Detecting Shame in Your Kid

[@dalialarson7090]

Becky, I would really love it if you could do another podcast zero-ing in on resolving shame in children.

[@celwise]

I just listened to this yesterday and last night my kid - who isn't deeply feeling (most of the time) - had a meltdown over math. He's really great at math and they were doing long division and he was having trouble and the shame got him. I was able to recognize it immediately because of the show and I let him get it out and calm down. He wanted to leave and go to the other room and I calmly told him to come back and we don't run from problems. We did it together. He doesn't know his times tables by heart and needs help counting numbers to get the question - he felt shame about that... no problem, count the numbers if you need to! He finished the problems and he seemed to understand the process way better.

[@amberaverill1604]

MORE on this please!!!!!

[@rachelfoss5455]

I just got out of a meeting with my daughter's teacher....I sent her this link because I think it describes my girl so much. Thank you! Any chance you could post a podcast that my girl (11) could listen to with me?

[@The_Real_Christian]

Love these. Great topic! Thank you.

[@katiekate5911]

This is going to help me a lot. Thank you ❤

[@PuffinWoman]

My 5 year old is feeling shame in that she insists she is a bad kid if she does something wrong. Nothing I say helps. What do I do and say to get through to her that she is in fact an amazing kid?