Dierks Bentley - Different For Girls (Official Music Video) ft. Elle King

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Dierks Bentley

Dierks Bentley

Күн бұрын

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@jaimiehelmstaedter5097
@jaimiehelmstaedter5097 Жыл бұрын
Facts. Women still wake up, go to work, clean the house, make dinner & still do the dishes. Like dierk said, nobody said it was fair.
@seanparker2037
@seanparker2037 8 жыл бұрын
I love dierks bently, Florida georgia line, and Eric church. thier songs are so meaningful and deep
@michaelmorris5187
@michaelmorris5187 8 жыл бұрын
+BMW Enthusiast BG has the most meaningful songs out of all of them I can relate to a ton of his songs although this one is very true
@What_was_wrong_w_jst_our_names
@What_was_wrong_w_jst_our_names 8 жыл бұрын
+BMW Enthusiast Hey asshat, use your directional.
@snowboarddude117
@snowboarddude117 8 жыл бұрын
FGL is garbage... "hammer and a nail, stackin them bales" who the fuck is hammering nails while stacking hay? Thats as dumb as the dude singing about the diesel knocking, if your truck is knocking better stop driving it
@hunterdrayer1836
@hunterdrayer1836 8 жыл бұрын
+John Hansen 😂😂😂💀
@pollybailey1457
@pollybailey1457 8 жыл бұрын
suhqonmbgprtevbf.nmhkbnr
@wte8398
@wte8398 Жыл бұрын
This is song every father should share with their son
@PatrickVega-f4x
@PatrickVega-f4x 4 ай бұрын
Yes your absolutely right
@seaboardsystemproductions9714
@seaboardsystemproductions9714 4 күн бұрын
I was raised right so I don't need to be tought that.
@robertbragg9364
@robertbragg9364 3 жыл бұрын
This song definitely doesn't get the attention it deserves. I'd like to see Elle blow up, she's great in my opinion.
@littlelakegirls9056
@littlelakegirls9056 7 жыл бұрын
Their voices go together so great!!😍
@xxsatinangelxx
@xxsatinangelxx 8 жыл бұрын
I don't think the song is about guys not feeling anything, I think the songs about guys being better at hiding it and instead of letting themselves feel it, they usually hide it under bad behaviour and alcohol, but it's still there and they're still feeling it just as strong as girls do!
@KraypayJR
@KraypayJR 8 жыл бұрын
Yeah but I'm sure not all of them hide it.
@iwellbreastfed
@iwellbreastfed 8 жыл бұрын
more like being forced to hide it
@BloodDragonH
@BloodDragonH 8 жыл бұрын
+Kra88ypa77yJR and not all girls express it either. But if we are gonna be that picky there is no topic we can do a song on. I'm just saying
@KraypayJR
@KraypayJR 8 жыл бұрын
Humaam eXile There's tons of topics you can do a song on without offending people tf you talking about.
@BloodDragonH
@BloodDragonH 8 жыл бұрын
+Kra88ypa77yJR That's not what I meant or said now was it? I said you can't do a song if the reasoning the topic is frowned upon is because not everyone acts like what the topic is portraying. Not everyone does act like one another so there's no one way to unite everyone that's just the fact of the matter. In this case him saying girls show their pain and guys try to surpress it as much as they can may not be accurate for everyone obviously but it's accurate for some people as some might be the opposite of what their genders is representing in this video. Now generalising is not the best thing to do this generalisation might just be what these singers have experienced. Even I mostly have girl friends who take time alone to mourn their loss and I have guys who try to distract themselves with other thing rather than deal with the pain. Majority of my crowd is like this but I do have the friends that is the exact opposite as well.
@GoBirds1995
@GoBirds1995 8 жыл бұрын
It's true. When love disappears you can't pretend it was never there.
@jonpark92
@jonpark92 5 жыл бұрын
Tyler Henk saw your comment as soon as that lyric came up
@audrah7195
@audrah7195 5 жыл бұрын
Tyler Henk Totally agree! 😜🐻😎🐐🤪🥰👀
@wandayarbrough
@wandayarbrough 3 жыл бұрын
True
@wandayarbrough
@wandayarbrough 2 жыл бұрын
You just don't stop. You don't forget that pain
@wandayarbrough
@wandayarbrough 2 жыл бұрын
I loved him for 7 years. Broke up 2 year's ago.
@tashabarbare8298
@tashabarbare8298 2 жыл бұрын
This was the song I listened after my 12 yrs marriage failed. I cried for 2 months to this one 😔
@renegademorely9503
@renegademorely9503 Жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry dear. I hope you're feeling better♡
@tamekkaknuth9612
@tamekkaknuth9612 Жыл бұрын
Not my marriage in old case. Tamarra
@joshuataft5541
@joshuataft5541 Жыл бұрын
Have things gotten better. ..I tealy hope so..dating..and loss if any kind is harder than anything especially as we get older and feel our options are wearing thin ...woch isn't always the case
@joshuataft5541
@joshuataft5541 Жыл бұрын
@Dierks Bentley your obviously not the real guy but inhooe you are doing well and nice of you to atepmt to cheer this person up who is going through a rough moment in life..💪👍
@lauren5834
@lauren5834 7 жыл бұрын
I am scarily obsessed with this video and song. Pretty much everything about this collaboration makes me happy :) ELLE KING IS AN UNDERRATED QUEEN
@danika5866
@danika5866 2 жыл бұрын
I love me some Elle king
@seaboardsystemproductions9714
@seaboardsystemproductions9714 2 жыл бұрын
@@danika5866 same here she's hot and very pretty!!
@Aquatofanablue
@Aquatofanablue Жыл бұрын
Best singer in country music! Love me some Elle King! Vastly underrated!!! “Lucky” makes me cry every single time!
@lisawittenburg6296
@lisawittenburg6296 11 ай бұрын
elle.king omg I love her
@johnpape9705
@johnpape9705 4 ай бұрын
It’s different for guys too when you e been together for 28 years married for 21 of them 😞
@bkmash41
@bkmash41 7 жыл бұрын
Wow I love these two together. Dierks and King are both perfect on their own but this is magic!
@SamSchuring
@SamSchuring 5 ай бұрын
Nice duet Dierks and Elle!!!!
@katielewis3441
@katielewis3441 8 жыл бұрын
I truly love this song! He hits the nail right on the head with the lyrics. Women show their emotion like its nothing, where as men hide it with a poker face, but yet they're still hurting. Men do these things hoping to push the break to the back of their mind where as women it's the only thing they can think about. (This isn't saying men don't feel, they have as many feelings and emotions as a women does, but they're just better at hiding it)
@kayleestecher
@kayleestecher 5 жыл бұрын
Grox44 their allowed too but just don’t want to show their emotions
@tylerscampinghuntingandsur4957
@tylerscampinghuntingandsur4957 3 жыл бұрын
@@kayleestecher Actually, society tells men they're weak if they show emotion, yet they tell us to quit being toxically masculine, yet the second we show any form of emotion, society is like: "Why the heck are you crying?". I mean, what the heck?
@dierksbentley3320
@dierksbentley3320 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for your utmost love and support has brought me this far, it has been a hard time for me going through this, but your love and support keeps me going and standing strong in this difficult times. I do read your heartwarming comments and i truly appreciate all. It's the season of love for me & so i decided to put smiles on the faces of my fans by going through old posts on my official page and hitting up random fans, So i can get to relate with my fans better through discussions of depth and humour, listening to compliments and criticisms on my career work.😍🙏🏻🌎💜❤️💕
@wandayarbrough
@wandayarbrough 2 жыл бұрын
I think that they let pride get in the way and just don't won't to admit it. I think it's fine for a man to cry. Show feelings. I wish he could have. He just walked away from me. He couldn't even look me in the eye when he broken up with me and I did nothing wrong. I was blind sided. I just wish we could make amends or something.
@hertzyinmn
@hertzyinmn 5 күн бұрын
They are not hiding it. They just do not want to ball there ass off at a Bar For missing the best friend they ever had .
@sarinason3278
@sarinason3278 7 жыл бұрын
I just got out of a breakup that was really painful, but I know I'm dealing with it the right way. I take the time to reflect on the relationship and myself, but boys, they distract themselves and leave everything in the past, but eventually everything catches up to them.
@joditikkanen3829
@joditikkanen3829 8 жыл бұрын
I am in love with this song. Elle rocked it, this duet is fire
@charlotted4642
@charlotted4642 8 жыл бұрын
I keep listening to this song so on repeat! I love it so much!
@michaelmarburger5694
@michaelmarburger5694 8 жыл бұрын
These two voices were perfectly matched ... My new favorite song
@BunnyTowne
@BunnyTowne 8 жыл бұрын
Beautiful song done so well.
@sharongearding8864
@sharongearding8864 8 жыл бұрын
love this....story of my life
@carterhoward1998
@carterhoward1998 7 жыл бұрын
Bunny Towne no
@shadey8171
@shadey8171 6 жыл бұрын
This song is deep! I am not the biggest country fan, but I have heard my gf play this song. When you actually listen to the lyrics and understand how girls really are, it can be a sad song. After hurting someone special, you realize that It's really different for girls.
@lannwplayz8056
@lannwplayz8056 2 жыл бұрын
Ain't kidding. Been playing this on repeat after my breakup. It's been een hard to hold myself together in social situations where I have to see my ex
@ashleyanderson5277
@ashleyanderson5277 8 жыл бұрын
This song is so beautiful. Way to go Dierks. I hope I raise my sons to be gentlemen and my daughters to be strong. Not sexist. The video shows immediate pain for the girl and dealing with it right away. The guy's pain comes later when he can face it and he deals with it later. I love it. Had it on repeat all day.
@jazmineflora3284
@jazmineflora3284 3 жыл бұрын
It hard for both men and women when they break up. The song is saying that girls are different from guys in the way that they try to move on. Guys might go to a bar or just text an ex... But for girls its different. Amazing song
@petekinsey2538
@petekinsey2538 3 жыл бұрын
One of the best country duets ever in my opinion by two very much underrated artistes,every success with your future careers.
@bobburner707
@bobburner707 2 жыл бұрын
Shut up this song is horrible
@petekinsey2538
@petekinsey2538 2 жыл бұрын
you are entitled to your opinion.
@benhelms7983
@benhelms7983 Жыл бұрын
Gotta say everytime I’ve been broken up with I just get depression lonely and go to the gym takes me forever to move on always they always had someone short after leaving me tho
@melissamarsh4493
@melissamarsh4493 2 жыл бұрын
They sound great together, I love this song , True words it is different for us girls
@7supergirl
@7supergirl 8 жыл бұрын
I think a lot of the people who are writing angry comments didn't actually watch the music video. The whole point is that the guy wasn't ok. He tried to ignore his pain, and handle the breakup way up the way a "man should" (getting drunk, getting laid, acting like he doesn't care), but it didn't work. In the end, he was still miserable and not over her. The girl let herself feel her emotions and mourn the breakup, but was able to move on. I don't think its saying that men actually don't feel anything, but its more of a commentary on the stereotype of how men should act tough, and how its a bad thing. Or I could be reading way too much into it. That could absolutely be a possibility.
@dallasemosessr.3572
@dallasemosessr.3572 8 жыл бұрын
Katie McGowan your so right. I'm dealing with the same emotions....
@badbiker666
@badbiker666 8 жыл бұрын
No, you got it right on the money, Katie. The song says guys TRY to laugh off a breakup but fail miserably. Some people are listening only to the chorus and somehow NOT watching the video. Clearly the guy is not "OK."
@blondexbutterfly4732
@blondexbutterfly4732 8 жыл бұрын
Katie McGowan lmao finally someone gets it
@benski8610
@benski8610 7 жыл бұрын
I love how people don't get it. Breakups suck for everyone and everyone deals with it in different ways
@christywild
@christywild 7 жыл бұрын
No, I'd have to agree with you. I don't think this song is saying one person or the other is bad in this (notice: they dont' show how the breakup happened) but more how we as men and women deal with it differently. There's some women who act more like the man in this in breakups and men I know who act more like the woman in this breakup. I think what this song was was partially to showcase how we typically deal and also show "hey, maybe we should let men feel and emote the grief of the death of a relationship instead of feeling they should "get over it".
@lottieluver7
@lottieluver7 8 жыл бұрын
when she texts him "i miss you" and he pulls out his phone to ignore it... that hits me right in the F E E L S.
@jamesbennett1721
@jamesbennett1721 6 жыл бұрын
Allison Quayle so sorry
@chastitylincoln1443
@chastitylincoln1443 5 жыл бұрын
FEW. . . and... Different for girls.
@priscillacoral2559
@priscillacoral2559 4 жыл бұрын
It hurts 😭😭😭
@elizabethmoeller4915
@elizabethmoeller4915 4 жыл бұрын
Lzzie Ssdfftgg
@ttvghostkillerl4084
@ttvghostkillerl4084 4 жыл бұрын
I do that when I'm upset or mad
@BurningThyme
@BurningThyme 8 жыл бұрын
His other songs are Really Really GOOD. Please check them out, they sounds just as great as this song.
@andreamatusek1165
@andreamatusek1165 2 жыл бұрын
True! Still healing from a that relationship..
@saraquintero1601
@saraquintero1601 3 жыл бұрын
Girls are tough they are amazing just recently i gained a lot of new frinds that are girls.....they make my life compleate since i have no sisters.
@barryb6082
@barryb6082 8 жыл бұрын
Once I found out Elle king was in this I love it even more💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕❤️
@krankytilldaell6639
@krankytilldaell6639 3 жыл бұрын
Love the Shaw dance in the garage
@birgitgross8322
@birgitgross8322 4 жыл бұрын
I just wish every guy could watch this AND understand it!
@jakebutler291
@jakebutler291 4 жыл бұрын
I really appreciate the message of this song. Expressing your emotions and being sensitive needs to be normalized for men. Being told to "man up" and that stereotype of being tough is probably something that many men struggle with. We are human. We need to express our feelings. Not bottle them up. In the end of this music video, she's the one that successfully moved on because she didn't hide.
@ianchad7199
@ianchad7199 4 жыл бұрын
No that’s a sign of weakness,
@lannwplayz8056
@lannwplayz8056 2 жыл бұрын
@@ianchad7199 that's the problem right there. Crying and showing emotions is a sign of weakness leaving the body, and its natural for weakness to sneak its way in during a relationship + breakup. It's okay to cry in front of friends, partners, etc if you're having a tough time with something or someone hurt you. It's normal
@brettsmith5903
@brettsmith5903 Жыл бұрын
Man up dude
@allyforpresidentu.u6078
@allyforpresidentu.u6078 7 жыл бұрын
This is really a different song 💟💟
@nelsonsevilla6528
@nelsonsevilla6528 Жыл бұрын
such a great song, strong message , straight to the heart and consciousness
@taoli1088
@taoli1088 8 жыл бұрын
Congratulation! for 2016 CMA -Musical Event of the Year
@gabriellesmith5668
@gabriellesmith5668 8 жыл бұрын
Why can't we just enjoy a well sang song and go on with our lives
@kenp.9762
@kenp.9762 Ай бұрын
Because songs sometimes have meanings, that's some of us can relate to at times. And those songs have a way of reaching deep into your soul. Try it sometime. Or better yet, let it sneak up on you....🤨
@JANEBWHITE-py4ql
@JANEBWHITE-py4ql Жыл бұрын
FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY BROKEN HEART. I STILL MISS YOU.
@Realsteviewonder
@Realsteviewonder 10 ай бұрын
Hello, how are you doing today? Nice meeting you here.
@austinmattingly1650
@austinmattingly1650 7 жыл бұрын
Dierks your my favorite country singer 😎
@AlainBruno
@AlainBruno 8 жыл бұрын
They sing so good together.
@merdesh2402
@merdesh2402 8 жыл бұрын
Dierks has a good voice!!
@andreeaabro
@andreeaabro 8 жыл бұрын
i agree with you
@mailinwinder3442
@mailinwinder3442 8 жыл бұрын
auto tune much
@theqty1997
@theqty1997 8 жыл бұрын
+Mailin winder do you even know what autotune is?
@57HarleyDavidson
@57HarleyDavidson 8 жыл бұрын
I didn't hear any Autotune
@hagarmohamed1794
@hagarmohamed1794 7 жыл бұрын
Different for Girls Dierks Bentley LYRICS She don't throw any t-shirt on and walk to a bar She don't text her friends and say, "I gotta get laid tonight." She don't say, "It's okay, I never loved him anyway." She don't scroll through her phone just looking for a Band-Aid It's different for girls when their hearts get broke They can't tape it back together with a whiskey and Coke They don't take someone home and act like it's nothing They can't just switch it off every time they feel something A guy gets drunk with his friends and he might hook up Fast forward through the pain, pushing back when the tears come on But it's different for girls She don't sleep all day and leave the house a wreck She don't have the luxury to let herself go (She won't call just to curse Found a wall she can punch When the going gets tough, yeah, the guys they can just act tough) It's different for girls when their hearts get broke They can't tape it back together with a whiskey and Coke They don't take someone home and act like it's nothing They can't just switch it off every time they feel something A guy gets drunk with his friends and he might hook up Fast forward through the pain, pushing back when the tears come on But it's different for girls It's different for girls Nobody said it was fair When love disappears, they can't pretend it was never there A guy gets drunk with his friends and he might hook up Fast forward through the pain, pushing back when the tears come on When the going gets tough, yeah, the guys they can just act tough So tough It's different for girls [x2]
@larytime6385
@larytime6385 4 жыл бұрын
@Brooklyn Sizemore its diffrent for guy its not saying guys have no emotion its saying we hide it and fast forward so
@kymberlynnethompson9306
@kymberlynnethompson9306 4 жыл бұрын
Thx for taking the time to post the Lyrics! This 'Should' Settle all these debates. BUT it won't bcuz Spoiler!!! Girls & Boys ARE Different💙🖤 👈😏👉
@rjay102
@rjay102 8 жыл бұрын
I love them and the song. Next: Dierks Bentley ft. Cassadee Pope
@ashleyj7579
@ashleyj7579 5 жыл бұрын
This song hits home all too well :( There is nothing like a broken heart
@brittanyjo826
@brittanyjo826 4 жыл бұрын
When her mama took her phone I cried so hard when I first seen this. Love it
@bigmachine08
@bigmachine08 4 жыл бұрын
Hopefully your broken heart has been mended by now. . . .
@sarahlouellasmith2766
@sarahlouellasmith2766 8 жыл бұрын
this song speaks to me. guys act like it does hurt like they are okay. then girls we hurt we show our pain. in ways boys don't. getting your heart broke never gets easy. it gets better threw time. and boys just don't understand how to treat a girl. it hurts us worse to see you already with someone else. or to even see you at all. we don't go searching for a fix we take our time and deal with it. the pain makes us who we are. this song reminds me that I am not alone I just have to press on.
@paulajane9828
@paulajane9828 3 жыл бұрын
Beautiful song so sweet needs to be played on country radio 🎸❣❤❣🎸❤❣❤🎸
@lauraesmerino6463
@lauraesmerino6463 6 жыл бұрын
I'm in tears now, this song came in the perfect timing and I've been crying because of some guy for almost 4 days now, I just hope I can figure out how to move on soon... Anyways, amazing song, amazing voices, amazing video, just perfect ♥
@dierksbentley1339
@dierksbentley1339 3 жыл бұрын
I especially want to appreciate you because you are a wonderful fan. Thank you for your kind comments on my post, it means a lot to me. 🙏.
@stacywhite6717
@stacywhite6717 4 жыл бұрын
The end of the year is almost over and this song and video is still really good 2020
@Melismel88
@Melismel88 8 жыл бұрын
I don't understand how or why people are so butthurt over this song I liked it
@emmacates8047
@emmacates8047 8 жыл бұрын
emma
@emmacates8047
@emmacates8047 8 жыл бұрын
emma
@stunz24
@stunz24 8 жыл бұрын
I like it too☺️☺️☺️
@SarahM874
@SarahM874 8 жыл бұрын
you haven't experienced personally what he is singing about...trust me it hurts.
@TamekaQuails
@TamekaQuails 8 жыл бұрын
I think people have their panties in a bunge because the song makes assumptions about gender norms in courting. Not everyone fits into the stereotypical behavior that the song describes. Rather than enjoy the cliche heartbreak country-pop song they are thinking too much about the meaning of it. None of these reactions are wrong. Everyone will experience the song differently while bringing their own personal baggage to it. Me personally, I like the song and I love Elle King. I didn't start dissecting it like a college dissertation until everyone else threw in their opinions.
@tacomanyourmama725
@tacomanyourmama725 6 жыл бұрын
I don’t get why I like this song so much
@tinafields3596
@tinafields3596 2 жыл бұрын
Really like that song
@katfran492
@katfran492 4 жыл бұрын
Wow, their voices blend so well.
@sevi9
@sevi9 8 жыл бұрын
bottom line... it's different for each of us, some let go faster, some can't get over it even decades after, we're all unique in our own ways
@dierksbentley1339
@dierksbentley1339 3 жыл бұрын
I especially want to appreciate you because you are a wonderful fan. Thank you for your kind comments on my post, it means a lot to me. 🙏,
@vincegredo
@vincegredo 8 жыл бұрын
I love this song. I think it's sung beautifully and the lyrics are really nice. But I don't think girls can be painted in some angelic light here. In my experiences with life during breakups. Guys feel great the first few days but as time goes on their hearts hurt more and more until months turn into years. With girls it's the opposite. In the first few days it feels like the world is ending but eventually they're just able to go on and leave what's passed behind. Men experience the most pain in it all I find
@JackFan2004
@JackFan2004 8 жыл бұрын
You have very limited experience, then.
@MadisonCMonis
@MadisonCMonis 8 жыл бұрын
Idk where you got this from but girls are way more emotional lol
@temper98
@temper98 8 жыл бұрын
wow Vince I really like u comment. that's so true
@lesliecampbell7221
@lesliecampbell7221 8 жыл бұрын
women try and try to fix things they put everything in to their relationship until they can't give no more and realize things will never change...we cry we hurt and put it all out there but then you have to move on. Then men, usually never listen. they never try when the opportunity is there they ignore it all in hopes that things will just get swept under the rug..that's not how it works. then we women leave and move on. Man finally realizes he messed up, finally stops to think and sees what he lost. making them take longer to move on. By the time a woman moves on she's over the hard part, but most definitely still care. We're not heartless
@_uditsingh
@_uditsingh 8 жыл бұрын
i thought it was lyrics 😐
@courtk9409
@courtk9409 7 жыл бұрын
So true. Song gave me chills
@madisonpulley5922
@madisonpulley5922 3 жыл бұрын
That beat hit diff wit that guitar 💯💪
@TheYorkshireLad1997
@TheYorkshireLad1997 8 жыл бұрын
Really loving the videos from "BLACK"
@JoseAReyes-mn1fr
@JoseAReyes-mn1fr 8 жыл бұрын
Me too
@TheRake
@TheRake 8 жыл бұрын
Bently a stunning example of someone who is persistent and loves their passion - music. I really don't think they give a damn about fitting in, just does their own thing. Respect! I share this mentality with my music. If you're one of those awesome people to give a nobody like me a chance, swing by my channel. I bet you won't regret it. Either way, stay happy and give this one another listen. Peace and love friends
@glksivakaran
@glksivakaran 8 жыл бұрын
Might be you're having colour blindness
@mikedavey3548
@mikedavey3548 4 жыл бұрын
i love this song soo much Elle kings voice is perfect in this.
@lurayraider
@lurayraider 4 жыл бұрын
0o0o m
@Th1sUsernameIsNotTaken
@Th1sUsernameIsNotTaken 8 жыл бұрын
I love how a lot of people are missing the point. Watch the video and listen to the lyrics. It states how dudes think they can fast forward through the pain by hooking up and showing him having fun, while the female is down in the dirt. Yet by the end of the video she's now with her friends enjoying herself and moving on as shown by ignoring the text(s), but he's down in the dirt because eventually the emotions that were "fast forwarded" through have to hit.
@elizabethmoeller4915
@elizabethmoeller4915 4 жыл бұрын
Lzzis
@elizabethmoeller4915
@elizabethmoeller4915 4 жыл бұрын
Lzzir
@Th1sUsernameIsNotTaken
@Th1sUsernameIsNotTaken 4 жыл бұрын
@@elizabethmoeller4915 ?
@TreasureHeist
@TreasureHeist 3 жыл бұрын
i can relate to this on this day ex is with someone new and im sitting here trying to push thru it
18 күн бұрын
Love, love.... love the FNL (tv) references in the Dierks lyrics! It's Different for Girls here and Clear Eyes, Full Hearts in "Livin" Two class acts coupled together with beauty and meaning.
@effiemcfarland6735
@effiemcfarland6735 Жыл бұрын
Dierks Is one Good Guy And He Can Sing And Write His Songs And Can Sing With That Country Sounds
@sariknuuttila9977
@sariknuuttila9977 8 жыл бұрын
Dierks, love your songs! Time for girls feelings now! Its different for girls is an awesome song! Love it!
@brittanilewing
@brittanilewing 8 жыл бұрын
People are taking this as "guys don't feel" but in reality it's more of a guys push everything down and pretend they're ok without actually taking time to be ok. Guys aren't allowed to be emotional in today's society so "it's different for girls" if you really pay attention to the lyrics they're saying the guy is pretending to be ok but ends up hurt even worse than he started.
@dylanclay2741
@dylanclay2741 8 жыл бұрын
thats true..but alot of people on here (mainy girls) seem to think it doesnt hurt us and only them when thats simply not the case we just handle breakups differently on average
@uchihasasuke6780
@uchihasasuke6780 8 жыл бұрын
...
@SaltyTheSeal
@SaltyTheSeal 8 жыл бұрын
Can't even begin to say how true this is.
@joelrubio378
@joelrubio378 8 жыл бұрын
Brittani Lewing Yours so rite thanks you got it true I've been in this place pretending to be ok in front of my friends so I don't have to look bad a lot of us guys do this relationship wise and in a lot of other situations in life also but hey your comment was amazing thanks
@kristenrowe6674
@kristenrowe6674 7 жыл бұрын
Brittani Lewing t4t
@EntirelyBonkersX
@EntirelyBonkersX 8 жыл бұрын
I don't think this song was supposed to be sexist, I think the message is that boys feel the same amount of pain that girls do, but they hide their feelings better, the song has probably been written based on passed experiences that the writers had, not every boy in the world. The idea that boys are happy after a break up but they eventually get upset whereas girls are the other way round (are hurt in the beginning but eventually get better) has been massively popular on social media in the past few years and could also be what inspired the song😊 I wouldn't take any of this to heart, it's just one persons outlook on heartbreak
@larissagonzales6075
@larissagonzales6075 4 ай бұрын
I honestly lived this though. My ex said his cousins told him to go out and get laid. He acted like he didn't care and found someone in between our breakup and when I ended it he was already a month later in a relationship instead of working on himself and our relationship. This is one of a few like this. A girl has no choice but to leave.
@onetwocue
@onetwocue 4 жыл бұрын
Oh gawd I don't feel like this song. It's been forever since I've been broken but I gotta say when this song came out, it was year for heart break music.
@chrismurphy7450
@chrismurphy7450 8 жыл бұрын
this song is soooo the way it goes
@user-dl2zm4ru9b
@user-dl2zm4ru9b 8 жыл бұрын
Elle King takes this song to a whole different level --> For Me
@singlemomof3
@singlemomof3 3 жыл бұрын
Me To 💯
@may_summer99
@may_summer99 2 жыл бұрын
This song was the top in my playlist since I was 19 💜
@journeedotson8005
@journeedotson8005 6 жыл бұрын
Love it...tells the truth about girls & guys💜
@tonicondon9474
@tonicondon9474 8 жыл бұрын
Heard this for the first time this morning and I love it. Elle King is awesome and featured with Dierks is a match made in heaven. The song is about assumptions and how they are just that assumptions. We all suffer when a relationship fails. There is no prescribed way to suffer no matter who you are.
@kristiwillard4843
@kristiwillard4843 7 жыл бұрын
I love Dierks Bentley and all his songs and for me this song is so beautiful and makes me think more highly of him for the lyrics! It is different for girls ( GOOD GIRLS )
@badbiker666
@badbiker666 8 жыл бұрын
Anyone who "listens" to this song and says it is poorly written and plays off of stereotypes is clearly NOT actually understanding the lyrics. The song does not say that a guy can just shrug off a relationship, go out with his friends, shoot whiskey & Coke, and pick up a random honey and all is well. It says that is what a guy will do to TRY and convince himself that his ex meant nothing to him, when in reality it is all bravado and he is actually just as upset about the breakup as she is. It is different for girls because they don't have that bravado escape. They talk about their real feelings with their girlfriends and they cry. Shit - look at the fucking video if you want to know what the song is really about. It's all right there ... the guy puts on a smile and goes out drinking with his bros, but gets too drunk, picks a fight, gets literally thrown out of the bar, and falls completely apart over his ex. This is a great country song and I love it. Thanks to Dierks Bentley for recording it and for having Elle King duet with him. This song just WORKS in so many great ways.
@DianaVickersUK
@DianaVickersUK 6 жыл бұрын
👌🏼👌🏼
@elizabethmoeller4915
@elizabethmoeller4915 4 жыл бұрын
Vggy
@mikhailjensen5916
@mikhailjensen5916 8 жыл бұрын
this song is 100% stereo typical, thats why it so good
@cortniebruce8794
@cortniebruce8794 8 жыл бұрын
I freaking LOVE this song!!
@jenniferdijames1671
@jenniferdijames1671 4 жыл бұрын
Good job guys.
@arrettaheywood9133
@arrettaheywood9133 5 жыл бұрын
It's different and difficult for the ones that did want it to end and I'm not sure how it is for anyone but I just know that we all feel something either way and heal different and I pray for all of us
@Brandon_Schuyler
@Brandon_Schuyler 8 жыл бұрын
this will allways be my favorite song
@carlicarpenter2943
@carlicarpenter2943 8 жыл бұрын
this song hurts my heart sooo much😭😭
@dierksbentley1339
@dierksbentley1339 3 жыл бұрын
I especially want to appreciate you because you are a wonderful fan. Thank you for your kind comments on my post, it means a lot to me. 🙏.
@ciaraberhel248
@ciaraberhel248 4 жыл бұрын
I understand the meaning of the song, but I'm a girl, and I was always taught to be tough.
@basian4653
@basian4653 4 жыл бұрын
Yea I think ive only ever been rejected by crushes and i literally pretend like it never happened. and sometimes sleep with some guy and never talk to him again its actually a pretty solid way to feel better. Havent done that in a long time but i feel you as a girl who was raised to never cry. And as an adult constantly misjudged
@KARRMA333
@KARRMA333 8 ай бұрын
That's why they say we don't have the luxury of letting our selves go. Society doesn't allow women to misbehave like men. We have no choice but to keep putting one foot in front of the other.. Even when we are dying inside...
@alissacarter2191
@alissacarter2191 5 жыл бұрын
Very few songs do this, but this songs rubs me the wrong way and I'm not actually sure why 😩
@pamelaW-g7f
@pamelaW-g7f Жыл бұрын
These two are great together 💕💕 Love listening to them!!❤
@hammeredseb7198
@hammeredseb7198 8 жыл бұрын
I like the song, and think it's great! Couldn't careless what anyone thinks!
@kimlittle3079
@kimlittle3079 7 жыл бұрын
I love KZbin it brings up when I'm down it makes me smile when I'm sad
@dierksbentley3320
@dierksbentley3320 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for your utmost love and support has brought me this far, it has been a hard time for me going through this, but your love and support keeps me going and standing strong in this difficult times. I do read your heartwarming comments and i truly appreciate all. It's the season of love for me & so i decided to put smiles on the faces of my fans by going through old posts on my official page and hitting up random fans, So i can get to relate with my fans better through discussions of depth and humour, listening to compliments and criticisms on my career work.😍🙏🏻🌎💜❤️❣️
@marcirwilcox1160
@marcirwilcox1160 3 жыл бұрын
He is so good live! I have seen him 3 times in concert!!!!!! His voice
@andrewbakenhus7980
@andrewbakenhus7980 3 жыл бұрын
So jealous hes one of my favorite singers 🥵
@evansilvey6394
@evansilvey6394 6 жыл бұрын
Dierks has been with me for12 yrs now. He is awesome. I love you man.
@bethanygeorge4359
@bethanygeorge4359 2 жыл бұрын
This is true for summer, spring & fall chicks Winter signs except earth don't break My sisters are Sagittarius and they can lay every man in their path and not feel a thing, they throw one kid aside and keep the other two because "they never felt like that kid was theirs" .... They have no feelings until someone points out their wrongs... Than we get told to not judge! I'm sorry winter men.... You have my prayers 😳
@bethanygeorge4359
@bethanygeorge4359 2 жыл бұрын
Both men & women born between April 1st and June 19th can't keep a hold of their spouses May 20th-june 19th are growth and favour compatible with fire but fire gets stolen by jealous jerk who thinks they are unhappy so they tease them if you will. They are emotionally and sexually compatible with January and drive each other nuts, earth never quits bugging air... They love to grow... Air signs raised by water signs, or have been influenced heavily by water are steam, steam propels hot water but hot water likes polarity and falls for snow! Spring air April 1st - may 19th Are very compatible emotionally with march snow & October earth, and can maintain hot water because they like to be warm! But fire is too much!
@hollywelch5168
@hollywelch5168 4 жыл бұрын
People are missing the point. From a guys perspective, he's forced to act tough. From a girl's perspective she's almost forced to fall apart. She puts out her emotions while the guy hides them. And it is drastically different for both parties. Since a girl is forced to show her emotions, she's gonna dig deep and find the ones she buried. Since a guy is forced to hide his emotions, he's going to have that strength to push them away and forget about or ignore them.
@Redex208050
@Redex208050 8 жыл бұрын
WOW apparently MEN can't feel anything... I guess MEN are not human
@whales1237
@whales1237 8 жыл бұрын
There are plenty songs for you men out there. Stop bashing a song for trying to make their point across and stop acting like the "victim," when your type is not included in something.
@Redex208050
@Redex208050 8 жыл бұрын
+Whales123 bashing the song XD I'm just throwing out a point
@whales1237
@whales1237 8 жыл бұрын
+Redex208050 And your point is bashing it. Bye
@Redex208050
@Redex208050 8 жыл бұрын
+Whales123 bye 😘 and pls tell your girlfriends the same thing you told me
@whales1237
@whales1237 8 жыл бұрын
+Redex208050 You're so annoying I swear. 😂😂 Here's the difference, scumbag. Girls have to face double standards, are never treated the same as a man in almost anything and girls are sick of it and standing for what's right. I'm a male and I'm not close minded as you and many out there. I support them because I see how males, females, society in general treat women.
@hazeleyes611
@hazeleyes611 8 жыл бұрын
I love this song. It's so very true. Awesome!!
@babyreed4
@babyreed4 7 жыл бұрын
Just saw him preform this tonight (2/23/17) it was fucking amazing! 10/10 recommend seeing him in concert, along with Cole Swindell! 💕
@tuyetpham4347
@tuyetpham4347 6 жыл бұрын
This is so true...love Elle King and Dierk Bentley
@ShaeBai
@ShaeBai 2 жыл бұрын
A woman’s going to leave you mentally before you get to leave her physically.
@Delphius-
@Delphius- 5 ай бұрын
Goes both ways
@neomadman323
@neomadman323 4 ай бұрын
She’s also gonna have her next one lined up
@je8267
@je8267 2 ай бұрын
Yeah I check out atleast a year prior
@krodriguez902
@krodriguez902 Ай бұрын
Yes definitely
@kenp.9762
@kenp.9762 19 күн бұрын
Pause the video at the exact moment near the end, where she is looking at her phone.... Zoom in on that. "I am nothing without you" "Why are you doing this to me?" She broke up with him, not the other way around. But it always seems to be the man's fault, right?
@marybates2675
@marybates2675 8 жыл бұрын
I love this song!!!!!!!!!
@dierksbentley1339
@dierksbentley1339 3 жыл бұрын
I especially want to appreciate you because you are a wonderful fan. Thank you for your kind comments on my post, it means a lot to me. 🙏,,
@victoriad.5575
@victoriad.5575 8 жыл бұрын
If everyone heard what Dierks said about this song on a interview, he said he was the girl in the break up , just sayin
@MeggerBaberz
@MeggerBaberz 7 жыл бұрын
cant wait to see him in august
@daveybrown42
@daveybrown42 7 жыл бұрын
I saw her tonight for the first time in 4 month I thought i was ok but my heart has dropped again there goes my happiness 😧.
@allisonwotring750
@allisonwotring750 8 жыл бұрын
i love this song😘😍
@AntonPursiainen
@AntonPursiainen 8 жыл бұрын
The king Buckley bought mere here
@jamesrolfe9747
@jamesrolfe9747 8 жыл бұрын
Ditto
@redmondbandy3521
@redmondbandy3521 8 жыл бұрын
+James Rolfe saaame
@emmajose9946
@emmajose9946 8 жыл бұрын
hhn
@pollybailey1457
@pollybailey1457 8 жыл бұрын
oamytjbvnbx.kndpmdmeipkr
@nickjewlz02
@nickjewlz02 8 жыл бұрын
ggh
@FifthChanceChangin
@FifthChanceChangin 4 жыл бұрын
The deepest wound is loving someone who doesn’t love you back
@ephialtes.
@ephialtes. 4 жыл бұрын
Diary of a Simpy kid or seeing someone u used to love drift away....
@masoncampbell74
@masoncampbell74 4 жыл бұрын
Imagine telling them you love them and they give you an I hate you back💔
@meg_gun1gamer
@meg_gun1gamer 4 жыл бұрын
Or having the person you love cheat on you saying it's your fault 💔
@lunawolfe5185
@lunawolfe5185 4 жыл бұрын
@Mr Redneck I know that feeling I'm going through it right now
@zohrehshayan6828
@zohrehshayan6828 6 жыл бұрын
Love you so much dear Dierks..❤❤ you are really awesome..❤❤😍😍👍👍👏👏
@lauraburnette4432
@lauraburnette4432 8 жыл бұрын
I've been threw this kind of pain, me and my fiance once broke up and God it hurt. But he hurt too. So not every man goes and sleeps around.
@karenaapus8576
@karenaapus8576 8 жыл бұрын
So many people getting offended about how this song makes men look heartless and how sexist it is and sooo few people who actually understand what the song actually means... Offended people, please, read the comments of the reasonable people in this sector and in the meantime I'll pray for you to really see what the song is about.... Ps. Being open minded it's a necessary condition while reading the comments who really got what the song means.. ;)
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