Differences Between Dating African Women vs African American Women? (King Obutunda)

hey every one.

[@la-de7ir]

I'm from Cameroon Please my people let's not start comparing our women this is a recipe for division.

[@ayyb6789]

Yes, I don't understand why African American men, need to insult African American Women. We have the same history has You all and AAM make it seem like where so difficult, trifling, love to argue, and where not lovable. We have some struggles just like the African American Men. Most African American Women had to learn how to be self sufficient. Most time she has to rely on herself. And it hurts when African American men put us down.

[@benardopiyo4075]

Pretty much my thoughts. This sweeping statements about African American women and African women is invidious. Every woman is different. We have good and bad men and women everywhere regardless of place of origin

[@Peacekeepa317]

The problem is making people pay for your past trauma that didn't traumatize you in the first place. I love African American women but that shit has become intolerable and exhausting. And most lean on the system...they are not truly self sufficient

[@lilbit9093]

Ben Real African American women holds the most degrees in the US. Topping even the white man and white women. And that’s their system. They raise their kids single handily, while going to school and working a job. Are you ignorantly, speaking of the few broken, systematically conditioned ones and classify all black AA women?!!!!! Please research and learn!!!! Lack of knowledge causes confusion!!!!

[@ayyb6789]

@D'RealBoxingFan lol lol... your funny, I understood what they were and getting at.

[@leen.4205]

Am an African woman and recently married an African American man. I took him to Africa last December to meet my family. He is such a wonderful man and treats me like the queen I am🇱🇷🇰🇪

[@victoriaharry1048]

Awh

[@LiberianPrincess18]

Liberia 🇱🇷 stand up

[@omartistry]

🖤✊🏿🇺🇸🇱🇷✊🏿🖤

[@leratomatong3526]

I'm south African and falling in love with a black American man. My worry is the cultural differences and the acceptance from his family's side

[@og-greenmachine8623]

Every single black chick I EVER talked to that married an African guy complained that they were lazy and would never do housework I’m not mad at them Passing it along That’s what they get for marrying an African dude 😂😂😂

[@bobbydardy2906]

Now make one about African Men vs Black American Men

[@arncoo63]

@Nash Musta I am a Black Amerikan there's no animosity here but I'm talking for Myself because almost most of Us are still asleep in enslaved ignorance of mis-education of the real Historic Truth!

[@byttlejuice145]

Am Luo from the North, we don't do the King, Queen fantasy in luo land but u are welcome here.

[@byttlejuice145]

@Nash Musta no, am just saying we don't dwell in that fantasy. U come here no one will call u king/queen, we shall treat u like everyone else.

[@dcryptospace1284]

🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@newnewyorkcity7180]

@Nash Musta All americans are not Africa its only political

[@timeTravellin]

Africa is the birthplace of all women. Black women in general are beautiful regardless of where they are from.

[@tjmiles81]

All facts. Black women, no matter where they're born, are generally the most beautiful women on the planet.

[@canismajoris6733]

@@tjmiles81 hi Adolf.

[@oladipupodurotimi4754]

@@tjmiles81 Nah I disagree.

[@ishastewart1879]

The biggest difference between african women and african american women is american woman are raised to survive. We are raised this way because we are used to our men not staying. african women are raised to get married. You are right about trauma.

[@kama6196]

True, never thought of this from this angle, but it makes sense.

[@deloreswallace9063]

That is overflowing when your king has found his queen that you can take your life long journey with. May the Highest Power continues with the gift of with you two

[@isalinee100]

That may be true for African women that are still in Africa but for the diaspora in Europe different. Like I'm Congolese (which was colonized by Belgium) living in Belgium.

[@purpleaesthetic610]

Steve Jhonson Oh so the OOW birth rate and single motherhood was only our faults?

[@purpleaesthetic610]

Steve Jhonson Accountability is literally yall kryptonite. It’s crazy

[@tnzem2917]

Im proud to say I kneel to serve my King. He treats me like a Queen still its not an insult to me at all. Im Educated with masters degree too so its not even about being "backward". Africa sinjalo nje 😍

[@blaqued5186]

✊

[@richardmanqele2878]

Wow. Good my sister. Sinjalo nje. Siyahloniphana.

[@ellenpaul678]

Do you have to kneel if you have arthritis?

[@BLISB]

Ellen Paul that has a lot to do with the way people eat and do not care for their bodies. Many African nations eat fresh food as opposed to the heavily processed Western diet which promotes dis-ease like arthritis.

[@sinqobilenhlangulela9812]

I'm from Africa too and I just want to say akuthina sonke esinjalo. Some of us are not interested in servitude.

[@rockyah1804]

Kneeling is part of the culture bro don't worry it doesn't mean u own her but that's is a sign of respect to their kings

[@zoem9686]

Totally true

[@yasminada4510]

Thank you please explain to him

[@sanafricanlady9617]

It’s how we show love and respect to our man and our femininity. It’s culture and love

[@BLISB]

African Lioness actually did an interview with a young lady from Uganda and she explained that part of her culture. Keep in mind very few blink an eye when Japanese women do it as a part of their culture.

[@kaysmith8787]

Its much different when the kings are actually acting and being responsible like kings.

[@zanguiza]

There are Good and bad women everywhere! Please do not compare the Queens!

[@DELIVERANCE-TODAY]

EXACTLY!!!!!

[@naalynmusic]

Yep!!

[@rizikihanisa9099]

U r right but in Africa high percentage of Africans do respect and dont talk back to their men and elders as Americans I know u know that

[@protectedspirit7692]

@@rizikihanisa9099 Sounds oppressive and not very African.

[@darkbionic1044]

Queens are Queens everywhere

[@san6617]

I’m an African woman, and I hate comparisons. I know many Amazing African American women and many African women too 🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️ there’s bad everywhere 🙏🏾

[@og-greenmachine8623]

Yeah you’re right but we’re sick of them we want to try African girls❤️

[@janiceiyonawan]

Period ✊🏽

[@solomontesfaye5792]

But why is there a much higher percentage of bad black American women. Im Ethiopian-American and I noticed some our women in America are acting like them. This did not happen in Ethiopia.

[@san6617]

Solomon Tesfaye do not disrespect and generalize. How many Black American women do you know? Have you met all of them. What makes you think those Ethiopian women you are talking about aren’t just being who they are and not following anyone’s lead.

[@san6617]

Solomon Tesfaye I disagree with you. I am sure you don’t mean harm but don’t be biased

[@deloreswallace9063]

African Americans women were always put into opposition to defend herself at all times. Other nationalities of women always had support from their male counterparts.

[@bobbydardy2906]

You are 100 percent on point with this!

[@sheree1994sa]

People don't understand that though

[@empressshuk]

Delores you are so right! Alot of African women (for example) like to bleach the hell out of their skin and they still get respected by their men!

[@DJPoundPuppy]

@@empressshuk That would never Halen in the US.

[@omotanwa2986]

This is absolute truth

[@faridahnakayemba1496]

Most African women are feminine coz we are taught from the start we grow up knowing father is the head of the family we are family oriented but all women are good if she loves u

[@mjohnson1741]

African men earn their respect from African women. You can't bash you're own women call them b's, have no education, low income and then be surprised when they give you attitude.

[@faridahnakayemba1496]

M johnson ur right

[@YaAllahswt]

@@mjohnson1741 Louder on this please

[@diogomate940]

@James Joe you're right . I've seen the behaviour of American women and its weird and it won't change because they're not willing to listen

[@calumbasilva868]

Mhm

[@ksfaith87]

Please don’t lump all women of African descent in America in the same boat. At the same time, don’t judge. Much of the trauma that many African American women have been through is due to the culture in America and due to negative interactions with African American men. AA men have to own their part. It’s a two-way street with 400 years in between. As someone who researches African American culture and family history, I can also tell you that prior to integration, African American family ties were strong and, in many cases, still are.

[@denisejohnson3578]

Real talk it’s plenty of brothas out here with teams too

[@CGOLDENBOY1]

My parents had me 4mos after marriage. Mom 16, Dad almost 19. That was 50 years ago. They celebrated their 50th Anniversary few months ago.

[@marlonb2804]

so it's not AA men, it's white supremacy system which affect the relationship.

[@og-greenmachine8623]

True AMERICAN men coopted the black woman She’s on THEY team & Most don’t even realize it. Worst enemy of Black Men. Slick move

[@OshayDukeJackson]

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[@tonyjones-clark4960]

Thanks Oshay!!! Will subscribe now!!!

[@beastmylife4928]

AA women get compared to enough women already, don’t start division between African and AA women. Counterproductive AF

[@stoplayin21]

That’s what I was thinking however the guest handled it well

[@hamzz6824]

Facts

[@protectedspirit7692]

@@stoplayin21 Yes he did. Hope he doesn't do any more interviews with this guy. He's toxic. Something isn't right about him.

[@og-greenmachine8623]

African women be kneeling before they men and shit! calm down over there let’s hear about these girls😍

[@oladipupodurotimi4754]

@@og-greenmachine8623 that kneeling always comes at a cost bruh. You must be able to take care of her and her child. If you do that, trust me you will earn that respect.

[@ronaldh8298]

Yes sir. Been to Kampala uganda last year 2019. The women's so beautiful. Going back to do some investment apartments. Really enjoyed myself. Peace.

[@blessedm58]

Try and watch Rwanda women on KZbin too u will jump to Rwanda lol

[@faridahnakayemba1496]

Ur welcome bro come to Uganda

[@latifasubra5410]

I’m a Nubian in Uganda we kneel before our elders even our own mothers most esp when we are talking or giving them food it’s a sign of respect

[@olydnk5270]

That's beautifully said

[@tnzem2917]

me too. Zimbabwean and I love it

[@annshee7884]

Please don't try that Tradition in some African countries, they will not understand it, infact they may see it as your weakness

[@MboroNyeusiKubwa]

@@annshee7884 which countries?? Are u even African?? We have lots of similar norms among our different African cultures. Those similarities are why we sometimes generalize all and say Ex. In the african culture we do or don't this and that. Maybe u meant to say in other countries outside Africa.

[@swahiliwithdavid5910]

@@MboroNyeusiKubwa In Tz, some tribes have that tradition but some don't. In Kenya, it looks like most of the tribes don't do it. Having said that, I think it's a very good tradition to keep! +255

[@johncarter6781]

I'm American and I love my beautiful Cameroon wife best relationship I ever had planning on marring her

[@la-de7ir]

Yo king I'm from cameroon riding for you fam, if you don't mind is she from the anglophone or the French speaking side. Me I'm from the awing tribe in Bamenda. ✊🏿

[@johncarter6781]

Tikar tribe she speaks English until you piss her off 😂🤣🤣

[@johncarter6781]

@@la-de7ir she's from where you are

[@johncarter6781]

@@la-de7ir no French

[@johncarter6781]

@@la-de7ir she's everything I been looking for in a woman she's the real deal

[@sweetspice9120]

Its a controversial topic but your guest was very diplomatic and handled the questions well. I can see he has done quite some healing in Uganda

[@arncoo63]

We can sure could use some healing out of Amerikkka Ourselves both of Us Afrikan Amerikan Men as well as Women maybe Uganda or any Continent of Alkebu-Lan or Afrika will a lot of Us lot of good f-k what the racist social media or even some of Us Brothers or Sisters who are really unaware of the Truth!

[@kingobutunda9311]

Bruh this interview was lit. Thanks for having me on the channel hope to do another video soon.

[@tonyjones-clark4960]

Great video brothers. I just subscribed King! Shalam(Peace) family!!!

[@Kenganda]

Thanks !

[@robincrawley311]

Congratulations On Your Wedding To Be King To Your African Queen!!! Almighty God's Many Blessings To Your Union For Always!!!💞 😇👑👑😇

[@kingobutunda9311]

@Jay B brother i live here now. So just hit me up at [e-mail]

[@cyhememoore2525]

King Obutunda my brother beautiful black womenfolk being obedient is the rib of black man. I might have to schedule a trip to investigate this phenomenon

[@victoriatongun1775]

When a woman kneel down to address her husband or anyone for that Matter in some Africans culture it's not because she thinks you are her master, its about RESPECT. I think African American need to first learn the culture of Africans to understand why things are done the way its done....

[@pabloernesto8044]

It is called brainwashing. White people (the only race without tradition) defined it as master-slave relationship.

[@janiceiyonawan]

Thank you sweetie 😘 you said it right I'm a Nigerian woman and I fully agree.there ate alot of tribes in Nigeria where the woman kneels to serve their husband as a sign of respect and love and letting the man that she is fully committed in the marriage.

[@yelloe]

@@pabloernesto8044 theyre talking about African men and African women marriage. Not white man and african woman. Whites and Europeans have traditions tf you talking about? I know this and im asian

[@mrdacusthenavigator4989]

I love Black women no matter what part of the globe they are from as long as she's feminine, conscious and in good shape. I don't swirl and most importantly will NOT date big girls AT ALL. But definitely, African women from the continent gives Brothers a greater option,

[@dcryptospace1284]

william tombs it’s crazy seeing how most black women accept most black men even at their worst. Take heed ladies. kzbin.info/www/bejne/bqjNd5amnL6BeLM

[@Jhh241]

@@dcryptospace1284 o I am

[@nymeria7239]

Just as African men from the continent give Sistas a greater option. What's good for the goose is just as good for the gander.

[@PlannedObsolescence]

You're an asshole.

[@YPM498]

Lmao you just had to include big girls 😂

[@DefiesAllStereotypes]

I love this one! I've promoted African American men dating and marrying African and Caribbean women for 20 years.

[@boxgaming281]

Yes, and Africa American women dating African men and Caribbean men!! Blck love

[@nanayaa.5325]

@@boxgaming281 Real Talk and that's been happening around the women are marrying men from Africa and the Caribbean.

[@empressshuk]

@Nash Musta I'm a AAW and i wanna say Thank you brother!

[@empressshuk]

@Nash Musta That's how i feel about the African man. He got this spiritual strength that is not in black and white American men and I just love it!

[@DONNYPESO]

@B1Chronixx right I am Caribbean 2 anything just because it's a different country that the women and men will be so much different there are differences but some of the people act the same just do it in a different way

[@meziecharles5087]

African women will treat u like a King cos she is a queen with real home training...

[@meziecharles5087]

@Gloria Sarah that's not where am going pls don't get me wrong besides are all black women not African?

[@jojogamesug6596]

We're

[@smd4751]

@@meziecharles5087 Yes we all are but you were talking about African women. Not Agrican American women. If our fathers....key fathers...would raise out of that type of tradition then we too would be raised with home training to respect our men.

[@staciquinton2794]

African American women are queens too and most of us have home training as well. We also treat our men like kings; if he is worthy of being treated like a king. I am an African American woman with a Nigerian man and I treat him very well. We have mutual love and respect for one another. Not all African American women are bad, just like not all African women are bad. African American women have standards too. 8-15-2020(Sat.)

[@og-greenmachine8623]

Wow... Yeah we don’t get treated like kings over here Don’t even know enough to complain Never experienced it

[@onicamatidze5547]

am venda woman from SA and i kneel down to my man,its tradition even my elders,it doesnt feel right serving your husband r elders standing,u feel it

[@tamaraharawa]

Yes...I am from Malawi and it's the same...I can't stand, or put my hands on the hips when talking to my elders...its weird..lol

[@SabzKhumalo]

But it's only the Venda. The other cultures here don't do that.

[@zoem9686]

Yes definitely I'm 19 from Eswatini and I really dont feel comfortable serving elders when standing

[@patriciamalyango5931]

Same here

[@floydpotts2438]

Fam, as a African American, I feel it is time for unification worldwide. They have divided us for centuries. In the Diaspora we are a beautiful people hunted and hated by many. Let's not divide ourselves like this. I have dated and loved my Black folks from all other the world and I have found this. My Sister's whether from Africa, America, Europe, Australia and every other region have blessed me. Let's lift up Sisters and Brothers worldwide. We are all we have, we must unite and build.

[@staciquinton2794]

I am an African American woman in a relationship with a Nigerian man and we have a mutual love and respect for one another. 8-15-2020(Sat.)

[@og-greenmachine8623]

He’s not getting shit served to him by a kneeling bitch, though! I know that much...

[@Mysteryofmines]

@@maryamadahir1199 huh that sounds like something a racist would say🤔

[@YPM498]

@@maryamadahir1199 😂😂

[@nowalubega1475]

My advice to King Obutunda is to stay married and make your family here in Uganda. You go to that gynocentric American system you might regret it

[@acedueceable]

@Gloria Sarah He wasn't saying he's better. He spoke on the influence the American system has on marriage. He spoke truthfully.

[@DONNYPESO]

@Gloria Sarah Jesus what is wrong with you

[@missqt48]

Very true my brother, I hope they have many children (I know they’ll be sooo cute 😍) allow the children to experience both Africa and America. But only go to America for holidays! Not the best place to raise black children to be honest! Wouldn’t risk it!

[@maplelu9514]

AFRICAN WOMEN are not here to replace the women you reject or be your footstool. If this man does not bring anything to the table he should stay where he is. If He cannot find any woman in America has to come to Africa then something is wrong with him that he needs to change that goes for all black men. If you are a good person, good people who be around you whether African, American or whatever. My advice for him would be to be a good man

[@Aboriginal_American_Hebrew]

@@maplelu9514 your lying or misinformed Indigenous melanin Hebrew women in the states are taught to look at melanin men as inferior the more respectful you are to them the more hostility is brought to you as a man

[@Queenc782]

This is such a loaded conversation, and I really hope you interview an AA woman who’s left the diaspora now living on the continent dating an African man. Because the sentiments are the same. AA women have evolved to be the heads of households, and take on roles that men should be holding down due to circumstance, not choice. It’s so exhausting for men to want the king treatment when their efforts are very Queen/Peasant like.

[@Queenc782]

Mwatu Wa Ngoma based off your response, it’s clear you didn’t understand anything I said.

[@elvishhudson2402]

FACTS. And this is from an African women.

[@Blessed1985]

Yup! A lot of AA men don't bring what we have to the table. Sorry, not sorry. The statistics aline with what I am saying.

[@CHEERWKU]

Exactly! That video was very chauvinistic & hard to watch. It was cringy. There are varying cultural differences & many situations were voided out of the conversation. Very one sided & divisive!

[@TrancEndingMedia]

Ain no circumstance. Your comment is the epitome of lack of accountability of all women but mostly black women in the ‘west’. You equated the efforts of a queen to that of a peasant...so does that mean that women who think they are queens are peasants? Notwithstanding that i get the queen aspect in this regard is referring to emasculated/fruity like men

[@sandy-sd7jj]

African American women have had to be father and mother in most households, and respect goes both ways. African American women have had to deal with the abundance of racism on all fronts so there’s no comparison so stop doing this disservice to black women every where there is no comparison no matter where they’re from because we all have to go through different obstacles which shapes us all.

[@lovmcpherson2188]

That's a fact

[@Negro.spiritual]

I know this is a year later but that narrative I a lie look it up statistically african americans fathers are in their kids lives more than any other race majority of the time the father IS THERE

[@Negro.spiritual]

@@lovmcpherson2188 it literally is not

[@Visionary921]

They have been compromised. Agents to help create a divide.

[@dookiepuddle]

You are not a father…just a single mother who made a bad choice in sleeping with a pookie or deadbeat…and getting pregnant by him.

[@zoefofo7769]

i love and support the positivity you guys are projecting about africa

[@TonyaEL]

To keep it balanced can you make one titled "Differences Between Dating African Men vs African American Men"?

[@TonyaEL]

Baleri Kirmu This is a channel presenting issues for both men and women that are interested in repatriating to Uganda. What makes you think this channel is just for males?

[@og-greenmachine8623]

Let her see the difference... As an American man I’m not offended if our girls choose a man from a Third World country over me I’m curious to see how your life will work out myself

[@TonyaEL]

Roddy MacChlerich I have dated men from Africa and know there is a difference between dating African American and African men. I didn’t ask for myself but for everyone to know the difference.

[@nikowabantu6216]

@@og-greenmachine8623 there’s nothing wrong being from the third world country (that’s a white man term ) I’m African from what you called third word But my dad has multiple businesss and properties back home in Africa and all my brothers are successful one is doctor in Canada ,another one is computer engineer in us tx my self I’m in university doing electrical engineering here in Texas And all of us are coming from the place you called third word Do you think you are better than us ?

[@robbynzudo1769]

This is honestly why a lot of single men and women are moving to Africa. Let's be honest about this thing. It's all good, but keep it 100. Best wishes, #GODBLESS

[@maplelu9514]

If you have to come all the way to Africa to find a woman then you need to change your heart not your location, then good people will find you. AFRICAN women like myself are taught to submit or support men that can lead, provide and have value in themselves, if you don’t have this you will not find any good wife where ever you go cause no African mother will let her child marry a man who is not jk to her child’s standard

[@allix5480]

First. Black American women have been striped of knowledge of self versus African women who have never lost their culture. You cannot compare b/c they live in and come from two different worlds and experiences. And disrespect of African women runs rampant on that continent. Respect is universal which is what all must have for self and show others. Everyone of us are on different places on the spectrum of how to show that. Brothers must also give respect to get it. American women are generally treated with little regard. Understand and empathize as to why she is unable to bow(figuratively, not literally) She should bow to her creator only cause that is who she belongs to. ( Literally)

[@irenekisakye3789]

Ooh you married my sister from Buganda😊

[@MarleneSchultz-xg6tt]

I want to know about that family oriented part while he was interrupting you. Women that are married don’t have to fend for themselves. Which causes them to not be as confrontational. Notice he said kneel to husband not baby daddy😂😂

[@Smiley0725]

Owkey in the West,I guess, it's about "me and my family",here in Kenya,for example,the extension of family is huge..we highly embrace Extended family as much as Nucleur [e-mail]

[@chinneynz7861]

Yeah baby daddy is a taboo in Africa.... We don't do that, it devalues a woman and ruins the child.

[@MarleneSchultz-xg6tt]

Chinney Nz Amen brother teach these men in America

[@rachelkasumba1078]

Just subscribed to both of your channels. Welcome to the motherland. So interested in learning more about AA experiences on the continent. Thanks!! This was so hilarious

[@LivingBiContinental]

@Kenganda peace bro I appreciate what you are doing with your channel. I too am an African-American that lives in Uganda. I actually live half year in Uganda and half year in St. Louis. I am married to a Muganada and our 1st son together was born in Uganda as well. Trust me on this topic there is a MAJOR difference!!!!!!! I found extreme peace with dealing with my Muganda wife.

[@OshayDukeJackson]

Anthony McDonald hit me I’ll interview you before i go back

[@OshayDukeJackson]

Nash Musta Hahahaha I got u bro

[@IndigoElevation]

Together we stand, divided we fall. Thanks for your contribution!

[@hhonore68]

As an AA woman, I was not raised to fight men or be disrespectful to black men so that’s not the complete AA way. That’s some people’s way.

[@melissaslade9652]

Do you have one on the difference between African men and African American men?

[@DONNYPESO]

Man you sound bitter

[@melissaslade9652]

donny peso goyard BPC just would like to hear it. That’s all. Not sure how you picked up bitter from one sentence. Sounds as if you are good at wrongfully accusing others.

[@DONNYPESO]

If you really want to know how other black males think of black women here in America you can ask me I am a Caribbean boy and I think even when women come from other countries at once to get to this country which is a very feminine country the USA they tend to change up you have to understand that you was raised up up under a culture where there is no structure

[@melissaslade9652]

donny peso goyard BPC that is untrue and not correct. The problem is the world is very ignorant when it comes to black American culture. Our history has not been told correctly. The narrative of our history has not been completely told and has been hidden from the world for most people to believe what you have written now. The lies, stereotypes, you have seen on television from the western world is not the true reality of black people in America. The wrong narrative of our culture has been spread all over the world. We have to live with the stress of the ignorance you express every day to prove to the world we are not the kind of people the media depicts us out to be. The reason for my question was to hear the difference. I had a black father, there are black men in my family and I know they love black women. I have a black man in my life now that loves me very much. We will be getting married soon. So what you’re writing is not a true depiction of black American culture at all. Be blessed.

[@nymeria7239]

@@DONNYPESO so does the guy who made this video. He's trying to be sly with it, but we see him. Any time a woman disputes a man's wrongful claims, she's "bitter". Just like simpmo is trying to MAKE a difference between AA women and African women, then there can be a difference between AA men and African men too. You all want to dish it out but you can't take it.

[@rasted8755]

You can't even compare real African queens with any other girls period. I love my African women

[@B1BrotherMoses]

Great interview. Love the topic.

[@OshayDukeJackson]

Brother Moses thanks fam!!!

[@KBHfinanceguy]

This is quickly becoming one of my favorite channels on YT. I love the REAL TALK

[@Cahluvca]

Good interview Oshay...good topic to discuss the differences of dating throughout the diaspora.

[@selassies9783]

I love this. It's the first time I see an African American men with an African women. I want hoping to find myself an AA man. LOL

[@Kenganda]

Get in my inbox boo lol

[@pabloernesto8044]

You must be very young if this is the first time for you.

[@selassies9783]

Kenganda lol I sure will🤝😂

[@selassies9783]

Pablo Ernesto lol I’m just being honest😂😂

[@drhymesflixs8083]

Wassup Selassie S. You on social media?

[@terenceambang]

I am an African living in Europe and I have always had this thing for black American women. my wish is to get married to one. that's why I search for this video. I wish i meet one someday

[@BlackGirlGreenThumb]

can you do one on African men marrying African American women?!

[@mjohnson1741]

That would be fair. I'm African and the is an influx of African American women in my family and African community marrying African men. However, there's not hardly any African women with Black American men.

[@BlackGirlGreenThumb]

m Johnson yes, I know a couple of women that married men from Africa

[@nikowabantu6216]

Yes they are plenty AAW marrying to African men My young bro is dating An AAW She’s my mom’ best friend My Congolese parents love her so much In many African cultures if your partner’s parents accept you (having a good relationship with them) you already pass the exam Like my mom and my fiancé they’re best friends Even when I tell my mom that my fiancé did something wrong to me she wouldn’t believe me She keeps saying that I’m the one who is bad And if my fiancé call her and tell her that did something wrong to her , that day I’d be insulted to death 😂😂 All of that it’s bcz they have good relationship

[@prettynerd4779]

I hope that we can move away from these type of questions.. I feel liked its tinged with a bit of antagonism towards African American women.. I mean Afr. Amer sisters are amazing too, we are the most educated, hold it down for our families, and can be extremely loving. I think African women are amazing too but I hate the comparisons. It just comes across bad.. black women are the same but our environments are different.. even African women who grew up in America are different from sisters from the continent. Black men and women both have serious traumas because I could write a book on black men but I won't 🤣😂 but we have to get out of this cycle of what women are better than African American women and why or calling it " differences" and make videos about it for the WORLD to see. . WHy do brothers do that? I rarely see sisters doing that but anywho.. I am a self proclaimed Pan Africanist and a big supporter of black love. I am glad King Obutunda found his Queen and wish them well and I sincerely hope Kenganda finds his African Queen too.. 😁✌

[@tricia7016]

I agree with you 100%! You are too nice in your response. I am not an African American woman and I am so offended by what these African American men are doing to their women. It doesn't make them look good at all. There are cultural differences between African women and African American women. In the west, women of African descent come from a totally different upbringing, experience, etc. There is just nothing to compare culturally. I do not understand why these African American men chose to compare them and stir up discord and hatred. Continue holding your head high African American sister, you are admired by many. It hasn't been easy for black people in this world, and to see these African American men doing this to their sisters makes me shake my head and say, WHAT LOSERS!! Then they wonder why they are hated and why African American women are turning to other ethnicities to find husbands.

[@Mr-kv4kc]

Ok! So we're talking about our wombmen, the scattered & the wombmen of colonization! I can only relate to the hebrew wombman(American wombman&hebrew tribes of Africa) The📖 scriptures Prophetize about the curese of a warmed hearted wombmen turning cold having the evil eye toward husband not boyfriend! & the times of remembrance, turning back great as a nation! See we have to take this walk together in truth to truely be successful &know our roles. Yes wombmen, the weaker are taking mens roles durning captivity&the temptations are there to divide but only Father is going to lead us out of oppression, darkness &boundage. The relationship with the Father, Yah himself together is going to make a big difference! Those wombmen who show honor for their lord, their husband are giving honor to a man whose willing to die for u&fight his hardiest fight🤜🏾💥👊🏿 if some goons came in& kick down the 🚪door. U just can't have the regular joe, u got to have a man of the covenant! & its easier when that wombman that Proverb31 wombman, it makes a hell🔥 of a difference &make it less stressful for that type of man, set apart man. If my wife bows down to me, I ll bow right back to! Those are true Hebrew roots! But yes! The states are corrupted misleading, tempting& no love, but don't follow the way of the heavens right!? but well adopted. It says don't invy your oppressors. They seem to shine but not long live. I believe I was with two Hebrew wombmen from Ghana & Kenya in the past but I didn't marry but had mad respect & love& ☝🏽wanted to take me back home to her land but I was a punk! They were too nice, uncorrupted for me! I couldn't handle it, I had to let them go. I couldn't say the same about the Caribbean nation Belize, Trinidad, Puerto rico, Jamaica, Venezuela,Dominican, not even Vietnam! this land corrupts! Shabbat shalom! (Peace on this sanctified day keeping it observe it)

[@Mr-kv4kc]

It says such a proverb31 wombman is to be praised!

[@LoVely-fo2nb]

Thank you for not pitting us against each other. We get enough of that in America with them comparing us to white women in the United States, which is typically the preference for Black men in the US sadly.

[@emmanuelervin5035]

That is not true

[@eastvids4971]

🧢

[@maplelu9514]

Honestly I see it too. African women don’t have beef with AA women we love you

[@judek1170]

88 percent of married bm are with bw, not counting biracial so just fully bw

[@TIENxSHINHAN]

I wouldn't say our preference is typically white women. The vast majority of black American men prefer black women. It's just the men who prefer white/non black women feel the need to shout about it constantly and disrespect black women in the process.

[@hawkeyes2814]

great interview, i agree, if you are lame in America and can't speak to women, you will be the same overseas, but i will say, even the lames get 10s over seas, the women are more approachable and sometimes they will approach you and make it easy for you to converse with them

[@hawkeyes2814]

@Ashley Wilson Jersey you?

[@hawkeyes2814]

@Ashley Wilson aww lol, i'm a visit the midwest one of these days

[@dcryptospace1284]

Until they catch on ha ha kzbin.info/www/bejne/bqjNd5amnL6BeLM

[@TruthSeeker30_]

Where are the best countries for us Americans

[@ginacrowder284]

@@TruthSeeker30_ Ghana, or Nigeria in my opinion..

[@pamelalagony2172]

Obutunda, u are a wonderful person! I feel so proud of a brother who can make such a great change and move back to Africa after hundreds of years. You know u are and many others in Ghana , Zambia are real African men. Our sons taken away from us , but lord they are back home.🙏🙏🙏❤️ Best wishes to u and ur beautiful wife.

[@gbluetick5126]

Yes we are told to respect our husbands look after the home children and our husbands

[@gbluetick5126]

My link check for Nakimbugwe Gladys on face book

[@gbluetick5126]

@fifikhalifa barryare you the one asking for the link?

[@staciquinton2794]

There are African American women that are also taught to respect and love their husbands. They were also groomed to be good mothers and wives. It all depends on how you were brought up. African American women believe in family values as well. 8-15-2020(Sat.)

[@NoName-jf7wb]

Gladys Ntambi I was taught the quickest way to a man heart is through his stomach. Lol! But I quickly learnt that you can cook and clean and smash all you want that’s not going to keep him where he doesn’t want to be. Where are you from? Do you have recommendations of women who cook bomb African dishes?

[@gbluetick5126]

@@NoName-jf7wb As a woman you can do all you can to keep yo husband but it's a man who will choose to stay so you just have to pray God to keep yo marriage. Am from uganda.and you where are you from?cooking is very easy but African dish's are many I come from East Africa uganda I know how to cook my food thou I can learn other food too

[@CHEERWKU]

Maybe the experience was "better" because the men treat the women better there. Therefore, the women don't have to fight all the battles that black men run from & don't have to struggle as much. Glad I've happily celebrated my Sweet16 (years married) with my husband last week. Apparently, he knows a valuable, respectful, submissive, educated, intelligent business owning copper colored woman. (He actually paid for one of my businesses). Sheesh! That video was hard to watch and was very chauvinistic & divisive. It was cringy to say the least. There are varying cultural differences & how many situations were voided out of the conversation. Very one sided & divisive!

[@johncarter6781]

Not true American women want the thugs with different baby mamas the men have woke up and took the red pill and won't even look African American women so they dating and marrying outside their race not me my queen is from Africa and I'm from America

[@CHEERWKU]

@@johncarter6781 smgdh. Who in the hell wants a thug? BOL! That's like saying AA men want Thots. That sounds stupid.

[@chinneynz7861]

Actually, it's a good video.

[@I_love_science]

Most African woman don't run away from their kids infact there are some countries in Africa wereby if a man impregnates a woman out of wedlock then they are forced to marry especially in the village, kids out of wedlock are considered a taboo hence African man take responsibility, and they are raised to be providers of the family . Most African man do not expect any financial help from their female, they just want her to raise their kids and cook for him and be submissive.

[@Negro.spiritual]

@@I_love_science most black american fathers are in their kids lives its amazing to me how you guys would rather spew bs that black women pass off about us instead of doing a quick Google search that is a bold face lie, even the kid is born out of wedlock most of the time the father is in the child's life. This is just like the bs that "black american men prefer white women" which isn't statistically true either but then wonder why alot of us just don't even care about the black american women's thought process destroying our perception to the world and then playing the victim card as if the destruction of the black american household is purely our faults.

[@prettygirl5469]

I like how ya'll were respectful and enlightening. We can all learn from one another

[@kpdiallo1111]

Interesting content brothers! Thank you for this new and super fresh content!

[@swone8187]

Nice interview Oshay!

[@BigEast302]

Excellent interview bro!

[@Juninzone]

I love African women !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@alianarwabs2796]

Wea humble and respectful to every one, thank u

[@chelseaaneke]

Thanks boo

[@bruceleroy3165]

The biggest thing black people struggle with is UNITY

[@TheJobsons]

Respect King, I enjoyed listening to this candid discussion, so much truth.

[@Wakeupzion22]

American black women have been through a lot of tactics to separate them from their men (prison system, welfare, feminist movement.) To the point that she has been conditioned to think she is above her man. The conditions and environment was different so it produces different mannerisms. Yes we are the same people but generally we do act differently due to generational destruction on the black family in America.

[@corywilliams9007]

Thank you this is most the educated comment I have read yet. Most of these African American women in the comment section show no accountability for themselves. Just blame blame and more blame. I honestly hate it but this is America. Glad alot of African women are still honorable strong and family oriented. To those AA women who hold their families down love and respect themselves and their Husband God bless you forever. We need more of you!!!!

[@awisemanoncesaidawisemanon6705]

African women are not only respectful kind generous and beautiful did I mention beautiful and sexy respectfully loyal but they also make the best wives... GOOD DAY SIR, MA'AM 💯

[@arvijeffery6859]

Great job guys! Keep up the great work!!

[@TheSteadyGrounds]

Thank God I ran into your channel. Respect from Bahrain and I want to visit East African non Arabic speaking countries were most the people look like me.

[@priscawaddimba4191]

In Zambia you are taught from the young age and preparation starts from the time you reach menarche how to be a woman, home management. You go through the initiation ceremonies ukuchindila from the Bemba where the alangizi or bana chimbusa teachers you how keep/ maintain relationship.

[@egidiar.4313]

That's beautiful.

[@xAckarax]

you won me over with the less violent part. I am tired of these 5-ft broad casually threatening me.

[@kersisenegal8659]

Funny

[@peterparker8454]

LMAO but as an African the idea of hitting my significant other is foreign and weird

[@veronicperemore688]

😂😂😂

[@wasupman777]

Salute you Two Brothers! respect !!

[@greygirl2608]

Facts. Your fiancé révérence you as her Lord. She is proud & respects your manhood totally. Congrats to you both Obutunda!!

[@reinsonkibisu2056]

African women they like to experience people who are different from people in the comfort zone, they are curious.

[@jchelledafab4164]

We all can agree ....we " African American" who date Africans..love the fact that it's something new and different. The right one will change your life😍. However not all African American are the same .like you said...it's all about your upbringing 😉

[@coolsheatingacservices7375]

Great answer . When you said you can only speak from your wife. Great answer Grown Man !!!!!!

[@hammanbanjiram1611]

I love this; thanks for the video.

[@shayscott7498]

I was in Tanzania and Ethiopia a year ago and observed the women kneel when serving food to the men. I didn't see it as a sign of disrespect. On the contrary, it was a mutual respect of each other --an appreciation of each other's role. As some other people commented, you relish the feminine -- something that can easily be forgotten stateside when so much is expected from us because and we cant have it all. I cant wait to get back to Africa; I came back a changed person with a strategic plan on getting out of this rat race. Money isn't the holy grail; we have to stop trading our happiness for money and learn to live on less.

[@Fifth3rd]

What’s the best way to get prices for a flight to Uganda

[@KingofgraceSARA]

Many airlines have a way for you to track flights when their prices drop. Also, try to book well in advance.

[@MaggieVlogs5050]

KLM flights are the best 👍

[@millymaj762]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@rusingatv1]

Cheaptickets.com & cheapoair.com are some of the websites for buying airline tickets.

[@1NavyLT]

I love that Kenganda music, fam!

[@mirkhwand]

Very nice video. I would definitely like to request that a Part Two to this conversation be done, because there were some points that were brought up that we have seen people have to deal with - in the case of a family member of mine, the deception for the sake of getting a US passport or citizenship.

[@cococaba2007]

The name of this should be called “Why THEY believe African women are better than African-American women”. 🙄 Please ladies, African American ladies, many people and shamefully many African American men, like to tell why they can’t be with us by to grouping us as having ‘trauma’ ‘history to survive’ ‘combative’ and ‘not being raised as wives’ ::blah blah blah:: (they love to keep the negative stereotypes flourishing) but trust, our culture, yes our African-American culture, makes us immensely strong because we do come from survivors and only weak people will see that as negative. BTW, everything they described is the exact OPPOSITE of me and pretty much all African American women I know, we have the highest education levels, know how to conduct ourselves at all times, multiple thriving businesses, well traveled and still like the queens we are, know how to treat a king worthy of our adoration. 💅🏾Nonetheless, glad you all found what you were looking for...Bless.

[@PlannedObsolescence]

I'm not black, but in my experience of 39 years on this planet, "the highest education levels" =/= fuckable.

[@danadane561]

@@PlannedObsolescence Tell that to my husband who chased me for the longest.

[@NatalieBrownMusic]

💯

[@NatalieBrownMusic]

@Dubious57 I am human so are you. We belong wherever we want to be. Take the haterade elsewhere.

[@Soluchi-InfiniteCoCreatorGod]

❤️

[@lotusrose999]

Anyone watching this video AFTER Obutunda’s “wife” knocked his tooth out? 😂 I hope he learned a valuable lesson.

[@jaesviews]

😅🤦🏾‍♀️

[@bashirmuhammad8181]

I've just arrived in your channel. Interesting. Y'all are welcome home.

[@faheemfaquir1024]

You asked good questions. Thanks for uploading this! You didn't let him expound on the African woman having more family values. Also allow him to answer without interruption saving your question as a follow-up. Again this is great content!!!

[@peggystoutemorin4529]

I think his wife is a lovely young lady.

[@monzoue5393]

Who like me is waiting for her husband?🙈🙊🙊

[@Kenganda]

Lmao omg

[@6394867]

Hi beautiful. Email me your contact will love to get to know you. I'm from Liberia, West Africa.

[@6394867]

This is my email address [e-mail]

[@omuloamoke1957]

Hey brother, you are somebody. It is just the culture...we don’t look down at our women. Everyone just understands their roll.

[@kbd261]

Damn OK Oshay Duke Jackson I was not expecting to see you, you'vebeenaround! ....👍🏾

[@yolandaliggins9000]

GM great topic!! But please be honest in the " Motherland". The average black man in America deserts his responsibilities! That's why we glad to be able to have a choice of dating a " Black" man, who chooses to be a man. We could be " Subservient" if we wasn't trying to carry the entire load on our shoulders!

[@kasiryefaighton8884]

When he said she kneels, i was like my Brother ain't gonna date American women again. Thats how Ugandan women rock their men. Its a charm. I also heard that Kenyan men also come to find Ugandan women to marry. They say best wives come from Uganda

[@devinesabista7461]

Since its taught from childhood and for sure its one of the immediate sign of respect.

[@KarbonStar]

Having just found King's channel and caught up on some of the videos...I wonder if he has a different perspective now given how his wife treated him 🤔 Curious... Overall great video!

[@echelleemmanuel6147]

king obutunda is true on that kneeling part. he has blended in...he knows the culture....

[@ishma2100]

I have 3 friends. One is Haitian, the second is Ghanaian American. The other is African American. All of them have long distance relationships with African native women.

[@jaypaladin-havesmartswilll5508]

I believe in the brother and listened to him carefully, he is in Africa to embrace the culture and is giving it a full faith acceptance. ADOS brothers should not go to Africa and act out all of their trauma and behave as if they are in the US. But you should always keep your street smarts, because you will need it.

[@RachaelNalumu]

I dunno how I’m just seeing this now but I’m laughing so hard. So many facts 😂😂😂

[@waynebanks5325]

That was a very well 😊 done interview 👍

[@KingofgraceSARA]

African diaspora stand up!

[@LG-universe]

Ok Oshay, let's compare you to African men.

[@LG-universe]

Comparing black women is negative and not productive Oshay. Instead why not compliment both sides? We are all that. The list would be endless.

[@princegcash2915]

Interesting, these two African-American brothers are of two different tribal background. By their phenotype, the interviewer looks like he is from the Congo and the other brother is definitely of Igbo ancestry.

[@kariluckis8030]

🤣🤣🤣Both could be from Congo or from Nigeria. Any part of west or central Africa.

[@natgirrl672]

I am a typical Black American. I have dna from 8 African countries up and down the coast of West Africa , as well ad dna from 6 european countries.

[@DONNYPESO]

Lol that was funny

[@bantuqueen1406]

Great conversation brothers!

[@AfroMillennialMomma]

Hurt people hurt people...trauma is real. My husband is from Senegal and i didn't realize how much PTSD I had until I saw he didn't have any

[@abdoulkamara4683]

i love all black women

[@deloreswallace9063]

Black women's we have no other choice but to be strong at all times. For those two gentleman, I pray they didn't leave a strong woman behind to defend for herself and a child because of this what Africa American mens do to African Americans women's Leave. We have a love for our black brothers but they keep her standing alone, so she has no other choice but to be fearless to stand strong to survive as a warrior woman with those hands. Her gift from the Highest Power has faded away from her sight so she still stands.

[@Kenganda]

Please knock if off with this bullshit. You came here to hate on a black man with an African woman who had no children in the states. People like your ass will be banned with the bullshit. Take it someplace else

[@corywilliams9007]

FOH

[@jodygreen1518]

I can appreciate what you are talking about what I want to know are liberian women a good choice to date?

[@lutaloenock7249]

I enjoy all yo videos Kenganda, I don't know if u hav one like this interviewing AA woman who visited Africa about their experiences btn AA & continental men. If none, would be good to have one tan AA men speaking for AA women