Destroy Boys - Boyfeel (Official Music Video)

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The official music video for Destroy Boys' new single "Boyfeel" from the upcoming album 'Funeral Soundtrack #4' out August 9, 2024 on Hopeless Records!
Credits:
Destroy Boys: Alexia Roditis, Violet Mayugba, David Orozco, Narsai Malik
Director + Editor + Camera Work: Tay Allard
Creative Direction: Alexia Roditis
Hottie 1: E. Streetcar
Hottie 2: Nicky Zeal
Hottie 3: Ariel Demure
Hottie 4: Sierra Bennaton
Mixed and Produced by Carlos de la Garza
Special thanks to Cantiq and Transtape
Special thanks to you
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Lyrics:
button up my collared shirt
might fuck around and wear a skirt
darken the hair that shouldn't be there
hide your kids, best beware
get problems/weight lifted off my chest
or at least suppress until further notice
not to be contained
though i’m a fan of a boxy shape
bind me up, but not for long
adjusting to another thought, feels so wrong
men who feel femme, am i one of them?
jealous of arrows that hit the same target
do they realize that their bodies are erotic
so many things that I’d like to change
but I don’t mind if I stay the same
maybe i'm a fag instead of a dyke
maybe i'm both at the same time
bind me up, but not for long
adjusting to another thought, feels so wrong
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[@Toadmelon]

WAKE UP BABE DESTROYS BOYS UPLOADED

[@Lydilytsen]

IM AWAKEEE

[@Wormz-nc8pu]

THANKS BABE

[@themumblebrapper]

My friend and I went to see Destroy Boys at El Club in Detroit last year, and the bassist let me bum a smoke off him and the singer came out to make sure we were ok because we were the last people left and waiting for our ride. we sat and talked with her for a handful of minutes, talked music, tattoos, it was so cool. I'd been a fan for years at that point, but now I will never not be a fan after that. chillest and illest band fr. great new song.

[@crushcircuit]

the vocalist uses they/them pronouns! ^_^

[@antmaster360]

@@crushcircuitThe song is about her being confused though 🤨

[@cl0verr0ver418]

@@antmaster360them. it's about being nonbinary

[@gimmebackthenight]

​@@antmaster360whatever, their pronouns are not she/her so don't use these!

[@antmaster360]

@@cl0verr0ver418 Saying them only adds to the confusion. The confusion is called gender dysphoria I choose not to hurt her than give in to the delusion

[@JJL0v3lY]

as someone who’s parents don’t accept them, this song is a total banger‼️‼️ ily destroy boys 🗣️

[@valery-san2077]

LOL SAME

[@marsisdoingart]

Sadly this is realateable

[@JJL0v3lY]

@@marsisdoingart I have a feeling you were very happy with the album release (aaa)

[@chaos_playlists]

As someone whose been using a lot of trans tape recently and feeling very isolated about how no one else's body looks like mine the opening frames to this video made me feel such a wave of joy

[@lunatricks]

you're gonna be alright mate. hang in there. x

[@BurgerB9484]

❤

[@JoshuaXYZ]

As a parent of *two* transitioning kids, let me promise you: you are not alone. It is heartbreaking, how much pain this causes. I'm sorry it's happened to you. But you can overcome this. You can use it and become the person you were born to be--with all of the understanding, memory of pain, and transcendence that finding yourself despite such a challenge can give you. Hugs.

[@justinbradford6086]

it makes a good scarf you should try one day

[@justinbradford6086]

@@JoshuaXYZ lol your kids are going to off them self's and you are at fault i hope that day comes soon for you

[@robbi3299]

officially 1 month on T the day this song came out, was NOT PREPARED.

[@I_SWEAR_IM_NOT_LYING]

That's amazing

[@cono6627]

now that i think about it, i'm almost 3 months on T myself.....omg

[@deekdeegler5059]

lol

[@lunaci1103]

Fuck yeah Destroy Boys. Thanks for making this workday better

[@beni5616]

saw u in mexico last october i still have the guitar pick. this made my stupid transmasc heart happy thanks a lot

[@3llinvx_x3]

I ALSO SAW THEM THERE MATEEEEE OMG

[@satyavinaver]

I was also at that show! it was amazing!!!

[@Cooldude-rj3xh]

Ive listened to this more than 40 times already and hits close to home each time, beautiful, from the chord progressions, to the vocals (omg the vocals go so hard) to THE LYRICS. This is going to be my fav song for a while🙏

[@alejandrowillemslizano8356]

This was so intense on so many levels and each layer of it felt so warm and safe and honest - Thank you so much for not just making a product to consume thank you for making art

[@grapefruit-61]

I love you so much destroy boys. Every song you have made seems to correlate with me. It's insane how relatable all of your songs are

[@arihammond6372]

me when destroy boys drops the tboy swag song of the summer

[@AlmostOtaku7]

Thank you for this song, and thank you to all the transmascs out there. Keep on keeping on.

[@DuaneJBarrett]

Love this band. As a Gen Xer it's so refreshing to see such powerful and honest new music! As they rock live too!

[@noodleunu]

this MIGHT have made me cry a little :') they can never take our joy and our love. this community has saved me

[@3llinvx_x3]

Watching this video, hearing this song, made me cry so much. I have never felt like this since drink. I love your music guys, and hearing something as impacting as this, makes me feel like im not alone, thanks guys

[@xbob]

I think what you are doing is every bit as important and meaningful as any anti-war song of the 60's. I grew up on those. Now, this is the "war". I might be too old to be much use in the effort but, I'll step out of the way and lend you a shoulder. I love this song and the representative video!

[@goa5138]

Nobody's too old to fight for human rights, you don't have to be on the street fighting fascist militias to be helpful 😊 Talk to your local queer community, find out what they need that they don't get and talk about it to everyone else The 'war' on us isn't fought with tanks and bombs it's mostly dickheads with money and lies versus queers with no money and truth, help make sure truth wins ✌️🏳️‍⚧️

[@robr9170]

Hahahahahaha

[@riotghouls]

You make me feel like I’m not alone!!!!!

[@goa5138]

You're never alone ❤ you might be by yourself sometimes but people care, you can and will find them ✌️

[@expiredlemon_]

a new destroy boys song was not on my schedule today but i am SO happy it happened

[@Val1im22]

Boyfeel is one of my genders

[@crushcircuit]

absolutely exceptional 🩵🩷🤍🩷🩵

[@joegerringer2659]

THIS IS THE MOST PUNK ROCK THING IVE SEEN ILYSM

[@eathumanz]

When I tell you I got literal goosebumps I mean it. Oh my god. This is a piece of art, truly, I’m madly impressed

[@kana.to_]

めっちゃアルバム楽しみすぎる😢💕

[@RowanCMorgan]

I'm absolutely in love with all of this. The song, the music, the video. This is the representation I need! Thank you ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@Dat1frog]

I wasn’t sure about this song at first but it just clicked for me. It rules and I can’t wait for the album!

[@SeanTheFanboi]

Now I want to tell my parents what I am

[@kianjackson476]

This video/song give me chills at how much it speaks to me 🖤

[@Roachie_bb]

This. This made me cry in the best way. Ive been so confused about myself for far too long. I still am, but this makes me feel a little better every time I listen to it. Thank you for creating such a beautiful piece 💕 Edit: since this has come out I've listened to it at least 5 times a day. I'm in love with the way this song makes me feel. I wish I could present like this creator, I crave it. I just can't stay away

[@Beanie.Beanie.Beanie]

ever since the moment this song came out it’s been really fucking special to me i never really felt seen i guess to every last detail i showed my therapist right when the song was released and it’s fuck idk it’s just my livelihood right now

[@BUGBRAINZ101]

I just saw you guys in Concerts in the Park! Im a young trans man and that was the best night of my life :D I love your music!!

[@DEdens1525]

Yeah keep rocking y'all! So glad y'all came to Western North Carolina, twice!

[@peachstank8998]

collaboration of the century baby

[@mafukasareal]

DESTROY BOYS LOS AMOOO SIEMPRE DEVORANDO PATRONES LOS AMOOO VENGAN A CHILE PLSSS SUS CANCIONES SON AAA Y EL VIDEO!?!?!? 2027/10 LOS AMO

[@steph10251]

Listening to Destroy Boys makes me feel safe ❤

[@Jazz-dUP]

YESS DESTROY BOYS UPLOAD!!

[@SeanTheFanboi]

I don't understand how someone who listens to Destroy Boys can be homophobic/transphobic.

[@KiteAzurez]

Small comment saying I'm proud of you for coming out, i hope all is well and never forget you are worth it 🎉🎉

[@RAT_ATATA]

this song was so unexpected and so AMAZING LOVE YALL SO MUCH 💋💋💋

[@mxrigolds]

absolutely loved everything about this ❤️

[@sadlyitsryan]

this mv and song is so so so important. thank u guys

[@marsisdoingart]

Listening to this song makes me cry. I’ve been struggling figuring out if I’m trans or not and listening to this makes me feel not so alone. You guys have done so much for me. THANK YOU DB!!❤❤

[@livmartinezfilm]

thanks so much

[@antonelladenise2565]

This song means so much to me, thank you❤

[@yoru5484]

I’m so hyped for this album!

[@gerniyy5579]

That went so hard, I love it. Congratulations on you being you Alex!

[@quitethenon-binaryfuss8596]

all the love to my fellow trans siblings bc it means a lot just to know that you're out there, even if we never met

[@apple6758]

while i hope this doesnt end up being a final album, regardless based on this song alone im sure ill love it to bits!!!!! yall have rlly changed my life and im so excited

[@yxx3]

I love u guys Alexia I understand u sm ur amazing happy pride munthhh

[@juuliorubio2784]

Been a fan for so long. Couldnt tell u how mucch this means and speaks to me. THIS IS AMAZING!!!!! Ur amazing thank you guys for making me feel heard

[@AnnaSol_0]

i LOVE THIS SONGGGG i cant wait to see you guys at brisbane good things festival!!!

[@azulaaaaa01]

HOLY SHIT NEW ALBUMN IN AUGUST? LLLLLEEETTTSSSS GGOOOOOOO. boy feel already sounds like a fucking banger. need that lyric page to HURRY UP i need to learn it!!!!!!

[@crushcircuit]

the lyrics are in the desc of the video :-)

[@azulaaaaa01]

@@crushcircuitOMG they are 😭 i was too fucking excited OOPSIES

[@crushcircuit]

@@azulaaaaa01 i understand completely. its good musics :3

[@azulaaaaa01]

@@crushcircuit and is!!! i have 10 songs from destroy boys and i know all lyrics all breaths all beats. i adore them they’re so fucking awesome

[@HELLVALEN]

IM CRYING I LOVE YOU DB!!! This song just says what's hard for me to be with others around me, especially living in Texas. I have a growing fear of having to hide myself when I have just found who I am comfortable being. This song made me so happy thank you thank you

[@MarzeyMoo]

I love yall so much. You've bought me out of hard times and I've leant on your songs whilst coming to terms with my own feelings in-and-around gender and conformity. It makes me unreasonably happy to see this vid, and everyone involved. The unwrapping scene at the end was so damn powerful and the keyboard playing out the left was trance-like. Queer as fuck

[@B33S.H1V3]

YESYSSSSSSSSS MY FAV BAND

[@yourlocalpunkkid6136]

I can’t explain how much this song means to me

[@miketausig4205]

Incredible song…even more incredible video. The fact that you could actually tell this story visually is a tribute to the creativity of whomever brought to life this incredible piece of art. I would have thought it couldn’t be told visually, but you did it, and did it well.

[@edcorst]

wake up babe destroy boys uploaded

[@nataliamarcosvidal958]

I needed this. I needed a banger and a reflection and this delivered both alongside hope. I laughed and cried so much with the ending scene, with all the wraps and that "I love you", and I needed it. Thank you so much!

[@farth0lio.666]

Right in time for pride month 😍

[@ahmadsalloum8697]

I fucking love you guys, I need to see one of your concerts live someday 😤

[@Reiji_Kurose]

Saaame, I wish I weren't broke af

[@Wormz-nc8pu]

Uhggg I was going to see them with mother mother and cavetown but they canceled and now it’s some random band opening instead

[@gimmebackthenight]

​@@Wormz-nc8puwhat whut- :/ they cancelled? do you know why?

[@floflo143]

@@gimmebackthenighta medical emergency

[@cheezzybean]

thank you. i litteraly love you guys. a ftm song from you guys just... helps. love yall.

[@mush4brainz]

I love the song it's so genuine. congrats on the transition btw :) i love you guys sm!!

[@yourconscience6345]

Been leaning into my masculinity and painting on a stache and beard to wear in public more, y'all have been a really big part of the last couple years for me

[@deekdeegler5059]

lol yeah cause us dudes do that all the time

[@yourconscience6345]

@@deekdeegler5059 hell yeah

[@mathiasr.sander-nielsen5250]

OMG, this song is maybe one of the most impressive punk songs I've ever heard

[@Psychologicallogix]

I started T the same Week this song came out and this song is so special to me

[@renanphillips1479]

I love them so much!

[@SeanTheFanboi]

THIS IS SO MEEE

[@OFCtheRealAiden]

THIS made my day 1000x better THIS is my new favourite song ever THIS is gonna live in my heart

[@Ippohajime120]

this new album gonna be nuts, every song sounds so inspired. I can't wait

[@TayAllard]

I love you guys, thanks for this.

[@modghoul1201]

Thank you for putting into words these weird feelings that I could never explain

[@axelasmodeus03]

This was so powerful and honestly exactly what I needed to see today tomorrow and every day.

[@Anzgelxz]

THIS IS A BANGER ‼️

[@forestfreeman1600]

Ive been listening to yall since i came out this is amazing/full circle

[@pupstink]

GODD THIS SONG MAKES ME SO CRAZY GDHSN ive been having such bad gender dysphoria and general trans anger and this song made me ascend to the ethereal plane GUUH DESTROY BOYS I LOVE YOU !!!!!

[@dju164]

THIS WAS SO CUTE!!! I lack words. Just thanks for this ♥🏳‍⚧

[@Theminebros122]

My spouse and i saw y'all at destroyfest, it made them so happy to see a nonbinary rockstar

[@Vickyy_cald]

I’m so over the moon excited for this album

[@aylinitzel.]

This is very important to me and I can’t verbalize why lmao

[@Oscar-ic6xu]

Can't believe I am this early let's fucking go, another great banger!!!!!!!!!

[@snake_lady111]

I love this song a lot.

[@NexxOutlaw]

You cant just casually make the most relatable song ever guys/j

[@DontHugMePlzz]

This is such an amazing song!!!! Thank you

[@davieboy3814]

Kick ass!

[@dungeonwolf6871]

Good song, upsetting a lot of gammon types too which is an added bonus.

[@vaperrecon165]

As a trans femme person I love this song so much! I've been listening literally on REPEAT! They were so cool to see as I was discovering my identity. This is so cool!!!

[@marybragg7381]

Genuinely cannot tell you how much this song hit home for me during my first listen. If people have questions about my gender label I’m just gonna tell them to listen to this song lmao

[@50undway]

My favorite band

[@Jazz-dUP]

🤝

[@Lydilytsen]

me to,

[@subzeroehl]

Being on a self Discovery time makes the song so more deeper for me, it's amazing love you guys ❤️

[@danag7891]

Thank you for this🙏🏾

[@rtombleson]

NEW ENBY ANTHEM JUST DROPPED

[@mikilaylar97]

Iconic

[@IOwnChewbacca]

Literally had me crying with pride bro 😭😭 Alexia you never fail to amaze me with your radical self acceptance and I love everything you and the rest of the band stand for ❤

[@typicalfly911]

I really love the deep meaning transmitted by this song. I ABSOLUTELY LOVE IT.

[@Silliest_Nene]

god i love you guys comfort music

[@miamaplecat2222]

LOVE YOU ALWAYS DESTROY BOYS!!

[@cookeh509]

the stache is so cute fr

[@emmalin444]

Thank you for this

[@aneutralopinion1712]

As a fellow transexual, I feel this. Binding sucks, even though it feels amazing. This mix of masculinity and feminity. Being a trans masculine femboy is a fascinating experience. The lane "Maybe Im a f*g instrad of a d*ke" hits my ears like cotton balls. im definitely probably maybe a f*g but still it reminds me if the confusion I have often had.

[@fuyuishere]

YEAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAH