Desperation to be a MRS - S2E21 | The Frankly Speaking Podcast

[@augustinenzeako4654]

Husband material is a very very good moderator I must say, even when they try to deviate he finds a way to bring them back to the conversation and he does this in all the episodes.

[@cynthiab1683]

💯

[@jessedavidson98]

He’s very very good

[@tokoniapaingolo6822]

Husband material for President He has always been my fav❤

[@oluwabunmiwilliams]

My fav too

[@oluwabunmiwilliams]

Very eloquent...even with his natural and original accent

[@frosty4ever]

Husband Material is such a good host.

[@vansylanamoahsakyi6122]

A very Good host

[@joshdiction]

Husband material is a man of enchanting physiognomy 🎉

[@Kaluogbasa]

This is really a Frankly-speaking podcast; my new favourite way to unwind. You guys are very interesting - all of you! The amazing thing for me is the variety & uniqueness of each of the host: Nedu with his 🔥 energy, Noemi with her ‘keeping-it-real’ response, Cole with her ‘smarty-response’, and Husband material the ultimate moderator that ensures u all stay in line. Take a bow you all!!!👏👏👏👏👏

[@MrGiddyon]

Marriage is important. People that say marriage is not an achievement only say it to console themselves. Now and days people jump in and out of marriage because of lack of courtship. If you marry a good man or woman then you've achieved one of the greatest things. You've achieved a clear and bright future. No deceive yourself. E be like who no pass jamb Wei dey claim poly is better.

[@Iphie2019]

I needed to listen to this podcast. I remember all the pressures I went through when I was younger just cause marriage was seen as what should complete a woman. I became a doctor and it didn’t even matter in the grand scheme of things. A lot of the career goals I had post graduation were slowed cos my family thought I should put more effort into getting married. I left Nigeria in my efforts to escape the pressure and continue my career my advancement. I also put effort into making sure I position myself to get married but nothing worked out. I must confess that at some point I was desperate due to pressures but that didn’t get me married too cos to be honest even in my desperation there are some deal beakers I would never manage plus I am a hopeless romantic too. Anyways, I am still not married, I am doing so well in my career, I hope to get married cos I want to do life with somebody and I am a hopeless romantic but my desperation is out the door 😊.

[@nathanielasaba5001]

Hmmm! Wish you all the best

[@iyiolaodumosu]

I wish you the best too

[@Iphie2019]

@@nathanielasaba5001 thank you 😊

[@Iphie2019]

@@iyiolaodumosu thank you too 😊

[@nneomaudeaja4522]

Wish you all the best

[@rantandramblebyLola]

Everything Naomi said in this episode is LIT.... Thank God i am not alone with the way i see this sha

[@fembal07]

Naomi is so real 😂 I know most people will come for her… I love your frankness dearie keep saying it as it is

[@obaadedamola4860]

Naomi just leading women astray😂😂

[@DanielOkeke-uz8vr]

she no dey straight forward self🤣

[@LawsonHayfordJnr]

Great episode as always guys!!! Thank you Husband material for always being a good moderator, thank you Nedu for not being scared to say the truth and spit facts, Thank you to the controversial Big Nay🤣for bringing life to the podcast and Thank you Toun for even existing and also dropping it like its hot! Love y'all

[@abayomiadio6485]

I love the way Nedu always give that illustration that makes OUR sister always say HER MIND ... and HUSBAND MATERIAL will just help us to summarize it ....

[@brianklc631]

Facts 😂

[@CeeCee113]

Nedu and husband material are the only reason I watch the show 💕 🔥

[@anodaone6525]

Naomi is the reason I will stop watching

[@Mviews-ib4lv]

I swear 😂

[@hrmhannah459]

Naomi is very bold, saying her view even though it's not wildly accepted. It's easy to bash Naomi for her view point but really, a lot of women thinks like her. Even the people that knows in their heart of heart that they have same views as her, will come to the comment session to bash her. Rest.

[@Cassandra_fragrance__]

So true😂

[@omolaraakinkanju4086]

Such a great quartet in husband material's voice 😀. love u guys !!! nedu oooooo. Always a vibe listening to you guys .

[@olusholapeters136]

Naomis views are scary. If she really means what she is saying, she might be setting herself for a roller coaster of heart breaks due to infatuation. Her views about men are unreal, to say the least. She is so willing to excuse a man's behavior because he is rich and famous. Until you get involved and enjoy the fame, then you demand fidelity and commitment and then the man can't give you and tears begin to roll

[@jiyamabo]

Naomi's views are consistently scary. I would even say, they are not well informed for a good number of episodes. Frankly Speaking should seriously consider replacing her.

[@joantoke1790]

@@jiyamabo why would she be replaced because of her point of view in as much as much as alot of people don't agree with her it's still her opinion and no one is obliged to support her... the title of this podcast is "Frankly Speaking"

[@adjekugheleejiro5013]

@@jiyamabo Diversity of ideas 💡

[@dhebbygodspride3124]

I was so disappointed in her response.

[@anodaone6525]

@@joantoke1790 what are you saying? She sounds like that in every episode. She doesn't belong to this podcast

[@Suzzaii]

I really enjoyed this episode 🎉😂 I had a big smile all through. Thank you all for the unmatched ENERGY 😅

[@ebyoj]

I love the ladies... they are very outspoken.

[@Toluwabori]

Husband Material is really good and always objective.

[@tundeoluakerele3349]

Please I wanna be on this show 😂... I'm not shy of cameras and I'm confident. Husband material still remains the funniest guy on this show sha 😂😂.. omooooo this episode was lit!

[@erickofi5827]

Loool

[@brianklc631]

This is the No.1 podcast in Nigeria as far as I Concerned 🔥

[@daveed_]

For the Live shows, I would really love to see DJ Cuppy. I really love her person, and she has really awesome views.

[@valentineangelo8131]

Awww I love you all, you guys plz come back soon, i can't wait till next year oo. Husband material i dof my hat for you. Nedu our papa in the house, alwasy hitting the nail on the head, saying it franklying . Toun is a wise woman with a lot of positive comments coming from her, usually always right and never wrong. Big Ney, without you on this show, the thing for just dey go one place, thank you for always making it more intense and interactive, saying it from another perspective which is always true . you are the heartbeat of this podcast. I feel good for subscribing to this program, it's so informative and educative. Can't wait to see you soon

[@gbolabobabafemi2566]

Am seriously looking forward to frankly speaking season 3 ooo

[@endurancealiyu3045]

Husband Material is effortlessly funny......I think he should consider skit making cause you are really Goated. meanwhile Naomi got the most interesting reality view of this topic. Is the way she expresses herself and make clear points for me...... MUCH LOVE Naomi.

[@favourdaniels6]

Thank you for this show desperation is really bad because I was almost desperat because most of my friends was getting married and I was like do I have fault in my life but I notice I was okey nothing wrong about me I decided to live my life happy if marriage will come it will thanks

[@kokoriauizah5166]

😍😂😂I love this …this podcast takes all my stress away 😂

[@ugochukwusidney-moka5541]

Love you guys. The topics are quite interesting and informative. Oga Nedu we go yarn

[@4tuneosas241]

Dis Ab guy I like d way he back dem up 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@adaezekwelu7727]

Husband material said "That means you can marry a newscaster "😂🤣🤣 Since na conversation u dey find

[@donaldsummer]

Noami views are scary but it's a representation of who she is and I love the fact that she speaks her own truth

[@favourdaniel6035]

I am just watching this now and I am very glad i did❤❤.... What if a lady is 18 years old and a man who is 33 years old is professing love to her and the lady refused and the next thing he said was you are chasing gold while you lose diamond... Please help shed more light on this... Thanks

[@ikechukwuoparaku7172]

This is a really good platform I love the openness and expression, I wish this would be publicized more !!

[@ikechukwuoparaku7172]

However I feel the conversations need to be more professional from the angle of how the guest express themselves

[@bernardschibuzo1918]

I love Nedu's blend of English and Igbo.... sweet dead. Naomi ehnnnnnn no words . Jasmine sense plenty.

[@agapeyake2672]

Totally addicted to this podcast I can't wait for the live show

[@originalafricantalenthub]

Am addicted too gan

[@promisec.daraugonnaya8932]

I love you all God almighty bless you all massive A very big victory Amen 🙏👏

[@Chioma004]

This is frankly speaking for a reason, in one way or the other their opinions are beautiful including Naomi

[@ijeomahstephen5179]

I’m interested o 😂 That Peer pressure among the youth (especially teenagers) topic is still needed o

[@okojierichmond1057]

This was actually very interesting to watch and also education, but one fact is everything we hear, read and listen to are 100% opinion based and not fact, cos what works for you might not work for another, that’s why every human must have a mind of his or her own, and never do anything out of desperation, it never ends well.🌹

[@ugwupeter3707]

Seriously I really like husband material with the way he lay down points

[@arinzeomele3318]

Husband material de cerebral sha💯💯💯

[@idabceesay102]

Love from Gambia 🇬🇲

[@reubenbala3496]

Great content guys. Una dey serve us normal normal. I won’t talk about Naomi sha but it is well. Also would really love to be on the Podcast with You Guys💯. Please Continue giving us back to back!!! I love you guys. Especially DeityCole😏😊

[@apuabimuyiwa9559]

very interesting topic really enjoyed it.. well-done guys

[@nuelofficial7340]

Imagine how intriguing and educating the live show will be… I’m very much interested in the live show. ⚡️⚡️

[@verakusi5716]

I love love you guys .Vera from Ghana

[@okonyasandra2718]

Super interesting and interested

[@ohemdee]

Awww missed toun’s face! Here to mark attendance for our queen ❤

[@chidinmanzurumike2839]

i'm interested biko this show has got me glued i love u guys so much

[@callmezolo]

Last week, we complained that NEDU dominated the whole talking This, week, we complained that everybody is trying to talk at the same time, and major points were lost and inaudible What does the listeners even want?? Good show, guys.. we enjoyed every bit 😄

[@abiolaayola3133]

Don’t leave me! Don’t leave me!!. Make next season quick start ooo. Ahh Mondays will be boring now.

[@nosstork]

Naomi is a realist, though alot of guys will think she is desperate and can fall victim of a wrong relationship, but that is a true reflection of women, they want it all and want to have the best even if there is something they need to nurse inside the relationship. There are no perfect relationship, it two individuals with different upbringing and has gotten wisdom from different school of thought.

[@Blaqkidtube]

Las las Naomi dey dig gold lol

[@adaezekwelu7727]

The desperation for Mrs is mostly caused by societal pressure tbh. I believe everyone would enjoy companionship, but for we ladies, there is this 'biological Clock' factor that puts a timeline to it. Plus the way men seem to love women in their prime also adds to the pressure

[@RPPraxeologist]

It's mostly caused by the biological factor, the fear that women have that they won't be able to lock down commitment from a man, in order to guarantee survival for themselves and their offsprings. Societal pressure comes second to that

[@kaihavertz6504]

Hahaha 😆, this is the best episode so far 🤣

[@legendary_1998]

I really can’t wait for season 3. I was watching last week and I couldn’t finish because of data. I remembered I didn’t finish and I came back. Thank u for giving us a good show. I think I like Naomi, and I feel she will be a sweet person to love and if she loves you, she go finish you with love. Husband material our big moderator, love ur innocence. Boss Nedu go Dey do like say na big Ashawo him be😂, but I know he is very responsible in person. Beautiful Toun I love you scatter. The first day I heard ur voice on radio I knew it was you, I was really excited. Thank u family.

[@9thmiles853]

Regardless of loose guarding sometimes, Naomi thinking too deep, na only loud dey give this kind intelligence.

[@CeeCee113]

😂😂😂😂 she’s just a misplaced irritant

[@9thmiles853]

@@CeeCee113 she loose guard sometimes buh she think deeper than others. I noticed when she gave her definition of love

[@Yummymummyspace]

My frankly speaking family I love you guys you keep giving us hot topics every week thank you for making the conversation so real waiting for season 3

[@oghagbonmagdaleen261]

Welcome back Big Naomi and Toun

[@chinazannadi5113]

I missed them last podcast

[@oghagbonmagdaleen261]

Yes o. I missed them

[@Mozeloper]

Definitely interested...

[@DanielOkeke-uz8vr]

Nedu energy is always fire all day all time , just love the guy lol

[@sayodunabdulazeez3061]

Wow. Big nay nay's POV this episode is sense loaded. I dey feel you

[@dominionthagod7570]

Am interested and looking forward to what is to come 🔥🔥🔥❤️❤️..

[@ijeomaesther1717]

I want to participate o... This is my most cherised podcast so far Una dey give me Joy..i enjoy every bit of the podcast

[@tashasecret944]

This show is lovable ❤kudos guy’s

[@edeghonghonrupee4769]

Wow I love this conversation

[@danieloyeleye3459]

Society has its bit. But, your biology is what pressures you more!!!

[@ejemhenyakubu3407]

Loveeeeee thisssssssssssss

[@olashilesamson1349]

I love toun's hairstyle its really nice, like toun says women oppresses women when it comes to marriage.... that only curses desperation for ladies....

[@andrewevi3897]

Watching from Papua New Guinea.

[@Yuceebaby]

Lol this conversation cracked me up srws Nedu sef ehn🙆🏽‍♂️🤣...True True Women are more desperate to get to answer Mrs because of Age(menopause) & pressure from their married friends. Ike gwuru🤷🏽‍♂️🙆🏽‍♂️😂😂🤣🤣🤣

[@abrahamsway1923]

I like Husband Material's moves...i have watched him through the episodes and he observes the conversations, he takes and fuels the conversation for the other side.......from a male's perspective......

[@callistuschukwu6830]

I love frankly speaking 🥰🥰

[@MrPerfect0910]

Marriage is an achievement periodt... Even dictionary define achievement as a thing done successfully with effort, skill, or courage.... MARRIAGE IS AN ACHIEVEMENT, let's stop deceiving ourselves, many people have failed in marriage cos they are unable to achieve that. A man struggles for his family, not just his background family but for his wife and children's future... This thing is an Achievement.

[@kg-lyrical7417]

Great show 📺….all ❤from Namibia 🇳🇦

[@joshuaizenose8708]

Marriage is an achievement... As far as society and this earth is concerned

[@ekomudofia.3760]

A very interesting topic....kudos frankly speaking (the best podcast). I would love to be part of the program.

[@sharonkorankye4131]

Really going to miss Frankly Speaking and it amazing quartet and guests ❤️ from Gh

[@JimmyKlien1]

A good marriage is an achievement don't let sad people deceive you.

[@bussiecrownmakeovers]

Exactly… good marriage is a type of achievement; it’s not THE achievement but it’s nice to have it if u do. But the lack of it is not that deep to me walai .. marriage no be heavenly race

[@chiomaikebude7166]

Naomi is really being realistic for me … Jasmine is talking to suit the guys .. babe if davido asks you out , you won’t mind Chioma being in the picture , you will date him

[@precioustayo5312]

are you her?🙄

[@markgray9319]

The host are quite open minded and that's why I love this show. The spell things as they are in reality not as society want to present it as

[@Bukola220]

That Naomi babe I am scared for her 😂😂 Jasmine is a vibe 🙏 There should not be an exception for some men because they have money.

[@favourogbonna1]

This episode is so deserving to be the finale. I’m a feminist and yes I agree, women are the most desperate when it comes to marriage. Naomi’s views here are not it 😂😂😂 I’m very much interested in the live show and I’ll love to be among the guests 😎😎

[@Pbaby.]

CANT WAIT FOR THE LIVESHOW!! WOULD DEFINITELY lOVE TO BE THERE!!💃🏽

[@Emmrys-lyceum]

Guys should just work their way to the top. Once you get there, these ladies are easy. They break rules for the top guys.

[@Storycrier]

Fact 💯

[@lotannanwajagu561]

Naomi's views and reasonings are crazily poor. So much interests on wealth, status and connections. Wealth, status, to her makes some men more superior than the rest. Forgetting that she can be a Davido or Ooni's wife without peace of mind. Omo if you dont have peace of mind with your partner, partner's family and friends, wealth, status or connections will mean nothing. Solomon had it all but still called them vanity. I see her having heart breaks back to back bc of her views or school of thoughts

[@osaretinaghahowa4359]

I feel like Naomi is thy one person that decides to disagree with everyone to add spice to the podcast 😅 Because I don’t want to believe that she actually thinks that way

[@ivieeva6166]

I wish Naomi isn't what she talks about, otherwise, I would say that's why she's still single.

[@JR-ek4xy]

Her mindset is concerning..... I hope she finds a rich man "that will be loyal to her"

[@lotannanwajagu561]

@@osaretinaghahowa4359 oh well, true but that definitely affect how people see her. People already see her as gullible

[@wisdomfoleyawudi4631]

Naomi fail to put her point about Davido across well but I totally get her point. What she actually trying to say about how some men of status can be excused is that, its like a pain threshold, everybody has a limit to the amount pain they can tolerate. Its the same with a man's resistance to women, you can resist women to a point but sometimes it's beyond you. Now the number and caliber of women who through themselves at a man of status if far more than a 9 to 5 average Joe so that increases the probability of the man of status cheating. So for a man of status even if you're loyal and principled, there are times you may fall. That is why prominent men cheat with prominent pastors being no exception. If a 1000 women throw themselves at davido every day and only 1 girl throws herself at the average Joe, As for the average joe what is his excuse as to why he couldn't resist.

[@emekaigwe1261]

Topmost important: communication is key

[@rexzixtus4602]

Husband material God bless you for me abeg, I love your sense of reasoning I love you bro 💯❤️

[@naomiabumere1624]

I love Toun, such an intelligent young lady🥰

[@makuochiijeh4958]

She is intelligent. Her views are always balanced. I love her too

[@davidanthony7684]

@Shazzling really Preety and brilliant, I like her😍😍😍😍

[@isaacolawoyin2059]

This Naomi babe Dull......chaaaaiiiiiii

[@maryamoyizasalau]

Can't wait for the live show,very interested ✅✅✅✅

[@Its_superdave09]

This episode is so hilarious Really enjoyed the conversation & the different submissions But my take is this, yes, the percentage of desperation to be hooked is on the female side but with unrealistic standards, if we want to be fair with ourselves Thanks for brightening the mood for 21 straight weeks Amazing podcast For the live show, would be happy to be among Cheers!

[@ohioborgladys7360]

Jasmine is so vast, i love her

[@cin157169able]

Yea I wanna chime in ooo

[@kingsleyugochukwu1708]

Enjoying this content

[@dorcasonyinye7898]

Nedu wan kee me😂😂😂😂😂 on that virgin part🤣🤣🤣

[@chinonsoclement4187]

Biko I would really love to been in d live episode but for now am out of Lagos I really don’t know how possible it’s can be for me and again when is season 3 starting I don’t think I can stay weeks without listening to u guyz

[@augustinenzeako4654]

My frankly speaking family always making my day

[@ebukajohnogar450]

Nice topic loading

[@gbidemi1]

I'm addicted to this podcast channel.

[@Waa_nne]

Naomi my girl I love the way your mind works, nedu e wu daddy