DeStorm, Ryan Davis, Ayona The Artist & Ebonique! | Double Standards | Funny Advice EP 8

Advice is hard to swallow, so comedy is the perfect chaser for a shot of truth!
On this talk show, we feature popular comedians and funny creators by having panel discussions on life’s biggest and smallest issues!
Hosted by comedian Cynthia LuCiette, FUNNY ADVICE gives viewers a seat at the comedy table.
We authentically talk about everything...no topic is off limits or uncomfortable to address in the most hilarious way!
We give advice on everything from “Letting Go Of Failed Friendships” to “Getting Your Job Back”
Every episode you get to listen to hilarious takes on Work, Life, Love, Money Tips, Staying
Fit and more!
Host: Cynthia Luicette @cynthialuciette
Cast:
DeStorm @DeStorm
Ryan Davis @WithAllDueOffense
Ayona The Artist @ayonatheartist
Ebonique
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[@sagatvegagouki]

Ryan always dropping truth bombs...he don't miss lol

[@realboy6256]

Top tier 💯

[@DCHRShow]

Yea Ryan that boy

[@isaiahfrazier4176]

He really do!

[@isaiahfrazier4176]

This sh*t needs to be on TV somewhere.

[@rizz2302]

Yeah his perspective be on point

[@AviaryAviles159]

“I can tell by her forehead her second language is echo location.” 🔊 🐬 -Kraig Smith

[@lashaybassil3051]

That is the same girl 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@AviaryAviles159]

@@lashaybassil3051 nah lol the other one had a bigger fivehead, like huge fam lol

[@MrColatown]

Kraig was roasting a comedian named Heniya.

[@j.r09160]

Cynthia looking like an entire meal every episode without fail 👌🏿

[@she_lovesbillz]

Nah for real tho

[@PatrickLodge-nn4vz]

Fine asf

[@cj10109]

Where has destorm been?! I haven’t seen him in forever! Ryan gives the honest truth no matter the topic 😂😂

[@Blackelangelo]

Ryan Davis is my guy! If he's in it, I'm definitely here for it. The truths and the comedy.

[@balloonmanalvinpitts]

Ain't nothing funny about how messed up these double standards that have some people locked up.

[@Murda2Wayz]

Shorty with the Afro ain’t say 2 words

[@clayb5266]

Men are loved conditionally not unconditionally. 🤷🏾‍♂️. A king will marry a peasant and make her a queen.. a Queen will never give the peasant the time of day.

[@blairwalker12]

The whole double standards boil's down to power. Find where your power lies, but know you can't own all power in all Facets.

[@777ynk]

Ryan got that bottomless duffle and hes ALWAYS IN IT

[@ghettonerdtrey2486]

This episode is ironically posted after the Angel Reese, Caitlyn Clark situation and how there was double standards there. Good episode!

[@mical2great]

Why do i have to be support you financially and mentally BEFORE you open up your femininity 😂

[@SaboTajDaDon]

But he’s NOT wrong tho! ☠️🤷🏾💯

[@JGspeakss]

So I'm 14 minutes in and so far the realest conversation I've heard between black men and black women in a long time

[@2ToTheDome]

These are the kinda healthy conversations we need to be having on a daily. its good mental excercise and helps with us all understanding one another as a whole. 💪🏾💪🏾 Love yall

[@mefilmmaking]

DeStorm been solid for ages 💯

[@JoFlirt]

So glad destorm stood up to denounce the feminist perspective that wants no accountability and selective respect. Ryan should know better

[@gabrielcaminero9855]

I love Defiant digital I can’t get enough of y’all!!!! 😂😂😂

[@PrydeWater901]

Ebonique’s energy screams that a male friend has no shot. Ayona, on the other hand, seems that she would string a dude along as long as she benefits from the relationship. I could be wrong.

[@JoFlirt]

Ryan talked with two tongues. He been simping then want to agree with destorm.

[@richardchamberlain6815]

Glad Ayona went from being the bartender to main guess panel. She should have been on the panel with Karlos Miller, Tangerine and the others.

[@DJ-wu9yi]

Hella random: where are the damn coasters?!?! lol

[@DEFIANTDIGITAL]

🤣

[@c0wboys4life]

Cyn be stepping out with the fits when she get on this show 👀

[@DEFIANTDIGITAL]

🔥🔥🔥

[@PrydeWater901]

Why would she not?!?! 💯

[@jaredcoleman2545]

The last episode was too heavy!! lmao Yall had to release this asap. I love it

[@cynthialuciette]

We do try to balance it out 😂💜💚

[@jshyne111]

​@@cynthialuciette I think that last episode was on point tbh, I didn't find it too heavy. Appreciate it.

[@jaredcoleman2545]

@@cynthialuciette Keep it up. I'm loving it. Byron Scott had a show similiar to this. ijs. People love to see comedians as regular people.

[@staymadloser7754]

The fact women say getting ready is a job, but the guy had to get ready to. Lol that’s funny

[@johnnyseville8073]

There's no such thing as a Double Standard between men and women because that would imply that men and women are the same when we aren't.

[@senorsavage8702]

Can there be a double standard between races?

[@johnnyseville8073]

@@senorsavage8702 of course

[@senorsavage8702]

@@johnnyseville8073So if there can be a double standard between races who are not the same, then why cant there be a double standard between men and women?

[@johnnyseville8073]

@@senorsavage8702 when it comes to race we are all one race, the human race to begin with, that are genetically assigned to different ethnicities/cultures and certain people weaponize ethnicities/culture to justify a double standard but certain roles that men and women inherently hold makes us different as men and women. The pride, ego and disrespect from a lot of men make workplaces unequal as far as pay, respect and titles when women are more than capable of facilitating those roles in which double standards applied.

[@JehRoniMo11]

​@@johnnyseville8073🤔

[@sixtysecondsorless602]

"idk man, I just got too emotional..." to the depths with you! - I knew this was going to be classic, Ryan was in the opening trailer and opening question.

[@Yourfavorite-cx6jz]

ayona with the flirtatious pick me laugh.😂😂😂

[@caliboyyswag]

Even though the "advice" is opinionated, the ability to relate to other people is cool. Like knowing that a stranger can have the same thought process as me.

[@williamjackson1820]

They could have kept Ayona at the bar….putting them sentences together was hurting sis brain

[@antoineb9371]

😂😂😂

[@jefferybellamy7695]

She talk with her eyes and smile.

[@Thrui]

It seems that for a society that says "I dont care what nobody thinks about me" more often than naught, women tend to not be able to not hear what they think people are saying about em

[@Thrui]

Or, rather, men care more what their friends and family say but women care more a out what everybody says collectively

[@bmillz8982]

This is sooooo good on sooooo many levels. ❤❤❤❤

[@traviswhetstone8966]

Ryan is the smart asf his knowledge is beyond the others in the video no cap

[@TwistedBagel7]

Why y’all got the bartender serving one drink at a time 😂

[@AngeloGiles]

Y'all were speaking straight facts this episode, double standards will always be a thing at the end of the day though, great episode!

[@YoungnFly09]

Ryan a legend in these shows for sure..

[@coreyjohnson5260]

This show is so great 💪🏆

[@CamaroThings]

Cynthia... I nearly went off in the comments about the whole "Men get to have as much sex as they want" when more than 40% of men don't even get any... Then I realized it was in reference to us being socially allowed to have as much as we want and I calmed down.

[@cynthialuciette]

Lmaoooo dangggg let me finish the sentence before you get triggered hahaha

[@EpicSavage718]

Tbh its because its expected of men to do so. Our worth is based on how many women we can please. Or how much we can please a woman. so it becomes a “game” … a “conquest” to prove our manhood. that both men and women perpetuate it. Men are still perceived as dogs/liars/cheaters/womanizers etc. for pursuing multiple women at a time. I think to an extent because its expected; ++ men do not care to an extent what the world think of us on that end. Now granted not every man is getting sex/ its 10 times easier for women to get sex. It becomes competitive because the amount of work a man has to put in to get a woman. Romantically or Sexually. I use the house and door idea. Men are key’s. The more doors he’s able to unlock, the more valuable he is. On the flipside for women. you need a special key to unlock a specific door (women.) So yes theres no shortage of men that want women. Men will always want women (hetero / cis gender) Men = Key Women = Door A woman giving a man her body is seen as the ultimate level of respect to men. When men do the right thing by women, honestly how do women say thank you or appreciate it in action? give him the puss. (and i hate to objectify it like that) but still.

[@CamaroThings]

@@cynthialuciette don't worry Missy I still 💖 you.

[@AudioGAWD]

​@EpicSavage No one ever talks about the rest of it. Also the effort it takes to pull women as a man versus a woman pulling a man isn't really discussed much.

[@cr5cc]

​@AudioGAWD no effort at all just ask " are we fucking or not"

[@HBCU_OverDrive]

Keep up the great content 🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@michaelwilcox5168]

Finally !! A sensible conversation.

[@justjp83]

Men have to go to prison to feel what it’s like to be a women in the “FREE” world 😮 that was a bar!!!!

[@SandersAli]

How?

[@justjp83]

@@SandersAli 😂 😂 😂

[@trecartergrad10]

Literally everything the men said had 2 legs to stand on but most of the things the women said weren’t that impactful

[@AudioGAWD]

Shocking right?

[@whodat4lyfekris]

In the words of a famous comedian, *"Chivalry is dead, ya sure is and women killed it"*

[@ekowasare9458]

We really need audio only versions

[@SoloCport]

They didn’t stay on women for the even full five minutes 😂😂😂😂😂

[@Vintage27]

🔥🔥🔥 panel, great video

[@ShafferspeeksTS1]

Loving this ♦️

[@GoldCrownsouthmain]

Ayona was the bartender now shes a guest lol

[@DragonPharoh3]

Most of us place women on a pedestal anyways just change up when we realize she’s not worthy

[@duanemoody257]

Most are them are not

[@kok2805]

That baby double standard is something serious though 4real. I believe in my body my choice... But... I also believe in my wallet my choice 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@CT-hz6mz]

Amazing episode 😍

[@DEFIANTDIGITAL]

❤‍🔥

[@PrydeWater901]

First things first: If a woman can’t please herself sexually, how can a man with a completely different anatomy be expected to do so? That said, even if Cynthia was not as attractive her conversation would still be interesting.

[@sharriri3030]

And vice versa, I met a guy who doesn’t please himself at all. Sex was TRASH! So now that is an immediate NO.

[@thagrandpubah]

GET SOME DAMN COASTERS FOR THE TABLES!🤦🏽‍♂️🤦🏽‍♂️🤦🏽‍♂️ shit loud AF banging glass on the tables.

[@cynthialuciette]

That’s a hilarious observation 😂 you right …you right lol 💜💚😂

[@koolken34]

Thanks!

[@CamaroThings]

Cynthia changing the world... 1 episode of Funny Advice at a time.

[@vikingstl]

I could stare at Ebonique all day

[@courtneysmith1558]

That scenario of him having to pay for child support 2 urs after finding out the baby wasn't his. He still took care of her as a man. The toughest part is that she got on drugs and had 4 kids and he had to take custody to keep them all together. Luckily my Uncle is a stand up dude and has a 6 figure job at a TV Station he's worked for 25 yrs so he's not really hurting for money. But it was initially messed up that the mother never took custody and never told my Uncle he initially was not the Father.

[@sharriri3030]

The whole time I’m staring at sis with the beautiful Afro!!🤎🤎🤎

[@MigratewithT]

Only true @cancel court fans will get it when Ryan Davis says (it’s hilarious … hilarious haha😂)

[@DEFIANTDIGITAL]

😂😂😂

[@donttripp]

That scarface jumpsuit go hard

[@valzod3808]

Nah, whether it's your son knocking up somebody's daughter or your daughter getting knocked by somebody's son, that grand baby gonna have your dna.

[@dbears1603]

They should have mentioned the double standards of jail and prison sentences

[@IceCapNation]

W EP🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@CeoAnt804]

Ryan be having me weak every time lol

[@DEFIANTDIGITAL]

😂😂😂

[@xaviertoscano719]

When y’all gon do more of these ??

[@crystalfreddieshowreview7470]

I ❤ them superhero boots ❤❤❤

[@TuddaMan]

See I knew I like Cynthia!!! ❤❤❤ Broke boy Broke Boy yea that’s me! 😂😂😂😂

[@cynthialuciette]

😂😂😂 y’all are TONS of fun lol

[@fla1r._.]

Bring on CP more

[@ABum-nc7sb]

Only when they can lead and cover all those bases 😊

[@cynthialuciette]

🗣✨ facts!

[@BGriff-]

I LOVE Ayona’s laugh. I’d turn into a 🤡 around her!

[@itwasntme2270]

Its hard for us dudes out here 😂

[@cevaunkinney6843]

Ayona forehead is huge, thats how you know she a good woman lmaooo. Thats sign #1 🤣

[@suavecito348]

Cynthia Is DOPe AF‼️

[@cynthialuciette]

😘🥰💜

[@rellohz2755]

The dynamic is the women ask bout double standard and the guys give answers with legit logic, but the girls don’t give any good enough reason why they think certain double standards are wrong for women. The women lowkey just trying to see what the men’s opinions were

[@LionelRWilson]

Cynthia accent been getting me for years.

[@carbsvscardio5359]

1 double standard a women will deal with broke/broken men and do everything for them. But make the "good man" earn her femininity, submissiveness, and respect.

[@cynthialuciette]

Lowkey you’re kinda right 😂

[@Dasecond88]

All these years on KZbin and I finally heard a woman admit she wants to do what men do. The truth looks good on mam🙏🏿

[@Don-C.L.]

It really come down to her headspace and how spiritually and emotionally sound she truly is. Men has to be careful with who they stick their thing into, who they marry, and truly find the real version of the person he is with. You might be coming home to an Amber Heard or Casey Anthony. There's also signs there to let you know. She might trying to give you keys to her apartment on the 1st date. You might see it as fine and not realize that the situation is moving too fast. I have platonic female friends. People assume that I've either already hit that, currently hitting it, or about to. The problem comes when they realize that you aren't and that you dont want to. They assume that you're cut from a velvet cloth because of it. I'm more like the black version of Pete Davidson on the women I actually end up with and it confuses the absolute fuck out of people. Your female friends can be your greatest asset, as they have access to certain financial opportunities and things in general, as well as are able to perspectives you were unaware. A few female business partners have attempted to cross a boundary with me and very common on a film gig as a sound tech. Talent be off that Janelle Monae type shit at work! All I'm trying to do is live and let live. vibe and let vibe lol.

[@fla1r._.]

🔥🔥

[@DEFIANTDIGITAL]

🔥🔥🔥

[@duanemoody257]

Cynthia wants to be a man so bad she resents us lmaooo great episode

[@cynthialuciette]

I do love the power the world gives men 😂 I want to have the power not the Penis😂

[@whodat4lyfekris]

Don't see why, honestly 🤔

[@OfficiallyWrexx]

She lost like most modern women

[@OffTopicKamah]

I’d say men are more pleasers in the bedroom than women. Now p0rñ is a different story but women aren’t looked down if they have a bad sex game

[@lamarrf9273]

and ryan if you're too thoughtful then they think you're simple !

[@DomGio]

Cynthia damn luv when she roun 🥴

[@islandneni1829]

Yayyyyyyy

[@KingDomCame]

If we Boyz we Boyz.

[@i3sweetie88]

When is this coming back!?

[@tonismith6499]

Real people that Have respect, don't 'Want' respect, its Given to you.

[@rizz8866]

Wooooow the female mind 😂

[@artmieseelizabeth8074]

Are there no new episodes?

[@Tee_Hud12]

I thought that was a scarf on Cyn’s neck that’s her hair 😂😂😂 still fine tho! 😍

[@ofheartstheking6669]

Slip things genius

[@AntonioSneed]

Cynthia so damn fine bruh🔥🔥🔥💚💚💚

[@number5mama461]

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽❤

[@BEEZE825]

All cap!

[@doriansims23]

The host is getting personal instead of the reality of the topic 💯😂😂

[@rellohz2755]

Exactly she’s trying to get game for her to use and the men aren’t realizing she’s getting more from the conversation then what they were getting

[@ofheartstheking6669]

Over thinking well get you Everything

[@anthonyjacksonjr4812]

👀👀👀👀👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾Double Standards are tough to deal with. No doubt it. Man or woman. It doesn't matter. 🤷🏽‍♂️🤷🏽‍♂️🤷🏽‍♂️

[@kyenneyazmine23]

Ayona giving great gatsby 🥰 she and the ladies are beautiful fr ❤️

[@jamiehodges3389]

Damn, why Indiana?

[@TheHomieNess]

Why do women think all men condone cheating? As a man if my friend was cheating on his girlfriend I would not be hi fiving the guy I for sure feel bad about the girl but I’m not gonna snitch cuz that’s my boy.

[@NoSquaresAllowed574]

People in Indiana 🥹