Discovered My Husband Was Sleeping With Our Son's 18 year old Girlfriend. I Kicked Him Out, Filed...

Discovered My Husband Was Sleeping With Our Son's 18 year old Girlfriend. I Kicked Him Out, Filed for Divorce, & Am Fighting to Prove He Gr**med Her and Put Him on the S*x Offender Registry.
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[@Kwevin6659]

"Amy goes to an all girls catholic high-school" and that explains the outfit he has.

[@Justahumannn204]

[@Myathaarth]

@@Justahumannn204 wtf

[@Roronoa1213]

Real. It’s honestly scary

[@gotenblack2542]

i fell bad for eric not only did his gf cheat not only the fact she cheated with an older man she cheated on him with his own father

[@artemislove2941]

she was groomed. but yeah. keep blaming the child instead of the adult.

[@aegontargeryan1499]

​@@artemislove2941 even when I was 16 , I wasn't that dumb.

[@artemislove2941]

@@aegontargeryan1499 keep victim blaming the girl who was groomed. google is free

[@iristhorne-bj3lo]

They didn't even point blame they just stated facts 🫢

[@artemislove2941]

@@iristhorne-bj3lo facts that she was groomed?

[@RavenDarkHeart1]

Op's husband is absolutely disgusting he betrayed his wife but not only that but his son as well. Wow someone who's 30 years younger than him

[@smilygriffin1144]

Even regardless of Amy's age, *15 year old Mary's friends* were feeling creeped on, and that's enough to report him, so it's at the very least documented in case more comes out later!!!

[@rebeccaconlon9743]

Amy will likely be ditched by him when he's done too... its sickening

[@alexiscobian9146]

No I doubt it. Men only leave women like 20% of the time. And considering he was married or together with poster for some 20 years (and didn’t even like her apparently). It’s more likely that she will find lust, then love for someone else and leave him when the age difference starts getting to her. Probably after they live together

[@shortspecimen]

Everyone except the dad is a victim

[@tanyaneitzert4367]

amy is also not a victim

[@Blindkoreisheree]

​@@tanyaneitzert4367 amy is a victim? She was definitely groomed by a man that was THRICE her age while she was just new adult? Did you not listen or read the story?

[@lobsterlunchbox7581]

@@tanyaneitzert4367 she was groomed are you stupid?

[@derpaderpy4931]

​​@@tanyaneitzert4367 She's definitely at fault for cheating, though she's still a victim of grooming, regardless of how shitty she is. Still doesn't excuse her cheating. She deserves repercussions.

[@CherryGryffon]

@@tanyaneitzert4367 She was literally a child being groomed by a predator. That is the DEFINITION of a victim.

[@taylordaenzer4852]

This is not your fault it's your husband's fault because your husband was freaking lying to you and cheated on you with your brother's girlfriend behind your back and he should go to jail and rot in hell for it.

[@goku89890]

Not brother it's son

[@itzurswar]

U did not provide for ur husband so he wanted Amy. Poor handworking husband😢

[@AarushK007]

@@itzurswar i really hope you're trolling

[@PacanatorTheFirst]

@@AarushK007he is and you fell for it by responding.

[@f687sNFM]

feel bad for the son, his ex gf willingly cheated on him with his own dad, and shes not a victim, she clearly knew what she was doing. could he have preyed on her yes, but even then the choice to go through with it as an adult is hers

[@gotenblack2542]

ya idk why people are defending the gf here

[@rebeccaconlon9743]

You don't magically change mentally from child to adult at 18... you get groomed before 18 and then boom you're 18 and then it goes further, but you've been groomed for a while to think it's OK and conditioned to think so

[@Steve60638]

I mean, brain fully developed at the age of 25. Literally i feel like i’m an adult when i turn 26. 18 years old are still teenagers

[@crowfather0249]

​​@@Steve60638 You don't need to be an adult to know that sleeping with your bf/gf's parents is fked up. The husband is definitely the scumbag here, but whether she was groomed or not, she's still in the wrong.

[@Steve60638]

@@crowfather0249 yes, i did not say she’s not wrong

[@Rinefi]

I really don't like the form of defense, or compassion for gf cheater, it's not that she didn't know what she was doing, she cheated on her son out of pure intention, and trying to make her a victim is like trying to justify the betrayal.

[@gotenblack2542]

ya the girl wont change seeing as she is still with Paul on this Amy is a lost cause

[@thewheelofafox]

True

[@itsonlyafleshwound9024]

I dont think you quite understand what grooming means.

[@Afrogirrl]

It isn’t justifying anything. Teenagers are way more easier to manipulate. The way the gf speaks with rose tinted glasses, even when proof is provided she just cannot accept it. And the messages OP said of the husband love bombing her.

[@itsonlyafleshwound9024]

I dont think you quite understand what grooming means...

[@Heiura]

No matter the age ... You should know that lay with another man MOREOVER THE FATHER OF YOUR BF IS A BIG NO NO ... So the gf isn't that much of a victim here.

[@gotenblack2542]

true

[@cremepies]

LEAVE THE CHILD ALONE ‼️‼️

[@f687sNFM]

no x6

[@daisyperez3387]

@@f687sNFMno x10

[@GenGamesUniverse]

She's as much as in the wrong as the OPs ex husband is. In America (and a few other places), you are not allowed to drink, smoke or gamble until you are of legal age and that is twenty one years years old. The OP's jackass of an ex-husband could indeed be put on the s3x register (I did that due to youtube policies!) as even IF they were both consenting to sexual intercourse; it's still illegal AS Amy is underage.

[@ChillCifer]

No

[@krazykrazy8513]

No it’s her fault she’s 18

[@rawsanrahman7235]

His son got cheated on by his girlfriend,back stabed by dad and depretion

[@idoonotkno894]

this story is the mona lisa of clusterfuck

[@mechtim]

well listening to this I just started randomly singing stacy's mom I don't know why?

[@Justahumannn204]

lol

[@CBNM1]

If i was Amy's mom i would kick her out. She knew what she was doing when she was cheating.

[@Maria-wi1pj]

She was clearly groomed. If she knew what she was doing, she would've dumped all the blame on him to save face. But she seems morbidly attached to him. A sign of grooming

[@ariellund442]

if you listened to the whole story the song has been dating her since FRESHMAN year. He’s most likely been grooming her the whole time. It’s clear she’s still a child and needs mental help.

[@Blindkoreisheree]

Yes I fully agreed that she knows she was cheating BUT even if she's an adult now. SHE IS BARELY ONE. Her mind hasn't developed fully yet, she was probably groomed by a man who she could have considered family or atleast a mentor when she was still a child

[@lobsterlunchbox7581]

​ @gotenblack2542 grooming is a thing it is what happens when someone generally with a sense of authority uses that to change and manipulate someone generally younger and/or someone they can control due to a sense of authority

[@cocogoat2131]

The mom fears that if she kicks her out, she will just be handing her over to an abuser, who will take advantage of her, and then ditch her.

[@rinaofdoom1955]

Geez, Amy wanted to upgrade from Eric's boyfriend to his stepmom. Gross. Just so so very gross.

[@gabriellaverdeja]

What the sons ex gf did is messed up and cheated on him with his dad is disgusting. The dad was with his sons ex gf which is wrong. They both knew what their doing and didn’t care for the consequences.

[@gotenblack2542]

yup

[@mValerianW]

My mans playing Minecraft on 300 ping smh

[@randomusername3873]

The number of people acting like the woman that cheated on her boyfriend with his father is some sort of victim is incredibly disturbing

[@gotenblack2542]

i know i dont know why people are still on the gfs is a victim if it was the bf no one would say anything and say he wanted it or something

[@DipreG]

He groomed her. She is a victim.

[@bryn1063]

The amount of people including you ignoring the fact that she was groomed and not having most of the blame on the literal predator in the story is concerning. Did she do a bad thing? Obviously but you can acknowledge that and still say she was groomed. He knew her from a young age. Was a "mentor" to her aka made her feel safe when she was vulnerable and fatherless and manipulated her for years.. and now that shes 18 was being sexual with her. Look up the definition of grooming and try to lie and say that didnt happen. Grooming has no conditions like that.

[@gotenblack2542]

people still siding with the gf crazy

[@bryn1063]

@@gotenblack2542 Actually read why they're siding with her instead of thinking they're justifying cheating.

[@swatithapa5280]

Eagerly waiting for an update .

[@karenmariewalker143]

The people leaving negative comments are probably doing the exact same thing!😡

[@onlittlecatfeet]

I heard this before on ther channel, and it not resolved yet, it's so frustrating

[@manya6524]

Bro a 18 year is not a toddler I myself is 16 year old I know what is wrong and right

[@ariellund442]

Yes but if you listened to the whole story the son has been dating her since FRESHMAN year. He’s most likely been grooming her the whole time. The fact that she says their in love say a lot about her lack of maturity

[@RandomGuy-qr5jw]

​@@ariellund442 unfortunately "most likely" is worth nothing infront of a judge. Dont get me wrong, I am not defending anyone here (no, just no), but consenting adults are consenting adults, and that is all that we or the stories OP knows. Everything else ranges somewhere between brainfart and educated guess

[@ariellund442]

@@RandomGuy-qr5jw she’s not a consenting adult. She can’t vote or even drink alcohol. She is a child and any actual adult knows this. That’s why it’s not common for 40 year olds to date 18 year olds because they’re still immature asf

[@ariellund442]

@@RandomGuy-qr5jw and never once did I say anything about a damn judge, all I said was just because she’s 18 doesn’t mean that she is all there mentally or even mature whatsoever. OP already stated she had a very hard home life which largely affected her.

[@RandomGuy-qr5jw]

@@ariellund442 No reason to get riled up, mam. And just to quote you: "He's mostlike been grooming her the whole time". Plus the age of consent in the US ranges from 16 to 18. Again, I am talking legally, not morally.

[@rukiakuchiki6187]

I remember this one

[@user-ij2eu5kw3g]

My reaction after reading the tittle:👁👄👁

[@SwizieEatsBread]

under 30 min gang 👇

[@The-enderportal]

here

[@goku89890]

Here

[@Takuradiorr]

me

[@hungnguyen8100]

29min :D

[@tanyaneitzert4367]

less than 30 min walk

[@MrArielK]

Lol, AÍ didn’t even try with this one

[@MothtailWCUEYT]

FIRST UPDATE WAS ON MY BORTHSAY

[@chanayplease]

Damn, I knew this was a reupload but I was hoping there’d be an update 😔

[@lizxu322]

Imagine being Eskimo brothers with your dad ☠️

[@13din]

Amy will be dumped by Paul once she’s too old. Op and wife also has a small age gap, so he was probably predatory from the start.

[@Yamyatos]

I mean. There is no denying the husband is the bad guy here. He cheated on his wife. And, as weird as it sounds, even his son. And, sure he seems like a total predator. However, i also feel like the mom is overexaggerating parts of his behavior. The way she talks about him having a couple porn videos on his PCs like it makes him mentally sick, or how disgusted she seemed at the sight of blindfolds and handcuffs. These are all perfectly normal things. And this also includes liking younger people, as long as he didnt act on it while she was underage. And it is also normal for women to like older men, and yes this does include age gaps such as this. Yet she acts like the girl belongs in therapy. Tho in this case the girl actually seems blind to the husband not seeing her as an equal romantic interrest but instead just something to play with.

[@vicvanse4006]

wtf this is so wild

[@GreyLeo]

Guys the girl is 18 if it was guy you all wouldn't call him a victim. She is old enough to know what she was doing. She wasn't grapped she made a choice. Both her and the husband are scummy.

[@ariellund442]

Yes but if you listened to the whole story the son has been dating her since FRESHMAN year. He’s most likely been grooming her the whole time. The fact that she says their in love say a lot about her lack of maturity

[@GreyLeo]

​@@ariellund442 Once again that's no excuse you know right from wrong by the time you are 12. That's BS my friend.

[@lobsterlunchbox7581]

@@GreyLeo ​ @gotenblack2542 grooming is a thing it is what happens when someone generally with a sense of authority uses that to change and manipulate someone generally younger and/or someone they can control due to a sense of authority

[@amourine]

it’s almost as if you didn’t watch the video. The father knew the girl since she was 14/15 and most likely has been grooming her since then if it was a boy and that was happening with a grown ass woman, then yes everybody would call him victim because why are you as a grown ass woman, trying to get with a child so bad that you’re grooming them?

[@bryn1063]

No I would. Grooming has no gender. It'd still be wrong and that boy would still be a victim. Did he do something wrong? Yes cheating is wrong. But he was groomed. He should be acknowledged as a groomed victim when that's exactly what happened to him. You can condemn him for being a cheater but still say he's a victim of a predator who took advantage of him. Mostly blame the predator for manipulating a child and being disgusting.

[@user-ki3rz9zo6b]

FIRST VIEWER. IM A REALLY BIG FAN. I WATCH U EVERDAY! PLEASE MAKE ME TOP COMMENT

[@BenjaminBaxter-ww1qy]

The thong could not be amys and be marys friend as she said he would get close to them

[@kirstenchavez2211]

My sister also was sleeping with and getting money from her boyfriends dad before she was 18.

[@baboonman846]

Tbf thats way more on him than your sister. Takes an extra special PoS to prey on underage girls. Especially ones dating your own son

[@kidflaxh5130]

many the comments so many people being sad for the gf so many snowflakes here the girl is not a child 18 is almost an adult she should know better am with the people saying if this was a guy no one would fell bad for him

[@lobsterlunchbox7581]

​ @gotenblack2542 grooming is a thing it is what happens when someone generally with a sense of authority uses that to change and manipulate someone generally younger and/or someone they can control due to a sense of authority

[@GenGamesUniverse]

Amy is showing signs of narcissism 101. She believes conspiracy theories, she paints everyone to be the villain and her the victim whilst Erics father is the "knight in shining armor" that she's waiting for. I reckon she's done this before judging by the way the OP was talking about what she was saying.

[@lobsterlunchbox7581]

I don't disagree however another thing is that Eric's father had a almost pseudo sense of authority making it easier to manipulate and groom someone and judging by her behavior this clearly has been going on for longer than 5 months

[@amourine]

She’s not showing signs of narcissism. She’s showing signs of grooming and putting her abuser on a pedestal. That’s what they do. That’s what I did when I was groomed. Grooming literally affects everything about you. It affects your thought process your personality your emotions everything about you grooming is going to affect. I don’t know why everybody suddenly acting like she’s a manipulator because she got groomed. Eric she was 14/15 and most likely has been grooming her since then 3/4 years worth of grooming is a long time especially to affect someone that young. you don’t suddenly become conscious at 18 and know every single thing that you do when you turn 18. 18 is not that old 18 is still in high school. 18 is still a teenager. he was the adult and she was a child. He should know better. he shouldn’t have groomed her. He shouldn’t have coerced her.

[@cheyjelly]

do you know what grooming is dude

[@Olivia-yx9dh]

Stbex should reflect on if he would like his male friends/colleagues sleeping w his daughter.

[@Notkascher]

Father of the year

[@whittenevan]

Bro the comments in the vids are the worst please stop

[@gotenblack2542]

everyone defending the gf is crazy man

[@lobsterlunchbox7581]

@@gotenblack2542 ​ @gotenblack2542 grooming is a thing it is what happens when someone generally with a sense of authority uses that to change and manipulate someone generally younger and/or someone they can control due to a sense of authority

[@Blacklistwar]

✅️

[@artemislove2941]

the sheer number of victim blaming is ASTOUNDING. an eighteen year old does NOT have the same brain as a FIFTY YEAR OLD. who has known her since she was FOURTEEN. he groomed her. this is literally what grooming is. the whole "she's an adult she should've known" bullshit is another form of victim blaming. y'all need serious help.

[@Blindkoreisheree]

IS WHAT IM LITERALY SAYING?? DO THEY EXPECT A BARELY 18 YEAR OLD GIRL TO BE AS CONSCIOUS AS 30+ YEAR OLD?? IM FULLY AWARE SHE KNOWS SHES CHEATED BUT SHE CLEARLY DOESNT KNOW SHES BEEN GROOMED AND MANIPULATED THAT ISNT AN ADULT THATS A CHILD

[@randomusername3873]

Because you need maturity to know that cheating is bad It's not like it's basic human decency and morality Whoever cheats is an unredimable person and pure evil, grooming my ass What's next? "She was too immature to know stabbing a person is wrong"?

[@user-hb4gl8sg9m]

I don't want to be rude and I don't mean to be.But how the actual hell do you fall in love with your boyfriend's dand then look at the mother as the villain sweetheart you're a victim and a villain at the same time

[@mamabear204]

wahts grooning?

[@lobsterlunchbox7581]

​ @gotenblack2542 grooming is a thing it is what happens when someone generally with a sense of authority uses that to change and manipulate someone generally younger and/or someone they can control due to a sense of authority

[@mamabear204]

@@lobsterlunchbox7581 LOL nice name

[@sensoramp07]

First comment and crazy title

[@letsgo9602]

20 years he had no problem! But all of a sudden you got all this information! Old he really was a creep he would have been did it! Did he tell you how he was feeling! Or did you ignore him when he was telling you the thing he need from you! It seem like it’s all one sided!

[@ariellund442]

You sound delusional. You shouldn’t be allowed on social media.

[@wassimtartoussia3954]

Im not taking your husband's side and I'm not going to watch it. If she was under 18 then i would understand why his wife was doing this but they're both consenting adults to have sex. So, this pity revenge for herself and son is way too stupid, just divorce the husband and at least your son wasnt married to her or had kids. Its sad that the hubby had to go to his son's gf. I hope he wasnt having sex with her before she turned 18

[@Steve60638]

Nah man, you can be 18 and be manipulated. He’s fricking creepy

[@dragula131]

Agreed. I'm not condoning the father but if he did wait until she was 18 to fully pursue anything then this isn't a legal matter for police but just divorce lawyers. Otherwise yea he needs prison and on th registry

[@lobsterlunchbox7581]

@@dragula131 ​ @gotenblack2542 grooming is a thing it is what happens when someone generally with a sense of authority uses that to change and manipulate someone generally younger and/or someone they can control due to a sense of authority

[@lobsterlunchbox7581]

​ @gotenblack2542 grooming is a thing it is what happens when someone generally with a sense of authority uses that to change and manipulate someone generally younger and/or someone they can control due to a sense of authority

[@dragula131]

@@lobsterlunchbox7581 yes I'm aware of that, but without listening to the whole thing again I don't believe the story has concrete proof of grooming. Again like I said in my comment above yours, if physical contact was happening before she was 18 by all means lock him up and throw away the key.

[@ImNotaRussianBot]

0:33 "My marriage with my husband has grown somewhat stale over the years for a myriad of reasons such as his work schedule and how I've aged poorly since we first met." Lady, what does that mean? Sagging jowls? Middle aged, flat butt with a spare tire (inverted butt)? Turkey neck? Bags under the eye? Droopy eyelids? Elbow and knee wrinkles? Thigh and butt sags and bags? What I am saying is that all of this is fixable if you get cosmetic surgery. If those things bother you, finance it (bro is in finance, so his pay must be okay). Seriously, the only thing between looking and feeling good in the American healthcare system is money. I think I remember the quote, "You ain't ugly, you're just poor." If his comments bother you, get the surgery and go hardcore exercising. Be selfish, cause this man certainly is. What I am saying is that you shouldn't change appearances to placate this monster; I'm saying that you should use that divorce money to start over. ❤

[@firehot427]

Game is game?

[@AviaryAssassin]

Nah, big gawg, game is not game on this one

[@benhall2307]

She calls him Daddy now.

[@andrejmicic5192]

@@benhall2307ayo wtf is wrong with y’all these are some instagram reels ahh comments

[@rawsanrahman7235]

Pedo is pedo now????

[@user-ud1bs5fm6r]

..... its always a paul dont trust anyone named paul

[@cremepies]

LEAVE THE CHILD ALONE ‼️‼️

[@f687sNFM]

no x5

[@cremepies]

LEAVE THE CHILD ALONE ‼️‼️

[@f687sNFM]

no x4

[@cremepies]

LEAVE THE CHILD ALONE ‼️‼️

[@f687sNFM]

no x3

[@cremepies]

LEAVE THE CHILD ALONE ‼️‼️

[@kidflaxh5130]

Why are you spamming

[@darakhshanali3826]

Please spam moreeeeee

[@cremepies]

oh my god im so sorry my KZbin glitched

[@cremepies]

hopefully i got my point across ‼️

[@Takuradiorr]

​@@cremepiesstop it dude

[@cremepies]

LEAVE THE CHILD ALONE ‼️‼️

[@f687sNFM]

no x2

[@ariellund442]

@@f687sNFMno? So it’s okay for adults to groom children?? 🤔