The 2 WORST HABITS That Sabotage Relationships | Relationship Advice for Women by Mat Boggs

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@matboggs Ай бұрын

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@SharonPierce-vm2il Ай бұрын

Yes I gave up things that are importance to me on every relationship and realize this is a problem I have and I’m the only one that I can change this. So I’ve decided not to date for awhile to find what’s important to me.

@FaithfulHeartProductions Ай бұрын

Loved, and definitely relate to Matt’s needs: 1) Spending time connecting with God, 2) Getting some kind of exercise in 3) Being productive in my creative pursuits… & If I was living with somebody … The fourth would definitely be having really present, connected, intimate cuddly time with them …. That would make a full day for sure 🥰

@rezotydnic Ай бұрын

2 worst habits that sabotage relationships. 1. Neglecting our own needs. Not someone else's job to fill you up. Can't pour from an empty cup. 2. Criticize. Ask for needs to be met without criticism. Make requests. 3 best practices to override getting needs met and criticism. 1. Know your needs. Eg. -Connect with higher power. -Exercise. -do something creative -Family time. 2. Communicate it early. 3. Adjust as needed. My most important need for me, most of the time, is feeling like I make a difference. I'm a semi retired nurse so it definitely stems from years of being a patient advocate. It also is why I always was putting my needs on the back burner. Had to learn how to ask for what I wanted and needed. But when I feel I make a difference it makes me feel like I matter and that I have a purpose. I'm a cancer so when I love, I love hard. And I want to be loved hard back. That's a tough one I'm finding for men out.

@mariannecote Ай бұрын

Thank you very much for your advises! That's so helpful!

@TheSunshinefee 29 күн бұрын

such an important video. thank you

@DarlitaStephens 24 күн бұрын

As far as #1 goes, neglecting my needs...meaning constantly giving, giving, and giving but none of my emotional needs are being met needs breeds resentment. I've been there so I know.

@kristinleigh2274 Ай бұрын

wonderful! thank you

@pamelaharrell6361 Ай бұрын

Thank you

@euphory Ай бұрын

Wonderful content and delivery. Thank you!

@startyourlifetoday6172 Ай бұрын

I need a partner who shares my vision and wants to connect fully with me.

@jackdeniston6150 Ай бұрын

Do you understand anything about men?

@startyourlifetoday6172 Ай бұрын

@@jackdeniston6150 yes I do. Men have different needs than women. What is your experience with middle aged women?

@SaveTheMessenger 23 күн бұрын

Absolutely, having someone who aligns with your vision makes all the difference.

@lesliesnowdon1360 Ай бұрын

Loved this! But what if you express your needs and your partner says he will work with you, but doesn’t? Or worse, if you don’t know what would fulfill you?

@startyourlifetoday6172 Ай бұрын

@@lesliesnowdon1360 in the beginning it can be a challenge when you don’t know what you need. Take some time to ask yourself what you need. What you would love more of.. and Lean in to that.

@lesliesnowdon1360 Ай бұрын

@ thank you, I guess I have to think about that.

@binkybruce Ай бұрын

Oh yes, I do know what you mean. I am going to buy the Grok and see if that helps me.

@kadijatukoroma127 27 күн бұрын

Great one

@annaj.b7689 Ай бұрын

Good video. Will try this at work too. ❤🎉

@andreaedmond1043 Ай бұрын

So good.

@deviscott2879 Ай бұрын

Very true ❤

@audra1976oliver Ай бұрын

Great video!

@KatelynCloud-u4w Ай бұрын

I have four main needs at the end of the day. One is talking to God too is taking care of myself. Three is making sure that I’m healthy and happy for is learning about relationships.