Great Video Megha. Speak more about your life experiences..❤
@sindhuv42067 ай бұрын
Very very useful one
@anugrahamerindaniel70517 ай бұрын
Well said chechii🥰💯
@seby.227 ай бұрын
ഞാൻ ഒരിക്കലും സ്ത്രീധനം ചോദിക്കുന്ന ആളെ life patner ആക്കില്ല . ചേച്ചി പറഞ്ഞതൊക്കെ correct ആണ് . ചില parents ആൺകുട്ടികളെ വളർത്തുന്നതേ dowry മേടിച് കാര്യം കാണാം എന്നാ വിചാരത്തോടെയാ . ശെരിക്കും പെൺകുട്ടികൾ 'NO ' പറഞ്ഞാൽ സ്ത്രീധനം നിർത്താൻ പറ്റും . Dowry ചോദിക്കാൻ വയ്യാത്തത്കൊണ്ട് ഇപ്പോൾ pocket money എത്ര കൊടുക്കും എന്നാണ് ചോദിക്കുന്നെ .ഞാൻ ഒരു മിനിറ്റ് ടൈം കൊടുക്കും ഇറങ്ങിപോകാൻ.അത് എന്റെ parents നോട് ഞാൻ പറഞ്ഞിട്ട് ഉണ്ട്. എന്റെ parents നും അതുതന്നെ ആണ് അഭിപ്രായം.
@maradona23192 ай бұрын
😂😂😂nadanna tanne😂😂😂ella avalumarum ninnu pokum😂😂
@sherinkeenalil7585Ай бұрын
Your videos are so great..just became a fan of you
@shiznashaju30477 ай бұрын
Well said chechi 🥰♥️oru job oru pennkuttiyude lifeilu tharunna mattanglae kurich video cheyyo
@Reality__Bites7 ай бұрын
Hi Chechi, I faced some issues during my "penkanals." In 2021, I received a proposal through a matrimonial site. On a Sunday evening, the guy's family visited, and after some interview questions, they asked us to talk. While conversing, the mother entered the room and asked peculiar questions about my clothing choices and suggested they needed our money for their daughter's wedding. Despite this, I accepted. They inspected our house and took pictures ( her sister took) and later, they criticized our family and we heard it through a mediator. This angered me and I defended my family's honor. Two years later, I got married into a wonderful family, and God has been merciful. I heard the second daughter's fiancé's family cut ties with them, and I felt sorry for her. It emphasizes the importance of equal upbringing for both sons and daughters.
@anugrahamerindaniel70517 ай бұрын
Well said 💯
@merlinthomas967 ай бұрын
16:45…. 💯👏the most important point ‘his’ parents should note 🫡
@nishajose73047 ай бұрын
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@indhuarundathy62917 ай бұрын
❤
@twinklebapsymathew59717 ай бұрын
❤️❤️❤️
@olivesrose7 ай бұрын
Sorry to say this. Im from the malabar area n dowry valare koravaanu infact njan kettitilla But nammal ,down South lekk proposal vanna udane parayunath aah sthreedana kaaranu . so happy that u n ur family thinks this way.b cos i thot all over there are totally okay with this dowry system.
@malavikanair31577 ай бұрын
❤❤😊
@Myjourney4597 ай бұрын
True😅 I did have same experience. I believe most of the girls face these similar situation. I feel that nowadays boys are taught by their mothers to bring large lump of money as their are boys and once girl is married supposed to take care of the house both financially and household chores. Once married , they shouldn't go to their own house or talk to their relatives. Girl shouldn't go for work and don't have individuality. They are considered as maid but no payment. Maids are treated better. Lot of incidents regarding dowry reported & some are suffering in silence/ some left the toxic relationship ----- still its keep on happening. V need a solution. A stop 🛑 to this mentality. They should be punished severely for breaking a soul. Human life is valuable. Breaking this girl mentally and physically. Like Filipino community, if a girl & boy wants to marry - they should make their own money & organise the marriage function. So that both families don't have a say . Its not just happening in Kottayam but many parts of kerala. Sad to say , its happening in most among so called educated people
@anugrahamerindaniel70517 ай бұрын
Exactly 💯..
@anishagopal7487 ай бұрын
Its her mistake i will say ...we should definitely give a value for ourself .....
@Myjourney4597 ай бұрын
Easy to judge. She fell in love.
@anishagopal7487 ай бұрын
@@Myjourney459 seriously with those who demanding more more money
@Myjourney4597 ай бұрын
@@anishagopal748 Yes ma'am But she thought she can't survive without him
Aaah naamkettavan eee video kanda mathiyaayirunnu..
@marss40307 ай бұрын
Please make a video on selecting a good life partner and how to know if they are a right person :)
@sherinajohn7207 ай бұрын
yes please do pine matrimonial eganey ru sincere person namak find out cheym athum koode explain cheyuna video idumo?
@anugrahamerindaniel70517 ай бұрын
I too need that...😊🤞
@anugrahamerindaniel70517 ай бұрын
@@sherinajohn720 daa.. matrimony okke nalla udayip aan ketto.. especially M4 and Christian matrimony..ellam alla..i have similar experiences..chila married aayitullavarde profiles kanum.. single nna status il..pinne chilavarde okke background middle class nn edum bt they are below that..nammal poy kanumpol aan realise cheyunnath..pinne kurae fraudukal nd ....nowadays it's hard to find a sincere guy with a strong faith in Christ ..