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[@florencegidudu426]

I love Prim’s calm and composure as well as how articulate, authentic and relatable everything she has shared is. Most of us the 90s kids this is how we have grown and these candid conversations are really eye opening. Loved it

[@ronniedenis3844]

Ur right Florence

[@9ina19]

I read something that said, Be gracious to your parents, they’re doing life for the first time as well. I don’t think anyone can prepare you for life, maybe by learning from your mistakes and others mistakes.

[@namwangahajarah4830]

Growing up with my dad really prepared me for this adult life. I am that lady that Prim talks about 😂( whose father used to keep envelopes) He made understand that before you start on any project you must have a budget. He always crossed out the word “miscellaneous “ on our school budgets simply because he thought that whenever you want something, be sure of what it is exactly. Accountability as a lesson, I learnt it from him. From simple things like sending you to your grand mother, he always demanded for a report on anything. I am that person now😂 Thank you for reminding us of where we came from.

[@nyonyoziprim]

@@namwangahajarah4830 I’m so glad yo shared that story with me. It really impacted on me. Thank you 🙏

[@user-uo8ol9xx7m]

Anyway lets take sometime to appreciate Prims elegance 😊

[@jenniphermujuju8209]

I can totally relate with Prim meanwhile understanding Claire fully without any offence 😍!

[@nyonyoziprim]

As it should be

[@RUZHOFFS]

Totally agree with Claire, it’s all about the principle of the different values. If you can afford to pay someone to keep your house, clothes , etc….. why not?

[@ainembabazichristellah463]

Whoever annoyed Prim should apologize on a national TV,😢😢

[@lilymatu5089]

I thought it was rude...

[@miriamkhlea5375]

Very rude, she just tried to be indirect but yyooo​@@lilymatu5089

[@nyonyoziprim]

@@ainembabazichristellah463 huh what’s happening? Who annoyed who ?

[@ainembabazichristellah463]

@@nyonyoziprim not the Jolly Prim we are used to 🥺

[@Vivilaks075]

I thought I was the only one who noticed it😂

[@princesscarol2645]

Claire l look your character gal u are so real and on the washing clothes u have made ma day the thing dat matters is cleanliness,maintaining hygiene period😂

[@JaneFrancesApila]

Prim is her authentic self. I love it!

[@renekay5060]

Oh, Claire, you make a good point about the principles; it actually makes sense since it's the end goal at the end of the day.

[@suzannakyejwe4265]

Prim is giving me Bat valley Primary School flashbacks. That was the life. 😂😂😂😂😂

[@rifamaya9621]

And also buganda road😂🤣

[@byonaniweabigiramatilda7606]

Someone tell prim that she is looking so good and her legs are cute 🥰 ohhh God bless her

[@malkiawaalego2552]

Claire I completely understand what you are saying. I am a huge fan of delegating domestic tasks. Whether it’s to a machine or a hired person. That frees me up to do things I find more meaningful. Also spot on about wealth creation and sustainability. A job is great to provide financial capital to invest, but if you get to a place where your money is growing even when you are asleep, that is true financial freedom.

[@promisetumwebaze7990]

Prims questions to Claire😂😂😂😂 Are all your ancestors happy😂😂😂😂😂

[@Twine256-nx1pl]

Machines do make our lives easier no doubt but there’s got to be a fine balance in learning how to actually work with our hands. Some of these skills cooking, washing etc for example provided opportunity for communities or families to spend time together and bond and get to know each other because they were doing them together. But also i find that some of these skills make you resourceful or self reliant especially in the face of unexpected situations. Machines remove us from community which makes us more humane (I don’t know if I’m making sense here). And it’s not to say don’t use machines… I think both extremes can be detrimental. So how about just have the range to be able to use both. Know how to use the machines but also how to use your hands to do stuff when you can. And while we are trying to give our kids the absolute most comfortable life, we must also expose them to as many possibilities as possible including the best, mid and the worst. Listen, you could die. In the blink of an eye, your money could all go. Then what?! Being able to perform certain basic tasks like hand washing prepares one for situations when the conveniences are unavailable. I hate hand washing and chores tbh so I use machines and pay for help but those darn skills have come in handy in situations (out of my control) where I’ve not had either. For me, one of the things is giving my babies community and showing them how to build one for themselves too and especially across all class. One of the ways we do that is being present in even the most mundane family and community activities - a lot of them which include using our bodies/hands in service to those communities.

[@henriettahnakisozi2478]

Before we focus only on washing machine...how many of us are teaching our children to learn how to cook with firewood?

[@sumayamya357]

No Claire we wont attack. what you're saying is the truth. I would love to invest my time in more money making activities and family unions. then use the same money to make house chores easier..

[@mwizasafaristourvlog8142]

Parents didnt prep us well for adulthood, marriage ,sex 😅

[@LindaTinahTV]

For most parents, I know the biggest thing they want to do for their kids is leave them money and property. Strangely, that's not the biggest goal for my kids. If we are financially set up well we shall definitely give them a good start because why should they struggle if i have the resources to give them a softer life BUT I do not have sleepless nights over it. If we don't have much to leave them, they will work with whatever they find or make their own. What I fear most for my kids on the other hand is my actions and parenting style, messing them up on an emotional/psychological level. I don't want to be the reason my children are going to need therapy. Lol

[@Lucky_Talks_Careers]

One thing am teaching my sons, if you cannot or do not want to do something yourself or with your hands, be prepared to PAY someone to do it for you.

[@Zladok]

Mine didn't, still recovering from the naivety. I really assumed everyone was of the same school of thought.

[@unreservedwithjune3217]

Adulting to me was a rude shock 😭😭 especially dealing with money

[@ankundagabriella]

It's important to hear the stories of our parents lives. I feel like everyone should have opportunity to have a biography of the parents.

[@daisylillian594]

Clare wooooow I have been going through these conversations of house work and I was literally cut offf because of that thank you

[@hanifahmpaata5547]

Hey ladies. Absolutely loved this comversation. Super relatable. I also feel like Prim’s character is BBC material, international host material like Prim, you really are someone who once you decide to delve into something, you get the 360 degrees of it through analysis and that authenticity is lovely. 👏🏽 Phiona my OG. I see you sis 👊🏾 Those shapeless doughnuts were really something. 😹 Well done ladies and all the best to you Claire on the weight loss journey you have embarked on. Naffe otuwa essubi. Asante ladies. 🤩

[@matildaakello4476]

Did you charge the robot😂😂😂😂😂 that had me laughing hard. I have learnt to not judge people like everyone has a reason behind why they do what they do. If i like it, and want to adopt then i ask questions, listen & absorb only what speaks to me, then tweak it to my taste and leave the rest out.

[@nyonyoziprim]

The life we ought to live. Charge the damn robot

[@sandrahkyomuhendo8035]

@Fiona that mentioning of getting close to 40s. That's pretty scary l don't even want to imagine. Adulting in my opinion/did they prepare us to some extent yes! However everything is you learn through experience. I have learnt that certain things you learn from others you don't really have to go through them.

[@nassunajoyce1139]

Thanks ladies for the lessons. @ claire rip to mr. Mponye( jajja) he was such a darling and kind man to most of us. Love you cousin ❤️

[@doreenkatusiime5689]

Bambi you ladies have grown in a beautiful mature way.😊😊😊😊

[@nyonyoziprim]

@@doreenkatusiime5689 we truly have. And we thank you for supporting us through this journey

[@serakim1513]

I saw the confidence in u Claire since Primary school for sure Agakhan Primary School made us confident I have always been that person who is so confident to speak out and yea because of speaking out the truth am hated the fact of being open minded I love this topic surely

[@nanfukahope4559]

Thnx guys for the show

[@kenyanaclaire.9577]

Wow , what a topic!

[@amy2794]

Hi guys, thanks for the show! I live in Australia and I have every tool that you know to clean the house, mop and all that, but my hand kisimula🤗 I mean my towel will not miss in my house😂 Let me tell you why, I feel like it’s the easiest way to clean my house , get to every corner without even having to sweep First. I only use these other ones when I’m just getting rid of the obvious. Otherwise the one thing I can’t imagine going now if spending more that 1hour hand washing clothes because that time is money.

[@nyonyoziprim]

@@amy2794 thank you for sharing this. It’s a different experience out there . My mind is actually opened up to so many possibilities.

[@justineabenaitwe7348]

Prim looking cute😍😍

[@nyonyoziprim]

Thank you so much

[@fidelismaina7700]

More power and grace to Claire...I cant wait to see slim Clair 😍

[@amugecathy1006]

Hi ladies thanks a lot for always putting a smile on our face. But prim am really struggling with weight help me here with your health program gym is killing me

[@miriamkhlea5375]

Please try intermittent fasting for 2months straight, it works miracles though it takes so much devotion to be consistent

[@DeDollyshow]

Welcome back ladies❤ Looking stunning as always

[@nyonyoziprim]

Thank you so much

[@LwangaSharon]

After prim talking about fighting for food...it's very clear now where I got the skill from#true life story 😂...I rarely miss food at functions 😂

[@thefemaleking8889]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂stop killing me

[@stephaniebusingye4329]

😂😂

[@nyonyoziprim]

@@LwangaSharon 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 this has ended me

[@mwizasafaristourvlog8142]

Nakasero pri. sch canteen hurstle 😃😃

[@ronniedenis3844]

When we used to fight to buy jam burns and musical tie

[@thefemaleking8889]

Bt who will ever forgive prim😂i hear it shaped me to fight for food🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@nyonyoziprim]

It’s what I do all day 😂😂

[@realestaterentalsandconstr272]

We love you guys

[@nyonyoziprim]

@@realestaterentalsandconstr272 we love you too and thank you

[@nasasirapatience6283]

Great conversation today however the video glitches make us miss out some seconds of content

[@joshsandie6419]

Prim you are so cute in Pink.❤.Thank you for this wonderful discussion ladies.

[@nyonyoziprim]

Thank you 🙏

[@aggyakuamoah8767]

Fiona, how about you? How are you? We missed your input on that question - would have been great if your co-hosts would have bounced that question back to you as well. Please tell us how you are

[@nyonyoziprim]

This is well noted. Thank you .

[@lorrainekojay]

😂😂😂😂@Prim!! Mbu fighting for cassava at the canteen! 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@nyonyoziprim]

I did that so well

[@peruthmwenkanya2508]

i like Claire's authenticity concerning her weight loss journey. we're learning alot

[@nyonyoziprim]

She sure appreciates this feedback

[@kabagyeniphionah448]

Beautiful conversations here...

[@nyonyoziprim]

Thank you

[@naominatukunda6315]

Claire’s immaturity and false confidence is baffling. Maybe I need to stop watching but yet I love Prim’s authenticity and Kemi’s calm confidence and quicky maturity

[@miriamkhlea5375]

😂😂😂 clearly you need to stop watching, how is someone's very authentic successful life hurting you this much because you can't relate to it. Read through all the comments so you will know you are the only lost sheep

[@Cheesecake-x1c]

You are so right. I'm not baffled at all...the things claire comes out with.. SO unreal

[@henriettahnakisozi2478]

@@miriamkhlea5375 poverty mindset is so bad.....thats why she cant relate with her....the same way people in the village find it akward that we cant cook food with firewood...is the same way atukunda cant relate with Claire

[@miriamkhlea5375]

@@Cheesecake-x1c just say you can't relate, because they are too real and she is actually living them

[@miriamkhlea5375]

@@henriettahnakisozi2478 it's actually okay for someone not to relate but it's the evilness that sends her to feel like Claire's confidence is false that actually shows that she(Naomi Atukunda) is the immature one instead. If she can't get inspired by what she thinks is too good to be real then let her just stop watching, very simple.

[@elizabethaber5745]

One thing I realized with our parents' generation is that perception matters to them a lot. That is why you might find for instance if someone was or is struggling they will probably never open up to you about that background. So it is difficult for you to humanize them as a result.

[@Lovinggodbreakingrecords]

Hi love you I think as you grow you start testing theories and forming new theories. You discover that you're an organisation that needs to make rules, find a goal and a mission. They taught us to think and maybe that prepared us for adulthood.

[@kimerapatricia3371]

That's a good analogy

[@nyonyoziprim]

Oh yes. This ought to be pinned I agree:

[@verydark..1988]

Dedicate one show to Nairobi and Gen Z...with your twist🎉😅😅😶‍🌫️🥴💨

[@racheln7239]

Marriage as a retirement plan.😂😂

[@alexagaba7244]

Lohana Kids gather. RIP Mr. Almeida.

[@kupewataaka6917]

I have watched but answer is NO!😄

[@frashiermwihaki7453]

Nyce

[@brendanakirya1379]

Prim, that Kibuye primary taught you resilience. You can survive any where

[@akampadallen3325]

But Prim 😂😂😂

[@kimerapatricia3371]

I attended Sunsas and it was like living in a bubble the entire time. Everything was moving swiftly and promptly😅

[@nyonyoziprim]

Oh Fiona was there too

[@anonnona6433]

I think at the stage you needed that bubble to enjoy your childhood. When you are older, you will always manage life in one way or another.

[@kellytaremwa6271]

i think claire was misled and sadly her children will be too. when you do chores, it helps you with logic skills and problem solving skills. it also helps with mental health. it is so absurd that she thinks doing dishes and washing clothes and mopping must be outsourced. some people clean and cook to relax. it is so absurd that your mother took that away from you. dont take it away from your children. there is a part of their development you will kill by doing that. please talk to child experts. chores are part of child development

[@tashkunda3178]

darling, people have different lives so don't expect everyone to fit in your little world....parents raise their kids differently so stop attacking Clare...keep an open mind...Clare is simply being real so accept that her world is different from yours

[@sarahkarungi7727]

Prim doesnt want to talk anymore.she just throws in few words.its only phiona and clare talking

[@nyonyoziprim]

@@sarahkarungi7727 there’s nothing wrong with this. We all carry the show differently. Thank you for supporting us.

[@user-ui8ie7ww3x]

Claire just said she’s not living in muyenga at her age like the way her parents did should teach her that things change 😊teach your children everything

[@BUKENYAJAMES-gn7mm]

i have new found love for Claire...bye Prim😅

[@nyonyoziprim]

@@BUKENYAJAMES-gn7mm 😂😂😂 bye love

[@peachhause6102]

😂😂😂😂

[@ainembabazichristellah463]

Nothing has been funny since P7 third term 😢

[@reginananyunja153]

Prim...I was in Kitante Primary School and this is how it was...UPE fees😁😁😁

[@nyonyoziprim]

Yes it was 😂😂

[@batuzesandra3784]

Today I learn alot from Claire, employment is the slowest way to get rich, don't waste your 20's in marriage. Prim, ever good with humorous flashbacks. The moderation by Fiona, keeps everything on line. Thank you for always lightening our Saturdays with educative content

[@nanfukahope4559]

Clair am your type

[@suubilyenina1970]

"i will not wash them myself, because why? I don't see the benefit" 😂😂 I love love Claire. This was my reasoning my entire life amidst my mum's reasoning. Because why??

[@beyourownbossbabe]

Why suffer? There is absolutely no glory… however I also know people who love hand washing which is also ok. To each their own.❤

[@ronniedenis3844]

I love you ladies..ur in my generation

[@user-ok2mo9nn4r]

Respectfully I don't mean to offend Claire but there is a reason why people taught children to kunya through generations.Yes the end goal is cleanliness but trust me there are always consequences we went to school with a girl who didn't know how to wash clothes but was clean she decided to instead buy new panties every time instead of washing the old ones. Which was necessarily clean but at the same time weird .A Che who grows up knowing how to wash is at a better advantage astronomically than that who just knows cleanliness should be the end result.But I respect your opinion I just wanted to enlighten you.

[@beyourownbossbabe]

I totally get your point. But how is hand washing a basic survival skill? How does one who can hand wash astronomically better off? It’s a task for sure… in my books, basic survival skills I will teach my children are how to make money, how to grow your money, how to create a solutions for people’s problems so can make money, how to save an invest, how to start and grow a business, how to relate with people, how to develop your natural talents, how to navigate difficult life circumstances… hand washing clothes is a task that fetches a maximum of 100k in this world we live in. Why would I spend so much time teaching a task that won’t even help her survive in this life? Confidence to stand up for herself so people don’t take advantage of her, street smarts etc. The best she will benefit from it is clean clothes for her self. I just prefer to spend the precious time I have with my child teaching her ACTUAL survival skills. I do however understand where you are coming from and I hold space for your opinion too. ❤️

[@lydianamutebi4808]

Claire is too obssesed with money...christ in heaven

[@beyourownbossbabe]

@@lydianamutebi4808 Your feelings are valid hun 🙃

[@JescaMug]

​@beyourownbossbabe I really appreciate your opinion because there are things parents dictate to us which shall never help us survive. For instance those who grew up in villages they will be like where will you reach in life without knowing how to cook,wash, dig and others and here we are in towns where that info is not applicable

[@anonnona6433]

​@@JescaMug😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂.

[@cynthiamasanso60]

Love u Prim

[@pesh179]

Does anyone notice that Fiona most times gets lost(for lack of a better word) in moderating and ends up not sharing her opinions with us as much as the rest of the ladies

[@nyonyoziprim]

We have taken note of this and we are going to keep switching places.

[@MonaKenyi]

Thought so too but glad they're working on it because we also need to hear her POV

[@aishanamatovu2488]

Prim😂😂😂

[@MiriamKangume]

Why does it always seem like Fiona is the host of this show? You should switch turns on who introduces the topics and solicts ideas.🎉

[@nyonyoziprim]

@@MiriamKangume thank you for this feedback

[@karagwadora4398]

@Nyonyozi you so retabale

[@cynthianabukuwa4871]

I miss Fiona's submissions, how I wish u could limit how long one can submit for the rest to do so as well.

[@akampadallen3325]

Claire is a planned child

[@fionahmbabazi2690]

Prim lost a lot of weight she looks so good what did she use

[@Cheesecake-x1c]

Claire isnt being serious!!. Really you've nver done hand laundry?? That's a lie!! We know abt washers but come on be real

[@BarbraAsiimwe-zk3gs]

I wonder if they had washing machines at Nabisunsa…actually wait she never went to Nabisunsa