

I love you so much for uploading this i couldn't find it anywhere you are like a life saver

[@blueaurablob9874]

This is how I feel in any romantic relationship. Thanks, BPD.

[@MajorOctofuss]

Thank you Demi for putting all my emotions in words.

[@mirelahadziomerovic743]

Thank you for this I just got diagnosed with bpd 3/30/19

[@AllyAnile]

anything related to demi makes me emotional. shes just that amazing

[@toriburgers9271]

my repeat button is broken, if you are like me, here is a free new one 0:00

[@sarahcampkin2888]

Omf this is so perfect

[@CiaraFBabexx]

Today Is my biggest inspirations 21st birthday! No she didn't help me stop cutting, but she does understand me. How it feels to have and alcoholic father. I love her music and she an inspiration for young suffering girls and although I'm not a cutter or suicidal she still speaks to me. Seeing so many people thanking her all the time is enough for me. So Thank You Demi!

[@dizzydallian]

I had no idea this song was never officially released by Demi. What a shame because it’s one of her best ballads and that says a lot

[@sugarbearlilthug]

this explaind me so much including my life i can so relate to this song so much it unbelieveable.. demi you wrote my whole life in this song.. i always tend to push people outta my life because i think its so much easier then someone getting to close to me and leave me..

[@NicoleBailey24]

THANK YOU SO MUCH . BEEN LOOKING FOR A NO PITCH ONE , you're amazing

[@nlwxp]

I love this song

[@ezequield2011]

me too

[@QueenNandoss]

sending positive vibes and love to anyone who has bipolar disorder.

[@briellecayer1957]

This is about bpd (borderline personality disorder) not bipolar actually :)

[@xsarabearx1]

maybe. or maybe she knows someone with it and is learning about it to help that person. my mom and dad read it when i was diagnosed at 19 years old. maybe because of her history with mental illness it was just curiosity that lead her to it. either way im glad she read it and is putting it out there so people dont feel so alone. she really is a beautiful person

[@angellmaeroberson3169]

I wish this was on iTunes

[@angellmaeroberson3169]

+Cortinasinlatina were*

[@Vihkttor]

Track 15 in Demi (Deluxe Edition) itunes.apple.com/br/album/demi-deluxe/id929554809

[@marisadamiano4367]

João Victor Rodrigues that's only in Brazil

[@corrinapicano7996]

How I feel about my crush + what he did to me = this song

[@pkrd3657]

+Corrina Same here Corrina :(

[@itsgrey1482]

This song isn't about a breakup. It's about BPD.

[@marisadamiano4367]

Black Ops Destiny songs are for being interpreted in any way that suits the listener. meaning is in the ear of the beholder.

[@AllyAnile]

congratulations for 2 months xx

[@itskay1359]

I can never sing this without crying I relate so much with my bpd this song just captures how you feel

[@ArielLinee]

Thank you for uploading this

[@CandyGLAM78]

I LOVE THIS SONG. Haven't stopped listening to this.

[@shannonpinson2350]

Me too and this completely describes how I feel. Nobody understands me. I have read the book too.

[@demimysaviorlovin5h881]

I love this song so much 😍

[@norabolier7825]

i bet everyone can relate to this song, it is so accurate, well written and perfect omgg

[@polovt9511]

Omg this is my first time hearing this song and I have BPD I'm just shocked with the lyrics. I have been going through a lot and I feel like I'm alone and this song is like soothing me so much.

[@shepherdsoutcry1380]

For me (at least) the “I hate you” aspect is because I’m inconceivably sensitive. I feel EVERYONES pain, literally, in my body. I must be some sort of savior and I’ve always had this complex. So it’s when I’m not appreciated for the only thing I know about myself (that I’m beyond holy for all I’ve been through) that I have hatred for the ones “carrying” me when they say their done with me. They can’t see me for who I am which is all sentient beings living vicariously through me. My dysphoria is far too overwhelming for any one person to have yet I experience it daily.

[@arielforever1498]

I love Demi so much❤️

[@katya35]

im bipolar and this song had in full tears by the end.

[@biancamartins7562]

this is my fav. song from Demi! it's so true what she says.. i totally relate to this song

[@annsvk]

How can people such a wonderful person? She saved so many lifes.She is just an inspiration. I love her.!

[@annaeckley2510]

Spent years feeling like I don't belong, too messed up and not right I spent years with BPD but no diagnosis or help and it's so relieving to finally have answers and meet others who feel and experience the things I do. ♥️

[@chelsead1855]

THANK YOU! finally found one without pitch.

[@lisalarm6582]

I'm so in love with this song...

[@charlottetideswell4926]

HAVE NOT STOPPED LISTENING TO THIS YET

[@Citraine]

I title screams bipolar. Which makes sense seeing as she as BPD. Songs usually come out great when it has personal self meaning. So this is great.

[@itthesquid9564]

BPD stands for Borderline Personality Disorder. Bipolar Disorder is generally referred to as BD.

[@Citraine]

It can be interchangeable. But yeah, BD is more common. I just noticed a typo in my first comment...It bothers me so much...Lol

[@MyDestinyDear]

Citraine this song screams more border line personality than bipolar tbh

[@Heartbreakqueen_90]

Citraine she has bipolar

[@ohaymargsitsyou6515]

There is a book about BPD that is called I hate you don't leave me. Classic BPD right there.

[@sugarbearlilthug]

i relate to this song soo much thanxs demi for the album your wrote my diary out in this ablum goshh your amazing and talented never give up your very beatuiful..

[@squigglyfun27]

so beautiful. thanx for posting

[@Monkiebuddy]

This song is so beautiful and powerful.

[@AllyAnile]

Love Demi and this song and it fits so perfectly in Daylight!

[@xLuvandkisses101x]

Reminds me of the old Demi, music wise. This is why I fell in love with her and her music

[@katherinevillegas1131]

Me encanta el Mix!! La mayoría las tenía en mi celular, me lo robaron xc jajaja I like it

[@thehellogeorgia]

This song speaks for itself... Definitely a favorite.

[@metehanisik9422]

Thank you :)

[@yamur2228]

+ömer ışık AA TÜRK

[@1PotatoJuice]

I've had this song on repeat all morning.

[@ALegoHouse]

I hate you for upload this, thank you

[@alainamarie521]

I know y'all saying this is about BPD but I'm bipolar and I can relate to this 100%

[@Rachelhancock8]

I can't find this on iTunes :( Its such an amazing song!!

[@CassidySyao]

It's an exclusive track off the Target edition of her album so it won't be on iTunes.

[@VanessaPalencia]

Cassidy Syao I really wish they would've put it on iTunes :/

[@katiegermek9396]

Love this song

[@ymahbelle]

oh thank you very much no pitch change at last

[@izzyb931]

This is beautiful:)

[@kit1776]

Am I the only confused to why everyone is commenting lyrics?

[@jadeburgess1175]

Nope im confused too

[@TurnItOutLoudkawaii]

they share it on their google+ page

[@DzungLongVN]

TurnItOutLoud there are people who use google+ ????

[@TurnItOutLoudkawaii]

Long Klowy apparently hahaha

[@ruthieh4655]

Kit Parker It’s their favorite/least liked part of the song.

[@rebafanatic16]

This song makes me think of how my bipolar has affected all my relationships in general even though she's referring to a boy. I love Demi so much and I'm so thankful she was so open during her struggles with mental health.

[@ohaymargsitsyou6515]

I have BPD and this song is so accurate about how I feel every day.

[@Richenzo_99]

how does it feel to be THIS relatable demetria Dovonne lovato

[@khaled_reaction7887]

i realy like this song wow so amazing

[@valerielepage6841]

Don't know if this song really really represent BPD, but having this disorder is the worst thing i've been confront to. It's like.. Hard to describe. Half of your face is black and the other is white. Sometimes your understood, sometimes you're not. You hate suffering, but you do everything to being hurt. 😆 sorrt about this comment a bit depressing , x) just in case someone comment and understant me so i don't feel that alone 😂✌

[@Venusnixen]

I'm addicted to the madness.

[@emilyindri1836]

That she is. I'm glad the song could help you :)

[@danabotello6704]

Wonderfully creative and meaningful lyrics - the words and phrases seem to be contradictory, but make perfect sense...at least to me. :)

[@KiarixHikari]

its like a more mature version of Catch Me amazing!

[@Allaboutyou7]

Was this song supposed to be on the Demi album 💿 ❤️✨🦋🪴

[@JasperSygrove]

this song is perfect

[@EmmaaaaG]

this song makes me so emotional it's ridiculous

[@luanachristinaalmeidadossa198]

I love the way you sing! I love so much this is song! I love you very much!

[@MotionGravity]

This perfectly explains where I’m at with my BPD gf/ex. It’s tough to see her go through this stuff. I feel like it would be better off if I left her for her own peace but I love her :(

[@therealchristinedo]

I feel that this song is about her dad. "I'm a daughter of this sadness."

[@itsgrey1482]

BPD actually.

[@Ethanl10]

BPD that possibly affects her relationship with her dad? Been abandoned?

[@therealchristinedo]

No her dad problems happened when she was a child, he was abusive toward her mom and had problems with alcohol I believe

[@RubyCarapia_1002403]

Love this song so much;-;

[@xxHelloCupcake]

This song describes everything I am feeling right now.

[@Rosezz_77]

I just got diagnosed with BPD. Love this, and I love you demi♥️