Woman Shares Her Crazy Ex Story Time - Must Watch

Part 2: • Woman Shares Her Crazy...

[@stilljocelyn_]

Sis first mistake was being an off and on girlfriend for seven years.

[@nothereyetlost]

No her first mistake is staying with a shitty dude who cheats

[@maryfields877]

Yikes! Sis didn't know her worth!

[@em.415]

First mistake was working two jobs when he had none. She was pulling the weight for both. Too many black women are ok with this. 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@nothereyetlost]

@@em.415 no her first mistake was staying with him knowing he is shitty

[@dangermauz754]

I think a "first mistake" video series needs to be created. 😅

[@em.415]

“I was working two jobs at the time. He didn’t have one.” Now that’s where I need to stop you sis. 😂

[@melodyreyneofficial]

lmaoooo

[@judithgrace9850]

You were the fool.

[@ctibaga]

lo. So true.

[@masixchell]

Right?! 😵‍💫🤯

[@tashawilliams8093]

💯

[@fivemargaritasonly]

Her mother is male identified. The way she didn't see the problem with him sending her that stuff and shit talking her daughter is crazy. I understand why this lady ended up with that loser. But I'm not surprised.

[@nothereyetlost]

Yes that. Like she didn’t raise this daughter for decades before he met her and shouldn’t know her daughter better than the ninja

[@blaqwabbit]

Right she didn't even ask her daughter a single question she immediately disowned her because what? She's being sexual with men like she was designed to be. Man worship.

[@blaqwabbit]

@@Hybrid_vigour so are men who take sympathize with and stand up for other men simply off the strength of being men, gay as well?

[@marethahoneyb1541]

@@blaqwabbit🤣🤣🤣The funny thing is these dudes can’t see how gay they are when they do this n he thought he was saying something 🤣

[@marethahoneyb1541]

Any woman who buys those words that preacher preaches from that pulpit out of that bible will always be male identified, the bible conditions women to be doormats to men n black folks to be doormats to wh!tes n we have thousands upon thousands of black ministers pushing this agenda every Sunday while they hand around that tray

[@embluvya]

This is why you never give a man your nudes, no matter how much you love or trust him, no matter if he's a bf or a husband. No pictures, no videos, NOTHING. They will never delete it, and they will use it to blackmail you. They turn really sadistic when you break up. They will ruin your life given the chance.

[@toscadonna]

Yep. Never take any nudes unless Hugh Hefner is paying you for them. Males will literally keep pictures and letters from women 25 years ago. My best friend is dealing with this now.

[@nener5441]

So so true! Thank God daily for never sharing any nudes or videos because the idiot was threatening to showcase nudes that didn’t exist.

[@Oll_704]

Yup found too many stashes that people shouldn’t of had.

[@tosinakin2508]

​@@Oll_704I hope you deleted every one

[@ARCHOUSE5150]

I look through dudes phones and delete nudes.

[@chitowntexan]

NO! The lesson is.....NEVER GO BACK & PUT YOUR TRUST IN SOMEONE THAT HAS ALREADY PROVEN THEY DON'T LOVE/LIKE YOU!!! Why in the world would she allow him back in her space!? Omg 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@ashleymandigo4406]

What is with WOMEN'S MOTHER'S helping a man spite and hurt HER DAUGHTER

[@kikipearce]

The toxicity... Ladies and gentlemen, please work on your self-worth and self-esteem. If you can't love you, you couldn't possibly love someone else

[@MonochromaticBlues]

ha sometimes these people have so much bad intention that they'll hurt you because their level of self esteem was low. Then they'll plot to destroy her.

[@cosmosadorabilis7677]

I dearly loved people when I didn't love myself.

[@Liz-wz8dh]

Amen to this. This is a level of toxicity that is absolutely dangerous.

[@fitp74]

The fact that she’s alive is a blessing. This man was sent out to destroy her. Imagine the financial loss and the trauma. I swear once I stopped caring about men and actually focus on myself I’ve been at peace.

[@jlcii]

... this is why I have not been in a hurry to get back out and date. Hell no

[@ninilove2211]

They could've killed someone driving as crazy as she said they did. I dont know why she thinks its funny because it's not. She seemed to enjoy this disfunctional relationship. So sad.

[@elizekelly]

Sis is gorgeous. Hopefully she is a bit more grown and mature now so she isn't doing any of this nonsense anymore.

[@CuratedVibes]

The girl telling the story about her boyfriend, she seemed like she enjoyed the chaos. I cant take her serious. Im sick of these women who thrive off drama and just use it for a good story time. Its not cute or entertaining. Its dangerous.

[@HaHa-lx9yo]

Girl, I thought I was the only one to find her iffy and off putting. Maybe I missed something but she said she gave her ex the keys to her apartment when she went to Spain despite all that dysfunction. I’m like why???

[@aliciaa927]

I promise I was just thinking this. I didn't laugh not one time. She knew what kind of man she has/had and she continues to deal with it. It's sad....

[@lewid019]

​@@aliciaa927it's called conditioning. Heck she's from a religious back ground. We're supposed to fix these bummy men.

[@shaolinqueen3684]

A lot of women love drama and toxicity. Then they cry victim. They aren't victims, they are participants and ring leaders of their lives. Most women are NEVER to be trusted. I don't have grace for women because they are the drama they complain about.

[@brittaniquehoneyghan]

Y’all clearly don’t know jack about trauma responses and coping mechanisms smh.

[@jessikajane4967]

WHY WOULD SHE DO ANY OF THIS?!🤯 Ladies, don't EVER let your EGO put you in and keep you in an unsafe situation. From the very beginning, in the very first situation, the fact that she heard everything was said was the blessing. She could have moved in silence and left when she was off from work and he wasn’t home. Low self-esteem, low self-worth, and dysfunction seems to be her cycle. The laughing and not acknowledging the seriousness of the danger and level of dv she was in is why alot of young ladies think these situations are "cute" and normal.

[@misslola007]

Feels like she was enjoying all of that. Ugh. I agree with you 💯.

[@elizekelly]

So if she was on here bawling her eyes out and snot running all over the place, would that make you feel better?

[@Ms_BeMe]

Look, I understand what you are saying and you are correct in how she moved was not good, but she is learning. This is her story and her life lesson. What I have recently learned is that everyone experience on Earth is different and that's how it supposed to be. The things the Creator wants me to learn is not what you are suppose to learn...everyone is different. What I'm strong in, you may not be strong in. Let her have her experience, just encourage her to be wiser and smarter in her decision making. Not to judge her!!!

[@pausedforcyberbullying_]

​@@elizekellyno. it's okay to be upset or even done wrong it happens to the best but let no one waste your time it will mess up your life more then you ever know. chaotic people are not only blocking your blessings they can ruin you sometimes for life. having to call the cops in your relationship is way too normlized it's not a good sign though it can lead to you or him going to prison, injuries, fatality. You get things because they're yours and your peace women will get their hard work and peace and move in a narcissist becuase of single women bashing. It's not her or her story they don't like just showing where women tend to mess up.

[@IndependentPrettyGirlis]

Yes!! 💯 She needs help and therapy

[@stephaniemyrealtor8141]

She literally demonstrated what not to do after a break up, she demonstrated a high level of stupidity and immature behavior. She’s also lucky to be alive. Don’t let someone tell you, they don’t like you more than once. Hopefully she has learned.

[@racheluk87]

She's just as crazy as he is. Seems like a perfect match 🙄

[@bellaapple2166]

I couldn't get past the first couple minutes. I don't like drama, I don't even want anyone coming to me with these type of stories. I'm reading the comments to see who feels the same way I do. This is just no.

[@Rice10120]

She heard that man and he showed her exactly how he felt about her and she fully participated. She's no victim, she's an idiot.

[@elizekelly]

She can be both at once. Y'all really don't have compassion for black women. Cassi is also no victim but yet everyone has empathy for her.

[@Rice10120]

@elizekelly She has a mental health illness. She needs to go to therapy and stay away from males, but I bet that she won't. She will continue to blame everyone else and be a victim.

[@jessikajane4967]

She was a victim, I just don't understand WHY she even moved across the country with this man in the first place. I'm more frustrated at each turn it getting worse and instead of getting out, she spent money to go to Barcelona🤯 That kind of blows my mind the most. She's a beautiful young lady and I hope she heals before getting into another relationship.

[@beverlyhouston9574]

This is narcissistic behavior people like this are the ones who get their loved ones killed by these dangerous narcissists men you here about it in the news family members killed didn’t know about the drama but to hurt her they kill family.

[@beverlyhouston9574]

To many times I’ve heard in this story she could have put the key in the apartment when she saw him leave or in the mailbox she mentioned there was leave blocked his number put a camera in her car,no contact ever spoke to parents no contact with him get restraining orders for both you ,them go seek counseling for self learn why you enjoy this drama cause you do,hope you get better Before we her about you,your parents death this is real you can’t take it back you didn’t know this could happen.

[@ysuelt9116]

Yeah sis this ain't it. Maybe its just me but it seems like she likes the dysfunction. There we so many instances where she could have chosen to just walk away and let that mess of a man be but no...oh well.

[@nubiankhaleesi2945]

I feel exactly the same way. This was unnecessary!!!

[@hubabaloop]

Oh well fs lol

[@thebrownblossom8683]

Why didn’t she just drive straight to a police station?

[@dinkyboss]

Because her IQ is cheese doodle

[@ibuymyownroses]

I follow her and I love the way she tells a story! She’s so entertaining 😂 but this ish sounds extremely toxic and abusive. Glad she’s in a better place

[@dinkyboss]

She seems very low vibrational to me but each their own 😅

[@itsmytimeJai]

What's her tictok

[@ibuymyownroses]

@@itsmytimeJai damnmindy

[@wandat46]

​@@dinkybosstoo much drama, that she's implicit in.

[@gabriellehanks6850]

Stop spinning the block with dudes ladies and never "date" any man for 7 years🤨

[@briannadickson2884]

She could explain long division and I'd be at the edge of my seat 😂

[@copiouscat]

Sameeee lmao

[@naturallytajy973]

It’s the fact that she took him in when he was down and when it was her turn he shut that shit down. What a slap in the face

[@user-xx4nm3mz4p]

I surmise that she met him when she was too young to be with an older guy. I love the way that she’s telling this story. I’m on the edge of me seat. I was young and dumb too, and that’s why I give young women Grace. God gave me Grace and Mercy and Favor. Live and Learn.

[@dionneayanna5215]

The way she was feeding into and living for the drama 😒

[@SassShea]

This story irritated the LIFE BLOOD from me.

[@kayabe856]

A beautiful black woman who doesn’t know her worth. 😢

[@bestlife9143]

Very sad

[@user-wl3lv8lx2u]

She’s the crazy one, he’s the dangerous one smh She’s a good storyteller though- she conveyed her DV love affair in a very attention grabbing, suspense filled way. I was scared the whole time thinking she was gonna be pow-powed or something. Glad she’s out of that and hope she never finds herself in that situation again- she may not be as lucky.

[@Balgees24]

This what's happened when we don't get treatment for our own childhood. So we could identify those toxic people from the start and cut it.

[@jessikajane4967]

Yes! This comment right here is truth! We all need to work on our childhood trauma (big T or little t), mommy issues, daddy issues, and self-worth before getting into relationships.

[@Balgees24]

@jessikajane4967 Thearpy should be our friend always.

[@noniboo1521]

Ladies, look what we do to ourselves. 😢

[@lostandfond2163]

I’m not gonna judge the young lady, we’ve all made mistakes. BUT I hope she’s does learn from this, and her attitude about the story, I hope is her just laughing at her old situation and acknowledging the absurdity of it all. I take this as a cautionary tale. 1st mistake: gave him a chance when you have 2 jobs and he has one. Bare minimum is At least having a job. ESPECIALLY IF YOU HAVE 2 2nd mistake: staying when he lied about having a seizure, he sounds like a pathological liar. 3rd mistake: putting yourself through all this misery, why? To keep a man??? Absolutely not! Ladies when a relationship is causing you this much distress and drama ITS NEVER WORTH IT!!!!

[@marethahoneyb1541]

Agree

[@Sunny-tc3ul]

Not like this. I break up ain’t no coming back to me.

[@Carmen698]

Sorry i am going to have to agree with the others in this comment section. I am confused why she took him back after she over heard the conversation he was having with his friends. He basically said how he felt about her. I would have just quietly gone home packed all my stuff and left. I certainly wouldn't have given him any indication that i overheard the conversation. I also would have had the police with me when he got home so I could collect my cellphone.

[@Bald.Lady.Crone.]

None of this is funny and for her to be laughing shows she needs mental help. Her parents are her number 1 enemies. She needs to get deep therapy this is insane and disrespectful!

[@vonnii1013]

This is a cautionary tale...I know people are clowning her but I also know alot of us have played the fool....so I say again....CAUTIONARY TALE

[@BrookeKnits]

Thank you for sharing this. This is funny because she made it out but she was keeping herself in a dangerous situation. People need to learn to walk away and parents need to raise their children to expect better.

[@em.415]

Willing to bet she grew up watching toxic relationship dynamics with her parents. It’s normalized to them.

[@deaundramoon5042]

That’s why her parents believed him instead of her.

[@kennyav25]

She should've called the police from the get go, gather her stuff and leave him. Decenter men from your life ladies!!

[@manarcabrera2528]

No judgement on your mom. I’m sorry you had to endure that. I hope you got a restraining order against him.

[@levelupgoddess9289]

This woman’s story was🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯. So happy it worked out for her and that her co-worker. She needs to go sell her story to Hollywood.🤯🤯🤯🤯

[@nataliesparks4829]

moral of the story. stay celibate never move in with a man date multiple men at the same time, you are single until married decenter men from your life have female friends focus on your career invest in your family friends and community only man you desperately need in your life is Jesus Christ, he is literally the bread of life and the living water (and so much more❤)

[@OE2023]

She seems as mad as him tbh 🙃🤣 But she's funny!

[@reinventedxx]

This is insane

[@J.a.z.z.y.]

I’m 13:00 mins in and I’m exhausted 😩. She lost me 72 scenarios ago. Like yea the guy wasn’t a good guy but also, she… is a lot 🥴. Yes, she’s a good storyteller but it seems to me like she’s a dramatic person irl.

[@the_classy_crackhead]

See I’m unstable, the first time he played in my face nobody would’ve found him till the snow melted

[@EI_24]

👀👀👀😂😂😂😂😂🤣

[@clc5819]

💀🤣🤣🤣

[@Muchloviess]

Me too, glad I’m not in a relationship 😂🥴💀

[@user-ep6od8gf5x]

Sis is a great narrator…please hurry up with part two…!!!

[@DestinyUteh]

Part 2 is up already

[@queenreg7]

I hate this and at the same time can’t stop watching this dumpster fire. She tells a great story.

[@funshinebear4822]

I sincerely hope she's learned from this. She's beautiful and I hope she has learned to recognize her worth 😢

[@theanimator85]

I was wondering who puts up with such an abuser, then she told the story about her mom and I understood. Children of abuse will grow up so damaged that they'll think of abuse as a form of love.

[@capricornus89]

I know exactly what it is to be with a narcissist. That shit sucks.

[@MagicTruffle3045]

It's the way she told the story for me 😅 but these events were life threatening! I pray she's learned from this and doesn't get involved with another man like this, period. And sis needs therapy too for the way she handled some things because 😮

[@marethahoneyb1541]

She’s a great storyteller sadly the story almost ended tragically he was very dangerous, I was able to clearly see like the rest of us all the times she should had washed her hands clean of him forever never allowing him to even have access to her for them to get back together however hindsight’s 20/20 I pray she never allows another ninja to ever have the opportunity to mistreat her ever again

[@BeautifulStranger]

Omg.....how she's even on TikTok after all of that is just....Wow. Damn. Its obvious he was very jealous of her from the start. To have stayed as long as she did, was her very first mistake.

[@TheShePill]

Chile, she is just as crazy as him. Probably why they lasted so long. Those toxic relationships ain't it. I don't need anyone pulling the crazy out of me. I'm too cute for jail.

[@vonettawilson687]

This was foolishness she should have left work early. Took an Uber or called family or friends to pick her up at this place. Called the cops while she was there packing her things. Because after she found out she didn't have her keys. She knew it was going to be drama. After she had her things packed, get out of there. When he got home and she didn't come home that night from work. And all her things were gone from that place. He would have known what time it was. The following day, call the cops again and have them meet you at that property. Get your keys from this man and walk away. LADIES, STOP BEING FOOLISH. In case you have not noticed, men are un-aliving women for much less. STOP GETTING IN YOUR EMOTIONS AND PUTTING YOUR LIVES IN DANGER. Think before you do. I didn't finish the video because all I could see was a hurt woman not thinking. You are dealing with a man who doesn't want you. He is extremely dangerous to you.

[@marissa._]

So...she was talking shit about him in a group chat because according to her, "he deserved it" and she's mad that he was talking shit about her to his friends??? 🤔 She's mad at him for doing nothing differently than what she initially did??? 😕 Edit: He's the dangerous toxic one and she's the crazy one! This whole situation was toxic! Her mother is toxic as f***, the guy is toxic and abusive as f***.... She was with him on and off for 7 years, they BOTH talked shit about each other behind one another's backs, she was isolated because she moved across state lines from everything and everyone she knew, this is so toxic and abusive! Ladies, STAY SINGLE! Its safer, its more peaceful, there's more benefits, pets are amazing, the list goes on!

[@JettSettingBengal]

Her story was annoying and very avoidable. Why would you keeps this druma going for 6 years. Why would you go drop off keys in person to someone who put hands on you multiple times? She likes the drama smh

[@user-dc4cm8nz1f]

She is an awesome storyteller. I was right there with her. Yes. Part 2, please.

[@DestinyUteh]

Part 2 is up

[@vondae00]

OH MY GOD lmfaooo she has a point!! the cops in LA are NEVER around when you do something purposely illegal because it'll be your saving grace. It's like they can sense the help needed and go on break or something

[@free9884]

She’s messy asf tho 😢… how do you run 🏃 home just to stay and additionally go through his phn after she was totally clowned then let him move in again and again? Nah nope she’s apart of the problem

[@gata1887]

She is hurt, I get it but most of her issues came from their pettiness. It seems they both wanted to one-up each other and they just made everything sooo messy and honestly seemed dumb. They just need to grow the hell up!

[@nothereyetlost]

It’s not the pettiness that’s totally fine, but its the inability to separate from him. You can one up someone and still cut them off. Apparently she can’t

[@Victoria-AI]

She brought it on herself. That relationship should have been over before year one.. She saw the toxicity and embraced it year after year. I believe she enjoyed the drama.

[@ImagineWrong]

Lol she's a great story teller. I been through something similar when I was younger. I can laugh about it now 😂

[@nothereyetlost]

Yes Ruth you were younger and didn’t know this was abuse. She’s old enough to know better.

[@ImagineWrong]

@@nothereyetlost I assumed the story was from when she was younger too. But hey 🤷🏾‍♀️ you don't really know till you been through it. Glad I got it out the way early

[@gimmebackmyarm]

SAME

[@nothereyetlost]

@@ImagineWrong oh you think it was from when she was really younger? I assume it was 5yrs ago. Should’ve been old enough to know better

[@DestinyUteh]

Am glad you can laugh about it now 🤎🤎

[@TinfoilHatGirl]

I am sorry but she seems to enjoy her drama. Why after all that happened (at least from what I understood) why did her ex still have access to call and harrass her? Why weren't all communication channels blocked? Go figure.

[@Confessions089]

Even if you do all of that, they can still stalk you and find a way to get a hold of you.

[@cyrillaayoma5549]

Yawa

[@ohthechitchat]

My condolences to the mother who had to witness the absolute idiocy of her daughter. There is nothing after 'I put him on the lease after a week' that made sense or was his responsibility. She knew what she was sleeping with.

[@stilljocelyn_]

I need her and dude to get back together and save the rest of us from their madness.!

[@nothereyetlost]

Lol 😂😂😂😂😂

[@jacquelynsharp9354]

Stop hating on her!!!!that man is evil😢❤

[@cosmosadorabilis7677]

She clearly comes from disfunction. The way she laugh recalling her crying when her mother beat her, was sad and disturbing. (yes this is very prevalent in the BC, I know and I hate it). And not her making excuses for her mother too! Her mama should have spoken to her first. Not take that guy for his word.

[@CosmicGlitterGoddess]

Soooo… the only reason I made it through 15 minutes of this, mess, is because I was in a dungeon on my mmorpg, and I would’ve gotten booted. Needless to say, I have an excruciating headache at this point. I hope she has learned her lesson, and ladies watching this has learned from, so as not to create anymore headaches. I’m going back to my game now. 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@just1desi]

She's beautiful. And utterly stupid. Lucky to be alive. Should have done this and that is a hard thing to say but lady he told you he hated you from the jump but you dived into the abuse

[@ShellzC63]

The madness!!! I’m glad she can laugh about now. I can’t wait for part 2!

[@DestinyUteh]

Part 2 is up already

[@TruestLovely]

🫤 Kind of seems like a water seeking its level story....Her trying to act unbothered is not believable. This story should have ended after she ran to his house In the kitten heels 🙁 Her parents were kind of raggedy for abandoning their daughter. They seemed religious 🙄but gave her no self love, common sense skills. This story was a lot and not in a good way. She is Beautiful and I hope she really finds her self worth.

[@clc5819]

It definitely should've been over after the friend let her move in. Also why is there no response in those text messages she showed?? 🙄🤔

[@TheShePill]

Guh my mom would NEVER. With minimum info my mom is on MY SIDE TF. 8 months no talking. Nope. I hope she learned her lesson. These men are out here being whole VILLAINS. This that struggle love.

[@beeautifuldreamer2211]

This whole thing reminded me of that movie enough she should turn this into a movie I'd watch it. On a more serious note it's Six Flags over here with all the red flags waving everywhere. For the people saying she should've just left she did and he still harassed her. Then her mom seemed like she had more loyalty to him than her own daughter with parents like that I can see why this relationship happened in the first place. I hate she had to go through all that to learn a valuable lesson about self love and her safety. ❤

[@Ladybugseason]

They sound equally yoked to me.

[@THEdemetrishigashikata]

I too have had a crazy ex. It's truly freaky because it's like that lady's sense of boundaries fell away and she would stop at nothing to get to me I remember it was freshman yr of college and she would wait outside my window, had to call the police

[@ivyseabreeze]

@DoctorRamani needs to do a video on this woman’s story.

[@DestinyUteh]

Who is that

[@beautyininsanity421]

​@@DestinyUtehAn expert on narcissism and narcissistic abuse here on KZbin.

[@rayofgoldensun]

"I had a choice to make and I did... I chose violence" yes, and it's apparent in this ENTIRE story, beloved. She likes this, it seems.

[@tiffanypayne6124]

Girl, your low self-esteem is showing.🧐💯

[@DestinyUteh]

I don’t think is self-esteem. I think it’s deeper than that

[@DaintyAbby]

They are cut from a similar cloth imo 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@brandy4530]

What the hell did I just listen to?

[@ntombenkosimamani4805]

I've been irritated by a stranger like this. I don't even feel bad for her for all that drama she put herself through. Nonsense!!!

[@shhhperry9852]

This woman, her story and her man are all TOXIC… this is further proof that toxic people attract other toxic people. This woman seems to enjoy the drama and she went back several times. Lady you are no victim… you are a willing participant at this point.

[@legslikewhoa]

They seem equally yoked.

[@brooksiedoodle5087]

She made a whole lot of terrible choices. I don't understand her behavior unless she's addicted to drama. Who tf gets into a high speed chase on the streets of L.A.???

[@SLees-tv7gh]

She lost me with working two jobs while he worked none. Where they do that@Smh

[@mufferducker822]

Getting back together after finding out he's cheating and after a physical fight is straight up mental. I'm trying to understand but I can't.

[@mariee3658]

She’s like my sister absolutely loves drama because they are so troubled inside low self esteem/self worth and need any type of validation even if it’s chaotic yet always complaining like they’re tired yet keep feeding into it. Its sad to see but they think it’s fun and exciting to be toxic

[@joyceg7859]

She said “I need you to go to Brooklyn”biiiiish not TONIGHT ! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@leveticus1461]

Am i supposed to be rooting for her? Disgusting. She's just as bad as he 8s. Gossipping about his dusty behind to her friends instead of leaving him. They are each other's equals. And her mother is an dumbo for believing him without confirming with her daughter. Gross.

[@carmelcutie1991]

No. Yea she talked shit. But he lied to her mom, stole her apartment, vandalized her car several times. Lies to her mom again, lied to the police. He's an actual sociopath! She's just dumb but he's an actual threat!

[@tosinakin2508]

​@@carmelcutie1991This right here. I'm tired of people acting like foolish actions are on the same level as legitimate crimes. One of these things is not like the other.

[@clc5819]

​@@carmelcutie1991Yeah but she also admits she was violent towards him hence why she said she doesn't condone dv

[@leveticus1461]

@@clc5819 Exactly, they are both toxic. His action are obviously worse but she's not great of a human either.

[@qn7403]

She was addicted to his toxicity because she was toxic too

[@Lastdayone]

Smh little sis, why would you call him back to let him know you knew? You should go gather your items in secret. Move in silence to avoid violence.

[@Liz-wz8dh]

Mindy's story was wild as hell. This woman knows how to tell a story.

[@Lastdayone]

This was too much. Men only do this because they know you have low self esteem. A lot of women think that if they are abusive back, that equates to them being strong. Hear me clearly ladies, a strong woman walks away. Going around in traffic, running through the hallway is wild. But she looks like she’s in her 20’s. I’m telling you, if you’re half the woman you think you are, just leave. Your absence will be far more painful. But I think he really hurt her feelings when he said he didn’t like her.any woman that loves herself would have just left immediately.

[@kaym7704]

Gurl…when a tornado meets a volcano…you just as crazy going back with him. You is CRAZY!

[@cutietae247]

She made bad decision after bad decision…. Whatever girl

[@hrf1954]

You can tell she enjoys the toxicity. This story is embarrassing

[@stilljocelyn_]

I’m halfway thru this video and this lady is a bird. Her and dude sound equally yoked. 🐦🐦

[@raynebow5289]

Stories like these are the best birth control and single household remedies. I am saddened by how many of us are suffering through abusive relationships and don’t even know it 😢

[@krhoomes22]

This is an upgraded meaning of toxic!

[@GentleBreeze-ib9dz]

She though she ate with this story but really she's trash. I'm just glad no kids were involved.

[@itsmytimeJai]

I hope she gets the healing she needs. While he was dangerous and toxic...she too was toxic .

[@itsmytimeJai]

And her is a weirdo and sad ...these african diaspora mothers are for the devil smh. It doesn't matter ..everyday of the week you're her daughter. Smh

[@itsmytimeJai]

And how did he know where you lived when you didn't even have ol girl address until that night. SO why did you tell him where you were ?

[@adfmo2195]

This is painful to listen to. I couldn't even make it past the first 9 minutes. We all need to heal so we can be better in order to choose better.

[@sekinab.3329]

I can’t imagine being a friend watching this woman participate in this nonsense. This was so difficult to watch. The story was dramatic enough without her exaggerated commentary. She almost sounds proud at times. Girl it’s time to work on your self worth.

[@MonochromaticBlues]

Dude this story gave my stomach butterflies.