Demo - Stitching In Hand

[@px5714]

I love how you showed how you stitch in hand. Game changer for me! I was never sure how to hold my fabric. I also like how you store your fabric in mailing tubes! Thank you - thank you!

[@RiversLove]

Oh my. Your stitching is gorgeous, and you make it look so easy. I keep watching this video over and over, hopefully some day I'll be able to stitch like you.

[@StitchinMommy]

Thanks! I've had lots of practice. I'm sure the more you stitch, the more comfortable you'll get and you'll also develop ways of doing things that are your favorites. :)

[@starrypanda]

So glad I found your video! I’ve only been stitching for almost a year now, I always stitch in hand but I don’t like scrunching my fabric, never knew I could just roll them. Lol. Such a game changer for me.

[@StitchinMommy]

Great! I'm glad this was helpful for you. ;)

[@kristinaciminillo9908]

I roll from the sides and I roll inward, onto the stitching to protect the fabric and the completed stitches. I do use hoops and scroll rods, too. It all depends on the project.

[@countrystix]

I appreciate this video! Its so refreshing to see a minimalist approach. And its so neat and tidy! I have incorporated this method in my small projects. Thank you!

[@StitchinMommy]

countryhix phelps You’re welcome! I feel the same way. It’s refreshing to be able to just stitch and not worry about all the contraptions that many stitchers use. 😊

[@MizzRowe]

Hello. I stitch in-hand too, but mostly using the sewing method. My hand usually only goes beneath the fabric to start and end threads. I started stitching again Dec 2016 after a 10+ year hiatus that ended mostly due to floss tube. I do most of my projects over two threads (no linen) to make it easier to stitch and do fractional stitches. I'm enjoying your videos.

[@StitchinMommy]

Thanks! Glad you came back to stitching - it's such a fun hobby! My sister likes using the sewing method as well, but I never got into that method.

[@sandykalmeyer9523]

Wow, so rolling is the key! I’ve tried stitching in hand but wadding the sides in my hand. Quite a mess especially on stiffer fabrics. I actually was searching for pin stitch tutorials and saw this one of yours! KZbin is great😁

[@StitchinMommy]

Great! I'm glad this demo was helpful for you.

[@vcisetti]

I stitch in hand as well, but roll from the left towards the right. I actually roll so the finished stitches are in the inside, so I am always touching the back side of the fabric and stitches. Great video!

[@LCmonman]

Thanks for this comment, it answered the question I just asked above! Glad you find it works to do that, it certainly makes more sense to me. 💙

[@leaphigh7889]

So happy to see your method of stitch in-hand. I have never liked hoops or frames or the Q-snaps. I spend so much time getting my fabric into these, straightening it to keep it taught...and I seem to get the floss caught on something with every stitch! ha! like a wing-nut or rod end....anyway. Love to see how you roll your fabric and sit back with your pattern on your lap. Great info about your fingers on the left hand guiding the thread. And you were flying!! Nice protection when not in use to keep it in the roll. You have very clear instructions and it's so nice that you project your voice and I can hear you easily! I have just found you and will be watching all of your videos. Thank you and keep on educating us!!

[@StitchinMommy]

I'm so glad this video was helpful for you! This is how I have always stitched, but I have found that I'm in the minority compared to most stitchers. I'm thankful I can provide encouragement to others out there who may be looking for alternatives to hoops, etc. Happy stitching! :)

[@14Raine14]

I've never used a hoop or qsnap, I've been toying with the idea of trying one but so far I've done a few in hand and enjoy it so much! I use binder clips and paper clips to help keep my extra fabric or finished work out of the way. I've done counted and printed cross stitch, I'm making a kit for a new project (my first pattern I made and will put together :) ) which will be a 16ct, I've done 11 and 14 previously, I'm so excited for everything to come in so I can get started!

[@StitchinMommy]

I have really enjoyed the freedom of stitching in-hand - no equipment needed to store or take time to assemble before stitching can commence! If you enjoy it and like how your stitches look when using this method, it's a great one!

[@Hyjeena]

I'm a new stitcher and I found your videos before I started stitching. Everything I ordered came fairly quickly but I had to wait for the hoop a few months. Because of you I realized I can stitch without it, otherwise I think I would've just waited for the hoop to be able to stitch. So now that I know how to stitch in hand, I can't use the hoop at all :D it just feels uncomfortable and is in the way. Stitching in hand feels more natural to me. So thanks!

[@StitchinMommy]

That's awesome! I also find hoops uncomfortable and in the way. I use small hoops when I have to stitch on a handkerchief or something, but I try to keep the size to 4-5" so that I can still feel the stitches on the back with my left hand. Otherwise, I'm at a loss as to how to make it all work. :) I'm glad my video helped you out and let you get started stitching sooner! :)

[@ger_gerxstiches]

Thank you! I'm excited to try this. I have a large project that is fairly wide but super long and I couldn't figure out a good way to roll (up and down while still moving side to side in the section I'm working on) using what I've seen more in hand stitchers do- rolling side to side. Makes totalk sense to grab from the bottom of the roll! I think I can even roll and then use some thread huggers to keep the bulk rolled and then roll over those to roll to what I currently need to work on.

[@StitchinMommy]

Yes! I use those thread huggers sometimes also to manage keeping the roll tight while I'm working, depending on how cooperative the fabric is being. :)

[@jillpoteat2974]

I enjoyed seeing how you stitch. I always use a hoop, but I worry it mashes my stitches. Especially the beading. I like how organized you are with how you store your fabric, to put it away.

[@Maillady56]

Thank you so much for this video. I rolled my large 18 count Aida. It’s working yay!! Thank you again.

[@tinagast5340]

Loved your demo. I always admire in hand stitches but haven't mastered it yet. I will have to give it a try again. Thank you!

[@StitchinMommy]

Thanks! It works for me but I know other stitchers will always prefer having their fabric held tight. :)

[@genniegidney]

I don’t expect you to see this comment as it’s 6 years after this video was posted but I love this! I plan to try it. Only thing is I would roll the top side of the fabric inward so it doesn’t matter how much you handle the fabric, the stitches and shown aka top aka right side of the work is always protected. But I can’t say if that would work as comfortably as I have yet to try this method. My next project I just might. I love working in a hoop but I hate the risk of pulling my stitches when tightening the fabric and I hate when I need one more row and just don’t have the hoop space and am limited to a certain area because I try to work all the space in the hoop before moving it. I also don’t love the creases left by the hoop. So this gives me a different in hand method. I like the sewing method but I tried it on a larger project I did (I’m a newbie so an 8” partial coverage was a lot at the time) and I just couldn’t comfortably hold the fabric the whole time to do the sewing method. I like the way you stitch as it seems much more comfortable and manageable even with a massive project.

[@StitchinMommy]

I'm glad you enjoyed this video! Yes, I have heard the suggestion to try rolling the fabric the other way, but I'm too set in my ways to change - it felt weird to me! But, if you're just adopting this method, that's a great way to teach yourself to do it. :)

[@cheryllicata4198]

I was taught in hand and I love the freedom of not being clostiphobiaa with all those contraptions all around me. I do large and smaller pieces like that.i really like the sewing method.

[@StitchinMommy]

Yes! Lots of freedom and ease to just pick something and stitch. :) My sister enjoys the sewing method as well.

[@yayitanoelia2611]

Great video! I used to stitch in hand years ago but I rolled my fabric from top to bottom and held it in my left hand. I loved stitching that way but had to give it up because of early carpal tunnel syndrome. I bought a qsnap and eventually a stand. Your method is great having the roll parallel to you and resting on your arms if large. As for the Chatelaine, I've yet to start one, but I think you might have to get scroll rods for that. Vonna used Rolaframe rods and they look like they would work. Not big and bulky and light enough to hold. Your keeping me company while I complete this boring border tonight... and I'm almost done! yay!! 😘👍

[@StitchinMommy]

I think if I use a scroll frame in the future, I'll need to get a lap stand. Maybe I can see if my husband can make me a PVC one with one of the tutorials floating around...

[@darleenbumgardner5179]

I gave stitched in hand for 46 years. I started counted cross stitch on linen and the lady in the shop called Thumblina told me not to use a hoop because it would stretch the linen. I don't hold my fabric any special way rarely wash it. I have done very size and type of material.

[@StitchinMommy]

Fun! It's nice to hear from other stitchers who stitch in a similar way.

[@StitchinMommy]

I was replying to a new comment on this video and your comment caught my eye again! Is the Thumbilina shop you talked about in Solvang, CA? I've been there several years ago and bought my Villa Mirabilia pattern there. I'm hoping to go back later this summer. :)

[@lorettahenderson8979]

Thank you for showing me how you stitch your projects, I am always wanting to compare my stitching and make it better...your storage ideas are very good...I always try to roll my projects and store everything in the larger zip lock bags...best wishes 😊

[@YouHaveAGoodPoint]

Thank you for sharing your in hand stitching method. That’s a really big piece of Aida! I think I will give your method a try. Frames can be expensive. I prefer to be frugal. I really love your stitchy corner organization. You seem like a really nice person. I subscribed.

[@StitchinMommy]

I love being frugal also! That plays a big factor in a lot of what I stitch and how I stitch it. :)

[@lisahurst8565]

Thank you for this video. Very clear and informative. I seem to always be struggling with frames and hoops and I can't seem to get set up to stitch in my favorite comfy chair so I am going to give this a try.

[@StitchinMommy]

You're welcome! I'm glad it was helpful for you. I love the conveniences of stitching in hand, so it's nice to share it with others who may not have thought you could stitch this way. :)

[@MrHaney12]

Love your videos! You do a great job. I also stitch in hand. I am very backwards in the way I start a project, which is in the lower right hand corner of the project. I don't know why, but it seems to work with my brain better that way. Anyway, thank you for taking the time to share your beautiful projects with us. Carolyn.

[@StitchinMommy]

Thanks! I agree - different people stitch differently because it makes sense in their brain that way - I'm like that with the direction I prefer to park when I stitch - horizontal parking just doesn't work for me! :) Also, where we start probably has a lot to do with how we form our stitches. I've seen several people start in the bottom left as well. I normally start in the top left or the middle, but I have a pattern I'm planning to start in the top right so I can try a different technique. :)

[@lindagiven8051]

Just to add, if you use the recommended silks and threads, you cannot wash it. The silks are mostly non-fast.

[@StitchinMommy]

Thank you, that's good to know!

[@christalleescholes1000]

Thank you for sharing 🤗, really enjoying your videos.

[@mrsmiggins6435]

Thank you. I love stitching in hand. Take care🤗

[@trduesing4117]

Good instruction with very interesting visuals. Thank you for sharing.

[@JOXGIRL1]

I love stitching in hand. I sometimes use a small hoop. I don't worry about hand oils. I don't think my great grandmothers did and I have some of their pieces. They all look great. I'm not interested in silks or expensive fabrics. I'm just enjoying my hobby at a price I'm comfortable paying. I watched your videos and admire your work.

[@StitchinMommy]

Thanks for sharing! It's refreshing to hear your perspective. I'm a very frugal person, and I've had a lot of fun stitching over the years without spending a lot of money on fancy fabrics and threads. Some of them are very beautiful, so if I try something, it will be a special splurge, rather than a new normal for me. I'm seriously considering doing a Chatelaine simply with the DMC conversion - it'll still be stunning with just metallics and specialty stitches. :)

[@SharonKofoed]

I LOVE the stitch in hand method!!! I roll my fabric as I go...some of my projects I fold...in part because the aida is so large (it's for a HAED project...enough said :P) and it natural folds because of how I got it (I don't have an LNS and Walmart and Hobby Lobby don't have all of the aida I like to use). I also stitch in my recliner :) Happy stitching!

[@StitchinMommy]

Wonderful! I love the ease and portability of stitching in-hand. It's great to meet other stitchers who enjoy stitching this way also. :)

[@alexandragiangreco7370]

thank you so much for this video. it was exactly what i needed. i am an in hand stitcher always. i learned a lot with your video.thank u so much and please keep going with your videos❤️

[@StitchinMommy]

You're very welcome! It's great to meet other in-hand stitchers - we're a rare breed it seems. :)

[@marycato1361]

Oh my goodness. Cant wait to try it

[@FrostyXStitch]

Thank you so much, great way to stitch. I will try it tomorrow... I am having problems "scrunching" up my fabric on Poppy, but rolling it like you do will sort out all my issues 😊

[@StitchinMommy]

Great! I hope that tip works well for you. :)

[@FrostyXStitch]

Stitchin' Mommy; It does! Thank you so much ❣

[@jamiea9634]

I have a very large project that I have been wanting to do. I do not have the money or room to by one of those large frames. (the fabric would be at least 60x40 to give an idea.) I have tried in hand stitching with small project and love it but not with larger projects. Thank you!!

[@dianazaslow8043]

Love the video o. Hand stitching. I'm definitely going to try the roll method

[@StitchinMommy]

Wonderful! I hope you enjoy stitching that way! :)

[@crossstitchbutton]

Welcome to floss tube I have been stitching for 48yrs used to stitch in hand sometimes still do but I used to have my fabric with stitches inside so I was holding the back of the work. I use both methods stabbing and sewing method. I often use a hoop now 5 - 6 inches sometimes larger depends on my moods and how my hands feel.One of our girls stitches in hand thelovelyarray I am sure she did a chatelaine have a look .... Look forward to seeing many more of your videos.Happy stitching Xx

[@StitchinMommy]

Thanks! I'll look up that stitcher. :)

[@marysmithy9870]

I have always stitched in hand. It actually looks better to me. I have been stitching many years. I have a stand the scrolls the Q snap hopps, just men to me. Stitching on hand for me just feels right. Leave the fabric free is the key. Except beading, then it makes sense to lay it flat with my trusty ironing board clad in muslin.

[@faerie247]

Wished I could stitch in hand like you, but I need magnifing lenses now, with head magnifers too on 18ct, Iove your choices of patterns.

[@StitchinMommy]

Thank you! I'm enjoying my stitching style while I can - maybe someday I will need to adjust it as my eyesight and hands deteriorate. Meanwhile, I'm thanking the Lord for the blessing of young eyes and nimble fingers. :)

[@LauraBCReyna]

I've done very small projects (~4x4) and very big projects (30 in +) in hand. The aida on the tiny projects kept the work stiff enough, & at the time I didn't have a frame to fit the big project. I use various frames for all other sized projects bc I generally like the fabric taut. I find it easier to stitch that way. A lot of ppl do the sewing method while stitching in hand but I don't like how the stitches look, so I do the stabbing method as shown in this video.

[@StitchinMommy]

Thanks for sharing!

[@janetelliott841]

I enjoyed your video. I Stitch in hand quite often as well. However when I roll my fabric, I roll it in the opposite direction you do so that the front of the stitching is to the inside and my hand is handling the back of the fabric. Depending what area I'm working on I may roll the fabric in from the sides instead of the bottom. I do like your idea of storing the projects in tubes!

[@StitchinMommy]

Do your stitches get squished at all being rolled inwardly? Someone else on Instagram mentioned they roll their fabric that way also. It's worth a try!

[@janetelliott841]

I haven't had any problem with that. However I don't roll my stitching too tightly

[@lanafinch2787]

I also stitch in hand ,occasionally use a small hoop now if fingers don't want t to cooperate. Your demo was very clear and your stitching is very well done. The only difference is I roll from the back side to the front, that way my hands are not touching stitching. I've only used specialty threads on one project. I'd rather wash my pieces so I also stick with aida or lugana . What is the very large project? Looked interesting.

[@StitchinMommy]

That piece is Three Sisters, charted by Golden Kite: www.goldenkite.com/index.php/1182.html. When I started it, I was doing a form of extreme cross country to work on the first girl's face, then recently went back and tried parking to work through some of the confetti-heavy background.

[@angelakopecky888]

I am soooo excited about this video that I haven't even finished it yet and have to comment. I think I am going to try "in hand stitching" since I am new to cross stitch and it just looks comfortable and natural to me. Also, I notice you don't grid. Gridding seems like a waste of time to me (or actually to hard for me to learn. Ha!) if I plan on working on 10 by 10 squares. I do have a frame that I might put my last needlepoint project in. And for the first time in my life I will be working on 2 projects at once! I hope I enjoy cross-stitching as much as I do needlepointing. I was always afraid of counted cross stitch because of the "counting" I thought I would get lost. But now, I am slowly learning what I think will work best for me. You videos have helped immensely! I only wish I had more time to watch and to stitch!! I am very excited because of all the beautiful pieces I have seen you girls do, and the detail in them!! I am so excited about all this. Before, if I got tired of working on a project, I would just read or watch a movie until I got the urge to stitch on it again. Sometimes my project would sit there for 6 months. Who knew I could have been working on another project! Ha! Thank you!

[@StitchinMommy]

I'm so glad these videos have been so helpful! Having a few projects on the go definitely helps if you lose interest on one. I think I've probably got too many started now, but we'll see if I can finish a few this year. :)

[@crossstitchbutton]

Just remembered you said you have your pattern on your legs, perhaps you could get a double clamp from daylight company not expensive it clamps one end on table the other your pattern. I have had one for years it allows your pattern close up to you especially if your table is at the side of your chair. Would not be without my one. Sewandso uk also sell them, hope this helps it will help free up your legs. Happy stitching sweetie xxx

[@StitchinMommy]

Thanks for the tip!

[@susanfarwell1164]

Hi Sarah, thank you for a most informative video and I am amazed how fast you can do your stitching with one hand. I am definitely going to try it too. I have never stitched with silk but I have used rayon hand dyed thread for my Brazilian embrodery and I learned the hard way when I washed it: some of the bright reds and yellows ran and I am still wondering how to get the color out of the fabric without damaging the whole thing. I would like to know what to do with this table cloth now???if there is anyone out there that knows please help, thanks again!!!

[@StitchinMommy]

Oh no! I'm not sure how that sort of thing could be salvaged. If you're part of a general stitching Facebook group, like Stitch Maynia, there might be some other stitchers who have tips for you.

[@patricialogan36]

Thanks for the video, learned quite a lot...have you ever usedthe diagonal method

[@StitchinMommy]

Yes, I have tried a very methodical diagonal method that makes for very neat stitches. You can find a demo of that here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/hGTMfYmPesmUiLs. I also tried some diagonal stitching where I stitched cross country within the diagonal and parking in the next diagonal - you can find that demo here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/rXvNqHqIg5V8h5Y. After trying several methods, I prefer a more all-over cross country method, where I choose my symbols mostly from the top down, left to right, so that I am still filling things in as I go. But, it's fun to experiment with different methods, and sometimes you can do different methods with different projects. :)

[@sheriking4041]

If you have questions about silk threads and it’s care I would call the Attic Needlework shop In Mesa AZ ask for Carolyn. They really promote stitching with silk so they may have the answers you need.

[@njdevfan20]

I stitch in hand. I tried frames and other stuff. I stitch faster in hand. Happy stitching

[@StitchinMommy]

Me too! It's fun to meet other people who stitch in hand as well. :)

[@astiasti7110]

I've always stitched in hand but took classes in specialty stitches and some of them would be extremely difficult to do stitching in hand. I purchased a table frame so I could take it to class. I really like it but still prefer to stitch in hand. For some specialty stitches you really need both hands free or so it seems to me.

[@StitchinMommy]

I was wondering about that as well. I might have to get my frame out for certain patterns with fancy specialty stitches.

[@adele3641]

Thank you for your video. I was searching for cross stitching without a hoop, and mostly I found ways to do it using the sewing method, which I do not like. I'm a poke-stitching person and have always used a hoop, mostly q-snaps. However with my current project, and arthritis worsening in my fingers (I had to give up knitting), the weight and holding the frame was starting to hurt my hands more. At least holding a needle and thread is not a problem. So I took off the frame and started stitching without the added weight. But I was wondering if I was doing it correctly by not using the sewing method. Your stitching tips, and seeing someone else do it the way I want to, makes me feel comfortable about my stitching. As an added note, someone told me a few years ago, when rolling up large pieces of work to always make sure the back of your work is always on the outside so that your front work doesn't pick up any dirt, so I'm trying to roll that way when I stitch. I'm also a lefty, so I find I have to also roll sideways at times to feel more comfortable stitching. Thanks again.

[@StitchinMommy]

I'm glad this video helped you!

[@Janetl62]

Thank you! I really want to learn how to stitch in hand.

[@StitchinMommy]

Great! I hope this was helpful for you. I'm planning on filming some "stitch with me" style videos this fall, so while they won't be specifically teaching about stitching in hand, they might be helpful to pick up on little ways I do things that I wouldn't think to share.

[@natureluvr_d7186]

Thanks for the demo. I'm getting back into x-stitch recently but never used higher count fabric before, I always used Aida. I bought a frame online - not too happy with it. The lap stand for it is horrible-the wing nuts keep loosening just looking at it-not exaggerating. I'm thinking I might like Rolaframe but I think I will try this method first. I do like my fabric stretched on the scroll frame but it just doesn't feel right when stitching. Hoops are just too tight and leaves circles. I did try a little hummingbird on some 28 count Belfast. It said 2 over 2 but it doesn't look as nice and neat as I would think. I tried railroading but the stitches still look like they twisted. I'm still searching for "MY" comfort zone so I can enjoy stitching instead of being frustrated. Your projects look so nice on both sides.

[@StitchinMommy]

I hope you're able to find a method you really like! Stitching can be a really fun hobby if it's relaxing. Have you tried Q-snaps, or do those leave too many marks like hoops do? Whenever I've tried other methods, I always come back to my trusty in-hand roll, but I know it's not for everyone. Let me know if you like it! Some simple tips that might help your threads not twist. Make sure you separate your threads into individual strands before putting the required amount of strands back together to thread your needle. I didn't used to do this, but it really helps the threads lay nicely. Also, you can let the thread dangle every once in a while to help it untwist. I've heard about laying tools also that some people love to use, but I haven't ever tried one because I stitch in-hand and simply don't have the hands free to use it. But, if you manage to find a frame and stand you like, you could look up some tutorials for how to use one. :)

[@natureluvr_d7186]

Thank you again-you're so helpful. I'm not crazy about Q snaps-I have a small one. I use one strand folded so I can start with the loop method which I love now that I learned it & just learned to do it from the top side! I have a stilletto that I can use as a laying tool but my lap stand is so awful it's hard to try. When I surface embr, I dangle a lot. I follow Needle n'Thread for surface embroidery & she's a wealth of info. I want to jump into that Mirabilia Mermaid but I'm trying smaller designs until I find what method I like. Using Aida and doing smaller designs in hand is okay but the big designs I feel like I need more tension (I have achy joints so my fingers & hand & wrist hurt holding the larger pieces of fabric). Of course getting my hand under the frame makes them hurt too. T he frame is a pain flipping over to end, etc. I am so determined to do Miriabilia designs I know I'll find a way but it will take time. So I really appreciate everyone on Flosstube that shares their talent. I don't have a LNS close by to take lessons or have hands on help so this is the next best thing!

[@patburton837]

I mostly stitch in hand, too. I just tried using Q-snaps and it's going okay. But very bulky because it is a big project am working on though.

[@StitchinMommy]

I really enjoy the ease of in-hand stitching. I can switch projects easily, take them place to place, they're not very heavy, I can sit in any chair I want. Lots of perks! I know people who use stands to hold their frames/hoops/Q-snaps enjoy being able to stitch 2 handed, but I'm happy with the speed of my stitching and I don't have to worry about the bulk of a contraption like that in my main living space. :)

[@k8tallison250]

I'm about to start my first LARGE full coverage project. Someone on Facebook recommended me to watch this video. My question on Facebook was how to do this big project "in hand". I've stitched since I was little and I've always stitched in hand. I've tried frames, hoops, etc... and they're just not for me. But I didn't know how this project would go to do in hand. Thanks for this video. I'm also not a "scruncher". I fold the fabric, which does leave lines until I iron them out. I've tried the rolling method, but I still end up squishing the "roll" down and leave creases lol. So I just fold. I'm more worried about the length of the fabric, than the width. I can roll the width out of the way. It's the fabric that will be hanging that makes me nervous. I feel that my way it will just constantly be in the way, the fabric that is hanging down.

[@StitchinMommy]

Katherine Pietras The large designs can be a bit cumbersome, and I do find that I have trouble making time to work on them because I feel like I need to have bigger chunks of time set aside to stitch to make it worth unrolling the whole thing and settling in. Smaller projects have more flexibility, for sure. But I don’t necessarily mind having the fabric draping over my lap - it just makes it hard to set down for a short time because it’s so large. 😂

[@k8tallison250]

@@StitchinMommy OMG. For some reason, my brain has never clicked into place to understand this until I saw you do it! I roll my fabric from side to side. Because I kind of bunch the fabric in my left hand and stitch with my right, going under from the right side instead of the bottom. I've NEVER thought about rolling it top to bottom. 😂 NEVER CROSSED MY MIND. life changing 😂

[@k8tallison250]

@@StitchinMommy it will take some getting used to going under from the bottom instead of the right side.

[@janicebest-nesbitt6455]

Love watching your videos. You started by putting your thread underneath. Not familiar with this type of start. Could you show or start a project Thanks.

[@StitchinMommy]

If I have an odd number of strands or if I'm using a blend of colors in my needle, I'm unable to use the loop start - which is actually a relatively new technique for me. How I learned to start threads, and how I have to do it with those odd numbered strands, is by first running the thread underneath the back of 4 or 5 previously stitched stitches. That way, there are no knots on the back of my project. I also end all my threads that way - running the end underneath the back of 4 or 5 stitches. I'm planning to film a few "stitch with me" type videos in the coming months, so I'll make sure to include my starts and stops so it's more clear how I do that. :)

[@janicebest-nesbitt6455]

Stitchin' Mommy thank you

[@Centralmassmedia]

Hi, I only know this as the "sewing method" (vs. the "stabbing method). I like how you roll your fabric. I've only done small projects (new to cross stitch). What do you mean you only use one hand. How could you use two hands? I have to use the fabric with one hand and the needle with the other. One issue I have is that my hand tends to cramp up while I'm holding the fabric so I thought I should switch to a floor or lap stand but then I'd have to switch to the stabbing method which I don't care for. Any suggestions about hand care? I loosen my grip and take short breaks but anything else? Thank you!

[@StitchinMommy]

I actually use the stabbing method, even though I'm holding the fabric in my hand. When a lot of stitchers refer to stitching in-hand, they are often referring to the sewing method, but I don't like how my stitches look when I try that method. Sewing method is where you are going down and back up with your needle in one motion from the top of your fabric. I have never tried it, but when you use a stand and frame to hold your fabric, you can stitch with a hand on top of the fabric and a hand under the fabric, using both hands to work the needle. The people who have tried it, claim it really speeds up your stitching time, but I can't quite wrap my head around how that would work. I don't have too much of a problem with my hand hurting unless I'm holding a really large or really stiff piece of fabric. Then, I just take breaks as needed. I'm sorry I'm not much help there!

[@marlenabarquera8413]

Do you have any tips on how to roll up the fabric. I can't seem to get a tight roll of the Aida fabric.

[@StitchinMommy]

At the beginning of the roll, I will often fold over the first 1/2" or so in a hard crease if possible. Then that provides an anchor to be able to roll the rest of it. Floppy, wide fabric is the hardest to get into a tight roll since it likes to come unrolled on one end while you're working with the other end. In those cases, I'll set something on the fabric like a calculator or scissors or something to hold the roll in place while I work on the opposite end, then go back and forth rolling & holding it down until I've established a nice roll that won't undo. Once the fabric is rolled and if it's stored in the roll, it will maintain the roll and be easier to work with each subsequent time. :)

[@lindastewart4565]

I appreciate you sending me to this video. I hadn't cross-stitched for awhile and couldn't find my hoop. I have a fairly small project so I'm going to try your method. It looks like less hassle and, like you, I don't want any creases. I've noticed that they, whoever that is, wants us to wash our thread to prevent color bleeding. I've never had that problem and have never washed my thread. I would appreciate any thoughts about washing threads. Thanks.

[@StitchinMommy]

I've never washed my thread either. If you're stitching with DMC or something, you shouldn't have any trouble with bleeding colors. Some hand dyed threads might not be colorfast, so if you're planning to wash your finished piece, you might consider rinsing your threads first. I just don't wash the finished product most of the time, so I don't worry about it. :D

[@krissiebooker8525]

Very helpful, thank you 😊

[@tonicook4565]

Where or how do you find the tubes you store your project in. Most projects come in a flat plastic bag when purchased, just curious. I am considering trying this method. Thanks.

[@StitchinMommy]

Toni Cook Hi, a lot of my project tubes came from the rolls of fabric you can buy in craft stores. Other tubes are repurposed from wrapping paper tubes or even created from card stock. 😊

[@donnawinkler9328]

Hello Stitching mommy thank you for sharing your skills. I’m going to start to stitch on 25 Lugana stitching over 2 .When I need to take a space do I leave 2 squares.?

[@StitchinMommy]

Hi Donna! Yes, spaces should be treated just like symbols - all are over 2 fabric threads.

[@njdevfan20]

I stitch the exact same way!

[@bessiereyes2690]

Hello. Is it possible to stitch in hand using a 20 ct fabric? Thank you

[@StitchinMommy]

Yes, I stitch everything in-hand. Some fabrics are more floppy than others, and the floppier fabrics are more tricky to stitch on with even tension. But the "floppy factor" is more important than the count of the fabric.

[@lindagiven8051]

Great instructions.

[@mibelloaleman]

Hi Sarah. I found this video regarding my present dilemma - whether to stitch in hand or use Q-Snap, hoops, or frames. I find stitching in hand the simplest method but my concern is will it be taunt enough so that I won't risk the finish product looking loose. Have you ever had a finish piece come out too loose because of this stitching method? Please advise (I always listen to your advice). I recently wrote to you about how to protect the edges of the fabric w/o owning a serger (you advised to stitch it by hand) and I did as you suggested and it was perfect. Thanks again for your help.

[@StitchinMommy]

I think I'm less concerned about the stitches being too loose, but rather too tight. If the stitches are too tight, the fabric will end up rippled and unable to smooth out when it comes time to frame. I have developed a nice tension over the years, so that most of the time, it's not a problem for me. But you should definitely choose the method that makes you the most comfortable. A lot of stitchers really don't like how their tension ends up when they stitch in-hand, so that's why they prefer some sort of device to stretch their fabric. I would recommend trying small projects on various fabrics & with various methods to see which ones you like best. You may find that you can stitch on Aida in-hand because it has a more natural stiffness, but you prefer to stretch linen/evenweave because they can be floppier or less hearty fabrics.

[@mibelloaleman]

@@StitchinMommy Sarah, thank you for replying! So kind! You're such a classy lady! I appreciate all your advice. I take it seriously. I have to admit that I am stressing over which method to use regarding new starts that are rather large, that is, they are all full coverage. I don't want to be encumbered by frames and the like, but I am worried about any loose tension. Also, I like having several needle minders on my fabric when it's on a Q-Snap because they hold my pattern right on top of the fabric. Plus, I've made a lot of beautiful needle minders and would like to use them, but again, that means using a frame. But stitching in-hand is less cumbersome. I'm really stressing over this, but thank you so much for your advice, and I'll probable start a new pattern stitching in-hand and see how that works. Funny, I originally started cross stitching using the stitch in-hand method hundreds of years ago!

[@katherinekuhn8142]

I’m having difficulty seeing my project. I am new to cross stitching. Any suggestions on making it easier to see 11 count

[@StitchinMommy]

I'm probably not the best person to ask, since I haven't developed eyesight issues yet for my stitching. But, it's helpful to have good lighting - natural is best. I use a daylight bulb in the lamp next to my stitching chair. You can also try using readers that you can get at the drugstore, or magnifiers that you wear on your head - others stitchers would be better to ask about these as I haven't tried any. I hope you find something that helps!

[@those_eyes]

What is a chatelaine? I prefer hand stitching and I stitch as you do. When I have used a hoop the stitches do not seem to lay as well as I would like. Thank you.

[@StitchinMommy]

Annette Toomey Happy to meet another in-hand stitcher! 🤗 Chatelaine is a brand of cross stitch patterns that are full of specialty stitches, specialty threads, metallics, beads, etc. They are pretty involved, but stunning all stitched up. You can buy PDFs on their website, and find full kits or bead packs on European Cross Stitch. There’s also a Chatelaine Support Group on Facebook if you have questions about anything. 😁

[@yasmeenakhtarkhan9442]

Omg 😮 I just found ur videos sooo happy to see you stitching in hand I’ve seriously 😐 wasted loads of money on stands frames ect and ended up realising thth I actually stitch faster and better in hand 😊😍👍I’ve commented on a old video did you get a chatelaine then xx 😘

[@StitchinMommy]

yasmeen Akhtar khan Fun! I love stitching in hand! For me, it’s so comfortable, flexible and portable. I can switch around between projects on a whim and I can relax in my chair while stitching. 😁 And yes, I have a Chatelaine started now. I’m doing Winter Wonderland Band Sampler. It’s not a traditional mandala design, but it has all the fancy threads & stitches - and it’s more conducive to stitching in hand since I can work from the top down. 👍🏻

[@yasmeenakhtarkhan9442]

Stitchin' Mommy amazing 😉 I am kitting up flower fairy 🧚‍♀️ chatelaine too x

[@donnawinkler9328]

This is an interesting way to stitch in hand. Do you do one stitch at a time? Thank you for sharing..➿➿➿

[@StitchinMommy]

Donna Winkler If I’m using solid floss, like DMC, I’ll stitch the first leg of the X’s down the row, then come back down the row to complete them. If I’m using variegated floss, I’ll stitch one X at a time.

[@o0oMysticdragono0o]

I know this is an old video but I see you also do current tutorials, so my question is...do you finish each x before moving on to the next, or do you half stitch and come back? Thank you for sharing. I have just started and bought my first stamped kit and have been watching so many people with tips...so far I know I want to stitch in hand but not sure if I want to do the parking or cross country or diagonal

[@StitchinMommy]

If I stitch with a solid colored floss, I will stitch down the row with half the stitch, then come back down the row to finish the Xs. If the floss is variegated, I will stitch one X at a time in order to maximize the change in color/shade. I would encourage you to try different methods of tackling your project(s) to see what you like. Different people prefer different methods and even different projects sometimes lend themselves to different methods. And sometimes you change methods mid project, and that's okay, too! I went through a season of lots of experimentation to find the methods that I like the best. That helps when I hear of a new method - I can stop to think if it sounds like something that I would enjoy, based on what I have already tried.

[@o0oMysticdragono0o]

@StitchinMommy thank you for sharing your knowledge...always great to hear from someone who's been doing it.

[@vickyworley6974]

How do you finish when you are at the end of your thread?

[@StitchinMommy]

I like to run my threads underneath the completed stitches on the back of the fabric. Since it's very easy to access the back when stitching in-hand, this is a neat, secure way to finish threads.

[@Lisathenewfie]

What did you just put your project in.

[@StitchinMommy]

I store my projects in old wrapping paper tubes or the sleeves that fabric comes in at the craft store. :)

[@SunflowerAV]

I've never cross stitched or needlework in hand (had by hand lol). I'm so used to the frame and minimally touching the fabric. I totally get why you do it - children, cats and takes up space. I'm going to try it your way and this way I can also try stitching a few projects at a time. I normally have 2-3 on a frame. How do you keep is so clean and how do you wash it once it's complete? You vids are so helpful and exciting! :-)

[@StitchinMommy]

Yes, I learned how to cross stitch in-hand, so it's the most comfortable method for me, in addition to the convenience it offers. :) I don't wash everything I've done, but if I feel something needs to be washed, I'll soak it in a cool water bath with some Dawn liquid detergent to help break up any oils, then rinse in cool water and lay flat to dry - ironing and blocking as needed. :)

[@LCmonman]

Question: Do you ever roll the opposite way so your left hand isn’t touching your finished work? Or does it make it harder to stitch? I’ll have to give this method a try!

[@StitchinMommy]

For some reason, I learned how to stitch with it rolled up this way, so now if I try it the other way it feels weird to me. But I’ve heard of other stitchers who roll their fabric “backwards” so that they’re not touching the front of the stitches. If you’re giving this method a try for the first time, definitely try rolling it that way to see if it works for you. It’s harder to teach an old dog new tricks! 😂

[@LCmonman]

@@StitchinMommy thank you! I’ve been using your method this week and I’m loving it! Also, can you please tell me the name of the stitch you did of the girl that looked like Anne of Green Gables?? I don’t remember which video you showed her in. Would love to do that one!!

[@StitchinMommy]

You might be thinking of Nantucket Rose by Lavender & Lace. I converted her hair to be red because she reminds me of the opening scene of the movie Anne of Avonlea, where Anne is writing her novel on the beach and all her pages fly away. I have my conversion posted here: stitchinmommycolorconversions.blogspot.com/2019/03/nantucket-rose-by-lavender-lace.html I have also done a crop of QS Anne of Green Gables by Heaven and Earth Designs, and I stitched Storytime Sampler by Frosted Pumpkin Stitchery, which has an Anne section. :)

[@LCmonman]

@@StitchinMommy thank you 🙏🏻!!

[@AftonGroveKnitter]

Where do you get the tubes that you store your work in?

[@StitchinMommy]

Several of the tubes I use are reused from the craft store fabric that comes in tubes. Other times, I use old wrapping paper tubes with a piece of paper taped to the bottom to create a base. I've even created some smaller tubes by taping together cardstock. :)

[@mrscutthroat9467]

What is the name of the National Park pattern you are doing?

[@StitchinMommy]

This pattern is the National Park Birthday SAL by The Frosted Pumpking Stitchery: www.thefrostedpumpkinstitchery.com/collections/all-pdf-patterns/products/national-parks-birthday-pdf-cross-stitch-pattern. It was a mystery stitch-a-long last year. They've actually just released a companion piece that will be a mystery this year. The new pattern is available for purchase now, but the first clue won't be released until September 15th: www.thefrostedpumpkinstitchery.com/collections/clubs/products/greetings-from-the-parks-club-pdf. I hope that helps!

[@mrscutthroat9467]

Thank you very much for the info. I bought both. I've never done the stitch-along so that will be interesting to see how that goes.

[@StitchinMommy]

Fun! This first National Parks piece was the first mystery stitch a long that I did and it was pretty fun! I'm really looking forward to starting the next one. I hope you enjoy stitching them, too! :)

[@yolandawilkerson6640]

I'm a beginner to cross stitch. I notice the back of your project is so neat. How do you do that. My isa mess.

[@StitchinMommy]

I don't really focus very much on keeping my back neat. But I do a few things that probably help. I make sure to either use a pin stitch to start my thread or weave the start of a thread under previous stitches. I don't ever knot the threads to start or stop. I weave the end of the threads underneath the backs of the stitches also. When I'm stitching, I try to map out where I'm going, so take the most efficient route through the symbols. That's so that I can minimize carrying threads around on the back of the fabric. If the next stitch in a particular color is across an open space that will never be stitched, or if it's farther away than an inch or so, I'll secure the thread, cut it, and start over in the new space. I also like to weave my thread under the back of previous stitches when I'm carrying threads, so that everything stays secure and not floppy so that I won't accidentally catch my needle on the threads back there. I hope that helps! :)

[@yolandawilkerson6640]

Stitchin' Mommy. Thank you

[@jenniferhaine6174]

Hi, how do I make sure my work is even?

[@StitchinMommy]

It takes some practice, but I think it comes down to a light tension. And being careful to not pull your threads too tight when you carry them across the back to a new area. I generally evaluate each stitch as I go and poke at it if I think it looks twisted or something before I move on. With experience, it doesn't take too much time to fiddle with a few stitches as you go. :)

[@ellenyan5916]

I started watching your videos recently and I couldn’t stop until I watched all of them! I really enjoy having them in the background while I stitch. I decided to give your method of stitching in hand a try, and I liked the idea of it since I can easily move to different areas of the fabric, but my left hand holding the fabric started to hurt after a few days of doing this (the tendons in the back of my hand) I have a fairly large piece so the roll itself does droop and place a fair amount of weight on my left hand. Have you ever encountered this? And generally speaking, do you have any tips on how to avoid hand pain during long stitching sessions? (for the stitching hand as well)

[@StitchinMommy]

I'm so glad you're enjoying my videos! These days, I rarely have super long stitching times, so my hands don't hurt that often. If I have a long, marathon stitch, they can sometimes cramp up a little, and I'll stop and flex my hands before continuing. If the fabric is wide, it is nice to sit somewhere with arms or a pillow to prop up the extra fabric on the end you're not working on. If you find you still need more help, I've seen stitching gloves that leave your fingers free but support the main part of your hand, so you could look into those. I love the freedom that stitching in-hand gives me, so I hope I can continue to stitch this way for years to come. :)

[@anzodabakyan2668]

Super🌹

[@susanpitt2203]

Thank you so much for your fantastic videos, you are such an inspiration. One question - I know you don't use the sewing method however do you stitch one cross stitch at a time or do you stitch a row of half cross stitches and then back again adding the second half? I'm interested to know as your stitching is so neat.

[@StitchinMommy]

Thank you! I usually stitch as you suggested, with a row of half stitches then go back to add the second half. The exception to this would be if I'm using variegated floss, as that requires you to stitch one stitch at a time in order to get good definition of the color changes. I try to keep my tension neat and even, which I'm sure helps my stitches look neater. :)

[@susanpitt2203]

Thank you so much for your reply, I'm definitely going to try your stitching method :)

[@StitchinMommy]

Wonderful! Let me know how it goes for you. :)

[@debbyduarte2334]

i do too always have its the only way i can stitch

[@StitchinMommy]

:)

[@vickyworley6974]

Thats what I do too.

[@kayinthecave]

I don't see why you couldn't start a chatelaine and work it from the top down. The directions suggest you do the cross stitches first and then do the specialty stitches next. The notes are written for stitching from the middle out but if you know what band/row/circle your in, it should be easy enough to figure it out. I have one that I want to start, I just need to finish up a pair of bigger projects before I start in on the chatelaine.

[@StitchinMommy]

Thanks for the encouragement! So far, my favorite Chatelaine is the Butterfly Lace Mandala. I'm considering doing it with mainly DMC instead of spending so much money on silks. But, maybe the silks are worth it? Do you know if they more shiny?

[@yayitanoelia2611]

Stitchin' Mommy I was gifted the Butterfly Lace by my bestie Mo, @maureenbyrne1955 on IG. She completed it last year and did it in the specialty threads. You could ask her what she thinks about using dmc instead. I am going to. Too expensive otherwise. Just not sure when I'll do it! 😂

[@TonyasSewingRoom]

Very interesting, I can stitch in hand, but I use the sewing method. NEver tried this way.

[@StitchinMommy]

My sister likes the sewing method also. :)

[@luisaperez5412]

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