Discover Your Hidden Love Blocks | Relationship Advice for Women by Mat Boggs

[@demetrablakely2783]

This is me 100%. I'm trying to move on with my love life from someone who wasn't ready. Slow work but I'm doing it. Love your channel😄

[@lashawnharrison]

"Now, I see", says the blind lady. This was great! All of your videos have been amazingly eye opening. Thank you!!!

[@4evercath]

Such a lovely moment when the yellow one jumped onto the blue one! Such a lovely and romantic demonstration. Thank you Mathew! :)

[@JupiMeow]

Great video, Matt! I'm glad you are open to spirituality! This describes me perfectly -- it's been a year since we split and I still sobbed at this. The truth is that I already went through the pain of letting go of him and I find it unbearable to let go of him completely. He's exactly like the yellow magnet you described -- there in the background for years, sharing the same friends long before I fell in love with him. I don't know how to let go yet, short of moving to another city. Something tells me my red magnet isn't going away anytime soon. But seeing you describe it so simply, and saying that it can be done, gives me hope.

[@Orangecandico9840]

Omg, you have set me free today. for so many years i couldn't figure it out. you just confirmed it. thank you

[@mssummerrose1]

excellent... especially the explanation and visualization regarding our electromagnetic properties

[@MatthewCoast]

Thank you for making this video! I appreciate all of the advice. Keep up the good work!

[@3x02mb]

The magnet demonstration was enlightening! Thank you.

[@falconslmn]

Very helpful. that magnets too! mind blower.

[@lamaelcharif1523]

This is the best demonstration for energy, I've seen. This video is so full of hope. Thank you very much!

[@dannyellefinch4450]

I JUST did this with my baby daddy yesterday 5/6/19. I've been getting to know a new man since October...The energy i had brought the text messages from him. WOW...my thoughts are more powerful than I thought (pun intended lol)

[@sheesheefinancialiqinfinit1549]

Great visual. Old ties are holding me back. Thank you 💕

[@naturewalkswithbarb3754]

All I can say Matt is Thank you! ... Thank you! this one was exactly what I needed to hear. As always your posts are super! Keep up the great work...and thank you for sharing your insight and wisdom.

[@camuyana]

I have forgiven and now I'm ready to move forward with a new life and a new love. I have been preparing myself with all these self-improvement videos and reading. Hopefully, I am better equipped to recognize and face the man of my dreams who has the qualities necessary for a long-standing relationship and marriage.

[@riannonsonsa6395]

Your videos helped me a lot to see, that I do some things wrong in my love life. So thank you for giving so much thought into the topic about relationships and posting your videos.

[@christinaschulz131]

AMAAAAZING video!! That was really an eye-opener to me. Thank you so much!!

[@allisononyoutube5794]

Matt you are absolutely correct. Thank you for bringing this to my attention. You are so right. I'm going to try to put aside my resentment and the contact with his children. We broke up but his 8 year old son has a problem with letting me go. He wants me to be his step mom but daddy has a new girlfriend. It's hard to reject the child. I don't know what to do in this situation. My rebound guy said that I should not deal with the kid and break all ties. What do you think Matt?

[@silvief1]

Thanks! Nice one with the magnets. :-)

[@naturewalkswithbarb3754]

YES! thank you Matt!! ...been on this exact journey for years!...releasing things holding me back...but not knowing what they are. you are awesome...love your videos thank you 😊👍

[@Autumn_jordan]

He died. My late husband, the father of our children, died 5+ years ago. We had a great marriage. I've spent the last two days watching your videos and discovered that we were already doing so many of the hints/tips you recommend. I'm learning how to make my next relationship wonderfully fulfilling and full of sizzle. And, I'm developing the confidence to recognize the difference between a Winner and a Wiener. But- HOW do I "release" that past relationship yet honor all that he was/is? You don't just "let go"... What am I missing? Thanks Mat!

[@zarinameykhori9773]

Wow! It helped a lot! I got so many insights! Thank you!!

[@simplysensibelle]

I love the way You explain life. Really good advices. Big thanks to find time to be here too.

[@violet1987629]

Thank You Matt! God Bless your kind & wisdom filled understanding on relationships.

[@holly9zz]

All I can say is wow! Thank you for the great words.☺️

[@eleanoreunicetubat5414]

This is so true. This is exactly what happened to me. 😊 thank u for the video.

[@bonnieboom2262]

amazing analogy! thank you!

[@YouMakeMeBean01]

Great video! Job totally well done! You wil be helping A LOT of ppl with this one! WOOP!

[@sperantaparaeac2221]

optimum rappresentation! congratulations for sharing with us!

[@zulayt5952]

Thank you Matt for such great advice!!

[@amymera9235]

Wow! A revelation for me. THANKS MATHEW!!

[@hellenrimoy3326]

You're amazing... thank you Mathew, be blessed 😊

[@aurallynsmith6027]

Mr.right is on the right! That is awesome!

[@jenniferjohnson9419]

Matt Boggs! Your teaching is so awesome thank you. I wanted to mention your videos kept coming on my feed I was thinking I was already subscribe because I had seen so many of your videos. ..till I realize I wasnt. My apologiesSubcribed!😍

[@persidasiqeca1686]

love the videos and your sense of humor

[@monicalundrigan7502]

I'm curious. Are you of the opinion that ex's can not be friends ever? Even when there aren't emotional ties or a negative emotional charge? I'm concerned that I'm blocking the man of my dreams because I'm friends, just friends, with an ex I dated for 10 yrs...however we were young from age 16 to 26. Side note: I am so grateful for your KZbin channel. Thank you so much for sharing all of your learnings with the world! Thanks! Monica

[@TheDbaby86]

Very insightful. Thanks for sharing!

[@I_AM_SAMIKA]

This make so much sense!!! Thanks!

[@DeeDee-de5wc]

Matt, I do have a past relationship that really tore me down & brought me to my darkest hours, but have since moved past it and over him! I feel that I may be hanging onto resentment toward myself for not listening or paying attention to my intuition in the first place! So, my question is how do I forgive myself for my naïveté?

[@deemorgan4479]

THIS WAS SO POWERFUL

[@FamilyLoveRelationship]

This is such a great example!awesome!

[@lesley7x]

do you have any tips or videos for people who have been in a relationship for a long time? I feel like most of them are for those are just getting to know the other person. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 7 years. It would be nice to see videos for making the relationship exciting or how to get my man to want to try. I feel like its always just me who always cares about these things but not him.

[@tomidominguez295]

Hi Matt I enjoy your humor as much as your dating tips. But being so young, does your advice transfer over to us baby boomers who are back in the dating world for the second time (and 25 yrs after our first run) We need advice for us oldies but goodies

[@sillybeeful]

Me too

[@marjanend]

Wow Mat, what a great clip. Thank you

[@ashbrown2000]

Great explanation! A definite eye-opener.

[@nanomarygio85]

hey mat you are great! I feel ready and I haven't got anyone that I'm attached to from my past and I do believe in love and someone is out there for me but still it seems to take long to find someone guys that I meet they never looking for a relationship at the moment!

[@sillybeeful]

Like the visual aids...bravo

[@gracesays444]

wow!!! just had a ah ha moment! thank you!

[@c.w.5688]

I think I have another kind of block... I've only had one relationship so far and it was a terrible experience. It wasn't that the guy was hurting me or anything but we just did not match and I still tried to keep the relationship going (3 years in total). I was miserable, I felt caged, I felt like I couldn't breathe because I let this guy take over my life. I really didn't recognise myself at times. I never let anyone else get close to me again - out of fear of losing myself again, of being trapped or missing out on life. Really, I am terribly embarrassed about that relationship and I would love to erase those years. However, for some time now I have been dating this amazing man and I feel like we could be great together but I often get (quite literally) some kind of panic atttacks and I just want to run away as quickly as possible. Do you have any thoughts on how to get over this fear of commitment?

[@jasminetu9026]

Thank you. I appreciate this!

[@Gmailcom-nh1rj]

I like the demonstration ...

[@ExtraordinaryLiving]

Cute visuals with the magnets, ha!

[@crystalspence612]

This is such a great video!!!

[@vastivanniekerk9361]

Hi Mat, my dad died about 4 years ago, and I realize that is my block. We were extremely close and when he died I shut myself off from both men and women. Built a caccoon around me to keep everyone except my mom and brother out. How do I break through that caccoon to let a man into my life? Women are easier, and I have female friends again.

[@rosmarymartinezrueda7396]

Thank youuuuuu. I ve released, and all you say but today I realise that may be I forgot to.left go fear . Thankssaaa

[@corabird2697]

Amazing visual.

[@nofybn7794]

I know what they are, I just need help in getting over my nerves around a guy, being afraid. Yes, I know I saw the video there are risks. Well I'm not really a risk taker. Most of the time, I am comfort, routine but very rarely eventually after years I will change something. It just takes more time for me then most people. I don't get bored with things like most people, even when I do get a little bored I stick with it for a bit longer. There was a new possibility but same old pattern, same kind of feelings and out of the blue and I ran away once it seemed like he liked me. He is different, different hair color and different but same old pattern of feelings and how I noticed him and running away.

[@luulips]

I have an old hang up. And a couple old friends I talk to but don't want them. Trying to figure out how to untie the old ties.

[@charleenhopkins3590]

yea i have been thinking some thoughts , but i dont want any of them back , ahhhh aruhggg.

[@amrutha1029]

Magnet example 👌

[@sylviarogers8473]

Oh you forgot to mention if either person has attachments with others it doesnt work. Its like doing a three legged race with three or four or however many there are in both of their circles. This is the first question we shold be asking. Ps an attachment could be past or present.

[@kellytelford5039]

I have a challenge for you Matt, could you please offer any advice on 3 partner relationships. Besides, just avoid them. lol

[@rezotydnic]

Things holding you back. 1. Old relationships. Are you still hung up on it? 2. Resentment. Have you been burned? Forgive and move on

[@sylviametos3731]

You are brilliant!

[@jessicaraymond212]

Matt, I agree with this. But please tell me, how do you release them when they have become one of your best friends? I have 2 past relationships that I need to release. They both have girlfriends and they both love me....not romantically, but they do love me and care about me. How can I release them without losing 2 of my best friends?

[@LindaKrpec]

This is awesome!

[@suewannaspeckhardt9206]

My husband and I are separated. He wants a divorce, I don't. I feel that I am still in love with my husband. He has stated that he isn't in love with me anymore. We will be married for 20 years this September. My questions are: How do I know or tell if I'm still in Love with him? Or is it just me being afraid of being alone? If I am still in love with him, how do I rekindle our marriage, his LOVE for me? How do I get him to fall in love with me again?? If that is possible. I want to know if I'm wasting my time and if so how do I move on? It's VERY VERY hard to just stop loving someone when you have been with them for so long and have truly loved that person. I've been there through thick and thin.. EVERYTHING..hard times and great ones and I have always been there for him. I am a very impatient person for one and I am also bipolar, I over over analyze, OCD, schizophrenia, insecure about myself. I'm telling you this because I have drove him away with all of my questions and accusing and not giving him a break. I also thought/believe that you are supposed to stick together no matter what, through ALL of the hardest times, good times.. unconditionally...when you LOVE that person. I feel that he has just gave up on me because he doesn't want to deal with me and my problems/issues that I have. I really do like your videos. Thank you for the insight that I have learned so far. Suewanna [e-mail]

[@kaneshirogirl]

Ah-maaaziiing! Thank you Matt :)

[@gloria6396]

SUPER IMPORTANT THANK U

[@charleenhopkins3590]

yea working on that thank you

[@J.Clig10]

I really love this vid!

[@lianawerner-gray1694]

Mathew Boggs you are amazing !!!!!!!!!!! 💕🎉❤️🔥 thank you for your work and teachings !!!!! Lol !!!!!! 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻😅😀😀😀😀😍😍😍🌕🌕🌕🌕🌕

[@MsMelissaP607]

Great advice

[@bplbpl2024]

Thanks matt..

[@asenethcasanova]

powerful!

[@tehilovely]

Love it 💜

[@madforsweet]

Oh thats why

[@silvijohnson5069]

Nope, my block is myself - no matter how hard I try, I end up acting like I hate the man I want. So of course he dislikes me then :( Xx

[@mariebeatty2717]

So True....

[@iceman3962]

thank you this is great but for me I find that I am not able to express my self sexually to the fullest I see it in my head I practice it alone then I freeze up when it is time can you do a video on it or do I need therapy

[@Inkdraft]

Your talking about soul ties. That's why the Bible speaks about ''the two shall become one.'' It's a spiritual fact. If you sleep with someone you create soul tie with them. Then each time you break up you leave a little piece of yourself with them. Doing that creates a strong spiritual bond which is designed to be a single bond between one man and one woman for life Not a shredded, multi-stranded web connected to multiple people. That's exactly what tears people up inside. Understanding what has happened to you, expressing remorse, and asking God to break those bonds will set you free. But not if you are going to repeat the same mistakes.

[@sylviarogers8473]

You forgot to mention that you can be without encumberance n open n available n clean heart like you said but the guy of you dreams might not have made peace with his past n hes dragging his past all around with him making it difficult to connect with you or with anyone else.

[@neoone9820]

Your target audience may be women but helpful for men too. Thanks

[@enoirbri]

What if the person you want IS your ex?

[@carline1489]

No emotional ties with the past, everything is clear now but always the same fear .. maybe I dream too much and life is better in our dreams right, anyway i m waiting for the guy take action because i m the girl, i can not pursue a man right ?

[@charleenhopkins5206]

no because i dont give much thought , i mean its been more than a year

[@najatrealty3841]

Brilliant ;-)

[@rawdria]

What if I need to forgive myself? I mean what if I need to hurt my (otherwise great in every sense) partner (by leaving him) to pursue a mutual and instant infatuation with somebody else?

[@asiangirlmob]

They are called soul ties

[@tablettablet263]

No. Maybe in the past yes, but no, not recently.

[@Halalaumai]

Lovely

[@matboggs]

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[@marleneh.7318]

I don't believe the magnet idea. I think you can stay friends with healthy former partners.

[@nataliagomez4825]

Wooooow

[@filizozen5736]

Tragicomical :)))

[@KMR1776]

Wow. I don't agree at all. Whoever is part of my life should respect that there are people that I will always care about and will have their back. Love is not about possessing another.

[@manasijoshi4423]

❤😘👏👏👏👏